A woman says women love men, but why are they so frustrating about it?
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ก.ค. 2024
- Why is it we never hear from them and when we do it's always negative?
-----Sources-----
www.louderwithcrowder.com/opi...
------To support my work -------
Paypal Donations - paypal.me/betterbachelor
Bitcoin Donations - 3DrBGxPH7Ho4dQqx8qxBhZXZwArPN82fTU
Locals - betterbachelor.locals.com
Locals Promo Code (JOKERSWILD) - Once Month Free!
betterbachelor.locals.com/sup...
Instagram: The_Unknown_Adventure
---For my travel/bus build TH-cam adventures-----
The Unknown Adventure:
/ theunknownadventure
---For my news and opinion TH-cam channel---
Odd Man Out:
/ channel - บันเทิง
![[TH] VCT Pacific Stage 2 - Playoffs Day 1 // GEN vs RRQ | TLN vs TS](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/JhkzKOhvOps/mqdefault.jpg)
Just.. out of curiosity. The comments seem to be filled with a lot of unhappy, and woman weary guys. Do you guys really believe that there's NO women capable of real love and loyalty etc? Or are you making the claim that MOST are shit, and that the few that are good are rare?
Young Jedi see Tom Lykus asap.
I'll pin this so you can get more answers from other people here. My take: 50% or more divorce rates where 60-80% are filed by women (depending on country). 50+% of women admit to cheating on their spouse/partner. Now knowing that women win Child support 85% of the time and many men lose custody and only get visitation rights to their kids while writing massive checks for them...The question I would ask you is, would you go through the risk, jump through hoops and even try long term dating when statistically you're gonna end up miserable. And for what? Almost everything else a relationship gives you, you can get from other people you don't have to sign your life away for.
@@BetterBachelor and also you cant forget the posibility of getting falsley acused of grape or other kinds of things
@@BetterBachelor NSA means "No Strings Attached"
Be honest, in this narcissistic day and age, Most are s h i t. No better than a heroine or crack user, they use people and the courts just want the $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
Women don't love men for them
Women love men for what they can do for them
Same thing for men, what are you smoking.
Truth!!!!!
@GWT123 Of course not, why even ask that question ?
@Coman Rabiot also men sometimes choose to stay in a dead marriage foe sake of thier kids or cost of divorce would be too high.
@Coman Rabiot man you nailed it!!!!!👍👍👍👍👍
"Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provide something."
- Chris Rock.
He couldn't be more wrong. Cats are also loved unconditionally.
Only dogs, children, and men love unconditionally.
@Chris George I only brake if it's a person or big enough to make it through the windshield
If you think that men love unconditionally I think you are delusional. I am a man as well, but I couldn't love a woman unconditionally.
@Chris George well you found some conditions, i have more Then that, but to each his own, each man wants different things with women. But i am Glad you did though, because i think The mentality that you love her unconditionally comes from a sort of a victim mind set, so yeah, i think its better that you discovered The conditions, you are now in truth. Wish you The Best
Woman: Gives open letter to men. I'm a good woman.
Men: Fool me once...
Fool me twice...
Proof positive to NEVER believe all women
Females: "I don't need a man"
Translation: "I can't get or keep a man" 👉👎
strong and independent by not actually saying what they think
Loads of women are fed up with men, either they grow up being abused etc etc
@@NightinGal89 I dont wanna be that guy.. but isnt that just actual guilt by association? Lots of guys think that way too but thats how you weed out the good from the bad imo. I'm angry about majority opinion, I dont take the shitty things every individual woman in my life has done and make it every woman`s responsibility.
@@grapenut6094 well no, it's not like the women who are fed up with men actively discriminate against men or spend time hating them, they're just too tired to care about relationships,and content with peaceful solitude.
I've just heard a man say that men don't need women, so what's the translation? "I can't get or keep a woman?"
Sorry ladies, how many times have we heard the line "but I'm not like that" only to later find out that yes, you are exactly like that.
No no no, its "I am not like that. . . WITH YOU"
@@focusedonfuture3255 right, right, my mistake. Of course not 🤣
AWALT at the end of the day. Just got to love how they always say that they are not like the rest but deep-down due to their nature they truly are like the rest. 99.99% of the time when they state that, they are just virtue signaling chameleons.
So true. They want to be different, but most can’t help it 😛.
She wasn't like that. At that particular moment in time. No promises about how she'll be in the future, obviously.
When Batman himself agrees with Joker Wholeheartedly, you know the world is a shit-storm.
In Arkham knight they laughed literally together
"Dogs & cats living together... It will be mass hysteria!!!"
- Bill Murray, Ghostbusters (1984)
Lmao 😂 legendary!
Holy Toledo Batman!
nah nanah nah nah nah nah nah nah nah nah h nah nah nah nah nah nah
even so-called conservative women fall back on feminist ideology when it suits them. Tomi Lahren's rant comes to mind...
EXACTLY !!! She’s mad because she’s fat now
traditionalism/conservatism is one of the very things that has made us go our own way since it expects us to provide and protect
@@pootis4986 ... Women scream I am equal to a man yet when in a relationship they want to keep 100% of any money they earn while the man spends all of his on the bills and other needs of the household. I have heard many women say this exact thing. What is mine is mine and what is his is also mine and he has no say in what I spend it on as long as the bills are paid first.
@@amlafrance1918 is she really?
@@pootis4986 it’s a man’s nature to protect and provide so I don’t see why you’d say this
We're not even celebrated by the family. My dad thanked my mom for 20+ years for every meal she made. She never once thanked him for working 10 hrs a day. 1 hr vs. 10. This confirmed by my mom.
they want traditionalism but they don't want to fill they traditional roles
Oh.
you are 100% correct @@lordcristopherv
"Appeasing women's relentless demands is like feeding fish to a cat and expecting it to become vegetarian." - Machiavelli
RealrelationshiK
POW!
👍👍👍
Two cells in my brain:
"WRITE THAT DOWN, _WRITE THAT DOWN!"_
"EEEEEUUUUUUGH!"
That’s what I mean. This catering and pandering to women in the western world is a lack of wisdom. Luckily men in other parts of the world aren’t quite as lacking in wisdom, and the west is shrinking as a percentage of the world’s population due to feminism and misandry.
"Women love men"
Me: Actions speak louder than words.
Basically the full counter point. Until they are willing to go to jail for lying (about anything) I do not care what they will say.
👌🏾
If actions speak louder than words, then all I'm hearing is crickets.
Perfect rebuttal. 👍
Prewall women now a days don't really love men. They love the bad boy. After 30, they love men!
Men aren't loved unconditionally like women and children, we're only loved if we can provide.
Men are only respected and that respect is earned and maintained by them. A man is only loved by his dogs and God (and even God's love is that of a fierce father)
@@srinitaaigaura But God's love is unconditional.
Only attractive women are loved don’t fool yourself
Women are not loved unconditionally either. If you are fat and ugly no matter how good wife you would be, someone only gets together with you because they don't have better options.
@@NikolettaMuhari EXACTLY men don’t realize that only women who are valuable and have worth are loved unconditionally
Femininism and liberation have sold a horrible dream to today's women. Embrace the movement ladies because we as conscious men are not picking up the tab.
Unfortunately we still are through government subsidies..
@Star Traveler they have to makeup the difference somehow
For sure. Count how many times they pick up the tab
Pretty soon the government will start a husband draft to assign single men to single mothers so that it doesnt go bankrupt trying to subsidize the f-ist fantasy
I believe in equality. I believe in feminism. But I will not be caught in the traps of women. That is different. That is a woman being in moral judgement of men. Guess what? I am single. When I find her I will be the rare catch that I am. Confident capable ,wise knowing. An absolute rock! Adaptable and sought after. Sensitive but sure. She will know it and wonder why I ever had to endure being lonely and self reliant. I won't be fooled again.
"Women love men." Translation: Women love the benefits men provide for women.
Women are not loved unconditionally either. If you are fat and ugly no matter how good wife you would be, someone only gets together with you because they don't have better options.
Hey, you fixed it!
Fluent 'womanese.'
Best selling book among women:
"50 shades of grey"
Enough said for their hypocrisy.
all wyhman dream of subjugating a powerfull male, like all man dream in conquering beautifull wyhaman, it is fantasies.
Also, check out the "music" they like to listen to.
exactly sir. the girl in the letter didnt fail to reveal her nature. low testosterone/submissive/beta men are HATED by women cause it repulses their basic instincts. so much for women "loving men" in general. what she meant after all, and what she revealed once again is we women "love dominant, productive and rich alpha men". not all men. the rest are creeps and losers.
@@derricktarver6100 i dont know bro. he couldnt make his daughter NOT be a crazy hoe. he cant lecture us. let evil to be greater. it always was. goodness was a small portion of saints and ascetics in every era.
Don't forget the Twilight movies.
I`m 71 now, and for most of my adult life, stories have persisted about men being left by their wives for reasons that were not their fault. The nightmare stories are of these guys losing everything that they had worked so hard to provide for their families. They lose their kids, the house, sometimes their jobs, all of their savings, and on and on, they end up with nothing. Because of the wife lying, the kids get turned against their dad. You know, I could go on with more examples, but we`ve all heard this stuff. After fifty or more years of this, there is bound to be some changes take place. This isn`t going to just get turned around by women saying oops!
I'm 64 and never married but I was still open to it until about 15 years ago or so. Now days women are leaving after 30 years or more with someone (even a great guy) because they just "want to be independent" or want a new start" (or other similarly worded excuses) or they just don't love them anymore. I'll stay single.
@@muffs55mercury61 And the court system rewards women lavishly for leaving the men that have provided for these women for decades in marriage.
@@dmark2639 For those of us that stay away from it, we're survivors. I'll be damned if I'm going to lose my stuff by a stroke of a pen that I bought and paid for with my hard earned money.
@@muffs55mercury61 Yes, it is painful to be betrayed and dismissed by someone you worked your ass off to provide everything for 20 years. To lose the $350k house you almost had paid off, 1/2 your investments, and have both kids turned against you, but you still have to pay 1/3rd of your income in child support while you try to start over from scratch. It's a dark place to come back from and a hard reality to accept and overcome. Red pills are definitely bitter to swallow.
Newly divorced men are sometimes driven to self deletion. I witnessed this firsthand when an army buddy crashed at my place after his divorce. I spent most of the night talking to him, but what can you really say to a guy who lost everything that gave meaning to his life? He ended his life a month after moving back to his home state to be near his parents. There is a higher chance surviving afghanistan than modern marriage.
I'm an older guy.I was married for 14 years. She passed away at 35 years old. She told me she was doing to divorce me the night before she passed. We had 2 kids. I raised them myself. Had a relationship with a woman for 12 years. She left. Another 8 years. She left. The last one 22 years. Yesterday she basically told me I don't care if you die. So you younger guys. Women really don't look at love the way old fashioned guys do. As long as times are good they love you. Times get tough. They don't want to bother.
Wow, you're so lucky that she died.
Yeah, I feel ya buddy, I really don't plan on a LTR ever again. No point. Rent them, and rent the new model.
Wahmyn vow to love men for rich or poor, health or sickness like most Republicans and all Democrats swear to uphold the Constitution.
Also, seriously? *Four* wahmyn? That's some Brifault levels of 'learning the hard way,'
@@scocassovegetus : yeah, "lucky" 🙄
I don't remember who said this, but someone said: A woman is never yours to begin with, it is only your turn, then they move on.
I was married twice... 10 years and 12 years and that statement is truer than ever.
Both cheated on me in the last year of the marriage, before I divorced them.
They always say it takes 2 to tango and the fault is with both... To that I say: I have not changed, I gave them as much attention, love and support from the first day I met them, to the last. Both told me in the end, that they have changed on the inside and are no longer in love with me and want to find themselves.
The only time women start saying stuff like this is when men no longer want them.
lol, the writer hit the wall for sure ...
It is sad that so few actually heard what she said.
Faqssssssssssss ya can’t trust em period
To be fair, this article is from five years ago, back when the woman-splainers were only horribly horribly toxic, as opposed to their present androcidal wishes.
Obviously there are women who are moral and believe in an honest relationship..
I'm just having no luck meeting any. The ones I meet just want a hook up.. or get what they can from me.
The term "real man" is only ever used by someone who wants something from you.
Shaming works on young men, the feeble-minded, and the dumb.
It is a weak Jedi trick, and men see right through it.
True. Manipulation tactic.
Or fathers trying to teach their sons to grow up strong and resourceful.
@Goliath Jones or to brag to her friends/family that the man she is with is a real man. I agree, people use the term "real man" often to manipulate someone, but thats when they use the term in response to a man not doing what they want. I provided you the correction.
Except if he's your true guy friend , he prob use a different term but that is what he means.
The woman you marry is never the woman you get divorced from. As it turns out women can change their minds from time to time, even when you're all in. It's the largest gamble you'll ever make.
..what if we, men, tell them females, ofcourse before marriage, how most of us see it while during the endeavour and the 'till death do us part' part for the believers, and how we want it to be, for both partners to grow, also no changing to a bad or strange individual, is she willing to even consider not get bored after certain time,..exciting is'nt it, this feeling of hope! Is she still there?!..
4:28
Eh...this is 1 letter....from 1 female...on earth.
So...why should we care? what does this prove? That she is not a feminist?
So what - many women are. It doesn't matter if 1 is different hehe.
You are the exception honey - not the rule.
"but I am different!" is not an argument, I hear it all the time and I'm sick of it.
There are exceptions to every rule, why do we have to repeat this over and over again to mature adults...?
@@roserevancroix2308 AKA "NAWALT"- Not All Women Are Like That. Btw, AWALT.
I gamble on long odds for investment and short odds with women
With divorce rates at 50% its playing russian roulette with 3 loaded cartridges in the cylinder.
basically these "supportive" women are completely invisible and mostly silent too. if they are interested in a guy, they will not make it clear to the guy. if there is an argument in a group where majority is against the guys opinion but this woman supposedly sees their point, woman will not support the guy due to fear of getting embarrased in the group.
so really it means nothing until theres some actions speak for the words said.
..they will not make it clear to the guy.. Why not ?!? ..a mouth is not only to eat, or to got piercing in the tongue ladies..try it, go on, talk to the man you are interested in, make, at least, something clear..
The only difference between this woman's article and common feminists is that she is up front and honest about viewing men as utilities, and sees it as some sort of good thing.
Well if you look at history women start with valuing a mans power and ability and grow that into love. The modern day has just removed that second part.
Well, that's really the "traditional" woman. It's just another form of gynocentrism. Check out the barbarossa channel, he talked about this long time ago.
The traditional family at least was based on the idea of "exchange of value". It was more like a business contract. Now you are supposed to close your eyes, believe in the "Hollywood love" and just sign away your life... >50% divorce rate is nothing, how many marriage of those that still stand, are marriages you really want to be in? IMO - very, very little. And most of the reasons are based in economics. Modern men, nor modern women really need each other to survive like in the past. Yes, the obvious issue is the government that replaces men, but the opposite is also true - tech is replacing women also. The so called "modern society" stopped reproducing itself, and it requires more primitive cultures to continue functioning...
Having a mission and goals, and going after what you want and breaking down barriers for yourself and leadership are masculine qualities. She, as a feminine woman is saying that she is attracted to these masculine qualities. Just like a masculine man is attracted to feminine qualities such as submissiveness, and bonding and connecting and being open to receive love. In the same way, this doesn't mean you want her to work for you or never share her opinion. Granted, many people have many issues that get in the way of actually showing these natural qualities, but when you can acknowledge your issues and fears, and learn how to deal with them, you'll do much better with showing the qualities that come natural to you. This goes for both men and women.
@@skiefyre123 never though i say this but... arranged marriages starting to look more attractive then "love" marrages
@@Aiveq Funny enough arranged marriages tend to work in the long term because it forces two people to work on their differences and grow together. Modern "love" marriages people just give up on when things don't "feel" right.
No, loving what men do for you does not count as love, because it isn't true love.
👍🏽
Not even the T-100 is enough to satisfy women. There was one a woman bought to replace her boyfriend/husband but the T-100 couldn't walk around or do the simplistic things but talk in over 1000 phrases and many languages. Imagine that poor lady buying the entire Transformers collection and Skynet collection but she still isn't happy. The plus side, T-X is going to be in the market in the future, who is pre-ordering? I would for the gags.
@Matt Joseph most love ARE conditional. )
those who goes ard with 'true love is unconditional' are more likely to abuse it.
She’s describing an appliance... and how much she loves her appliance and what that appliance can do for her.
@Matt Joseph Well there’s no such thing as unconditional love, so it sounds like you don’t believe love exists.
I actually rather like the old fashioned ideas she's expressed. Happy to chop the wood and make a fire for a woman who wants to be a wife and mother to our children. The real problem is that we never know that you won't change your mind, tell us your new side guys child is ours and make us pay for it, and take half our stuff, Just on your word. As long as the law is stacked against us 99.9% of the time, and you're not speaking up against it, why should we trust you.
100% agree with this.
..i often ask myself the question, why, and what makes judges nearly always let woman get away with at least half of the men's possesions..That's the unjustice of the system, as well as the system itself! It create hypocricy...used and abused. That's where the contageous part start to make real damage...woman know perfectly how to use this, so ..men must be aware more, get as equal smart and hypocrite toward this and stay out of trouble or court..wish a more bright future. Case dismissed.
This comment should have WAY more likes then it does.
Why would you ever trust somome who benefits from a system that hurts you, and doesn't even mention how its unfair? If they say they care about you, but they think current laws are fair, then they really just care about what you can give them, not what you are.
This comment is gold. Well said
Back in the late 1970s, I had two friends at church (in their mid-20s) who started dating. So, three friends of mine (guys) asked about 8 sisters what they expected from a guy to do on a date. We created a list of 13 performance items (not involving intimate sex) for the girlfriend to do. The boyfriend's instructions were that he couldn't kiss her during the date, and couldn't say why. At the next Sunday school meeting, we challenged them to do a roll reversal. We gave each their list, and told them that the other could not let each other see the list (at least not before the date was over for two days). Next Sunday, he reported that he had never been so relaxed on a date, it was great; she reported that she had never been so stressed out on a date, it was drudgery. // Decent young guys take the emotional risks, and get burnt. Then later we don't trust women.
I'm trying to understand this -- I don't quite get it. You asked the sisters what they expected from a guy to do on a date, ... And created a counter-list, of things for the girlfriend to do? And the girlfriend liked that? And then you create a list for the boyfriend, and the girlfriend was stressed out? Not understanding the picture.
@@LionKimbro Basically they swapped expectations. I.e man makes the plans, pays for the date, makes the moves and keeps the conversation flowing. While the women pretty much just needs to looks nice. When they flipped it, the man was the one who just needed to show up.
Not all snakes are venomous. Would you wanna get bitten to find out?
You can identify poisonous snakes easily. If you did your homework prior to you would know if there’s a threat or none.
The more colourful she is the more venom it packs
@@Skeetopunk01 Clearly you didn't do your homework... there are no poisonous snakes :-)
@@Skeetopunk01 Great, now how do you identify a woman that wont cheat on you, divorce you or falsely accuse you? Asking for a friend.
@@nophone9311 simple, they are dead.
Her entire article can be summed up at the end with "Now go chop us some firewood". She still just confirmed that all we are, are human doings. Let a woman talk or write long enough and she will always tell on herself.
I think she may have had good intentions thinking she was encouraging us to do something manly but she fell right on her face trying
I've just wanted to write the exact same thing... Imagine a male writer ended his article with "Now go and make me a sandwich."
And yes, just let them talk! They will pick their hill to die on, set the trap, and fall into it themselves face forward. This probably explains why men are usually on the tacit side.
For men almost all women are good enough, for women almost no men is good enough.
That is also a problem isn't it? If women can choose they will be more picky if Men are desperate they will be very unattractive.
Its not a problem for men..
Lets change this sentence.
For men, almost all women are good enough > FOR SEX.
For real love and commitment its hard! For both sex.
@@AL-cv3qt and that was the point of marriage, there is no perfect system, but the way it is now is just stupid and will never work out.
Women are not loved unconditionally either. If you are fat and ugly no matter how good wife you would be, someone only gets together with you because they don't have better options.
thanks for the content Joker. I'm over 40, no kids, never married, no debt, homeowner, very good lab work ie healthy, and am going my own way avoiding relationships,cohabitation, and marriage. Living as a free agent going my own way. I have washed my hands of women for dating and relationships.
*Feminists:* "Men need to give women resource because of historic oppression!"
*Tradcons:* "Men need to give women resources because God says so and it's the way things have always been, so it's good!"
*Unicorn:* "Men don't have to give me resources, but if they do, I'll make sure he knows I'm grateful for it and I'll try to bring as much value to his life that he brings me."
Sadly , Unicorns don't exist, they are pretty much Waifus in this sense.
Nice post.
But unicorns don't exist.
the tradcon position worked tolerably well when women were basically prohibited by law from ever divorcing their husband
God also says that vvomin must submit and obey the will of mäи the same way that mаи must obey and submit to the will of God but they like to pretend that part does not exist.
@John Henry Irons I did but sне was fügly.
"What are men needed for anymore?"
Tax revenue. Women consume more tax than they contribute, so guess who makes up the difference...Ironically, this also means that women are still entirely dependent on men.
Tax is also a, if not the reason why single men are shamed in media. If you're a single guy with no kids and no desire to enter a LTR then you can make $50k/yr and be happy with your 2010 Tacoma and 2br dwelling instead of needing to work 60+hrs for $120k and get mortgages and car loans and credit card debt (women are involved in 85% of purchasing decisions). Single men, especially ones who don't care for women, are a nightmare for marketers because again, they're happy with a 2010 Tacoma, and because they're not spending and not earning a high salary they also have lower tax exposure. The single guy working a low-stress job at $50k is also likely to have more money to invest compared to the husband/father working 60+hrs, so the single guy will be able to retire earlier, thus removing himself from the workforce and removing another source of income tax for the government.
The girl power movement was never about female empowerment, it was about transferring wealth from men to the government via women. Girl power is just a tool, and its advocates: useful idiots.
I belive your absolutly right.
Based as fuck
@@bully_hunter_4206
What does it mean "to be based"?
@@iwantanaivanovic2962 Based is when someone says something controversial but true without regard for what others think.
Women gained the legal right to vote with the ratification of the 19th amendment in the year 1920. Merely 15 years later the first welfare program was introduced in the U.S. that provided financial assistance to women and children. Women have been voting for big government handouts ever since.
Doesn't matter who you are as a guy or what you bring to the table, women get bored eventually and very few are logical enough to push through the hard times when there's hundreds of guys at their fingertips pretending to want a relationship but really only chatting for a quick lay. Jeff Bezos, Stephen Curry, Tom Brady, Johnny Depp - all great guys with loads of money that are either divorced, experiencing issues because the women are getting bored or have been abused by their batsht crazy partners. You know who enjoys their life? Leonardo DiCaprio (a single man that dates young supermodels because he can).
@John Doe and Johnny Depp got bored of Vanessa Paradis. He prefers the cheerful like Amber.
That explains why divorce was hard in time. They are supposed to raise kids, instead of being the slots of the city.
I watched an episode of Kevin Samuels where women were calling to say "how to attract a husband". Kevin said "Ma'am I bet by your age. God already sent you a husband but you dropped him by the way side. Has there been a man who wanted to wife you up?" Most on his show always ignore/sidestep/ the question. I could have seen myself married to most of the women I dated. Except they ignored me, did not value me, all they did was take and take until I caught on. When the breakup happened they thought I would beg on my knees. Then with time the majority of them wanted to comeback to their benefit and not mine. Sweetie, you made your bed now lie on it. To quote Eddie Murphy "What have you done for me lately"
Until divorces aren't started by woman by a vast majority and the courts won't nearly always rake men over the coals marriage isn't worth the potential misery.
start campaigning for blind courts. only communication with the judge is through written words, no gendered language anywhere in the writing (the only case this idea makes sense), no names (party a and party 1 is all they will be labeled, names chosen at random), absolutely no news or social media coverage of any of the proceedings (otherwise automatic loss for the party that leaked information), etc.
funnily enough, feminists will also be forced to support this: it's anti racist, anti misoginy, anti inequality, anti (xyz) phobic, etc.
@@10010110100102Error That won't work. The divorce laws are written so that the primary carer gets custody of the children and the primary earner gets the alimony and child support bills.
I'm a guy and i used to wait until women ended the relationships i was in. I don't get my heart broken anymore. Now I'm the breaker.
@@10010110100102Error it's actually brillant
Bro, that's not going to be happened. Because women in West are permanently spoiled. Next generation is not interested in learning anything traditional because they don't have any father in their life.
I was involved in personal transportation, and for 18 years I heard women in the back of my van. It's one thing to read how a woman destroyed a family, it's another hearing it being planned.. Among other things, I learned that if the father or fathers are "not in her life anymore" it's because she drove them off having no more use for them.
In short, the social contract is broken and is currently irreparable.
If a woman has an only fans she has ceased to be a woman to me.
I REJECT MY FEMININITY ZERO!!!!
Jojo reference
They have their time and place like pro's. But never marry one.
"You cant turn a hoe into a housewife" -ludacris
@@stevet1396 if you consume it then you can't say you're against it
@EightFrancs what?
@EightFrancs I'm not against sex work?
I'm just done. They want too much. I'm 53 and still get women interested and I just tell them straight out that I no longer get involved with women. Nothing personal against you, I tell them, I just don't get involved with any woman.
They usually get angry at this.
Yeah the age of the subervient man is coming to an end. Guys are learning from our mistakes and will be better off for it. Society betrayed men long ago you owe nothing to women
Nothing funnier than a rejected girl.
Hmm another woman saying:"I'm not like other women"
What a shock 🙄
"I'm not like most women."
- most women.
Don't say it, show it.
Actions speak louder than words and so far I still see more red flags than a Chinese Festival! Credit to CoachGregAdams
yeah the girl in the letter didnt fail to reveal her nature. low testosterone/submissive/beta men are HATED by women cause it repulses their basic instincts. so much for women "loving men" in general. what she meant after all, and what she revealed once again is we women "love like dominant, productive and rich alpha men". not all men. the rest are creeps and losers.
I love the "we support your choices" line. What if my choice is to NOT climb the company ladder? I like my job and it provides enough money and time for me to live the life I want. Well then I'm not ambitious enough. Another fail.
Men like to be appreciated, but this article is empty appreciation by this woman writer. The word appreciation for men has weight, but when it's said by a woman it's fake.
Nothing but truth & wisdom in your statement.
To even suggest that men should "get something"(anything at all) in return is against the rules now. My ex was appalled when I asked her "what's in it for me?" after we broke up in regards to continuing to be friends. She was happy to accept everything I gave but as soon as I suggested it was a two way street or even an exchange of any kind she tried to shame me by making it sound like I was turning our relationship into a cold transaction. It didn't work, though. She's currently pounding sand.
All intergender relationships are transactional. We give money or other valued commodities, and they are supposed to put out. End of discussion.
@@mailboy79 not only intergender. ...all of them only including adults.
You shouldn't have to suggest getting something in return. A relationship is about giving. Both are supposed to naturally give. There are some people who don't know how to do this though. Many times it's due to a lack of self-esteem or self-love. If someone doesn't love themselves, they won't know how to properly love someone else, or in other words, they won't have anything left to give. It's like they are running on empty. There are so many people that experience this issue, amongst both men and women. We can get passed it though, but it requires work and self-reflection and humility.
@@Leoo117 sometimes it's autism too
@_jeff _ I've had some advantages from autism, but yeah, it sucks. I wrote "Gristle von Raben's book of etiquette" at WordPress. It is written for autistic people like myself.
"Men love women, women love children, children love hamsters."
but everyone loves kittens?!
lol
And hamsters gets the penis.
Hamsters love popcorn 🍿
@@10010110100102Error Cat-ladies love kittens!
I'm out of dating for good. But last year I tried once more
Last year I was dating a woman for 7 months and she stated that she expected us to live together before we had been datinga year. I told her that we needed the following bedrooms
2 bedrooms for my daughters
1 bedroom for her daughter
1 bedroom for her and me
I then told her that my house that I own outright had 3 bedrooms and the house she rents has 2 bedrooms. So I then asked what she proposed, she said that I would have to go out and buy a 4 bedroom house for all of us. I said ok, how much money did she have to put into the deal. She told me that she didn't have any money to put into the deal.
I finished with her there and then. All of her girlfriends have called me trash since then. They just don't get it that men get rinsed by women, but it was all my fault
My daughters and I have lived very happily ever after since then.
😅😆😆Thats a good one
The hell you doing dating a single mother?!?
It's a huge risk to ask a woman out. She friend zone you because that looks weak or your desperate they think.
The old good is now bad.
The bad is now good.
And when my money starts flowing in the wahmin will be shut out of my life permanently.
I asked a girl out in high school and she apparently reported me to the school cop and I got intercepted and pulled in the office on false accusations of sexual harassment. Which I never did but spent the whole last 6 months of senior year up in the classroom eating my lunch which the teacher had to go get for me. Thank gosh she didn't press charges because they gave her the option apparently.
That was over 10 years ago scared the shit outta me.
If a woman likes me she can come to me and just say she likes me and initiate with no games.
So I'm in the 25% of I don't ask women out anymore. I'm 27 now and still avoid them.
Taking the free agent lifestyle Greg Adams.
Separatism for safety. Avoid females.
My company had a get together at a bowling alley, and I ended up sparking a nice conversation with the events coordinator for the establishment but didn't ask her out. Feeling regret about not asking her out, I stopped by the next day to leave my phone number for her. When I got home, I received a call from the manager of the bowling alley, stating that I was bothering the woman, and to stop harassing her. I felt like a complete creep at the time, now it just pisses me off.
"but you better win" Joe Rogan did an interview with a female mma fighter and her BF was one too. She watched him fight once and the other fighter took him down and put him in a choke and he tapped....she instantly lost respect for him and broke up soon after.
That's how women's minds work. I bet she got a wet on when the other guy won.....and I bet she would get all offended if anyone suggest that when SHE lost, the BF would be justified in breaking up with her......(sorry, I forget who it was).
Finding out their true nature leads you to become dismissive of their desires. It doesn't matter what they want, as it's bound to be irrational and ephemeral.
I remember that interview. Her boyfriend looked weak during the fight when he went to defend himself. There's always something better out there in their eyes. To paraphrase the late great Patrice "When I realized what women want, I didn't have women problems anymore"
It's a Joe Rogan interview. Exposes true female nature, telling on themselves as usual.
that video was discussed on this channel
What was this vid called in joker's channel?
Why tamper with perfection? "A face for radio and a voice for print" is hilarious! :)
It’s good but it’s deeply unoriginal
It's really, really, really hard to tell that any woman loves anyone. The only time i've ever seen anything close to what you would consider an unconditional love partnership between a woman and a man is when it comes to mother & son.
I don't see it from my mother to my father, in my grandparents or in any relationship I have ever been in or seen anyone be in. As far as I can tell, woman use men as a status symbol, this is 100% EXCLUSIVE WITH ABSOLUTELY NOOOOO EXCEPTIONS. There is always a materialistic goal to the decision women make, and that's just a fact of biology and evolution.
So many men are willing to throw away everything for a woman in a bid of unconditional love. When is that ever returned? Please someone, ANYONE, give me 1 example of when a woman has shown actual love towards a man.
Ya'll are better off getting a dog, I PROMISE you. You will get more love and happiness from your dog than you could ever get from a woman.
True love does exist. You just have to be ready fir it. 🥰
I've seen it. I've known women who stayed by their mean through illness or poverty. I've met couples who have been through hell and high water.
The caveat? They were older, or lived outside of the city, and often they were her first relationship out of highschool.
There is a reason why people avoided dating widows back in the day, now the majority of women have widowed themselves. Being a jilted lover isn't really a temporary condition for women.
"1 example of when a woman has shown actual love towards a man"
My grandma and my grandpa used to work together; they used to bitterly yell at each other almost daily at work.
When my grandpa died from cancer, just before we brought him to the graveyard, I will always remember, my grandma leaned over my grandpa's coffin, crying her heart out.
This what a "TRUE" woman and a "REAL" man are supposed to be. Two figures that walk SIDE BY SIDE, and, as equals (TRUE equals), with all their defects and mistakes, complete each other.
But that was another age, apparently.
@@nicolevonw8101 That's something i hate. What the hell do you mean by that? What exactly is "you have to be ready" ? This sentimentalism makes someone racional sick.
@@nicolevonw8101 when are we ready, tell us plse..more specific..
To any men reading this, as a female, I just want to say I'm sorry for how you're treated and how modern feminism has bullied you into being effeminate. Most of the girls (and I mean girls, not women) of my generation, continue to treat men horribly and it makes me cry sometimes because you guys deserve so much better and you're being deprived of your right to be men. My friends all know that I'm a men's rights advocate and I've been called a simp or a pick me just for saying that I love men and I love the traditional roles that they play. I try to change minds about this issue to hopefully fix things in tiny ways. Please don't give up, there are still women who will love you for being men ❤️
As a young man in his 20s, thank you for the words, miss. If you speak truth, then I hope you have a wonderful life. We, men, will just have to go our own way for awhile. That's one of our biological strengths thankfully; using our muscles and brains to carry on, alone if necessary.
Cheers Sasha.
@@Evulchair ❤️
@@NukePower217 ❤️
@Эльнур Абдулаев That's okay, I'm not here to argue with anybody and relationships aren't for everybody so I hope you end up fulfilled with whichever path you choose ❤️
To every friend and family member who's suggested I get a girlfriend, I usually ask one question: tell me one benefit I get from doing that. They would spend a few minutes thinking, and they come up with nothing. That usually ends the conversation. This letter is yet more proof that all they see in us is utility. Been focusing on me, getting ripped, watching the money pile up, living life, and loving it. Indifference is a wonderful thing.
Perfect. So true keep up the good work...
Sex
The one and only answer i get back is "sex".
@@Ulfstigandr It is a good answer, it would be better if people couldn't buy it but hey what you are you gonna do
@@overlordwarlordtheomnilord9473 everything has a price, and women put a price on sex. Most men choose to ignore it, and end up paying much more.
I used to try dating like you, until I took a red pill to the knee
Lmao, love it.
This guys been to the Cloud District
Let me guess, someone stole your sweetroll.
I'll have you know that there's no pussyyy~
Love the comment!
I remember a coworker of mine back in the '90s telling me about his honeymoon a few years prior. He said they'd been laying out on the beach getting some rays. She turned to him and said, "Let's get one thing straight: I wear the pants in this family. Remember that and everything will be fine." I was shocked at the time. If I'd known then what I know now I would have asked him why he didn't beat a hasty retreat to get the marriage annulled.
..women see this " i wear the pants in this family' as what? Pure and total domination? ..was she wearing a red - flag - bikini?..
The guy should have left her on the spot: seriously! cheers
I would have gone for an annulment immediately or a divorce something. go for a swim and not come back pretend I drowned. fly back home pack up while she was frantic trying to find me and when she got home found nothing left but what she brought into the relationship, exactly, nothing!!
Poor bastard. Hope he was able to cast off the chains and divorce
What happened to him?
It's crazy how this world has fallen and human relations are in the state they are in. People are absolutely terrified of other people, and can't do anything without being harrassed and attacked.
Many people are violently assaulted for not wearing a mask in Canada..
The commies have taken over.
Leftism :/
"Men want reliable companionship" Amen to that. I'd rather be single than constantly worried someone will run off randomly.
Awomen to that, you mean ;^)
Women are not loved unconditionally either. If you are fat and ugly no matter how good wife you would be, someone only gets together with you because they don't have better options.
@@NikolettaMuhari Don't get fat then, that's literally the only requirement phisically. It's not a chore or a burden to take care of your health.
This is the most relevant and accurate video I've seen about this problem, which is that women want aggressive men but condemn them for being that way.
Okay, but it’s a man’s role to provide. Always has been. As a traditionalist, I support that as long as the women I date are okay with building a home-maker. I actually want to be a provider to a good woman who wants to be a home-maker. You know? The method that has worked for thousands of years before the “also me” movement and “girl power advocates?”
Exactly
yeah and then you'll get married and she'll take half your shit lmao
millions of years.
And men who are worried about money should pursue rich women. But those who don't mind to provide can be with poor women.
Good luck with that.
She is grateful for the chads 1%, the middle age garbage truck driver is just a background NPC.
But that truck driver have more money than most feminists.
@@Don-Coyote-De-Transylvania Most woman are deeply in debt and are looking for the next chump to "man up" to visa and mastercard.
@@Don-Coyote-De-Transylvania as a truck driver I can confirm. Typing this from the passenger seat as my crew mate is driving.
every man who isn't a top 1% chad is an NPC who makes women cringe
Fantasy is fun until reality crashes the party.
My mom doesn't truly love my dad, just what he can bring her.
My mom loves my dad very much my dad doesn't really love her.
Well tbh i don't know if it's actually true. But he is being very indifferent with his feelings. He is not unstable or unpleasant. He is very nice. He just never shows alot of love to her.
@@gentlebabarian hence why she loves him.
Same. He was her swiss army knife
The most devastating thing I had to accept throughout this whole journey, is because I’m here from watching my mothers horrible treatment to my father. This is what started my red pulling at a young age.
My mom made it seem like she was the victim of my dad. She stayed with him through out his cheating for decades. We told her to divorce him all the time. The moment he lost his high paying job, she was gone. Not even a week later. And she left us "her kids" with him to provide alone.
Reading the comments on this post is very sad to me. I have been married to an amazing man for almost 26 years. I also have four grown sons. They have been raised to have manners and they have an amazing father as a role model. I worked early on and then my husband wanted to start his own business and we worked hard TOGETHER. When we had our children, I decided to stay home and raise our five children. My husband worked so hard and still does to provide an amazing life for us. I always kept a clean house and always had dinner on the table. I guess today we would be called old fashioned. Everyday when I wake up, I thank God for him. I am scared for my boys with the man bashing that is going on. My husband holds the door for me, he rides a Harley on his 1 day off. His family comes first and he has always been first to us. Today people think to much. Let things happen naturally. We love each other and are loyal to one another. I hope men and women can come together again soon, because when they do it is a beautiful thing xxoo
You sound like what many men today hope to find, but seem to be lacking in society. Unfortunately if things were good, none of us would be here having to have these discussions and videos like this, but men are tired of being the brunt of all societies woes and being taken advantage of. I appreciate you listening to the content as well as giving your thoughts on it, and I thank you for being supportive. I wish you're sons the best of luck, it's rough out there for young men today.
There have been many a study done on how to atomize society. This may be transient but I see no indicator things are getting better. Marriage is no longer an institution largely to regulate progeny, it is simply a romantic exercise and any two entities can do it. It is commodified. It is to be lorded over your friends when in vogue and then discarded at the nearest inconvenience. I am 24 in a couple months. I can count the number of girls my age that I have met on one hand that I think would even be remotely suited to marriage. I have known for 10 years no that I would like a family at some point, so there is screening that happens.
At 57, dating used to be so much more fun and exciting when we were growing up. I feel sorry for the younger generation today who don't put enough energy and thought into it. I guess we all need to take time to talk to one another instead of blaming each other. Thanks for your positive comment. It was appreciated!
Key words: together, role model father.
"modern" US relationships end up with kids growing up alone without a father (but with an endless stream of mummy's boyfriends going through a revolving door), and no role model to look up to.
IMHO Your boys are staring into a thresher. If they can be encouraged to build a life by themselves for themselves, once they get a little older, if they're really good with money they can choose at that point what they want to do. For the love of god don't get anyone pregnant.
"At some point love fades away and the only thing that is left between 2 married people is a deep mutual respect for each other" - My Mother ( married for 31 years)
And now we know feminism has completely removed any sense of respect from women & made divorce easier than marriage
Gillette: Men shouldn't be toxic.
Also Gillette after $8Billion loss: We take that back.
No take backs shillette. We see your true colors.
@@wk3818 Honestly I would have thought they'd be totally gone by now. It's a miracle they're still around.
Not good, not good!
Did Gillette take that back? Never heard that.
I read they doubled down on their commitment to the disgusting advertising direction they started
"My garbage disposal is broken, can you fix it?" Immediately made me think of "I can, but I have to inspect your plumbing first."
"Can you fix it?"
"Yes. I can."
"..."
"..."
"...Well, are you going to do it?"
"No. That's not what you asked."
There's a hole in your bucket, dear Liza, dear Liza... There's a hole in your bucket, and I can't fix it....
Lmao
@@cosmicvagrant3980 Then plug it, dear Henry, dear Henry
Good one! I'm stealing this. ✌️
A good woman is harder to find than a blue pearl.
The only thing with this is missing is that women are taught from their father or mother to look down on a man who cannot provide. My mother was wise and said never date a women who will make room for you after you become successful. Then again, my Mom ruined all my potential relationships, I never realized how much of a good mother I had till I got older.
I bet the woman who wrote the article is over 30. Once they’ve hit the wall, they’re looking for the good men. Good luck lady!
yeah no chance she is like 19 or some shit.
She is in her early 30's and single. Crowder pushes her all the time. She is like a 4 or 5 but writes and speaks like she wants a 10.
What does it mean when you hit the wall?
@@evanescencelight6767 basically, woman can't rely on their looks alone to land man. They need to offer something more.
@@evanescencelight6767 it means that the looks begin to fade. for women it usually starts after 21 slowly. and after 35 its far more apparent.
The fact she used "patriarcal" as a bad thing shows how deeply rooted feminism actually is.
@Alessandro LinuxBSD most men start realizing how the opposite sex see us, just relax and remember when society crumbles you just have to point out and laugh at their stupidity. If you can't punish them, then nature will.
Me: I feel a really strong chemistry between us... Do you?
Her: Yes, I do. We have a strong connection I may never feel again..
Me: Want to see where this goes?
Her: No.
Women appreciate a bill paying scapegoat.
It has a very simple solution.
"Conservative" women should create a lobby to change the laws. if that happens men will feel more secure.
And always the same story, I'm conservative as long as it's convenient, then I drop the mask.
I've seen a video of a conservative woman arguing that women should have fun on the merry-go-round before they get married.
@Erik Mikkelsaar I was born in the 60s, I already took a lot of beating in life, and the more we dig, the more we discover the mysteries of "conservatism", to be honest, today I wouldn't bet all my chips on my mother.
Women have always hidden very well so as not to harm themselves in divorce or in social and family life
No "trad" woman will ever give up her ill-gotten gains obtained by feminism.
Don’t forget Tomi Lahren meltdown a few months ago.
Conservatives/traditional ones used to mean something, but,
thanks the many movements, rewriting history and the meaning of words, not even that is truly trustworthy.
A real conservative woman: a virgin, respects her father like a hero, respects and appreciates her boyfriend. If not, she is just a chameleon.
@@forgetittube5882 Tomi lahren is conservative, most conservative women hate media attention, they still like the attention of men (all women do) just to a lesser degree, but most of these women claiming to be conservative are lairs actually. Chameleons
Learn to love your own company. As a man, it's one of the best--and necessary--traits to have. Plus, we're wired for it.
I suggest you keep the intro phrase "with a face for radio and a voice for print" and trademark it. You've used it for so long that it seems so readily identifiable to you. You can put that phrase on t-shirts, hats, hoodies, etc., and sell them on your social media accounts. Just think about the possibilities!
"We love you, but don't expect us to take any action."
This all adds up, women vote left so that the government will take our money to support them... Another reason why politics are broken
Politics got broken when no fault divorce, and courts got involved.
politicians getting paid, political parties and women voting, were the begining of the end
@@keylanoslokj1806 agreed. The creation of “police” forces in the United States during the 1830’s has also contributed largely to these current times. What power does a court even have if there are no do-literally-whatever-they-are-told-at-all-times-no-matter-how-morally-corrupt-the-order-objectively-is thugs to break down your door and haul you to prison for being unfortunae enough to get involved with a psycho wahmen that lied to “law” enforcement about you. Without police government has exactly as much power as it should.
Not me! I’m Trump’s biggest fan yo!!! 🥰🙏🏼🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
@@nicolevonw8101 great. You’re are part of the exception and not the rule.
I have had a wonderful Christmas. No family, no drama, no dating, no problem. Binge watching the Wire with my dog. lol
Lmao! How much can I relate? Christmas this year.... Me and the Dog. Far more rewarding experience than a decade ago when I was a "family man".
Peace Quiet and Freedom
Well fellas, they got what they wanted. Girl Power! Enjoy it, and your cats ladies :)
Bought a new workout set, new kitchen ware, and a new fighting game.
Glad that my overtime money can actually be used for myself.
Same with me except its: the wire, the expanse, better call Saul, breaking bad, house of cards, dexter. I'm watching 6 shows one by one.
I had a woman who clearly pursued me to get my number...I had no interest and yet she still persisted. If I had done this it would have been harassment. But because I was on the receiving end..I should "not be scared of strong women" Give me a break...🙄
This is under the pinned comment asking "The comments seem to be filled with a lot of unhappy, and woman weary guys. Do you guys really believe that there's NO women capable of real love and loyalty etc? Or are you making the claim that MOST are shit, and that the few that are good are rare?" but I'm going to paste it here as well for more visibility. I think it's important.
Women for the past 30 years have been brought up in a environment that set them up to fail under the guises of helping them overcome sexism and not suffer like their parents did. Between the absolute social cancer of third-wave feminism and helicopter-bulldozer parents that would never allow their child to go through the hardships and struggles that teach lessons and build character and robustness, the women who were not near-permanently damaged were the exception rather than the rule. The continued perpetuation of third-wave feminism's anti-male policies and unprecedented forcing of social justice and intersectionality down the throats of western societies at large has ensured that the "participation trophy generations" are forced to remain childishly fragile by the upbringing of heli-dozer parents (and societal enforcement of that childish fragility all the way up to the criminal statutes themselves).
It's not that there are no good women; it's that women were AND STILL ARE in an extremely toxic sociopolitical and legal framework that practically guarantees that most of them will constantly fail. You cannot protect people from reality, and when these children that were failed by their parents and their teachers and their political representatives (and their "diversity"-obsessed corporate HR/management in an ongoing capacity as adults) are faced with the fact that *other people can simply choose to not have anything to do with them,* they hit a wall that no heli-dozer parent can bulldoze and no school administrator can threaten with expulsion and no HR feminazi can terminate, and the horrible truth of how badly they were failed sinks in on a very deep personal level that challenges the most fundamental "truths" of their personal identities and world views.
The result is broken women who are suffering deeply from a brutal identity crisis and decades-deep betrayal by everyone they trusted, and unloved men who feel deeply isolated and valueless and even hated and don't know what else to do...so they "go their own way." These men slowly burn down the village to feel its warmth, and the women don't understand why they're setting the fires, because those charged with the responsibility of preparing those younger female children for the other 3/4 of their lives where they must function as adults did them such a horrific disservice and left them with nothing but a toolbox filled with rusty nails and broken screwdrivers.
But some women do push through, and some parents didn't fail their kids, so there are indeed still good women out there that may be worth it despite the outrageous legal risks. However, finding them is a combination of a numbers game and pure chance, and the risk is that a man finds one that seems to be okay and she really, *REALLY* is not okay, and does a great job of hiding or excusing it away. That's why bachelor channels cover this stuff in so much depth: dating is now dangerous for men, so they need to choose not to do it to be safe, or they need to be given the tools to navigate the dating minefield in and come out one piece with someone who will be a good partner.
Agree. Single depressed women are a failure of their parents.
Mha man!
Thanks for writing all of that. It was well worth the read.
Betrayal, must be function as, ..those are indeed a few of the strong facts! ..reminds to the movie; 'The General's daughter'..what is more terrible than (sexual) abuse?! ..betrayal.. still a good movie!..
Beautifully well written. Thank you.
You've forgotten one thing joker. They want us to be their pension scheme and health insurance when they cross the 40 signpost. What do the offer us then. Nagging. 😂😂😁🥃🥃
Women: "don't call us chicks it's sexist and degrading "
Also women: "we love dudes"
Where I live everyone and everything is dude. That lady? Dude. That guy? Dude. That USB that I needed to turn over 3 times before I got it in right? Duuuude.
These broads get mad when you call 'em chix
@@Aetriex are you an real actual woman? I never seen one b4 =0
@@thecoltsamuel8010 Not that it matters, but I'm not a fan of calling someone a "real" woman or "real" man. There are men, women, low value men and women, and high value men and women.
I don't think that I have the ability to determine if I am low or high value, that is for the man that I am with to decide. That being said, my fiancé does believe me to be a high value woman (hence the proposal) as I believe him to be a high value man (hence the "yes").
@@thecoltsamuel8010 I'm sorry for misunderstanding your comment.
My dog is the best female I know, when she was young and cute, she stood buy me and was faithful and loyal. now that she is old and scruffy, I stand buy her and still love her, she is a smart dog.
The fact is a Man must risk everything in the effort to find a good women, the problem is you get covered in rot in the process of looking for that one good apple in the barrel of rotten apples. The risk is massive ,the rewards are tinny.
My approach was never chaise, only let them know that I was available if they want to do the chasing.
My parents got married in the 1950s and stayed married until my dad passed away in 2019. That is the marriage of more than 60 years. Long Live old fashioned values.
back then was slutshaming ineffect so b's still behaved or else they'd be said to do so and so things, destroying their status 100% since it wasn't the norm to do. nowadays them b's be swiping tinder lays all day long and sleepin with different male partner everyday of the week.
Good old dayes.
The good days, my mom passed 2020 and my days is close to his 80 now about same length of marriage. Best wishes brother.
Saddest part is, while I consider myself lucky to have married a good woman who respects and appreciates me. Both myself and my wife are having a hard time justifying any man pursuing a relationship anymore. It's too scary, and just not worth it.
Hell, even she says that it sucks for men today. The last thing she said was "leave these women in the dust."
Many mothers fear for their son's future.
@@anthonysutherland4108 So they should. But many mothers brought this upon themselves.
@@hpoels851 How
@@Rationalist101 By not standing up and stopping what Feminism brought.
@@gvjudd1289 Just because you claim to not have been a part of what Feminism wrought doesn't mean you did something to stop it until it was too late. You sat there at let other men suffer, until your son started suffering what Feminism wrought.
People always appreciate what people provide. You simply have to find someone that will provide for you. Bedroom fun is not a good measurement. Find one that will cook and likes to do the dishes. That is how you know they are a keeper.
In my experience women love men who are assertive and strong and forward and sexually agressive if those men are 8-10. If they are 5-7 men with the exact same behavior its creepy anti femimist or even harassment.
And women harp about...EQUALITY...?
”We want to be chased”, yeah, just for the attention.
they want to be chased, but they don't want to be chaste
"We want to be chased" so we can feel validated enough to chase chad
@@ryanlarbi8157 Exactly, in their minds their perceived smv increases with simp and cuck attention feeding their egoes
"But only if I find you attractive which I will never tell you if I do, but if I don't, I'll file a grievance with HR."
I watched a video by Casual Bachelor of a woman who admitted she loved ghosting people on Tinder. They really love the attention and the power it gives them to ignore anyone interested.
"Millions of us support you."
Why am I still single at 34, with a six figure salary with my mortgage basically paid off, six feet tall, in shape, and polite and courteous?
This article was vomit inducing... everything was about what men can do for you and other women, not what men are.
Try not to be too surprised at that outcome, Andrew. He's not kidding when he says "the 90/10 rule." The in shape, intelligent women with some sex appeal are ALL flocking to the rock stars, sports stars, power brokers, CEO's, and other very dominant, powerful, wealthy, influential, very masculine men. Most of us ordinary guys don't have a snowball's chance in HELL in getting indicators of interest of women we would even briefly consider...there's simply too much intense competition out there for those women, and many of those women are more than willing to share that high status, high value man with other women if it means they are in that intimate circle with such a guy. The host is correct...for purposes of intimate partnership, we men are obsolete...as are the practices of flirting, dating, courtship, seduction, relationship building, and marrying. We are done. Our hopes and dreams of romance, intimate companionship, and love are UP in smoke and DOWN the drain. I recommend you do as I've done, and write your concession speech to be read aloud to anyone still listening in the dating arena. It's time to seek out things in life to substitute for romance.
@@scottgurstein When you're right, you're right. I at least get dates still, but no repeat dates lol. I'm on Bumble.
Last week I drove a girl around because it was too cold to go for a walk, and she didn't wanna chill at my place (jobless, lives with mom and dad). I listened to her complain about her two exes for an hour and a half. I was supportive, polite, etc. She blocked me as soon as I dropped her off.
Another girl last week asked to chat on the phone, she whined about her day and her job, then also promptly blocked me after the call.
Another girl on Saturday got upset when I asked her out because in Toronto we're in lockdown again, and I was being irresponsible according to her. When I told her I was at my uncle's on Christmas, she threatened to call the police on me. I ended up blocking her lol. Three psychos in the span of a week.
I'm telling ya, and I truly believe it and see it more and more. Any decent, pretty, kind woman, does not need a dating app. The women we meet on these apps are bottom of the barrel, emotionally broken, manipulative, miserable, pathologically lying human beings.
@@duderanch18237 get the fuck out of toronto wtf?
@@duderanch18237 I know and understand your experiences with stunning familiarity! These outcomes you described are sad, but not the least bit surprising. My dating life started to wane 15 years ago after I turned 40, and cratered after I turned 50. I'm 55 now, and have made things right with the world by offering a complete and total forfeiture from the dating contest. And it's totally true, any person who thinks a high status man OR woman actually needs the help from a dating app is either delusional or consciously lying to themselves, hoping that high status person who shows up on screen has really just been looking for THEM their entire lives! Total blue pill narrative, and a sophisticated setup for bitter, stinging disappointment. Especially as a man, you'll know quickly and continuously in your life if you are one of those 5-10% high status men...and if you are not. If you are not, the most compassionate advice I can offer is to give up on dating and romantic ideations, and discipline yourself into the habit of treating women EXACTLY as you treat other men: with good manners and sincerity, but not ONE iota of sexual tint in anything you say or do as you relate. Get out of the dating arena. And as it pertains to dating, flirting, courting, or anything of the like...leave women alone and take care of the items on your own agenda. For personal fulfilment, find out what things in the world captivate you, don't harm anyone or anything, and don't involve anything sexual with women. Then pursue those things, because they are available to you...and as such, they can love you back as much as you love them.
@Boner Growing Pains I did live in them. My prime time is behind me now.
I asked today my grand father's sister about her take on feminism, and if she agrees with this relatively new current that is occurring in our society. I was curious about how an old woman relates to this situation and the answer she gave me was pretty nice, thought I could share it with you guys: She said that she doesn't incline to believe any neo-marxist ideologies or derivatives from it and she prefers to actually investigate the science behind it, and as she did she found it just an ideology without foundation. Nice answer in my opinion from a wise old woman. And for those who will say that she was just a stay at home mother, or uneducated, or brainwashed, she is a highly educated woman, who also had leading positions in her life, very interested in science and mathematics, physics, chemistry, biology, and also had 2 daughters who she seems to love very much from the way she talks about them and their children as well. Even though she seems a bit rough on the edges sometimes, maybe from the old age, when she gave me that answer and told me bits of her life and how she described her family, it felt very feminine but not in the extreme traditional-stay-at-home-only and no other interests kind of way , but a very balanced way. Smart woman in touch with her femininity.
Her kind is about to extinct, I'm afraid.
There is a saying: *"If you are really lucky, you will find a woman that loves your/her children...."*
Like D. Sharpe said: Woman love us for what we are, not who we are.
I think men all over the world have been saying that for millennia.
In what world did women ever love men ?🤔 im trying to figure out never mind never thats the answer
How about "This is Joker, telling you like it is even if it hurts."
"We're celebrated by the family for providing for them"
When i do bad no one forgets, remember?
There is a new endangered specie: a straight white men represented positively on a tv commercial
Dude, such creatures you're picturing here has extinct quite a while ago. You know what's an endangered species? A woman who is loyal, thus _trustworthy_ …
..this brought me many joy! Thanks..
@@Smartcom5 To be fair, is anyone ever truly loyal. People are always looking out for number one. But only a fool will trust a woman 100%
What break my heart is that there is a lost book in roman antiquities called "lives of famous whores". I would sooo much like to read that book
Or is a sitcom. All portrayed as idiots to their intelligent know it all wives.
@@namelesswhocares8648 Did you get it ?
*Wahmen:* We love men ... but why can't you all be like Chad and Tyrone ?
You forgot Abdula and Sanchez.
Those are the only ones I know.
@@spardaprowess3277 Juan and Pablo. Chang and Shang.
So her whole letter was about how much she loves and appreciates what men do for women...Just another example that women only see men for what they provide.
When I go out on an "app" date the first questions these gals ask is: What do you do for a living? Do you own your own home? What kind of car do you drive/own?? If I answer negatively to any of these , they leave. Quickly.
Tomi Lahren is also 'Not a feminist' lol
Totally forgot about that trainwreck lol!
@@mig1017 Yep. She's quite forgettable. :)
Plot Twist: She’s a Chamaeleon
She comes and a goes.
I'm not one to judge, but the ones like in this article who are so eager to say what they think will please they come across as cringe tend to be.
@kelvin martinez did the crocodile Dundee handshake
That's not a plot twist, if it is everyone watching saw it coming right from the start.
It's more like a Columbo/Joker crossover episode.
We knew she was the culprit, but the show is all about the demonstration.
There’s an advertisement on the radio in Australia for a jewellery company that specialises in engagement rings and their motto is:
“For men who love women, who love diamonds”
Need I say anymore!
My years on online dating has show only 1 thing, women expects to get everything for nothing, only taking and never giving.
You can thank thirsty men for this dynamic. Focusing too much on women leads to horrible women