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Fun episode, my staples are: Black acai skinny walking trousers which I wear for everything (closely followed by jeans). White trainers/sneakers and my brown hobo handbag. If I had to swap the handbag for a top it would be a blazer (either camel or cream thee both used as much).

Thank you for this. I'm currently navigating how to shop mindfully. I've proud that I've made a lot of progress in a few years on cutting down on shopping stop bulk online shopping and hauls. And I do have a good vision for my personal style but I'm struggling on how to plan buys and budget without stressing about them. It helps for me to see the reason I'm holding on other purchases is for this valuable purchase. I find myself stressing and contemplating each buy. How do you plan for purchases without stressing over them? Also I realized I've been feeling a lifestyle creep, not buying designer pieces but buying expensive local and sustainable which makes it difficult for me in my budget to fill in wardrobe gaps within a reasonable time frame.

Hi all! I love this podcast and listen to it religiously. I have some hopefully constructive feedback. Lately, I think it feels as though Christina has a disproportionate amount of airtime, and often turns the conversation back to her own style. As much as I appreciate Christina’s viewpoint, I think it’d be great to hear more from Signe and Alyssa too! I don’t mean to suggest Christina is doing this deliberately or anything. Just something I’ve noticed!

Love the transformation using the three word choice method with Allison.

Recent subscriber but I have followed each of you individually! Love this! I have a hard time streamlining my wardrobe for quite a unique reason. I have very curly hair and sometimes wear it straight. I find when I wear my curls, I am needing to be much more selective about necklines and slim fits to balance it out but when I’m wearing my hair blown out, it’s my time to play with button downs, boxy fits etc. Also, I love balance - it’s my preference so… Curls no buys: more focus is on my big hair so no collared shirts, puffy sleeves, boxy tees or very tailored pieces Blown out no buys: more focus is on my body shape, not buying out of my colours, unbalancing proportions pieces I never hear people talk about this and it’s such a huge part of my wardrobe life 😂 hope this makes sense to some of the other curly girls out there! ❤ would love a dive on hair and clothes working together!

My feel-safe&awesome-staple has always been a good dress, ever since early childhood. But I‘m on a style journey since 2021, when I survived canver for the first time. I‘ve had pulmonary embolism as a chemo-sideeffect and as a consequence I have to wear surgical stockings 24/7. So it‘s been three years of wearing them, and I‘ve found that dresses aren‘t my feel-safe-staples anymore. I can‘t wear them all year round anymore, like I used to do, because the stockings are always in the way anyhow or in sight, unless I wear a maxi dress in summer. However, where I live, there are not many really hot, sunny days and specifically a maxi-dress is not a dress, I feel awesome in. My second feel-good-staple is a pair of jeans. I‘m a denimhead, but if I‘m totally honest, I rather wear leggins because right now they are the most comfortable piece of clothing to me. It‘s trial and error, but it‘s tough.

Hi girls. Can you please tell me in which of the podcasts you talked about what percentage of donated clothes actually gets reused? I need that information for a presentation about upcycling fashion.

I think my basics/staples are jeans (straight leg only) or slim pants plus a versatile top (sweaters in fall/winter), tees, tanks, and button-ups for spring/summer. To add polish, I use a belt, jewelry, and shoes, but I’ve realized that I LOVE jackets - blazers, denim or leather jacket, and even evening jackets to “dress up” my basics. Alyssa, your cropped, blue shiny jacket has actually been an inspiration in that department.

I love the conversation you are having. This is who I am. I’m 70 and have always been this way. I rarely give clothes to thrift stores because I love them and wear them until they are unusable by anyone else. I am also someone who does not get bored with what I have. I only buy what I love. Consequently, I don’t keep up with fashion. I also mend and repair. In case you haven’t heard of her, Hikaru Noguchi has taken mending and made it an art form. Her mended clothes are in art galleries.

Love your podcast as always! My wardrobe essentials are statement earrings, a bootcut jean or flare pant, and a knit top (often a dressy tee). I love your discussion on how to customize a list of essentials, because I adore buttonups on others, but as a busty woman, it is so hard to get one that fits me properly! I need to look for “my” version of the button up, thanks for the inspiration!

I recently bought a little black dress, in silk a material that I love and feel feminine in. Now that I think about it, the dress didn't have to be black, but it needed to be in a material that I love. I really enjoyed this episode. All 3 of you ladies have great insights!

I always finding myself nodding along as I listen! I'm in my trial-and-error *play* era - absolutely starting from scratch. Practice makes perfect, so each "failure" is just a valuable stepping stone along the path towards my personal style. You win or you learn! (and either way, that's a win)

I buy tennis shoes but seldom wear them. I like the idea of them, but I feel frumpy so many times when I wear them. It’s good to know it can take a few years to figure out personal style and accommodate it when the inevitable evolution happens.

My wardrobe essentials are earrings, a belt, and comfortable shoes. I feel naked if I forget to put on my earrings, I feel half-dressed if I do not put on a belt with my pants, and my feet get angry if they ache. Hugs to the three of you

I am a 72 year old who follows all three of you & I just had to comment. I am a soft summer like Signe & I alway want to wear more blazers but came to the realization that they have to be made of a heavy knit or be more of a sophisticated sweater to fit the bill for me. Great video ladies!!!!

❤ my three: winter- knitted dresses, sleek medium weight turtlenecks, knee high boots. Summer- linen button up shirts, thin lose hippy pants, flatform comfy but cool sandals

I’d love to hear you guys discuss personal harmony at some point. It coincides with this but would help a lot of people who aren’t as inherently good at styling like y’all. I had a personal harmony analysis by Elyssa Aesthetic on YT. It was by far the most insightful thing I’ve ever had done. I was like 60% there with understanding my wardrobe because I’m not inherently good at just ‘knowing what works.’ She didn’t just say what would look good on my body but what essence I project, the repeating shapes of my body and face, the intensity of my gaze, and so much more. It was so spot on for me to finish off that wardrobe conclusion. It let me understand how integral personality and how you carry yourself have an effect on what clothes look like on your body. It’s like how chunky shoes just didn’t work for Christina, or how certain styles don’t fit someone no matter how polished or well dressed they are; sometimes your whole essence just doesn’t want to carry specific styles. It’s also the least limiting personal style parameter I’ve seen. It’s like hiring a stylist but far better, or it’s like if you expanded on the three words. It solves most if not all of the questions about personal fit as well as material etc. also goes hand in hand with color analysis. I think you guys would naaaaail a video on that.

Ohh I tried a lot of different t-shirts and I just hate them 🙈 Now I stick to no sleeve or long sleeve bodysuit or tank top. When I don't want to layer I wear some kind of blouses, usually embroidery cotton or something flowy or textured.

Thank you for giving me words to feelings and choices about clothes.

Signe you say “clients “ what is your profession?

What would you all do if The Internet went out ? Yd all have to get real jobs? Like we did in my day. Id like to know what wd they be?

Hi gals!! Your skin tones are Signe, gold, Christina, pink, Alyssa, olive

Like Signe, I consider blazers to be on the dressy side and not something I wear on a day-to-day basis, even though I LOVE them. I want to wear them when I go out somewhere but here, it's usually too hot for most of the year. Like Christina, button-up shirts are something I love to buy but hate to wear and I figured out why I hate to wear them - because I hate having to iron them! 😫 I'm going to strive to do better and wear them over tanks and tees, in place of a blazer. Alyssa and Signe, I absolutely LOVE your hair worn up like that - it accentuates your beautiful features and bone structure! Loved this podcast and can't wait for the next one! ❤

Hi ladies, this episode is by far my favorite. Honestly I don't like that many TH-cam channels now offer videos on this topic, but rarely touch the fact that wardrobe staples mean different things to every single person. When thinking about mine I think it rather depends on the season. Spring, Autumn, Winter - jeans, jumper comfy but practical shoe, Summer - skirts, dresses without a fail every single year. PS: Who else remembers Signe's capsule wardrobe when she started TH-cam✌️Great evolution to watch I think

I think I start with proportions which drive the key pieces. Then I look at mood and level of polish for the style, fabric, and colour. Example: Knit, denim, flats. Ivory cable knit, dark boot cut, black moto boot. Periwinkle cashmere, white skinny jean, metallic ballet flat. Very different mood and vibe, but essentially same core pieces.

I'm a blazer woman for sure. If its too hot, which in Sydney it often is, I wear oversized shirts. And I wear these with sparkly pants, which is an actual staple in my wardrobe. I have 3 pairs. At the moment I'm trying to get out of a shoe rut because I've only been wearing comfortable shoes ( not even nice Flats). Love the podcast, especially since I don't have friends that like to discuss clothes at this level of detail!

Great discussion. Yes, people mostly have good instincts for what styles suit them. However, often they get the fit wrong. Please consider a podcast (or series!) on how to choose the right fit. What does that mean for where clothes are snug or loose? What does that mean for length, depending on the intention for look?

I am really looking forward to your wise guidance in this area of my wardrobe ❤

Yay first comment on this wonderful podcast that inspires me. fifth month of no buy of clothes!

I guess skincare is easier to justify, because we subconsciously translate it into self-care which is a legitimate right thing to do 😂 Also it's usually cheaper than clothes/accessories. P.S. I heard Alyssa speaking on her channel about buying another Puzzle several months ago, so we all have proof that it was not an impulsive purchase!! I also spotted something like a beige Puzzle bag in one of Alyssa's more recent videos but was not sure 😂 Somehow I feel so happy that this dream came true 🎉 I have a feeling that your subscribers , Alyssa, would celebrate this with you 🎉

Listening to Alyssa makes me think she is missing a style word. It might be feminine or sexy! ❤

I have a pair of 1960s sandals that I bought from a seller on Depop - they belonged to her mother and had been sitting in the back of a closet for years. I wear them at least once a week and I LOVE them. I'm hoping to get the soles repaired, but I will continue to wear them as long as I possibly can 💖

You can do a bit of advanced work before recycling by taking off buttons and zippers before turning them in :)

I am loving combining Pinterest with Indyx. Working and having 3 young kiddos means it’s hard to find time to play in my closet (but I’m working on it!). I am trying to invest my time in digitizing wardrobe so that if I find something on Pinterest, I can recreate it as an Indyx outfit immediately to try later and not forget about it. Feels like playing in my closet even when not at home 😊

Thank you ladies. I love the deep discussions and enjoy all the videos.

I made a quick purchase of theatre tickets, but it was for a show I've always wanted to see and it was an experience for my birthday so quick check and the purchase was made, I'll let you know if it was worth it after my birthday.

I want some photos of all of these ideas! I'm a visual person :)

I ask myself "How many times will I wear this?" If I'm not going to wear it, then it is a waste of resources and my money.

Annnd I also do not love shopping either on line or in store! Season change will cause a ‘ you have to get something new’ feeling.. this video was thought provoking ! E Q emotional quotient!!! Thanks for this!!❤

I am also not a bag persons. 🤣

You Three are so graceful. Hands down you could be the most humble, straight-to-the-point, honest and decent human beeings on YT. I am a huge Levi’s and denim fan and not a month goes by, where I don’t feel the urge to stock up my collection, which is kinda expensive when you’re based in Poland. So I wanted to ask Signe, as you’re located in Europe as well, where you purchase vintage Levi’s online? (If you do)

Such a good episode! I joined a style society that came with shopping links for a seasonal capsule wardrobe in August of 2020 (anyone remember what we were facing then😄?). I am a healthcare worker, so never worked from home, had to face the uncertainty of the time head on, and the group filled a huge creative void and provided a very supportive online community. But after a couple of years, I realized that it had gone from being a great way to refine my style, and add a few new pieces as I figured it out, to getting my dopamine hit from the shopping. I still love style, but now I have a wish list, and I am so much more thoughtful about my purchases! Thanks so much for providing style that is sustainable, so wonderful!

Finding my personal style helped me love myself a lot more. Every part of my body and skin tone etc. because I started learning more about me and what looks good on me vs. the anxiety behind "am I following the most current trend or will people laugh at me for wearing something outdated?"

Loved hearing Alyssa’s rationale-it made so much sense to me. Interestingly, my happiest purchases are those on my wish list-the things that made me skip a heart beat when I first saw them, but waited to buy (my Sézane basket bag, and my Labucq belt). The unhappiest are those things I’m needing to replace (things that don’t fit etc). Hmm. Xo

Ah les filles que j aurais aimé discuter avec vous, je suis psychologue et ce dont vous parliez correspond en bonne partie à l’approche que j’utilise avec certains de mes clients. Il s agit de la thérapie de acceptation et d’engagement. Si vous volulez lire + à ce sujet vous pouvez commencer avec le piège du bonheur ou en anglais the happiness trap de Russ Harris, Que j aurais aimé prendre part à la conversation. Je vais lire cet article c est certain et je suis à peu près certaine que dans les références il doit être question de cette approche. Vos exemples étaient super clairs et j ai apprécié cette discussion encore…comme à chaque semaine merci 1000 x

Wow, so much to digest, fab episode. OMG I'm so glad you got the bag you wanted Alyssa, can't wait to see it styled in your video's. I need to get into this psychology of shopping stuff (I am such an emotional shopper and I know it so I try to step back, write it on my list and wait. This is hard but I am getting there.

This was a fun and interesting convo. I find that I get super hyper focused on researching a thing that I “need” and the time spent researching convinces me that this thing is a huge priority or that my life will be so much better once I have the thing. Usually even when I do end up liking the purchase and using it a lot, it still isn’t as grand as I thought it would be. And of course then there’s other times when I research the heck out of something, wait on pulling the trigger but constantly keep thinking about the thing, then finally buy the thing but it doesn’t work out and its a huge bummer. My main way of limiting this roller coaster of emotions is just not allowing myself to entertain any new clothes or shoe purchases for months at a time. This kind of sucks bc I want to improve my style and wardrobe and the main way I’ve found new styles I like on my post-baby body is through trial and error so the changes in my wardrobe are going veeeery slowly so I continue to wear stuff that I feel meh about or rewear the same 3 outfits that make me feel good.

Speaking of handbags, I was looking for a bag to add a pop of colour to my predominantly grey winter wardrobe, and I found the perfect purple pebbled leather Kate Spade bag on ebay for $40. It has some minute scuffs but they make me feel more comfortable about using the bag about town, at the grocers etc. I'm not in the Loewe league ;o)

Signe struck a chord with me by saying it’s not bad to have duplicates! I have 5 white tank tops I wear under sweaters every day to work bc Wisconsin winters are cold. Duplicates are essential to me!❤

I just bought some designer sunglasses 🕶️ at duty free leaving Toronto. I absolutely love them and was looking at the same pair online. They were on my list after my faves broke. So pleased with them!