The Boots On The Ground Rule - Philippines Dating
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So true. I talked with a girl online for a month, then flew down there for her birthday. Well, it was all fake. So that night I got out my list of 20 other nearby young ladies from the dating site as Plan B and called one. I had been drinking. I made a date for the next morning with her, even though something didn't sound right. Well, she turned out to be my wife for the past 16 years. What didn't feel right when I called her for that first date? It was a wrong number. Yes, I was drunk and met my wife by calling a wrong number 16 years ago. We are still together. Boots on the ground! Nothing really counts until you meet each other.
Also congrats
That's a great story! Cool!
Fantastic revelation story! Thx for sharing that!
That is hilarious and awesome. I'd dare say destiny if you believe in fate.
@joepangit6938 You packed a roller-coaster of emotion into ONE paragraph, my dude. 😳🤣🙌 ❤️🤟
I met my Filipina on-line but within a month I had boots on the ground and spent 3 weeks with her. Then I went back home and we spent 2 1/2 months video/messenger time. Then I went back for another 3 weeks. We went to Dumaguete and had a great time. Then she went back to manila and I to the US. We talk/video/messenger everyday based on our time zones. I’m scheduled again for 3 weeks in November and December. So I will have spent more than 2 months total time in a little over a year. YOU NEED TO PUT BOOTS ON THE GROUND
Reekah i listen to your content because i actually lived in Phillipines for 3months im still new at this but everything u covered i done. When i was in the Philippines having lunch with my gf and her sister who is drop dead beautiful she was chatting on line with BF in the states i was over hearing their covo he said hes gonna send 30k pesos she said thank you hunny love you and got off the phone. 30min later another foreigner came to our table he was very respectful and ask was i with my gf sister i said no. So started to engage in conversation with her dont know what he said to her 🤔 but she got up and and started to walk around the mall with him. To this day her online BF never showed up and she lives with that other guy. 😂 all you guys on line hear this your online GF isnt waiting for you first come first serve i seen it with my own eyes. Great content 👌
yes. far too many guys think that if they send money it is some kind of lay-a-way plan. holding that woman on reserve. not a chance. they go with what is right in front of them. and the money, few will turn it down.
@@Lifebeyondthesea absolutely 💯 Thanks for your channel 🙏
@@Lifebeyondthesea in fact it's counterproductive. If you send her money your chances decrease not increase!
Long time viewer here but just subscribed.Were you talking about me and my husband 😅?Just kidding.It's exactly our story,we met online though not on a dating site. I was an OFW. Five years later, we met in the Philippines and got married. He petitioned me and I've been here in the US for 5 years. Our son is now 3 years old. Seven years of happy marriage is around the corner. I'm blessed and so is he.
I agree with your advice that the Filipina didn't have a obligation to the pen pal. The Filipina Pea gives similar advice to yours, about not doing LDRs and waiting till you have boots on the ground.
How does someone you've never met and only talk to on-line cheat on you? Some people have such unrealistic expectations.
When I visited my 'girlfriend' in 2016, I learned very quickly that I wasn't in the top ten of her priorities. Because it was my first time in the Philippines, I didn't know that her not meeting me at the airport on arrival was already a very bad sign. Waiting three days to meet me, leaving me alone in Cebu for three days? Brave or foolhardy? She had family in Cebu, and I learned by watching that her family was much more excited to meet me than she was. She was a mother, and clearly the boyfriend had left a year or more earlier. Live and learn, or you won't live long.
Of course, her introducing me to her family was 100% a good sign, and I got to learn a lot during that trip, including a few things that are now non-negotiable in a future girlfriend or wife.
after trying to chat online and build a long term relationship I agree with what you are saying. BUT this is how you understand the filipina pitfalls, learn about different regions and basic language/culuture things. I had SO MANY ups and downs this last year with girls there. and it came down to, I know what i want and i know what i do not want. You learn how to ask questions to get to the heart of the matter and learn if they are what you are looking for. WISH it was easier, but in person is probably where i am going to get 90%+ of what i am looking for.
mostly foreigner only know cebu they don’t go to the north
Wow Reekay, you really nailed it with this topic!!! This is the grand slam of all grand slams, 😎😎😉😉👍🏼👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼!!! I’ve been to the Philippines twice, and got burned by scammers 3 times. But I know that 85% or “MORE” of Filipinas, are good, Godly, loving, traditional women, and I simply chose poorly, because once I came back to America, the honeymoon was over, and I learned that she was not a good girl. But that’s OK, I am moving to the Philippines in the beginning of next year, I am very, very, very financially, stable, and will live a great life over there. I follow yours, Gio’s, Steve Johnson’s, and ❤️Pea’s❤️ advice, on how to find the
💕right💕 woman. And no, I’m 67, but “not” looking for a twenty something year old. Every man, considering moving to the Philippines, should watch this blog from you, save it, and watch it over and over again, before moving to the Philippines. Great job. Reekay, 😉😎👍🏼!!!
I have been dating pinay women here in America. Decided I needed to visit the country. Connected with girl on dating site. To me, she was my tourist guide. Possibly, more! She met me at the airport. Told me of a place I could rent monthly. Her friend told her about. Wink wink….Met her family, eyeballing all this stuff stored on top. Of entertainment center. Kitchen pots, dishes stuff you will need. All the things I had to purchase. Hell she could have pulled some down for us to us. Reekay told me before, I left America.
I went to see the country. She handcuffed me. I landed she was there. Guys shouting Jackpot!!!
Yeah, it was a dumb move to ask his friend to check out his woman comma but stealing his girl is not something you would do to a best friend, just saying
Exactly, i do think asking a friend to make sure a chick looks like she says is okay, but the fact he kept taking her out shows he was already being a dirtbag. Plus saying he owns him nothing when hes literally the reason he met the gir is crazy 😂
"All is fair in love & war."
"Trust me with your life, but not your money or your wife".
Didn't you listen? She is not his girl, she is a penpal.
Hes 💯💯💯💯right!! Guys wont wanna hear it ! but its TRUE. I ve successfully dated filipinas , boots on the ground properly, and it's the only way. And irony for me, first time i went, i was a dishwasher , but knew i had to GO. And boy was i glad i did.😊😂
Excellent advice. I adopted the same mentality after experiencing online dating a number of years ago. A couple must spend time in person to really get a feel for all the dynamics that make up a relationship.
I gotta be honest. As much as I wanna get out of the hellhole that is the West as and as much as I sympathize with other guys wanting to do the same, the mindset of some of these expats or passport bros is so bizarre to me. Like have some patience my guy. There are so many women in these countries that would be excited to meet a foreign man. It's not like the pond is gonna dry up between now and the time you actually get out there. Focus on doing what you need to do to make it happen until it happens and then go enjoy yourself. Some of y'all act super desperate.
absolutely. too many guys come unprepared.. no homework done, not willing to learn from seasoned expats online... and then they often crash 'n burn at the whim of some crafty woman who can easily spot they are fresh off the plane.
You must have a pyschology/socialogy background, plus you have great communication skills!
If some guy is providing finances to a Filipina during a LDR, and theres no need for the filipina to provide physical intimacy, or other girlfriend duties like cooking/cleaning etc; sounds to me like a "win-win" for a filipina. What would be the attraction for her to ever have the guy physically join her?
The rise of simps is an epidemic 😅
Surprisingly, (I’m sure for you,) not everyone is a sociopath, and most human beings actually long for real physical and emotional intimacy with another person.
you are assuming that the girl is much younger and/or there is no real attraction on her part. Though that might be the case many times, it is hopefully not always the case lol
There is None
@@dbuck1964 I agree that "not everyone is a sociopath" but there are many that feel the need to care for themselves an family through nefarious means to meet the minimum standard of living. Its not a difficult concept to understand, maybe try reading a book once in awhile to improve your comprehension of these matters?
Fall in love in person never over the internet! So many golden nuggets of wisdom in this video
I fell in love with my Filipina on the internet we had met online just 2 weeks just before the pandemic and it took me two years to get to her because of the pandemic but the very day the country opened up for foreigners to enter I was there and as Forrest Gump would say we are like peas and carrots and have been together ever since
Sound advice. I love the analogy with Salma Hyek!
I disagree on one thing. The buddy who went to the Phils and agreed to check out his Stateside buddy's LDR should have told him after the first or second meeting that there was a chance of the girl and him hooking up. If the US buddy got pissed, that was the time to set out the rules and stick to them. By the time he talked to you, he'd sunk into quicksand of his own making and was in a no-win situation... unless his US buddy was understanding. At the point you got involved, yes, I think you're right, but that ignores his stepping into the quicksand and letting himself sink, then cry to you for help.
Love the slide show! Hot ladies!
Well said nice post.!
Absolutely Henry that guys do need to go to the Philippines (or another Asian country) if they want to secure a real and deeper relationship with the woman theyve been chatting to.
At the very least, 6 months after your online conversations with the woman you seem to be in love with, have chemistry, and are compatible. Then don't stop there and continue the momentum if both of you are truly serious!
Really enjoyed this podcast. Very good. Thanks. Great advice.
Great video. I’m glad I stumbled onto it. I recently checked out Christian Filipina, but I haven’t created a profile or contacted anyone precisely because of what you’re talking about in this video.
I am retired (a little early) and can come to the Philippines anytime I want. My plan is to come next year. That’s when I will think about contacting someone (although I haven’t seen anyone I am interested in yet anyway, so it’s easy to control myself 😁).
that's the way to do it.
Very good advice, thank you for your insights!
Great advise
Thank you. This was mind altering.
I whole heartedly agree with every word you say Reekay.
That is good advice!
Informative video 👍
Glad you think so!
These Dating sites are crazy expensive now, they used to be reasonable cost but now you need to take out a bank loan to find a women on a dating site.
meeting them in-person, without a dating site, is best. gotta live here for that, in the PH.
Solid advice! As Always, May God Bless you and yours! 😇
Glad it was helpful!
A great video with excellent advice
Glad it was helpful!
@@Lifebeyondthesea It gave me a perspective I hadn't thought of before. I will check out more of your videos.
Good points.
I believe that it's also possible to talk to philipinas online as long they are both clear that it's just friendship. And it can only change into something else after they see each other in person.
Such solid advice, as always. Thanks again for keeping it real. I am looking so forward to coming over there, but not going to talk to any filipina online until I get there.
Have fun!
Another great video. Keep it up Jonny and Lorie. Do you think the girls would give different answers if you told them there would be a few available foreigners at the party?
I plan on selling everything in the US and retiring in the Philippines in 2-4 year window. I have no interest in virtual LDR. Just arrive and travel and explore the Philippines. Once I find a place I want to live, then I can be open to a partner in that location.
then you need at least 5k to 10 k travel around first 31 days . need 100 to 200 a day hotels , food, drink and transportation .
if you want to travel in phil start from the north to the south where is more safest place to stay
It really stinks when a guy thinks he falls for a younger Filipina, only to find that at some point she says having a baby is a requirement to continue the relationship. If the vasectomy you had 20+ years ago prevents that, it is a heartbreaker. Not much a guy can do but keep on moving down the road.
If baby making days are over, make sure to point that out up front.
I did not know that you and Vi had gotten married so congrats yes even a 18 months later. Very best regards .
thanks so much! yes, we're enjoying life full-time together. going to the beach when we can. :)
You're the best. Great content
I appreciate that!
@@Lifebeyondthesea I just wish I heard to you $500 ago LMAO 🤣🤣🤣😂
These are great ideas for mostly clueless newbie, potential expats who have never been to the Philippines. Pay attention to Reekay guys. Don’t mess with women’s hearts. Wait till just before you arrive to get on a dating site if you must.
Pure wisdom...and reality
Sir, you should write a book about all these stories and experiences. Thank you 👍.
Maybe one day
Thank you for this brother ! Any advice for a coastie going to Cebu / macatan .. possibly a few days in Manila
That is a awake up truth. Common sense to a person emotionally involved with a person they don't really know but don't want to be told they don't have a relationship. I couldn't have explained it better than by saying it's just a glorified penpal experience.💡
Well stated !
Wish I found this video 3-4 years ago. What you said is actually what the filipina told me when I found out she dated someone else. "The world doesn't wait for you" or "I waited 2,5 years". She said she was sorry, but was just tired of the endless wait (was during covid though, and I didn't want to get the jab so I could enter PH, which was finally led to her decision) and we ended "breaking up".
6 weeks later the country finally opened up, but yeah she was already dating her new bf for over 6 months by that time while we were "still together". (Maybe longer even, but I found out after our breakup) I couldn't blame her really, it made sense, and my prior experience with women was just too low to actually have an idea what really matters to women from an own experience. (I was 28 when we met, 31 breakup)
I Did get onto an airplane within 6 weeks after the country opening up, hoping she'd want to meet me, and she actually did and was really into seeing me, but ended up making clear that she was choosing her filipino BF in the end. (he met the family, they went to church together etc). She was quite transparent about it, but told me that he was there for her, while I wasn't, and that I had my "chance". Also that she somehow resented me a little for taking "our" chance away from us, cus if it wasn't for "my" decision, we could've had something, because there was definitely very strong chemestry between is in person as well as online. She was reasonable enough to say it was also her fault, cus if she just didn't entertain and was alittle more patient, it wouldn't have been like this, but this was her life now.
I guess it has something to do with their culture too, especially when their family is so involved into the relationship already, that makes it more difficult to "break it off", if everything else seems "good" already.
thanks for sharing that. yah, it happens, and it's happened to a lot of guys during the covid shutdown. happened to a buddy of mine back in 2022.
In my experience, OFWs are a significant income provider for their family back in the Philippines. If a foreigner wants to marry one of those ladies, they have to be willing to provide the lost income when the OFW Filipina quits her overseas job. The family will expect every bit of the lost income from the foreigner and then some. They think all foreigners are rich anyway.
there is a channel called campbell vlog. The guy there wanted his now-wife to marry him. She was an OFW. He is giving her $3000/month + a house but it still is not enough apparently.
@@JulieRamone-li3tw: Why would anyone put himself in that position? There are plenty of Filipinas in the Philippines.
@@JulieRamone-li3tw Idiot is being skinned alive. 3000$ is TWO years income there.
@@JulieRamone-li3tw$3000 a month thats huge shes a gold diggers 🤮💔🤧
Good material here
A recent call I had to make was routed to the Philippines , the Representative was very Courteous , Professional and had a very pleasant voice, before ending the call she asked, and I gave her my Facebook Info. We had Conversation for about 9-10 days, exchanged photos, text messaged every day and it was a lot of fun. Today however... she decided to send me a humorous video about a Lady Boy dancing in a skirt, I laughed it off, she then admitted that she too was a lady boy, Unreal ,this blew my mind and I was so glad she / he came out with it before things started getting serious. In the photos she looked Amazingly Attractive. I'm glad I was able to laugh it off, even as I write this I laugh, but Listen to Reekay, how TRUE , you have to be there in person.
I could have used this video 2 months ago.
Boots on the groundb is critical trust me. I met my wife through a "Girl" i was talking to for 11 months. Long story short when i arrived in the Phil's, the girl was actually a guy in girls clothing. But his sister was there waiting for me and 20 years were still butting heads....errr i mean married.
Even though you are ... mostly right, there is something really odd that happens when you find a hole in your experience, a divorce has probably happened and the dating pool in the United States (and possibly other 1st spaces) is not 'ideal'....and imagination is 100% ideal, as in, expectations are almost always met in one's imagination. When you WANT to believe that what you have is the real deal, it is very difficult to be convinced otherwise. When your friends see issues and problems and you're wearing rose colored glasses....you cannot see reality, only the 'ideal'.
Danger danger Will Robinson.
Been there. Been scammed. Deserved every bit of it.
But cheating girls (as in giving them the short end of a raw deal) in the Philippines really bothers me.
It seems that so many guys CANNOT see the stupid things they are doing that make having a real relationship difficult and blame everything on someone else....I guess that sounds very American lately.
Thank you!! I don’t understand these people who talk online and consider themselves in a relationship. I’m going to the Philippines in December 2024, and January 2025. I plan on going for just short of 30 days. If or when I meet some women I’m on vacation. I’m going to be short term dating. In that short amount of time I’m not meeting someone, and making them my.
Very easy to get caught up in these online romances, I wasted plenty of time doing online for months what a face to face could accomplished in a day. For me it turned out ok and after 2 visits to the Philippines and the covid delay we are now in the USA together.
"That was a stupid idea from the beginning" What an understatement. BETA!!
TY...reality bites, but its the truth....
I call this PRE-Dating. Never date before meeting simple as that. Don't fool yourself. Don't scout ahead more than 31-14 days on the dating apps by using travel mode. Too many things can go wrong and it only takes one misinterpretation to blow months of awesome online chatting.
You're foolish to be wasting your time this way. If you're wasting your money before meeting you're better off spending that money on a psychologist.
Had Filipino girlfriend for 4 years and she worked in Sadi. So when she came back to Bohol I bought a ticket and off I went for my 6th trip there. Spent 44 days then headed back home to the US. I planned to bring her here but the Virus hit. I chatted daily and even sent money. Well her sister is a Catholic nun and contacted me saying her sister had a boyfriend living with her. I have seen him but she lied saying it was her brother. I am thankful her nun sister informed me on her cheating sister. Well her loss and I plan on living in the Philippines come my winter months and maybe longer. I have a very good life in the US and just wish I had help. Most good American women and married. I was in part leadership in a Christian ministry and met a gal I married and I left her at 119 days. She is a good con and last I heard she is in her 9th marriage. The sad part is she thinks she is a Christian and follower of Christ. Yes she thinks she is the few Christ talked about entering God's Kingdom.
I agree 200%
That also depends on if you actually have tickets to go see her. But if the other guy is your friend then he should not pursue her. If he did that to his friend that means they are not friends
Using Tinder , Badoo etc for over 7 years. In Badoo there are so many fakes, scammer or ladyboys. The often use stolen Photos , tell you weird storys and try to get money from you. Just be careful , you are not the only sweetheart she have !
Bottom line is, action speaks louder than words. I’ve been online with my Filipina for a long while now BUT l have been to see her 4 times and she’s been to visit me once. We know each other very well. Having a LDR for a long time is fine but if it’s purely online and no visits, it cruel and selfish to string her along. To actually live with or go out with her is totally different than just chatting to someone online.
Once you have spent time with her, then you are both exclusive to each other. Also, if you are both sincere, you have to implement a plan to move forward doing life together.
Any thoughts?
that is definitely the way to do it. can't expect a woman to be Exclusive when there is no real life plan in place.
castle in the sky promises with no visits don't cut it.
How was she able to visit you? Isn’t it very difficult to get a Visa?
Yes how was she able to come and visit you? How was she able to do that?
@@Mr1967Rocker she was able to get a tourist visa. Hopefully she’ll be coming again in January
Thanks, How long did she have to wait for the tourist Visa and did she have to meet certain requirements? That would certainly save me a lot in hotel costs because she would be staying with me and we could have home cooked meals if we wanted-great
From experience, I might point out that when you arrive in Asia. You will be overcome with desire that steamy hypnotic atmosphere.... It is natural to want, And to need affection, so you might consider just a simple massage with a happy ending to reduce your desire and give you a more objective perspective for the young ladies. Are actually dating.🙏🙏🙏
ive wrote letters and chatted online with some ladies over seas but i didnt let it last that long.there would be somthing wrong with trying to have any kind of relationship like that.i wound up in a Filipino chat room and made some friends and i found that was the best thing to do.
Agreed. Don’t be a douche. Don’t string people along. They aren’t open to dating much older men because of physical attraction. Especially dudes in their 60s or more who are dying their hair and beards. It’s a security thing where connection and love might occur.
totally get where you're coming from. appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment. cheers!
Hi Reekay, Any Thoughts on Considering or not Considering a Separated Pinay? Putting Yourself in Legal Harms Way? Because of Phil’s Divorce Laws? Thanks 👍🏼Great Content and Thank You 👊🏼💪🏼👏🏼✌🏼
I can only comment this from a USA point of view as to why men here do hesitate and stall about going to the Philippines. Many men here do not have a passport. Once they realize they got to have a passport then they get all bent out of shape because of the cost for the passport. Next is something that I hear a lot and that is they didn't realize that the cost would be so much for the flight to go over there and the length of the flight. But I think the one that gets me the most is that many will think and say that it's a poor country over there and that they are worried about catching a disease.
I noticed you mentioned a lot about a Filipina waiting for the man to come and that it's always one excuse after another. That's actually 100% accurate. I've briefly chatted with many Filipina that would tell me up front they have a boyfriend. Then they would tell me what country they were from, you know such as a Pakistan India stuff like that. Then I would ask her have you ever met in person and naturally what's the answer.... No he can't get here. So in return I would just politely ask them if you got a boyfriend who's probably never going to come then why are you wasting my time because you're obviously wasting your time too. One Golden rule that I lived by when it came to communicating and chatting with Filipinas was do not under any circumstance have communication with OFW workers who are currently abroad. 99% of them is only looking for chat mates to pass their time until they get back to the Philippines and be with her long time local boyfriend or husband.
the current (2023) cost of getting a passport in the usa is $165.
if 'some guy' talking to a filipina is already complaining he thinks $165 is a lot of money, he's not making enough money to be traveling the world. same if he can't afford around $1300 to $1700 USD for a round-trip plane ticket. not to mention hotel stay and basic vacation expenses.
that guy has no business telling any filipina he plans on visiting the PH, "someday". and she would be led astray to actually think he would ever show up.
@@Lifebeyondthesea yeah it's amazing how so many here in my area of the USA are passport stupid. $165 for the passport is what I paid in 2018. Pre pandemic it was easy to find round-trip flights to Cebu for well under $700. Most definitely miss those days of cheaper flights since I do travel there every 6 months.
My advice to anyone new who wants to go there is plan your trip ahead and have a date set. Search flights about 3 months or more out from a set date you want to go. Also make sure that total flight time is less than 24 hours. More often than not, a lot of people will choose a more cheaper flight but that cheaper flight could take 40-60 hours to get there with multiple layovers
😂😂😂
Why did you change to this slide show type format?
i want the channel to be about visiting, dating and retiring in the Philippines. what i don't want it to be about is me or my life. who i am really doesn't matter and historically fodders unnecessary drama.
content about the Philippines is what matters.
Hey! Im also in a relationship with Salma Hayek. And we love each other. And someday we will meet 😅.
HOLD UP! she's been telling me I'm the only one for her.
ha!! instagram.com/salmahayek/
@@norbertdx 😂
After chatting with my future wife and after 3 months I decided that within a year I will come and visit and yes I did and now years later I’m happily married to her and finally she is in my country now !
Do not do dating sites be boots on the ground. Find a family oriented woman who is employed and college educated no city girls .
are there any imigration visa service , in Tagbilaran Bohol,,or maybe in Malaybalay bukidnon ? thx
there is a list of them here...
www.google.com/search?q=imigration+visa+service+%2C+in+Tagbilaran+Bohol
@@Lifebeyondthesea thank you sir ,
I went on two dating sites that has girls from China, Thailand, Philippines! And it just cost way too much to keep it up !! It’s free for them, but I have to pay out the nose for Credits to chat, write letters & send photos. I can’t afford to keep it up! And I don’t see the point, & I don’t really trust it.
i'm not surprised. the concept looks good on paper. but in reality, approaching a woman in-person is still the best way to find a quality woman.
I totally agree 👍🏽 with you're saying. I've been to Philippines several times. I am a person that needs the human touch its ok to talk on video etc but if you're not going to visit in person then you're both wasting time in your life that you will never get back
Where do you meet Filipinas online?
My divorce is going thru. I’m looking for a life partner. I will be moving to Philippines. Im from UK, travelled the world including South Korea, off to Africa in November. I’ve research living in 🇵🇭 👍
i discussed this in more detail in the video at this link. but bottom line, avoid the dating sites if you want a real relationship. meet a filipina in person by going to the PH. most dating sites are chock full of scammers.
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Bang on regarding not getting online to meet them until you land for the reason you gave plus one may find no need to bother with that when you can strike up live conversations in the Philippines.
absolutely true. it's a whole other ball game when you can contact them online at 11am (in the PH)... message them and meet them around 4pm (same day) for an early dinner. i've done this process and then met them in-person in less than 90 minutes.
there's really no upside to contacting them weeks ahead. it only limits one's options.
When do you bring up the financial subject when dating a filipina? Like asking if she expects the man to be the sole provider or 50/50 etc . How would you bring up the topic?
It's best to not involve money at all for at least the first three months. that is a topic for once you have gotten to know her and the possibility of marriage is on the table after knowing her for at least 6 months to a year.
most filipinas do not think of it in terms of percentages. they expect that a man will be a provider and she is willing to contribute if she happens to be working as well.
Have you got an up to date online dating video for Philippines 🇵🇭?
yes, you can view it here..
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You know what I really appreciate the vice because first of all I'm a long way away from retiring my best hope is to try to find a way to be able to work abroad so I appreciate it if anybody got any advice on how I can do that hit me up
If he hasn’t made plans to visit her within six months then she is free to date anyone she wants.
Have you talked about the process and cost to bring a girl to usa ?
no, since i am not familiar with the details of the process. that video would best be done by an expat who has actually done the process themselves.
Great Video. You can,t blame the Philippino for not waiting. Who knows how many other Ladies that these Guys are talking too.
LifeBeyondTheSea is wise. DO NOT get on the dating sites until 1-3 days before your trip. Most girls actually talk 1-3 days and get bored b/c to quote my wife (when she was single) -- you keep having the same conversation again and again and again.
How do I email you for advice on coming there for love. Is my U. S. A. Health insurance accepted there, how long can I stay on my first trip, what’s the safest and best way to meet her ? Where’s the best place to go there & stay in a good hotel? How do I get my money from my bank in America? I’m coming alone, I’m older and retired, I want a good feminine girl?
i don't use email much, but you reach me privately on Messenger here.. facebook.com/reekay.new
i don't know which health insurance you have, you'd have to ask your provider support for info on that. as for Medicare, no.. it is not usable in the PH.
you can stay up to 29-days when you first arrive. if you wish to stay longer, just apply for a visa (tourist) extension (about $30) and continue to do so every 2-months, for up to 3 years. (36-months)
a great place for a first-time visit is Bohol/Panglao. two islands connected by bridges. lots to see and do. plenty of wonderful filipinas to meet. :)
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Does anyone know of any long-term success stories about marring and bringing a philapena back to the USA
Do they maintain their values or become "Americanized"?
i mentioned one such couple in my recent video..
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What totally blows my mind is some "men" actually send $$$ to women they've never met, let alone dated, or have any commitment with. It seems there are a lot of desperados out there with nothing better to do with their money.
Lol ye. Some guys fall for the damsel in distress act.
And other guys think sending money will show he's proving he is committed to her.
This is True and not all girls are Hookers ,but that I live you shit is nothing but a friend and she needs to come to where you're at but leave that in your name 😢 everything in your name to stop scamming The word love is easy. .no matter how long you talk!!! So if you ever decide to fo to the phillines just go and find your love in person.
What dating site is most popular & yields the best results?
it's best to just stay off the dating sites. if you feel you must use one, use it after you arrive in the ph. but even then, it's unnecessary and unproductive for finding a good relationship 90% of the time. better to just go and meet women in-person in town.
She didn't have an obligation but the friend most definitely did. Thats nothing but simp behavior with as many women as there are out there. All the friend did is show that he has no integrity or morals. The guy should pick better friends.
That means he was never his friend!!!
Yeah , good about "That",......
But I know that,....!
But still I have a Good Life here in the Philapins❗
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Anyone who gives money like this is very sad person
Brilliantlly stupid idea? Hahaha... I try to keep those to a minimum.
Don't worry about cheating, she is.
Wow talk about trying to cockblock people in LDRs
an LDR that never shows up is not a relationship. it's a pipe-dream that wastes the filipina's time. if the man is serious about her, he needs to get himself into the PH and spend time with her. if he can't, then he's got no business expecting his 'LDR' to keep her on reserve.
"snooze, you lose."
Allow me to disagree with a part of what you said. I have been to other countries, but not the Philippines. I believe searching for a local girl at another country, should start 3 to 6 month before you are ready to travel and meet with her. If she intends to use you for money, you'll see a clue of that for sure during the first few months or even weeks. But to find a girl just a day or two before your arrival doesn't allow you enough time to choose. May be you loose day after day not finding the girl that you like, spending half of your vacation just searching for the girl. Not a good idea. You better have a girl waiting for you at the airport from the first minute and take you to live with her immediately because you are ready for this already.
having a woman meet you at the airport kills all your options until you end it with her. and trying to determine who a woman is online, well.. good luck with that. the worst ones have the most to hide.
The keyboard romeos are going to be mad at you.
Just as a matter of interest I assume the beautiful women on your videos are not random?
i create them using AI generators.
@Lifebeyondthesea haha i figured they look to perfect haha
Dead on! Don't make a girl there in the Philippines wait longer than a few months.
And lets be honest, if the guy getting "cheated on" was half as attractive as the girl he would've cheated 8 hours into their "exclusive relationship online". Gentleman let me say this, if you have a beautiful woman, and you leave her for an extended period of time alone. You deserve whatever happens. Thats always on you, not on her. Now if you're home everyday, its a different story.
that is true with 'some' filipinas. but...
for decades a filipina can file for a Legal Separation and go to court for a division of assets and child support in the Philippines. it is part of the Family Law Code, has been for years. however, few filipinas can afford the legal process so.. many don't even try. and many more don't even know they have this right.
so, she doesn't have to leave the country or marry a foreigner. if she's married to a rich filipino, she can still get half his stuff and child support.