Narcissists teach you to accept bad behavior. You make excuses for toxic people. You accept crumbs for love. You are worthy of love. When you learn to love yourself, you will not accept unacceptable behavior. Your mental health is more important than dealing with toxic people.
I spent so much time of trying to heal by listening to my ex husband's narcissistic traits, and wondered why when I get in an argument over a year later that it still affects me in such a draining way. I like that you went into why I attracted him in the first place. Maybe now I can actually heal from the inside, I thought I was healing. But your words are really helping me pull myself out of his poisonous words ... its like the attack me at more corre and manifest like a virus. You right, people won't understand unless they've experienced it. Thank u 💓
I am sorry you had to experience that in the first place and I pray you do find true healing, thank you so much for your kind words they mean a lot to me
I had the worst of the worst heart break up when my bf left me for having Narcissistic traits. Not that Im a narcissist but I believe my father is and he has shaped up a lot of my behaviour without ever having been attached to me and mostly treating me like shit!
Thank you for your videos, this is the 2nd one I'm watching. I was wondering if you have any upcoming videos about dealing with Narc siblings after the death of your Narc parent? In this case, it's my mother who recently passed.
Codependents are part of the problem, yes, but aren’t we just being nice? Doing unto others as we’d have done for us? It’s just that no one does for us. Users are 90% worse and I think we have a right to be angry at them. When I listen to videos like this that seem to want to shift some of the blame on the victim, it makes me wonder if by these definitions Jesus was a codependent.
Codependents are literally dependent upon other people for their self esteem it’s not okay and codependents are wearing themselves out allowing others to use them in order to gain some sense of self, they’re doing it for self validation and for self esteem. That’s no way to live. Continuing to live that way will cause further damage, sure you can do things to be nice but it shouldn’t be at the detriment of yourself. You should’ve have to sacrifice your health both mental and physical to be nice to people. If you grew up with narcs parents then you weren’t taught the proper way to handle your relationships with people that’s why a lot of people become doormats allowing people to walk all over them. Now is the time to recognize and no longer allow yourself to be seen as a victim if you came from toxicity you’re gonna have some toxic traits you gotta own that in order to heal it.
Discovering the Narcissistic Father You can’t tell your followers to cut themselves off from their abusers, and then in the next breath tell them to have compassion for these monsters
@@discoveringthenarcissistic7666 I think I get it as far as what Jesus would do. Jesus wasn't a co-dependent. Jesus went to the mountain most nights to get re-fueled by God. Jesus knew he wasn't going to get help from human users.
Narcissists teach you to accept bad behavior. You make excuses for toxic people. You accept crumbs for love. You are worthy of love. When you learn to love yourself, you will not accept unacceptable behavior. Your mental health is more important than dealing with toxic people.
This is the absolute truth , thank you 😊❤️
Amen!
Girl this is a masterpiece. You nailed it. God bless you❤⚘
Wow! You literally made my day! 🤩
I spent so much time of trying to heal by listening to my ex husband's narcissistic traits, and wondered why when I get in an argument over a year later that it still affects me in such a draining way. I like that you went into why I attracted him in the first place. Maybe now I can actually heal from the inside, I thought I was healing. But your words are really helping me pull myself out of his poisonous words ... its like the attack me at more corre and manifest like a virus. You right, people won't understand unless they've experienced it. Thank u 💓
I am sorry you had to experience that in the first place and I pray you do find true healing, thank you so much for your kind words they mean a lot to me
This is an incredible message, so deep and so opening..!! Thank you soooo much for it !!
Wow thank you! You’re very welcome 😊
23:14 spoke to me so loud. Yes. That right there. Me.
I had the worst of the worst heart break up when my bf left me for having Narcissistic traits. Not that Im a narcissist but I believe my father is and he has shaped up a lot of my behaviour without ever having been attached to me and mostly treating me like shit!
Just found this YT account today.. It speaks to me at a very deep level. Many thanks x
Coming from a narcissistic household, we probably have to admit, that we have a lot of narcissistic traits ourselves.
Bingo! 🎯
I hate that about myself
Absolutely hate this about myself and the insecurities that comes with being from that household.
You described my entire life! Needed this tonight perfect timing!🙏💗
This video is great your videos are really helping me to heal!
Well Done 💓😃
Wow I’m glad I am able to help you, gratitude 😊
Thank you for your videos, this is the 2nd one I'm watching. I was wondering if you have any upcoming videos about dealing with Narc siblings after the death of your Narc parent? In this case, it's my mother who recently passed.
Great vids
Thank you ❤️
First viewer!
Thank you !! You’re appreciated❤️
Hi and thank you. I started writing you only to see that it's too much. Do you have a business email, please?
Hello, yes it’s sydsjune@gmail.com
Codependents are part of the problem, yes, but aren’t we just being nice? Doing unto others as we’d have done for us? It’s just that no one does for us. Users are 90% worse and I think we have a right to be angry at them. When I listen to videos like this that seem to want to shift some of the blame on the victim, it makes me wonder if by these definitions Jesus was a codependent.
Codependents are literally dependent upon other people for their self esteem it’s not okay and codependents are wearing themselves out allowing others to use them in order to gain some sense of self, they’re doing it for self validation and for self esteem. That’s no way to live. Continuing to live that way will cause further damage, sure you can do things to be nice but it shouldn’t be at the detriment of yourself. You should’ve have to sacrifice your health both mental and physical to be nice to people. If you grew up with narcs parents then you weren’t taught the proper way to handle your relationships with people that’s why a lot of people become doormats allowing people to walk all over them. Now is the time to recognize and no longer allow yourself to be seen as a victim if you came from toxicity you’re gonna have some toxic traits you gotta own that in order to heal it.
Discovering the Narcissistic Father seriously though, what would Jesus do?
Discovering the Narcissistic Father You can’t tell your followers to cut themselves off from their abusers, and then in the next breath tell them to have compassion for these monsters
@@discoveringthenarcissistic7666 I think I get it as far as what Jesus would do. Jesus wasn't a co-dependent. Jesus went to the mountain most nights to get re-fueled by God. Jesus knew he wasn't going to get help from human users.