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  • @brucehawood5006
    @brucehawood5006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1441

    My dad once told me that when you marry a woman she will spend the next 25 years trying to change you into somebody else. Then she will turn around and say you are not the man I married.

    • @vamsikrishna3855
      @vamsikrishna3855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Best quotes.

    • @zendao7967
      @zendao7967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Best dad

    • @whokitkat
      @whokitkat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Your dad is a wise man! Listen, Listen to our forefathers words of wisdom!

    • @Notachannel899
      @Notachannel899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      .. your dad is talking about himself...

    • @WaldoPepper8
      @WaldoPepper8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I have a Brother?! My dad told me the same

  • @nicklausmclean5099
    @nicklausmclean5099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    Guy: "Not interested"
    Girl: *Husband material*

    • @byteresistor
      @byteresistor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      'Guy punches her teeth in'
      girl: please have my babies!

    • @nicklausmclean5099
      @nicklausmclean5099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@byteresistor Wait? So the girl is gonna give the guy babies? 🤣

    • @joejones4172
      @joejones4172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@byteresistor That's it!

    • @Wolf_3125
      @Wolf_3125 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The guy needs to run for his life

    • @shaurya7573
      @shaurya7573 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@byteresistor what 😂😂😂

  • @Aesir262
    @Aesir262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +854

    A young woman's mentality:
    -Find the bad boy
    -Chase the bad boy
    -Catch the bad boy
    -Change the bad boy
    -Dump the bad boy(now a nice guy)
    -Find another bad boy XD
    Now thesame woman in her old age: where have all the good men gone?

    • @TheJesusNerd40
      @TheJesusNerd40 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      This is so true!

    • @tedsell1455
      @tedsell1455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same OLD STORY 🕸🕷

    • @chrisfisher4503
      @chrisfisher4503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bingo.

    • @raunc9278
      @raunc9278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      exactly that is the definition of female nature it will always override any lessons that she may have learned through self reflection

    • @nomoreputz9857
      @nomoreputz9857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      wash, rinse, repeat

  • @huskypup3489
    @huskypup3489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Girl has more issues than National Geographic.

    • @KingRumar
      @KingRumar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And just as many problems behind the scenes.

    • @C4Shop
      @C4Shop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Scrolling through the comments cause I’m fascinated what the internet thinks here.
      This comment wins. Burst out laughing. Best comments are always the ones that say a lot with a little 😂

    • @michaelweston1042
      @michaelweston1042 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      About the same number of guys have seen her boobs and boobs in National Geographic.

  • @cassiopeia21
    @cassiopeia21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +713

    Did she just say "to be wined and dined and romanced is not a bad thing ladies. I wasn't LETTING myself RECEIVE. And I've been working on that"
    What a hero. Can we please take a moment to appreciate how brave she's being for working on allowing men to spend money on her. So strong.

    • @righthandwolf306
      @righthandwolf306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Drew Peacock How about a 13x9 cake pan of fresh baked Ex-Lax brownies? Nah . . . she'll always be full of shit.

    • @darthphaser2991
      @darthphaser2991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Tattoos are gross. Film at 11:00

    • @tehfoulest1
      @tehfoulest1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Women involved with this faux spiritualism always act like they have it together when all it amounts to is ego masterbation.

    • @SovereignStatesman
      @SovereignStatesman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      William Griffiths: welcome to the self-entitled bimbo who's "over the bad boys and is ready to settle down."
      Translation: HUMAN VIRUS SEEKS HOST, WILL FUCK FOR FOOD.

    • @bdel80
      @bdel80 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@darthphaser2991 small one or two not bad but the amount she has ewww

  • @keith8880
    @keith8880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    "Met a guy at church"
    So much for finding a good church girl.

    • @xomox5316
      @xomox5316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      .... yeah last girl I met a church or a horrid slut worst I ever dated in fact. She was late 20s wall was coming, it was before I was really redpilled was purple pill as they say.

    • @thenarcissistsenemy29
      @thenarcissistsenemy29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yea I can tell you from experience they arent keepers. Freaky though 😂

    • @wjvlodek8769
      @wjvlodek8769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @ⅰи∂ㄩㄅ360 Straight...

    • @THX5000
      @THX5000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Magical thinking and delusion is what you can expect from Christian girls.

    • @Gravitywalker20
      @Gravitywalker20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      They are largely extinct or married off early. I'll bet you a Buffalo buck that this chick in the video goes to a modern "rock concert" church where they have a band for worship service and light show. I've been to both modern and traditional churches. Modern churches tend to attract some of the most messed up people there is. Traditional churches, that kind of resemble old school cathedrals, tend to only have 95% senior citizens that go to services. The rest are girls that are too young, or women that appear like they've never seen the inside of a gym before.

  • @designthinkingwithgian
    @designthinkingwithgian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    What woman in their right mind "dates" a guy for 4 years without the man calling her his girlfriend?

    • @pillowbugg
      @pillowbugg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      "A woman in her right mind"? If I ever seen an oxymoron...it would be this.

    • @willhayes2640
      @willhayes2640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      A woman that is getting her back blown out repeatedly. A lot of women will put up with anything if the sex is good.

    • @Hello-zf5lq
      @Hello-zf5lq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      De the privilege of sex and spending time with that man

    • @kickinrocks6055
      @kickinrocks6055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      She was an f buddy, and thinks they were in a relationship.

    • @domirican81
      @domirican81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      She was a side chick of Corey’s many side chicks.

  • @badnuzetv9976
    @badnuzetv9976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +853

    "If she loves you, and you like her, that's a perfect relationship." - Patrice O'Neal

    • @baddazmother602
      @baddazmother602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Fucking legend

    • @jebes909090
      @jebes909090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @Internet Entity patrice oneal "when my girl says she loves me, i tell her 'you SHOULD!' "

    • @The_Riot
      @The_Riot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I love that you mentioned Patrice because he had an awesome analogy that summarizes 14:03 perfectly. His analogy was that female sharks date Male sharks and then try to be a shark on their own and date a few penguins to give them confidence but the penguins aren’t as interesting as the shark so the female sharks (the girl) eat the penguins (leave the beta dudes broken hearted) just to go back to the male sharks (the alphas)

    • @daveshore8671
      @daveshore8671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Black Phillip had so much wisdom

    • @TheJesusNerd40
      @TheJesusNerd40 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Women give sex to get love. Men give love to get sex.

  • @nicoleligeza832
    @nicoleligeza832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1088

    Men: I'm not looking for a relationship.
    Women: Challenge accepted.

    • @SovereignStatesman
      @SovereignStatesman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      The only valid relationship with women is during sexual RELATIONS.

    • @J.dodds187x
      @J.dodds187x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Also Woman - "How could you not want me?! I'm perfect!"

    • @nicoleligeza832
      @nicoleligeza832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@J.dodds187x right? A little constructive criticism goes a long way.

    • @jamesrussell2936
      @jamesrussell2936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Does that really happen to not super attractive men?

    • @iammaximus614
      @iammaximus614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True Beauty starts within
      To Without ✌️😏

  • @joemacdonnagh6750
    @joemacdonnagh6750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    In the old days fathers used to worry about their daughters because as men they know what boys are like,
    Today fathers worry more about their sons because as divorced men they KNOW what women are really like.

    • @mr.nmoney3554
      @mr.nmoney3554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      AMEN TO THAT BROTHER my dad growing up always told us not to get married talked about how much money he would have- had he just waited 5 years. The girl he really wanted to marry died in a car wreck coming home from work my dad settled for my mom who was pretty when they met but man i can tell alot of regret with my dad.

    • @hikingbird42
      @hikingbird42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mr.nmoney3554 very deep story

    • @adrianfernandez1560
      @adrianfernandez1560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @bowmanpwner as someone who has been in a similar situation than yours a few years back, I can only say you have two options, and preferably have to do both:
      1) focus on your mental health. It does lots to your general well being. Find some kind of let out to all that pent up things that make you suffer. (You might have to look for help there). Keeping it all bottled up is a no-no.
      2) things might take a long time to heal, but they always can... I've been used, cheated, and most of the cruel things you can imagine... (I also know what being betrayed by someone regarding to personal content feels like, it also happened to me).
      All I can really tell you is that you must keep going and try to find both a let out and also something that brings you joy. Someone nice might or might not come your way someday, but as long as you try to become your own source of happiness, everything will be worth it in the end (PS: nowadays I feel great and I met a wonderful girl, kinda the one that is the exception to the general rule, but it all took a long trip inside my own mind to try and fix my own happiness. I know you can do it bro. Godspeed)
      Sorry if it there are some mistakes here and there, it's been a long time since I last wrote something in English.

    • @matthagan9467
      @matthagan9467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @bowmanpwner No premature deaths, partner. Make them eat a big sh*t sandwich by living strong and happy.

    • @adrianfernandez1560
      @adrianfernandez1560 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @bowmanpwner I already got better although it took a lot of time. I was even accepted in a job in the police force here on Argentina.
      If I could go well after a lot of shit I went through going from bullying in an early age (I have a problem with my vocal chords and my voice sounds almost like a woman's), then my dad dying, after that several betrayals (one of which was someone I've been together with for almost 6 years) and the list goes on and on.
      If I could get better even to the point of being able to trust someone again, as I did, I know you can do it too bro so even if you are in your darkest moments, don't give up

  • @rubenwallace563
    @rubenwallace563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I'm a 25 year old electrician. I been single gle for 9 years. It does get lonely at times when all your friends and siblings are in a relationship but damn do some of them look miserable.

    • @stevo6891
      @stevo6891 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know right

  • @BWater-yq3jx
    @BWater-yq3jx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    Bi, tatts, open relationship,
    church.
    Lol.

    • @Sarconthewolf
      @Sarconthewolf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Yeah, when she said, I met this guy at church, I thought to myself, she goes there just to say she went there and for some quilt reason.

    • @mistercontroversial
      @mistercontroversial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Too many fake Christians. Wow. I knew church girls couldn’t be trusted.

    • @InhabitantOfOddworld
      @InhabitantOfOddworld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@mistercontroversial
      Modern church is just a social group with no moral commitments

    • @gratefulila9980
      @gratefulila9980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@InhabitantOfOddworld truth.

    • @mattjones1378
      @mattjones1378 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She probably went to one of those fake churches that have a live band. Most of the members have issues and trying to use God to find peace and stay straight but most of the time the fall back to their old ways.

  • @brett6239
    @brett6239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1596

    Sadly this type of girl is the norm. Dated a dozen girls just like her.

    • @Quidproquo07093
      @Quidproquo07093 4 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      I blame the parents, feminism and dating apps... In that order.

    • @Lateralus46x2
      @Lateralus46x2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      💯 this totally the norm... been there, done that. Difference now I can spot them from a mile away.

    • @practicalphilosophy9031
      @practicalphilosophy9031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      no way. wow.

    • @redtalks4274
      @redtalks4274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Yep, and they never truly learn from their mistakes. She will eventually try to convince herself it wasn't her that was the problem and repeat the process.

    • @capralmarines4043
      @capralmarines4043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @Free Speech Look at her recent videos on her YT channel. Absolute trainwreck. At least her cats are gonna have it good.

  • @bettywhite2694
    @bettywhite2694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    She's not sorry. She's saying it to not look bad.
    Pretty sure she still wants her ex

    • @Xeonerable
      @Xeonerable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Especially when she smiles throughout most of it. Totally disingenuous and just saving face.

    • @Hello-zf5lq
      @Hello-zf5lq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She got a nice guy to shame her bf into marrying her but it didn’t workout because he beat her

    • @nightshadeblood3184
      @nightshadeblood3184 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Xeonerable she's just like all the other lost sheep. You can't save them it's too late.

    • @MrWeststrom
      @MrWeststrom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      doesn't matter, her actions already made her look terrible

  • @ReIentIess1
    @ReIentIess1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Idk man. I dated for 3/4 of my college years and felt like it was a tremendous waste of time and energy. After college haven’t even attempted to date in 5 years, haven’t been laid in 4. And you know what? Happier than ever. Parents are mind blown that I’m not interested in settling down in my late 20’s and they struggle to wrap their minds around the concept that it simply is not worth all the money, exhaustion and stress to me. I prefer to work on myself, grow my career, and enjoy my time to myself. Thanks for reminding me of that Joker.

    • @archdukehamburgervononionr1948
      @archdukehamburgervononionr1948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I stopped dating at 40, 7 years ago. Never ever putting up with womens irrational unpredictalble behaviour again. And heads up dude, they get worse in their 40s and 50s. They still think they are 21 and hot.

    • @WhiteGamerCrow0
      @WhiteGamerCrow0 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If they want kids hire a surrogate

    • @mortalkomment8028
      @mortalkomment8028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This sounds so wholesome. You have learned and taken the consequences. Other family members don't have to understand. We understand you. We're in the same mess and solve it the same way. Not dating and not committing is a great option.

    • @TightNinja
      @TightNinja 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats sir, you have won at life, don't get married EVER! It will ruin you one way or another just enjoy your free time, hobbies and early retirement

    • @TightNinja
      @TightNinja 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@archdukehamburgervononionr1948 I just got divorced at 39 and turn 40 in July, I am literally in this same path lol

  • @techbizcanada7594
    @techbizcanada7594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    "I'm going to let the nice guy have a chance". Lovely. The nice guy must feel so special knowing he was not her first choice (or 10th) and that her heart belongs to someone else.

    • @natethegr8230
      @natethegr8230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She's never yours.
      It's just yout turn.

    • @johngori9477
      @johngori9477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "Step right up, you too can be the 306th guy to have sex with me...as long as you are willing to pay my bills."

    • @michaelweston1042
      @michaelweston1042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@natethegr8230 Stay away from doorknobs!

    • @Sydebern
      @Sydebern ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah i was that nice guy for my ex-gf who had no problem telling me she preferred the body of her ex bf who apparently was this broad kind of type guy, compared to me who has a more long skinny kind of build.
      Now i don't blame her for thinking that, because hey: we all have preferences. There's also women who i find prettier than my ex (even though she was good looking). The difference is: i don't tell her that. Not to keep secrets, but just trying not to offend. But because she (said she) had aspergers, she had this thing with being brutally honest all the time. It was so weird and awkward communicating with her sometimes. In that way i believe her, that she really had some kind of autism.
      Now, after being told that she was really into very broad backs on men (which is just not my build, but again: working on it), i at least got the consolation that i had more going on down under than him, if you know what i mean.
      But then again, if she talks that openly about his junk, she's going to say stuff about me too.
      This woman, two years ago, she really set in motion my redpilling. After that i really began to think and see things for what they are and also watch content like better bachelor. And actually it's all becoming clearer and clearer.
      It's like most of these women just are the same: highly manipulative, can't trust what they say, they mistake your kindness for weakness and will exploit it in any way they can.
      And in a way, they are partly right about the weakness part. I was that nice guy, i was that blue pilled simp, i did believe that women valued the same things as men and believed in the romantic fairy tale.
      In a f'd up kind of way i am glad that i went through this. Rather know the harsh reality than some comfortable lie that in the end would have wrecked me. (It almost came to that already)
      Sorry, went off on a little rant there...

    • @user-tg7pi6lu6v
      @user-tg7pi6lu6v 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Sydebern it doesnt sound like she was being manipulative, it sounds like the exact opposite. too forthcoming about things she probably shouldn't be saying out loud. a lack of a filter is the opposite problem from being manipulative

  • @jeremytole3493
    @jeremytole3493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Next video of this same woman :
    "Woman Who Marries Herself, Cheats on Herself and Blames it on Men"

    • @againsslayer7339
      @againsslayer7339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that happen in asia XD

    • @KingRumar
      @KingRumar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Even better when she would get a divorce. Then she wonders why people won't commit to her

  • @oneronin6186
    @oneronin6186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    My info says women file for divorce 75% - 80% of the time.

    • @bighex5340
      @bighex5340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Men propose the marriage ~80% of the time, women propose the divorce ~80% of the time

    • @guyincognito394
      @guyincognito394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Anecdotal, my dad has three brothers. Out of the four only my dad didn't get divorced. So 75% among my very small sample size.

    • @Delimon007
      @Delimon007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The minimum is 70%, they say 50% but that does not include divorces still being processed or future divorces soooo there you go.

    • @carloskingston7343
      @carloskingston7343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @T-1000 WizOh'd No links btw. I've seen links posted by others on occasion but mine are always shad0wbanned. You might be on the same blacklist as me for sharing inconvenient truths.

    • @guyincognito394
      @guyincognito394 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Bisqtsnbeans In each case it was my aunt who initiated. I should of put that in.

  • @brettviddal1593
    @brettviddal1593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    What does a woman want more than anything?
    Something she can't have.

  • @bigdunks4eva
    @bigdunks4eva 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    All of this pain and frustration simply because she insisted on being with a guy who literally did not want her

    • @captrodgers4273
      @captrodgers4273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      yeah he literally told her that from day one.......i bet shes lying and got him to marry her by saying she was pregnant

    • @jayaz9113
      @jayaz9113 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Most women “issues” boils down to that

    • @Menorahdude
      @Menorahdude 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Incels are an inversion: pain and frustration chasing girls who will never want them.

  • @biffbifford402
    @biffbifford402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    17:22 - “I’m going to give the nice guy a chance.” Wow. A whole chance? How wonderful that she’s going to allow a nice guy to jump through hoops for her.

    • @gregoryunderwood4121
      @gregoryunderwood4121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Ahhh, but the reason she's giving a "nice guy" a chance is so that she can systematically and completely destroy him, just for her entertainment and pleasure.

    • @practicalphilosophy9031
      @practicalphilosophy9031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gregoryunderwood4121 not even it s all vanity..

    • @prometheus5874
      @prometheus5874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      LMFAO. Take it from a top 20%er... This woman is done.

    • @duuuuuuuuuh135315
      @duuuuuuuuuh135315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@practicalphilosophy9031 Nothing new under the sun.

    • @Sensorium19
      @Sensorium19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do him a favor. Don't.

  • @rabbitholereviews
    @rabbitholereviews 4 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    That girl is just annoying. Period.

    • @johnvanegmond1812
      @johnvanegmond1812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You reminded me of the joke. "PMS jokes aren't funny! Period." And yeah, I could only take a little of her then left to read the comments.

    • @pastexpiry2013B
      @pastexpiry2013B 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Tattoos = damaged.

    • @paulclinton6414
      @paulclinton6414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Like, listening to her, like, totally makes me like so sad for what has become of the Western World.

    • @deegee6046
      @deegee6046 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She reminds me of a high school girl

    • @warfightersanonymous7760
      @warfightersanonymous7760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Her constant upward inflection with her voice was driving me nuts...

  • @counter-attacktechnologyll2305
    @counter-attacktechnologyll2305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    When a girl first meets you and tells you the name of her "ex" and TMI about his job, hobbies, looks - - she is not over him. Corey this and Corey that, she doesn’t stop, even though she claims he physically abused her.

    • @jameseverett4976
      @jameseverett4976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She loved the "abuse", and wants more.

    • @carlwessels2671
      @carlwessels2671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I've said to almost all of them I don't hit you and you don't hit me,it's an immediate deal breaker.
      I had a girlfriend who decided she was going to hit me. I grabbed both her wrists in one hand and put my leg in yhe way to not get kicked. She said you are not strong enough to hold my wrists. I did hold her wrists she got furious. I held her till she calmed down. The argument was over her drinking,and starting to do drugs.
      I left soon after. Years later she was killed by a bad guy. One of 2 gfs and 2 acquaintances and 1 classmate killed by bad guys.

    • @imnotusingmyrealname4566
      @imnotusingmyrealname4566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@carlwessels2671 Got themselves into way more than they could handle.

    • @20maxilo
      @20maxilo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She liked it

    • @stevo6891
      @stevo6891 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I went out with a girl once and all she did was talk about her Ex.. I just told her I don’t want to hear about your Ex and told her I’m done talking to you.. I can’t stand that!!

  • @SuperBorg1
    @SuperBorg1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Tats are not sexy to me. It is a sign that a woman is impulsive and just being a copycat.

    • @flame-sky7148
      @flame-sky7148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Can you imagine what they will look like at 45. She's only creating more scars on the outside that are on the inside. At least she knows that she has a problem.

    • @elvis616
      @elvis616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@flame-sky7148 yeah and imagine them in a old folk's home with all those stupid tats lol

    • @cultofmalgus1310
      @cultofmalgus1310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      also bad with money and very insecure.

    • @ragnarok7976
      @ragnarok7976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kinda depends to me. If its not a clear grab for attention, and isn't in a dumb place I don't really mind. Dated a girl who had a small phrase from a song on her shoulder blade, meant a lot to her and it didn't bother me.

    • @ExplorerOfLife318
      @ExplorerOfLife318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ragnarok7976 a lot of things mean something to me. I don’t get it printed on my body.

  • @natetime
    @natetime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +379

    “Modern” Women: I’ve had my fun, now I’m ready for something/someone serious.
    Translation: During my prime, I gave my best to the bad boys for free.
    Now I’m ready to charge a “good guy” full price for boring, infrequent marital nuptials. Then, divorce grape him within less than 5 years, because “I’m not happy”... oh, and I lost my ability to effectively pair-bond, um, I don’t know, like 76 partners ago?

    • @illwitness
      @illwitness 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Rolling on the floor loling.

    • @IainFrame
      @IainFrame 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @Alfred Pasly Oh yes, "Taylor Swift syndrome". When she's able to sing songs about how every single one of her zillion boyfriends was an asshole, the obvious response is "hey, Taylor, maybe you're the awful one!"

    • @natetime
      @natetime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Iain Frame and yet somehow her songs are even more awful than her or her many exes lol

    • @RavenVonK
      @RavenVonK 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Actually... That's what she should have done the moment he said he wasn't looking for a relationship. She should have had her fun and left. Instead she stuck around fell in love, got herself hurt, he made the mistake of marrying her with no huge feelings for her. He worked harder to provide for her and made more money. Only to find out that he has to pay thousands on marriage counseling that didn't work. She should have have her fun and ran. She got the marriage title. That was all it was for her, a label without feelings. The ultimatum was stupid on her part. She had other optional men that were interested in her and she blew it by still bringing the ex in the picture. If she wanted to move on... Why talk about that fucker? So what if they go to the same church together. You just met someone and she just wants to tell him intimate sad details about her ex instead of saying we simply dated?
      I THOUGHT SHE WANTED TO MOVE ON?

    • @xMCxVSxARBITERx
      @xMCxVSxARBITERx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm honestly disturbed by what's going on with the majority of women nowadays.

  • @eyesofnight
    @eyesofnight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +623

    $10 says she gets back with him the minute he wants a booty call

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      She is her Uber-Booty. Even faster and cheaper.

    • @SovereignStatesman
      @SovereignStatesman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I says she gets back with him the minute he wants a booty call for $10

    • @neemyn407
      @neemyn407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Koozomec Uber-booty.
      Lol

    • @gurgy3
      @gurgy3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ben Turner looks like typical LA to me

    • @TheJesusNerd40
      @TheJesusNerd40 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everytime. All the time.

  • @rjh6037
    @rjh6037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    The hamster in this ones brain is totally worn out.

  • @kkrystus
    @kkrystus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I think she was dating "8"s and "9"s, but was still thinking about the "10" one.
    Now she realized that "9"s are not interested in her any more, and the video is like: "Look, I'm still attractive. 9s please come back"

  • @TheAgentmigs
    @TheAgentmigs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    And the worst part, she'll always compare any guy in the future to this dude.

  • @flambelk4489
    @flambelk4489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    When this woman uses the word love she has no idea what shes talking about

    • @thousandyoung
      @thousandyoung 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Like 99% of Wahmen

    • @Sombra_Azul_
      @Sombra_Azul_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Fun fact: no woman has any idea of what they're talking about.

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It was lust.

    • @desert4seat
      @desert4seat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That’s because she’s a total fucken idiot. Sorry, just being honest

    • @Sombra_Azul_
      @Sombra_Azul_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@desert4seat FACTS!

  • @readmore4178
    @readmore4178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    “...met a guy at Coachella...”. She’s living an SNL skit. She’s, sadly, a cliché”

  • @philiphewittii2605
    @philiphewittii2605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    "She still loved Corey"? Really...she didn't love him, she was enthralled by him, she had feelings of excitement and a stirring in her loins for his intimacy...but LOVE. Love is NOT a feeling! Love is a choice. We have feelings when we see people we love, but I love my best friend and am excited about seeing him...but I will always choose my wife! Choice, a conscious choice is true expression of love.

    • @JcRabbit
      @JcRabbit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Spot on. Love is a CHOICE you make everyday. You CHOOSE to focus on the good and not give much importance to the bad (unless it's something really serious, of course - then you MUST act).
      It's when you start focusing solely on the bad, as so many people do, that the relationship goes south - it gets to a point where they can no longer even see the good you do for them (and you have to keep in mind that NOBODY is perfect, including those who are so busy pointing the finger at you).
      So, in a way you do CHOOSE how your (side of the) relationship goes by choosing what to focus on. Love is not a feeling you cannot control that gives you butterflies in your stomach - it's a conscious choice!

    • @lostandfound6501
      @lostandfound6501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girls don't know how to love.

  • @bon7029
    @bon7029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Woman: Something something something, my ex. Something something something, still friends.
    Me: Noping the hell outta here.

  • @DEADIKATED
    @DEADIKATED 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    She manipulated the guy at church into going up to "Corey" so he would get jealous and marry Her!

    • @bmwpower140
      @bmwpower140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i salute to you sir

    • @mrgcharecter2322
      @mrgcharecter2322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Indeed

    • @BillClinton228
      @BillClinton228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Only a psycho would come up with such a convoluted plan. I find it hard to feel sorry for anyone in that situation though.

    • @harrybellingham98
      @harrybellingham98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      think corey's pretty insecure too, he accepted the stupid deal in order to "win"

    • @TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm
      @TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean it's pretty obvious that this kind of people are very desperate. Nice guy delusional thinking or rather hoping the beautiful woman will see his good values like loyalty, being "nice", provide etc. And choose him over the good looking ripped asshole.
      Few of them realize its about charisma above all. There are alot of not that attractive guys that are t rich. But they got by in the love game with humor and general social skills etc.

  • @aussietaipan8700
    @aussietaipan8700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    When I was 22 I was dating a 24 year stunner. I soon realized she was a covert Narcissist. She gas lighted me once and I learnt very quick to fight back. I strung her on for 7 months just and only for the sex. The day I left her was when a mate and I went up north to QLD and NT (Australia) and she sent the cops after me stating I beat her up. The issue was our neighbors who I was very friendly saw her hurting her self and knew I was gone. The Cops knew this and asked me what was happening. It did not take much convincing that I left a psychopath.
    There is a lot more to say about the above particularly during the "relationship" and some of the things she tried on me and would back fire.

  • @mattmance1188
    @mattmance1188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    "I'm not here to play the victim" **posts video online for the entire world to see**

  • @levithorstone2876
    @levithorstone2876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    She doesn't care she's smiling when she talks about hurting guys she likes it she enjoys being bad

    • @rustifowler9384
      @rustifowler9384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I noticed that! I felt like she's probably a narcissist as well!

    • @Real_MisterSir
      @Real_MisterSir 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think she overall views them as a compiled group of casualties of the situation, which forces the blame off of her as an individual. It's easy to throw your self blame onto the baggage you carry, rather than onto you as a person. She is clearly doing the former. If she didn't, she would have wept tears for the innocent guys' lives she fucked up, rather than crying at the bad stuff that happened with the badboy she clearly still would jump in front of a train for, if there was ever a slight chance of that miracle to happen that she keeps talking about. She is trying to get over him through rationality, but it's evident that if the "chance of a miracle" presented itself, she would dive straight back into that mess.

    • @johnhabib289
      @johnhabib289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      "All you guys I hurt" "HAHA GO F- YOURSELVES YOU LOSERS" "don't hate me though I still need a husband"

    • @BillClinton228
      @BillClinton228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      All women do... it's a power trip for them. Especially in their younger years, they do it as a sport.
      Ever listened to young women's conversations when they think no one else is listening? It sounds like 2 serial killers planning who their next victim will be and talking about their past body count, it's weird and creepy actually. That's the beauty of being friendzoned as a teenager, you get to hear all those psychotic plans women make behind closed doors which makes you much more aware later on in life.

    • @TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm
      @TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe not nessesarily narcicistic but certainly egocentric.
      She only sees her own views without reflecting on the other individuals involved and what they value.

  • @mediasawdust2458
    @mediasawdust2458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Women file for divorce 117% of the time. The extra 17% accounts for the women who wished they could've done it to the same man twice.

  • @bigdogboos1
    @bigdogboos1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    you know, if everyone would wait till they're married to fool around, and divorce/adultery was severely frowned upon by society, everyone would be 1000000x better off. no more comparing your spouse to the 100 others you've been with, no more "old partners" baggage coming up, no pair bonding issues, etc etc. it's just so obvious that is what we were designed for, all this free for all has destroyed everyone.

    • @_JESUS_is_GOD_
      @_JESUS_is_GOD_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      JESUS is always right, people abandoned Jesus and His commandments and now they pluck the fruits of forsaking God. This is only the beginning, it will be alot worse

    • @lostandfound6501
      @lostandfound6501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@_JESUS_is_GOD_ There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands; there is no one who seeks God. All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one.”

    • @rolandomendez8700
      @rolandomendez8700 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lostandfound6501 Santa's Claus hehe

  • @daleva187goligo
    @daleva187goligo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I don't believe her "I'm taking responsibility, I messed up" act for one second, it's all for show, clearly disingenuous

  • @Freeyourdollar
    @Freeyourdollar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    I would like to hear Corey's side of the story tbh. Seems he was doing everything perfect and was totally honest from the start. Suddenly out of the blue he wants to marry her? There is something she isn't telling us as Corey would not agree to marriage. 1. When he is getting the milk for free. 2. When he is getting milk for free from numerous women. 3 When he is given an ultimatum by a women who isn't even his girlfriend officially. HUGE holes in her story you can drive a truck through. I think she is lying through her ass about most of this story to get sympathy and Simp donations.

    • @alexanders4911
      @alexanders4911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      me too. i am a bit confused tbh. first impression (or rather image) of her (after 1-3 seconds) - you can roughly tell what kind of girl she is. i am only 14 min into the vid but in my opinion alpha-chad seems to be of the notion they are FWB whereas she of cos wants more. Or hoping for more. He is not a bad boy yet in my opinion. I guess the rest of the vid reveals more juicy stuff..but im tired now.

    • @goondocksaints9597
      @goondocksaints9597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Yeah, my instinct screamed at me 'fake pregnancy!' at the point where she said he just changed his mind out of the blue and said 'Let's do this...' Guys don't suddenly decide to marry a psycho just on a whim...

    • @Analena30
      @Analena30 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can watch them talk to each other on "the and" session. Corey is not nice person.

    • @khalil7011
      @khalil7011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Analena30 Nobody is saying he is lol. Makes you wonder why she pined over him though, very contradictory

    • @ragnarok7976
      @ragnarok7976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SIMPathy™

  • @kurt6410
    @kurt6410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    tattoos on a single 30+ woman is a huge red flag

    • @Axiomatic75
      @Axiomatic75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Why single out 30+ women especially? They are a huge red flag for women any age.

    • @kurt6410
      @kurt6410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Axiomatic75 a single tattoo on a hot 25 year old isn't that bad. but when she's 30 and covered in them, that's a sign to stay away. i don't have a problem with a single tat but to me if you see a hot chick who's single and plus 30 that should ring your warning bells. there's a reason she's single. young, pretty, hot, feminine, and cool women get snatched up by high value men. just like the crap on the clearance rack at walmart, it's there for a reason

    • @googleuser7771
      @googleuser7771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@kurt6410 any tattoos are definitely a sign that they value themselves less

    • @olliefoxx7165
      @olliefoxx7165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Tats, bi and going to church but still banging like a methed out drummer.

    • @squeezerD
      @squeezerD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My parents would flip if I dated girls wit tats. Never understood why.

  • @user-vv3zs6en8p
    @user-vv3zs6en8p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I think the story confirms why you should never chase anyone. She treated him like a celebrity and he treated her like a fan.

    • @imnotusingmyrealname4566
      @imnotusingmyrealname4566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The story literally confirms redpill and blackpill ideology. Bluepill is as always wrong lmao.

  • @LuckysLair
    @LuckysLair 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    “...you need to marry her or step off buddy....” in that nerdy voice. I lmao 😂

  • @jtorres5381
    @jtorres5381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    The scary part is......
    😱😱😱
    This is just ONE girl who made a video about her past. Imagine the thousands in your neighboring area, not making videos!

  • @AI_ENTREPRENEURS2024
    @AI_ENTREPRENEURS2024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    I love how she has to validate herself by letting us know how many rich powerful men she has met in LA since the split. I didn't here anything about just meeting a normal nice guy. She hasn't learned a thing, or bettered herself at all.

    • @fazebot2405
      @fazebot2405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Men In uniforms are the laborers. Funny thing is that i make well over 100k and have NEVER worn a suite/uniform, while a friend of mine wears them all the time and barely makes 40k 😅

    • @niggardlyrajigga4992
      @niggardlyrajigga4992 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fazebot2405 no. military

    • @odoggow8157
      @odoggow8157 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      true dat

    • @jamesrussell2936
      @jamesrussell2936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly what I thought. She said that she wouldn't go back and change anything but be more "comunicative". That probably means she wouldn't even go out with them in the first place. She probably used them jsut to feel good about herself not being wanted by the guy she really wants.

  • @fdhtownsen
    @fdhtownsen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "I didn't want to marry into money..." You could fertilize the entire corn belt with that pile of horseshit alone.

  • @bgreyspartan2484
    @bgreyspartan2484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I dated a gal like this casually. I dropped it because she kept talking about the dude, comparing us. I told her I wouldn't tolerate it.

    • @silentalliance3269
      @silentalliance3269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah same here I casually dated a girl who did the same thing and dumped her after a few weeks……I mean it was casual dating and she was still just looking for a guy distractions to talk about her chad obsession with and try to emasculate them at the same time…..these girls no matter how hot stay single and have wrecked lives.

    • @mattwhite8579
      @mattwhite8579 ปีที่แล้ว

      Comparison is the thief of joy

  • @robinr2740
    @robinr2740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    She's jumping around on the CC more than Mario has jumped on enemies in his whole gaming history/career! Typical modern western woman. Good thing she never spawned any kids to emotionally and mentally ruin!

    • @GameArts1
      @GameArts1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yet....

    • @seanparker4461
      @seanparker4461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wonder if that's why the goombas are shaped like penises?

    • @MusicMan121
      @MusicMan121 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Correct, except I don't think it only applies to the west.

    • @Eternalwarpuppy
      @Eternalwarpuppy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You clearly underestimate how many koopas and monty moles I have jumped on playing Mario.

  • @DrewTieng
    @DrewTieng 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I don't think she tried the nice guy, she used him to make alpha guy jealous. Just doesn't sound good to admit it

  • @DanteKenchi
    @DanteKenchi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    ''She has more red flags then a chinese parade'' CGA

    • @generalshepherd457
      @generalshepherd457 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, send her into the arms of China Joe or his laptop son.

  • @bi0lizard1
    @bi0lizard1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    19:58 “Captain Save-a-ho”. You got me with that one. LMFAO!!! 😂

  • @Saphire_Throated_Carpenter_Ant
    @Saphire_Throated_Carpenter_Ant 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I was raised not to hit a lady.
    If she's freaking out and attacking you she isn't a lady...

    • @practicalphilosophy9031
      @practicalphilosophy9031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      true.

    • @123christianac
      @123christianac 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I personally never cared for that rule. Around the time I was taught that, I saw girls harassing boys and quoting, "Boys aren't supposed to hit girls." It was that moment that decided to fuck that rule.

  • @Flashbagfolly
    @Flashbagfolly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    All these people go to church together? I think they might have missed a few key points about the christian life.

    • @danielson1037
      @danielson1037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      lol your exactly right, I thought the same thing

    • @robertwallen1582
      @robertwallen1582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Humans are good at ignoring the rules when they don't to follow them

    • @horizonized
      @horizonized 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep! My thoughts exactly!

    • @treelinehugger
      @treelinehugger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The feminized Church has redacted "problematic" verses in the Bible. They don't want to offend the women in their congregation with too much truth.
      You can't miss a pitch that was never thrown.

    • @LittleHatori
      @LittleHatori 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They read just Niggalations

  • @michaelkim2218
    @michaelkim2218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I would never go for a female that has tattoos, it's a total turn off! She seems like she's been played, and now she's just getting older, no benefits for her.

    • @khalil7011
      @khalil7011 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your profile picture is quite scary

    • @cc-by8uk
      @cc-by8uk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men or women with tattoos are not my taste either. But if I see a good tattoo I would recognize the art in it.

  • @perfektg
    @perfektg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I was about to say, the guy she got was exactly what she wanted. An exciting, "bad boy" that didn't really care for her and just wanted to hit it and keep her around. This relationship will likely never be truly over. Or, she'll find another guy just like him and repeat the cycle.

  • @paulybassman7311
    @paulybassman7311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    A hot mess, trampstamps , upward inflection at the end of every sentence (implies internal questioning of self... or needs validation)

    • @lesterdiamond6190
      @lesterdiamond6190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Chicks like this are low hanging fruit for the Charlie Mansons of this world.

    • @robertdore9592
      @robertdore9592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The moronic interrogative is really infecting all English speaking peoples; the worst legacy of the USA.

  • @kuchiku-kanzo759
    @kuchiku-kanzo759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I wish this video was out when i was dating my 1st ex.
    She's has many male friends. Bail
    Talks to her ex still. Bail
    Mentions ex time after time. Bail
    Few tips i didnt know at that time

    • @m.l.m.malaysiatv2101
      @m.l.m.malaysiatv2101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      If she ever says she miss someone ,get out of the relationship fast before you are too late .

    • @lostandfound6501
      @lostandfound6501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We all learn the hard way. 😎

  • @OutOfZeWorld
    @OutOfZeWorld 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The fact that she wanted that guy so bad, clearly show she hasn't healed any of her trauma and she dosent know herself yet.

  • @blue-phoenix115
    @blue-phoenix115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He didn't change....
    But if he did change, he's not the same guy she fell in love with.

  • @dartheinnulfr8986
    @dartheinnulfr8986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    That first section is actually kinda funny. In her mind they were in a relationship and all the actions show shes just a sex buddy lol. "Our relationship was rocky from the beginning." Baby girl you weren't in a relationship.

    • @tshaolin971
      @tshaolin971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She was in a relationship not him.

    • @tshaolin971
      @tshaolin971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Caliban777 She said they didn't have money but she wanted to build with him and she ignored wealthy men from hollywood. It's pretty much the bad boy attraction because she was mentally a mess.
      Note : What you did to theses women is the equivalent of a woman telling to a simp who spent all his time listening to her problems that he is in the friendzone. So of course he's going to have a blank look and cry, this is a normal reaction.

    • @BalboaBaggins
      @BalboaBaggins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      a Rocky Balboa relationship

    • @WheezingCheetah
      @WheezingCheetah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      tshaolin971 no she wasn’t, he almost definitely saw her as just a lil piece of ass.

  • @CIA.Langley
    @CIA.Langley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Gents, if you see tattoos on a girl remember - she’s ain’t a keeper, and the odds are her body count is double digits excess of 20. Avoid tattooed girls for serious relationships at all costs. Tattoo = pump and dump.

    • @4RobinsonJ
      @4RobinsonJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The sad thing is the body count is probably way higher than 20, which is a very low body count these days.

  • @Phoenix-King-ozai
    @Phoenix-King-ozai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This channel ...
    It cheers me when I am sad, gives me a smile when I am mad, makes me think when I feel bad
    Can’t ask for more

  • @vernefits1953
    @vernefits1953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The guy she met at church felt like a real winner but she was still thinking about the other guy

    • @Sarconthewolf
      @Sarconthewolf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The guy at church should have known better.

  • @PyromancerRift
    @PyromancerRift 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Chemistry, the "hot" word for guilty women.

  • @Corneliaa
    @Corneliaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +440

    I disagree, she hasn't learned anything. She doesn't act like someone who really repents and at one point she said she wouldn't change anything, she just would "communicate better". That's nothing. Real regret would lead her to different choices in life.
    The real reason for this video is shame. She's in her mid 30s, now divorced, which diminishes her value and she knows it. But she's still pretty. She thinks she's still high level and sees other women having a better life at this stage. She feels she's entitled to a great life too. So she makes this video where she "explains" her past and how she "lost herself", but now moving forward it won't happen again because she has totally healed and grown. She's practically gaslighting her next victim and this video is "Proof" for how much she's changed.

    • @mtlmgtow4766
      @mtlmgtow4766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Better communication is just one thing, honorable behavior is another, something she says nothing of, but deep inside knows she's doing something wrong, only sinners go to church.

    • @DestructoDisk
      @DestructoDisk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Spot on. Exactly what I was thinking when Joker said she understands what she did wrong. She is feigning rationality now because it's appealing to guys. Once her next victim commits, she'll return to acting based on FEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELings.lolz

    • @louelaine6539
      @louelaine6539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You're right. Nothing against Joker but judging by his assessment of this woman and her story, I'd say he's more than a bit taken by her. A bit of a crush I think.
      The more than generous sympathy gives him away.
      When the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie, that's amore.

    • @wordplay8733
      @wordplay8733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same thinking here

    • @nataliazakula3400
      @nataliazakula3400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Fantastic comment.

  • @johnfitzgerald9769
    @johnfitzgerald9769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She doesn't really care about all these other guys. She just realizes she wasted her time with the alpha . It was always all about her from the beginning. You can hear the self-absortion in her voice. She will look back post-wall, and you guessed it, wonder where all the good men went. She is low value because it's all about her.

    • @jameseverett4976
      @jameseverett4976 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's what screams from her most to me. Her face and mannerisms all say self deluded peachy queen in her own eyes. She still has the confidence of her looks, which keep her from having to see her spoiled rottenness on the inside.

  • @vociferonheraldofthewinter2284
    @vociferonheraldofthewinter2284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think that part of what saved me was that I never trusted the Alpha Chad. When it came to men, I was very serious and did everything that I could to approach this rationally.
    What drove me to think this way? My mother was the opposite. I survived her traumatic string of husbands as she chased butterflies. When she felt butterflies that was it. The second she was single, she was ready to pounce on the next one. She ALWAYS accepted the first guy who gave her that feeling and was willing to commit. So I lived in explosive situations until I moved out at eighteen. I was molested and abused and neglected and had to hide from the couple's unproductive battles. I experienced the ramifications of an mother's unwise decisions first hand. I wanted to be a mom one day and I knew that my first act as a mother was to chose my children's father well. If I screwed that up, I'd screwed up their lives forever. Failure was not an option.
    So I never trusted the Alpha Chad. I was serious and looking at the entire person before I was willing to even take a date. Guys who pushed for romance at first glance were not looking at ME. They were only looking at my body. I did give guys a chance if they approached with friendship. That showed me that they were looking to get to know me before they considered making a move. I turned down a LOT of good looking, built, tall men because of this policy and ended up getting friendzoned by a who I did fall for. (He was in love with someone else. I guess that's a pretty solid deal breaker. lol) It hurt, but I accepted it.
    I do wonder if part of the reason my husband and I succeeded was that we both approached courtship and marriage with caution. We were both from broken homes and it was unacceptable to either of us to inflict that trauma on future kids. We both accepted heavy responsibility for our choices and we once we made our choice we were determined to commit and to make it work once we took our vows. We were also young, didn't have a lot of relationship baggage, and weren't so set in our ways. I think it gets MUCH harder to find a mate as we get older.

  • @Aklemvaeo
    @Aklemvaeo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    The best part was "at church." Here's another case where a church girl is only a church girl at church.

    • @practicalphilosophy9031
      @practicalphilosophy9031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      well they thank their priests for it. LOL

    • @gregoryunderwood4121
      @gregoryunderwood4121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I grew up in church, and that's where you'll find the biggest sluts, whether they're married or single. Their motivation? A dangerous mix of moral superiority and entitlement.

    • @playbackproductions1
      @playbackproductions1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not even then.

    • @thecapone45
      @thecapone45 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly. I’m like. Uh. A bi chick at church? That usually isn’t reconcilable in the long term.

    • @ibubezi7685
      @ibubezi7685 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gregoryunderwood4121 Now that you mention it... She even worked for a church - would have left her family for me - pretty sure I wasn't her only (online) affair...

  • @paulbeck6410
    @paulbeck6410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I have zero sympathy for her. Cuz you know where sympathy falls in the dictionary? Between sh*t and syphilis.

  • @stevea.b.9282
    @stevea.b.9282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Whenever a woman seems interested in me, I get this weird mix of feelings that I only just came to terms with - One, there's the attraction to her. Two, there's years of conditioning from TV, songs and the world telling me that I'm supposed to be in a relationship and marriage = happiness, the purpose of life. And then there's the voice that I'm learning to listen to more: I just don't believe she's going to make my life better in any way. Happiness is a state of mind, not dependant on external conditions, and I want real peace of mind, not drama and emotional pain. Sorry I know this isn't related to teh video

    • @Brandelwyn
      @Brandelwyn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whenever a girl shows interest, you gotta ask yourself what is it that she wants

  • @codenameexoliby6020
    @codenameexoliby6020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love your channel bro. you really give a lot of men hope. Was really down recently due to my ex blaming me for everything and taking my kid from me. Your videos really lifted my spirits. Thanks for doing what you do.

  • @hawaiianpineapple7303
    @hawaiianpineapple7303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    We need to hear HIS SIDE of the story

  • @TheRealWanderingMan
    @TheRealWanderingMan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Going for the bad boy huh? That leads to tattoos, multiple kids with multiple guys, and always single and never married.
    I believe that's what's called a parasite.

  • @danielstewart8106
    @danielstewart8106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm only a few minutes into this video and her uptalk is already driving me crazy. Mostly women do this. Their tone goes up at the end of a sentence so that it sound like they are asking a question. It is maddening.

    • @raularmas317
      @raularmas317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've learned that when anyone speaks in this roller coaster type sing-song way it's one way to identify someone lacking in authentic confidence.
      Everything begins to sound like a question because basically they are questions in the speaker's mind.
      There is a pervasive kind of doubt at their core.
      The question form in speech is also one way of maintaining control of a discussion or argument I suppose.

  • @waynebollman
    @waynebollman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't WANT a woman who is emotionally damaged in a way that makes her turned on by being treated like garbage.

  • @PrinceofGreatness
    @PrinceofGreatness 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    She understands now she's 32, cause she's right at the wall. Next

    • @desert4seat
      @desert4seat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She must’ve been smoking hot 10 years ago. Super hot and super crazy

  • @ehtishamamin5601
    @ehtishamamin5601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    Joker man....I'm really enjoying your content but now it seems like i've become "Indifferent".......I feel nothing while watching these videos anymore i used to be out-raged but now it seems i've achieved serenity........For that i Thank you.......i've started working on myself and it feels nice.

    • @olliefoxx7165
      @olliefoxx7165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Good work bro! Keep it up, you're on the right path.

    • @cis85198
      @cis85198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yeah, the sad part with me is that i become more indiferent to my sister, because i see her mistakes as a modern western woman and i can't reach her and tell that she will be totally alone in the future with this crazy modern behavior. She is already 27, she has like 1 or 2 more years to catch a nice guy but she seems to ignore that

    • @iPlatano07
      @iPlatano07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@cis85198 what your sister do shouldn't be of your concerns. I have one as well but never in my life try to know what she's up to or what she's doing. She's an adult at the end of the day females know what's good or bad they just seem to ignore it most of the time.

    • @olliefoxx7165
      @olliefoxx7165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@cis85198 I have 3. Years ago I was pretty proud of them but now they've all shown varying degrees of poor behaviour. I'd never let a friend date them bc they would only use them. They've seen what horrible things their brothers have been through yet they are doing simular things. I've lost some respect for them. Don't waste your time bro. Just love them and be there for your nephew's and nieces.

    • @cis85198
      @cis85198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@iPlatano07 Well I don't want to control her, thats why I said I woudn't talk to her about those subjects. But I think we are different because I do want to know what's going on with her life cause I care for her, as I care for my brother

  • @MysteryProductsLtd
    @MysteryProductsLtd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great work on this video Joker. The thing about their own toxicity in their relationship, the way people don't process their own past stuff and just fly into the next relationship, and also the damage that caused to other people, like you said, them bulldozing through relationships with other people also.

  • @anthonyg6083
    @anthonyg6083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Through the explanation of a narcissist, having someone make you feel like you're on a rollercoaster, I now realized that was my ex. Never again.

  • @Raniko2020
    @Raniko2020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    the 'valley girl' accent was torture. but I endured for the quality Joker analysis.

    • @c.s.s.1723
      @c.s.s.1723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      She can’t end a single sentence??
      Without making it into a question??
      She even has Joker doing it a little???

    • @louelaine6539
      @louelaine6539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did not agree with much of Joker's analysis.

    • @farmerbrown84
      @farmerbrown84 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      California. I made that mistake once, never, ever again.

    • @paulclinton6414
      @paulclinton6414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Like, listening to her, like, totally makes me like so sad for what has become of the Western World.

    • @CourtneySturkey
      @CourtneySturkey 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@c.s.s.1723 lmao

  • @Runner2000
    @Runner2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    Didn’t she say, “I’m sorry. Would I have changed anything? Not necessarily, but I could have communicated better.” Isn’t that kind of like, “Sorry, not sorry?”

    • @Jonkin715
      @Jonkin715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Basically, yeah, that is what she is saying.

    • @stevenson68478
      @stevenson68478 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah that's disgusting.

    • @theerealatm
      @theerealatm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Most women apologize like this...
      "I'm sorry... BUT" (which negates the apology).

    • @JimKJeffries
      @JimKJeffries 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Asked a group of men, if they had ever heard a woman apologize (meaning they accepted responsibility & then made certain to not let it happen again). After half stopped laughing, I went 1 by 1 through each of them....and there was only one incident, a sister to a brother. This was a group of about 25, from ages 20 through 70's average age was probably around 50. No mothers, no wives, and no daughters.
      Let that sink in.

    • @macflod
      @macflod 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Either its not an apology or its Im sorry for the process but I wouldn’t change the outcome

  • @nYdGeo
    @nYdGeo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't believe that you belittled her at all. In fact, you've praised her enlightenment and self examination.

  • @tomwalker389
    @tomwalker389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Take a shot every time she says ‘healing’.

  • @HyperDavidovich
    @HyperDavidovich 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    A trainwreck, dumpster fire, and a lost cause. Fellas, run run run for the hills.
    This girl will spend the rest of her life pining for her Bad Boy who got away. No "nice guy" will ever be enough for her. She will never be happy no matter what.

  • @backgroundnoise9310
    @backgroundnoise9310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    She's lying. She hasn't learned anything.

    • @Taintedmind
      @Taintedmind 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Learning and applying aren't one in the same. She has enough self-awareness to see what she's doing, but not the emotional maturity to actually act upon it. It's similar to knowing what foods are bad for you, but you eat them anyways. She has a "Do as I say, not as I do" mentality.

    • @Trollamollex
      @Trollamollex 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Taintedmind I was about to post this but you worded better than I would have hahah.

    • @SovereignStatesman
      @SovereignStatesman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Background Noise: she's lying to HERSELF.
      However she actually BELIEVES she's learned something.
      Destroyers always do.

    • @SovereignStatesman
      @SovereignStatesman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Taintedmind All she's "learned" is that she likes to dish out abuse, but can't take it.

  • @85rockhound
    @85rockhound 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. Like your stuff. Captain 'Save-A-ho' ...Hit the nail on the head with that one! Very good message. Thanks.

  • @MichaelConwayBaker
    @MichaelConwayBaker ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow!! I can't say I have been involved to such an extent, but almost. Thanks for sharing, Joker!

  • @nocturnaldrive9214
    @nocturnaldrive9214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Approaching mid 30s and no babies. Yeah. Here comes the weight gain? Plus, she has no money but video taped this in a really nice apt.

    • @mrsalviboy94
      @mrsalviboy94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      They can't come up with 500 liquid but living like making 6 figures haha

    • @nocturnaldrive9214
      @nocturnaldrive9214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @ageofbogyo Dated a lot of Hollywood guys and were in a lesbian relationship at the same time? LOL.

    • @chrisfisher4503
      @chrisfisher4503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nocturnaldrive9214 Hey, the Hollywood guy would just have her bring her girlfriend for the threesome.
      Honestly, so would I . :D

    • @mariobros7834
      @mariobros7834 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nocturnaldrive9214 yeah, women use sex as currency. The concept of homosexually means nothing to them.

  • @WastedTalent83
    @WastedTalent83 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    this is a classic spoiled girl that never had to chase after someone. because too many were hitting on her. so she lost it when the guy she liked didnt want to behave like all the other guys. it's a kinda classic "I don't know what's better for myself" story like most of the girl could share

    • @mtlmgtow4766
      @mtlmgtow4766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Just comes to show how stupid they all are, zero introspection, zero extrospection, zero critical thinking, and of course, zero accountability. "I learned to communicate better" isn't an achievement, that should've been learned in kindergarten when you first learned speech dear. Society will then pretend like women mature faster, yeah, physically, but definitely not mentally as they stay at age 6 for the rest of their lives. I've gone monk because it feels like pedophilia to date a stupid 20 some year old girl these days.

    • @TopFlightSecurity415
      @TopFlightSecurity415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      which is why they search for alpha men cuz alpha's have direction , they live by there own principles and dont break for any chick with a big butt and smile and women love it, women know how crazy and lost they are due to there emotions , and they want a guy to guide in them in the right direction

  • @lysanderparan6843
    @lysanderparan6843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOLed at your impression of capt Beta 😂😂😂

  • @CookieManCookies
    @CookieManCookies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You know, this just reminds me of Prince Harry giving away all his guns, running away from his family, and overall being a huge simp over a older lady that has a huge body count.

  • @deonsmith4658
    @deonsmith4658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Listened to the whole thing. I've been down that road as well and since taking the red pill there's one important thing I've learned..... You CANNOT negotiate attraction.

    • @gregcal9051
      @gregcal9051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Deon Smith truth. All the grand stories of chasing and eventually winning over the girl are absolute fantasy. It’s dangerous

    • @Sensorium19
      @Sensorium19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That was a hard one for me. When you realize you can't ever earn it you're free.

    • @sassasins031
      @sassasins031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree. Average guy CANNOT get a 10 to be attracted to him the way he wants. He can get attention, with money, but not attraction.

  • @brettviddal1593
    @brettviddal1593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I've heard plenty of women say "I learned my lesson" before going out and doing the same thing again.

  • @margaretbatson83
    @margaretbatson83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You never chase someone if they want to be in your life they'll try to be there for you. You can never change a person they have to want to change on there own for the better. Never expect a person to change for you because it ain't gonna happen.

  • @shirohilight1502
    @shirohilight1502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Her existence is just one red flag

  • @BamBamBigelow..
    @BamBamBigelow.. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I reunited with a ongoing divorced fling from HS, she was easy 20 yrs ago, current time even more ridiculously easy. Spent weekend together and I was disgusted by 2nd day/night to be kind about it....

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      lol details. was it her body or just her behavior.

    • @BamBamBigelow..
      @BamBamBigelow.. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Peaceful Music...her behaviour was off putting initially, I could ‘work’ with body but talking to her was painful.

    • @BamBamBigelow..
      @BamBamBigelow.. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Bisqtsnbeans...we might have dated the same broad...🤔

    • @CrimsonMenace1
      @CrimsonMenace1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      BamBam Bigelow Soviet Union anthem intensifies

    • @olliefoxx7165
      @olliefoxx7165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BamBamBigelow.. so wasn't feminine, selfish, shallow? Typical

  • @mikeaustin4138
    @mikeaustin4138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    If men and women only got into committed relationships when they were "healed," the earth's population would be less than a million. We're all broken to one extent or another.

    • @thisiswhatilike54
      @thisiswhatilike54 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We’d all be a lot better off with just the million. Better, healthier, more stable relationships all around; quality over quantity.

    • @rey_nemaattori
      @rey_nemaattori 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah but there's 'broken trying to cope' or 'broken beyond repair'/ 'broken without realizing'
      The latter category is fucked, the first category is at least aware of that they're broken and is not trying to blame everybody but themselves.

    • @raularmas317
      @raularmas317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unfortunately, I don't believe that many people realize how important and necessary living alone and going through the process of individuation is in knowing one's own mind apart from Parent, friends, and roommates choices and ideas/beliefs.
      A person must know their own mind and what they truly require in mate before making a choice as well as being willing to put up with imperfections in the other.

  • @sintaklaas6427
    @sintaklaas6427 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thx for the work. it's a useful approach.

  • @NOCDIB
    @NOCDIB 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this analysis. Thank you VERY much. I used to blame myself for dating "failures" until 10 years ago when someone I dated 4 years prior reached out after ghosting me. She, basically, insinuated that she was seeking therapy for personal issues and it caused her to reflect on her dating history which made her think about me and how nice I was to her. She never once apologized for ghosting me. I had thought that it was something I had either done or not done when the problem was that she wasn't in a a place to handle a good man and it took some experiences with bad ones to show her what she passed up on. Some people have to learn the hard way.