"Dating A Younger Woman Is Just Wrong!" - Really?
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- Explore the intricacies and misconceptions surrounding relationships with age gaps. In this video, we dive deep into the cultural, moral, and societal beliefs about dating younger women and why some standards are double-edged. Unpacking arguments from moral to legal standpoints, we challenge stereotypes and seek to understand the essence of love and connection beyond age. #AgeGapLove #RelationshipMisconceptions #DatingDebate
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that's a nice piece of trivia. and yet that item has not resulted in any laws stating that the age of consent for dating and/or marriage should be age 25. why not, if it's SO important. because it isn't.
most young adults, male and female, in the usa begin dating at the very LATEST by age 17. countless get married before they are 20. where is the outcry about the prefrontl cortex about that? it doesn't exist because, again, it is not relevant.
people cannot one minute say anyone under 25 does not have a fully developed brain for dating.. and then ignore the fact that they themselves made their own dating decisions since they were 18. that just reeks of hypocrisy.
@@humanbeing6933in your opinion. Opinions are just that. Opinions.
But I don't see you complaining about 18 year old men being fed into the grinder of war.
And certain groups of people want to lower the voting age to 16.
Plus all the folks arguing to let a prepubescent child make decisions about puberty blockers.
No one talks about brain development then...
I'm 55 and my girlfriend is 19. I don't care what others feel about it. It's our world and we're both very happy! Usually these negative opinions are based on jealousy or plain ignorance
More power too you! I could not agree more!
I am 56 years old and I couldn't care less what someone thinks about a relationship I am involved in. I just carry on and move along because some else's opinion. As long as it is not criminal or immoral, it's "my" or "our" business.
totally agree. age shouldn't define how we feel or the choices we make. as long as it's all good and no harm done, it's all about personal choices and living life on our terms.
Could not agree with you more guy, Preach!!!
Totally agree.
Every thing you said is spot on. I have traveled to at least 55 foreign countries so far and have found that it is only in America that the women react negatively to older men with much younger, often foreign, women. And it has nothing to do with the Judeo-Christian ethic. It has to do with jealousy and fear. They see these younger women as a threat to them. Once they hit the wall, they know that they can't compete with much younger, attractive and know that men naturally gravitate to younger, prettier women. If they are still married, they know that their husbands are miserable and might start getting ideas about wandering from the Plantation.
i 'almost' feel sorry for these older women who swallowed the big-lie from feminism. now that their youth is gone, spent "living like a man".. they can't offer a man much that he'd even want from them.
but when they start getting all Karen on me, that's when i lose what little sympathy i have for their plight. they made their bed, now sleep in it.
My oldest son got married to a woman that is his mother's age and the family was upset, but I was okay with it and I told him that if he is happy then it is no one right to be upset.
many people (the majority, in my opinion) belong to a 'herd mentality'. they don't want to stand out. they find 'safety' in being the same as the rest of the herd. they will be accepted. and they lash out at anyone who has the boldness to do their own thing.. with or without the approval of the herd.
Im 67 and my GF is 21. She saught me out and approached me....I could not say no. I do look good and Im financially secure. I felt bad about this at first but I kinda started getting used to the idea and Im ok with it now. We live in an undisvlosed hopping province. Thank you dear Lord for bringing this young beautiful creature into my life in which that she and I care for each other.❤🎉
I'm 74 and my wife is 32, been married over 10 years
Age means nothing when 2 people love each other. Life is short, enjoy everyday ❤️
You win the lottery brother....big time.
Sounds to me like the guy who said she is young enough to be your daughter is just jealous. He is definitely regretting his past decisions
sometimes people project their own regrets onto others. it's always interesting to observe.
In my experience, it's mostly women who get upset when they see or hear about an older man with his younger wife. Most other men couldn't care less what other people do in their private lives. Specifically, American women, for the most part, are the ones who get all bent out of shape about American men hooking up with younger filipinas. They get very upset, which I find to be hilarious because it's those American women who are so disagreeable that make American men want to seek romance elsewhere.
In the West, by the standards of that country, it is not expected that a man will be with a woman more than about an 8 years gap. It is socially taboo. In the Philippines an age gap is of 10, 20 or more years if not a problem. I live in Latin America and the woman I am seeing is much younger than me. In the words of Calvin Coolidge, “You can never misquote silence”. Do what you want, just don’t advertise it and don’t take her to a country where it is taboo.
100% jealousy / crabs in a bucket. They can't do it so no one can.
That's BS plain and simple. I'm 73 and my wife who is Filipina and she's 37. We have a great relationship and have been together for eight years living here in the Philippines. Who cares what others think. It's none of their ignorant business.
as so many filipinas have told me, "age is just a number" it's all about the connection two people share. glad you and your wife have a strong bond. people should focus on their own lives and let others live theirs.
Agree, I'm 74 and my wife is 32, known her since 2009 and been married over 10 years.
You know Reekay, what is perhaps most revealing about the societal prejudices regarding age gap relationships is, that this mindset is mostly wielded by women, or better said, older women who apparently feel threatened by the competition posed by the younger females. All the while, these same women/older women cheer on and highly praise the so called "Cougars" who date younger men. Is this so-called "societal norm" in dating just a construct created to shame younger women and "keep them in their place"?
exactly. totally hypocritical gas-lighting.
Well said.
This age gap and dating younger Filipina’s is what originally led me to your LBTS blogs and articles many years ago. You cleared up some misconceptions about the age gap relationships that still exist today with many Americans.
Personally,when I divorced and became single in my 40’s. I was never interested in dating any woman close to my age. #1 most of them were not fit nor took keeping fit and healthy seriously. #2 USA Women that are fit and healthy at 40 are most likely in a relationship and/or not interested in a relationship unless you are rich or have spent years getting to know them and they tell you if you meet their standards.
So this is what interested me about the seeking a relationship with a younger girl in the Philippines.
With the girls in the Philippines they’re seeking a relationship at a young age and they don’t see issues with an age gap. True, most are poor and looking for security and support. You can try to seek out the middle class Filipinas but most likely the poor girls from poorer families are who you will meet as an older expat. But if you are able to afford a modest living, you will have enough to support your gf.
thanks, and i'm glad you've been findinng the channel useful all these years. :)
Starting in my mid 20’s I was sleeping with a late forties woman for about 10 years. No we weren’t going to get married, but there was something real there. Still not sure what, but what ever. Now I am seeing a Filipina about the same age I was. Yah we might get married, but we are together and have been for 5 years now. So there is something real. Just don’t know what. To be honest my
Life’s experience Rules are designed to keep you orderly and submissive more than serving to provide any real protection. People who follow their hearts are always breaking some sort of social norm. Who cares? Society in this age wants you to die at 65 without paying for SSI til you reach 67. That’s how the game rules are set up
Very we’ll communicated Reekay. It’s been interesting for me since I started dating in SE Asia. US women are brutal even condemning with their judgements of me. I have learned to block and delete. They are very confused and fearful and it’s not my responsibility to convince them. After having extended visits to SE Asia I find SE Asia far more open minded than the US. I prefer “life giving” people and environments as opposed to oppressive and authoritarian people and environments. I’m permanently expatriating in two months. I’m so happy I can barely sit still. I have the mindset, maturity, contract with reality, life skills, life long track record as a responsible person to thrive wherever I go. I don’t bring along expectations other countries, people and foods are supposed to be like the US. Thanks Reekay
finding the right environment and people that resonate with you is so essential. it's awesome that you've found the PH aligns with your values and where you feel more at ease. embracing diversity and stepping out of the familiar can be such a rewarding experience. wishing you all the best in your upcoming adventures! ✌️
@@LifebeyondtheseaThank you Reekay. You have helped me so much since I started to listen to the channel two years ago. My partner had just passed away and hearing your messages gave me hope. I’ve listened to many of your videos many times. Now I’m two months away from launching after two extended trips to SE Asia. I thank you very much. Perhaps one day I can thank you personally. Your efforts are appreciated 🙏🏼
Older woman, younger guy, accepted, why? This is a gynocentric society
Every time I've had to chat about this, most American women get truly offended. They even get angry at my opinion. Their reaction puts me off, and I answer their questions about how wrong I am, and since I have a master's in history, I tell them that historically, women never married a man for romantic reasons, that this usually developed later in the relationship, or it did not, but mostly women married men who could take care of her needs, ability to give her children, give her provisioning and protect her. That usually meant that the man would always be much older, and this was true right up to the 18th century. After that, the age differences seemed to get closer over time, until our now delusional women, feminazis to the core, try to shame a man for having normal attractions and desires. Women have been sold a bill of goods regarding the practicality of having a man who could take care of them, as today's feminism has women thinking that they don't need a man. Let them think that. I don't want that type of female in my life. it's mighty kind of them to show their true colors and help me pack my luggage. Men are genetically programmed to prefer attractive, younger women. We cannot help it, as humanity would collapse if we didn't breed with healthy women in their prime of child-bearing years, from 18 to 30. The only thing stopping us from fulfilling our role in that regard is the harpy older women that are jealous of our having that younger, tighter beautiful female. I've been planning my move for a few years, and as soon as my house and car are sold, I'll be traveling to my future, a peaceful one, even if I'm alone, but I will have control of whom I will be with, not some scheming western nightmare of a woman.
well stated.
Love the logic on the “old enough to be your sibling.” Touché!
Hi Reekay. I remember you talking about this years ago and I totally agree with what you said then. The divorce rate in the west is massive and that's of the ones that get married in the first place, plus the corrupt and evil legal system Against men. You know, there is a biblical divorce, the husband just writes the wife a " Letter of divorce " which can be as simple as a short sentence, NO LAWYERS INVOLVED and free, so that and the fact that almost nobody reads the bible is why 99.999% of people have never heard of it. As you know, the people who denounce marriage to a younger woman are the old women, scared of loosing their sponsor [ husband ].
Great point of view. My thoughts exactly 💯
I like the direction you're channel has taken Nicely done.
thanks!! :)
My girlfriend is 21 years younger than me, I am 60 and she is 39. It’s not as big of an age gap as some other people have. But, I still get flack for it.
my wife and i have 35 years gap. it's not an issue for us. but it sure does seem to make some other people get bent outta shape. ha!
I am 63 and my girlfriend here in Bohol for the past 8-months is 21 years old. I have never had anyone negatively comment about our age gap in the Phillipines. I am certain we would be given endless "grief" about it if I returned to the US with her so my solution is to stay in the Phillipines the remainder of my life.
Another great podcast! Thank you for reaffirming for all of us
Thanks for listening
Great topic. Thanks
My pleasure!
Great content👏👏👏!
I quit worrying about religious or societal bias as a factor in my decision making many years ago now, and life has been much more wonderful since then. You present a very nice argument about age gaps being a non-moral issue, which I hope helps anyone still struggling over the issue. In the US there is still a strong negative view of age gaps where a man is significantly older than his wife. I’ve experienced it on occasion myself in public with my Filipina wife. I find it amusing.
totally see what you mean about letting go of biases and how liberating that can be. it's unfortunate that some societal views still linger, especially regarding age gaps. but you know, it's all about the happiness and understanding between two people. glad you find amusement in others' perceptions. more power to you and your wife!
Even in the Bible, many wives were 15 to 40 years younger. Its culture, not religion
Some people just complain to complain
bitter complainers create their own punishment in life.
You must have an engineering background. You provided an excellent step-by-step logical framework for the age gap.😊 Thank you.
Haha bloody awesome, so well considered and delivered. So true, it is definitely jealousy, almost exclusively, that points it's crooked finger at these age-gap relationships. Great presentation and guidance on how best to deconstruct undeserved blame - well done and thank you.
i do what i can. :)
Interesting deductions & explanations.
Amen!
I'll be 66 1/2" when I "semi-retire" in P.I. 4/2024; I'll have A LOT of savings and A LOT of monthly income, so I'll be pretty "choosy" (and cautious)about the Filipinas I engage with, as I will
not put myself at risk by being lax or cavalier. I won't be "in a hurry" and whomever I get might get (seriously) involved with will be thoroughly "vetted", and I mean even "investigated" by a
private investigator, before I expose myself to any real risks. I don't feel this is "too much", and I'll be on my own in P.I. so I'll be overly cautious, as the rule. I'm not going to involve myself
with a "separated" Filipina or one who has children, so I must be assured there's been no "omission of facts" from my Filipina, and if I cannot find one who fits my criteria, that is fine too.
To avoid all the complications I would just cut to the chase and tell them to mind their own business!
sometimes that is best.
This is The best analysis of this subject I’ve ever heard. in all categories the point as well made and it really frees my mind from any doubt. I have not dated someone with more than a 10 year gap but I did have this discussion with my best friend who thought these retirees in the Phils marrying younger women was weird and even perverse i’m sorry to say. his opinion was that these are just Golddigger girls-how could they be interested in such an older man? …Now- he’s got his masters from Harvard so he’s no slouch. and when 22 he married a woman five years older than him that had very little money…he was and is a millionaire. so I pointed out that by the same token I could say that she was a “Golddigger” (which knowing them from my 20s was ridiculous- no chance). he was furious even the comparison - so I pointed out that he made my point -A man and woman with an age gap have just as much right to be offended at the GD accusation (if they have an honest loving relationship) as he was.
He and I are both Christians and have a very deep knowledge of the Bible as well so I think if he just thought about all those Biblical examples he would change his mind and concede. that’s the only time in 40 years I can ever remember making him angry so we haven’t discussed the subject since. I think he would find this video very well thought out. thanks so much for putting it together in such clear terms along with the credibility of your personal experience. well done!
thanks! :) i will be covering this topic from other angles soon.
You are correct, in fact, I am older by a good deal than my wife, but I've got to warn you. When they are 18 t0 20 they still have immature traits that are hard to adapt to. they are more short-sighted. Be ready to deal with that. It is not easy. I love my wife, but it took her 10 years to get herself together and mature. There are many ruff bumps going down that road. For you and her.
yes. which is why i kept stressing in my video about being with a younger woman... have a LOT of patience ready. a lot. but seeing them thrive and grow, it's all worth it.
I believe there are actually more "ruff bumps" to resolve with older women for example; greater possibility of numerous previous partners (trust issues), possible children, health issues due to aging,, debt accrued from educational degrees, car loans, or credit card purchases, etc. etc.
Wrong? Not if both people are into it.
Younger Women, Older Men...More Power To You!!
One of the better videos I’ve seen in a very long time. I argue with so many people to the point I can’t even except the fact that they’re learning anything. All the potential situation’s you brought up, has been literally my life. Great video.
the few times i do have to debate someone on these issues.. i know going in that the odds of them changing their bias is almost zero. it is not so much they lack the facts or reasoning, it is that they have an unfounded bias/bigotry already in place that they will cling to even if they can't defend it.
i only do so to put them in their place when they think it's okay to make unfounded snide accusations.
Envy is the source of every evil.
My wife is half my age, and I don't care what other people think. I'm happy, she's happy, who cares what others think?
Tbh ive seen a lot of ur competitors which are making videos in FilAm or similiar relationships... not a lot have such beautiful, mindful and intelligent girls as partners as u do. Ive seen a lot of ur Videos from both of u to know she cherishes the prosperity ur income and lifestyle brings into the relationship and if her youth can make up for her deficit in income streams atm. She is happy to give that best time of her youth to make it work. She is also willing to do almost anything for u. At the same time ur trying ur best to make her dreams come true. So im a german and alone and yes im a lottle bit jealous of what u 2 have. But i appreciate it and try to learn from ur example that its never too late and i dont give up hope. What iam now thinking is that age is just a number and if 2 souls connect there is nothing who could come between. If we see time compared to the existence of the earth we are all pop-ups anyway who dissapear in the brink of an eye.
"every day above ground is a good day." it's never too late. there are a lot of good, kind women in the PH.. but few on the dating sites. the place to meet them is in-person as you go about your day. :)
This is gold Reekay, thank you
thanks! :)
I love this guy ... He really understands modern life and has a huge amount of life experience to draw from. Also remember that he has been a family man and is a father and has a wife.
Happiness has no age limits, it’s hard enough to find someone in this world that loves you as much as you love yourself, than to worry about how old they are or what other people think !
exactly.
Perfectly put my friend !!!
I'm 54 and my Filipina is 25. PERFECT
awesome. wishing you both the best. :)
i totally agree with your point of view, Reekay. only thing is that there could be some challenges in a big age gap relationship. But hey there will allways be challenges in any relationship.
yes, very true. no magic-formula age-gap is going to result in a marriage that doesn't have challenges.
I just ignore them. As long as the two parties are consenting adults, it’s no problem.
totally agree with you. as long as everyone's on board and it's consensual, live and let live.
I have been in Ministry for 20 and definitely appreciated you bringing up the story of Ruth !!!
you may enjoy my other channel, here's the link;
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Solomon, third king of Israel (reigned c. 968-928 B.C.E.), is said to have had a harem that included 700 wives and 300 concubines
Excellent. I had the prejudice against age gap relationships until I found myself in one. Best thing that has happened to both of us. I have found my soulmate (ang aking kabiyak) and we are content and happy. My mind has been changed.
that is great! congrats to both of you. :)
I agree with all these excellent points. There are nonetheless censorious "knee-jerk" reactions from family that we all have to either anticipate or deal with one way or another.
Where do you get these model photos? Are they stock photos added to an AI background?
i generate the entire image using various AI tools.
I wonder how many people who claim this is wrong are motivated by jealousy?
You're just having too much fun, Reekay, and we can't have that.
ha!! i know of some of the haters who can't stand to see me happy, or for my channel to do well. and their lives suck. despite years in the PH they've yet to hold down even one relationship with a woman beyond paying her for a few hours. it's easy to see why they hate seeing me happy. but if they'd change their attitude and take some self-accountability, they could change things for the better. but.. they're too angry and proud to do that so, they continue to suffer a low level experience in life.
Nice video sir
Thanks
Amen
Another great video not just beautiful pictures but excellent content thank you for breaking it down I just hope that critics watch the whole to the end
thanks! more on the way. :)
I am 79 and my wife is 32. We have been together 8 years.
I'm a fully functional, healthy man who'll be 66 in December. Never had any children of my own. I'm seriously considering a Filipina to start a family life with. That means an age gap of about 40 years, give or take. A Filipina friend of mine who lives here in the states is trying to fix me up with a niece of hers who is 22. I'll consider it, but also consider others. It just shows me that it's not out of the question with Filipina culture. I really don't give a damn about anyone elses opinions on the subject. I've always lived life on my terms, without being put in a box. What else do I have to do with the rest of my life, sit in a rocking chair, watching TV and waiting for death? No thanks, I expect to be here for some time to come, and won't be swayed by so-called moral social norms.
Damn! As a 36-year-old who has been trying fruitlessly to get married for the past 10 years, I could really use a friend like that.
Nailed it!
Propaganda and culture have a lot to do with women's preferences in the dating market. If age gap relationships suddenly become cool in the west, young women would follow suit accordingly. But I will not hold my breath for that. Living in the Philly is the plan.
totally agree that culture and media play a huge role in shaping preferences. but it only affects the 'sheep' who don't think for themselves and don't challenge themselves.
well, they can play it safe with their 'rules'. my young wife and i are so happy we're together.
Great video
Thanks!
I got that all the time wen my finpno girlfriend and daughter came to England I got call all the name under the sun so after 2 months in England we wen back to live in the Philippines and everyone is fine with that even though I am 60 years
The Filipina that I am corresponding with is 30 and I am 59. She has no problem with this and neither do I. We are meeting in December here in the US and if we don't click, then no problem. It's nobodies business except the people involved in the relationship. We are both adults.
@@LifebeyondtheseaReekay, is AI doing your replies 😂😂
ha! got my copy/pastes mixed together. that's what i get for multi-tasking.
@hughjanis6439 Vi and I have 35 years gap and unless the topic comes up, i don't even think about it on a daily basis any more than how tall she is. what matters each day is how we relate to each other.
You are correct...I have found out the more "advanced" [ on paper!] a society is...The more nuanced hypocrisy there seems to be. The United States is one such country. To me... As long as you not inhibiting the rights of anyone else or violating...Then leave you and her alone and do live your life as best as you can. Forget the moralists and let them know or serve them notice to how PREjudgemental and biased they and should take care to their own flaws in their persona or outlook. Peace
totally get that sentiment. it's interesting how advancement can sometimes bring about more complications and judgments. everyone should just focus on living their best life without judging others, right? thanks for pointing that out.
well done Reekay 😉
Individual interpretations of morality, legality and ethics are subjective: someone else's conviction is NOT your obligation.
Didn't even watch it. I'm here for the comments!
make some popcorn, this could take a while. :)
Marriage is not “for suckers”. It proves intent to be permanent that exceeds a verbal commitment. Granted, a verbal commitment can be just as sincere as marriage. But, by getting married you are signing up for a massive headache if, later, you decide it isn’t permanent. Thus, the person who agrees to marry PROVES intent to a greater degree than the man who merely says it. Thus, the woman has reason to have more confidence in the man’s commitment. That makes a woman feel more secure. And, a man may want to make her feel more secure because that often promotes greater commitment from the woman.
I wonder what is really meant when one objects to someone else's relationship by saying, "He's taking advantage of her", because he's older than his partner. What does that mean? What advantage is he taking from her?
Presumably, the man and his girlfriend/wife are having sex, but how does an age gap mean that some advantage is being taken from one partner to the other, to the detriment of one? Assuming the relationship is mutually consensual between adults.
It seems like that's a common phrase that people use without even understanding what they're saying.
exactly. if anything, the younger woman is benefitting immensely. for most, it is similar to retiring at 22 as she is brought into his lifestyle and under his care.
Where in the Philippines was these pictures taken?
i create the images with AI. but some of the scenes are Chocolate Hills (Bohol) and the Banaue Rice Terraces.
You see , already AI is fooling you .
for the few photos of my wife i've used (maybe half a dozen in videos past).. i begin with her actual image. but for other women i mention, i tell AI to make an image 'resembling' her by written description. this is for privacy and liability reasons.
I have 64 years my LDR has 18 years i dont care what others thinks. I only care if she is honest,sincere,loyal,serious with me. I will move soon to Philippines when i will retired after one year later. If our relationship doesnt work i will find other very young girl about 18-24 years. I dont have attraction for older women. For me is importante she is least 18 years and ofcourse trustworthy,kind,loving,caring,loyal,serious girl. In Europe i am invisible for younger women,even i am sexy,attractive,tall,slim man(64 years)
sounds awesome. wishing you each the best! :)
I thought that was supposed be the big selling point for going to Thailand and Philippines..... I'm not going half way round the world to date grannies and old mamasans I can date old birds in the UK....😂
I gave up on dating women my age in the West when I could not find any women near my age (63) who was at least as physically healthy as my 89-year old mother. Most women in the West seem to not care about their physical or psychological health.
If both people are adults, it isn't anybody's right to interrogate the relationship. You don't have to indulge it.
If one of the people is under 25 and an interrogator says that the human brain isn't fully developed before then, ask them why it's okay for two people under that age to get married.
exactly. all these people who look down on dating a 22-year-old were dating when they themselves were only 18.
#hypocrites
I'm not only old enough to be my Filipina girlfriends Father, but I'm old enough to be her Grandfather!!! I'm two year older than her Grandma.
Whaaaat , so how old are you, 180, hahaaaaa
@@dennynisevic7848With 20 year generations, the age gap could still be only just over 40 years.
A hundred years ago, before we had all the social safety nets, age gaps were common in the US. I believe I will not have any age gap problems with my children because their mothers are 10 years younger than me. Also my father was 20 years older than my step-mother.
so true. my own grandmother got married at 14 to my grandfather who was 22. and that was not uncommon in her day at all.
It is just stupid. A high value man can attract younger women both in the west and in asia. And if it is ok for male movie stars, why would it not be ok for other men?
it's been that way literally for centuries. on every nation across the planet.
We are 30 years difference... Best communication I've ever had in a relationship. The most even and balanced relationship I've ever had. I moved to Manila to date a lawyer who was 5 years younger (she was in her 50s). It did not work out so I dated 10-15 people until one was the perfect match.
Brother I wish more men look at this video so they can be happy with what ever age of a man or woman being in love together you're 100 % right
But it feels so right!
People have a tendency of picking and choosing what is moral. Some circles says a man should marry a woman half his age plus 7 (60yo man marries a 37yo woman). It's probably best to date someone at least 18 and older for legal reasons. Both the older man and younger woman usually will be a benefit to each other when dating or getting married.
yes.. "half plus seven" is totally arbitrary. it is no more valid than "half minus 5." ha!!
same with breakups. i used to hear people tell me after my divorce, "don't date anyone until half the number of years you were married." ha!! yah, and where was that written in stone? nowhere.
Donald trumps wife is 24 years younger and nobody says a thing. It seams to be more excepted if the man is rich or famous. I say to each there own.
Exactly! Pacino,Gere,Jagger,Baldwin,Ford,L.King,Shatner,
Eastwood, I believe also DiCaprio.
That is ok, by our western society. But for us Regular Joe’s, we are the Pervs!!
I was recommended to read the great book "The Good Earth" By Pearl S. Buck ~ great read conveying a noble truth and I'm pretty sure there's a place in this book that covers the topic from a more ancient perspective ~
Police your own life not others!!!
and the world would be a better place for it.
Just say no to Christmas Cake 🎂
Totally agree with you. We accept cross gender and all this crap, but you say my gf is say 20yrs younger than me and there chin his the floor and they look at you with disgust.
these same people always have two standards. one for themselves, and another for anyone else.
I agree, just live your life be happy and f the rest
Nooo, not shrimp on hamburger!
I think it's a personal choice. If you want to date some one younger than you so be it. My wife was 9 years older than I was. But with me i have 3 kids and when i get to se asia my thing is I'll be looking for someone closer to my own age. I won't be looking for anyone that's younger than my oldest child. If you want younger than your own kids more power to you. You do you. But I'm going to asia to grow old with someone. I'll be looking for any women 40 plus of age. I'm not looking to be a sugar daddy. I just want a calm older women that may be set in her ways with leading a simple life not needing fancy clothes and would feel uncomfortable in a fancy restaurant. I want someone who would rather work on our garden and make meals at home and spend time walking and holding hands close to home and spending time at the beach and not spending all day long on a cellphone!!! Is that to much to ask for????
Who cares what other people think.
You could justify the relationship on a biblical basis but why would you feel that you need to do that. Under the law you’re not doing anything wrong. Moral values are subjective and most of those criticizing probably have done much worse at some point in life. The word hypocrisy comes to mind. The average young pinay would be better off with this old guy in so many ways. I’m happy, she’s happy, your opinion becomes null and void. I dare any of the nay sayers to go to her mom and dad (and other family and friends) that we need to end the relation ship because “it’s morally wrong”. They’d probably go the way of Maria Magdalene …
Hi I am 51 and is the primary caregiver for my mother. I can’t get to the Philippines yet but your channel gives me hope. However there are a lot of foreign women moving to the USA everyday so that gives me hope as well but I have a question. Are there women in the Philippines who look like the women in your videos? I know you told me before that you use AI to make the pictures and they are indicative of the body type I want in a Philippina.
kudos to you for honoring you mother. you don't need me to say you're doing the right thing. the PH will still be here later.
as for women in the PH that are hot 9's and 10's like in the video.. yes, they are here. i know, i've dated many. but they make up maybe 8% of the women. lots of 7s and 8s as well, many more women here are slender which is a plus.
It’s the couples business n no one else’s it’s more acceptable in Philippines how ever in USA especially older women have something to say😂 there is always people here in the states who have to voice their opinion I just tell them to mind their own business
Don't worry about western standards, we all know it's a mes in the West , 😊
Very good video and had me chuckling in some spots !!! I do have some age standards !! I prefer 32 to 45 !!! A little bit of a Maturity thing !!! Considered at least 32 years old for age of Consent !!!
what the haters need to respect is that we each have preferences. and they either respect that or be seen as hyprocritical bigots.
I like your "His age is close enough to be your brother" comment. It points out the same logic that leads nowhere.😂
I met a lady 43, and I am 64. According to her she is over the hill in the Philippines. Be both feel blessed to have found each other. To my surprise one of the two sisters I have was indicating it is just wrong to date/marry her. She hadn't met her but her argument was we wouldn't have anything in common. But we actually do have quite a lot in common. I just am aggravated at the pointless negativity. I thought about my sister's relationship, she is living with a guy close enough in age to be her brother, LOL. I thought I should tell her I don't think they should be together because there is too large of educational gap between them, she has a 2 year college degree and he has attained a doctorate degree, what could they possibly have in common. 😂
i had a relative give me grief over my younger g/f... and yet they themselves were in an age-gap relationship with an older man.
when i brought it up, she said, "that's different.. i'm already beyond my 30's. we look natural together."
"oh, but when you were 18, you were making your own dating choices. so why can't my 24 year old g/f enjoy that same right?"
she had nothing to stand on after that.
Jealously Jealously Jealousy
I think Filipinos 18-23 need parents accept to get married?
A human can justify anything as long as it suits their purpose.
My GF is 35 and I’m 63. I get a lot of “You the Man” from my guy friends and I get little comments from my gal friends other than “she’s very pretty”
How come everyone thought they had the right to tell me to take the clot shot. I know this is off the subject, but in a way it relates to it.
yes. exactly. what ever happened to the argument, "My body.. My Choice!". hmmph.
Best reason i ever heard (dont agree with but still the best argument i heard) was that a 56-60 year old man could have a child with his 20year old wife and die leaving the family broken. And that for a woman they have next to 0 or 0 chace of children by that point
Why would you bother engaging in the debate?
If someone said this to me I would either ignore what they said, fing ageist or I'd laugh then ignore.
Same with a priest or a "believer" of any religion. Why would you engage?
Conversations like these with them take up time for worthy ones or peacefull existence. Ignore and move on.