WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU LEAVE THE NARCISSIST : Relationship advice
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Narcissists hate losing their supply, so they won't let you go easily. Prepare for them to promise "to change." They might suddenly start doing things for you that you'd been complaining about. They may say "you'll be lost without me," or "you'll never find someone like me." Don't listen.
ARE YOU SOUL-TIED TO THE NARCISSIST • ARE YOU IN A SOUL TIE ...
When you leave the narc peace and energy is restored in your life.
Am happy to be alone and God has blessed me in my life ❤ thanks
...and I felt so much better physically. I started to experience so many minor ailments and I have been an overall healthy person. I believe the demonic energies began transferring. I stopped the relationship and gradually felt like my old self again. Thank goodness!
If you don't worship the narcissist they will turn against you. It's not something you done. It's what you didn't do that makes him turn against you.
That's so right They say they feel "unappreciated".
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This is so true. They will turn against you for not worshipping and supporting their needs.
It takes more strength than you ever even knew you had but there’s so much peace on the other side.
When I told my narc I didn't want to continue our relationship, he acted like he didn't care and never made any attempt to convince me to stay. I believe he was relieved. I think some men will behave in a way that is so bad that you will make to decision to end it. Cowardly. What he did do was begin to bad mouth me to our friends to make himself look good. He also became very irritable and grumpy but I just ignored him and I think that made him even more angry. When I confronted him about what others told me, he completely denied it but I knew they were telling the truth. I found out shortly after I left he had another woman right away. Typical. I really feel sorry for the new woman because she will probably fall for the love bombing that I'm sure he is doing with her. Poor thing. My relationship with him was the worst experience I have ever had but the greatest life lesson. Life is good now and I am at peace.
It's true "the worst experience" although it is extremely painful however, it will turn out to be "the greatest life lesson."
When you tell a person that they are narcissistic to their face it will destroy their evil plans of attack.
When you worship a person or lust after a person it's easier for them to destroy you.
When you confront a person and tell them they're a narcissist, they will turn around and call you the narcissist... So in my opinion it's not a good idea. Better to just walk away quietly...❤
Narcissist go on to treat The next victim the same way they treated you... except they know when and where their boundaries are with this next person to continue their supply in a different way.
Thank You Mama, Rejection is Devine Protection ❤❤❤❤❤
Yes yes yes!! I dealt and had a baby with one. He did the love bombing. Things moved fast. I was so naive, thought it was love. It was the craziest and worst experience of my life. I was in fear of my life every day. Even through my pregnancy. We have been broken up for 6 years now because I didnt want my kids, I had a son from a previous relationship, see me get abused. He never hit me but he was violent. To this day he refuses to acknowledge what he did to me. I try to speak to him as minimum as possible. He doesn't get my daughter but I believe he does this to control me. He uses my daughter as a pawn to control me because he knows that with a baby that I can't have a social life. I realized that he's an actor. He pretends that he's nice to reel you in but he is truly the devil behind closed doors. It's the craziest thing. I could tell him that I can't have a social life because I can't get a sitter and he'll still go months without getting her. Hes been trying to flirt with me and I dont bite. I wish I would allow him access to me. We went to child support court and we found out how much each other make. Well I make 3x more than him and he's been calling since acting like he wants to get my daughter but I know what he's trying to do. He thought that when we broke up that I would struggle without him. I got better, just like I was before I met him and I think, like you said, he'll try to come back to try and bring me down again. He tormented me, put me down in public, called me stupid in front of other ppl, it was bad. Everything you're saying is what happened to me. I tell him that I don't want a relationship with him and he still tries here and there but I know he wants to come back to try and reek havoc on my life again. I won't allow it. I learned his game.
It’s not just his game, it’s all of their game because all of them are possessed by the same satanic demon. We all can probably tell the same story in a different version because they all operate from the same demonic playbook.
I know this is an older post but thank you for sharing. This brought tears to my eyes, our lives mirror each other. A lot of times when you're going through these things, you think you're the only one. I've been really hard on myself about how dumb my list of fall for the games. Now I'm realizing more and more that this is a problem a lot of women are dealing with. I am growing stronger every day. God lead me to this post in your comment was confirmation that I'm doing the right thing for my daughters by going to contact with their father. God bless you and I hope you're thriving❤❤
I left after five years and I never look back now I am very much at peace with myself and I will never look back. Thank You for the encouragement God Bless You 🙏
You are speaking the absolute truth. It is so hard to get over this degree of abuse, because it is unwarranted. I grew up in a house with narcs so I thought that being with a mild temper man would be good for me. I didn’t know until a little less than a year ago that he was a Covert. I hate that he is connected to my family. I believe I am healed, I have not seen him since I discarded him. I never want to see him again. If I do see him, I’ll be showing my pearly whites, because life is good without his rusty behind.
Thank you for sharing
A demon named narcissist. Vanity.
Block 'em on all platform
Thank you for your words of wisdom. May good fortune go with you everywhere you go.
Facts when he discarded me I blocked him had hoover ignored all of them I cut him off and never 💯 looking back 💯
Why?????? what's the point of all this???? They have a woman that loves them and they do this????? I was 10 years, 12 years including Covid. He beat me, mental abuse, broke up and hoovered me. Last time was 2 months ago and I didn't go back.
I have nightmares and hate myself as it was good then he said he loved me!!!
All that time..... wasted because I loved him. What was the point?????
Miss Faye, I wish knew what we knew now, then!
Yep that narcissistic peace of you know what...... is pissed that I discarded him he's trying to talk about me to my cousin..I'm not worried about him at all he's miserable.. lol 🤣 😆 😂 he had a good person an destroy it !!!!!
I'm in court with a narcissist whom I worked under as a sales agent. This crazy ass had me sign a company sales agent contract and then baited and switch into an employment position without pay. The crazy part is the company tried to settle and I refused, during court processing the legal counsel for the company is lying, by saying I requested to be an employee instead of the contract sales agent. I could have got really crazy with this guy, he didn't know me at all, I worked for them for 6 weeks while accumulating evidence in email communications.
Most narcissistic people only attract individuals with weak minds and a lack of insecurity also low self-esteem.
This means that both parties most likely come from a broken house hold.
People with a strong family background normally can spot a narcissistic person a mile away.
A strong family background means that the father and mother never got a divorce from one another and they both knew their values and self worth.
They Taught Their Children SELF Esteem And Wasn't Toxic As Most Dysfunctional Upbringing By The Parents.
Father and mother can be narcissists he certainly narc child, because they have been sheltered, the lack street wisdom so they end up with toxicity and lack of awareness.
You are so right Miss Faye.. going through a divorce. Hoping it is over soon.. plan no contact.. I am DONE with him. I discarded him!
I'm going through a divorce too, my choice, and he is dragging it out trying to drain me financially. Narcissists don't like it when you don't want them any more. They will try to get revenge. Stay strong!
Me too left his cheating lying ass !
Tell them that on Feb 14th. They will throw it in your face. Just came up with the courage to finally speak but because they gave you a gift on that day they throw it in your face. After you have done everything to please this person and they are never satisfied by us. And we are generally doing everything. Thank you Miss Faye. You speak volumes.
Hey Ms Faye!!!! You Know Exactly What You're Talking About!!!! A Snake Will Always Be A Snake!!!! # She Who Knows Something!!!!!
Thank you for taking the time to point out that the narcissist could be a man or a woman because I've personally dated a couple of narcissist types myself and at the time i couldn't figure out why i things just wouldn't work out and i really tried because i loved her so much but i had to walk away but it wasn't easy but i don't love anyone more than i love myself
Thank you for sharing
I'M STILL WEAK TO MY NACISSIST, WHEN I CUT IT OFF REAL STRONG, HE COME STRONGER, AND THERE I GO ALL LOVELY DUBBY. THANKS FOR THIS VIDEO.
This is the Truth. Once you get away stay away forever!!! 💯 %
Thank you Miss Faye ❤
He would send me gifts, money and cards through the mail, love letters u name it. I had everything return to sender. I want nothing with his demonic energy attached to it.
I pray that I don't go back❤️😔
That would be DETRIMENTAL to your life!
@@lvncsr6166 I've gone back to him like 8x already:(((
I see my ex in ALL your spiritual advice. What make this so bad for me is that he(my ex) was a Minister that I put on a pedestal.
Exactly...Evil, & says they're the devil.. & don't wanna change..
Sis you ain't never lie. I have 2 children with this narcissist. But I have a plan. Took me years too. Just to get to the place I'm at now.
Thank you for your wisdom, Miss Faye! I married a narcissist who almost destroyed me. I’m divorced now and NEVER looking back.
Peace, I recently found your channel after I walked away from a emotionally abusive friend I didn’t realize was a covert narc. Your channel has been healing my spirit and I just wanted to thank you for all your wisdom and compassion. ❤ Stay lifted!
Night Ms Faye
I look forward to seeing what topic you have daily Thank you for all you do 🌹💐🌻💛🌸❤
Wow this is so true and real .I'm going through this rite now.God is 😊 good
I just met U a week ago., I needed to hear this...Thank U kindly..
He profess., promised me marriage, protected me, profess, yet flip the scrip!!🤔
You are so welcome
Hey pretty lady how are y'all doing I am well watching live love your channel and spirit channel is growing thanks for sharing blessings 🙏❤️
That was me i did not know I was abused 😮until the end I left him he was cheating and lying !
You give the best advice on how to understand the pathology of narcissists and how to use wisdom to discern their tactics
Thank you
My ex husband was a narcissist. I didn’t realize it till now. I went from him to one far worst than him. And has a baby. That has two disabilities. When I get free from baby papi again. Number changed and I’m fleeing for me and my daughter.
Thank you
Thank you!
Hi Ms. Faye, can you do a video on Childless women? the ridicule they face, even from family members. Thanks.
Maybe soon.
I stayed with one and it ruined my health. Luckily I got myself better. Nobody should go through this. Their viscous.
Thank you for sharing❣
Thank you 🤗
Thank God, I found discernment of spirit.. It was my 1st time & I pray my last..Almost 5 yrs.
Lesson Very Well Learned
I needed to hear this 🙌🏿 thk you stay 🙏🏼 💯 Blessed 🌄
Thank you Queen for your story God Bless you
Thank u Miss Faye much love to u ❤️
Thank you so much Miss Faye because you described the whole situation that I just went through with this man. He did everything that you said that a narcissist would do. He told me "You belong to me and I don't want anyone touching you or kissing you". This 66 year old man was pursuing me on Facebook for 2 years . He was very respectful and was very laid back at first. He would only say "beautiful lady" on my posts. I didn't know him other than him being a man who was attracted to me because I am a beautiful woman. I finally connected with him and he sent me flowers. I am a romantic woman and it made me feel good. After our first date he said "I have a wife". He told me that he hadn't had any sex with her for 7 years and that he was going through "transition." I fell in love with him after a few months because I believed him. I ❤️ your content because it gives me strength. His demonic energy us real! Thank you so very much for letting me know that my feelings were real!
Thank you for sharing your story
I used to call being around him with my in-laws a viper pit.
you are so right. I am loving your channel I'm definitely about to watch all your videos
Thank you. Excellent advice.
You are so welcome!
Truly powerful information on what to do, and how to move forward standing in your truth. Wow. Thank you for sharing, it all just makes sense.
Thank you Ms. Faye❤
Thanks Miss Fate's ❤️ for Truth and really talk ❤️❤️❤️❤️
❤ I enjoy your videos on the narcissist/toxic person especially your life stories.
Thank you Ms.Faye for bringing us this video. You know what you are talking about due to experience. I was with a narcissistic person and got out of being with after 7 yrs.
You're so very welcome
Can women be a narcissist? I think I am dealing with this with a friend I have known for years. She began saying that I said things I know I did not say because it was never a thought to me. It started with me getting an inheritance from an ex. Both of us are senior citizens btw. She said things to me and when I brought it up again. She said she didn’t say those things. I am a spiritualist also 😅so we are not on the same page. I believe in my Creator. I will not let anyone turn me against myself. I have lost many friends since I started on this path. Why are there so many narcissists in this world? It makes me wonder that maybe I might be the narcissist.
Maybe you can speak on this.
why cant they be?? of course they can
I think your friend may be very envious of you and your financial standing.
I doubt if you're a Narcissist. 🌼
Narcicissm is not gender-specific.
You’re not a narcissist as you wouldn’t even have a thought to think you are one! Narc would never do that, think that they are at fault somehow!
Omg I went through it omg that is so true at one time I started to blame myself for everything smh
Hi Miss Faye and ty
Very perfect
Ms. Faye 💋 :
Tks. much.
Omg. Everything you said is true, I was with one for 5 yrs and was completely broken by time I threw him out my
Home…took me nearly 3 yrs to feel myself again. Thanks so much Miss Faye ❤
Thank you for sharing
@@missfayesworld303 you know Miss Faye, when my dad was dying of cancer, I use to stay with my mother overnight for support as they were both elderly. This Narcissist use to accuse me of sleeping at another man’s house and not at my parents. He even denied me of having the last few precious months of time spent with my dad because he caused a fight everytime I left the house.
I'm going through this right now. I need peace.
My husband is a Narcissist. I have watched many videos about this subject and he fits the description entirely and I'm an Empathic and now I realize that my self esteem allowed me to keep pardoning him. I have separated from him because I don't believe in divorce and will continue to get help from a psychiatrist and educating myself to think positive and have healthy relationships. I have seen God do miraculous things in my life and others, so I know God will work all that has occurred out for my good! God is faithful in what we are faithful in and my husband will reap what he has sown and he will deceive and be deceived just as scripture says. I'm glad to be an hour away from this man. Women God doesn't command you to put yourself at risk of STDs and mental health issues that these evil people bring with their deceptions. Thank you Ma'
Thank you for sharing
I was reading your comment n I just had to tell you I'm praying for you I was once in your shoes my husband left me I was devastated just out of the blue but I stayed another 7yrs even after he told ne yo my face I don't love NOBODY BUT MY MAMMA & MY DAUGHTER, cause I did not believe in divorce but he never changed he did good for a little while then went back to his old self after almost 22yrs ON MAY 11TH 2023 I GOT MY OWN PLACE, but it was hell it was like I was living in prison in my own house, don't be afraid God is not going to strike you dead for loving yourself n doing whats right 😢
Yup. I meant and fell in love with a narcissist and left him. I was 23 and he was 48. It took me years to heal from him. 20 some odd years later he found me through my friends and family and showed up at my door homeless, unemployed, sick and ailing with nothing. I took him in and helped him get on his feet. He turned my entire life upside down. I am now 47 and still healing from the spiritual damage he has done. I was strong enough not to let him touch me. I made him sleep downstairs on my sofa. I have been abstinent for 23 years. Thats just how much he affected me. I blocked him, he lives 5 hrs away and still drives past my house watching and stalking. He is also on the Down Low and doesn't realize I know this. I will never allow him access into my life ever again!!!!! I am a dove, he is a vulture. I'm out of his league. I have ascended spiritually.
Thank you for sharing
@@missfayesworld303 You are truly changing lives. Thank God for someone willing to speak up and help others.
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Thank U..🥰👍⚘
You’re welcome 😊
Hello angel! 😘
Not even w/therapy..
Only exorcism
He won't come banging on my door again,I called the police and he was put on bail for stalking twice the police said if u do it again it's jail
I had one but no one wanted to believe someone can exist so evil. I was so broken from it.
I feel yr pain as you spoke about him
What about going to church and the gym without their mate. You question? And they turn it on you. Always able to explain something but your gut tells you something is up.
Hi Miss Fate's ❤️ leave the Narcissistic u r happy and never c another one peace be still Lord for having mercy on me forgetting out that relationship 🙏🙏
How could I still have feelings for someone whose treated me like human toilet paper? How?
When I left my narcissist he tried to kill me with obeah
Jesus
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They do it out of guilt. Their treating their fake mommy bad. It makes there quilt feel okay because they make you out as a bad person.
#replay 💜
You speaking the true I had one and he made my life living he'll so bad I had to get the law and I moved to another location today iam spirited bless with a new home things I had with the vampire God give me another band new home and money thanks to my brother dealth this is true
Am leaving a happy after he left
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I already past by my narc man neighbor he was verry agressief when he said hello and I ignore him no contact.
Good for you
My narc neighbor live,s on the same floor in my flat
I told him it,s over but he keeps on hoovering
My narc ex-husband followed me around the country. He never left.
I'm at peace since I'm not with my ex 😊
Hey Aunt Tea Faye
Hi Kimberly
I threw my ex out in a blizzard in 1999 and December 15 will be 24 years. He was 46 and I was 38. He was devastated that I was completely done with him. This year he will be 70 and I 61 and he's still devastated that I don't want him, but his sister's call me everyday to see if I need anything? When we parted his sister's kept me and divorced him! Last year he told me that he was lonely and tried to kiss me, but I showed no signs of passion and it gave him a complex. He can't find a woman anywhere, bc he is so evil. I don't have any problems getting invitations for a date. He is reaping all that he has sowed. This loving sista is long gone baby . He's going to be a Nursing Home Pookie and he's knows it and is falling apart, bc he will be mistreated and I won't be there to save him, bc he understands that he was blessed and truly loved by me and it didn't cost him anything. 😂
I hope my ex narc gets thrown in the bathtub, I would let him drown, wouldn't feed him for days, let him sit in a soiled diaper etc, from the movie Diary of a Mad black women
@@jesuswilljudge7296 😂 don't do that, bc that would make you just like him!
@Novi Whitfield he's wicked, left me homeless and penniless, no love for the devil, to leave a women on the streets, whiles he's in a house, he's trash, wasn't raised properly. I will never have respect for that knee grow, like Carolyn Bryant who passed, nobody gave 2 craps about that old hag, cause she's EVIL, everybody said good riddance, that's how I feel when this narc leaves this earth, Rest in Piss!!!!
@Novi Whitfield I'm still on the streets homeless, where is the ex narc at? Exactly....
@Novi Whitfield so until you been in my shoes, DONT tell me how to feel!!!!
Different shirt .. different suit .. all the same; nothing new 😫
Rejected/ o Contact 😮😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
I was in a relationship short time with one oh my goodness honey I really did love him but at the time I really thought it was real and all I can say is was the most miserable and I was so hurt and my energy was drained and took me awaile to get myself back together
Well this CONFIRMS what happened to me with my narcissistic family. At the end on 2021 I went no contact for the last time with all but one.
Because I finally realized they are EVIL. I could literally see it.
Funny thing is I realized that no one could have told me this in a million years. I had to experience and come to it myself.
After I became spiritual and understood things from that perspective I realized that Spirit did not demand I go back to my family to reconcile-it was to SEE and KNOW finally that they are evil people AND they accepted this into their lives.
Also it is NOT my responsibility to set them straight, try to heal them, explain, think and talk about young days etc.
I can SEE with the mind of God now and everytime they try and pull something I simply called them out on it calmly.
Of course with that their demons escalated to the point of causing me to walk away-again. I'M DONE.
I told my remaining relative I will NOT under any circumstances attempt any further reconciliation. She said but it needs to be fixed.
I said no Kathy they cannot be fixed. I can SEE the evil in them now. Norma, Karen, Buster and a few others are EVIL and they chose that.
Explaining , talking to them, trying to "work things out has gone nowhere for years-because that's not what they want. They want supply by keeping me and others in the same wash, rinse repeat loop.
I'M DONE
In the words of brother Neely Fuller.
NO CONTACT =NO CONFLICT
Thank you Miss Faye.
Honest question, no harm meant, why do you have a witch hat and boots in your background?
Mockers are mentioned in the bible.
I understand everything that you are saying is true but what i don’t understand is why would he/she want to destroy you
Cause that's how they are. They hold grudges and they continue to think of ways to destroy you and hurt you because you hurt them.
They are wicked