THAT NARCISSIST WILL BE BACK, TO FINISH YOU OFF!

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    A narcissist will repeat their cycle of abuse as long as they need you as a supply. Even their distressing discard performance will leave you in a firm belief they're done with you; a narcissist will come back.

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  • @elderjonathanwhite6633
    @elderjonathanwhite6633 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    I discarded my narcissist wife and she doesn’t like the fact I move on. These are very dangerous people who are controlled by the devil

    • @Joshdifferent
      @Joshdifferent ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yup

    • @Sonbiii
      @Sonbiii ปีที่แล้ว +10

      YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @Sonbiii
      @Sonbiii ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Im wondering why this narc shit hasn’t came out earlier! Lawyers and judges and most therapists/psychologists/counselors ect.are clueless!!!
      im so mad i could scream.

    • @lettya2005
      @lettya2005 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@Sonbiii Often, they first come across as very charming. Too good to be true

    • @swiftkarma4436
      @swiftkarma4436 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@Sonbiii many of the people in the positions you named are narcs themselves. Narcs seek power and prestige. Trust me they know.

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Those butterflies u feel means danger not love or attraction

  • @ad6417
    @ad6417 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    From day one of whenever I met a narcissist there were two things that were always present 1) love bombing and 2) they seemed "odd"

    • @JennyGaston
      @JennyGaston ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yes very odd

    • @narcpoacher7708
      @narcpoacher7708 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      The covert narc always plays shy and socially awkward to get you to feel sorry for them. Idc if it'd autism or what I always stay away from anyone who's socially awkward

    • @JennyGaston
      @JennyGaston ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@narcpoacher7708 facts!

    • @ucc1-308
      @ucc1-308 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's what I said about you. Now go vacuum again.

    • @joystratton4658
      @joystratton4658 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      They have a nervous energy!!

  • @lynchmary3831
    @lynchmary3831 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I left him in 2015. He showed up after 7 years. He wanted to know how I was doing. I quietly closed the door in his face.

  • @ronniehouston8827
    @ronniehouston8827 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST ME SHALL PROSPER AMEN 🙏✨🙌

    • @annarobinson2736
      @annarobinson2736 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen! That Resurrection Power! Stilll.... Standing!🙌

    • @eyeleesmiley
      @eyeleesmiley ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have an alarm every day that says that to remind me ✨

  • @GullahGeecheeFarmer
    @GullahGeecheeFarmer ปีที่แล้ว +99

    My whole family and wifes family is filled with narcissists. I honestly think it's a major issue in the black community that's not spoken on as much as it should be.

  • @terrydyer2490
    @terrydyer2490 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It doesn't just happen to couples, it happens with family members, friends, and even co workers. BEWARE!!!!

  • @skylarroberts1483
    @skylarroberts1483 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I hear you!!! Been there more than once. I do not trust Men anymore and I know not all men are but I am not willing to take the chance. I'd rather be celibate and sane!!!!! 50 now and I'm no longer willing to give myself away. I wish I'd learned this so much sooner in life though!! So to all the young ones know your worth! And listen to your intuition! That little voice, that niggling feeling something is not right it is telling you,,No get the f....out!!!!! Our bodies tell us. I did not listen to mine. I was so desperate for love. What you need to do is Love yourself first before any relationship. That way you already know your worth and you will not be willing to put up with unacceptable behaviour towards you. No Man is worth losing yourself over.

    • @marciachristina9513
      @marciachristina9513 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Samee and im only 23 and done with men id rather give my time to jesus and try to fulfill the plan he has for me on this planet then waste my time with a man

    • @Christine-jg3hf
      @Christine-jg3hf ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well Said! Thank You! God Blessed!💞🌷💪🙏

  • @heaven4life69
    @heaven4life69 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    God showed me his spirit before I even got involved with him! This was a prophetic warning, It was demonic, but I got caught up in it anyway. Warning comes before destruction. He was very charming. The Holy Ghost would not allow my spirit to be at peace. I broke it off last week. Thank you for this!!! I am staying prayerful.

    • @karenwilliams7685
      @karenwilliams7685 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I saw all the signs and I thought he would change. Silly me 4 years later I’m trying to get a divorce. This experience will drive you crazy. Now I know

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Similar to mines

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@karenwilliams7685 similar to my ex friend

    • @prettyP
      @prettyP ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Second week of being with mine …i was watching him sleep and the word narcissist fell in my spirit. I ignored it. Omg. Never again. If i even THINK u narcissistic im gone

  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    They hate the fact they have to interact with you just to try to steal all your shit that they feel they deserve for whatever reason.

    • @reddmann4340
      @reddmann4340 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I feels like have been robbed. She has stolen everything I've worked so hard to get.

    • @marymotherofgod4861
      @marymotherofgod4861 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Facts THEYR souless Creatures 😮

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What all got stolen?

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Joshdifferent I think I may have been robbed too. It was mostly ideas that weren't popular at the time. I think she Really came to see what I had going on and how I do it. I wouldn't have shared much of that with others because it took many years to figure that out.

    • @reddmann4340
      @reddmann4340 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@dennisrobinson8008 In my situation she contributed absolutely nothing but walks away with my our equity, my retirement, and my personal belongings after the divorce is complete. This is Horrible.

  • @sassy46201
    @sassy46201 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    They sold their souls to the devil to get money.

  • @carlissable
    @carlissable ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I don’t sleep around and I have been celibate for 4 years. Never have been a woman to lay up with just any man. After him, I’m not easy to let anyone in my life or space. I’m happy and content with my peace, joy, my sons, GOD and the new beginnings. Be blessed Queen. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @Rachel-pz5mo
      @Rachel-pz5mo ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same here sister 4yrs also , happy by myself .🤗🤗

    • @felicitywillboughby6901
      @felicitywillboughby6901 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Am widowed, decided to stay celebate. Am blissful, peaceful, prosperous, at peace. Unlimited blessings to you. 💕🌹🤗💃

    • @carlissable
      @carlissable ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@felicitywillboughby6901 Thank you so much and many blessings upon you and your family. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @sharonbice7490
      @sharonbice7490 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I stayed like that for five years, finally meet this nicest man ever, the relationship is beautiful for 10 years now. He's my best friend.❤

    • @HandmadeItalianLeather
      @HandmadeItalianLeather ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Rachel-pz5mo4 years here too but not happy and thinking about him 24/7/365 😩😩

  • @marilynbradley8487
    @marilynbradley8487 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love it when they come back to try to destroy only to find out that I've become stronger and wiser. When I look at them I wonder what I ever saw in them

  • @yogib8
    @yogib8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I was married to this man for 14 years… and there was just always something happening in our marriage…from lying, to cheating, to running terrible smear campaigns against me which I knew nothing about at the time… I did find out about things in such a weird way … it’s funny how things are found out . I did ask for a divorce because I had had enough… I was being destroyed for doing good and extended kindness to someone who actually disliked me…I also noticed how I had changed and was changing daily, my warm , friendly, loving and outgoing personality was going down the drain… I felt drained, I felt physically tired. After he left I got my self into counseling and through much prayer… I’m now working on me… Yes, Narcs Lust ..they just take, take, take & give nothing of themselves in return…
    It’s been a long road to recovery but I am better off without him than I ever was with him…I will see beautiful again ❤

  • @sajor1847
    @sajor1847 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I was married for 24 years to a covert narcissist. He did so many things trying to break and destroy me. Instead he drank himself to his death. He couldn't get supply from me or anyone else anymore so the only way he could stand himself was to drink himself into oblivion every night. After he died I found out what I was dealing with. You're right he was pure evil walking upright. I lived with an empty shell. A robot. Thank you God for helping me make it through this horrible experience.

    • @lorenathorpe8909
      @lorenathorpe8909 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sajor
      Sounds like my story. I was married to a covert narcissist for 22 yrs and he had me under his spell and nearly destroyed me. I took back my power and he eventually drank himself to death. It was a sad and wasted life for us both. Thank God I'm healing and still alive.

    • @jenniferomoregie4688
      @jenniferomoregie4688 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stop reflecting

    • @lorenathorpe8909
      @lorenathorpe8909 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jenniferomoregie4688
      You're right. It's not good to reminisce over the sad past.

    • @tonnieverse4038
      @tonnieverse4038 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lorenathorpe8909 yes that's true. But there are so many triggers in this wicked world....that makes it difficult to forget. Also if children are still dealing with trama....that can affect postive thoughts. Because we regret that they were subjected to the chaos.

    • @lorenathorpe8909
      @lorenathorpe8909 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tonnieverse4038
      You are right

  • @GodsChildTM
    @GodsChildTM ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Unfortunately, any of us that have been with a covert narcissist have gone through the same cycles of evilness. It is disgusting that these people are even walking the earth. They are in fact Satan's workers and don't deserve us.
    For those of us that have escaped with our lives, be thankful to the Lord for getting you out of it safely. Many didn't.

  • @beegee5305
    @beegee5305 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yes, he waits til the sand settles then comes back... again and again...

  • @truth8027
    @truth8027 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    The Good News is, we can recover from trauma.
    God is able. Ephesians 3:20-
    Anything that costs me my mental health is too expensive. I turn my back to people and things that no longer serve my life.
    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @juliedaly2381
    @juliedaly2381 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    After a hurtful relationship, you tend not to want a relationship again

  • @LightEmpath82
    @LightEmpath82 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    I have been in my marriage for 20 years and have been through things you can't even imagine. I'm going through him discarding me and it's hard but I'm letting it happen. I don't want to waste anymore of my time. It's crazy

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      My ex-husband narc, abusive, demonic ex tried to kill me! He ultimately divorced me and I cried to the Lord " bring him back" The Lord emphatically told me "LET HIM GO!!!!

    • @RealLifeMassMultiplayerRPG
      @RealLifeMassMultiplayerRPG ปีที่แล้ว

      ye same shes a devil!

    • @cajuncrackerranch7990
      @cajuncrackerranch7990 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      You’re not alone. Same here. Healing and rebuilding. Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️ God speed.

    • @cwalling100
      @cwalling100 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Let him go. The wind says it, your heart knows it. Let him go.

    • @DJTreatmnt
      @DJTreatmnt ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Tell me about it. I'm so drained from 8 years of being abused and cheated on.

  • @kaylap.3746
    @kaylap.3746 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    She’s so sweet and lovely how sad someone tried to destroy her. I’m glad you’re healed now! Thank you for guidance ♥️

    • @ucc1-308
      @ucc1-308 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HAVE YOu heard his story?

    • @denisehayes2632
      @denisehayes2632 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ucc1-308 You are probably a narc. This is her story. Be quiet, please.

  • @Joshdifferent
    @Joshdifferent ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Dating a narcissist for 5 years. My mother is a convert narcissist. I am the scapegoat of my family. I am no contact with my ex and my whole family

    • @naturalhealingmexico
      @naturalhealingmexico ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For how long are u been no contact with them? I've tried , but my mum make one of her narcissistic dramas then I reconnect, can you give me an advise please?

    • @Joshdifferent
      @Joshdifferent ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@naturalhealingmexico I have a lot of narcissist scapegoat videos on my channel you can check out but, I was like you. I tried and tried but it will not work because you are dealing with psychologically damaged individuals. They will never see your side or your perspective so your best bet is to go no contact and move forward with your life

    • @naturalhealingmexico
      @naturalhealingmexico ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Joshdifferent thanks for your quick reply, I'll check ur channel

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 ปีที่แล้ว

      did he gang up with your family?

    • @Joshdifferent
      @Joshdifferent ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dennisrobinson8008 she did yes, behind my back until I realized what was going on.

  • @jrlatina
    @jrlatina ปีที่แล้ว +24

    4 years for me, I'm still healing, I have never in my life met someone as evil as a narcissist, those are not humans, they are the descendants of the fallen angels, the nephilims slept with humans and these demonic narcs were born!!!

  • @michaelportwood2450
    @michaelportwood2450 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    She is right on point and a very lovely lady. I am a male and just got done with a year of female covert narcissist they do exactly the same thing and will destroy you inside out I am a expert empath. now that I have found myself and it's the only reason I got out early. I have the tools from people like this lady to get out and stay out they are evil.

    • @juliedaly2381
      @juliedaly2381 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely

    • @catlover9680
      @catlover9680 ปีที่แล้ว

      100% the narcissist will plot and scheme our demise, once your gone STAY GONE! Pure evil!!!!!

  • @celiamurray
    @celiamurray ปีที่แล้ว +76

    My narc and I had it all. The house, businesses, money and a beautiful son and daughter. Married 26 yrs with emotional, psychological, financial, fisical and eventually sexual abuse after I found out that he (62 yrs), are having an affair with a girl working at our shop age 36. We lost our son last year (he was a pilot), but even that did not stop him. I left, he wrote our daughter off and blocked her from contacting him to hurt me, and has now another 2 girls - one is 30 the other 26 - he is also sleeping with (and paying). We are busy losing it all as he decided he will not give my daughter and I one cent. Lawyers are involved. I guess what I'm trying to say is that it does not mean because you have money, that you are happy. If the person treat you right and love you for who you are, you can work through anything. Much love to all.

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hmm ms Celia check out a lady called Salkis Re she really breaks down everything you said. I think you will find her Patreon group helpful.😇

    • @marymotherofgod4861
      @marymotherofgod4861 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I lost my son too mama I am so sorry for ur lost I pray God gives u strength to continue for ur daughter ❤she needs you. U guys been through too much blessings to u 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️

    • @aselyne5631
      @aselyne5631 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed

    • @LadyMocha
      @LadyMocha ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May God continue to strengthen you and give you grace. He will reap the seeds he has sown. God honors how you treat your spouse.

  • @mercyvibe22
    @mercyvibe22 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Take your power back. REAL TALK. Her story is OUR STORY. Stay strong during your growth. They need us. We have the light within.

  • @eyeleesmiley
    @eyeleesmiley ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I remember one time I said to him “why don’t you call one of that string of people who want to take my place!” It was about a year & a half later that I left. The rose colored glasses fell off one day. I saw him through a whole new set of eyes & left quietly. Never went back. He was so surprised “no one leaves me!” It’s been 2 yrs soon and yes he tries to entice me to come back. He bought a house one block from my narcissist mother. I don’t go to that county anymore 💚

    • @kd5984
      @kd5984 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The one I was with, told me that he had rose colored glasses on with me. I told him it was the other way around. He wasn't kin to the devil, he was the devil himself. God warned me but I just didn't listen at the beginning because he was a totally different person at first, so it seemed. It's been since 2019 and he still tries to have a piece of his mail sent to my address. Return to sender!

  • @MrsBungle6174
    @MrsBungle6174 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I agree 100% with going celibate. I've done it for over a year and it's the happiest I've ever been ❤️

  • @chloemccarthy6882
    @chloemccarthy6882 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Lust & love are two different things" 🙌🙌🙌

  • @sisterchannel4465
    @sisterchannel4465 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    This message should be TITLED’MESSAGE EVERY WOMAN NEEDS TO LISTEN TO BEFORE YOU START A RELATIONSHIP’ …. Thank you for this message ❤❤❤❤

    • @themunchieman6767
      @themunchieman6767 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      why just woman?? I've got at least 3 narcissistic woman trying to ruin my life, by looking on comments in many videos the men aren't speaking up about it and no disrespect to your comment just wondering why it's mainly about male narcissists when I know many males who are getting ruined by female narcissists?

    • @victoriavitoroulis3273
      @victoriavitoroulis3273 ปีที่แล้ว

      My 25 yr old daughter met this narc .. in 6 months did so much damage ., finally got rid of him when he turned violent … yes keep your legs closed by that’s the only way the narc gets in ., laying that pipe on you . If you wait , you’ll see their true motives when you say no .. these creatures rely on the fake love bombing .?😵‍💫

    • @tdog9150
      @tdog9150 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😊I guarantee I’m struggling more then her ,, 12.5 years and she turned me off like a light switch ,,, I’m still looking for answers ,, so I’m living proof ,, it’s Female also .. pain is pain ,,,

    • @kammellioo
      @kammellioo ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Man stop being selfish...women and men feel pain...narcs come in male and female flavors...us men wanna feel validated too...imagine the normal manipulative tactics normal women can do to men...then imagine what the female covert narcs can do...we all hurt and still hurting😔

    • @tdog9150
      @tdog9150 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kammellioo yes ,, yu are correct .. best to stay away ,, lol ,, now I know ..

  • @kaystephens2672
    @kaystephens2672 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I believe these spirits come into them at a very lonely, vulnerable time when they're not being protected by a protector. It grows in them like a virus. They're contaminated human beings.

  • @athenajoy1455
    @athenajoy1455 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    My motto now no matter how great or small I don’t fix nothing I don’t try to fix a man he has to come fully ready to sit at my table

    • @vickydpaulo2964
      @vickydpaulo2964 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just shut him since nine days now. God gave some dreams that showed me his spiritual status. This made me learn and be cautious. Nevertheless, he managed to get financial help from me, even to burry a brother, when nobody else could do. But, the destructive posture is typical of the devil, Jezabel spirit....Madame, all you said is true. God bless you.

  • @carieyounginsurance
    @carieyounginsurance ปีที่แล้ว +15

    As soon as he started his manipulative crap- I knew what I was dealing with! Took only 18 months to uncover a covert…I have a PhD in narcs, I’ve married 3! This is as much about me than it is about them. I won’t be going thru this again…!

  • @shannonbishop7785
    @shannonbishop7785 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He will never be back. I stood up to him and didn't back down. I knew something was off at first, but I ignored it. Sometimes they don't come back.

  • @loveablearies
    @loveablearies ปีที่แล้ว +14

    That's why he discarded me quick! I would not budge on my boundaries. Then I blocked him so quick and he's still trying to call me from different numbers. Blocked them too!!

  • @bg2821
    @bg2821 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Mama, you are preaching the truth!

  • @Haitianwife
    @Haitianwife ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Stayed celibate for one year and then got a divorced after 18 yrs of marriage! I needed to heal ❤! Honestly they never leave and the tactics stay the same from them ! Because they don’t change !

  • @Jeanninecomeau
    @Jeanninecomeau ปีที่แล้ว +22

    When I was 21, my husband took my car and went off to another state and ended up loaning it to someone who totaled it. When we bought it we put it in both our names. There was nothing I could do. I learned a lot from that. I make sure what's mine is in my name.

  • @deborahlamb4672
    @deborahlamb4672 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They also will stalk you. Tell it like it is.!!💯👍

  • @prschuster
    @prschuster ปีที่แล้ว +45

    The problem is parsing out the difference between misunderstandings in every normal relationship and constant narcissistic abuse. Histrionic and borderline personalities are no picnic either. Walking on eggshells is when you realize that something is not normal.

  • @milliondollarzach
    @milliondollarzach ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What gets me is these narcs that go to church and play their religious card! LOL! And they have everyone believing they're so good and Godly!!

  • @chrisgaddy8672
    @chrisgaddy8672 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My Ex Narc tried that getting a bigger place months after I just got a new car.
    I thank God I followed my gut and didn't move out my current place.
    Her next attempt was trying to get me to take a loan out for her to get some dental work.
    Shortly after, she started the devaluing process, picking fights to create the discard.
    She quit her job and left, thinking it would mess me up with the car note, and rent.
    It did not by no means. She was always worried about my spending, unless it was on her.

  • @joycemccrory1392
    @joycemccrory1392 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I lived with all the trouble @ heartache but survived to tell.

  • @marybarton5651
    @marybarton5651 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    My x narcissists said he did "networking" for "work-business" I now realize that was a big red flag. But I didn't know about narcissism then. I used to ignore my intuition now I listen to it.

    • @WahDihStorySeh
      @WahDihStorySeh ปีที่แล้ว

      One told me that too. Called himself a social entrepreneur looking for a job for his daughter!!! He started the love bombing, but I played along to see where he was headed (don't do this) and gave him distance for 90 days. He was showing his cloven hoof by 30 days. We were on different continents, and he was planning to visit and to find work for his child. I did not get the memo that I was supposed to buy his ticket and house him (who knows what else). However, the slight digs and "read more" text came in quick succession when I did not deliver whatever was on his agenda. I did not argue or fret. I confronted him and he acted like a lost person, but that demon in the text is vicious. Eventually, a woman he was dating contacted me. He had accused her of something and then told her ugly things about me. We compared notes and she called him a narcissist. That's when I first encountered the word. He is just that with a carefully crafted social profile. I told him to stop communicating. However, on my birthday he communicated. I just blocked him on every front.

  • @deborahedwards5004
    @deborahedwards5004 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They have new supplies all o er the place! Always social climbing economically!

  • @WeKeepMoving
    @WeKeepMoving ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I could have described this relationship myself it’s almost verbatim the experience I had with a covert narcissist. This is the relationship that was the catalyst for my spiritual awakening. Where I saw evil and no longer gave everyone the benefit of the doubt.

  • @patricialk4996
    @patricialk4996 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I met the narcissist in1980. He has been married five times, I never married him, but we are in our late 50's and he still keeps trying to come back. Heck NO!!!

  • @nicholeballard6836
    @nicholeballard6836 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Draining , you are right 👍, I getting back to my self!!!

  • @barbarajohnson6026
    @barbarajohnson6026 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    These are dangerous people who are control by their nasty thoughts and no self control but want to control others.

  • @Lightgeneration6446
    @Lightgeneration6446 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Empath son and daughters of God
    Narcissistic son and daughter of y’all know who!

  • @deborahedwards5004
    @deborahedwards5004 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I been there! Been out now for 7 years! Get out quickly! Run! They never change!

  • @laurasainz4836
    @laurasainz4836 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ya they try to come back and they play it off like they’re having mercy on you 😂

  • @sylviaford3828
    @sylviaford3828 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    That's a big AMEN! You are a wise woman and I love how you present yourself and your experiences!

  • @asiahenry7798
    @asiahenry7798 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You are so right about them dragging you everywhere with them. You start to feel like Linus’ doggone blanket😩

  • @punkrockgirl5473
    @punkrockgirl5473 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She’s right, they keep a harem of people, both the male and female narcissist. It’s tantamount to the little black address book back in the day. They can’t be alone and they are addicted to people. They need constant attention and admiration from others. Imagine having no self esteem and confidence that you need to vampire it from other people. It’s sick and sad but it’s the truth.
    Great topic 💕💕

  • @johnsmith-rd3zx
    @johnsmith-rd3zx ปีที่แล้ว +14

    i just blocked a bunch of people on instagram part of my mental health crisis is i let toxic people place and things into my personal space..the public needs to repect who i let into my private life

  • @adrianbramlett3891
    @adrianbramlett3891 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I understand completely what you have said and explained. Those demons are heartless.

  • @karenwilliams7685
    @karenwilliams7685 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s the disregarding and the belittling that hits me the most.

  • @style5267
    @style5267 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yesss u are right they are the devil

  • @wardb7759
    @wardb7759 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    NEVER DUMB DOWN to let someone fit in. Challenge them to reach your level.

  • @PeggysCorner
    @PeggysCorner ปีที่แล้ว +3

    18 years. I never felt like he loved me. I always felt like he loved what I have. That always made me protect my house from putting his name on it.. Now he's been under a restraining order for a month. I'm waiting for him to return. .. He will never get back in my life... thank you miss Faye.

  • @ptynes4680
    @ptynes4680 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    It's all true what you said.... I spend 24 years living it. How do they get so evil? How can they not feel empathy? I'll never understand.

  • @athena1047
    @athena1047 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    At one point you just scared me. I have believed all along that if I let him back in he will finish off the job. I believe it is this serious. Thank you.

    • @debbieramsey2696
      @debbieramsey2696 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It scared me too. I'm afraid of him, and this message bothered me.

    • @brownbagtarot34
      @brownbagtarot34 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She ain't lying....

    • @ucc1-308
      @ucc1-308 ปีที่แล้ว

      Never start what you don't finish and always finish a woman off...or else!

    • @patricialk4996
      @patricialk4996 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He will…

    • @dewannanicholson7721
      @dewannanicholson7721 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @athena please don't go back!! My Aunt lost her life because she let her ex narcissist back and it was a wrap literally 😢

  • @SuperBlakes2
    @SuperBlakes2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    They are disspicable. And it's spiritual. And Jesus is the only protection. Pray to God in Jesus Christ name to protect you from deception. It's not just boyfriend's, they are literally everywhere. Really tragic when it's your family. 🙏

  • @user-kitty313
    @user-kitty313 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank You Miss Faye.
    Enjoyed watching your video today. Never knew these ppl existed! Met a man through a friend. She met him @ a restaurant she worked @. He was dining there; several times & seemed so nice… She told me about him. We met through Facebook! We started dating, & it turned into 5 months. I ignored the 🚩; to get to know him better! It’s been 29 months, since I last saw him. I asked God to help me heal my 💔.
    Before he ghosted me; he told me to go on, & live my life. And 1 minute he was talking in a normal tone; & the next minute his voice changed to a low growling tone, telling me, “ your going to have to get rid of all of this furniture “! Then his voice change’s, & goes back to his normal voice!
    My house; & he’s not saying why. Just out of the blue, say’s that!!! WTH…
    Enjoying being celibate.
    Have my Power Back.
    I promised myself, to Never ignore those Red Flag’s!!
    I pray he Never come’s back.. 😢 I learned, “ rejection is for your protection “! May you have Many Blessings, Faye. Thank You for Sharing this Lesson…
    Happy Holidays to All.. Stay Strong; & Go No Contact for a Peaceful Life.
    Never ignore your gut feelings…

  • @storyteller_on_a_chase
    @storyteller_on_a_chase ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Very well said Faye!!! Closing them legs from now on! 🙌❤️

  • @athenajoy1455
    @athenajoy1455 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    So many accidents occurred while we was dating it always went to the person in front or back of me this a spiritual war

  • @1991windsor
    @1991windsor ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My narcissist said the same thing to me "You just think you're better than everyone else." My response to him was pure shock, and I just responded with "When have I ever acted that way?" We definitely all ignore the red flags in the beginning. Your video really resonated with me. I'm glad I found your channel. I've been out for about 5 years but I will continue to educate myself. You are also right when you say that it takes time to heal because it definitely does.

  • @bernetajohnson3296
    @bernetajohnson3296 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You have said a mouthful. Thank You

  • @athenajoy1455
    @athenajoy1455 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He can’t finish me off cause I left him right there in Trinidad and Tobago

    • @scovyaporsha
      @scovyaporsha ปีที่แล้ว

      LMAO . Good for you.

    • @AboveRubiesTV
      @AboveRubiesTV ปีที่แล้ว

      Sameee!! Idk what’s up with TT men smh

  • @reneeriven5040
    @reneeriven5040 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are absolutely right . My ex came back in my life I wasn’t giving up my money like the woman he lives with does so he talked about me like a dog to his family and friends .

  • @kimberlyarnold5531
    @kimberlyarnold5531 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No weapon formed against me shall prosper

  • @dawnphillips9591
    @dawnphillips9591 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for helping us understand these narcissistic. They have a world of there own. I love myself I do not want the dirty narcissistic.

  • @brownbagtarot34
    @brownbagtarot34 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Dealing with narcs sent me to therapy too, I couldn't figure out what was going on...I quickly found out self-love, patience and asking alot of questions was the beginning of the remedy.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can't have empathy with that type

    • @brownbagtarot34
      @brownbagtarot34 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dennisrobinson8008 you're right, can't have anything really. No contact was definitely in order.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@brownbagtarot34 true. a contact in one of these groups broke away and got his image and clarity restored. he moved from east coast to west coast. he said they were putting people on his social media and contacting him in other ways. they find ways to "stay in sync" with you. we have to cut all those off. if they are in "sync" with us they can ultimately disrupt us.

  • @ugochukwuu5339
    @ugochukwuu5339 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This message should not be for just women. Men cry too.

  • @sudhakhristmukti1930
    @sudhakhristmukti1930 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you dear sweet lady for your deep insight & wisdom. For sharing your experiences. God bless you and protect you from every evil. Specially evil folks trying to prey on empathetic and compassionate elderly women. Amen. Yes, the Bible warns of 'lovers of self' increasing in these end-times. The Jezebel spirit is now rampant. Narcissists are growing in numbers everyday.
    And you are SO right - intuiton tries hard to warn .... indeed, instincts are God-given.

  • @witnessofchrist2524
    @witnessofchrist2524 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    You're telling the absolute truth, ma'am. In fact, this sounds crazy to ppl who don't experience this. This is the wisdom youth needs to hear from the elders. I love it. 😇🙏🏼🫶

    • @catlover9680
      @catlover9680 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes pure evil, the ex narc, was so charming my parents took his side, when i divorced him! I had no other choice but to cut ties with all of them! My family didn't believe me so yes I know what true betrayal is all about! God was by my side!

  • @shirleyblue6585
    @shirleyblue6585 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So on point getting out its been so hard I feel stronger now and now they sending text. I will never take them back. I don't want to be with anyone I am working on me.

  • @blackliongirl2402
    @blackliongirl2402 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you! 💐

  • @lindajackson4819
    @lindajackson4819 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You speak the highest truth. I have been there too where he tried to destroy me emotionally, spiritually, socially, financially, with my employment and child. I was so blessed to see his plan and as he began to escalate, file a restraining order against him delivered by a US Marshall. It was a lot but once you have been with one then the signs are easier to spot. God bless you with your message that you are able to help others before it is too late.

  • @persiamotorman
    @persiamotorman ปีที่แล้ว +4

    There's some different terms I have heard to describe Narcissists: 1. Egopaths. 2. Egomania. 3. Organic portal (soulless being). Some people say their soul isn't a human soul. 4. Infected by the Wetiko mind virus (this one is super intellectual.). 5. Disconnected (psychopaths and sociopaths would be considered "hyper-disconnected"). The Quran talks about the "Deaf, dumb and blind"....that's how disconnected from truth and reality they are. They are beyond reaching and reason.

  • @reddmann4340
    @reddmann4340 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I have felt constricted for 20 years. I never knew what was going on. I stopped doing the things I enjoy to include having company at my own house. Can't even invite friends and family to my house because of the toxic energy and behaviors.

  • @Vixinaful
    @Vixinaful ปีที่แล้ว +7

    There is a way of getting rid of them; treat them even wrse than they have treated you. I did and was freed. Only took one time bc they're allergic to their own mistreat. Can vouch for them having demons aswell. He went into schizophrenia and hears voices every day. Three voices that whispers. Really eery.

  • @brownbagtarot34
    @brownbagtarot34 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Once narc hovered me with an "I really miss you/us" after we discussed his new fiancé during a brief face to face exchange, to see if the door was open for him now. I congratulated them and kept him blocked.

  • @sassy46201
    @sassy46201 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A woman of wisdom is what u are. A pure woman of gold.

  • @gypsumgoddess2828
    @gypsumgoddess2828 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank god my experience only lasted 7 months. But Everything she is saying is nearly exactly what i went through. Bless you for this video, its exactly what i needed to hear. I no longer feel so alone while i work on restoring myself.

  • @deborahford3505
    @deborahford3505 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You are right sisters be strong the devil here on earth be strong for your daughters aunt's cousins don't be hard up for kind of man Love you be a better person Keep your light shining be around positive people

  • @Ktianavideos
    @Ktianavideos ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We need more women like you who got wisdom that can teach us thank you.

  • @Rosiehillview
    @Rosiehillview ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ❤thanks for the bare truth. You have it spot on! Never doubt your gut when you meet someone. Run away fast!

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love takes time lust is fast moving

  • @TruthPrevails30
    @TruthPrevails30 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m living this 😫 it’s so hard to find ways to make money to escape.

  • @deborahday1786
    @deborahday1786 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so helpful and on point, Ms. Faye. Relating to all of it. My legs is CLOSED and the narc did try to come back and I didn’t even acknowledge him. Love to you! ❤️🧡

  • @djladyfantasy
    @djladyfantasy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks, He acts like he hates jezebels and Delilahs but that him wow

  • @cherylross393
    @cherylross393 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Smart lady

  • @oldschool6268
    @oldschool6268 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dear mother, I'm calling you mother as a sign of respect, great information, A father, mother, sister, brother, etc can be a narcissist, mine was my father, but I couldn't put my finger on it till I got 50 years old, when my mom passed, he was more open then my sister passed and it increased more and she was a narcissist also. I moved off of 200 acres just to have some peace !

  • @jerrydeanrobinson7179
    @jerrydeanrobinson7179 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As I have listened to Miss Faye's World these past two weeks (yes, I just found her!), I am her soul sister, for truth. I wish I had found her 40 years ago. My life would have been so different. I see that. If I knew then what I know now. But my situation just shows me how God got me through it ALL. I'm telling you! I appreciate the people out here trying to help humanity to make the Kingdom a better place to live in😇🤗

  • @blackphoenix_0219
    @blackphoenix_0219 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    💯💯💯💯💯💯💯Absolutely No Lies told here!!!!

  • @anneroarty6473
    @anneroarty6473 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yes every word you said is true They are woolfs in sheeps clothing. Evil and evil over a d over again.

  • @Red-Iceberg
    @Red-Iceberg ปีที่แล้ว +2

    New to your channel, fan forever. Approximately 10 years ago I was looking up the Jezebel Spirit the term narcissism came up also. Lucky me, God is good,,,,,,,,The DEMON walked into my life so I was semi ready for him. I am now 27 month total NO Contact, I love that you can laugh, I laugh also., I went total NO CONTACT don't want no parts of that EVIL, no parts was angry about being targeted in the first place. NICE TO MEET YOU!!!

  • @catlover9680
    @catlover9680 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    An excellent video Miss Faye so on point! Once I came outta the fog and seen his game! I kicked him out of my house I had enough of him putting me down and this garbage was happening in my house! I know my worth and I pray anyone dealing with a narcissist comes to know their worth too!