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Spot on with my sister in law though!! Crazy!!

There’s hope. Break free ❤

Our last conversation when I cut him off eight months ago, I told him after he tried to guilt trip me I laughed and said, am I supposed to feel guilty ? He aint know what to say😂

You’re very good at this❤

You just made me realize some thing after 37 years I went to driving school as well because they didn’t teach me how to drive I didn’t realize it at the time why they were doing it😢

My father threw me out of a moving car twice while trying to teach me how to drive the first time I ran away and didn’t come back for six months. The second time I walked home. Interestingly enough, my narcissistic older sister did the same thing to me years later.

My parents divorced when I was five my father raised us and we lived with him. I was his scapegoat 100% from the beginning but on my mom side I was the golden child it’s really confusing but as soon as I realize my mother was a Narc I cut her out of my life and became the scapegoat.😂 But when I’m doing very well and making the family look good on the golden child it’s so confusing.. There were years of my life where no one would contact me or hit me up when I was being very successful and I had a large following on Instagram. I had an online business that was doing pretty well and they were so damn jealous.😂

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Oh my gawd! This is my younger sister down to a T! It is deeply cathartic to have this laid out. I've been painted as a villain because i do not want to interact with her. I also have an older, overt narcissistic sister, and I have found they operate in very similar ways. My younger sister is definitely more avoidant, and time passed equals an apology to her 🫤

They are soul sucking vampires and will abuse you and attack you as long as you give them a chance to do so.......they never change.......walk away knowing you have saved your own healthy, happy, prosperous life!!!!!❤

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I wrote something for an organisation and she rang me to tell me how great a writer her teacher told the whole class at school she was (never written a thing I ever saw) then how her young grandson is a great writer. All in a very conversational tone...And I'm supposed to listen to this? I hung up. But then I had to pretend I wasn't annoyed, because she'd tell people I was mad at poor little her. She's in her seventies 😢

My similarly covert narc sister hurt me the other day and I’m ready to let her go. Bye, bitch ….. I’m not perfect but when my life is heading the right direction with only blue skies in the horizon, I don’t need to be reminded of the past by you. You’re on your own now and IDGAF!!

Probably high spectrum retarded

Well my narc sister seems to think I owe her somehow? My enduring memories of her are all bad. I really don't know why I answer the phone to her now. I am really making the effort to keep her "at a distance" as when I have no contact with her the world seems a lot brighter. Getting over this is really hard but we should all realise that it is sooo good. Kudos to all the survivors out there - like Lloreal, you are worth it! ❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

My sister is jealous and envious and likes to copy what I do She does this of her own free will But when she doesn't like the consequences, which is most of the time, she turns around and blames me She claims that I made her do it Never mind that I didn't say or do anything to encourage her to do it or even know she was doing it! An example of this was that I like to go to second-hand clothing stores so I donate a lot of things as well One day she came over to our parents place with bags of clothing that she just had decided to give away She made a big show of how generous she was but then after it was over went all Sooky, and claimed that I made her give them away It was all her fault now that she had no clothes to wear

I’ve been for a couple of years suspecting there’s something wrong with my younger sister… she’s 25 now. … dismissive and cunning comments, forgetting birthdays, but not forgetting to call me or text me when she needs support, doing things behind my back, meeting a guy that was interested in me behind my bag ( I was not even interested in him but that’s weird ) criticizing my achievements… Always talking about her.. and when I speak is just an excuse for her to bring it back to herself, or suddenly being a bit distracted or like less interested/engaged…it’s so subtle.. so so subtle I still doubt myself cause I love her but she is still behaving as I am the older that has to just pay attention to her and that’s my role… She made rude comments to dismiss me in front of my partner and other people … just cause she can… I was so in shock I did not even know how to respond and I kept doing my thing cause I love her so much and she knows.. but lately if I’m honest, this year has been hard.. I realized or I started to see.. this is not normal.. and I started to distance my self… grieving

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So true. Great description of The narcissistic family and how members want to design your life while triangulating and smearing when we say no or ignore wishes. It can often put us in an isolated state and be very hurtful. We are not trying to be right. We, the “normies” Just recognize abusive behavior. Want to live their life while controlling yours very hypocritical and very, very sad.

Other family members compare my brother and i all the time

i realized something was wrong when i lost 250 lbs and didnt hear a peep from my sister - no acknowledgment whatsoever. i thought back on it and i dont think ive ever received a compliment from her. she is SO self absorbed and belittles by withholding. im putting so many pieces together. for instance, i didnt realize we were in a one way competition for much of out life! like who can put their shoes on the fastest, who can get dressed the quickest, who can pump their gas quicker - i would always chuckle like why is she racing me, so strange - but then i realized this girl is in literal competition! this is how deep it gets. its really sad bc i put this girl on a pedestal and we were inseparable, i thought she was my bff but i've had to let her go smh

Always was a tattle tale .. never cut the apron strings . Hard and crass

WHY DIDNT I READ THIS BEFORE.

My sister hated me ever since the day our mom said I have another baby in my belly...

I realised it when I was 30..😅. She wasted my time, went on smear campaigns , was extremely aggressive and jealous. She sometimes physically assaulted me.(the last time was when i was 28) . I downplayed my abilities just to be safe around her.

Thank You, Thank You, Thank You! You’re so brave to talk about your family and your experiences! You’ll NEVER know exactly how close our story is! 🙏🙏🙏

This is amazing, your story IS MY STORY! I really feel less alone now!!! Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🙏🙏

I have 2 younger than me. The youngest is the Covernt. Pampered, extremly selfcentred, manipulative, extremly lazy and exploitive. I would help her pack her school bag, sharpen her pencil, tie her school lace put on her uniform carry her school/lunch bag and end up going late to school coz itz not her problem. Until my mom died while she was 35 she lived with my parents...my mom would do everything from cooking, packing, laundry to spoon feeding my covert sister. She never had time for me even when I had to go through a major surgery with a new born.baby. She dumped me in the labour room around 8.30pm coz she had to go to work tomorrow and shez not married to comfort me through child birth. It ended up as an emergency c-section. Next day I told her what she did was wrong...my entire family cut all ties with me coz i spoke mean to her. now shez living with my middle sister...whoz taking good care if her ...more than mom

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Any scapegoats get sent to ydc's when the single parent was in a bad mood? Fkn Squat and cough and caged up B4 puberty? My sister who is 10yrs older and a maniac driver spend 1hr in a holding cell for her driving, in her 40s and it was a family crisis.

F#¢k. These are my fkn words. I shout this shi. Fkn justice and rightous rage. And it's not some toxic rage crap, my philosophies are well thought out and my darkness is known, I use my sword with surgical precision (for everyone but myself until recently, thx last abusive "partner"?) I'm trying to survive the end of my last reenactment and the worst psychological abuse, I didn't even know it could get that dark. It did unlock that door I couldn't ever find and make my whole fkn life make sense but it has worn my psyche and body down severely. I know there are others, I've been around on the web and have Rebecca Mandeville's book but to hear the familiar conviction from someone else's mouth. Fk this. I'm gonna get away from this pitiful pathalogical dark entity and do my thing. I learned how to validate myself ✔️ show my empathy to myself (still shaky at times but the wheels are rollin) 〰️ know I'm not intrinsically broken, the toxic shame and flashbacks are things that were given to me and I'm not crazy ✔️ Ty for posting ✊

I’ve caught my sister tricking people and playing victim. It’s wild because when I catch her playing this role she’ll smirk when she’s able to flip the energy in the room to play injured or victim. The first time I spotted it I was shocked. 😳

Tried googling why my sister kept copying me constantly. This is sad because I never saw her as a narcissist. But yeah, with everything she’s done to me over the years, it makes sense. 💔

TY, I'm thankful that I don't have any family members nor parents nor hometown & NO 🚫 toxic connections Letting go is a daily process-Melody Beattie Namaste Peace Shalom

I'm pretty sure that my sister is a social narcissist. She made my life hell growing up. She has affected my mental health beyond repair, and now I finally need to begin my recovery. I need to get this sorted so that I can move on when the time is right.

You are soooo right They are really nasty pieces of work They will do anything to destroy you especially if you show any weakness My sister has always been awful and became worse as she got older

Always feel anxious around my siblings. Theyre just weird and hate themselves 😔

Recognising a covert narc sister after 4decades really shames me about my ability and feels so sickening about myself Healing is a process I started it Went no contact and feel peace . Becos end of the day it take so much of energy to deal the narc

A person told me they needed some space but went 3 weeks without talking and didn’t respond to my messages and our relationship has been awful ever since. When I express how I feel, I don’t feel validated and even now he has told me “we’ll talk about that later” but hasn’t talked to me in a month

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I just want my family to leave me alone. I have blocked them. I love my alone time. I have been completing my task list. I have freedom. I have time for myself.

I would go no contact with a family like that.

Master manipulator, pathological liar and believes her own lies, sneaky, fake etc etc I finally 100% cut my slimy grimy sister out of my life and ever since she is set on destroying me/my life or attempting to at least with all the lies she tell people to try to poison them against me for no reason. It’s kinda funny though because she says the most awful things about me but at the same time she also copies EVERYTHING about me. She even had kids right after me both times to try to take attention off of me and on to her and she even got the same exact car as me this year, and just does everything after is do it. Stealing my son’s bday party ideas (bc her kid was 1 year younger) to trying to get jobs where I work to other petty stuff. So much more. What’s funny is if she thinks I am this bad person she wants others to believe then why the hell does she try to look and be just like me ? lol. Jealous copy cat LOL

Omg this literally JUST LIKE my sister. I mean 100% word for word exactly everything you are describing!!!!

I was the GC and the SG as well

What is going on In his house

Interesting to hear your experiences. I was married to one unfortunately

Why you bothering to go to court and hospital with him if he's being really bad to you