THE COVERT NARCISSIST IS THE MOST DANGEROUS AND JEALOUS NARCISSIST : Relationship advice

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    They will discard you in the most calloused and brutal way possible. In the end they’ll blame you for everything and treat you like shit and ghost you. They will smear you to anyone and everyone. They will make you sound Insane. Completely Crazy. On top of all of this, they will be seethingly angry with YOU (when they tortured you for months or years).

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  • @shirleymadiva6886
    @shirleymadiva6886 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I was married to that selfish monster for 33yrs. Have 3 grown children and grandchildren!! My spiritual beliefs had me hoping and praying he was gonna change! Boy was that a mistake!! Long story short lm free and happy now. New Supply left too after 1 1/2 yrs of his mess. Now he’s sick had a stroke and I’m not budging! Our children THINKS I’m going to his rescue!! NO WAY IN HELL!! When you learn better you do better! Im free living my best life in peace!! I hate the time l wasted most! 🤯 l love your teachings Ms. Faye! You are helping soooo many young people who don’t understand what they are dealing with! Bless You💞

    • @ladyd1614
      @ladyd1614 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are right , don’t take care of him !! TAKE CARE OF YOU !! GOD BLESS ❤

    • @cathybutcher4826
      @cathybutcher4826 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm glad you escaped and are enjoying your life now.

    • @agirl3902
      @agirl3902 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      33 years here too. Almost out

    • @florencebowden3980
      @florencebowden3980 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😮 Mine had a stroke also., But the Christ n me, had me going back cooking & cleaning for him., I slept n my old room, he slept n his... I let him know I hold no grudges against him, + his demonic spirit...I am healed free of him, thru prayer meditating & fasting.. Hallelujah., I'm not that easy after almost 5 years...Free at last.... I have my own home....

    • @florencebowden3980
      @florencebowden3980 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They're Trouble makers, very argumentative....

  • @KO-xx9nv
    @KO-xx9nv ปีที่แล้ว +92

    My mother was a covert narcissist and destroyed my life since the beginning.
    They are real monsters, but with strangers appear to be angels. Wolfs in sheep's clothing.

    • @forgiven5919
      @forgiven5919 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes, I have the same type "mother". She has hated me from my birth. Only God knows how evil she is, and how much she has damaged my life. She pretends to be kind to others, sending get well or birthday cards etc.

    • @paulinehogness1078
      @paulinehogness1078 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      thats my mother. Since 2nd grade any friend that met her always had the same response, they'd say, "do you know your mom hates you?" She destroyed my nursing scholarship while buying my brother a car. I told her before holidays that i hate her & no longer want anything to do with her. I told her we'll talk again with Jesus to straighten it out since she lies too much. Me & my heavenly Father are working on me, so i can heal because i am very angry about it all. please Pray for me Much Love & Blessings to you all

    • @chinny50
      @chinny50 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      My mother is the same way. She has created pain, separation, low self acceptance and confusion. We have been broken as a family. She uses her illness as a supply for her narcissistic torture. I choose happiness. I am living well and have a good life. Still with challenges and some growing pains. However, happier without her torture and put downs.

    • @dswan5173
      @dswan5173 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My mom as well

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The worst thing in the world is being born to an evil family, you were robbed of normal basic things like love and empathy.

  • @tellneet
    @tellneet ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I read in a book that it is an old classic pimp move, pour it on thick, get them hooked, and snatched it away. It leaves them confused and trapped waiting for Mr. Nice guy to show back up. But it's too late because it's a wicked game and he's never coming back. By then you have done so much for him, and thinking that you are in a relationship until you lose yourself. Now, here comes the ill treatment and the discard. It's no longer fun for them once you know the game. Learn the game, or you will be played.

    • @Juicingwjade
      @Juicingwjade ปีที่แล้ว

      Pimps are definitely narcissists

  • @melvinawilliams6635
    @melvinawilliams6635 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    My Mom used to tell her girls not to take a man to all her friends and relatives house just in case she needs to hide.

  • @joycec.858
    @joycec.858 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It's not just men who have narcissism. It's my 84 year old mother. Stepping on anyone to get what they want. And, they're never happy.

  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Yes with the covert narcissist, love is transactional. They treat their relationships like a game of chess. They aim for power and control. The discard is a hard but a blessing in disguise 👏🏾

    • @jolly7728
      @jolly7728 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      True, totally transactional! Also really liked Miss Faye's definition of a narcissist -- they seek and destroy, empowered by fuel drawn from our emotions and material resources. Excellent! This applies to male and female narcissists alike.

    • @tammyseals7524
      @tammyseals7524 ปีที่แล้ว

      u

    • @shanellem6310
      @shanellem6310 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      So true. I didn't know what a narcissist was till I married my second husband/ soon to be 2nd Ex-husband. He is a covert narcissist who cheated on me with multiple women, lied, was verbally & emotionally abusive, and at one point had me questioning my own sanity. One time, when I disagreed with him, he said we could go in the garage and fight. This man has multiple Blk belts in martial arts. I told him no. At that point, I started planning my exit. I knew that if I didn't, it was only a matter of time before he attacked me. It took me 2 years; but, I did separate from him. We've been separated for 5 months now. I still have to co-parent with him due to our son. So, I've set specific boundaries. He is not allowed into my house AT ALL, I meet him for visitation, and I only communicate via text and about our son. I won't respond if he talks about anything else. He still puts his feelers out in order to access to me. He sends me messages via text, social media, & WhatsApp. I ignore him all. I know now that this man hates me & seeks to destroy me. Right now, he's trying to exert control via our son; but, we will soon be going to court to handle that. I will never go back, ever. Now that I know what a narcissist is, I've recognized narcissists that have unknowingly been in my life & I can spot a narcissist quickly. I'm more cautious now & I people watch a lot. Not planning to even consider getting married again till my kids are grown. Even then, the man has to add quality to my life & have his own. Period. If he's not treating me like the Queen I am, he will not get my attention. Life is too short for me to continue to deal with the foolishness.

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@shanellem6310 You are doing the right things because a Narc will NEVER change …. sadly these individuals are a complete waste of our precious time. Stay blessed🌸

    • @kimwilliams2212
      @kimwilliams2212 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nothing hard about having PEACE if that's what you are use tooo!!!

  • @rootlady4052
    @rootlady4052 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The covert narcissist is a conniving being.."it" wants to give the impression that it's a hardworking just good guy 😅OMG that "thing" is the BIGGEST MOST SUPERB ACTOR/ACTRESS!Oh honey they put on a DEEP COVER ....this being is a threat to the entire society.

    • @zoilarobledo8135
      @zoilarobledo8135 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🎯

    • @Glitter504
      @Glitter504 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Totally 💯! This covert ex narc I Found out only after many years! When I caught him cheating and
      Sure he been cheating for while he cried and I forgave him ! Biggest mistake !!! Few more years passed i knew he had cheated again and was talking to other women . I dumped his ass and went NO Contact! What a POS !!! He spoilt me with time and money he was well off but I really helped him to go many levels above told him if he cheated I’m
      Gone so us all the Goodluck ! That happened !!! I’m
      A super empath . Can always sense things before they happen or happened

    • @rootlady4052
      @rootlady4052 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Glitter504 I'm so happy for you getting away from that "thing"❣️😁 POWER MOVE!I've been in a relationship with that one as well,they PACIFY with money and gifts whilst being a total asshole and actually convincing themselves that their cheating&childish mind games are already justified because they gifted a wombman(that's why it's best for us to get OUR OWN MONEY ETC 😁)and check this,there has got to be a EXPOSURE website out here somewhere with pics and all!!😂if not it's a great concept because SERIOUSLY..they do completely destroy people's lives and move on with the quickness to their next victim.

    • @rootlady4052
      @rootlady4052 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@zoilarobledo8135 Right On!🤗

  • @HopeandFaithHomesread
    @HopeandFaithHomesread ปีที่แล้ว +15

    A narcissistic man will break up with you
    Then hide in the bushes by your house
    Watching you

  • @dorothywalker5411
    @dorothywalker5411 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Mine hated to see me happy. If I exercise sing love my dogs he would try to get me to stop. That tells you a lot.

    • @Glitter504
      @Glitter504 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes they’re too hateful and jealous

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom ปีที่แล้ว

      Narcs have a stupid state in their mentality.

  • @kandricebond2371
    @kandricebond2371 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    U r sooooo right about that keeping our legs closed thing....a woman can defeat the narcissist in one move B4 they can even get started on a woman by way of the woman not engaging in premarital sex with them...if the narcissist cannot get that part of the woman...they will RUN and no longer be interested.....

    • @777JESUSISLORD71
      @777JESUSISLORD71 ปีที่แล้ว

      Flee sexual immorality has GOD says. It's SIN,and the wages of SIN is DEATH

  • @lcolon5606
    @lcolon5606 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Listen to your intuition ladies...just do it! If your body even feels sick or stomach is funny, well the stomach is also intuition. Covert is the worst. Like a friend said Rejection is Protection and that just may be how your body reacts. The smiley face who "everyone" seems to like is suspect. (his flying monkeys (Wizard of oz phrase) who are being played too.)

  • @teanna4569
    @teanna4569 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Most narcissistic men have multiple personalities and they show you the worst… so they borderline FAKE/ users my sister is a covert narcissist and wonder why she have so much bad luck

  • @KimmieJ1920
    @KimmieJ1920 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If I didn’t know any better I’d swear her covert and mine aka my exhusband are the same person

  • @stillhealing8811
    @stillhealing8811 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Yep, everything with them is transactional. He purposely betrayed me just to feed his ego. I look back over that relationship and have to shake my head at some of the petty and underhanded things he did to " make me pay" for whatever I may have unwittingly said or did to cause a narcissistic injury.😭😭😭

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They’re into petty, toxic behavior and playing games.

    • @laurac.9322
      @laurac.9322 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mine even stole the car my son had given me before he passed away right at the insurance agent while I was trying to get the baby out of the car... By the time I got in there things were said and done. He flew into the office and left us waiting in a hot car on a hot day and then got mad cuz I took us out to sit in the shade and came into the office to cool off.

    • @laurac.9322
      @laurac.9322 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everything is a transaction they do nothing for you unless it benifits them or they getsome kind of hug or forced hugs or dinner or sex or being felt up or something you dont like if they cant get it from you they go after the kids and mke you feel like your contributions don matter like you dont do anything they do it all.

  • @childofYah4life
    @childofYah4life ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Ms Faye has told no LIES !!! This is as accurate as you can get. It's like we dated the same person *correction* same spirit. May God continue to bless you ❤️🙏🏾

  • @lenasvn
    @lenasvn ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Worst is to have a parent, a mother be one

  • @sharibennett2071
    @sharibennett2071 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    He tried to leave me financially devastated. Hoovered me on the day I lost my job because of him. Don't understand why he still has so many women just waiting for him to pick their number. SMDH. I moved out of state, sold my house, and got an excellent job. In the end, I started drinking, but finally, after 4 years, I got it together. No joke. They definitely set out to ruin you, but in the end, he's someone else's problem. Wanted to laugh, but it was not cool for her. I feel her pain. Insult to injury, left me, a leo, for another leo. So I KNOW he's still going through it. Now THAT I can laugh at 🤣🤣🤣

    • @designerguy6257
      @designerguy6257 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow. He really put you through a lot. You had to move out of state it was so bad?

    • @sharibennett2071
      @sharibennett2071 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@designerguy6257 YUP, and the sad part is that my job is moving back to a state he just relocated to. As long as he doesn't know, it's okay 👌

    • @sinceresong9907
      @sinceresong9907 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg, yes absolutely no joke...inch of your life stuff.

  • @ritamaria333
    @ritamaria333 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was stuck with this guy for 8years demanded power he demanded that I submit and I always thought and believed that he is my soul mate he wasted my precious time he messed me up he seemed shy nice loving but mehn this guy was something else

  • @dawnmarie4864
    @dawnmarie4864 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    2 yrs and I was done kicked him out and told him he needed to change .. well he moved in with his wife who he was separated from for 7 yrs and had a child with but he managed to get me to still see him until I saw he was pulling away and still calling her kids his step kids besides other red flags so I cut his ass off and blocked him.. the Lord is giving me strength to have no contact 🙏🏽

  • @alikazan24
    @alikazan24 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This complete assessment is absolutely 💯! Every word! I lived it, I had to do a deep dive into researching this type of creature, to understand what was happening to me. What she is saying is completely real. I was so in love with him. It was years before I was able to breathe again. Thank God I didn’t marry the man. Beware!
    Big clue to spot one…they love bomb you at the beginning, they supe you up, buy you gifts, they are in love before they could possibly know you. You finally let your guard down because he makes you feelsso good. Before you know, he’s noticing other women while he’s with you, making little remarks to get into your head. Before you know it you are questioning your reality!
    They are DEADLY!

    • @kimwilliams2212
      @kimwilliams2212 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hoping you get The You Back!!!

    • @lanieceneloms5822
      @lanieceneloms5822 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is so so accurate. This is what I'm dealing with now

    • @lanieceneloms5822
      @lanieceneloms5822 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Girl you better preach!!!

    • @lanieceneloms5822
      @lanieceneloms5822 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You really can't see. Thank You

  • @Leeahtee
    @Leeahtee ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I got trapped by one in a new, Pentacostal church in So. Cal in 1989. He was a favorite minister of the pastor & boy he showed me the darkness. He fit ALL THE ELEMENTS of a dangerous narcissist you name in your videos. I had a nervous breakdown while dealing with him where I lost control of my eyes & they would bug out or enlarge suddenly without my control. It used to scare & startle people. This stopped over time after I finally was ABLE TO separate from him & I fasted for days for healing & practiced getting control over my nerves. I had to sit in front of the mirror & practice keeping my eyes normal while talking or doing anything. It was one of the worst experiences of my entire life. That was in my mid 20's and now I'm in my late 50's and will NEVER FORGET THAT EXPERIENCE. I thought I would literally die from the 2-year war with him.

    • @gloriamooreministriesInc9712
      @gloriamooreministriesInc9712 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was married to a COGIC Minister. He turned the church against me in FL. He recorded my calls then shared it to the mens group after he did his editing

  • @BronzieBarbie
    @BronzieBarbie ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I would love to know why some narcissists idolize their children. If the narcissist has more than one child, they choose to put 1 of them on a pedestal while treating the others like crap. I would love to hear the breakdown on that

    • @chakralove4300
      @chakralove4300 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      They see their children as narcissistic supply…nothing more nothing less. They will triangulate their children against each other, which means they need to choose a golden child.

    • @BronzieBarbie
      @BronzieBarbie ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chakralove4300 Ahh interesting. Thank you ♥️

    • @chinny50
      @chinny50 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@chakralove4300 Hi. I agree with your explanation on why some narcissist idolize their children. My mother fits this to a Tee. She is always pitting my siblings against one another. Wel live in deep pain and turmoil. I am the eldest, and it's hard to get my sisters back on track and to support each other. I take good care of myself. And pray for constructive change.

    • @chakralove4300
      @chakralove4300 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BronzieBarbie You are welcome. Triangulation is their go to tactic because it creates a cycle of narcissistic supply from everyone involved. I know it’s mind blowing that ppl move this way in life. My naive self couldn’t believe it!

    • @chakralove4300
      @chakralove4300 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chinny50 I’m sorry you are going through this with your mother. The best thing you can do is focus on your healing journey.

  • @ElisaForHealing
    @ElisaForHealing ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Oh my, you are describing my life. My covert was in my life off and on for 42 years. His azz was needy. Always in some chit! I didn’t know what it was. I knew he was odd, but when I found out it was narcissism, girlfriend was out. There was no violence, never called me a name. I’m so happy he is gone. Yes, jealous! I have what he should have.

  • @ronifrancois5085
    @ronifrancois5085 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Such an amazing breakdown, thank you. Mine was definitely a covert narcissist.. my family thought he was a nice guy.....

  • @hangingwiththegrlz4891
    @hangingwiththegrlz4891 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I agree completely. Most of the beautiful women I know and knew in my life have been destroyed by narcs. The narc women like my sister and others have destroyed the men in their lives. I am so tired of this evil world.

  • @patriciababb4156
    @patriciababb4156 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I let my guard down for him , and he was very badminded and jealous.
    All u described is him .! I ended it eventually, what a GREAT RELIEF!

  • @Openbookest82
    @Openbookest82 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I had to stop what I was doing and sit down after hearing this, after two weeks he asked if we could be together I said I wasn’t ready, that man wouldn’t let me breathe he was always calling me and wanted me with him all day every day and before I knew it we were in a relationship and he would tell me he’s going to marry me and was making plans for me to move in, after month 3 it was hell and normally I don’t take nothing from any man I have zero tolerance and will ghost men easy with him I couldn’t leave no matter how bad he treated me! I finally left for six weeks but I was physically Sick without him so I went back and now I’m losing my mind I forgot what I was focusing on I have changed the way I dress and I don’t go out like I use to! You said it so well I’m confused! Thank you so much you have given me hope, also he lives right next door to my brother and all of a sudden he don’t like my brother and I’m always stressing when I’m with my brother because I know when I go back we going to argue I’m always on edge but it’s some kind of connection that I’m addicted to

    • @brittanyjones4096
      @brittanyjones4096 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sounds like you’re trauma bonded

    • @TheVerbalAssassinFAFO
      @TheVerbalAssassinFAFO หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah that trauma bond is NASTY! You have to suffer through the pain of the disconnect from this person, and stay no contact. It is the ONLY way. Trust us, please. THERE IS NO OTHER WAY OUT OF THIS MISERY!

  • @ElisaForHealing
    @ElisaForHealing ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Hey Ms. Faye! Mine hid behind military issues, but was passive and silent. They hate everything you get and are jealous of your kids. Mine could hide everything. I noticed later on that he emulated everyone that he thought was well liked.

    • @Rhapsody09
      @Rhapsody09 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I believe a sign of it is copying people. I have people doing that to me and I feel like they are narcs. My ex narc stole my whole identity and using it to impress others like a script. When he runs out of ideas he tries to come back to see what im doing or thinking to out do me or copy me to impress a woman and I see his wife posting everything im interested in as if he is teaching her and its my whole identity. He had the nerve to ask me how would I become a millionaire, I said why would I tell you, so you can steal my ideas and impress your wife with it. He said he keeps his friends close and enemies closer.

    • @cathybutcher4826
      @cathybutcher4826 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have had two narcissists who have stolen stories that I have told them, and they have repeated them to other people in front of me, as if these things actually happened to them. They are truly bat$hit and evil.

  • @jandelong5063
    @jandelong5063 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The main reason most stay is because they're trying to get back the person they thought the narcissist was in the love-bombing stage. But sadly, that was fake, and used to pull them into the narc's trap.

  • @mykedoes4099
    @mykedoes4099 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Its as if they want and desire to be jealous, which makes it kind a stupid as to why they bring them selves around you so they can get jealous , sounds like a nasty sickness of the soul. It would be proper to just throw down and fight but cowards dont have the capacity

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They sitting on stupid for them is goals.

  • @demetriamcnair5985
    @demetriamcnair5985 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My narcissist down low man basically murdered his wife by giving her HIV and AIDS and she died and he inherit her wealth more than a million he likes to sleep with drag he has no love for no One not even his daughter thank you for all your information so true everything you ever said God bless you

  • @gloriamooreministriesInc9712
    @gloriamooreministriesInc9712 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My narcissistic tried to steal my properties. He hated my sons

  • @danielleodums4244
    @danielleodums4244 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mines wont spend a dime on me..The Gps says hes been to lots of hotels, and he cash-apps a certain woman with Felonies...While I'm working hard...I have to Run for the Border!

  • @rmcgarra7
    @rmcgarra7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My ex.did that too....I had an Aunt that was like that.. Terrible, I loved both of them....had no idea they were demonically possessed.

  • @brinuby8725
    @brinuby8725 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ms. Faye I’m so happy I found you. I just walked away from a 2 yr. Relationship with a covert narcissist. It’s like your speaking to me in these videos because it’s exactly how I’m feeling and going through. I would love to get some advise on how to coparent with a covert narcissist. It’s so hard 🥺

  • @survivorship4290
    @survivorship4290 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    They want control & power over your SOUL, which is composed of your Mind (thoughts), your Will (choices), & your Emotions (actions). 😐

  • @organicforlife597
    @organicforlife597 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You deserve a standing ovation💕

  • @dragonfish888
    @dragonfish888 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish YT was around back when I met and married my ex-husband narcissist. He put me through the wringer, but I didn’t fall for any of his tricks and prevailed. I fell head over heels for another charming narc and sat around waiting for commitment for over 10 years. I sure could have used Miss Faye’s advice back then.

  • @mc1618
    @mc1618 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh, she is completely correct! My ex I met him at a fundraiser. He was the shy one at at the corner sitting down boy did I didn’t know what I was getting myself into dude was on the DL. Try to take me out, was very abusive to me, and everybody believed him, because oh no, he’s a good guy he would never….

  • @lauraoki8368
    @lauraoki8368 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m dealing with a covert narcissist.. you are 100% spot on!

  • @suetaniaemmanuel8107
    @suetaniaemmanuel8107 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Miss. Faye, you are saving lives. Thank you

    • @coachgloriann5937
      @coachgloriann5937 ปีที่แล้ว

      ....if they believe her. Hopefully they won't think their situation is different and have b to learn the hard way.

  • @ekuaasante1994
    @ekuaasante1994 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yes, unless you are dealing with a narcissist 😢 people don’t understand it .

  • @mybusiness2502
    @mybusiness2502 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I dealt with a covert narcissist. I was especially triggered when you mentioned he was DL. I STRONGLY suspect the one I had was as well, When I asked if he was bisexual/gay, he got quiet as a mouse. His ways are just too feminine. Within the first 2 months, he talked about getting me pregnant (no mention of marriage).

    • @missfayesworld303
      @missfayesworld303  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He wants to lock you down to him for supply.

  • @3n1sunmoon62
    @3n1sunmoon62 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My Earth Angel GG,
    You Are Speaking Nothing But The Truth!

  • @darnellanders8768
    @darnellanders8768 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh so true about the Narcissist not wanting to see you happy and wanting to shoot down your spirit. Misery loves company and if you are not miserable you at that point are not a good match so then they project their misery onto you or at least try ...I allowed the reactive abuse in the beginning believing they were just having a bad day ..But they eventually realize they were wasting their time trying to upset my day.. I am one who can do bad all by myself and would rather be alone within my misery.. The Narcissist is the last person one wants around when things are tough... They no nothing about uplifting ones spirit...it's all about me me me for them..

  • @marciachristina9513
    @marciachristina9513 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My biggest regret is getting pregnant and letting him gaslight and trauma bond me every time I did try to leave his disgusting self

  • @kenyaford9771
    @kenyaford9771 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Auntie, please stop calling him YOUR COVERT NARCISSIST. Please call him THAT…. Don’t keep possession of THAT man.

  • @loriepurvis3305
    @loriepurvis3305 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are the best.idk how long you have been doing this but I wish so much I would have found your channel 5 years ago. I am free now thank god.but I went through hell before I got out.god bless you for your power, wisdom and strength and spreading the word to innocent victims out here struggling that desperately need help❤❤❤❤❤

  • @queenmaxinew2707
    @queenmaxinew2707 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    AND, YOU ARE RIGHT ON POINT

  • @robinamukherjee2413
    @robinamukherjee2413 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Never knew about_"False Soul Mates" ... until now.. 🙏🙏🙏🙏so much for enlightening us... ❤️You Ms Faye 🔥... ♒🙏 Heartily

  • @msims1081
    @msims1081 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You got that right about the narcissist in the pulpit telling you to stay with the narcissist you’re married to! Been there, done that and got the T-shirt. Unbelievable that a place and a people that are supposed to be refuge and help often are anything but!

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I learned awhile back that I have the BEST answers for my life …. not necessarily hearing it elsewhere.

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is why it's really important to get to know a man for years before marrying him.

    • @kimwilliams2212
      @kimwilliams2212 ปีที่แล้ว

      The one I met had a picture beside the Church Altar He was suited up ON A DATING WEBSITE ladies these sites are a NARC PLAYGROUND STAY AWAY He's a Elder in a small church He plays The roles in church or public as the RESUER & Handyman I've met(5 ) Church Demons in my life At work They are The Cross wearing Bible Studying attendees and Church Going Folk and IT'S ALL A FAKE COVERING to make them look TRUTHWORTHY. Good and Human !!! Now when someone keeps talking about The Word I watch to see if They are causing Drama. Creating Confusion.... Sucking up to any in Charge. If so I'm suspecting A COVERT Narcissists Year's ago There was a Sex Demon walking around in the hood and on the busses many years ago w/ a suit and Bible in his hand trying to attract prey I saw before I knew what this was all about Years later he came where I use to work seeking txmt, Okay

    • @msims1081
      @msims1081 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@winning3329 I did know my ex for 5 years before marrying him. I was just young, naive and didn’t think evil people attended church! Sadly, some of the most vicious folks regularly attend church and hold positions in church. You live and learn.

    • @judybfine
      @judybfine ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@winning3329 I thought I knew my man after 7 years of dating....but clearly I didn't & its now 23 years later with 16 years of marriage. I'm just seeing the big picture. Talking about devastating & heart broken currently in the process of divorce.

  • @777JESUSISLORD71
    @777JESUSISLORD71 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not my pastor. The word of GOD is against abuse..I thank GOD for allowing me to be at a church that does not condone abuse

  • @rootlady4052
    @rootlady4052 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Ms.Faye you are on point with ALL of your vids...I'm SURE you are literally SAVING LIVES...AND WOMBMEN THEIR MONEY,MENTAL HEALTH,WELLBEING ❣️❣️BIG UPS TO YOU SISTAH ❣️💅🌹

  • @SuperBoobie12
    @SuperBoobie12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ms. Faye, you can take me as DEEP as you want to. Yes madam, U know what you R talking about. Stumbled upon your video...glad I did !!!!

  • @Myportion442
    @Myportion442 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are describing my Ex narc husband to a " Tee " I have never regretted leaving him !!

  • @laurac.9322
    @laurac.9322 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She speaks the absolute truth.

  • @barbarabetts709
    @barbarabetts709 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for your Devine teachings, having been married for 53 years to one man, He passed away going on eight years now, I was believing in the Lord for another wonderful man, but listening to you, I am having second thoughts, I believe I am happy just as I am. I certainly can do without drama in my life, Thank you so much ❤

  • @wisdomdantecourt8179
    @wisdomdantecourt8179 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your world is my world Ms Faye. Thank you for sharing with us. :-)

  • @higher_pwr8178
    @higher_pwr8178 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Be blessed Ms Faye. As they say keep your head on swivel. No one is so nice, so sweet, always accommodating, and non confrontational all the time. The first time it doesn't seem right when his vibe takes a 180 degree turn then take that as a sign that he's a deceitful demon🏃‍♀️

  • @apb007
    @apb007 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When I started having doubts with my ex, who might be a covert narcissist… He told me that if I was to give up on him while he’s going through period of trying to find better as far as work, then I would be wrong because women tend to leave men who are struggling right before They are on their comeback. It’s funny how I got tired and left him while he was trying to find his self while I got the better job making more money more (double) meanwhile, he went back to his mother’s house with not even a cent in his savings account. I am humble and I am grateful but it’s funny how the tables turn, and I never spoke like that to him not one day in my life.

  • @IluvJehovah
    @IluvJehovah ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Ms Faye I'm new here , and I'm Chosen and I'm being Attack 24/7 these Demons are trying to see my V spot and my feet in order to believe I'm Chosen, when God himself told me he Chose me.

  • @lorettawilliams3185
    @lorettawilliams3185 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Lady You better say it. I married one

  • @robinamukherjee2413
    @robinamukherjee2413 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God shows us the" light" through you Ms Faye.... 🙏👍🔥❤️ We've been in the " dark hole" for a very very long time....most unfortunately... possibly hoping for the 🔥🔥🔥🔥at the end of the tunnel... 🙏Your mentoring is just amazing 👍❤️

  • @ClarrissaCummings
    @ClarrissaCummings 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ive known narcisists and i have seen them meet a worse narc than themselves.

  • @TheIlluminatedOne_1969
    @TheIlluminatedOne_1969 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yesss, I stay very tired and drained all the time...🔥

  • @chantelspring111
    @chantelspring111 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks for making it plain. You are telling the truth 😎

  • @laurac.9322
    @laurac.9322 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yep! The finances part is very true as my eyes are opened... To what I have been dealing with all these years..and why I am so exausted everytime I spend any time at all with him...thank God for these videos like this it litterly saved my life... As far as the kids go the things they tell them is really above and beyond cruel at times its unconscious able unthinkable. With coverts....be very careful they will hurt you...mine damn near destroyed me. Our grown son is dead and I think and believe he had something to do with it...and my mother as well....just cant prove it.

  • @henriettastemley6837
    @henriettastemley6837 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My son got involved with a narcissist. I was not fooled because I am a Christian. I cut her ass off when she abused my granddaughter and me and then lied about it to my son.
    I prayed her out of my sons life. Took me 4 years and she finally got

  • @TJ-mo9xv
    @TJ-mo9xv ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ms Faye is a God-send. Thanks for all the videos and words of true wisdom. Thanks for caring enough about others to try and help people avoid costly and dangerous mistakes.

  • @aliceyoung7292
    @aliceyoung7292 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The preachers suppose to encourage a marriage couple to get counseling and work their marriage out,now if they are going to hurt one other then they should leave.

  • @Glitter504
    @Glitter504 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love ❤️ ❤❤❤you miss Faye !!!! Thank you for helping us all

  • @amidahsalahuddin8247
    @amidahsalahuddin8247 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Peace and Blessings Miss Faye
    Thank you for keeping it real
    Much love❤

  • @ceecee1913
    @ceecee1913 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My ex best friend cover Narcissist. Known her since childhood she had very controlling parents. Still controlling her in her 30s. She then became manipulative possessive acted as if I was hers and couldn’t be around others. She despises the fact I have my own life, would always throw shade at what I was doing wearing in a relationship with etc. yet she is lonely and home alone with her parents. I don’t feel it’s her fault what she has become but she needs to seek help which I’m not sure it’s possible only Jesus can intervene those narc spirits are strong in the narcs life. Only when you experience a narc you can see the true depth of an evil spirit I have never seen before or never hope to see again. Thanks for the video…we are not the crazy ones ❤

  • @christelcalvin7463
    @christelcalvin7463 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In the Army I had an acquaintance in a DV marriage. Her husband didn't even go to the church. The pastor was on his side. That's when I was officially done with Religion. Maybe, 🤔 unofficially done with marriage since I didn't marry the narcissist I was dealing with at the time

  • @debbieannearscott9598
    @debbieannearscott9598 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    WOW THIS REALLY NEEDS TO GET OUT MISS FAYE THKS SO MUCH ,WITH YOUR WISDOM BLESS 🙌🏿 YOU .

  • @jilljarvis8076
    @jilljarvis8076 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1000% TRUTH spoken here !!! I married an overt narc, was with him over 30 years. Later on dated a COVERT NARC and yes these are the absolute worst. I can relate to EVERY SINGLE WORD HERE!

  • @chall6738
    @chall6738 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No one ever talks about when a narcissus get their behind kicked?

    • @csssaundrasmith7018
      @csssaundrasmith7018 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just got rid of this Demon 🙌🏾 he couldn’t sit still in church them demons was getting uncomfortable! The preacher was speaking on the man with Legions of demons! He would make up excuses as to why he couldn’t stay long mind you church lasts no more than 2 hours! He was a great actor but thank GOD he left my house in peace I was only with him a year! He done nailed all my windows to my house shut! Trying to control how I drive my new car! Yelling in my face! I honestly believe he hated women he had tons of feminine energy! He was even jealous of my dog and cat!!

  • @ijeomanwoye2598
    @ijeomanwoye2598 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mommy I love you.. you're full with wisdom and knowledge I will continue to share your TH-cam with young ladies so that they will learn. More blessings ma.

  • @chinny50
    @chinny50 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for another powerful and informative video! I was wondering is it possible for an individual to become a narcissist and not understand what is happening to them. Also, not like what they are becoming and how to change it.

  • @williesmith3466
    @williesmith3466 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’re are so, so, right my ex narcissist think I want him back. He will call or text me every six or seven months. Last time he texted me. He told me that I was stupid because I didn’t want to answer or return his calls or text. I told him that he was stupid because he keep trying to contact me. He THINKS I have money. God has blessed me, but I am not rich or over flowing with money. But, so many people thinks so, because I know how to make the money I do have work for me. They look at what I have and they see that I am not complaining about money. So, they think I have money.

  • @mzgreeneyez9048
    @mzgreeneyez9048 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mine was an administrative pastor. He was a sex addict and verbally abusive. He tried moving in together quickly marrying me quickly. I said no. When it got to where he was about to get physical... I left.
    He is now with a married woman using the "God" thing on her. She seems to be a lot like him.. 😂😂. Karma can be interesting.
    I also question whether he is on the DL. He had a male friend when I first met him that I thought was too "close."

  • @LadySHAMM
    @LadySHAMM ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Trying to get 50/50 name not even on my stuff 🙏🏾😇

  • @edwardjohnson7034
    @edwardjohnson7034 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are BRUTALLY HONEST miss Faye!
    You are like an......."EARTH ANGEL".💟

  • @ms.suellsuell1656
    @ms.suellsuell1656 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WOW.. this was my story. I resinate to this video. 99.9

  • @maryanngray4519
    @maryanngray4519 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I believe when u except his sprint, means u will b doing his deed

  • @sunshine9816
    @sunshine9816 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wished I had mother like you. My mother never warned me. I only saw her once a year. Your 100 percent correct about the narressist.

  • @verastamper814
    @verastamper814 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true.THANK YOU !!

  • @Tearsofasilentheart
    @Tearsofasilentheart ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Faye
    Ive lost everything to i think a covert narcissist. He was so addicted to porn. I divorced him sold the house. Now my grown up daughter don't talk to me... She suffers BPD. I cry morning and night. My home was my castle and i was so happy there. I didn't have enough money to buy him out.
    I'm so sad at all this chaos! Through no fault of my own.

    • @marquita3058
      @marquita3058 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish you peace sis….

    • @Curlyblonde
      @Curlyblonde 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Takes a long time to recover from the devastation. I was in a similar situation as you. Took me almost 30 years, with no support. Now I am independent and well. It also helped when my narcissist demon passed away last year. Huge relief, but the torch was passed on to my daughter I had with him. She also has the demonic spirit and tries to destroy my happiness every chance she gets. Better for my own protection not to have any relationship with her.

  • @carolbrown6283
    @carolbrown6283 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for confirmation. 🙏👍

  • @ekuaasante1994
    @ekuaasante1994 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤ thank you Ms Faye ❤❤

  • @jacquelinedidur7611
    @jacquelinedidur7611 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bingo! So well said Miss Faye!!
    You are explaining exactly wat I lived. Thank you!!

  • @myblessings1000
    @myblessings1000 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome Message Ms. Faye💜😇🙏🏽

  • @gabrielnadia1085
    @gabrielnadia1085 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I didnt know it was the jezebel spirit😳

  • @mjones8459
    @mjones8459 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So on point ❤❤.. thk u for sharing ur wisdom

  • @dimitraandriopoulou3265
    @dimitraandriopoulou3265 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much....i believe all that you say

  • @claireryan1404
    @claireryan1404 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are spot on.

  • @vanessastokes977
    @vanessastokes977 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the wisdom, the truth is the light...

  • @user-dv6kz7yf8q
    @user-dv6kz7yf8q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou so much❤!I love your videos and you ,,light worker ,,hat!!

  • @Betty-lh6zn
    @Betty-lh6zn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so right.

  • @kimberlyhamilton8637
    @kimberlyhamilton8637 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank You Ms Faye for Sharing this Advice with Me. I am Listening