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My sister is jealous and envious and likes to copy what I do She does this of her own free will But when she doesn't like the consequences, which is most of the time, she turns around and blames me She claims that I made her do it Never mind that I didn't say or do anything to encourage her to do it or even know she was doing it! An example of this was that I like to go to second-hand clothing stores so I donate a lot of things as well One day she came over to our parents place with bags of clothing that she just had decided to give away She made a big show of how generous she was but then after it was over went all Sooky, and claimed that I made her give them away It was all her fault now that she had no clothes to wear

Um, this is not always true.

I’ve been for a couple of years suspecting there’s something wrong with my younger sister… she’s 25 now. … dismissive and cunning comments, forgetting birthdays, but not forgetting to call me or text me when she needs support, doing things behind my back, meeting a guy that was interested in me behind my bag ( I was not even interested in him but that’s weird ) criticizing my achievements… Always talking about her.. and when I speak is just an excuse for her to bring it back to herself, or suddenly being a bit distracted or like less interested/engaged…it’s so subtle.. so so subtle I still doubt myself cause I love her but she is still behaving as I am the older that has to just pay attention to her and that’s my role… She made rude comments to dismiss me in front of my partner and other people … just cause she can… I was so in shock I did not even know how to respond and I kept doing my thing cause I love her so much and she knows.. but lately if I’m honest, this year has been hard.. I realized or I started to see.. this is not normal.. and I started to distance my self… grieving

Twisted little Fxxkers 👿

So true. Great description of The narcissistic family and how members want to design your life while triangulating and smearing when we say no or ignore wishes. It can often put us in an isolated state and be very hurtful. We are not trying to be right. We, the “normies” Just recognize abusive behavior. Want to live their life while controlling yours very hypocritical and very, very sad.

Other family members compare my brother and i all the time

i realized something was wrong when i lost 250 lbs and didnt hear a peep from my sister - no acknowledgment whatsoever. i thought back on it and i dont think ive ever received a compliment from her. she is SO self absorbed and belittles by withholding. im putting so many pieces together. for instance, i didnt realize we were in a one way competition for much of out life! like who can put their shoes on the fastest, who can get dressed the quickest, who can pump their gas quicker - i would always chuckle like why is she racing me, so strange - but then i realized this girl is in literal competition! this is how deep it gets. its really sad bc i put this girl on a pedestal and we were inseparable, i thought she was my bff but i've had to let her go smh

Always was a tattle tale .. never cut the apron strings . Hard and crass

WHY DIDNT I READ THIS BEFORE.

My sister hated me ever since the day our mom said I have another baby in my belly...

I realised it when I was 30..😅. She wasted my time, went on smear campaigns , was extremely aggressive and jealous. She sometimes physically assaulted me.(the last time was when i was 28) . I downplayed my abilities just to be safe around her.

Thank You, Thank You, Thank You! You’re so brave to talk about your family and your experiences! You’ll NEVER know exactly how close our story is! 🙏🙏🙏

This is amazing, your story IS MY STORY! I really feel less alone now!!! Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🙏🙏

I have 2 younger than me. The youngest is the Covernt. Pampered, extremly selfcentred, manipulative, extremly lazy and exploitive. I would help her pack her school bag, sharpen her pencil, tie her school lace put on her uniform carry her school/lunch bag and end up going late to school coz itz not her problem. Until my mom died while she was 35 she lived with my parents...my mom would do everything from cooking, packing, laundry to spoon feeding my covert sister. She never had time for me even when I had to go through a major surgery with a new born.baby. She dumped me in the labour room around 8.30pm coz she had to go to work tomorrow and shez not married to comfort me through child birth. It ended up as an emergency c-section. Next day I told her what she did was wrong...my entire family cut all ties with me coz i spoke mean to her. now shez living with my middle sister...whoz taking good care if her ...more than mom

Thank you‼️‼️‼️❤️💕❤️

Any scapegoats get sent to ydc's when the single parent was in a bad mood? Fkn Squat and cough and caged up B4 puberty? My sister who is 10yrs older and a maniac driver spend 1hr in a holding cell for her driving, in her 40s and it was a family crisis.

F#¢k. These are my fkn words. I shout this shi. Fkn justice and rightous rage. And it's not some toxic rage crap, my philosophies are well thought out and my darkness is known, I use my sword with surgical precision (for everyone but myself until recently, thx last abusive "partner"?) I'm trying to survive the end of my last reenactment and the worst psychological abuse, I didn't even know it could get that dark. It did unlock that door I couldn't ever find and make my whole fkn life make sense but it has worn my psyche and body down severely. I know there are others, I've been around on the web and have Rebecca Mandeville's book but to hear the familiar conviction from someone else's mouth. Fk this. I'm gonna get away from this pitiful pathalogical dark entity and do my thing. I learned how to validate myself ✔️ show my empathy to myself (still shaky at times but the wheels are rollin) 〰️ know I'm not intrinsically broken, the toxic shame and flashbacks are things that were given to me and I'm not crazy ✔️ Ty for posting ✊

I’ve caught my sister tricking people and playing victim. It’s wild because when I catch her playing this role she’ll smirk when she’s able to flip the energy in the room to play injured or victim. The first time I spotted it I was shocked. 😳

Tried googling why my sister kept copying me constantly. This is sad because I never saw her as a narcissist. But yeah, with everything she’s done to me over the years, it makes sense. 💔

TY, I'm thankful that I don't have any family members nor parents nor hometown & NO 🚫 toxic connections Letting go is a daily process-Melody Beattie Namaste Peace Shalom

I'm pretty sure that my sister is a social narcissist. She made my life hell growing up. She has affected my mental health beyond repair, and now I finally need to begin my recovery. I need to get this sorted so that I can move on when the time is right.

You are soooo right They are really nasty pieces of work They will do anything to destroy you especially if you show any weakness My sister has always been awful and became worse as she got older

Always feel anxious around my siblings. Theyre just weird and hate themselves 😔

Recognising a covert narc sister after 4decades really shames me about my ability and feels so sickening about myself Healing is a process I started it Went no contact and feel peace . Becos end of the day it take so much of energy to deal the narc

A person told me they needed some space but went 3 weeks without talking and didn’t respond to my messages and our relationship has been awful ever since. When I express how I feel, I don’t feel validated and even now he has told me “we’ll talk about that later” but hasn’t talked to me in a month

Yes

I just want my family to leave me alone. I have blocked them. I love my alone time. I have been completing my task list. I have freedom. I have time for myself.

I would go no contact with a family like that.

Master manipulator, pathological liar and believes her own lies, sneaky, fake etc etc I finally 100% cut my slimy grimy sister out of my life and ever since she is set on destroying me/my life or attempting to at least with all the lies she tell people to try to poison them against me for no reason. It’s kinda funny though because she says the most awful things about me but at the same time she also copies EVERYTHING about me. She even had kids right after me both times to try to take attention off of me and on to her and she even got the same exact car as me this year, and just does everything after is do it. Stealing my son’s bday party ideas (bc her kid was 1 year younger) to trying to get jobs where I work to other petty stuff. So much more. What’s funny is if she thinks I am this bad person she wants others to believe then why the hell does she try to look and be just like me ? lol. Jealous copy cat LOL

Omg this literally JUST LIKE my sister. I mean 100% word for word exactly everything you are describing!!!!

I was the GC and the SG as well

What is going on In his house

Interesting to hear your experiences. I was married to one unfortunately

Why you bothering to go to court and hospital with him if he's being really bad to you

USA 🇺🇸 UNDER SATAN'S AUTHORITY... GLORY TO THE MOST HIGH FOR HIS DIVINE JUDGEMENT... AMEN

As they get on in life the narcissistic schemes and manipulation get more sophisticated

Bingo.

So cutting them off, they are waiting for you to comeback please, what is wrong with you. Punish you, so when you don’t do this that start the smear campaign? Yes?

So does that mean that if I tend to be introverted or shy and I like to stay to myself, that makes me the covert narcissist?

I went NO Contact with my sismonster!

AMEN!

Monitoring spirits and exploitation of your kindness or openness! Lord please reveal the truth to me and help me move forward in my best interest! AMEN!

Pffffff this is so true!! Everything you sad and the details

This is exactly what my sister was like. We were best friends (so I thought) for 45 years! Then she goes through a divorce and lost her house and I took her and her daughter in so they weren't on the streets. Immediately she started hitting on my fiancé and my 15 year old step son!! she was a chronic alcoholic and promised she was going to stop drinking which is the only reason I allowed her to stay at my home but the minute she was in my home she lost control. One night she was left alone with my fiancé as I tended to my niece and she told him that she had kissed my Ex fiancé 10 years ago when I was with him! my man told me immediately and I confronted her! All she sad was "yeah and? he was a dickhead anyway" no sorry nothing just deflection and gas lighting. I knew something more had happened I just felt it in my guts! because she was a liar..she lied all the time so I didn't trust she was telling me everything. so long story short my ex's friend just happened to pop up on Facebook so I told him what my sister said happened and he then told me that IT HAPPEND IN MY KITCHEN! my ex had told him 10 years ago what happened and was bragging about it to his friend that I was now talking to. He didn't kiss her and she pushed him away like she said! they had sex in my kitchen ON MY BIRTHDAY!! as I was passed out in bed choking on my vomit!! THEN after they had sex me and my fiancé moved closer to my sister like 3 mins around the corner..im completely in the dark! so of corse they continued having sex in my home! she was also married so cheating on her husband. He too was kept in the dark like I was. I have been in shock..she broke my heart! I have been a LOYAL amazing sister to her! I would NEVER do that to her! everyone we knew know that we are super close sisters! I took her in off the streets! I helped her through a miscarriage a divorce and the birth of my niece! I was an amazing aunty to her daughter I just couldn't believe what was happening. Then I realised she was trying to seduce my now fiancé! not wearing a bra around the house with sheer tops on, wearing g strings under see through dresses ect difference is my now fiancé isn't a cheater! and instead of falling for her seduction he came straight to me and told me everything she did! we told her to get out as the situation was now so toxic we couldn't have her in our home anymore. She refused! she sat in her room and drank for the next 3 weeks! and absolutely trashed the room she was in and filled her toilet with poo and urin soaked toilet paper! then because that was clogged she began pissing in my shower! when I saw what she had done in just 3 weeks!? I snapped...she pushed me to the edge! I went in her room and started throwing her stuff around so she got up and hit me! then I pushed her onto the bed and left to ring the police. They came and took her to jail and I locked up my home and never let her back in. It's been 7months no contact and I'm going through so much emotions! I'm looking back and seeing the red flags that I completely missed! I also realised she had hated me for a long time! I can't think of why..ive never done anything But love her! and help her and do for her and THIS is what she does to me? I'm still processing it all but I can tell you my trust is non excitant now! my best friend and sister of 45 years had sex with my husband to be! I mean...yeah ill never trust again..BETRAYAL 100%

My narcissist brother now says he has no money and has cancer. What should I do?

you know my life exactly! wow

The "putting out fires" metaphor is spot on. You're so exhausted that you either give up or can't remember what you were talking about originally.

Sneeky and devious ... phony manipulative ,, money hungry ,,, jealous ... sick people ... their not happy ,, and cheeeeeeep ... always trying to one up me or get over ... I feel the vibes ,,, its sucks ,,, 58 yrs old still dealing with this shit ,,,,, They love to borrow stuff ,,, and asking favors ...

My sister is more extroverted. Attention seeking. Lies like a cheap rug. Entitled. Manipulating. She’s the victim. I can’t stand her anymore.

I have 3 crazy sisters an they lie an cheat an they think there intitled, An have done me wrong,finally I see an done with these crazy sisters, not sisters