BUT the arguments they use, actually support why men DON'T date them.
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Don't raise someone else's child.
She is a strong, independent woman! She's got this!
A step dad is the worst thing in the world to me besides a sugar daddy.
@@Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass You got it!
Real Talk What’s the difference? The sugar daddy actually has it better.
@@deontecallaway4026 Exactly. At least a sugar daddy can leave the situation.
Bingo !!!
That entire article can be summed up briefly “we expect everything, offer nothing and if you don’t like it, you’re a weak coward.”
Sure, and she's got it all covered.
I am retired 35 year law enforcement and I have faced down some situations that could have killed me. If not wanting to go through the trauma of raising a child with tantrums again, makes me a coward, then lady. CALL ME A COWARD, TIE ME TO A POST AND SHOOT ME AT DAWN, COS NO WAY IN HELL WILL I GO THROUGH THAT EVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@Эльнур Абдулаев Women's logic "You don't want me? You gay!" also in the same breath "I DON'T EVEN NEED YOU!!!" *rolls eyes* We don't want to deal with single moms because one child is enough, yeah I mean YOU GIRLS ACT LIKE CHILDREN so, we don't need more than one immature person in a relationship. No thanks.
@@user_friendly_9388 I managed to make it to 31 without making a baby. What's so challenging about it?
@@JohnSmith-wx9wj With children? Nothing because they learn, unlike a lot of girls, wich they will never learn or change. Ever...
I once was in love with a girl who put me solidly in the friend zone. Until she got knocked up and the guy split. Suddenly, she wanted me something fierce. I was owtta there. Even at 18 I knew where the quick sand was.
Good job guys you both dodged a giant bullet!
... and imagine, if you would not split, when you where, I bet in some future time, she would split on you anyway, because she would find "better deal". In this content (of her perception), the "better deal" would be some guy - an analog of the guy she dumped you initially.
They always remain the same. Its bullish they change ever.
very smart
Same dude
Damn, she thought you were a safe bet, but you knew what the deal was 😂
"A woman will take her child's bad behavior over you 100% of the time." - My Dad
I think your dad is saying something about you there mate
💯
This is as correct as it gets !!
@@KageNoTenshi
Pretty sure you were a paragon of virtue yourself there, mate. Allows you to feel smug and superior.
@@MeneerHerculePoirot to be fair, I would heavily respect a woman who puts her child first. The problem, is when they expect the man to be willing to take that investment for no returns.
Women may call the reasons warped or harsh, but facts are facts. Women with kids _should_ put their kids first, and if they're single women, then odds are real good that they've already proven they aren't doing that.
Funny how men don't deserve girlfriends for the smallest reasons, but women who mess up their lives apparently deserve the best of the best and to get supported too. Equality.
Seen this hahaha
Perverted Alchemist it’s cause they begin looking for a simp to fix their “happy little accident”
Single mother by choice? This just in, wahmen most affected by bad wahman decisions.
Without double standards, they have no standards.
THey talk about "Take your responsebility" while they got knocked up and the father isn't around anymore. Huh...and i should take my responsebilities...when did you take yours when you had your legs spread huh?
Insecure women shame men for having standards. Shocking.
In other words, "if you're a rich, successful, good-looking man (and preferably younger) who can date any hot childless kinky 20-year-old you want and yet you won't settle for a broken, disturbed, bitter, unhinged mother of the spawn of Satan who is completely out of my control, you're just an incompetent, insecure man that doesn't deserve me."
@Matt Pizzano it's like that as compensation for their poor decisions that they continue to make.
Well said
When I was in my early 20’s I dated a single mother. We dated about 5 months. We were good together . Her parents liked me her kid was nice and everything was going good and than one day I was helping her move her sister across town when she told me it was over. When I asked why she said two reasons..she was had been seeing an older guy (30) who made more money than I did at the time and was thus a better provider. The second reason was I worked too much and she wanted someone more available. After helping her sister move her stuff I drove away without making a scene and did not date a single mom again until I was 28. Married her and was with her for 9 years and divorced her. Now married to a women who has no kids and we have been together happily for 10 years and going strong.
They're just mad they can't keep the age old CON going anymore. Gilt tripping men about honor and shit is not cutting it, men are wising up at last!
I was raised by a single mom, and her advice on the subject has always been…. “avoid single mothers.” Thanks mom!
Was she that horrible? XD
@@theender664 Back in 1966, when I was four years old, my parents had a bitter divorce, and my
mother argued that she should have custody of us kids. My father asked how she would support three kids, and she replied, “I’ll get a job.” To which my father retorted, “who’d hire you?” At that time my father was an engineer working at GE in the Plastics division, the very same division Jack Welch came up through to eventually become CEO. Well, my mother did win custody, as was the norm in that era, and my father was ordered to pay $60 per week in child support ($20 per kid). In the years that followed, with just her high school diploma, my mother took all manner of jobs, anything she could get. She cleaned houses, sold Avon, worked in the office pool for Berkshire Life Insurance, decorated wedding cakes, hung wall paper, the list goes on.
And then one day, in 1972, with her name in the files of Kelly Girl (the old name for Kelly Temporary Services) she got called up to fill in for a secretary who was going on maternity leave. A six week assignment, secretary to a technician, at GE Plastics Division. She reluctantly took the assignment, knowing she’d be passing my father in the hallways. But kids gotta eat.
Six weeks goes by and the woman she was subbing for decides not to return, to stay home with her new child. They gave the job to my mom full time.
Six months later her boss, the technician, gets a promotion. GE had a policy of hiring from within, and when they asked him who in the department should replace him in his technician role, he said, give the job to my secretary, she already knows it. And so they did, and saved money in the process when she refused to have a secretary of her own.
Over the course of the next 9+ years she rose through the ranks, her and her high school diploma, to a marketing engineer role, a higher rank than my father, with more responsibility and more pay. She didn’t mind so much passing him in the hall anymore.
And at ten years and a day, having shown him exactly who’d hire her, she took her partial pension and joined two other engineers to go off and start up a new company.
Equality of opportunity allowed my mother to rise beyond anyone’s expectations at a time when women were seen as second-class citizens. And by her example she showed her three boys that women are fully equally capable to tackle any task or career in which they apply themselves.
Oh, and she never asked for a cost of living raise to that, wholly inadequate, child support. That never entered her mind.
So why tell this story? Because money was a daily concern in our household as I grew up. I learned every facet of how to save it, stretch it, grow it, and what to spend on and what to not spend on. All these years later, with just a high school diploma, I’m a multimillionaire. Thanks for leading the way, mom.
She wasn't horrible at all. Just wise.
@@CarlWithACamerasounds horrible to me. Instead of making it work she left and was selfish to spend all the time working her way up. You so traumatized by it you outpouring strangers and making excuses. It is hard to realize your mom is bad when raised by single mom.
@@CarlWithACamerayour story about your mom being good is about her career. Very sad man. This why single mom is evil the kids get warped and everything is about the mom. Your childhood should be about fishing with dad and mom making breakfast. Also you got to lie and wealth is sad.
@@CarlWithACameradefinitely not a millionaire living in Philippine lol. Why you got to lie man momma messed you up so bad.
I literally raised someone elses child and got cheated on then a protective order filed against me after doing everything right. Court system destroyed all my faith in humanity.
I'm sorry.
Thanks, the protective order did not go through but all orders have a temporary hold for like 3 months which sucked. I havent seen my oldest in 8 months. I have 4 kids and they are all just gone. Even agreeing outside of court cost me a lot of money. If I wanted to fight it would have been easily in the six figures according to my lawyer and I probably wouldnt have gotten anywhere. Even without a protective order I'm not risking going over there to see my kids. The system is messed up.
The system treats men with disdain.
Your story is common, and it's a very good reason to men avoid relationships altogether.
If you could sue the judge for criminal negligence there would be a Woodstock sized crowd of men claiming giving custody to the ex wife was child endangerment
If single mums are such a great catch and can handle anything Why are the single?
Yeah, and if they're so strong and independent why do they even need a man?
Situation which made my mom get divorced,
He threatened to kill her if she left.
@Sak Attack
Your joke confuses me, was it my poor sentence structure?
@@genxer1 and why do they need family court and child support
@@slimeinabox how about? Cry me a river! Better now?
Don't ever date a single mother. FULL STOP. DON'T ever marry any woman with kids. PERIOD.
Don't ever marry any woman. That's it.
Man it's retarded that they think they can shame us about not dating a trainwreck. Because that's what they are. I love children, but don't want any of my own.
Dating a single mom is like microwaving cold Mcdonalds french fries.
Nothing wrong with casually dating a single mom. Just don't get seriously involved with them ever.
Dating single mom's is like continuing someone else's saved game. No fun from the start.
Thats hilarious, you didnt even get to see the epic ass beginning cutscenes or story elements,
you just straight up fighting some hard boss with critical healthstatus and low ammo.
Remeber you don't even know the controls either because you missed the tutorial stage
My experience dating single moms: the kids are spoiled and disrespectful and the mom does expect you to be a father and is resentful when you do.
Not inviting chaos into your life does not make you weak. It makes you wise.
True. It seems that often the more traumatic the past relationship, the more a woman resents any future partners.
Who cares what it makes us? We still don't want it. That's the point of being a bachelor; to not be connected with, or dependent on a sick society, by way of caring what they think, whether they happen to be right or wrong.
"Wise" is the exact word that I thought of.
#1 reason to NOT date single moms is that when the kid turns 18 and she doesn't need your money, she will divorce because she want's to live without responsibilities. But she will still take have your stuff.
only positive about this is half your stuff wont be that much anymore ;)
...half...
I was a single dad in college and the women avoided dating me like I had the plague. As soon as they found out I had two kids, they were gone - even single moms. Now that my kids are grown, I will not date a single mom for the reasons here and because I don’t want to pay child support money for children that aren’t mine. Also, when I felt I needed a woman in my life in my younger single parent days, I was abandoned by the “fairer sex.” So now I avoid them.
They don't want to share your time and resources with your kids. Simple as that.
Hello, I just wanted to express my respect for raising children as single man. Have a good day.
her: "I'm a single mom, date me!"
him: "Great! I'm a single dad, so I know where you are coming from."
her: "Um, bye!".
huh, weird. anyone else remember hearing stuff in commercials/tv/movies around early 2010s were they acted like a single dad was desireable? I could be remembering it wrong or it could have been a joke/lie just something I thought of when reading your comment
To be fair you can’t blame them. The thing is that they think men don’t act the same way which is not true men DO NOT bother with single mothers yet they didn’t get the memo.
20's female: I'm a strong Indedntpend woman.
Mid 30's and 40's: Why men should date us.
@DAVO CAMPBELL let's all make sure that happens 😉
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@DAVO CAMPBELL Exactly, period.
Strong and independent=Men have set up a life for me that I don't need a main guy to survive or thrive
50's how to keep beautiful cats
To make a Golden Girls quote: "My body is a temple." "Yeah, open to everyone day or night."
And some like to stay for longer and others leave after a very short period of time.^^
Ahh, looking back the golden girls were the best girls.
LOL
It's an Aztec temple
A lot of temples aren’t open 24/7
"My kids will always come first!"
This is the exact same thing as a man saying his mother will always be the most important woman in his life.
He didn't have a choice of having a mother but she had a choice of having those kids
That's why I wouldn't date a single mom, ever.
Underrated post
Truth right there. Wait till you say that to their face.
Usually looks like it hurt enough, the tears might actually be real.
No it's not, your kids should come first and in a marriage this wouldnt be a problem.
A man jumping into a relationship with a single mother isn’t “Manning up” it’s stupid.
Exactly, and on point
"Manning up" really means Going Your Own Way, and living for yourself. "Strong independent women" don't want strong independent men, they want weak SIMPs, which I'm told (by her cousin, no less) is why my fiance left me back in 2009.
Dodged me, the bullet did.
Well I have a pal who did just that with said woman having a kid, but....hey, whatever happens is gonna happen, I mean he lives several states away, so it's not like I can just appear over there if things turn dicey, all I can do is wish him luck and hope good luck for him and his new family.
More Like "Simping Down" to a level called "Desperate White Knight"
Any time a woman says "man up" or "act like a man" she's just trying to manipulate you. Laugh in the tarts face and tell her that masculinity isn't dependent upon female approval and then walk away.
Single mom and a man hating feminist too, she's a real catch.
Facts like lemme have a woman that nags me at every chance and makes me want to blow my brains out😍😍😍 like omg such a catch 10/10
AH Dammit ! I was about to call dibs on that one.
Khalil Carney - 😩🔫. I feel you!
That's the perfect woman for an incel. She'd show him the benefits of being a monk.
What an unlucky spawn for that kid.
Dating in this age is the equivalent of taking your hard earned money and flushing it down the toilet
Pretty much I rather have a cigar and a cold glass of Johnny, is what I consider a real good time.
@@user_friendly_9388 I would rather cold beers and PlayStation over even talking to the "women" of today
I just spent my good money on a great mountain bike to cycle the deliciously green irish countryside for the summer.
Definitely more time for hobbies and Playstation lol.
@@gothlic1986 I'm playing PlayStation right now with a cold beer💪
Any time I tried to date a single mom I found she wanted a babysitter and someone to buy groceries rather than a life partner. The first time I was young and dumb and thought it was just me but I tried again and it was the same. I know that I would never be her priority and, despite coming into the family and trying to be a father figure, she doesn't have much respect for a guy who wants to raise some other guys kids. I don't date single mothers anymore.
The narcissism in modern women would be comical if it weren't so appalling.
Modesty is a trait that is much needed in modern women.
Exactly!
The pedestal got too high. Guys are trained to serve no matter the weather. No matter the risk. But that seems to be changing. The crowds around the base of the pedestal are thinning.
I'm a woman and I completely agree. It's very hard to find a good female friend cuz most are mean narcissistic nuts. And I've worked for so many abusive women and I never will again.
@SpaghettiandSauce But that is the case with most women anyway, not just with her or with single moms. It's never about _you,_ it's about what you can do for her and the very moment your usefulness is over, so is the marriage or the relationship. Hell, this is even the true reason why a man can't have a platonic relationship/friendship with a woman. It's not because men always still want to sleep with female friends, it's because men will sooner or later learn the hard way that they will be (ab)used as service provider and that the very moment he is in need of her help, she will vanish from his life.
If I'm going to raise a kid that isn't mine, I'd rather just adopt.
...since you pay for your education, house, car, confort level, shrink time and the rest just so you might deserve to adopt, it's safe to consider you'd be buying a heir. Edit for spelling.
well, to be honest, i would do the same, it is better to adopt a kid that to get marry to a woman with one, specially that the main reason men got marry in the past was because they need it a heir
Isn't it almost near impossible for single men to adopt a child? I thought its mostly for couples, women or the geys"
I am trying to do this. There is a lot of red tape and it's very expensive...frustrating that it's such a long and difficult process bc I'll give a good home
@@BrandonMaceira-go1gs I know single women can with some more difficulty than a couple (any combination) I haven't hear of a man adopting but I dont see whu they couldn't. IMHO from what I've seen, raising a child is best w 2 parents
I remember hearing this on television years ago about a 7yr old boy who hated the fact that his mother divorced his father and married a new man who the boy didn't like. This mischievous boy tried to rectify this by pinching his arms and deliberately slamming one of his arms with a door to put bruises on himself to show his father when he had visitation time with his son. The boy rolled up his sleeves and told his dad this is what mom's new husband did to me. Well the boy's father is now serving life in prison for killing his mother's new husband and after hearing all the evidence in court and after the boy fessed up in court as to what really happened. Daddy must feel like a fool.
Unless Mr. X is dead, I won't even consider messing with a woman with kids and I certainly wouldn't marry her. Puck dat.
A widow mom is a maybe just maybe... But single is a sign of the culmination of multiple poor choices.
Completely agree. A death is sad, and can build adult traits in kids. If I'm treated ok, I can be in. Many people are a Maury Povich show, and I'm not in for that.
Sure, I'd maybe make an exception for a widow, especially if it a healthy relationship up until then.
Strong men don't care about being called weak by people they don't respect.
Truer words have never been spoken.
Very well
And it’s because to those men their own self-respect takes priority over the lack of respect from those who wouldn’t respect them anyway.
@Ruby Maverick: King Of The Hunt A true strong man doesn’t care what strangers view them as(that’s if they’re strangers), especially when said strangers try to walk over you. What he cares about is what he can do to improve his life if there is something to improve and how to be happy, alone or not. That’s what I mean with self-respect. Not everything in life revolves around addiction to external validation. It is mostly self-initiation. Just MHO. (Edited to avoid confusion of terminology)
@Ruby Maverick: King Of The Hunt So when you spoke of strong men who don’t care about the sentiments of others you meant Sigmas?
Dating a single mom is like playing someone else's save game.
That they gave up on halfway through
And all the stats are fuked up and they left you the boring shitty quests.
On an N64 cartridge from Blockbuster.
@@MilwaukeeF40C those were good days, you sir just brought a tear to my eye.
TRILL
Wow! After hearing this I can't believe there are any single moms. You would think they would all be scooped up as soon as they become available. 🙄
Simps are always thirsty. Poor bastards
"We don't put out"
Bullshit.....that's how you got to be a single mom.
In most cases, multiple children each with a different father.
Bravo. Well said.
They want to be treated like virgins after 3 massive heads came out of you know what😆😆😆
@@raaspider Its because of shit like this that Maury or Jerry springer have successful careers
That's why I don't have kids as I don't want m kids to have different mums so it's the females that mess this up and love having lots of kids to different guys
while "weak" men probably cant handle a single mom and her kids, a strong man will know its a terrible idea and will choose not too
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly. Weak men will attempt to handle the kids, strong men won't even try
It's not as binary as that, and life rarely is. I know of a single mum who had another child with and married who she is now with, and it's a nice family unit. Weak this, strong that, simp the other, this channel is cancerous - for real.
@in ter Yeah, she's married who she is NOW with - the first guy turned out to be 'a mess head' - just not a together guy. The guys she is with, has been longer than 7 years now. It's about the dynamic between the 2 individuals, there's nothing weak or simp about being with a woman who has a child already, not if there's genuine love and honourable intent on both sides.
@Xengu Ada How is a cheating man the same in any way at all?
Dating a single mom is like completing another man’s saved game.
Dating a Single Mom is like buying a used car. Inheriting problems from the last guy.
Truth... 😂🤣😂
They’re a waste of time and resources. They will use the possibility of sex as a bargaining tool but won’t actually offer it. It’s like going to a Burger King Drive thru at 3am, the salad is listed but they don’t actually have salad. Why advertise it in the first place :/.
Indeed, it doesn't matter if she looks so good like a The Last of Us or a Hearts of Iron IV, it doesn't matter if she looks so disgusting like a Superman 64 or an Atari E.T.
Another man's saved game is another man's saved game...
Hahahaha... 7 second before the car jumps of the cliff.
They want money for security. Nothing else.
I tried dating single moms, it is not worth the stress. You get no recognition for putting extra effort towards her and her kid. Most of the time it is a woman with a huge ego and a undisciplined child that walks over their mother; mostly because the mother allows them to do it.
Which is why single mothers destroy their kids and why society is going down the toilet ...
Why should you get any recognition? Is that your child? Why would you try to take on another man's responsibility? Is it your problem if the child is raised right or not?
@@lawrenceogun389, if 1) the woman asks for something and 2) the man provides the thing she asked for, then 3) recognition is due. Of course since step three never works out, neither should step two happen. That's really the issue here. A big extra responsibility should in a sane world come with an extra reward, but in these cases it comes with extra pain and trouble.
She has kids? I'm not a substitute teacher, this ain't no daycare.
I went on a date with a women who used me as a nanny for her *friend's kid* (I don't know why either of them were there and I know now that I should have just left but I hadn't been on a date in almost 10 years and I was stupid)
Medically known that Women over 30 years old has a 90% chance of giving birth to an autistic child ! In less developed countries where women marry early and give birth early they do not have autism ! Women over 30 years old giving birth to an autistic child for her own benefit is evil ! Hypocrites !
I like that one.. Not a substitute teacher. Lol
"Reasons to date single mothers" doesn't list one single benefit, and proceeds to demand everything you should provide and not complain. Call me a weak man, fine, I'll proceed to enjoy my life, well paid job, no debt, and not one ungrateful goblin to snatch up my happiness.
A lot of risky "challenges" with pretty much zero reward.
Then again, we're talking about women who would downright fail any semblance of risk management.
The denial of reality and facts is strong for the used up wahmwn.
The only benefit I can see, as sad and Darwinian as it sounds, is that she's definitely fertile.
Statistically, the chance that other women are also fertile is extremely high. So it's not really a benefit at that, just a "confirmation".
Only one benefit to a single mom... They are easy...
Seems to me that she is a typical female, just say what they want, not what they have to offer. Have to meet their standards, and if she doesn't meet your standards then your a selfish pig in their mind.
If she has a child, you are, at best, in second place. If she has two children, third place. If she also has a dog, you are in fourth place.
This doesn’t make me want to be with a single mother at all! Does anyone agree with me?
AVOID!
"we wont be fooled by you"
said the single mom of four kids by four guys...
HAHAHAHAHAHA Good one, m8!
Burn!
We won't be fooled! Casually spreads her legs again and again
And ur about to be number 5 lol
Bro my mom has 5 kids and only two came from the same father😂😂
She has kids, I’m out. Not going through that mess. No suckers here.
w esquivel - At very best, you may be her #2.
Coiled Steel 😂😂😂💯💯💯
Thank goodness for simps lol
Been there done that. Not worth it.
@@coiledsteel8344 True, but the likelihood of being "elevated" to *_2nd_* place in a single mom's life is very slim. She would have to prioritize the man above: *_her job, her car, her friends, her pets, and all the household chores._* At best, the man would end up being a *disposable utility* that would fund her lifestyle while dealing with all sorts of problems, drama, stress, etc.....and the man would still be _#2_ in her life. Oh, and he would be getting someone _else's_ sloppy seconds. Like paying full price for a used car that has 150,000 miles on it and it continues to depreciate. No man with any degree of self-respect, dignity, or personal pride would go anywhere near a single mom.
Did this about 18 years ago, took on a 9 year old. Sweet as sugar for a year, then the problems began. "Not her Dad!" (but I paid as though she was) "this is my house!" (but I paid 75% of the bills) "Why are you looking for her wrong doings?" (Because she steals and lies!) ended in a messy divorce where I didn't recognise the person I met and married. I am alpha but a gentle and understanding one. Don't do it fellas, smash and dash if necessary and stay the hell away. It is quite literally akin to putting your hand in a bag of snakes hoping to find a £1. These Mum's move their 'goalposts' based upon their emotions and zero logic. Men are completely snookered. Stay away, you have been warned.
nope. she's the alpha, you're just a simp
Life is so much simpler as a bachelor. Not about to muck all that up by walking into someone else's mess of a life.
It’s often said that you can’t negotiate attraction. Here’s the female equivalent of doing just that.
Very true
Dating a single mom gets the man 100% responsibility and 0% authority. When you go out to dinner you're paying for the kid. Vacations to Disney land, birthdays, holidays you're paying. Back to school supplies, you're paying. The kid gets thrown in jail, has a medical condition, or accident, you're paying. But when it comes to discipline and setting boundaries it's always "you're not my father:. And after years of depleting your time and resources she can take the kid and go bye bye and even dating a single mom the courts might just make you pay child support.
thats the Facts dude
For older men 50s to 70s , dating a single mom with kids in jr high/ high school, financially already taken care of, it's less of a shit deal. By the time you get into any real long term commitment, you can delay things a few years, and the kids are 18 by the time you make any deals
However, the young single mom with a screaming toddler or 2 that has the whole ordeal ahead--no.
Of all the high negatives, this is the one that I found to be the worst dealbreaker.
Look at Zions (from the pelicans) step-dad he put all the work into zion and when he got drafted showed the man no love
I don't know if a single mom can ding the guy she's dating for child-support. I'm pretty sure he'd have to adopt the kids for that to happen. On the other hand, why take the chance?
I don’t like coming in second to another man’s seed. I will be hated by her children, you’re not my daddy, then the mother will say don’t speak to my children that way.
Been there done that.... not ever again, I don't care how pretty she might be..
Also; if she and/or her kids want to get rid of you they will accuse you of "doing stuff".
Dated a single mom for several months. Her best friend had no idea I existed and after she broke it off with me, I find out she popped out another kid with another guy she failed to say she was seeing
Angry single mom: “We’re not an easy lay!”
The kid’s father: Hold my beer.
Everyone at the bar: Hold my beer
Someone has his beer held, but is in line, has the time to turn on the the spot light "Butt Signal" (like the bat signal) calling all men in town that need a easy skeet to que up, line doubles. Not easy at all, she is right, laying 50+ guys in a train gang in one night isn't easy, come on!
hahahaha
😂😂😂😂😂
@@SteveSmith-ty8ko Everyone thats been to the bar in the last 5 years: Hold my beer.
If she’s a single mom, it’s for a reason. More likely than not the baby daddy has the answers
@Perverted Alchemist She spread her legs for a ne'er do-well douche bag, a.k.a. Chad or Tyrone, and now is stuck raising his kid or kids because he left her to fuck other women.
*_If she's a single mom then chances are she's a single mom BY CHOICE._*
@@VMIFerrari Preach
I just worry about the exceptions a little. I'm sure there's a small minority of single mothers who got that way because their man died trying to save an old lady from a burning building or something. Genuine widows don't deserve to be lumped in with the rest of them.
Sadly, I'm not sure I'd date one with that life's story out of concern that it would be a lie.
@@ailius1520 There are exceptions to every rule. But there is a reason something is a rule and something else is an exception. You have to be able to take in all the information and use sound judgment before connecting yourself to someone. My ex-wife cheated on me, ruined my credit, funneled money to her secret account behind my back, walked away and left me in a ton of debt before I even understood what happened. 8 years later, you couldn't recognize her from any other single mother. Most women have a hard time being accountable for their actions. Ex-wife is still out there acting like her divorce just "happened" and she is a good catch waiting for the right man. She is a demon. It is up to her suitor to find out the truth and not just jump in because he believes blindly that she is the exception.
Now let me get this straight, I marry you with three young children from another who had all his fun and she is done with all the "romance and activities" and I get to raise each one and start planning financially for their college education, a vehicle so they can work, handle bills, the mortgage, medical bills...and I am 4th in line as priority by the mamma? Wow! that is a good deal guys, count me in!
Im 40 yrs old. Been single since I was 23... I will never date a woman with a kid! Nope! Never have, never will... somebody else can not me!!
But why would a man want all this trauma when he can have peace, quiet and freedom?
AND stable money that wont be wasted on stupid high heels and handbags.
Getting into that little honey pot between her legs once every six months is worth it I guess.
@mr. Wldasoldmysoul4pussyasateen what love?... you do it for free
@mr. Wldasoldmysoul4pussyasateendon't quote me on this stuff, i just show my opinion.
Based on what i saw already... baggage = poor decisions most if not all of the time.
Single moms like the ones at 27:00 mean good decisions and were struck by the unknown yet they don't want a new men, they had their happy times and happyly ever after and now dedicate fully to their kid.
Exactly. A man can be happy alone and mainly deal with only the things that he wants to do/buy. Any time he can't say "meh, I don't want to travel to this place anymore, a lot of stress. I'm fine at home". But in this case, no. He HAS to deal with the stress, the kid, lose money, don't do what he wants to do.
"We are in control".
Says the woman that got smashed-n'-dashed.
@Tsukiko Yukiji And got sweet talked again by another bloke.
@Chad Tyrone The same happens with men: now every men has the delusion that they are an Alpha Male and are white-knighting for every cause they can find.
She also said they weren't easy, lol. They're some of the easiest, unfortunately.
Medically known that Women over 30 years old has a 90% chance of giving birth to an autistic child ! In less developed countries where women marry early and give birth early they do not have autism ! Women over 30 years old giving birth to an autistic child for her own benefit is evil ! Hypocrites !
@SRC that alpha should have been smart enough to put a condom on.
Demands demands and demans, as a great man once said "there's too much talky talky and not much of sucky sucky" -supreme grocer
My brother dated a single mom with a 3-year-old boy. My brother understandably got a little aggravated when the kid would wake her up at 3am to say "Mommy, make me a sandwich" and she would do it! "We got this kid thing covered": Yeah--the little bastard's got you wrapped around his little finger! When my brother commented on this, the single mother chastised him severely. This signalled the end of their relationship.
Raising someone elses kids just sounds like a terrible idea, especially if the dudes still around......yuck
when I was working at Western Dental, I made the mistake of answering a hot young mother's question "would you date a woman who had a kid?" with "yes". Turns out, she had no interest in me, she was just confirming if guys existed who would date single mothers. God, I hate myself.
@Al B wrong i was adopted at 3 days old i know my birth mom my mom passed away march 30th k consider my parents that raised me and taught me aout life as my real parents. When i was a brat i remember crying on fathers day saying never knew my dad to which my dad said he never knew his father. Since then he has taught me so much about life and i'm glad they raised me as their own. Even in my moms passing she wrote in her journal for her kids she gave birth too to not mistreat me and my sister. She was a year into cancer at the time and still wrote about us. Mamma protecting and loving us from the grave ill miss her
Did it big mistake the kids were a nightmare she just as bad
Medically known that Women over 30 years old has a 90% chance of giving birth to an autistic child ! In less developed countries where women marry early and give birth early they do not have autism ! Women over 30 years old giving birth to an autistic child for her own benefit is evil ! Hypocrites !
I nearly spat out my tea when you said verjeeen, lol, I thought of Borat.....to be honest, I know it was a parody but I think Borat had the right view on women, great success👍🤣
Woman with kids: we are worth it.
Broke men: we are worth it.
Woman: whoa now, let's not jump the gun.
Being broke saved me from a single mom relationship
lol! This is good
LOL
LOLOLlololololol!
Lol, the last 15 years!
If I had all this information when I was 15. I would be the 59 year old virgin. 😎
The last woman I dated was a mother of three. She tried, unsuccessfully, to treat ME as though I was one of her kids.. That was the last date we had!
Let me share one facet of dating a single mom that they never tell you: I recently broke it off with a single mom I'd dated for four years, and had bonded pretty deeply with her daughter. I took her to school functions, taught her to ride a bicycle, and paid financially for so many things-not bio Dad, not Mom, me. Despite this, I got told multiple times some version of "you're not her father, she doesn't have to listen to you." You're not Dad. You have no rights, and any relationship you build with her child(ren) can be taken away no matter how much you've invested emotionally or financially. It tore me to pieces. I'll never date a single mom ever again, knowing that if things don't work out I get double the pain from the breakup; it's not worth it. Learn from my experience, gentlemen, unless you like being a disposable ATM with zero parental rights should things go south.
First of all, you chose every action which has nothing to do with the mom. Secondly, the type of person you chose in terms of the things they said to you is also a reflection of you. You have a real cautionary tale in terms of dynamics dating a mom, but you chose who you chose and that's on you. It doesn't reflect every other single Mom. Choose someone that understands your value.
At least she didn't take you to court to put you on child support as a step father 🤣😂.... 😐🤨
@@rydenseasalt9716 oh look, a woman looking for a Beta male
thanks for sharing--take comfort in this: you did help that child be happy and better, and later in life she will be grateful to you--love is never wasted
@@michaelsix9684 Thank you for that, Michael; I really hope later she'll remember me as a positive male role model.
"only REAL men can handle dating:
-single moms
-morbidly obese women
-transgender females"
I guess by that definition I am not a real man, and I'm perfectly okay with that lmao.
Yeah im not a real men too. I dont date woman of my age, she must be atleast 7 years younger, thats how bad of a men i am.
Last I checked, aint no fefail gone tell me what a man is.
So women who aren't men and have never been men and who have never experienced being a man can define what a real man is somehow? Amusing.
I will add the following to your list of “real men should handle”:
- GILFS
- Feminazis
- Ugly ducklings
- Hoarders
- Unemployed/underemployed
- Welfare queens
- strong and independent “I don’t need no man types”
It isn't worth the effort to impress someone who will never be impressed by your efforts. Focus inward seek self improvement. Become a monument. Those who are impressed will seek you out.
"I'm pissed off because I made bad choices so you men are going to make it up to me. If I could make it a law, I would."
I hope your post is a joke You made the choices. So, you need to accept your responsibility and pay the price for your errors. NO MAN is your savior and does not need to rescue you from yourself. If you feel the way you wrote, you are weak and never learned to grow up.
@@cranepm01 its a quotation
@@indexwell6546 Quotation or not...the sentiments expressed are childish. If it is a quote, one does not use it in writing without qualification of its goodness or lack of insight . One credits the quote to the one who spoke or wrote about it. This stolen quote is a childish condemnation of one who does not accept their role in charting their life and only shifts blame to others for what they caused themselves or were rewarded for the consequence of their freedom to chart their sown destiny...good or bad.
@@cranepm01 You are really bad at understanding jokes.
Keep away from TH-cam comments
Leaving a 6 1/2 year relationship with a single mom. At first it was great, but it's nothing but heartache now. I'm last in line to everyone, my feelings don't count even though I provide everything.
Someone said in another comment section that the step kids are yours when it's family time, which is all the time there is no alone time anymore, but when they disrespect you they are not your kids to punish. This is the TRUTH.
Do not date a single mom. The stress will put you in an early grave.
Oh my God literally understand your comment for sure! This happened the last two years when we took on my stepdaughter full time I hated it I love her but I hated taking on the full mom role cuz there was no respect and like you said there was no alone time everything and everything talked about was shared with the kid... Absolutely hated it and hate to say it but resented her and mostly her father granted it's not her fault it is mostly her father's fault for not being the father and having me do all the disciplinary stuff... Not cool not fair to the step
I'm not a real man for owning my own house and buying my own groceries.
@@lesterdiamond6190 Lolol nice man. I'm on vacation right now. Fishing and grilling. And enjoying these mountains.
@@Tungsten96 Bird Dogs, Drift Boats, Jet boats, I need these to feel whole. Have a great trip man!
@Fidus Achates lol never!
@@lesterdiamond6190 Damn you guys living the life meanwhile here's me who got laid off my job and haven't found another 😎 🔫
@Fidus Achates Very perfect comment. Perfectly describes them.
I saw a dating profile, single mom 27 with 6 kids from multiple dads. What a catch.
What a cancer
she probably blames society for all her problems
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@@BOG0690 🤣🤣🤫🤛
She must be so strong and independent
In Puerto Rico we say: "hijos ajenos son hipotecas ajenas". It's saying that children that are not are ours, is like paying home mortgage that is not ours.
I have a Latino buddy who always says, “The best woman you can have, is the next one” 🤙🏻🤙🏻 You’re both spot on!
I'll be straight up honest, I would be a terrible role model for a kid. That's ONE of the reasons I won't date single moms. I don't want to raise someone else kid, nor do I want to be resented for not wanting to do so. Being a single man at 41 with no children is fucking awesome.
Ha, being 57 with no children is great 👍
37 single here with no kids. I like my freedom, money, and peace.
“We’re a package deal”
I always see the package. Never find the deal tho.
A no-deal lol.
I would never date a single mom with kids as you would always come second best. It's not fair to also expect us to bring up someone else's child.
Surely, it is a package. a package from unabomber or some kind a terrorist bomber.
Oh there's a deal alright. But it isn't a beneficial one for the guy.
@@RaderizDorret which meant this is not a deal. A deal is something worthwhile. It ain't when it isn't.
"Our bodies are a temple" yeah, a temple of doom.
@llriv lol
kali ma im sha bub kali maaaaa
@@Verifraudreports temple of doom reference?
@Memory Lane lol
Temple of disease
I have considered pursuing a few single moms in the past, what has always stopped me from doing so was the concern of the kids involved: if it doesn't work out, do I want to be another adult that failed and disappointed the kids? Would my values align with hers, or would there be so much clashing that it becomes a toxic environment/situation for the kids? My folks divorced when was 10 and remember to well how keenly I felt every conflict and stress between my parents and their later partners, even if I couldn't articulate it. I don't want to heap more misery on children, unintentional or not
Youre a better man that i am, i dont give a flying f for the kid. Smash n dash
I dated a single Mom was a nightmare.
Doesn't help her married baby daddy still wanted her. Among other crazy shit.
She once told me "she tries to be loyal" already a wrong answer. Glad I'm out. She tried to take advantage of me having money.
@@JBS2018 yup its they either are or they aren't no inbetween lol.
By the sound of it the woman is right: the kid is not baggage, she is
Ennou good point
Medically known that Women over 30 years old has a 90% chance of giving birth to an autistic child ! In less developed countries where women marry early and give birth early they do not have autism ! Women over 30 years old giving birth to an autistic child for her own benefit is evil ! Hypocrites !
@@disneytakeshugedix7463
Men & women are getting married late nowdays and so a lot of women having kids in their 30's.
Its not selfish.
If men had a uterus then we would be getting pregnant in our 40's.
@@streetninja23 just stating the facts...
@@streetninja23 Nah men would realize that our offspring would come out r e t @ r d e d if we got pregnant late and have children as early as possible. Men only have kids with older women because they give in to a woman's emotions. But logically it is a terrible idea to wait to have kids if you're a woman.
Single mom says "you are not man enough to raise my kids"....yep...you got me there...
Gary 65 😂😂😂😂 Comment of the night!
Yeah but I don't raise bastards....
I could be totally wrong here, but this pickup line does not seem to really work all that well.
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Tell her "I'm glad for that" 😂
These single moms are strong, independent women. They can have no problem raising kids on their own. They don't need to be saved... Perfect!
I am single dad and woman hate me, because I give all my time, energy and resources to my daughter instead of them.
Most Good Guys Here are -
NOT Paying FULL PRICE For a Used Car!
or a worn out car either.
I pay enough on my REAL Used vehicles...and get more use out of then they id get out of a used Vagina probably
Exactly !!!
high millage
SEXIST!
"How DARE you not Wanting to be my Slave?!".
Correction: "Dating a single woman is not for -weak- [smart] men."
"He clearly lacks experience in sensible responsibility."
-- _Single mom_
"More red flags than a Chinese army!"
To be fair, it’s not that hard looking at these women now a days, and that’s coming from someone who drove through a Chinese army camp recently
Interesting
“When you wear rose colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags”
that was a good one! I genuanely laught out loud!
chameleon shoo
The worst mistake of my entire life was getting involved with a woman who had kids. It was the worst experience of my life for many many reasons. Never do it. Never ever ever do it. Stay away. If she has kids, avoid her like she has the plague. Do not even sleep with her. You will regret it I promise you.
Can you please elaborate? All those stories help us.
Wow, that's heavy. You must have been traumatized.
I concur, from experience
I agree with u I have had the same experience with a single mum it's so true about this stay away from single mum
@@freddylopez5889
Basically oh, you have no control over the kids. Kids come first and the kids were allowed to misbehave and you can't do anything about it.
If you form an emotional attachment to the kids, you have no right. You can raise the kids from the age of two years old t o the age of 15 and then never see them again.
And the likelihood of second relationships failing is much higher than the likelihood of first relationships failing and women are more likely to end the relationship. So you basically giving yourself and over 50% chance that you're going to have your heart ripped out after a few years of misery.
And if she has kids by multiple men than you really need to watch out because she's going to cheat on you. I saw that happen with two friends during my life.
And it's very likely they will never love you for you as a person but only you as a provider for their financial needs. So they're much more likely to leave you if you fall on Hard Times.
If she was such a “great women” and a “great catch” then why did the other guy leave her with a kid?
That's all the evidence you need to know that she ain't worth shit.
The audacity to put their ass on the pedestal.
Every single mom dating profile: "my kids are my world and they come first!"
So true. I’m am so sick of reading it. They may as well write, “I breath air and I need food to live.” No shit. Tell us something else we don’t know.
Thats what redpilled me when dating a mom, she was first a mom and later my women, (and those are just the tip)
i guess its kida the deal but at least when that happens they are your kids
I’ve got no problem with it. It just seems stupid they ALL feel the need to mention it. I guess it’s good that at they’re honest about having kids.
Matt Pizzano I also cringe because I don’t read the words “my kids are my world”. I read “I am unwilling to recognize my relationship mistakes/poor choices because something great (kids) came out of it”. I love kids, I really do. But unless you specifically planned for their father to not be in the picture then something(s) went wrong and failing to examine that means a huge learning experience is lost.
@Matt Pizzano I mean they act like married women don't love their kids. Get out of here with that pretentiousness.
We're not looking for a new daddy. Translation: you will never be part of this family.
"It takes a strong man to settle with a single mother"... You know what else takes a strong man? Sawing your own leg off without screaming. For both cases, maybe you can, but you shouldn't.
Wow...that was deep!
@Paul nmn oh Dr. Laura, there's a blast from the past. I used to carpool with my dad. Every day he would listen to her radio show. So annoying, I wanted to rip the radio out and chuck it out the window. Honestly not sure what she has a doctorate in as she never said but made sure to say she wasn't a lawyer, nor a psychiatrist or mental health expert.
Yes sir! If I ever do consider dating a single mom, as much as she'd want me to know she's not looking for a new daddy; I'd want to know what actually happened TO DADDY!!!
You are just supplemental income and a baby sitter.
Remember men, if she's a single mother, she's untouchable. If she's in debt, she'll wreck your finances. She's only good for some casual fun. If she has a high body count, she won't be loyal. She's only good for a quick lay.
Don't give women more than they're worth. Women are strong and independent, so give her the space to be independent :)
10:53 "Oh I am so HOT right now". I had to pause video, cos I was laughing so hard. Brilliant, Joker!
I’m tired of playing games...said every child ever when they start losing badly.
Me, when sucking at Warzone 😂
@@ciprianwinerElectronicManiac 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Lol that's a great analogy I'll use it.
Golden haha
"We can't be swept off our feet" Not without heavy machinery, at least.
Street sweeper
Brutal, but great :)
Classic! Great comment.
We have hoisting lifts, it’s alright
@@KageNoTenshi You can't beat a good old fashioned block and tackle.
I have 2 friends, both dating moms. One has no children, the other does.
My friend that has no kids and is dating a mom, they have a nice place, they have a healthy relationship and they've been together for 2 years.
My friend who has a kid and is dating a mom lives in a trailer and is always fighting with her. He's sacrificed his hobbies, he's definitely not in charge of himself, he puts all his money into her bank account and calls me whining about all the time.
Prime example of truly finding real love and becoming a literal slave to a woman.
Red pill that guy asap.
He will thank you in the end.
Hands down the best video I’ve seen on TH-cam. Sat alone with my dog, laughing out loud watching this lol this did it for me. Joker, you’re one of my hero’s.
Single mom: "No hookups, I'm not an easy lay"
2 sentences later: "If I'm sleeping with you, it's probably to satisfy my own needs"
Soooooo, she NOT a worth while lay........
Satisfy? Head shoulders prevents that haha
Yeah say the women with 3 kids with 3 different dad, i am a hard lay 🤣🤣🤣. The funniest in that is they all want it now, you have to move in like 3 days after dating.
@@jakelowang4132 they just want your money losers they are
I knew that was a lie before the sentence was finished
My dad married a single mom. In that time he showed this women so much love and patience that it made me angry because he showed none of this for my mom. I grew to know her for 10 years. I grew up with her 11 month old child and I love him like a brother because.... he is my brother. For 8 years my family fought against his father who molested him for full custody. 8 YEARS!!! After my dad sold all his assets and blead tooth and nail to provide for his wife and provide freedom to a child that shared zero blood to him they won! Finally they could live a life were they could just be a family and it looked like it was going to be smooth sailing. But 2 weeks after the court case was done she ran away with her son. I haven't seen them since.... my brother calls me on messenger now sad that he is alone and legally we can't do anything and our heart aches. So remind me again on the advantages of marrying a single parent? I can't find one.
Dude, that's f**ked. Really not cool. I suppose your dad's gone off girls now?
@@kaydars I don't know he hasn't been talking about it much
@@delocknessmonster - he might still be processing it all. How long ago did she take off?
@@kaydars oh he definitely is. Its been about 2 months since this happened. Obviously I'd like to help him but all i can do is just be their with him. I've been staying with him helping build some stuff (we used to do construction projects when i was a kid) were building an expansion on my great aunts house.
Keep a close eye on ur dad, sometimes these situations convice people to opt out
Women act like they want men to take an interest in their children without any commitment.
Honey, if he takes an interest in your kid right of the bat; you may want to call the FBI.
Was listening on Reddit this guy married a single mom with a very sick daughter stepdad took care of her since 12 yrs old .he then donated his kidney the moment she is well she never call the stepdad anymore and told him she is disinvited him to her wedding as bio dad didn’t want him there. But still want him to pay for wedding
Unfortunately tons of stories like this
Fiction.
The broad that wrote that article is delusional. She is miserable because her attitude drives men away and she is trying to justify why she is alone.
You hit the nail on the head.
I think everyone that is hypersensible is like that, that's why they wouldn't let you be.
I was gonna say something similar but, you beat me to the punch. Well said.
Medically known that Women over 30 years old has a 90% chance of giving birth to an autistic child ! In less developed countries where women marry early and give birth early they do not have autism ! Women over 30 years old giving birth to an autistic child for her own benefit is evil ! Hypocrites !
I dated 2 single mothers back in the day. The Simping Days. Never again. There is always drama. The drama isn't always the kids or her- it's the baby daddy who feels territorial even though he's supposedly "Moved On". The worst part is that she entertains it because he's left an emotional imprint on this woman. She talks bad about him all the time but entertains his shenanigans. Like Patrice O'Neal used to say "Hate is Love to women"... I know dudes who've died because of the baby daddy. Don't do it fellas. Not worth it
I've heard stories where the baby daddy feels like he can just pop over anytime to the other man's house just because his kids live there. Ain't no way in the fuc*** world I would stand for something like that. He would be dead on arrival. That's why I can never play step daddy!
@MrHoppers002 Bruh that almost happened to me with the first one. Luckily I was smart enough to understand what was going on. I got out of there.
@@Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass Bruh! Don't do it. These Single moms are always going to bring drama and they act like they're doing you some morally monumental favour by being with you. As if them being moms will morally make you a better man 😂 I had one recently who's 38 and divorced with 2 kids and she was telling me how she can improve my life. I just laughed my head off and left
I dated a woman long time ago fresh divorced with her 3 kids and she lived together with her ex boyfriend too. Maximum trouble and she was crazy like a 12 year old special needs girl. Glad I did have escaped without great injuries. Mental or physical. A few weeks later her kids were taken away from her.
@@subzfit Lmao, facts.! They trying to get you to take care of them and another man's kids but talk like they some type of success story that can uplift you. Lmao. Their delusions is pure comedy!
If she has $2M ++ I’d CONSIDER it....No wait, she has to have a FT nanny, and be super hot TOO.
The tone of voice in reading this out loud ... i almost wet my pants 😂😂
Thanx for making my day, Joker.
The article should be titled
"9 reasons single moms are still single"
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Dude it was on 99 likes your 9 reasons why stay single. I fucked up and hit like. Now it’s 💯! I guess that means the Gods agree with you 😉
Underrated comment is underrated.
Its a TRAP with rotten Bait 🕷
Bitches be on tinder now showing off there baby bump from there pump and dump
When he was reading this article, I couldn't help but draw comparisons to weird fan-fictions online. The tone deafness is both hilarious and horrifying.
Lots of men want marry single mothers - homeless alcoholics and junkies.
Or illegal aliens seeking a green card.
^^^A thousand times this.^^^
The most dangerous man in the world is Mom’s boyfriend.
Or former prison inmates just getting out. Just look at the show, "Love After Lockup!"🚨 Lol 😄
Jacky Drywater 😂
I'm sharing this video absolutely everywhere. Joker, u explain this subject in the best possible way I couldn't even imagine. This is a message that everyone should understand.
Been here, she managed to empty my bank account, cheated on me with her ex, then somehow managed to blame me.