Style advice we'd tell our younger selves | Episode 24 | Sustain This Podcast
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- We've all done it. Looked at a photo of our younger self and thought "what was I thinking?!" In today's episode, we look back at our style evolution, and what advice we would give our younger selves. Of course, we know that style is a journey, and that experimentation is necessary, but we hope this episode gives you something to think about as you grow into your own personal style!
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SIGNE HANSEN
TH-cam: / @useless_dk
Website: www.uselesswardrobe.dk/
IG: / useless_dk
TT: / useless_wardrobe
CHRISTINA MYCHAS
TH-cam: / @christinamychas
Website: www.minimalist-ish.com/
IG: / christina.mychas
TT: / christina.mychas
ALYSSA BELTEMPO
TH-cam: / @alyssabeltempo
Website: msbeltempo.com/
IG: / msbeltempo
TT: / msbeltempo
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I have a feeling I would totally pay entry fee to see Alyssa’s closet from back in the days with the dresses from the fifties 👛👗 👒 … all of it 😂😅😂💖 you guys are awesome
haha that would be fun!
I guess the only way I have ever been ahead of the curve is with buying second hand. Alyssa’s story is very relatable for me, including getting carried away with thrifting.
oh yeah, I've been there!
Glad that resonated with you!
I was introduced to thifting by a friend when I moved to the states 15 yrs ago. It was a community garage sale in a really fancy neighborhood. I was so excited and amazed of the stuff I found. I don't have any of the stuff I bought because I lost a lot of weight, but I passed them on my family and some of the pieces are still well and kicking. I remember going to these sales to find furniture when I moved to my first apartment
Oh happy memories😊
As always, great content ladies, like in your own individual channels..
Xoxo
Great comment 🙂
I have some wonderful memories of finding vintage furniture as well. Ah to be young again....:) But I'm happy with where I'm at now!
I’m turning over my closet for winter as I listen to you all. There’s this fantastic sweater I was gifted, a vintage find…. I rarely wear it and have often thought about giving it away. For the moment after listening to this bit on thrifting and the fantastic pieces that used to be so easy to find, I’m feeling fine about having this piece and wearing it rarely so long as I’m taking good care of it-getting it another decade down the road, preserving it for the next generation of young people thrifting and awing over ancient fashion treasures. There’s value in some of those things surviving. Alyssa’s lessons on creativity and styling have me certain I’ve got at least a way or two to wear it that would actually work and help me to use it a little more often too. It’s a social offering to display such a fine thing once in a while and show folks what there could be if we expect a little more value and longevity from our things.
Alyssa's sense of humor 😂😂😂❤❤❤
Discovering second hand was a real eye-opener for me, and I admit it was only in the last few years. In a way it has made me more comfortable in defining my style, because I find so much I like! I haven’t been very interested in trends, and that made me worry about whether I had a boring (or no) style. I, too, can see a through-line over the years. But with several missteps over the years. 😊 Classic, clean lines, but with fun colors and a blend of traditional and edgy seems to be me, and I think that goes with the jeans, tshirts, comfy sweaters, and leather or denim jackets I’ve always worn and loved! Sorry, Grandma, still not a fan of frilly things, but I have added silk and linen to my cottons and leathers!
I really enjoy all of your podcast! I have always loved style and clothing but I would just buy and buy and buy, thinking I found my style and it wasn’t. It has honestly took finding your podcasts along with some others I follow to stop buying and figuring out who I am and what I like and not caring if it’s what’s in style or not….its my style. I am now 59!!! It has took me this long, going back two or 3 years to figure it out. Thank you so much for helping me have a better understanding of. I am loving me more and my style
My advice to young me would be to know my colours and how to work within that pallet. It would have saved me a lot of $$$ and outfits that just didn’t feel right.
So enjoying your collaborative content! I have been following you all individually for some years. So good to hear about your past tastes and having no regrets. Sounds like you had fun on the journey to where you are today. I am in my 60s and only became interested in exploring my style in my 40s rather than "putting on clothes". So happy where I am now.
I think I knew in high school my core style. I sewed my own clothes because I wanted to be unique and not wear what everyone else was wearing at that time. And finding a chic pattern and just the right fabric to interpret that look was just wonderful. Of course, I tried to keep up with the times over the years as trends came and went but there were always the core elements as an underlying theme. When I found my career in my early 40s after being a stay at home mom, those core elements came to the forefront again. Blazers and jackets, pants and trousers and shirts and basic knit tops and sweaters. I’m turning 77 shortly and retired but my three words are pretty much the same as they have been since high school. There has been a shift in the interpretation of that sense of style since retirement like jeans and chinos, tees and the third piece may be a more casual jacket but that reflects my lifestyle shift. Lawn bowling and other activities are more casual which require a more laid back approach. But I still love me a well tailored blazer. Of course, the most important aspect of my style has remained the same since I was in second grade and that is footwear. I LOVE shoes and have always known their great impact on the success of an outfit. My words today are timeless, casual and appropriate for the occasion. I like to dress up for Book Group. Is that weird? Love watching the three of you play off of each other. So glad you found each other and created this platform for all of us to watch.
Really enjoyed thinking back to which elements of style I still love from childhood. Thanks for prompting.
You ladies are awesome!
I too would tell myself to love thrifting. I got into thrifting sometimes after college, and i've never looked back. My niece and nephew are now into thrifting and they are not even in college yet. Thrifting overtime has helped me to come to term more with my signature style. Great content ladies ❤😊
My advice to my younger self is to not pay much attention to people who say they're fashion conscious, but obviously aren't and just follow trends. The worst fashion advice I've ever gotten has been from my mom 😢. She only follows trends because she has a difficult time choosing clothes (or anything) she actually likes. My dad once told me he loved my fashion sense because I was confident choosing practical clothes in colors and fabrics that look good on me. He said I shouldn't worry about whatever is "in" now and just clothe myself. I still enjoy clothing styles I wore as a kid and a teenager. But I am more apt to choose "throwback" styles, especially from history than anything that's trendy now.
Thank you for sharing!
You made me realize I have a through line as well.
Also, every decade has something special about it no matter how messy they may be.
I wish I had had access to the fashion education I have gained on TH-cam in the past few years. I have learned a lot about the need for classic basics to mix and match, instead of always relying on statement pieces, which is why your closet can be full with nothing to wear. The concept of capsule wardrobes has been helpful. I always enjoy hearing your conversations!
So true! I always liked fashion, but before TH-cam there were so many of the "technical" aspects of styling clothes that I didn't know. One thing I did learn early was thrifting. For some of us boomers, thrifting was part of the counter culture. Spending a lot of money on clothes was kinda looked down on during my 20s with my group of friends. Which was great, because I certainly didn't save any money to spend! Alyssa, I think we have been kindred spirits with thrifting.
Loving the Femme Fatale vibes for Alyssa recently!
The Charlie’s Angels of Slowfashion!!!!
I think I found my style when I was twenty. I tried a bunch of different styles almost 15 years, only to go back to that style again and I feel better than ever now. I dressed too much for a fantasy self. I just want to have fun with my kids, travel a lot and have a lot of adventures. I love paragliding, hiking, rollerskating, zip lining, alpine coasters and it's just not practical to have elegant outfits only for decor purpose. I choose to have an exciting life, not an exciting wardrobe. I now stick to classic, edgy, sometimes a little romantic style. I don't want to experiment more, only to declutter later and I don't care if someone says that I don't dress age appropiate. I know my life better than anyone.
Thank ou so much for sharing!
The thing I would tell my younger self is to hang on to my favorite pieces despite gaining some weight. I had some lovely wide leg pants and maxi skirts in quality fabrics that I thought I would never be able to wear again. But a time came when I did shed the pounds and now I long for those pieces.
It wasn't popular to find your personal style when I was in my 30's, but I was quite confident with my choices. Then fast fashion happened which stripped away my style and replaced it with what was on the racks in every store.
I am so grateful for TH-cam and you fabulous influencers. I've learned to trust my inner self and work on getting my unique boho chic style back.
Luckily I can sew so that if I can't find what I'm looking for I can plan a basic piece and search for a fabric that will compliment me and become a workhorse in my wardrobe. You guys have given me the confidence to wear slip skirts and waistcoats with a boho accessory forever! 😘
I had the same phase as Alyssa - the gorgeous tailored costume-y dresses and pillbox hats lol! This was such a great conversation I loved this episode!
I agree with being more confident and assertive in your 30’s. It’s pretty amazing!
And regarding the style evolution. I find it pretty ‘cool’ when you can pick an outfit and not feel the need to compare or wonder what other people are wearing and just be your true self. It takes some learning and experience, and I am so glad we are there :)
Great to listen, as usual. ❤️
I love your podcast, thanks for another great episode!
I was never a stylish person and neither was my mom so I had a rough time at school with all the fashion girlies. I wish I had the courage to experiment and try all kinds of different things. I loved alternative fashion, dresses, skirts, blazers.... Didn't try anything because I was simply too scared of my bullies and judgment in general. I'm turning 30 soon and I'm slowly starting to feel like myself (also fashion wise). Aging is wonderful y'all.
Ladies, another great one, thank you ❤️✌️
I'd advise my younger self that I don't have to have everything that other people have and not to spend money on polyester crap I won't even like very soon after.
One thing I love about using Instagram to showcase my style is that it becomes a time capsule. Of course, I know that my own style has evolved over the years, but with where I'm at now, it just fascinates me how I've experimented with so many different style categories. I'd definitely say that living in Tennessee has influenced my style a little, but not the extreme of looking or feeling like your typical country girl. I like to keep things clean, casual and modern, but there's also a bit of a playful side to me which really comes out in the summer time! 😊
It's really interesting to learn more about the three of you through this podcast, and this one in particular really just re-emphasizes the power that fashion and style has on our lives. Needless to say that I'm highly enjoying this podcast so far, and while I'm only a year into my 30's, it's still wild to look back and realize just how lost I felt sometimes, which then triggered my need to shop and experiment so much. So I guess if there's any advice I'd give to my younger self, it would be to just appreciate who you are and what you have and to shop less often! Gratitude is such a powerful thing, and it doesn't have to translate to just what you wear. ❤
thank you for sharing - that is lovely advice!
I'm a thrifty person most of my clothes were all thrifted with a style I'm very selective when I'm thrifting I love all my clothes now than before 😊By the way I love your podcast 😊
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” -Oscar Wilde
Thank you ladies. Love from Madrid xxx
❤ In terms of signature style, I recentely discovered that I love wearing a long dress or skirt with a cosy jumper. It's so easy and comfortable. Maybe I have found one of my uniform ! Would love to explore that more 😊🎉 love your conversations !
The only thing I would tell my younger self is...DON'T BUY SO MUCH STUFF!
I am really happy with my own personal style evolution. I experimented a lot and had fun in my early 20s, including a lot of vintage clothing and designer pieces. It was the early naughties and it was a wonderful time to do those things. It was the time of the manic pixie dream girl and I LOVED it. The only thing I regret is cultivating the habit of constantly consuming and wanting more or new outfits for every event. Thrifting became an addictive treasure hunt!
BUT this was a different time and nobody was talking about sustainability or about how polluting the fashion industry is. So we shouldn't be too hard on ourselves. This was how it was then. AND now we are older and wiser. That time definitely taught me a lot about what to look out for in vintage clothing, especially about materials, fabrics and longevity. I try to buy sustainable brands now, but occasionally a second hand item will find its way to me (oh yes I believe in that) and I recently bought a beautiful black men's leather jacket for €20 at a local flea market.
P.S Gen Z are actually just following a thrifting trend that was prominent in the late 90s and early 00's -:) It was out of trend for a while but yep, it's back. So it's nothing new at all!
Loved this podcast and the way you interact with each other. I always look forward to Tuesdays now. 🥰
I think I would teach my younger self about proportions. I thought that tight fitting clothes and showing tons of skin made me more beautiful and *sexy,* but honestly there was nothing chic about tight on tight on tight. There’s something very elegant that comes through when playing with proportions … what do you think?
excellent advice!
Does anyone else watch these videos and feel like you’re literally friends? The parasocial relationship lol. Love your channels and HUGELY obsessed with this pod!!! I’d tell my younger self to stop wearing ugly ass colors and cheap shirts😂
ahhh thank you that is a huge compliment! Love the advice! ;)
Ladies, I love your podcast! I usually listen to it as a podcast on Spotify... and ... I can never seem to find the EPISODE number for each episode in the podcast list. Could anyone who might read this help me to find the episode number when using Spotify? I appreciate the help.
I would tell my younger self to not try so hard to fit in - cloths do not show what are you worth.
Powerpuff girls vibes. You know who you are.
I’m a Gemini and get bored with clothes very quickly. But I have decided now at 62 years old that I want to build a capsule of forever basics pieces that I can add in new thrifted pieces every season. 95% of my wardrobe is thrifted at this time and I finally bought something new since I was unable to find a satin bias cut maxi skirt in my size after looking for one for 2 years now. It is lovely and now a piece of my capsule basics. I have been thrifting all my life I bought most of my baby’s clothes at the thrift store. He is 36 now. I also upcycle to make one of a kind pieces. I moved and purged recently and still have too much clothes but I’m tracking now and very good at letting things go because like I said I get bored