My brother is a master at gaslighting.. he has tried my whole life to turn everyone against me by saying I do all the things that HE is actually the one doing to people..
Mine too. My brother is evil. No Contact for 5yrs. Now that we are older he can not gaslight me or my son's anymore. I won't allow it & my son's are clearly not going for it anymore. We remember everything so My narcissistic brother is lost and miserable with his life.
Yes, I'm always hearing that narcs are bad to you alone & nice in front of others. What about when they are your best friend when you're alone, & treat you poorly when others are around, especially family?
You just explained my entire childhood to a T. It could've been my own story. I'm sorry you went through this too, but so glad you're healing and thank you for helping others. ❤️
I have so lived every living word you have ever spoken with family, and men, also female frienda, family. I so know this I love that you express it so well. You are heard. I never have been. Though I speak the identical from my own experiences. Love your messages, your voice,
Wow I can’t express how much this means to me esp considering where I am in my life right now. Thank you, I receive all of this and feel so grateful to be able to relate to people who are struggling with this 💕
Yes this is so true my mom died when I was 6 so I had to live with my aunt and uncle. I knew I was treated bad put I didn't know what narcissist was back then she use try make seem like I was taking care of well to other people behind close doors I was treated bad. They messed my mind up so bad had me thinking I was not right in head. Everything I tried do in life I would give up thinking something was wrong with me. Now trying recover from all this I take it one day at a time
I have been a victim of gaslighting for 43 years. This has caused so many issues in my life, and how I use to view myself. I was abused my entire life by my family and the men I have chosen to be with. I had never even heard of this until a couple months ago. This has been a horrible to have to live for sure. But at least I recognize it now, so I can just ignore this as much as possible.
So often I hear, “I never said that,” and “I don’t remember that.” It’s pointless to even try to confront because it’s always lies and denial. I just cut communication. And, of course, the flying monkeys make everything worse.
Do u reckon they truly don’t remember or just plainly dgaf me too I got those answers and it’s maddening as they remember any little nit picking things u “did wrong that they don’t agree with and feel the need to berate Shame critique you”....what I find fascinating is that dynamic is absent with his friends it’s all love and fun but the people near him it’s just drama bs
In the movie “Gaslight”, he doesn’t take the lights out, he turns down the gas to dim the lights and when she asks him if it seems darker, he says they seem as bright as they always did. Thank you for all of your videos, btw. I don’t want to seem nit picky. I otherwise think the video was spot on.
Would love a video on how to deal with adult narc children and their withholding Gkids from you for no reason. Another idea is why some narcs always always are sick etc. Thank you for your wisdom. Great videos.
I would like to see a video about how when narcs link up with each other and their dynamic is especially when they go to war with each other because the reason for them linking up is not for anything genuine it's because they have a common enemy to destroy. They end up cancelling themselves out. One narcissist overpowers the other and they kind of become the quote-unquote "empath" of the situation. They are each other's karma. I've seen some pretty interesting narc wars. Overt vs covert. Covert vs covert and overt vs overt.
Please do a video on how the narc uses other people to torture you, even your friends and boyfriends they treat scapegoats bad and want everyone else to as well so it seems normal...🤕😪
Mental notes,I also told friends and cousin,Aunties (who seen the craziness) and write cryptic notes on calendars. I was already packed and running away from home when I was seven, foster care would have been better than living that madness.
My dad rewrites history all the time. When he tells the story he leaves out his part an adze two other parts. I never did this, I never said that. you're making up things. You're lying. No one challenged him even though we all knew the truth. My codependent mother always said just let it go. As it still goes on. Now that we're all grown no one wants to be around him.
2:01 Thank You Yes
My brother is a master at gaslighting.. he has tried my whole life to turn everyone against me by saying I do all the things that HE is actually the one doing to people..
Wow!
Mine too. My brother is evil. No Contact for 5yrs. Now that we are older he can not gaslight me or my son's anymore. I won't allow it & my son's are clearly not going for it anymore. We remember everything so My narcissistic brother is lost and miserable with his life.
Yes, I'm always hearing that narcs are bad to you alone & nice in front of others. What about when they are your best friend when you're alone, & treat you poorly when others are around, especially family?
Truly you are so amazing. You got this girl. Me too.🕊
LOVE YOUR WORK AND YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL VOICE
You do such a great job with sharing your experiences yet making it educational and informative 🙏
Wow thank you very much ❤️
You just explained my entire childhood to a T. It could've been my own story. I'm sorry you went through this too, but so glad you're healing and thank you for helping others. ❤️
You are very welcome, thank you for your support
I have so lived every living word you have ever spoken with family, and men, also female frienda, family.
I so know this
I love that you express it so well.
You are heard.
I never have been. Though I speak the identical from my own experiences.
Love your messages, your voice,
Wow I can’t express how much this means to me esp considering where I am in my life right now. Thank you, I receive all of this and feel so grateful to be able to relate to people who are struggling with this 💕
Yes this is so true my mom died when I was 6 so I had to live with my aunt and uncle. I knew I was treated bad put I didn't know what narcissist was back then she use try make seem like I was taking care of well to other people behind close doors I was treated bad. They messed my mind up so bad had me thinking I was not right in head. Everything I tried do in life I would give up thinking something was wrong with me. Now trying recover from all this I take it one day at a time
I have been a victim of gaslighting for 43 years.
This has caused so many issues in my life, and how I use to view myself.
I was abused my entire life by my family and the men I have chosen to be with.
I had never even heard of this until a couple months ago.
This has been a horrible to have to live for sure.
But at least I recognize it now, so I can just ignore this as much as possible.
Knowing is truly a blessing because when you know better you can do better. Continue to heal, wishing you well on your journey 💙
I hear you but we now know. Chin up..
This is for betta right on the point
So often I hear, “I never said that,” and “I don’t remember that.” It’s pointless to even try to confront because it’s always lies and denial. I just cut communication. And, of course, the flying monkeys make everything worse.
Do u reckon they truly don’t remember or just plainly dgaf me too I got those answers and it’s maddening as they remember any little nit picking things u “did wrong that they don’t agree with and feel the need to berate Shame critique you”....what I find fascinating is that dynamic is absent with his friends it’s all love and fun but the people near him it’s just drama bs
you just described perfectly how my parents created an entire illusional childhood that doesn't match with anything i know i remember.
This is literally the BEST, most clear and accurate description of gaslighting I’ve ever heard. Well done. Thank you so much. ❤️
Wow! Thank you so much for listening!
In the movie “Gaslight”, he doesn’t take the lights out, he turns down the gas to dim the lights and when she asks him if it seems darker, he says they seem as bright as they always did.
Thank you for all of your videos, btw. I don’t want to seem nit picky. I otherwise think the video was spot on.
Thank you for clarifying, I’ve never seen the movie.
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Would love a video on how to deal with adult narc children and their withholding Gkids from you for no reason. Another idea is why some narcs always always are sick etc. Thank you for your wisdom. Great videos.
I would like to see a video about how when narcs link up with each other and their dynamic is especially when they go to war with each other because the reason for them linking up is not for anything genuine it's because they have a common enemy to destroy. They end up cancelling themselves out. One narcissist overpowers the other and they kind of become the quote-unquote "empath" of the situation. They are each other's karma. I've seen some pretty interesting narc wars. Overt vs covert. Covert vs covert and overt vs overt.
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Thank you so so much for uploading this!!!
Please do a video on how the narc uses other people to torture you, even your friends and boyfriends they treat scapegoats bad and want everyone else to as well so it seems normal...🤕😪
I save all videos.
Siblings again..the favorites, when all members neices, nephews turn their backs
My mom, and family has done this to me since my youth. But, my memory is very sharp, and none of it wasn't a dream!
@Nicole Little So true.....
Mental notes,I also told friends and cousin,Aunties (who seen the craziness) and write cryptic notes on calendars.
I was already packed and running away from home when I was seven, foster care would have been better than living that madness.
Siblings and the dysfunction between them
My dad rewrites history all the time. When he tells the story he leaves out his part an adze two other parts. I never did this, I never said that. you're making up things. You're lying. No one challenged him even though we all knew the truth. My codependent mother always said just let it go. As it still goes on. Now that we're all grown no one wants to be around him.
This describes my ex narc to a tee
I don't understand Gang stalking. Have you covered that at all.