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It's not just the outside that's worrying men about dating, it's the inside.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ม.ค. 2021
- Deep dive on this one, had to trim 15 mins off just to get to 45 mins, a lot to say on this subject but I think it's important.
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We live in times when it is safer to meet girl in the red light district than in a caffe.
...and it will cost you alot less too=)
What does a house, kids, marriage and a divorce cost?
Ask the men that were once rich hehe...alot!
Legalize it!
I agree
You're not lying
Sad but true. A high body count like 80 lovers at age 16 (yes this happened to me in 1988 during the hiv / aids pandemic) is NOT normal. Bad parents? Bad choices? Don't know and don't care, not my problem. Single and happy 52yo.
We are headed to the worst possible combination of v for vendetta, idiotcrisy, 1984, animal farm, demolition man and walle.
With ticket printers all around you, no need for the three seashells.
And a sprinkling of 28 Days.
Maybe a bit of mad max and terminator
Don't forget to mention _Fahrenheit 451_ and _Brave New World_
Oh, and _Gattaca_
I'm a single Dad of 3 girls. 18,13 and 5. I teach them to value their chastity and morals. Men make way better single parents than a woman ever could.
Dr Warren Farrell proved exactly that in his research! Yet the courts STILL award majority custody to these crazy bitches that just mess up the next gen with their BPD pathology! Fucked up world man.
I believe you are in the minority in 2021, sir.....but good for you!
Only statistical fact you need quote to prove single mothers are utter failures as parents and in point of fact utterly incapable of raising children but especially male children
is the fact about 80% of men regardless of race ethnicity or religion in prison incarcerated for long term violent crimes were raised by single mothers.
Nothing more need be said.
Yes
$h!t! that means that your suffering well NEVER end🤣🤣🤣
Divorce rate is so high these days that growing up with parents still together is becoming a luxury.
oh yea i been fortunate. one thing my folks are realizing as they gotten older. the problems they faced through their journey as been the people they had in their lives. their relationship had their ups and downs but never divorced. they given up relating to people. im starting to see where my father is coming from when it comes to current society and how women represent themselves. im developing cynical outlook on people not as bad as my father. but getting there slowly. having a family unit is dying rare breed now
@@markstrong1328 There was a meme where a girl said that her grandma advised her and I quote as cheesy as it may sound, ''When you're fighting, it's not you vs your spouse. It's you and your spouse vs the problem." And the girl was like surprised. When I read this I was like, "no freaking wonder everyone is getting divorced". Because my parents knew that and even told me it's healthy when couples fight as long as it addresses the problem in the marriage not putting each other down. Women are just marrying for the tingles and feeling now, not because they see that they can stick with the person through thick and thin. That's why divorce happens when the honeymoon phase is gone, because people tend to start cheating. Truthfully, I think you should only marry someone that you see you can struggle forever with. You pick your poison.
@@KB-nt6bw the sad thing my ancestors werent perfect people. far from it. many were kids and very young when they got hitched. had alot of kids. but quite a few things that probably benefitted the marriage. both sides contributed to marriage. ive noticed from my expierence nowadays one side is expecting one side to to do more while the other does nothing but takes everything. my parents have gotten in arguments but it was toward handling the issue whether than saying how the other person started or who initiated it. basically yea a marriage doesnt have to be perfect but it has to built off of something to stablize it. if its based off what we see from people heavily now it will shatter quickly. i agree the honeymoon phase shouldnt be the only thing keeping the relationship going.
i do notice with some of my ancestors that got alot of them knew each other and their spouses family before getting married so it helped the relationship be smoother cause they knew each long before then. never will i see people make it to 50, 60 or 70 anniversaries ever again. had its time and is now gone.
I'm still living with my parents I'm 29 and no woman deserves my time.
The ones that are married are miserable
A man that can control the space between his ears is a dangerous man.
Stoicism is crucial.
Always better to think with the head on your shoulders and not the one in your pants.
Stoicism isnt a cure all. Live is to be lived, not passively observed.
@@cnote3598 Wtf makes you think we aren't living? I just had two pairs of $30 Angus fillet mignons the other day and it didn't even dent my budget.
Trust me, YOU aren't 'living' life because without stoicism to better oneself you can't afford it.
A man who can control the space between his balls is even more dangerous.
@@Sergeant_Fury accurate
"I am attracted to women but I don't like them"
Al to Bud: Son, don't try to understand women, women understand women, and they hate each other.
well said
Agree 100%
Sums up my whole life dilemma
The reality of "Two Solitudes".
How to become a millionaire: Start as a billionaire, then get married.
😂😂sad but true
LOL!!!
I think you meant - marry a millionaire and then divorce him.
That is what all the rich ladies did.
That's how it worked for Attorney Tom Girardi and his trophy stripper wife 35 years younger than him.
*takes notes * hmmmm
Typical profile is: ‘Other guys have had fun with me when I was young and beautiful, now I’m looking for someone for whom the boring left overs will seem like the prize.’
...that can take care of my problems and bagage, debts...bastard kids and my lack of self-worth =)
Sounds great - when do I start ??? Please fill in your resumé with blood.
There’s a reason that in historical times the father would pay a man to marry his daughter - it was called a dowry. This is also connected to the tradition of the father of the bride paying for the wedding.
Think about it. Men used to have to be bribed to get married.
When a woman had her period she was old enough. That was back when living until 50 meant you were basically ancient
In Africa it's the reverse: a man pays for his bride - in the old days with cattle, now cash ('lobola'). The family-elders convene and come to a price, based on her looks, education, if she's a virgin or not etc. And, of course, the means of the man. A guy can marry several women, which provides him 'status'. The King of Swaziland marries a virgin each year - he now has about 20 wives - 1 or 2 of them actually divorced him (unheard of, in the 'old days').
@@ibubezi7685 trade one cow for another
@Brad Mc True. In the west the bride brought household stuff (that she had saved for, for years) - but the rest of the world pays for the bride (I bet womenists deep down want that as well :-)). Nobility brought land (even countries), hence often 'strategic' marriages.
I wonder how it works in China, these days: massive womens-deficit (one-child policy), so now parents could ask top-dollar (as previously a daughter was thought to be 'worthless' - hence they were murdered at birth). Once Chinese guys discover RP, Joker's audience will explode (though enough simps will remain).
@@bully_hunter_4206 I joke with a friend of mine if I could pay her family in giraffe. She claims she will not accept a man paying for her - we will see: it's the family getting paid (they 'invested' in her), not she herself.
The best career advice that I learned is don’t ever attach your-self to a PERSON, a place, a company, an organization or a project. Only Attach your-self to your mission in life and your PURPOSE. That’s how you keep your power and keep your peace!
Amen, Free Agent Lifestyle
@@basileusandy9798 my guy! I see you be watching coach Greg adams! He’s the man! Salute bro! 🤜🤛💯
Absolutely. Hoping that a person would not disappoint you is just made for dreams. P-sleeve ain't all that.
Purpose is far more important without reliance on others. Monkey double backflips on occasion. Salute! 🙏🏼
Thank you
@Living A Life Of Abundance / thank you for your advice!
Modest is hottest. I’m embarrassed for modern single women. Seriously
Ooo, I like this motto.
Hey Jeff, I'm curious about the shirt in your picture. I've seen that in a few places and I'm wondering what it means. (I know it's the arabic letter n, but I don't know why I've seen people put it on their profiles)
"Modest is hottest." For a woman's attitude modest is hottest, but as for beauty it needs to be hottest not modest. :):):)
@Growler Bear For any woman that is average looking (number 5), but act like they are a 10, then it would not work on high quality men with refine taste for women. These types of men would just ignore them. There are two reasons why these average women behave this way. 1) Desperate, beta male SIMP are giving them attention hoping to hit on them. 2) Good looking guy hit and quit on them just to get some action instead of just sitting around and getting bored.
I have seen slim, average looking guy having a fat, unattractive or average looking girlfriend. It does happens. That just life.
Dang, that's a good line.
As a male, when you live and work in an environment where even a comment can get you fired from your job, of course you are going to pull away from women. And I'm not talking about a crude sexual comment that would be offensive to most anyone's standard. I'm talking about mild comments not meant to be offensive. Women are in complete control of what is and what is not offensive. And then they wonder why they can't find any "good" men.
The modern women have figuratively shot themselves in the foot. Being a traditional minded woman , I shake my head at their reactive personalities and how they take offensive to every comment from men that was meant to be benign or a compliment and they report them. I agree with you men for avoiding conversations with them.
I guess youtube -with their censorship- is headed that direction, in a way, also. Eventually there will only be crazy on youtube, and it will be such a problem for google that they have to shut it down. First though, they'll blame the free speech channels [ if there still are any] for somehow causing people to leave after censoring them, claiming they should not have been offended or concerned because it was for their own good.
@@meganluck4352 Is it possible to find woman like you Megan elsewhere in the world? I'm too far away to date you.
Just commenting on her (looking good today) can get you into hot water. How the HECK are we supposes to date?
@@meganluck4352 99
When women think “ being a nice guy” is a problem...well...I’m speechless.
Nice guys finish last. The rest finish on her face.
Ive had girls of woman age that get mad because I don't get mad🤯
@@mryoung-lane2227 yup. I've seen enough of that.
you must be super young or something. this is obvious even in highschool.....
@@mryoung-lane2227 I know exactly what you mean.
My most recent romantic excursion swiftly ended when she told me about her issues with bipolar, her opioid addiction, and then said "maybe we can give it a shot?"
Needless to say no shot was given
That's basically a red flag parade right there!
Run, Forrest, run!
Wow, you have to count on probability, when you count on that example you gave you probably get a 100% risk for getting abused, and get your life totally screewed in a way you never can be the same after as you was before.
You've escaped a lifetime of misery and abuse.
You're lucky she was up front about such stuff. Women rarely are. As the late Patrice O'Neal once explained, his is why you start them off in the mail room, not the CEO's office.
Why don't i date?
its a losing game.
NOTHING is ever good enough for MOST women
listen to Amy Winehouse ..Love is a losing game
ALL*
The only way to win is to not play
One sleazy fella that capped me in the head for platinum chip or something said... "The game was rigged from the start"
SPOT ON BROTHER
Saw a girl crying in a parking lot this morning. Thanks to Joker and the red pill I quickly realized the emotional scam. She was out of her car in winter looking around trying to get attention. I passed right by.
Thanks Joker my friend!
Good move. Had you engaged her she probably would have said "go away creep" a lot of girls like to set guys up to knock them down for both the attention and the power of control they have in those circumstances. happened to me dozens of times over the years and I've witnessed it happen to other guys even more. Worst is when a girl hits on you at a bar and you think you have something going on, then another guy walks in 10 mins later who turns out to be her boyfriend and she runs off with him giving you a last smugly teasing smile. They really cant survive on their own for a few mins while waiting for their date to arrive. So they have to selfishly waste other guys time. I'm fine bullshitting with a girl for a few mins, just wish they'd be honest up front and say they're waiting for their date instead of flirting with me wasting my time
at present i would give my ear to a homeless man than that thing
@@Bennysol A bar is where people go to conduct their sinful behavior against the Lord. If you want to avoid problem with women don't go there. If you don't want to be manipulated by women, then don't go there.
@@rangiroa100 What sinful behavior happens in a bar? Bars are pretty boring places.
@@rangiroa100 "A person getting drunk. This is a sin"
Wrong! Where does it say in the bible that drunkenness is a sin? Jesus got a whole wedding party drunk on free wine.
The rest of your list happens in equal amount in _any environment._ You don't need to be in a bar for 1) to happen. It happens anywhere--even when alone.
There are far more obese overeaters than there are drunkards, too.
I'd say it's a sin for you to lecture anyone about how to conduct themselves.
A man can be happy within his own mind...I don’t know a single woman who could do the same..
crazy cat ladies can do...
@@viz12345 there’s gonna be a lot of cars being saved lol
Creatives can. In fact solitude is a need. (and cats are getting a bad rap here.. They're actually hilarious pets). 😊
I know a few. But that's it.
@@MrBiscuits2 .....A few cats or animals are fine. But when it turns into 50............
Someone ever asks me why I don't date or have a gf I just say "I'm sparing women from having to deal with me."
Can always work on making yourself feel more worth the investment. If you can
bruh :(
I tell them i have 4 sisters.... enough estrogen in my life and i don't need to deliberately add any more
I just say, "what do I need one of those for?"
"what value could a modern women offer me?" Always get some condescending statement that I am gay or insecure.
For anyone who says "It's not all women", work in hospitality or retail for a while and then say that again with a straight face...
Are you thinking of a specific kind of retail?
I haven't worked either one but I don't need work experience when I have life experience that taught me the same thing.
Can confirm.
I can't believe how many women (married and single) I know advertise being depressed and psychotic on FaceBook. And the thing is, when I'm around them they seem mostly OK, but then I see their posts and I think, "What the heck is wrong with you?!" Maybe some of them are just good at turning it off when they're in public, but I can't help but think they see it as cool to be "broken." Whether it's real or an act, it's all pretty pathetic.
@@ressljs Perfectly willing to sacrifice long-term social stability for short-term emotional support.
Girl: "I'm looking for a man to pay all my bills."
Me: "I'm sorry I don't date children."
Ouf that's a lot of damage 😂
But we can repair it with flex tape
-Phil Swift
“Fatality, flawless victory” 🤣
Boom! Headshot!
@@oscaraurelio8869 MOM GET THE CAMERA !!!
Alot of my red pill knowledge came from being raised by a broken, solipsistic, alcoholic single mother. Talk about a crash course in female nature. I loved my mother very much, but in reality the roles of parent and child were reversed.
You are defining all present VVomen.
Dam dude.....I'm srry to hear it......I had no Idea that u grew up like that......that's rough ...
Press f to pay respects
Damn... I had a similar one. She was married but he was always gone all week for work, so it was like having a single mother who had her bills footed by someone. Total control freak (So much so, that despite having a car in high school, wouldn't sign off on me getting my license), yet I did everything in the house while she bitched incessantly about how hard it was to be a stay at home wife/mother.
Her obsession being to just constantly knock me down and gaslight me, while doing the whole isolation thing abusive people do. Where they get everyone they know to hate you by telling them lies and try to convince you that everyone they know can't help you... Because they all hate you.
Then, when I began hitting puberty and starting to resemble my father (Her first husband), that's when the abuse REALLY began to ramp up. It's almost as though she was attacking him through me, or some sick shit like that.
@@AnthonySforza Bro, I feel ya. That sucks. Just gotta take that pain and let it forge you into a better man.
I was called boring by someone I was seeing because my mood wasn't jumping up and down during a party. It takes time for me to warm up to new people but by the end of the night I had made good friends with the host. I thought maybe I was broken but then realized it was them who was unstable.
Imagine being berated for not drinking as much as other partygoers and called "too sober to be having fun"
you dodged the bullet.
It all good you don't have to be control by others to have a good time.
Myself, I look over the place before I even start drinking to know my way out, just in case something shady would happen to go down. So I'm 2-3 drinks behind my partiers but still able to drive if I had to at the drop of a dim and anything feels fishy, or I get the itch I'm out, and my bros will follow no matter what the chick looks like. It better to be safe then sorry.
@@DJ-jn9ut Yes, very important to be alert to your surroundings and what is going on. I don't drink alcohol but I still am always watching what is going on when I am out and about because sketchy behavior happens a lot these days.
...awh, were you not having fun like the other kids and jumping up and down like an idiot for no reason?
Maybe that is because you are a mature adult? Spend your time on better things than hanging out with losers, they will only drag you down with them - that is what losers do.
I've been in a few relationships, and married twice. Unlike 80% plus of divorce cases I filed and demanded the divorces.. in both cases because being in relationships with them was a DETRIMENT to my mental health. I've asked many of my male friends "If it wasn't for sex would you even deal with women?" Most respond NO. One of my friends has a great joke:
"Why did God give women vaginas? Because no one would talk to them otherwise"🤣🤣🤣
lol, thats a good one
Lol. Very funny
Wow, you're such a catch.
I saw this 30 yrs. ago, and by 46 I quit dating, now 66 don't miss it, too busy doing other things, after 30 all I found were nut jobs and losers, truly disappointing
As someone told me: If they didn't have a V, there would be a bounty on wmn!
And This is why I don't date anymore. I'd rather just suffer the pain of being alone than keep dealing with this stupid BS.
get a dog or a type of pet, no more pain
@@thahirshibu5042 huh, last big pain in my life was a dying pet 😉 but ya they are cool.
I’m old enough to remember when a fella had to go to the seedy side of town, to find women this broken.
Well, fuck. Now the whole town is seedy.
You were lucky to live at least part of your life in those times.
Saves on fuel I guess
Seeds eventually germinate and spread-out.
Now you can go next door, they are all over the place.
It scares me how so many women today can be so emotionally unavailable and yet so unreasonably demanding at the same time.
They think they are queens and we are serfs and that we are lucky just to be allowed near them. They are severely conceited.
Called Furry Hole
@@crabbubbles1161 this is the result of western civilization creating a culture where women are princesses when they are little.
so true, and it's getting worse
The gravity of a black hole is so strong that not even particles of light can escape it. Yet there it resides so independently strong and alone in the cosmic darkness of our cosmos. No matter how many nearby stars, planets and even galaxies it engulfs, by nature it will never be satiated. Now for a moment, imagine having this power between your legs. That's what it's like being a woman
I have no stress in my life now , I can do whatever I want , wake up in a morning come down the stairs don't need to walk on egg shells , arguments have gone so has the chaos , I can actually savor life and it's lovely
I can wake up happy every morning and actually look forward to life regardless of what it brings..
Isn't it? I sleep until afternoon - eat what I want when I want, exercise, talk with a friend, watch porn, play games, read...watch a movie when I eat - if I see something I like or want I can buy it - this is living.
When you are with a woman you are just enduring...but you're not living, is the vagina really worth it? not even close
A friend of mine went out on a date. On arrival he noticed that she was accompanied by another female who happened to be her Social Worker.
Oh fuck!!🤣
Marathon man out of there 🏃♂️
I don't date anymore because it's a big nothing burger. It's basically the same as hanging out with friends. But the difference is that your friends are there for you, dating doesn't.
This just in... Dr. Dre is paying millions in spousal support. He elevated a nobody and that nobody is now making millions off of his work.
He was hospitalized recently for a brain aneurysm. I wonder if there is a link between that and his divorce.
he didnt learn at all from his past with women. he married someone that was once married to a basketball player. she broke it off with him and now she broke it off with dre. basically allowed himself to be used. what a dummie
That is a crying shame. such a gold digger. To bad he didn't know that before he got involved.
@@markstrong1328 pay as you go is better
Swap "making" with "receiving unearned" and you'll have it.
"Hold down a J.O.B., and don't be a psycho"...Isn't THAT what MOST guys want in a relationship.
Most guys want:
1. A hot woman
2. A LOYAL woman
3. A non-psycho woman
Yup, could care less about a job or career, I just want a woman who has respect for the qualities which men bring to the table, and who I find attractive.
`Dealing with women is playing hopscotch on a minefield.
Swimming with sharks wearing a wetsuit made of Bacon.
I just wont play.
My first smile of the day 😛
Mind the bouncing betties
With the mines randomly moving
The only time a woman is harmless is when her nail polish is drying. Other than that - watch out!
Remember the movie "Holes"? The wardens nail polish was poisonous while it was wet......
@@thelonelongma5603 Stanley Yelnats was the name of the boy (main character), i remember reading the book and watching the movie :)
They all have fake nails today. Avoid.
Wrong! I took a lamp to the face while her nails were drying.
@@theguyonthecouch6109 There always has to be an exception.
I learned the hard way you're not responsible for someone else's happiness. Was making myself miserable staying with my ex who had mental health issues... I tried to end it numerous times but she wouldn't let me and actually used her mental health issues to guilt trip me to stay with her.
Been there..found out what Manic depression was the hard way.
A life long friend of mine that’s female was upset I invest in the stock market. She says that’s gambling. She doesn’t know my house and car are paid off I semi retired at 49... she was furious when I told her with research you can find a good stock like apple and hold it for years. Marriage is a gamble those only succeed 50 percent of the time. There is no reason for a man to get married.
Every women is upset when they discover men who invest their money in anything other than a woman. For them it's "wasting ressources"
Well definitely not with the options out there these days. The mentally healthy non- addict, morally grounded and modest minded woman is hard to find these days.
@@meganluck4352 Well, the fundamental issue is even the ''morally grounded" vvoman is just one tick away from Berserk. As long as no-fault divorce, massive financial incentives for vvomen and ''retroactive consent withdrawal" will exists, marriage, and even relationships will stay liabilities for men. And yet even the most hardcore "muh equality" feminist still expect men to to step up, and do their "proposal"
Im just done in general at this point lol. Just leave me alone.
Right on. I agree 100%.
Who won’t leave you alone?
@@SuperSymbiote1 Apparently you, for one.
@@neilpeartspurplenose8739 lol
@@SuperSymbiote1 By leave me alone he means he just wants to live peacefully
One thing I always say to my fellow guys when they get whipped: "You don't have her for years, or life. It's just your turn. And when she gets bored with you, you'll be tossed out like a trash bag with just as much care."
Right On! Your a paper towel.
Not anymore, those days of marriages lasting 40 to 60 years is over. Once the ride isn't exciting enough, she'll leap off to get on someone else's ride. Enjoy the ride, it won't last forever, and if it does last, 9 times outta 10, you will both be miserable.
@@jugguknoxxunorthodox2365 Correct, Sir!!
Damn, bad experiences ..... ah?
@@missbelle_elle Yea, mathematically the numbers are not in our favor. Reminds me of the Plains of the Serengeti. I think most people are only one slight level above the animal kingdom. :)
I do not fear them, I simply have no patience with them.
And thus I avoid them because my time is better spent on me.
The best thing for men nowadays, is to stack their cash put themselves first , health , wealth and truly not give a fuck
Shit dude, you just listed my modus operandi. Way better than being in a relationship.
Yes!
Aaaaaall the way, brother.
I agree, I use to chase women not no more.. In the end it’s just a heart ache
I don't date because I would expect them to be accountable for their actions, live with integrity, and treat me with kindness.
Good luck with that 👍
We are so foolish.
A pipe dream at best.......sadly!
Id just expect to get bj's every day. Manage your expectations bruh
@@theguyonthecouch6109 like I said I don't date lol.
And yet they still wonder why dating and marriage is dying, and again, MeToo added to this.
That was the plan.
I see simps wifeing up nasty land whales everyday.
@@moonlambo5229 LOL! Touche'.
"I love this video because it made me think that maybe I'm not the problem"... I was your typical loser growing up, I didn't have any girl friends at all and thought there was something wrong with me. Until I met my future wife, I was shocked that a women even liked me. I spent all my money on her, lost all my friends and most of my best years of my life. "You all know where this is going" After being with her for 10years, I found out that she stole most of my savings, banged tons of guys/ girls and was generally a horrible human. I was so embarrassed to be so dumb and blind. We have scents divorced and my life is back on track. - Maybe I was not the problem- ty for the great vid.
What does divorce smell like?
Recrimination and regret
I listen to this channel to hear about all the mistakes I’ve made in my life over the last 40 years.
If your mom is competing with you, she's not your mom.
Then every mom isn't any girls mom
Moms compete with sons.....imagine that...smh. the distain of nurturing something that is superior to them
Exactly
"mom" is just a word, but it takes a real woman to live up to that word.
The Social Media Abstinence Test is the fastest method for weeding out potential kooks from your serious dating pool. If she can't even conceive of the notion of giving up social media just to get married and sees the very notion as somehow abhorrent, intolerable, controlling, evil, irrational, or totally unrealistic to everyday life, she's a non-starter. You're welcome.
Faster test.
Has V? Then she's a non starter.
People to avoid: those who finish their comment with "you're welcome". It's a creepy form of self-centredness.
@Carmen L. LOL and what do you think every shit test from a woman is?
I suggested this to my ex before i was aware of female nature. She would always complain about social media i suggested why not
leave it all together? She called me controlling,
manipulative, cried abruptly, told me her friends said i don’t know what i’m talking about. Had me questioning my own morals and values. Never again.
For me if I get one, I take them to a place with a great view. Then be silent. To take in the view. This is great because most women, let alone most humans, lack the inner peace to be quiet for long periods.
Usually after 30 seconds to a minute she has to talk or go for her phone.
I'm out at that point. If you can't even appreciate a good view for a few minutes without getting impatient or pissy then i'm out
They always say 'You can't live with them, you can't live without them' Guess what, I can live without them.
Nah, not really. One of them pushed you out of your body after giving you life support for 9 months and then she dealt with you for many years. So no, you can't live without them.
@@ljss6805 That one of them is not one with a bitchy behaviour.
@@ljss6805 not living with you thats for certain.
@@erkidenknight What are you talking about? Your probably still living with your mom at 47
At this bar I know, there are often groups of girls in their 40ies crying over being single after years of choosing "bad boys".
Hahaha
It's not that I'm scared of woman personally. I Just not going to put myself in a situation that ends up with me dating, marrying or flirting with them. it might put me in a bad situation that I never caused, and put my mind in a bad place. U can say that I'm actually protecting my well being from woman. Only time I talk to them when its strictly business.
dumb
Was thinking dum? .... You mean dumb.... Ooohhhh the irony
@@2learneasy Yes, this post is quite ironic - obviously, as since it was meant to be a correction, but the presentation leaves a lot to be desired; specifically as someone purporting as an authority in English.
GOOD MAN. STAND YOUR GROUND. DO NOT GIVE ONE INCH.
@@dimitrimxv6402 dee dums?
Don't invest in depreciating assets. If it drives, flies, floats or fucks, lease it.
My 2004 volvo just hit 200k I think it can get to 300k.
If it's got tits or tires its trouble.
@@merkleyperformance dont forget a title
@@Joe-xp8rb I know you can, I believe in you and the toy. 👍
👍🏽
I am scared of getting my heart broken again by women. I have been a 3rd wheel 5 times now. So I created a complex system to test women on their loyalties where I pretend to be weak to see if they will become control freaks, tell them my "weaknesses", play it off like I am scared when they use them against me, see how far they take it hoping they don't go all the way(Crossing my fingers behind my back the whole time) before cutting any potential ties we could of had relationship wise when they do go all the way.
If a woman takes advantage of my "weak side", how am I supposed to give her my strong side? I am giving them all of me. To be honest, I am only afraid of three things, Earthquakes, discovering I am a 3rd wheel, and heights, other than that, I am fearless.
I am a Alpha male pretending to be a Beta Male. I am like a King pretending to be a peasant to find out if my queen is all she says she is before engaging with her as my Queen to be.
you are a king
nuff said
Your method is a lot of work though.
I just act myself and give 'em enough rope. Then I just drift away from the idiots. Now I have a good one, I am saved from the BS, but I had to venture far away
hehe that's been my strategy too. I find most of them bail out when it seems you're sad, ill or injured etc.
Yeah, please stay single with that kind of bad faith manipulation. I cringe to think what you would teach your children.
*we could of had relationship wise
We could HAVE had (not of).
I’ve truly grown tired of people everywhere making this elementary school mistake.
I was propositioned twice..and both times it was to humiliate me
I was propositioned one time and she was an older single mother with multiple kids from different baby daddies. I guess I was supposed to be her next pay pig.
Remember kids the wisdom of the Crazy Hot Matrix, passed down generations.
Never date a redhead hairdresser named Tiffany.
Mine was a redheaded server named devin
A lot of it is due to Agenda 21. If you build an electromagnet foot bath, you will be surprised how much metal is inside you causing all sorts of mental problems and dysfunctions. Not to mention how 8 oranges today is the equivalent of 1 orange 100 years ago when it comes to essential amino acids and other nutrients that keep people motivated and happy.
@@jhonatancock2302 or Ron Swanson's ex Tammy.
Disagreed. The hot crazy scale justifies dating crazy chicks if they are hot enough. How about just don’t date crazy at all.
Joker gives me advice like the father I never had.
feminism is creating more spinsters than ever, good luck to them lol
If I was single, at this point in time, I'd just get another dog and spend more time fishing. I have buddies in the dating scene still late 20s/early 30s and it sounds like a total fucking nightmare.
Dark days are ahead. Leave women on their own in the struggle and the chaos that lies ahead
Men need very little to survive and be happy. All of society is built for women on the backs of men. The worse the world gets the more women will suffer for their actions .
I love to remind them that "independent" means alone.
At least a lot of cats will be saved lol
@@flemutter7211 This is the most honest statement. They're sleepwalking, blissfully unaware of what's about to happen because they believe they're strong, and resourceful.
It's about to be very interesting soon.
Soon enough, they will collectively help themselves with our income or savings.
Male tax.
Subsidies for females.
I know this beautiful woman 26, tall, hourglass shaped, has a career, we had a lot in common and got along well but she has severe depression and anxiety. Her condition made things impossible. And you're right you can't fix people, they have to fix themselves and it's better to just let them go. I continue to remain single.
I would have taken the bullet though. I am such a simp
@@joshua50101 Taken the bullet like got into a long term relationship or simply have something short term? Because I did sleep with her and we had fun but her instability stressed me out and I could see things not going anywhere and her losing interest. I've been there before with other women and I hate getting attached only to be disappointed.
Good choice
Mom was bi polar and I married a bi polar. Don’t be like me, Captain SaveaHoe. Doesn’t work.
Back in my early to mid twenties, I realized quickly how important it was for men to have high standards. Don't just date any woman who shows interest in you. Be smart. Be selective.Have high standards.
Cell phones and social media is the reason that society is on a spiral downward. As soon as the technology evolved society devolved and we’re watching it going down in fast forward.
The first dating profile has no periods, because she's hit menopause.
Menopause causes women to stop having periods, in their sentences.
Can we have a round of men applause, for menopause?
Classic!
😂😂😂😂😂
To paraphrase, women find it hard to pair bond after riding the train, can only get really excited by alphas, and then when they're all worn out in their forties expect to find a tall handsome man with deep pockets to raise a family with.
Good luck with that.
@Libturds Suck awww that is disgusting I almost lost my appetite
@Libturds Suck yes it is
4 years of being single my savings have tripled, You save a fortune staying single ! And also I'm happy !
"The president has been removed form most forms of social media..." "When you tear out a man's tongue, you are not proving him a liar; you're only telling the world that you fear what he might say."
-Tyrion Lannister - Game of Thrones
They also don't want you to know that the results were forced and artificial.
@@TheJeremyKentBGross They also don't want him to stir people up to storm a federal building. Oh!!!! They did storm a federal building.
So true and Tyrion lannister rocks!!
@@TheJeremyKentBGross Bruh be real
...yea and? why would he care? I think he got better things to do than being on facebook 6h/day hehe.
When you are a successful man, with a family, and your own business, and assignments...I don't think you give a fuck hehe. Children....get on his level, and then talk honey
I saw a beautiful woman at work today walking down the hall wearing a nice flowing summer style dress (in winter? nice), nice cleavage showing, hair, the works. I felt compelled to tell her how beautiful she looked because she was stunning even from far off. I said nothing and avoided looking at her as she got closer because it isn't worth risking an HR incident.
@Tim v H To be honest I'm on the fence which, judging by women's unrealistic standards, probably means she would see me as a creep.
Never compliment or validate a woman, once you have then she has no more use for you.
Even if you arent no "creep", what do you gain in doing so? That is the real question you should ask yourself.
Bro you have to stop doing that, seriously, don't give then free attention it's not the 70s anymore.
You did the right thing, however it hurts inside not to be friendly. Sexual harassment is a real career killer.
My uncle told me when I was a kid. "Don't marry a woman cause you want to rescue her." What he was talking about is pretty much what I think you listed as a number one. Due to the fact my aunt is a real peice of work.
My ant is a pyscho piece of shit; she cannot handle reality of truth when spoken to her face. She came unglued two days ago; told my mother (her sister) 1 she needs to keep her nose out of other people's business; 2) If she talks shit on facebook she may get some shit back to her (do NOT be surprised) 3) She needs to consider more counseling or a change in her medications. She has been medicated for i don't know how many years. I made the direct comment on facebook a couple of times; (directed right at her without using her name) If you are an obese sedentary smoker then i do NOT accept health advice from you. The nerve of an obese sedantary smoker trying to give a normal healthy person advice on well being (while on head medications of course?) Delusional 3.0 In fact her loser daughter had to move back in with her. The crazy aunt i snot happy; of course her daughter had a child out of wedlock; i do NOT think her daughter & boyfriend were even a couple when the child was born. They cannot keep shit straight for even 9 months to have a baby. Crazy aunt granddaughter gets tossed back & forth from mother to father like swing set. On one hand the father has daughter half the time. On the other hand the daughter (crazy aunt granddaughter) is not well mentally due to the whole family being batshit silly; Can you imagine ? Crazy aunt daughter has had more jobs than oil change on the car
Damn, I find vulnerable females to be my weakness, I just realized that a few weeks ago, I have been trying to put distance from all women since then, at least until I can figure out how to shut down that instinct to protect and resolve their problems, they have too many nowadays, and they just don't appreciate what you do for them, in the end, you will always be judged for everything but all the good and the growth you provided her with...
"Rescue a damsel in distress, and what do you get? A distressed damsel."
-Dr. Laura Schlesinger
My aunt cheated on my uncle who was dying from cancer.. we had a “cancer free party” cause we thought he beat it, but later that night, my aunt let some dude fuck her and nothing happened to her, he later died month later
1 in 4 females are under medication and the other 3 are running around without...
When I was a teenager in the early 2000s I met a lot if girls and had a lot of fun. But I also learned a lot about females, believe me when I tell you this, there is not much difference between a 16 year old teen than a 36 year old women. A lot of these girls had boyfriends, some would tell me some would lie to me and I would find out later, I even got stabbed once because of it. This was almost 20 years ago, the way I see it it waaay worse now. They have social media and dating apps, the influences of people like the Kardashians and all these other celebrities. Believe me guys, no matter how good looking you are, how much money or how big your package is, some if these females are still gonna do it. The better looking they are, the more problems and stress they'll bring, and the more you try to keep her in check the more she'll do it, they're like kids. Like I said I learned all this as a teenager, I was already a dad and had 2 abortions by the age of 19.
As of now, I just went through the best years if my life, and guess what the last time I had sex was like 4 years ago, I do not want anything to do with them, I find them disgusting and repulsive, I will not give them my time and money or energy. A lot of you need to stop making women your #1 priority, wether it's un a relationship or just to smash, focus on your self, your goals, your time. Listen and study Slick Rick's verse on Art of story telling.
@949OC714 you can get sex in Vegas for $600 and there’s no attachment afterwards
I learned that girls weren’t worth bothering with at around the age of 7, thanks to a girl I was friends with at the time - that was in the mid 70s.
I've read a few stories about promiscuous women, and it's strange what their views on sex are. They honestly think that they're victims because the men they chose to sleep with didn't love them. It just floors me because they obviously don't love the men they're sleeping with, and the situation is by definition: loveless. I think they don't see the contradiction because their idea of love is being loved, and it just never occurred to them that love is supposed to be mutual. In fact, that's the best part of love- the feeling of loving being around the person you're with. I've never experienced romantic love before, but I understand what love in general is supposed to be about- and I know that one-sided love either giving or receiving is inherently joyless.
Totally agreed brother, and I am in the same situation
Both of you are sadly blue-pilled. No woman will ever love you the way you love them. That's their nature, due to evolution. It has always been that way, and it won't change. The only people women feel that form of love for is their children.
For a man (well, me at least) love means respect and acceptance. I think for wamoan it’s gimme gimme gimme only. It’s a material world (Madonna)
Don't worry about never experiencing romantic love. It's not all it's cracked up to be. The old saying "it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" is one of the most ridiculous statements ever made. There's nothing good about having your heart ripped out. Don't waste your time on romance or relationships. Focus on building a good life for yourself. You'll be much happier.
It's ok to be scared of being around someone who is unsafe to be around. Hopefully that fear will make you stay away from them. Self-respect, etc.
That is when that fear turns to wisdom. The fear is gone.
Recently had a woman try and set me up with her friend. Found out she is divorced with 5 kids, no job, and rents a room from her ex husband in his house. Space Ghost 👻
damn. lol you were like naw im single and good. runs the other way lol
Tell your friend "OK", pump & dump, when you leave, say "Hi" to the kids, and "Bye & thanks" to ex husband.....
That guy with the T shirt, he didn't lose his mancard. He never had one to begin with.
The biggest issue I’ve experienced with many women is the friendzone. But they friend zone the guys who would be a great relationship then turn around and complain how their “bad boys” cheated on them. That’s mostly what I’ve seen and experienced. Or expecting all men to be the first one to speak to them. But as a man it’s difficult to start a conversation while worrying about egg shells... Not all women are like that obviously but it’s extremely common.
That's why I don't feel bad for chicks that get dumped on....
I watched, “The Social Dilemma,” and it explained a lot of what’s happening today.
When Social Network developers won’t let their families on social media, you know there’s a problem.
I also think when we started medicating our kids for everything kids do had something to do with it.
This is the first generation who had both in full-force all grown up.
If I ever told my parents, “I deserve....” they’d tell me, “No one deserves anything. You have to go out and work for it.”
My Father would sarcastically laugh his ass off and my mother would give me 'the glare'. Followed by. "Are you sure you want to repeat that? Cause we might have a bill to settle with you too." (I'm Dutch)
@@djokealtena1313 Parent Level: Legend.
Correct you are
No one in America deserves ANYTHING except
Life
Liberty and
The PERSUIT of happiness
Which means my little spoiled rotten snowflake Gen-Xers it's up to YOU to bust azz and go out and EARN your OWN way and EARN being happy and successful
Nobody owes you or anyone else for that matter Jack f-ing chit.
Been teaching my two boys from 1st grade on its 100% up to them to be a success or a abysmal failure nobody owes you nothing
I'll but my azz raising you right and giving you the skills and education to be successful but you and only you can make yourselves successful
I keep telling people that these girls today are effin nuts.
When I was dating my wife, i had no idea she was seasonally depressed. We're still together, but I've never drank more. Be very careful those of you whom date.
Had a girl tell me online that they love to be approached still nowadays.
After I told her I’m scared of women, she left
@Casey DamienJoseph you may want to check the backwards message.
should've asked online how a man can approach a woman without appearing threatening to her, the comments would be ignorant and gold to read
lol
@Casey DamienJoseph Neo died and failed because of a woman. He chosed trinity over the best solution that the architect offered.
@Casey DamienJoseph It can, yes, but since you don't have a comma, and every preceding word is properly spelled when reversing the changes, it's safe to assume you meant 'one' not 'Neo'.
Obviously, this doesn't discredit the fact that Neo is, in fact, an anagram, as confirmed by the 'bros', but in this situation, that's not it.
I don't think he (nor do I) had any bad intentions.
Edit: Hah, actually, "ouy' also needs to be fixed. Maybe that's what he meant. Damn, what a mess I'm making.
My favorite quote is "It's a woman's privilege not to make sense".
@@rexkramer9540 yet, government may find a way to fuck us over...
Or, it's a womans privilege to not make (earn)a cent.
Jesus H. Christ I am SO glad I am single and not dating, holy moly.
Their standards don't really change, only the language does. "Hold down a job and don't be a Psycho" ... Let's me translate this "woman-speak" to normal language: "Psycho" means: Not a tall man, not really all that good looking, doesn't have a nice car.
If anything has taught me this past year I'm very grateful to be a bachelor, monk mode and truly know the red pill
I find relationships to be worthless , as much as it would be "great" I know she will never do for me what I would do for her ... its the truth.
Just need to find one you can put zero effort into. Put in what you can get out.
For me, I got burned big time. It went to court and I was treated as a second class citizen. Spent around $5,000 and who knows how much in child support over the years and slowly crawled into the equal zone. Dating since then you already know how it is. The play hard to get game while they’re chasing chad, now they say where are the good men etc. Nah I’m good.
Thirteen years ago started dating my now wife, she had some mental health issues I thought I could fix. Two kids later and married for nine years she is just slightly better. Joker is right every day is rushing roulette of moods wing and depression. It is draining, it's to the point I feel depressed.
I married a narc. Had Daughter an son. After 15 years together she dumped me with divorce sue and RO. She got a relation an cheated before discard. She blame me for all and did smear campaing so i couldnt get revenge over her or her filthy stupid boyfriend. I loose her love(if she had something) my kids cause she got custody, my family goals n dreams , my savings, almost loosing myself in the process. She is now like a robot from hell cause she seems to slide all the matter like it was nothing, she s another person, she practically DIED.
*rushing roulette? What??? No that’s not correct
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Its not that I worry about dating, its that women have nothing to offer other than sex or conversation. If I want good company with a woman I can just phone a long term friend.
I don’t know about the conversation thing... most of them have no interests/hobbies other than shopping.
I am 65 and widowed and could not be bothered trying to make conversation any more. Why ?
Regardless your Focus should be finding good friends. Trust me, with how unstable relations are, it will pay off more Long term. And yes, women just are usually not as fun, a lot expect you to bring that fun, however you can probably talk to her about other stuff.
I have met a filipina that i fit with, but mind you this came in my mid 30s, and no, not all filipinas are great, but probably you have bigger chance if you are attracted to them to find something stable, since they come from a bit different society and their expectations are different. I found it very hard to find that in my western country. But you are expected to lead with filipinas, and be very serious if you let it go on a year or so. Casual dating isnt a big thing from what i understand, there. Theres plenty of other issues that may come from bringing her to the west, but i havent had problems since she has mostly other filipina friends and is of very good morals, not all filipinas are. Dont date below working class/middle class women in third World countries, gotta be from stable and good families.
Exactly the same my advice is in west. If anyone want to go this route, start talking to a lot of different women thru filipinacupid thru camera. Please do not be a simp and fall for girls too quick, before you have vetted her. I picked my gf from around 30 women, a nurse, from very conservative stable family. Im average Nordic looking and have good values. Id never date a filipina that doesnt have some sort of education she can use here, or the intelligence to get one. This was longer than i wanted, but i hope somebody that has attraction to South east asian women can make good use of this info. If you are average looking White guy with your shit somewhat together, i.e. has job prospect/income. You can have your pick there in ph
Conversation..?
Be careful. sometimes, friends to her means handy man, mechanic, heavy lifting man from you, and excuses from her when you need her help.......
Men are never scared of VVomen. Men have figured out that VVomen don't worth the time and value to stake his reputation, social standing, wealth, career and future. Plus there would be no drama and choas in his life.
Alot to lose and oh so little to gain. A little bedroom action just isn't worth the risk.
@@Gunsight-One in future escort industry will be a booming industry. There will be rise in sugar babies too.
With women, the screwing you get isn't worth the screwing you get.
Mens real enemy, weak manginas that will throw other men under the bus
@@goododays1812 If you want to make a man's life miserable let him get married.
"Women are not stable right now."
Tell me about it joker! The female coworkers that actually do show any interest in me, once they start talking about their life, I pick up so many red flags it's scary. They have almost an endless list of "issues." They are constantly bored, they have anxiety attacks, they have sketchy room mates, their car barely works, they are single mothers, they have lots of tattoos, they swear a lot, it's all about them, need constant attention, very masculine. Bruh.
You can't build anything with someone with such a destructive ego. They will just take you down with them.
captain, am giving her all she has
@@stan121midling5 Its actually, "Captain, I'm giving her all she's got".
Oh yeah, and you're probably such a catch.
The part that makes me avoid dating anymore. Is that she can completely ruin my life and career at will. With no consequences if its proven she lied.
Yetiman I wonder if men realize that woman also takes a risk dating.
@@vg7985 The risks taken are that the guys inst a psycho. I get that however the man cannot ruin your existence with no way to rebuild or counter for their own amusement.
@@vg7985 our risk is higher
And people wonder why John Cusack is single. Smart man.
Or it's because he's a left-wing cultist loser.
I heard he was gay but dont know.
I don’t know - but I want my two dollars!
@@scottyb.8710 lol thanks for the laugh. Love that movie.
Henry Cavill also
Maybe its because women mostly can't be alone ? But I have absolutely no problem cutting toxic people out of my life, family or not. Anyone more trouble then their worth are gone. Not hard to make more friends. Example, removed my only sibling from my life about 20 years ago. Life's too short to suffer assholes.
Amen to that man. Both of my brothers and my mother are out of mine. Lots of Munchausen by proxy. I got through and past it while my brothers have internalized it and act it themselves these days.
@@conormccue2871 similar. My mother has my brother paying her rent while she lives with her boyfriend... She told me this in such a stupid way. She looked at me as though I should be chipping in. It was the last straw for me. She is a parasite .
Dude same. I've kicked out my sister and will kick out the rest of them when I can afford to move away.
Same here. I used to tolerate mistreatment and slowly and painfully got to the point where I can no longer tolerate it. One of my sisters is out of my life and several “friends” have gone by the wayside.
There’s so many people happy to project their issues on to others rather than gain an ounce of self awareness and begin to change how they operate. If someone is ok hurting others (other than the very rare instances of self defence where it’s ok to do so) then they’re radioactive to me. I’ve got a pretty peaceful life now and won’t let people in my life who will disrupt it.
good advice, wish I'd done the same, lost lots of money trying to help loser friends, learned too late most ppl. will use you if they can, true friends are rare today
The Ernest Borgnine face is a stroke of genius. He played the the original 40 year old Virgin in Marty.
I can't unsee it!...Sorry Ernest 😄
If sir some reason my relationship ends I’m done dating. I haven’t had terrible luck but it’s just a lot of work. A pain in the ass. Single is easy. The hardest part is finding other single people to do things with.
@Jai Rock my girl I have now is awesome. She cooks, cleans, hikes, makes twice what I do, owns her own home, shoots guns, camps, and she wants a quad to do off roading. I’m keeping her. But if for some reason it fails I’m not getting in a relationship again.
You don't have to be a mind reader to foresee that there are going to be a hell of a lot of mad cat women in the future.
And cats 😂
and lot of money in dividend for us, lol !!!
Dude. Invest in catfood companies now. 20 years later cash out and be a millionare.
And a ton of pissed off angry mad men getting maybe a little too friendly with their sheep.
I'm not scared of women. I just reached a point where I wasn't bothered by the constant put downs anymore, and started to wonder if maybe they were right. And that's when I decided I need to focus on myself and my passions instead
Laser beam eyes don't effect me anymore. I just laugh and she looks away.
Do not get married, do not co-habitate and do not have LTR's!
Stick a fork in America, it’s done.
“Screw, nut and bolt”!!!!🤣
I’m stealing that!!!
An ex called me “ Panda “ coz I called round after work, ate, then bedroom and I’d go. Panda = eats shoots and leaves
SNB
Try Wham, Bang , thank you mam!
I keep seeing these stupid FB pictures where it's a man's responsibility to help fix her during her depression etc. Somehow that isn't a woman's responsibility to help fix a man's mental stability. Going to get straight to the point, you are responsible for you. If you need help ask for it. If you do not I also understand because only you know yourself best. If fixing yourself doesn't work, try a different non self destructive method. Keep at it until something improves. Van Gogh is a prime example, only too bad his art work didn't sell for what it did until after he died.
Oh yeah, in my experience the second there is any indication a guy is struggling, any women in his life will drop him without a second thought.
Van Gogh - cut his own ear off with a knife - guess he should have been one of those asking for help !
women don't actually think anything men do requires work. everything is really easy for men, so they should help women more.
obviously women love to project.
It's her job to bail when he's down and leave him until he fixes himself, then come back to him for more provisions, it's the womanly way of thinking.
First thing my shrink told me...."you aint captain saveahoe" your happiness, mental health and success is only YOUR responsibility
nowadays, the only thing that interest women is " how can i take advantage of him" ..so of course it's right to avoid them...men have an image of women which is completely wrong and partially coming from rom com or Disney's movies ...Actually if men could watch the TV series women enjoy ( sex and the city ) where men are treated like a commodity, then they'll understand what women actually think of them...they're like shoes or handbags for them,....only requirement is " i want a man who will make me looking better "...the minute you fail in this role, you're out.
Oh my God. That convo about the "r@p3" is absolutely terrifying. That there are women who think like this out there scares me more than anything else I've ever seen.
"Promiscuity is bad for you."
Sister Mary Hardass 1958
Not exactly her words but rather her message.
I mean, well, society said its bad for you in thousands BC :)
@@joshuadalton6063 A REALLY OLD concept that is no longer followed and making a lot of people really miserable.
Fatherless children for one.
I know too many fatherless children and it tears my heart out.
@@PanditHaakh I wish Sister Mary Hardass had told us that. I had to learn that from the Navy.
Sister Mary Hardass just screamed a lot about the fires, pain, and the agony of ETERNAL! hell.
@@PanditHaakh well, they learn their ABC's and then they learn their HIV's and latin names for their new vagoo-tamagochis