The Day I Became Red-Pilled
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Explore a captivating journey of self-discovery and dating insights in our latest video, 'The Day I Became Red-Pilled.' Join our narrator as he recounts his experiences with dating in Southern California post-divorce, approaching 50. He shares his trials on dating sites, the realities of age gaps in dating, and his transition to what's now known as the 'Red Pill' philosophy. This eye-opening narrative delves into the challenges of finding compatible partners, dealing with unexpected dating outcomes, and ultimately, a decision to stop dating in America. Whether you're navigating the dating scene yourself or interested in personal stories of transformation, this video provides an honest and reflective look at one man's path to self-awareness in the world of modern dating. #RedPillJourney #DatingOver40 #LifeAfterDivorce
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Many years ago I saw that finding any female in the west was broken. Went through a 20 plus year DB marriage and like 99% of western men thought this was just normal. I went on a business trip to Eastern Europe and it changed me. I found that I was not the issue and got my self confidence back.
For the next few years I spent traveling for business to Eastern Europe staying anywhere from 2 weeks to a month at a time. I was just myself and my eyes opened up to the BS we have let happen in the west. I am 58 now and been with an amazing Ukrainian woman for almost 10 years now. She is fit, extremely beautiful, very feminine, cooks amazingly and she knows I am the man. I laugh because she says women in the west think they have balls in their pants LOL!
What's a DB marriage?
DB Marriage? What is that?
Great!
What's a "DB marriage?"
I read recently that Ukrainian women were leaving their men who are fighting for their country and hooking up with foreigners. I think they are gorgeous women, but that has to be hypergamy on steroids in viscousness.
@@cryptojihadi265think it’s dead bedroom.
"It's better to be alone, than to be with someone wishing you were alone." Damn! Dropping knowledge there, fella!! So glad you found what you were looking for.
Peace of mind is everything. #relationships #bipolar #bipolardisorder
It's better to be alone and miserable than married and miserable. When you are married you are with that person the rest of your life, but when you are alone, you still have a chance of meeting then right person tomorrow or the day after that..............
Thermonuclear truth bomb right there.
Mike from (Mike’s Philippine retirement) just did a video on when he was on the dating sites in the US and wow what a nightmare with women going out with him just to get free drinks and the most expensive meal. The worst story was after she had a very expensive meal and they walked to the door she said I have to use the lady’s room and they drove separately and she went back and picked up the $200 cash that Mike had left on the table for food and tip. Well the manager came out to Mikes car and said “ you never paid for the food “ and of course the date had left so Mike repaid and so now he had $ 400 into a meal that led to nowhere….😢
Well sounds like Mike has below average intelligence for taking any woman he hardly knows out for a $200 dinner. I dated over 100 women in the USA. Not once did I ever date someone that expected a $200 dinner or drinks. Very few would even have a single drink on the first date.
I’m sorry but if that guy keeps getting ghosted then he’s picking the wrong women. That or he does not know how to tell if a woman is truly interested in him. I bet he’s the type to put all the effort into initiating contact with the woman and carrying conversations - he probably doesn’t realize that if a woman is into him that they will put in effort to make it work . So many guys chase endlessly and this doesn’t work
If this was in the US, why didn't you pay before leaving??? Nowadays, if you just leave money on the table and just leave the restaurant then that usually means you didn't fully pay the bill and you run away. Common sense, with many shady people out here, you don't leave money on the table and expect the money not to be taken when no one is at the table. Don't expect it to still be there for the worker to collect and make sure your bill gets paid off. That is on you.
@@jchan7910 He should of paid with a credit card. Since the waitress saw his date take the money Mike had her cell number so should have called the police…. I bet she is on drugs tho ….
@@spartanx169x I don’t know Mike’s IQ but this was in Vegas and so he got hustled… it happens to intellectuals as well….
Met my wife in the Philippines in 1984. We are still together and very happy after 39 years.
wow!! congratulations to you both.
Met my Filipina wife in 82 been together ever since
Man does this video hit home.
I’m 57 I gave up at 50 “I will never date another American woman ever again” I told myself that at 50 years old. Just need to finish my career and get my pension. 490 days till I can put in the paperwork for retirement.
A highly sound approach, westerly women seem to harbour expectations, that society bestows upon these
confused creatures. Dating outside your race and on other continents is a good start.
I'm 55. I have a gf for 7 years but I will not marry her, ever, or anyone else. 73% probability of divorce with a 3rd marriage, so NOPE. I learned from my mistakes. Don't have the resources after two divorces, to travel overseas and set up somewhere else. Going to work the gov job, retire in 13 years and call it good. I'll die single but at least I will have something to leave the kids instead of getting wrecked in a 3rd marriage.
460 days now 👍
@@andre1987eph 761 days for me. I'm married to a crabby old Jap. Doesn't want to go to Japan nor Thailand. But I told her Canada certainly is NOT on my agenda. Mexico maybe for a while then maybe Greece but I want to eventually be in Thailand where warm weather, warm people and good food abound.
NEVER call to "verify" a date.
Set it and be there. Period.
how about not
If you cannot be yourself and you think to verify, and the answer is a person who is yelling at you or makes problems about that, than that person is not the right one. Simple.
It was a good thing he did...it revealed that she was a psycho.
I had similar experiences dating as a 30y/o man in the USA. I stopped dating back in 2017. At the time, I was around 27, and was dating women between 19 and my age. I met some very attractive and sweet young women, however, almost all of them had some sort of giant red flags, either wanting to argue and debate about radical social or political issues, or rampantly promiscuous. Not to mention, as you say, IF they knew how to cook or clean, it was the furthest thing from their minds. It became increasingly obvious there was no foundation for lasting relationships with such women.
Even back then, I was aware of men going overseas and having much better success, including one of my older relatives who has been married to a Filipina for 20 years now, and a friend married to a Japanese woman. In fact they are the only men I know in successful happy relationships haha! Every man I know in relationships or marriage with a Western women are almost unanimously miserable.
Long/short, I've got a ticket to the Philippines for next January. Goodbye, American women. Stay away from me!
facts 100%. im your age by the way and i think the same. my country serbia is beyond saving
@@pete531Serbia? Noooo. I thought that was one of the countries with still conservative values.😢
The age really doesn’t help. I would not take seriously any women under 27. If they can be brainwash for there lips, botox, and what sex they belong to, imagine what they think about there role in a familly.
Better do some watching on u-tube for advise on the ins and outs of PI . First go to PI for 6months visit don’t sell your hose etc or if you do sell put your money in a long term investment good luck . I lived in the Pi in early eighties I own a house there but live in North America been married to a Filipina and have three kids two in Europe married. Great people but just the same in North America you have to get the Right one for your way
i only had bad experiences. within 5 min any girl ask: whats your job? what car you drive? and all the other questions all related to... you guessed it, money. i guess someone can get lucky but serbia is on a bad path @@afrivox
Been in the same situation. Every woman I met had a bad past, all kinds of issues, debt, hadn't accomplished anything, and so on. I got 'red pilled'. I was done and was just going to focus on my own future and be single, then bumped into my future wife at work. We went out, and I was *looking* for something wrong - anything to say 'nope'. Finally after some time I looked at her and said "you're normal', and she looked at me funny and said 'yes, what do you mean'. Told her about my past experiences. Been great ever since, that day was almost 24 years ago now. Been feeling lucky ever since.
Western dating has become a minefield of misery. Things become dismal when you reach 60.
it's a mess. one guy told me it's like picking through a 2nd-hand store just before closing hours. ha!
Your 💯 correct I flew over seas that cured my dating slump
60? I’m 39 and it’s a living hell now!
I wouldn't be surprised if it gets worse by 60 but it is dismal in your 40s already at this point. In fact, it's broken for pretty much everyone. I can't wait to make it over to the Philippines in about 10 months from now.
Really goes downhill after 50.
After my late wife died I never met a woman I wanted to date in the US. A year later I came to the Philippines and never looked back. Happily married in Bayawan.
My experience dating as a 54 yr old living in SoCal was overly aggressive women (And I don’t mean the bedroom), shallow, or the ones that seemed to be professional , preferred some tattooed up biker kind of guy. It was just bizarre. Ones that were kind of nice, I just could not imagining myself waking up next to in the morning. So many women trying to be the man.
facts, last sentence. tragic
100% TRUTH! I’m in SOCAL and the change over the past 25 years has been for the worse!
And now the toxicity has infected the Mexican women as well. They used to be very family orientated and good women. Now they all blast their damn rageaton music, wear fake eyelashes, and think just because they have a nice butt they can say and do whatever they want.
Funny thing is, most men are over it! They will all be single moms with their babies daddy’s looking for the next girl with a booty😂
tattoos? and professional? you would rarely get hired if you have tattoos, like that mr.
I had the same experience as that gentleman. The very last straw was a gal that turned out to be bi-polar. OMG! what a nightmare. Got on a FREE Filipina dating site, after communicating with 5 or so, I found the one, from Almeria. Married her about 8 months later there. That was 14 years ago and it was the best decision I have made in my life. She was 24, I was 49, my age was not a concern with her, and the fact that I was not so well off was not a major concern to her either, she just wanted a man would treat her decently and love her. I filled the bill. I helped her through nursing school here, we have two beautiful daughters, and she is doing very well. She is now paying for a 2nd story on her family home back there, using her own funds. She is a very good gal, a keeper for sure.
they are men , unfortunately, woman are not woman anymore
56 here. Very similar experience with me Reekay. Bought ticket and coming in May for a month to explore the country. If all goes well will move permanently the following January. Dating is absolutely worse than it was in 2008. Have all my hair, recently retired tax lawyer, in shape, and dating is awful. And I'm in OC California, not far from your home there. I agree with everything in this video. So happy for you that you found peace and happiness.
Being in a Santurary state couldn't have helped because you have way, way, way more adversity.
Even as a child in New England in the 1970s, I knew California was the best place in the world to develop hobbies (because hobbyists take things to their full development out here). I have since moved here and feel it's almost worth staying in California and never date again because all this State has to offer that is NOT women. Also if you haven't yet been to Tijuana Zona Norte just to watch football at one of the "bars", I don't know what you're waiting for? You don't have to get involved with women down there, just nice to talk to them and be treated better.
After my divorce in 94', I made a pact with myself to date a woman for two years before considering marriage. Not one woman I dated since made the cut.
You should under NO circumstances be considering marriage in the USA. DIV cort has gotten 4x worse since '94 in California
100% agree Reekay. My experience was the same ( including a Red Pill moment) and am now married 17 years to a beautiful Filipina and having the best time of my life. Just use your head and stay out of the bar scene.
that is awesome! congrats to you both. :)
@@Lifebeyondthesea Thanks Reekay. And the very best to you and Vi as well!
Yes to avoiding bars
Divorced at 43. Dated 2 women relatively soon after the divorce. Gave up after #2. It's ridiculous.
Just do it! At age 50 i met my Indonesian wife online, we talked for a couple months then i flew to Indonesia stayed a couple weeks and 15 years later we are still happily togeter. She is 9 years younger college educated and performs the role of my wife in every way. Take the fitst step just do it. Best decision i ever made.
I'm wondering how that worked out for you since Indonesians are nearly all Muslim. Is she also Muslim? If so, did you have any children together? How did you raise them if you did?
Excellent video. This is a message more men need to hear at any age. If you are a man that is single, no wife, no children, no debt. You have the best OPTIONS. You are the prize! 🏆
The relationship I had for 8-9 years was a real nightmare. That unhealthy relationship with that woman cured me regarding to have the desire to have a relationship with a westerner woman. Now, I’m happy to have my Filipina in my life!
Great line "Being alone and not wishing you were alone".
Great story! I'm in Santa Barbara and did the same dating games. Yes its, play stupid games win stupid prizes. Went to the PI a few times and finally met a woman 5 years younger than I. Life became good again. Guys don't give up searching just check out other countries. Most of all make sure you know yourself and take your time, listen and learn. Get to know the woman's family and history.
I stopped off in Santa Barbera on the way to England in 1988, spent over a week there. Awesome sleepy little place then. I loved the leather shops on the main road. We knew a family there. They took us to a bar/ restaurant right out over the water and I had real 'oyster shots' (not alcoholic), a whole oyster marinated in lots of chopped up goodies. I hung out and chatted with the locals lots, really friendly place. There was one local who had a beautiful dog, looked like a wolf, I think it was a siberian husky. Great sleepy little town back then, I could see the Mexican influence.
Retired U.S. Army. Living in Manila the past 14 years.
Men need to stop acting like obsessed simps that are totally desperate.
Marriage is senseless.... a waste of time and money. Women only want your cash and once she gets a kid you are totally done... She doesn't want or need you any more. Her relatives and friends will backstab until she (or you) leave.
Dinner Date = $75
Engagement Ring = $3000
Wedding Ring = $3500
Divorce and Child Support = $500,000
Staying Single = Priceless
You videos are like a glass of top tier wine. Perfectly balanced and smooth to the taste.
Right on Brother! You hit the mark. I have had the same dating experiences. I gave dating in the U.S. the full court press and came up with nada. Not looking anymore. Just turned 60 and planning to retire to PI.
After my divorce, I dated some. It was 2007, I was 44, tall, attractive, in shape.
I was shocked at the cultural change since my marriage began in 1990. All the girls born after 1975 were bi or bi-curious, if I had a girlfriend and we went out, we'd get hit on by other couples.
In northern Minnesota.
All the females had body counts of 20, 30, or more.
Last straw in my experience was dating a very intelligent, sexy girl aged 25. I was then 51. After dating for 2 months, she dropped the sweet act. She was every cliché rolled into one. To her, men were a commodity, and I learned quickly that beguiling Jezebel still walks the Earth.
By chance I met an old-fashioned girl my own age, and after much vetting, settled into a relationship that has lasted years. She's Catholic, I'm Eastern Orthodox. She cooks, buys me things, and does not drink. Comes from a great family.
She's an endangered species in America. Married as a virgin, stayed married 14 years until ex cheated.
If I was single now, no way I'd date American women. They're ruined, and ruination. I'm not trying to find that 1 in 10,000 that isn't.
Big BIG Smile, Welcome to my nightmare from Charlotte, NC.
Now I've already given up on finding anything in this country. Like you, I'm sure they're out there somewhere but I'm not playing the games anymore.
I'm very comfortable in my own skin and figured out a long time ago that being alone is only a state of mind. Not a burden.
Early next year I'm retiring and shortly after that, I'm going on a one year trek across Southeast Asia. Now I'm not looking for a wife but I have no doubt the company will be a lot more agreeable.
When I was 34 I decided that I wanted a Thai woman as my wife. I learned the language and bought a house there. Two years later I met my wife a few hours after touchdown of my plane in a bar in Pattaya. She was a newcomer, looking for a husband, not money. Now I am 62 and we are still happily together. Everybody expected her to act like a princess because she is exceptionally beautiful. But she is still a farmer girl at heart, and it drives the feminist women nuts when she pampers me silly.
Good video Reekay and thanks for sharing this video; what a strange thing about that lady just blanking you out like that then leaving you all those voicemails like a crazy women and she wouldn’t listen to you trying to explain, best thing you did by blocking her. This is the sad reality of dating in the West these days and I’m from the UK and I’m also 60 as well
Well-spoken and great introspection... Thank you for the confirmation of "our" reality... Thank you for being transparent..
This is some really good advice. Thanks for the golden nuggets. 👏
Been listening to Reekay for over 6 years, and he is right on the money and his experience shows. Last month, I married a Filipina nurse working in US, and compared to an online date that ordered $100 shots while i was in the restroom, it's like night and day. Listen to Reekay, he knows the score. He's partly responsible for me at age 64, being more content than the last 20 years.
Im 66 my Filipino wife is 32 we have a 3 year old son and a bun in the oven. Best thing that ever happened to me. We live on a small island in the Pacific.
Im 66 my Filipino wife is 32 we have a 3 year old son and a bun in the oven. Best thing that ever happened to me. We live on a small island in the Pacific.
You really have a knack for making your case, Henry! And I certainly understand where you're coming from!
Thank you for sharing your story, at the end mentioning don't settle for less!!!
Don't settle for less! Very good advice Reekay!
The unfortunate reality is too many men settle for less out of desperation and fear of being alone. Believe m, better to be Single, and happy and comfortable in being so knowing your self worth than settling for less than what you deserve!
You’re an inspiration mate. Glad you found what is seemingly impossible to find. 👍🏼👍🏼
SoCal guy here. This story story checks out 💯!
Good Video. I am from the UK, married my Chinese wife in China and I have never regretted leaving UK women behind for 1 second.😊
Dating in Canada is no better. I was redpilled when I was 40.
Me, American living in Australia for over thirty years, married to a tall, slender beautiful girl from Hong Kong so very happy in love with each other. Highly recommend.
Wow. Yeah, I understand you. I haven't watched your channels for awhile. You are very knowledgeable. Thanks for sharing❤
I appreciate that
Why the heck didn’t you double check the phone #? 🤦🏼 Anyhow, I feel your pain. I married a Spanish girl 10 years ago, which comes with its own set of headaches!
Happy it worked out for you, and I believe your advice makes a lot of sense, in general. Only thing I'd add to it is to beware of getting scammed by women at home or internationally. Women are women, and generally want to be with an older man not because they really care for him but because he has something they need or want, such as money, a green card, his estate, support for an extended family (even secretly hoping for his untimely death to speed things along). Knew a woman who only pursued relationships with older men-60s, 70s, and 80s-in her mind crossing off the days until he’d be on the wrong side of the grass. Even better if he’s in poor health when they meet him. Maybe the term I'm looking for to describe such women is gold-diggers. To end on a positive note, get out there and live your life. You won’t find the woman of your dreams sitting at home feeling sorry for yourself. This video confirms it.
"Don't settle for less." Harsh and absolute truth.
The gem is at the end of the video: It is better to be alone, than to be someone wishing to be alone (stuck in a bad relationship).
As always, a good content, sorry for Your bad experiences back in the USA, but, we are here now (in The Philippines) and enjoying our lives much better than in our home countries.
Thanks for the confession bro. Sounds like like that was a missed opportunity. A similar thing happened to me and that's when fate led me to your videos back in 2013. Haven't looked back since.
I think it was a missed opportunity also. The odd part was he didn't recognize the old girlfriend's voice compared to the other girl he set up to meet on Friday.
Edit: Also he still dialed the old girlfriend's number. He apparently kept it and his old girlfriend in mind.
Freudian slip? Lol 🤣
After my divorce in 2017 I vowed never to get involved with another American woman. Since then I have discovered Filipino women and Thai women. I love Filipino women but I have found them to be disappointing. Now the Thai women are very satisfying and I have made my decision to move to Thailand after I retire.
Look way better to thialand ladies
I dont know how your video appeared in my suggested videos, but I really enjoyed it. When you spoke of the girl you met in the restaurant, the song from the Beverly Hillbilles came to mind. "And the next thing you know Old Jedd's a millionaire..... Good video, Brother. Thanks for sharing. I think you may have inspired me to tell my story.
Glad you enjoyed it!
This is likely the best video on this topic I have ever watched......
Good advice ! Especially the end part of this video.
Reekay, sorry to hear about that earlier horrible experience although it did bring you to a far better situation.
I have to agree with you, as an older American dating Western women is a bit like digging through mine tailings. Yeah you may find a small gem or nugget of gold, but more often then not it's fool's gold. It's a toxic mess that simply isn't worth the trouble.
It might take a generation for the pendulum to swing back towards sanity, but I don't have the time or the patience to wait for that.
yah, i don't have the time to wait for that either. ha!
Lmao what a story, incredible. that wrong phone call was blessing in disguise. thanks for video
I'm here to look at the pictures...
Words of encouragment Henry! Be safe and have a blessed day!
(it's better to be alone than to be with someone wishing you were alone,) alright.
I am in my 50s and I have noticed the thing about modern women not being able to cook as well. I know far more men, often the husbands of these women, who are actually good cooks. Not just flipping hamburgers on the grill either. It is such a loss for our culture to no longer have women who know how to make a home beyond filling it with designer furniture.
Man I can relate. I'm 52 and live in San Diego. Dating here is bleak! Every single woman comes with some sort of damage from her past. I go for women in their 30s and 40s and at that point, it's too late already. I need to be somewhat close to my family as my parents are getting older so moving overseas isn't an option for me at this point so I'll just be remaining single. There's nothing out there for me or any decent guy.
You can always try to import one with a a K-1 visa…
Im close to your age, and met a woman in Costa Rica few years ago, married her a year ago and we are living US, currently expecting our first child. Its never too late. Get your passport and go meet some normal women
When you're not looking one will find you. Keep away from bars and restaurants and try churches, college courses, drama groups, anything to keep you in a social circle. Avoid tattoos, drinkers, loud, and try family types eg looking after moms and Dads.
You could meet a woman from southeast Asia online, then go visit a few times and if things work out, then bring her over here.
Same age as you and also living in San Diego. Dating here is useless. I've been to the Philippines twice this year to visit someone I met online and we have really hit it off great.. I plan on visiting several times in 2024. There is hope my man! Dont give up.
“Go where you’re treated best.” Andrew Henderson ~ Nomad Capitalist.
"I go were I am treated best". (Me - 1991 in Berlin with my blonde hair blue eyed German Girlfriend) 🤣
Always great info and advice.
Its simply amazing Henry that your dating dilemmas and mine run very similar paths except i was already in my early 50s and in Australia..Luckily my best mates darling filipina GF HIGHLY RECOMMENDED to me to take a break and go to Cebu for a few weeks..Well i did that and almost a decade later i found my true love and joy and we are looking to buy or build a place of our own..I'd hate to think that if i didn't make the move and still in Australia I'd still be stuck in that deep hole..God bless the Philippines.
This Man has been Dropping Tons of Knowledge and Gold Nuggets. Keep up the Great Work Overseas Homie 👍👍👍 #PASSPORTGANG #REDPILLKNOWLEDGE #MGTOW
More to come!
Yes a brother in law of mine did exactly that. He dated and married a Phillipine woman brought her family here fed them and gave them free rent. Then he put his wife through pediatrician school the day she got her diploma she filed for divorce. Half of his pension and 1/2 of
Everything he owned houses a beautiful getaway in the country on a crystal clear lake with boat. He had a good job at GM . Should have stayed single and bought his p>ssy. Would have been alot cheaper plus he could of had a variety.
wow.. that is just vicious and evil to use someone like that.
She's a medical doctor? She should be paying him.
@@Lifebeyondthesea "Brought her family here". 🤣 He Violated the Cardinal rule of never to bring. women to the West - as many before him warned him about - and so gets what he deserves. Sorry but not sorry.
I made the same decision several years ago that dating here in the US was exactly as you described, searching for a needle in a haystack.. Personally, I'll raise and personally equate it to searching for that needle in a rolling field of hay, lol. I'm no business owner. In fact, I'm quite 'poor' by median income standards, but I have since made it a point to have southeast Asia permanently scribed into my future life plan! I enjoyed your story, thanks for bolstering my inspiration!
Great video Henry!
❤❤❤❤💯👌🏽 GREATEST VLOG EVER!!💯 THANKS FOR SHARING. I'M SAVING THIS VLOG TO REPEAT AND REPEAT TO REMIND MYSELF OF MY OPTIONS
that's an awesome idea.
You hit the nail on the head! Good on you!
You are so so right. It"s a bit like fishing in that you need to go where the fish are before putting your pole in the water...
It would be a great series to interview men who gave up. I gave up when my ex chewed me out for not thanking her for helping me plan a vacation I took with my kids. I reminded her that I had bought her a new I phone but she said that wasn’t enough.
Wow your story sounds so much like mine! The emotional baggage is definitely what drove me away also! I have less patience for BS as an older man also.
That was said so well thank you that really helped me make a decision on the Philippines. I’m super glad you put out great videos with truthful information and mixed in are some of your real life experiences it’s just very well done and perfect for me in my situation thank you.
Bro, Im with you 100%! You lost me when you called the wrong number, BUT you discovered all the baggage it triggered so that was very good that you found that all out! So again, 100% bro.
You tell a great story Reekay, guess that is why your channel is so popular. Agree with what you say... didn't hear what 'red-pilled' means, the same as 'master of your domain'....lol.
It's really just accepting and understanding the truth about something rather than the social propaganda. It's a reference to the movie "the matrix" where Neo gets the choice to take a red pill (wake up and see reality) or the blue pill and remain in the fairy tail of the matrix.
❤❤❤😂😂Love the story! I can so relate! After my 2nd divorce to a blond hair, blue eye American girl! I said no more! I was doing business trips to China and really fell in love with the Asian culture about family. Not to mention Asian beauty. I met my now ex wife online then flew to Shanghai for our first date…a couple great kids…she is still a great woman. My mistakes in handling tampo definitely led to the split. Anyway looking to recover and find happiness with a special Filipina 🙏. Your AI pics are awesome. The young and jacked Reekay! 👍
So divorced three times. Just stop. Live life for yourself now. Go inward. Develop hobbies.
Thank you for the story lifebeyondthesea, I now know that I am not the exception even at my age there is hope. My trip to the Philippines is scheduled for 02/15/2024. Thanks.
I am glad you did not settle for less, nice story, man!
Me too!
Amen brothah! God bless & enjoy this great path you are on 🤙🏽🍻
that phone number mixup would be something that could totally happen to me 😂
Glad you put the title to the attitude. I was Red Pill long before I came to the Philippines and it's rare for the guys to know what Red Pill is even though they generally have the same beliefs.
Through mid-life, I learned to let it go when it's over. When the on/off light switch effect happens and they argue or yell for what seems to be no reason or maybe it is, then time to move on.
I live in San jacinto but work the Murrieta/Menifee area for my route sales job
Nice self "enhanced" portrait photos of yourself hehe. 😎
Good info man
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When you related about trying to straightened out that phone call and you thought she’s intelligent and she would understand, my immediate response was, “Fat chance.”
By the same token. If the dude can't keep track of which women he is calling, that doesn't bode well for him with women. No female likes being confused with another woman.
Neither would a dude.
have you ever called the wrong person and not even realized when you were talking to them that it was the wrong person? that is not understandable unless you're senile. it's forgivable i guess, if the person sounds genuinely sorry, but not understandable.
Very solid advice. Good to hear!
That last story with the mixed American was interesting. Two things I would point out; when you called and got such a bizarre response, it seems like the first thing to do would be to check and see if you did in fact call the right number. But since you turned your phone off, you could not get the message from her (the right number). So she basically responded the way you did, but more emotionally. Secondly, what it did do was show that she didn't do the right thing either and give you a chance to explain when you did call her back. That should have been a tip to her that perhaps there was some type of misunderstanding. So it did let you know that she could be explosive and unwilling to listen. I guess, in a round about way, it let you see what was necessary when considering a long term relationship with someone.
i figure i dodged a bullet. even if that date had gone well, eventually we would have some disagreement. and how she handles conflict is NOT what i want in a woman. she never was gonna last. i just found out early. :)
Her lost! She’s gonna be bitter and lonely knowing that her prime days are long gone and having a kid makes it worst!
@@Lifebeyondthesea I think you're right abou that. All that was necessary was the right situation to bring it out. I'm glad you found out before it was too late.
Great video!
You made the right decision Reekay and the red pill process lead you to successful interactions with attractive compliant Asian women.
After my wife and I separated in my mid-fifties I attempted to date in Australia only to face the reality of women self absorbtion, feminist mentality and their hypergamous nature.
Had enough and decided to go MGTOW accompanied by my dog and now living on my land in the country with few male friends. The freedom, peace and quiet, absence of drama lifestyle far outweighs any disadvantages of not having a woman in my life.
Regarding sex I reckon that the best way NOT to have sex in life is to get in a long term stable monogamous relationship where after the bait and switch period a man is lucky to get the boring marital coïtus once every 6 to 8 weeks if at all. Freedom rocks!
Bait and switch, man I couldn't have said it any better!😂
I visited the Philippines several time during the Marcos era, via Submarines. Of course I was a Submarine sailor so my experience was different, but I loved the people, the food, and the culture.
Me too only on a carrier.
Found your channel about 2015. Honestly would have loved to at least get over and see the place but career and post-divorce circumstances have kept me nailed in place.
One of my friends is married to a Filipina lady he met working in Taiwan - they definitely seem to have a different attitude towards men and relationships.
Maybe someday! Certainly nothing around here!
I'm 54, I've been looking for a good American woman since my divorce when I was 31. I never found one. The one's I dated were horrid. They were angry all the time or their kids didn't want anything to do with me. Right now I have a girlfriend who is half my age, and I've only known her for almost 4 months. I haven't moved forward on it because I'm nervous about the age gap, but she doesn't seem to mind at all. I've seen the horror stories about Caucasian men with bad experiences with Philippina women. But this girl, seems genuine. I'm thinking about visiting her next summer. I haven't seen any red flags like I do with American women with a body count. Why are they proud of a high number body count?!?! So messed up.
It's important to follow your heart and make choices that feel right for you. Age gap concerns are natural, but if you both connect and feel genuine about the relationship, it can work. Trust your instincts and enjoy the journey. As for the body count question, times have really taken a downturn on that issue. Good luck with your visit together next summer!
Excellent video with advice that every young man needs to hear.
I appreciate that!
@@Lifebeyondthesea You're welcome! Thanks for sharing your story, many more men can relate to your experience than you know, including this one. I came to the conclusion being alone is far better than being chained to someone who makes you feel worse than being alone, thanks to my ex-wife. Dating is a minefield alright, it's like walking the grounds of the Chernobyl power plant with lethally radioactive pieces of fuel rods and irradiated graphite everywhere just after the number four reactor exploded. It's worse than a hot mess. I am so glad I gave up at the age of 35. I am nearly 60 years old now. It has only got much worse for most men since I gave up on American women.
Dude...frikkin hilarious stuff😂😂. Mid fifties, rp at 47. Wished i knew what i know now in my teens. T teens today r lucky to have all this knowledge so young. 🤙
Great advice sir thank you 🙏🏽
I didn't start dating until 35. Went on a number of bad dates with American women. Decided to try online dating in the Philippines and went over a number of times.Had a good experience with a Filipina but it did not work out long term due to her child not wanting to come over to the USA .Ended up meeting a Thai in Chicago and we married and are happy. Lesson here is you can also date Asian women in the US. It's not as easy to find and the age gap has to be closer. Recently arrived Filipinas and Thai women are the best option, here on work visas. You still get some of the traditional values and respect for men, but you do not have to go overseas to find it. Not as fun or adventurous as doing it overseas ,but it is a viable option.
I have been invisable to women,,even bad ones,,for 25 years !
I fully identify with your story. Best regards from Catalonia Spain.
I really enjoyed this video..
It is a giant mess. One women, showed up to our date, looked like she was hot and sweaty. She said she was just washing her car at the car wash. SHE called for the check, half way into an appetizer, stood up and just walked out. Another, pulled a jar of hair gel out of her purse and proceeded to rearrange my hair style, right in the middle of our first date. And a third, told me she had married her ex husband because he had money, then said she had two abortions, and STD, an old coke habit and had lost count of how many sexual partners she had exchanged body fluids with. No more, don't care. Done!
Dude just live your life. When you go on a date you signal to the woman you need a woman. You've already lost the game.
How old is this guy speaking? He sounds like a cool old dude, subscribed awesome stories man, will look into your channel a bit more also the ai generated pics are really really good for attention the thumbnail got me ngl/
Great presentation, I gave up on American women in my early 40's not all but most want to be a man, the Asian women understand their role as a women, how refreshing😏
Great video!! I did the exact same thing. I am married to a Filipino lady who is 18 years younger than me. We are expecting our 3rd child soon and plan on moving to the Philippines in a few years. This is after being married to a loud bossy Lazy American woman. It can be done and it’s worth it.
so happy for the both of you. congrats!! :)