HOW TO SPOT A CON MAN AND ESPECIALLY THOSE FROM JAIL OR PRISON : Relationship advice
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Do Con Men ever change?
Many will go even further, however. Con artists will actually change or adapt their personality to your mirror your personality by the way you speak, think, act or view things like politics. Subconsciously, this is a way to appeal to your ego, and start to disarm you.
I had a guy ask me for money, I said no, haven't heard from him. Had a man ask to use my car, I said no, haven't heard from him. Had a guy ask to move in, I said no, haven't heard from him. The only guys I hear from are the ones who got their own and didn't have to ask me for anything.
Wise woman. If one has to “loan” a guy money, let him drive their car, and allow him to move in, he’s not your man, he’s a dependent. Parents provide these things for their children.
Just because they haven’t asked you doesn’t mean they won’t some want to get you comfortable n hook u before they start asking you
Taking a hike is good for the joints.
I had homeless guy ask for a kiss and asked to stay at my place,I said no. He should at least offer to pay some rent.
If he was in prison for 30 years, it wasnt for something minor. Miss Faye, you are out here saving lives
As soon as I hear that a man, was in prison, that's a deal breaker for me. Bc when u think abt it, u know what's coming nxt. A bunch of BS: cheating, lying, petty crimes, etc.
No ladies. Don't take that chance.
I hear you. However I have been in prison a long time ago. A good woman saved me from the life. I agree that in many cases you will get, 'A bunch of BS: cheating, lying, petty crimes, etc'. Not every man will keep his silliness up.
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@@ralphmaver1489 The good woman was only able to save you, because YOU wanted better for yourself. YOU wanted to be better, that's why the woman was able to work with you. Keep up the good work.
@Decgyrrl, first RED FLAG when he asked for MONEY! to me that is a COMPLETE turn off, it shows me his CHARACTER, it’s embarrassing and he has no SHAME, if he really needed the money he should have worked his side hustle, or asked his homeboy, his dad, etc; he would NEVER have heard from me AGAIN…………..
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The best dating advice i got- Never let a man know where you live for the first year. So many get real nasty when you don't go along with their schemes, it's a sanity save fr
This just sounds so scary omg. My husband and I built our home together and I can't imagine letting another man step foot in my house. If you let them know where you live then of course they're going to show up on your door step....uninvited.
Thank you!!!!! I’ve been doing that!!! I’ve learned my lesson.
@@sophiaelayne9984 no. unless they are lowlife’s without manners
They always call & i meet them outside
I have found an invisible “room mate” is very helpful
They don’t ask a lot of questions or push the issue of coming in
My Dad tells me “don’t ever let anyone know you are alone. Tell them you have a big extended family. Look at Nature shows it is the lone animal that is most often attacked”
If you would like another partner in life you will have to ‘accept & adjust’ to another man in your home/life…sooner or later
Your home, if fact all of our possessions are on temporary loan
One day we return home
@@RK-su4hs Exactly. We are just passing through. But while I'm here I'm going to enjoy the heck out of it by myself!
@@sophiaelayne9984 every choice has prices in addition to benefits
My friend told me that an inmate once posted a dating profile saying that he lives in a ,”gated community.” 🤣🤣🤣
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“Gated community” - that’s funny! 😂😂😂😂
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Wow!😳🙄😩🤣🤣🤣🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪😩🤷🏼♀️
Miss Faye's advice is a blessing for young ladies in the world who don't have anyone to teach them.
Yes, young women and maybe no so young women should listen. She's telling it like it is.
That prison life video was an eye opener for me. Miss Faye is telling us the truth!
I’m so happy I found her
And the older ones who didn't have a strong female role model x
@@thinkingallowed1st Right. Because older or middle-aged women can be fooled by men like this, too.
Just met a guy at work this week and I thought he was super sweet, shy and quiet and found out he liked me. He told me in the FIRST conversation that he moves fast and he wanted me to come over and have sex with him on the first night. He was begging me to come over talking about he was crying because I told him no. He also got very disrespectful with me when I told him we were not compatible because I don’t agree with having sex with strangers (or outside of marriage for that matter). Very scary situation and I know a manipulator when I see one.
I hope that you reported him to your boss for $3xual harassment. This pushy piece of work might be making the rounds of coworkers right now.
He sounds like a crazy person !! Watch out .. lots of men are carrying diseases n Knowingly passing on to woman !!
The thing is you are still communicating with the person ....
Be aware of your surroundings ..talk less..more action ..
When they been in jail long, they are v-e-r-y horny upon release, if not queer or bi.
@@clarkclarke I do a task where I don’t have to talk with or work with him at all. Prior to this weird exchange we only waved and said hello in passing every now and again. I don’t talk to or deal with him at all.
Imprisoned or prison adjacent men should not be part of a black woman's dating pool. Far too many liabilities and risks to personal safety and security. Thank you for creating this channel. Let's make sure black women are putting themselves first.
That part.💯
Thank you💞
Agreed 🎉
But you know for a fact they are. And then they complain "men" ain't shit when the felon or thug skips out on the kids and child support. But high value men definitely agree with your comment.
Yes, many, but not all women are putting themselves first, actually, they're putting their sexuality first and conning men to pay for their children. Of course, their men are as much at fault! Sadly, though, such women (and men) end up broken, angry, and alone and complaining about the opposite sex. Don’t let Internet content creators stop you from seeking the REAL Jesus Christ. But if you are smart and truly seek Him and follow His teachings according to the Holy Bible, you’ll be happier in every way in time. It’s not easy, as the demons of darkness will try to sabotage you (through your weakness for sex and in other ways) for reaching out to the real Christ Jesus. There are many fake ones out there so be very careful but not affraid.
“You can’t trust these men if they living next door, you know you can’t trust them in another state.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Prison is probably the 2nd greatest con played on BM. They willingly, in many cases, engage in behavior that will place them behind bars. Then they will live and become lustful for other men. When he returns to "normal society" he will either feel shame or cocky about his behavior. He then will act out this shame on Women, instead of dealing with the healing he needs and change needed.
Prison damn
sometimes. it’s called gay for the stay
That is correct, Men never rush to get married , anyway unless they need something of you - shelter, money , visa, carer , …
Homeless sexuals
Lol...
@@zugootsprevasio6595I really wish that wasn’t that funny of a comment. 🧐🤣
@@ItsLady_Ray That’s what they are😂😂. Cause they’re definitely not Men.
Indeed.
Men are allergic to marry.
So, someone who wants to marry, or at least fast, they are up to something.
Listen allways to your gut.
I have never understood any Woman's attraction to men who are imprisoned.
A drug called loneliness.
Me neither.
They don't know their worth. Childhood traumas broke them down into thinking less of themselves. That's why healing is important so we attract the best man.
TLC in a cage
@@newagecafe9352 Well they you open up your life and get hobbied and make friends! Get busy!
These men turning out to be a pandemic 😂😂😂 stay safe my ladies 😂😂😂
When it’s so bad out here that any ex-con is all that is available, we need to find other interests. There are so many things that can give you joy, traveling, fixing up your home, going on bus tours, go to the gym, start a community walking group. The world we live in has not changed for the better, so the majority of people who are looking for fast companionship are not going to be who they say they are, especially after a certain age. Ladies and gentlemen be careful. It takes half a lifetime to establish yourself and the wrong person can come in and pull your life right out from under you. All of us miss having a companion, but this world has slim pickings.
Yes! Exactly. The funny thing is what these women are looking for so desperately, they can give it to themselves... LOVE. When you love yourself you know what you don't need in your life and better yet you don't need a companion.
Ex-cons (felons) are never to be trusted. 👎🏽
my grandma use to say what is left to be got, ain't worth a lick having...and that was in her day...
@@saggiarios3467 many are LONELY in a marriage, it isn't always what you think it will be.
@@savannahsmiles1797your grandma sure made clear
I was married to a convicted felon. It was not a good choice by any means. It cost me everything. I was blessed to recover but there needs to be a self assessment. I had to recognize why I made that choice. Miss Faye love your channel. ❤
Same here. I hadn’t healed from the pain of being married for 15 yrs to a previous narcissist. I was empty and lonely inside. He tried hard to get me to move across the country to be closer to him but I wouldn’t do it. I’m so grateful all I lost was money and time.
Women need to get men off the brain and find other interests.
Yet again, another great video! ✨️
You are so right. Its a obsession.
You know this is a comment I rarely see. There are so many things in life besides a man
You are right, you don't need a man to be happy. I have been single for years. I am content
We older women are such good targets for these men cause we grew up in a different time. There were still con men around, but not so many and our world was smaller so if we didn't know someone, there would be some friend or acquaintance that could find out about him. We grew up naive! If someone told us something we believed it--we didn't question it and research to find out if it was true or not! In today's world you have to question and research everything!! Even our newspapers aren't always telling the truth!!
I love you channel and I keep sharing your videos with friends. I'm 73 yrs old and I'm happy without a man. I don't miss the drama and half truths and having someone telling me how to spend my money or telling me what I can or can not do!! I like being the captain of my own Life boat!!
You truly are a woman of like minded ideas of love and romance. I’m a sixty yo woman who lives a comfortable life alone but not lonely. I too refuse to date someone who has less. I’m not into under powered , under employed, under motivated. Tell them they must be on equal footing to me or are “ not a match!” Period!
Thank you💞
At 44 years old I feel the same I just refuse to date down I refuse to go thru what I went thru in my 20 to as if I'm that age to be starting all over yea nah IM NOT LONELY EITHER ❤️
Discernment of Spirits..👍🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🤔
My daughter father went to prison 2 weeks after our daughter was born, got 21 years, got a baby with a guard while he was in prison, then asks me to marry him to have sex in jail after I refused he got mad. YESS Ms Faye you are so correct on this. GOD blessed me with a beautiful daughter. Now that he’s out off prison he’s still playing the same games!! I’ve been married to someone else now for 17yrs, I just pray for him! I just joined and I really enjoyed listening to aka G-Mama ❤
So glad you’re with a good man! I bet your baby is glad, too. 👍🏾💖👰🏾♀️✊🏾
What’s wrong with these women?!! $30 for gas!? 30 years in prison?! Please! Thank you Miss Faye. Because APPARENTLY some of these women really need some good advice!
Exactly!!!! I’m scratching my head trying to figure out what’s going on with some ladies🤷🏿♂️
@@aarongray1981 their mama didn't teach them SQUAT
When a woman has low self esteem she dates down.
Yes they do. They are blinded by lies.
Women who aren’t used to attention do such things like dating jail birds and conmen
You can’t tell these fools that it’s over in their face. Domestic violence is on the high. Stay safe ladies! ❣️
You're right. When you've taken enough you just pack a suitcase and head to the nearest station.
Ladies hire a private investigator to run a background check on a man you are considering dating after u have thoroughly vetted him it will save u from headache and heartache
Just do an online one. Much cheaper.
People wonder why I'm single. Can't find nobody to pass the background check. If they're not a felon, domestic violence, predator, or womanizer; they're gay. You're better off by yourself. I enjoy my home, money, credit, and peace of mind. I have a P.I. that brings the receipts!
Well, my jaw dropped at the prison clip. Coffee, sowing, foot massage that's a gay vacation. Now we know why men continue to commit crimes over and over. They want that gay vacation called prison. Yep, that's it for me. I'm staying celibate; I have been for a long time. I feel so much more clear-headed and stress-free. Until I can find a decent man who'll wait a year, that's how I'm staying. Thank you, Miss Faye!
Lmaaaaaooooo not the jaw dropped. That clip is light weight compared to other stories I’ve heard lol. It was a old prison story I saw on yt where a prisoner said he used 🍇 jelly to toss a man’s 🥗 🤢. That was enough for me to stay away from getting 🔒 up.
Lol @ gay vacation
EVERY WOMEN NEEDS TO HEAR THIS
Narcissists Narcissists Narcissists are everywhere everywhere everywhere
Exactly
One of my old co workers had been in and out of prison for several years. He had a really nice wife who stuck with him throughout it all. But he said his last time being put in his wife told him “NO LETTERS!” because he told her how it really was. He said when a guy starts writing a letter to his woman at home that there will be 3 or 4 guys standing around coming up with ideas of what to write. So don’t let any letters from prison get to your heart - remember there was probably a group of guys that brainstormed together to write the most effective letter possible. They were probably all standing around together laughing and trying to outdo each other to make a letter that tugs at your heart and makes you think he needs to have money on his books.
And probably...that group of men brainstorming the letter writing, became aroused and sodomized one another afterwards...
DAMN! That is cold.
This is way too funny 🤣.
True but so funny how you described it
Men always had that boy code.
Yes, I was one of those dum dums who dated repeated felony and married him when he got out. It almost destroyed my life and I almost lost everything. Please drop these kind of men, rarely do they charge
Rarely do they change. Some just perfect the art of killing without using gun and other weapons.
think about it WHY should they change their con works on someone
Make better choices. You must change who you go after.
Hard luck story for sure...it will be the woman's hard luck if she has anthing to do with him!
Truth
I haven’t had a man in 2 years because of stuff like this. Con men are playing the long game too cause my last did the “I need to borrow money” after 6 months of dating too. It was heartbreaking that I thought I found the one who was willing to wait. But history with a man who doesn’t respect you is no excuse to stay in a crappy relationship
WOMEN, LISTEN UP! DO NOT mess with a man who is in prison or ever has been in prison…..they are in there for a reason….or they’ve been there for a reason…..and the reason isn’t because they were singing off key at choir practice!!!
Lmao 🤣 🤣😂 @ "it isn't because they were singing off key at choir practice"
LOL 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Rule #1: Never, ever date a man who has been to prison.
Rule #2: Never date a man who has less than you.
Rule #3: Never let a man move in your home, and don’t move in with him (until you’re married).
Rule #4: Never, ever lend or give a man your money.
Say that Ms. Faye! Happened to me, I was in a long distance relationship and it turned out that he was living with someone and had a disabled child with the lady that he never mentioned to me. Horrible experience! Never again. Great advice Ms. Faye!!
The dude I was entangled with had a disabled son too. That was used yo show he was dedicated to his son, yet was not maintaining a roof over his on his own head.
I remember I was in high school and my grandmother heard me calling my boyfriend and boy did she get upset. Told me that women don’t call men
Rushing is a big red flag, manipulators don't want you to have time to figure them out
Ms Faye you are on point I got suckered out of my inheritance by one of the con men also ended up in a domestic violence situation avoid those ex convicts at all cost they are dangerous
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Miss Faye, you are a very wise woman, and an excellent presenter. I like how you do not mince words and tell it like it is. Women of all colors and races can benefit from your wisdom. God bless you and your work.
Amen 🙌🏾
They also say that everyone who has been in his life has hurt him or left him, and he hopes that you are different .
Always the victim.
Lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
felon or not i ain’t giving no man money mcdonald’s is ALWAYS hiring. my parents spoiled me and my father said if he does spoil me respect my mind and love me he needs to go never settle✌🏾
ikr...they hiring for $15 hr
It’s a definite, “get somebody else to do that” for either scenario.💯
I'm fenna tell alot of women to listen to you. Thank you mam. You have no ideal how much we need to hear the truth. GOD BLESS YOU.
Ms Faye is absolutely amazing I agree .... Just know though that the truth is not hiding ...
SPOT ON! I love this channel! 😊
Thing is, these guys are willing to carry on a long distance communication but in person, they wouldn’t hang around you. In other words, spend quality time with you, unless they’re in and getting sex, food, shelter, money, or whatever from you. They gotta get all the way in before even getting to know you and you get to know him. But online, they can linger on with you for years? Come on…
Ladies, become fully aware of how guys really are, and stop seeing them through your hopes. Stop giving them benefits of the doubt that they don’t even give themselves.
This is so true! I helped a prisoner before but he was also the sperm donor of my 2 oldest children. He’s not a father because he’s never been there or even supported them in any way but yet I fell for stupid con games that lasted over 5 years!!
As soon as he was released; he wasn’t stutton me and only dealt with me when he needed something! However, he had plenty of money that he kept hidden but only gave me bread crumbs!! He lied and told me that he was going to pay me back once discharged out of prison but he didn’t and I just kept telling him that I didn’t want anything from him and to just give it to my children but he never did and my daughter is heartbroken 💔 that she has a father like that and appears to not give one damn about them or even their children of whom are his flesh & blood 🩸 grandchildren! He doesn’t call or text them to ask how they’re doing or nothing and his mother is the exact way! She don’t GAF either and never had and my children are now in their late 20’s!!
We don’t even reside within the same state anyway and I’ve been gone from the state he’s in for almost 20 years now! He’s one of the reasons that I left in the first place because I realized that he was not ever going to be there his children we have and he has multiple other children by multiple women! I was number 3 in the process and he has a son and daughter by me but doesn’t care at all, never did and probably never will!!
My advice is to NOT EVER TRUST A MAN PERIODT bc they’re ALL LIARS!!! I’ve had terrible experiences even from guys I wasn’t dating etc…….I’m just content being single & celibate now for over 6 months!
However, the full blown narcissist that was in prison; I cut him off back in 2021 but even prior; he fell back from even treating me as his woman back in 2019 a few short months after he was released from prison!!!! I get so mad 😡 just thinking about the games he played!!!
I even have a friend from my childhood that I’m very concerned about because she’s married to a prisoner that’s been gone over 15 years now and she constantly keeps the hope that he loves her and they’re going to have this beautiful life once out. I don’t think so because she’s been waiting for him to be released for over 4 years now and he still ends up having to spend more time in prison & she doesn’t even reside close to him anymore and mainly moved to another state just to try and protect him from the negativity of the state he currently resides in!!! SMDH
@@rubyred3860 It sounds like your friend is following the same path that you and many other women have followed. I've seen so many of them up close too. But we all must learn. You have learned and your friend will too, so don't worry about her. It's not really about jail, it's something else.
Many if not most men are not ready to be with a woman, and not ready to be family men whether they are in jail or not. Which explains why they drift off after getting out. The woman who supported them in jail they ignore when they are released bcuz who wouldn't accept support in jail?
The money accepted to buy things like cigarettes, and the time spent on the phone talking or writing letters is bcuz they're in jail and is something for them to do. Even smoking a cigarette is a way of pasting time. So, the phone calls and letters are just ways to past time. It's not a connection that women want to think that it is. Nobody can't just buy a real companion.
So, of course, when they want something is when they will come around or stick around. A supply of sex, money, a place to stay, etc. It's not an opportunity for love or companionship, but are simply presenting offerings to be used. Women have to learn to distinguish the difference between asserting personal needs and a real connection and relationship.
They want to marry you so they have access to your bank account and property.
As a former correctional officer Aunt Faye is correct about "Gay for the Stay". I saw that countless times in the prison system.
36 yrs!! That man is institutionalized and she ahould run. Most inmates become institutionalized within the first 5 years. So Sista you know after 36 yrs his is good and crazy! RUN!!!
He’s not a man anymore after that time, the prison system is to make him stay in a animalistic nature and a constant survival state of being. 12:41
He is very institute live he doesn't how to behave on the outside
Yes, sadly prison dehumanizes and most adapt psychopathic behavior to adapt and survive prison life. This is catastrophic and most men don't reverse it since they think they are so clever now with these strategies and behaviors.
These con men are lingering in the gyms seeking out older women that are married or single to take advantage. I've observed it in a popular gym recently.
It's true. I had a guy approach me at a music festival. Asking me if I needed help carrying my things, telling me he was "new" in town and how he "stumbled" upon it and so glad he did. I said, "okay enjoy" and walked away. Out of all the people, he's going to signal me out? Yeah right. He saw how nice my car was and decided I needed a helping hand.
They always start off with a small nickel and dime story. These guys don’t necessarily have to be prisoners or been in prison
Hello I just started watching your channel. A con man doesn’t just exist coming out of jail. I knew a person who was a narcissist who also was a con who love bombed me but I left the situation immediately after I saw his true colors.
me too he got me however finaly woke up
36 years?! That man murderd somebody! You have to ask that?! Wow, where are these womens' brains and self-esteem?! I just can't.
I truly appreciate your message. I went through this a few years ago with my ex-husband. You are truly helping a lot of women. I wish I would have found you years ago.
I love ❤️ you Ms. Faye. You are very truthful and real. You always used your life examples. You are a jewel.
thank you grandma for telling us so we don't have to learn the hard way. i was coned multiple times in the past. my mom and grandma had no training in good relationships i had nowhere to learn from a woman before the internet happened. and even then this women teaching otheres is a new thing. and so i'm so greatful you are here so i can learn before doing!!
Listening to you, Miss Faye, I realize that I married a con man, now deceased. Rarely was there a peaceful moment in our marriage.He spent half of our marriage trying to get my own stuff that I had worked for and accumulated.
His con game didn’t work. I caught on to him after I realized that my assets were far greater than his. Yes, we stayed married. But Bro did not get my stuff. He told me: I ain’t never seen a woman like you before- after he realized that I could defend both my own a** and my assets. You, Miss Faye, are the Black Dr. Ruth, only better!
I’m widowed with kids after 14yrs and my oh my it’s scary out here. I’ve had all kinds of con men try.
Darn, they all fall into some of those categories. I'm no longer on dating sites. It's a waste of money and time.😊
I'm ashamed that when a serious man came into my life, I felt intimidated.
The guy I just “dated” was definitely a con man aka felon. He was 10 years older than me. He definitely ran game on me and I fell for it. Being with him was a lesson, I had to learn the hard way. I can officially say, I am over him and that type of man.
Hey I went through same thing I use to date this guy he tried to scam he didn't get his check on disability won't work you can part time has own apartment car broke he lives off women I broke it off quickly didn't look back stay safe and strong
They will open beg. Or dry begging. Liars. Asking for money Is a deal breaker. They will steal from you.
Yes I worked for the Prison system and I seen it first hand 7:33
Just came here after viewing a video from the Manosphere for the first (and last) time.
I had no idea men like this existed...sharp dressed, seemingly “educated” yet horribly critical of women. I gotta be honest, the nicest guys I’ve ever dated were kind and nerdy. Allll the guys we rejected in High School are the guys we’d gladly go out with now.
Oh Miss Faye, I love how your boldness and your no-nonsense ways! 😇 🏆
We need a TH-cam channel of like-minded Grandmother’s such as yourself. 📺 🍿
The manosphere is mental illness of men who prefer men which is why they hate on women so much.
What they are trying to do tho -
is get other men to leave women alone cause they are jealous fools & entitled to all the menz lol.
The main theme i have seen in con men is “it’s going to get greata lata”. It rarely ever does
Most men in jail/prison are looking for a “runner” ie someone on the outside to provide their needs
It doesn't matter what your past circumstances are if you want to succeed you can but you have to be willing to put in the work. Most people don't want to put in the work. They make excuses and blame others. Getting ahead in life requires determination and dedication. You may have to leave your old friends behind if they are distracting you from accomplishing your goals. Most people give up before they ever get started.
The first day I listen to one of your blogs I blocked and deleted a looser.
great CHANNEL
Welcome back!
I believe the key is to love your and wait on the man God sends. And if not learn to be content with you. Love you. Get involved in the community, etc.
Miss Faye, I admire your wisdom so much. It's literally a breath of fresh AIR.
She is a breath of fresh air. She kept her dignity and kind demeanor in this tricky world. You can feel the love.
@@testtest2609 Amen and Amen.
Dating or marrying someone fresh out of prison seems like it would be a HEAVY burden on someone........it be hard for them to find jobs sometimes or at least good paying jobs.....I wouldn't take that burden on for a partner..... Life already hard without a extra person coming in and creating more stress....especially financial stress.
most of them are broken and some broke down, no job, no job skills, you have to take care of them
@@peacefaith560 you are definitely right.....I knw that is something I wouldn't be able to do. I hate being stressed 😫 especially if I don't have to be. Lol
Yes financial stress but also the stress of feeling safe with someone like that. I can't even imagine what day to day life would be with an ex-con and with children? Hell no.
@@sophiaelayne9984 exactly......I don't date at all right now bc my kids are to young.....I don't want to many pple around due to how the world is now. I don't complain about being single lol....I like it right now just me and my 2 kiddos.
@@K.Cherell1986 That is the best place for you to be with your children sans a man…they can be so jealous of children. Can’t hurt or abuse them.
“My advice is no, no, no” I ❤️ It. The truth will set you free.
I love how she smiles when sharing the video lol
I have a girlfriend - with four kids - in a long distance relationship with a guy in prison. I tried to talk to her but she doesn't want to listen. Four kids and a man fresh out of prison with no job prospects? She's crazy.
We need these sharper than a scalpel words to cut through our scull, through the brain into the heart.
Ladies don't start something you don't want to continue. Don't loan or give men $. My estranged uncle who's deceased now was trying to profit off my dad's passing, kept harassing me & always downtrodden. In the 48 laws of power 1 of the mantras says Stay Away from the Unhappy & Unlucky. Quintessential con man
True story. I was a country western dance instructor. I had three males friends who were like brothers ro me...best of guys ...who I danced with. I was meeting them one night to celebrate my birthday , along with other friends to go dancing. While I was waiting, best looking guy in the dance hall approaches me and asks me to dance. He tells me it has been a long time since he has seen his daughters, he is visiting from another state. Something about him seems a bit off. I ask why it has been so long since he has seen them. He says...he got detained. I laugh and say...oh, we're you in prison? He sheepishly says...yes. at tgis point, I think my guy friends have put this guy up to playing a practical joke on me, and are watching this u fold. So, I plY along. I act completely unphased, and say...oh? What were you in for, let me guess. Shooting a guy who insulted your mother? He says...um actually it was a knife. Unphased, I say...way to go! Did you get the better of him? He stumbles a bit and says...yeah, um I did. At this point, I start laughing,... and say that we are really turning the joke on. My friends. At this point...I realize this guy is NOT part of a joke. So...I say, hey listen, I thought my brothers put you up to this story and I am really not okay with this at all. I wish you the best..spot my guy friends and politely excuse myself. He says...well. I see. You were handling my past really well. I explain again I thought he was joking. Yipes!
Thank you, Ms. Faye, for bringing awareness to all the females who just haven't learned or haven't experienced the Con Boy yet. The Felons leave prison with a prison Culture mentality. They learned how to con better while they were incarcerated. I appreciate how you explain everything so delicately, and with such care. You really do care about helping females stop being prey to the con Boy predators. ❤❤❤
This older women is golden she speaks the truth
Thank you for sharing your experience that can help many now and in the future 🙏. Yes, some of these things we weren't taught to watch out for or even knowing what to look for. This was an eye opener and sad how conartist pray on the innocent to get what they want.
Miss Faye be preaching the truth
That’s Man U met reminds me of a Time Share meeting; that is, they want to know what do you do, how often you vacation, where do you go, etc., just so they can try to weave themselves into a sale from you.
Miss Faye I really appreciate you doing this…… Hopefully women’s will listen and learn…
My advice is "no,no,no,no don't marry him" can we get a shirt with that quote please
God bless you Miss Faye! Oh, how different my life would’ve been if you had been by my side years ago. Hope the young ladies listening to your fabulous wisdom are smart enough to hear the TRUTH 😇
You are spot on. Wish I could have sat at your feet 7.6 years ago! You are a plethora of wisdom. Thank you for sharing with us unknowing women who were duped. Conned. Deceived. It is Not love, but a con, weak boy child bag of well planned tricks to get a "mommy" , an unsuspecting independent woman to take care of him. I like how you say not to consider a man who has less than you. It's mostly true.
I love that you tell it like it is!😂 Great advice!
I am 73 years old I pray that you keep this a lot of young girls need to here this message I experience the same .God bless I'll keep you in my prayers.
We must learn to start out the way we can hold out, we must take time for ourselves to see the light
This happened to me. I knew he wad not on my level but figured he was someone to shoot the breeze with. Yes he had hard luck story. You telling me he was most likely just out of jail makes more sense. He was quick to jump in my bed. I had to fight him off. He showed that he had no regard for boundaries. I was told he was kicked out from live-in girlfriend. Now with this message, I see he was most likely fresh out of jail.
When I wanted him out if my life, I could not shake him. Covid did not help. I do not want to be close to a man now.
Now you know why she kicked him out!
I just watched your video on the subject of NEVER moving a man into your apartment or house. Agree totally!! Long before I saw your video hopefully women will learn from your your experiences The worst thing young women do is get pregnant with these same man and then the women are used like a slave at times! The man may not even have a job or home or apartment of their own and on the balls of their butt!!!!
Miss Faye this video is so very important. I'm so glad you've done this one. I own a precious metals buying store and you cannot imagine how many lovely ladies are selling their jewelry so they can give these lying losers the money. I've tried desperately to explain this to my customers, but they don't want to believe it. Thank you for telling the truth. I am a new subscriber.
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I Just got this 9 minutes later 😮. Much respect Ms Faye ( uh, minutes later I see this in celebrity circles too in the new now culture)
Ladies please be even more mindful of who you choose to have around your children ❤
Whew!
I hope that those two ladies and any woman who is going through this take your advice. Everything you said is facts.
I love your advice. I did all the things you said not to as a dating young woman, and older one too! All you say is on point! I wish I knew this when I was in the dating game. Your advice is beautiful, personal and genuine. Thank you so much Ms. Faye. Divorced, single, alone and loving my independence! I have all I need and more, home, transpo, career, benefits, travel. I'll wine and dine myself in a heartbeat. I'm open to love .... but it's a new game, mine.
You have become his Lender, yet you are not a bank.
It's some horrible people out there... Thank you for sharing your life's
experiences and that of others. It's the best way for anyone to learn.
I'm so happy I found your channel ❤
She's such a jewel
From my life I agree with you 100 percent. I wish I knew you when I was younger and learned the hard way. I am lucky and out of that relationship now. Learned the hard and bad way. Keep up the good work.
I love your common sense, straight forward approach Ms. Faye.
I don't even know why you would consider marrying a man in prison, even when he comes out of prison !!! That's right Miss Faye, Do not even be communicating with him ✍️ 📱. You are putting yourself in ALL KINDS OF DANGER !!!
Hello Ms. Fay, I'm so very proud of this channel. Yes this video was very helpful. I'm afraid to get involved with a man. I think I'm OK alone.. I'm happy and safer.
Hey Ms Faye!!!! Your Advice Is Priceless!!!! There Are So Many Women Who Are Looking For A Man That Con Men Are Taking Advantage Of Them!!!! Thank You For All That You Do ❤ # She Who Knows Something!!!!!
100% facts. God will show you all the signs. 🥂
Keep them legs closed no matter how NICE a man seems. Trust takes TIME and it must be EARNED that takes more than just a few weeks or a few months. Slow down this is your LIFE !!