NEVER CHASE A MAN : Relationship advice
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Stop chasing a guy, and his reaction will let you know if he cares for you. This will save you a lot of time guessing the nature of his feelings. Getting to know his true feelings is one of the benefits of halting your chase.
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We're always being told how to please a man..there are books and magazine articles all the time! We're never taught how to avoid a man's shenanigans...
Exactly! 👏🏾👏🏾And I believe it’s to keep us stuck and get us to drop our guards. When it’s men who are the natural hunters. Not women.
Long as you don't give him the cookie, you winning. Soon as you drop those drawers you have given him something of yours that's so precious.
Yeah, but it's what a woman is supposed to do.
Facts! I tell women all the time, once you give it away; you can never get that part of you back. Most men only want s3x from a woman, and will tell her anything she wants to hear to get it. Once he's got it....."GAME OVER". Most times, you will never see or hear from him again.
That’s how women have ALL the power. Hang on to our modesty, chastity ❤❤❤
100%. Something that a man cannot bond over, so to them it was just a release. To us, it is soul ties.
Right
I'm 👏 not 👏 chasing 👏 anyone 👏 These men have lost their Godly minds to the devil.
🗣💯💯💯💯💯 Lost their good minds the LORD gave them...
Absolutely
Ungodly mind..lolol
Anything you "chase" runs away from you. If you chase a butterfly, he will fly away. When you sit still, he'll come and land right on you." Men go HARD for what they want. If he's not chasing or pursuing you, you're not what he wants." (Steve Harvey) I told a clown once: "What, me chase YOU? Do I look like the police?
Good luck guessing what these men want. No thanks. I’m good.
such a lovely & true story
i saw a kung fu master with a string of beads
He had the beads swinging in his hand as he explained that when we grab the beads and try to pull them towards us, they swing away harder in the other direction.
And when we push the beads away hard, they swing back towards us twice as hard.
Therefore , like your story explained , best to be like Stillwater, Accept whatever comes towards us gratefully, and let go of whatever pulls away from us.
This will bring peace of mind,
i do my best
@@sophiaelayne9984 😂😂
@Sophia Elayne right. Some of these guys obsessively "pursue" you and frighten you. Why cant we just mutually want each other?? Just too much.
"Do I look like the police?" Great line! Also - yes, Steve Harvey tells us what to do. I remember that. I always say - "I'm the egg; I'm not going anywhere."
What's helped me is perimenopause because I have NO desire to be with a man. It's been over 2 years and it's the only time I've loved myself.
So true , Menopause can reduce your desire
It’s a part of Nature. Once reproduction ability ceases in all animals they stop sexual activity
Herbalist Susun Weed has some great TH-cam videos on this chapter of life
Facts!!❤
This! I am so thankful for the hormone slowdown because it used to color my decisions.
Haha, told my doctor this EXACT thing... so GRATEFUL!!! LOL
Being in a relationship is too scary 😂
I'm proud of myself for understanding this concept in my heart even as a lost young lady. Chasing felt degrading to me.
Older lady here, agreeing with you ....I learned the hard way...
Yes absolutely me to
Me too
Men are in general extremely disappointing. Only one in a thousand is honorable.
The older ladies like miss Faye has the knowledge, older women teaching the younger women.. 🌹👠🌹👠🌹👠
@@saraimcdougald8724 That's why these men tell young women "don't listen to her", "she's just mad & bitter." Young women should always listen to an older woman, 'cause she's been there & done that; and can save them a lot of wasted time & heartache.
Thanks for your advice. I did the same thing to a guy who just disappeared on me for 2 good months then reappeared on Christmas day like nothing happened without any explanations and just said "Merry Christmas" with a video call flash like I will be excited to call him back immediately or say Merry Christmas back. He must be dreaming and out of his damn mind to think he can just disappeared on me for confronting him and he didn't want to answer then disappeared for 2 good months without picking my call or 2 text I sent him. He left me on read so when I didn't chase him for that 2 months, he used Christmas day to try to come back. What nonsense and he thinks I have time for men stupidity and nonsense childish games? Smh sad. I left him on read too. I also viewed and ghosted him too. Ignored him to really feel what it feels like to be absent in his life. Silly men
I adore you💯 a few weeks ago My cousin and her friend tried to hook me up with her friend’s brother who is single, and because I didn’t call him back right away he told my cousin it’s not gonna be a good fit, because a relationship is like a business transaction😏 and I was so relieved stop that Narc right in his tracks. No sir💪🏾
Lol no love that why I don’t do that crap
Just one word for that varmit. Uuugh
Thanks so much again Miss Faye for encouraging the ladies to love themselves and never chase men. I did not chase men as a younger woman so I am definitely not going to chase them now, but I am celibate at this time anyway and enjoying the space and freedom from having to deal with a man.
Amen! To that. When you take time to value yourself.
I was celibate for 4 years and gave it up recently but it didn't work out so now I'm implementing my celibacy once again and I won't fail again
Amen
YASS Jena!! 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Amen 🙏 ❤
You’ve reinforced what I’ve been telling my daughters.
6:30 “And men take that heart and throw it like a football” 🏈 My laughter cannot be contained 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Never Never ever ever. It's out of order that's not how it's supposed to work. A man goes after what he wants. This is why when you are the one pursuing you Never truly feel like he wants you in that way. You will always be looking at his eyes to see what he truly desires because real talk it ain't you if you had to chase him down.
Narcissistic men love for you to chase them they love for you to do tha calling making all tha plans they love to control you...that narc I was with at first he was calling none stop..then it became for me to constantly call him..because he was telling tha new supply back burner that I wanted him..wen it was the other way around...never ever chase a men that's why it didn't work because I refuse to chase him...
You are so rite about them wanting you to make all the plans. He's a narcissist and so one day I asked him to take the initiative in planning our outings. OMG!!! That caused a HUGE narcissistic injury in him and he started screaming at me!!! It was over for me that day when he showed me that side of him.
My ex narc had no problems making the plans...but at my expense. I was so stupid to think he would change. I started chasing him and I know he loved that. He was hella cheap and always had a sad story. Even his narc mother. When I stopped paying for it all, the ghosting and abuse got worse. I love her videos and the truth Miss Faye tells . I've learned my lesson and continue to learn a bunch from her. 😊
@Amber Paredes yes she's the best an she keeps it 💯
Great advice. Too many con men out here. 🏃♀️ 🏃♂️ RUN
This is great advice, I would also say, make sure, "the chase" isn't all he is after. Sometimes, men like the "thrill" of the chase just to see if they can get you. After, they want someone else. Check his motives. What a man says out of his mouth, and their actions in daily life toward themselves, should already marry each other before they even consider anyone. It shows their ability to be stable within themselves, and how they love themselves. If he cannot be stable with himself, he won't be with you.💯💯
My boyfriend left me plenty of times but I use to call and beg him. Back but he keeps on doing the same thing ..one minute he back with me the next minute he leaves me .but this time ain't chasing him no more or begging ...I had to learn how to let go ..😔
Yes know your worth and love your self first
Good for you ...sometime we as ladies don't under stand this a closer
Never beg some one to be with you glad you have learnt to let go
@Crystal Callaway I’m glad that you are letting him go because he doesn’t deserve you!! You are beautiful and stronger than you might think. Miss Faye is right: raise your energy and work on yourself instead of chasing this unfaithful excuse of a man. You can do this!! ✌🏼💖
The world needs women like u teaching girls at school all the valuable information u have! I can safely say I don't need a man at all...I love love love ur videos!! ❤
Yes ladies please do not do this!!! Thank you for helping us.
I love that phrase... JUST SHOW HIM THE PLAN.....
Thank you ma'am, you are right...men get together and strategize how to game us, but who teaches us🤷
Miss Faye is now :))). There are some good books also
Seduction by Robert Greene is one
Hey, Ms. Faye is wrong on this one. Go get your man!
@@southwestmotorcyclerider4644No.
Have chased a few times years ago.
It never turned out well.
Most of them not worth chasing anyway....he he.
Seriously Miss Faye, I don't desire to be a 'silly woman' ever again.
"By nature, men are HUNTERS. They go after what the want. If he's not pursuing YOU, you're not what he wants." (Steve Harvey) Trust me, anytime a man wants you to chase him, he is showing a "feminine" nature. NEVER chase a man for any reason.
Love your video which shows the confidence of a woman who has lived a full life, its a beautiful thing.
This is the Truth. So helpful. I need to listen to this about 10 times, as I do all the things Miss Faye points out not to do ! A steep learning curve right here!
Thank you ma'am for this advice. Mothers should talk to their female kids this way. I wish I heard tho earlier before now.
Hi Miss Faye, thank you for teaching us women to love ourselves. I have learnt that, your teaching is different from what the culture in the society in this part of the world Zambia Southern Africa. Women are taught to keep their marriages. Its openly said that married women are more honoured than single women. The married women are taught to literally worship their husbands and to stand all kinds of abuse from their husbands. Divorced women are looked upon as being the ones who caused problems for their husbands. (For me I know better than to blem any woman). I feel its a long and hard road to finally get women on this part of the world to love and appreciate themselves. But thumb is up to you. Thank you for your forever words of wisdom. Wish I heard your words just after my divorce
I just had this conversation with my friend I told her if she pays attention all these men act the same, she said no they don’t I said yessss they do, I told her there personality might be different, but they are all the same by nature, just pay attention
Yes you are right. NEVER CHASE ONE !!!
Thank you so much !!!!!
Excellent advice!! I wish all women would do this. Society would be so much better.
It sure would be a lot better if all women did this! ✌🏼💖
❤❤❤❤Spot on!! Everything you said is truth. Once women figure this out, the caliber of men, and their intentions will improve...they will see your energy as well, and know that your aren't one of those "common broads". It's a superpower
Awesome advice. I totally agree. You are always so dead on with what you say. Thank you!
She's right Ladies. Chase your dreams...take care of Yourself.❤️
Just remember men will ALWAYS come back so just find a new one if the current one is acting up
I appreciate you sharing your experiences in life with the men. I broke my abstinence with a grown boy. I'm back in abstinence and will guard my jewels more better moving foward😇💗
Grown boy 😵💫😂
it’s the only thing you can give away & still get to keep it :)
If you are not all over the man after sex & remain a little cool & indifferent he will continue to chase
Women wouldn’t have to be taught so much if they already had an example. Unfortunately, too many fathers are absent in their children’s lives. Predatory men know this. They count on it and are repulsed when they realize a woman isn’t vulnerable because they aren’t likely to get away with abusing that woman.
Hello Ms. Faye,
I recently came across your channel and have enjoyed a lot of your videos 😂
Your advice is simple common sense. I myself have never chased a man or paid for anything. I have asked women why they tolerate such nonsense of taking care of a man they say it’s because they are not users. No matter how much I try to explain how the Bible has set relationships to run smoothly they don’t listen. Much of this is a lack of self love.
I lived my entire life the way you tell it and it’s refreshing to hear that like minds are still out there🥳
Miss Faye I just wanted to share a comment with you. Several weeks ago my best friend sent me a copy of just one of your videos at first it was very difficult for me to watch because of so much truth. The way that you break it down in such a direct way with so much wisdom and Truth it was tough to hear. But as I continued to watch video after video I came to realize where I was going wrong. After tolerating so many abusive relationships due to my very poor self esteem, thanks to you I really have learned about self worth and as you put it to work on myself. I owe you so much thanks for shedding so much light on this subject. I watch you all the time now and each time I learn something. The main point is Never again!! Will I devalue myself. Keep ok telling it like it is ma'am!!
I'm so happy I've found your channel! You've helped me so much with having confidence in myself, keep up the good work
The Bible tells us dating or courtship is for the duration of one year! Not before! Temptation is real! See 1st Corinthians 10:-13’ do not get caught up in lust!
I was out somewhere and met a man walking his dog. He asked for my number and gave me his. I cannot remember who called whom first. But we have been married 23 years.
Excellent advice!!! Thank-you!
Thank you Faye 4 your wisdom.... I asked the creator of the universe and the God of the Bible to instruct me and help me to trust him and myself....My life has been transformed my the renewing of my mind and the healing of my soul❤ and spirit❤. Internal cleanse and time spent with self is very rewarding.
I Introduce my girlfriend to my uncle they hit it off right away. When I say to my girlfriend come on let's go. She stayed. They married until death separated them. Two people fallen in deep love with each other. Most likely they had sex in less t than 12 hours of meetings each other that last Faithfully with each other for over 30 years.
ALL FACTS! Miss Faye=)
Thank you for your videos. Your advice is always helpful.
Ever ,ever. Your so cute. I can see why they would be drawn to your energy. Work on yourself! Your message without fail is appreciated, always, always. Big smile. Thank you!
Nothing out of your mouth was a lie! Lol. Nothing!
Miss Faye you are so beautiful and have words of wisdom!
Thanks Ms. FAYE I had a guy text me as soon as I started watching this video. 😀
I Love it when you said the universe will bring you someone better.👍 Because your So right👍👍👍
Great minds think alike. Love this video Ms. Faye
Thank you, I am high valued and due great respect.!!
I agree with some of the things you're saying not everything. Those tactics might have worked back in the 80s and 90s but today we're competing with women who don't mind calling a man, taking him out, moving them in right away. Today's woman is very masculine and very straightforward and take the lead. Leaving women like the one you want us to be out. And these men, they're not waiting a year to have intimacy so what is one to do?
Always do what’s best for yourself. Compete for what?!? You’re doing it wrong!
Excellent topic ms Faye, we women need to do this!!
Love your videos. Feelings so good to listen a mature women with experience confirm what our intuition is already telling. Thank you
Miss Faye, you are so cute!! Of course men will approach you. You are smart and wise and cute. I've been married to the same man 50 years, but I don't have half the wisdom you share in your videos. ( Unfortunately I married a narcissist! when he was 18 and I was 20)
I will NEVER be a so called mans option, i am the prize!!!👊🏾💯👌🏿
Yes, Ms Faye, you are so right. Thanks for your wisdom, which it takes experience to know this knowledge.👍✌️
Get it Miss Faye! I know men approach you. You are lovely 😍
You are right, never chase a man, learn to enjoy yourself because most of them will use you
and forget you.
No, she is wrong. The chase means that you really care. Don't sat around to be lonely.
Men want to be women these days and think they're the prize.... Immature men like to take and use women to see what they can get and use them for. Mature men like to give and take care of a woman that's a mature man and that psychology..
My mother always told us girls,” Remember, Why buy the cow if you get the milk for free “! We lived by this and both my sister and I have been happily married for over 50 yrs! We are not submissive, we are cooperative!
Amen, I am standing on my own two feet. Amen!
You are absolutely right
Lol .. the work looking after the man. As a woman, I have same desire as a man, perhaps more so, but I’ll remain independent with my own home. I don’t want to depend on anyone else. Yes, I like the idea of being chased. You’re so right. I tend to think with my heart instead of my head. That’s something I need to control. 🌹♥️
Your very pretty
Hi Ms Faye, I like u very much. Your message was well received. You talk to us like a mother or aunt. You are a
good teacher and I think u are a very nice lady. U speak and explain excellently. May God bless u
I was raised not to chase men, and for the reasons you stated, could never be tempted to change my attitude, even in today's dating scene. I live in a northern area where the single women to men ratio is 5:1, among the 30 to 50 year olds. In the over 65s, the ratio is even worse, about 8:1. So as you can imagine the women in my area are very aggressive and persistent about chasing men. The men are relationship lazy and expect it to happen. If they break-up, then it's the women love bombing and stalking them, and fighting with any other women who may be a replacement or threat to their ownership of their men. Even senior women revert to becoming teenage drama queen's when they are out to chase a man. It's all quite undignified and pathetic to watch. You have a valid and rare message that women need to listen to and rethink their approach to men.❤
Yeah, but do you have a man? No? Then you better join the chase.
@@southwestmotorcyclerider4644 If I have to chase a man, he's not much of a man, nor would he be worth my valuable time. He needs to stay home and be looked after by his Mama. Maybe she'll find a companion for him.
@@Curlyblonde Well a woman is much more likely to get a "decent man" if she shows some interest in him. It reflects his perceived worth and the woman's dedication to a relationship. As the saying goes, "You get what you pay for." Good luck. Miss Faye is wrong on this.
@@southwestmotorcyclerider4644 If you're looking for a woman and you haven't got the courage to approach her, then you are invited to come up to the rural northern mid-west states or the north central part of Canada where women outnumber the men by a large margin. The women are the aggressive pursuers and they will oblige you. They will even fistfight each other over a man that they are competing over. You will be in a Bachelor's Paradise and have your pick.
There's tons of freshly divorced men in their 40s and 50s. There's no scarcity.
Miss Faye Thanks for your incoraging words.
You help so much! Thank you!
Great advice once again! This is something I needed to hear today.
Thanks Ms. Fay well said. This video is very educational. I have never chased a man and I am too old to do it now. Have a blessed day mama.🙏🏽
I'm too old & have no time for nonsense , I'm on to better things in my life , I'm a Queen at ❤🙏
No weapon formed against me shall not prosper Amen. I don't chase any man.
I could have used your advice many years ago!! Lol
that's true, i used to chase the wrong types of men, i'm good now, ii'm tired of the tears i shed
24:10 I know why she flipped out. It’s because he did a bait and switch. Guys lie to get what they want then they switch up. She had every right to be upset. However, women just need to stop giving men access period. Make them buy them a house first or something. Nothing good come from casually dating men that don’t have means. Men are a burden!
still digesting your old content! but this one really hit. thank you.
Go ms. Fay
Great tips…ones that I learned later in life. She’s definitely on point 💥
If he wants to go , Please let him go . Being single is lucrative ! Their job is to chase you, give something to cheese 😊
Hi 👋
Loving your videos, thank you 🥰💚
Thank you. I love listening to wise women
If Y'all chase a man 👞 Y'all make him feel worthy and he's not 🚫 The most high is the only worthy one Chance the most high Tips
Who's the most high ??
God
MISS FAYE I WISH U WERE AROUND EDUCATING WHEN I WAS YOUNG ❤️🔥 IM 64 AN SINGLE AFTER 30 YRS. OF GOING UP AN DOWN ROLLERCOASTER RIDE 🎢
You are awesome! Thanks for helping people!
I'm really enjoying your chats! What a wealth of wisdom! Thanks for sharing.
100% 👍 agree miss fay👍
Thank you again, for your great advice! Peace, love and blessings to you, Miss Faye!
Miss Faye, I am so grateful for your loving words of wisdom!
You are so welcome
Plant that seed Miss Faye🌱😊❤ Young ladies listen to her. We as women need to take our power back. We had it stolen long ago......
Excellent advice I agree 2
Know your self worth. Uniquely and wonderfully made. 😊
You are very intelligent and I most certainly am appreciative I could listen to you for hours ♥️
Ms. Faye may very well be intelligent and experience, but here she is wrong. Put on your sneakers and go chase you down a good man to stop being lonely.
Truth bombs!!😎🛵
I don't want a man or woman I love myself
They are all the SAME I tell you! 😢
This is Strength just when I needed it.
Thank you Miss Faye for amazing message it's so spot on and to the point its a message for all woman to learn a lesson. It's about Loving yourself ,and not to chase after man.Bless you Miss Faye. Xx
Thank you, Miss Faye 💛
Yes we need to stop that nonsense!!!