"My biggest fear was that I was going to faint." Kendra's Remarkable Journey from Anxiety

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ก.พ. 2021
  • MENTORSHIP PROGRAM WITH SHAAN:
    Want me to guide you to recovery myself?
    To accelerate your recovery journey, book a discovery call to see if the mentorship with Shaan will help your specific situation:
    byebyepanic.lpages.co/byebyep...
    JOIN MY PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP FOR EXCLUSIVE CONTENT FOR FREE 👇:
    / 360852324560171
    LEARN HOW I OVERCAME ANXIETY PANIC ATTACKS, DEREALIZATION, AND DEPERSONALIZATION BELOW 👇:
    byebyepanic.lpages.co/fearles...
    FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM FOR DAILY CONTENT: / shaan_kassam
    #anxiety #anxietyrecovery #dpdrrecovery
  • แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต

ความคิดเห็น • 51

  • @homenhungry4987
    @homenhungry4987 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This woman said, "You have no idea what someone else is going through." So true. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Garden223
    @Garden223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Fear of fainting is one of the biggest things holding me back. Thank you :)

    • @chrissym6278
      @chrissym6278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same and working out helps anxiety but that feeling holds me back ugh what a crappy cycle! Hope you are doing well ❤️

    • @sumitmehra6746
      @sumitmehra6746 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey can uhh help me?please

    • @sumitmehra6746
      @sumitmehra6746 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had same this dizzziness problem🥺

    • @StreetProphet23
      @StreetProphet23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Update

  • @Itsandrearenee
    @Itsandrearenee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    A couple of years ago, I had my first panic attack and when you said that your life completely changed after that, that is the truest thing ever. Also I carry water with me!! It is also like a safety blanket. It makes it hard to work, to motivate myself sometimes, to have confidence being alone and so much more. I’ve been through a lot in my life and I just turned 24, no one in my family understands what I’m going through and I just want to have my life back.

    • @kaneshacarter7790
      @kaneshacarter7790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same do you want to be friends?

    • @Itsandrearenee
      @Itsandrearenee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kaneshacarter7790 I’m down! :)

    • @fckSashka
      @fckSashka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I also just turned 24 and have the exact same problem… I wish you the best of luck for it to go away! 🍀

    • @Itsandrearenee
      @Itsandrearenee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fckSashka thank you! I wish you the best of luck as well!

  • @nerdleo4297
    @nerdleo4297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Same anxiety as much as i hate it
    It honestly made me a better person

  • @kylieblackwell4995
    @kylieblackwell4995 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    fainting is my bigggest fear too. that's the entire reason i've had panic attacks and developed agoraphobia.

  • @liztowers2058
    @liztowers2058 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I swear this girl living a parallel life to mine. Right to the stories.

  • @nancyliawoods
    @nancyliawoods 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thanks so much for sharing 😊 proud of you for sharing your story. I see alot of myself in you. I get that dizzy feeling....I took zannax from age 13 to 30 and when I stopped I had seizures. Not to mention severe anxiety. So in a 3 month span I was seizing on and off and trying to somehow manage myself. (Eventually I started drinking until I checked myself into a detox center and then a gorgeous behavior health campus out in nature) so anyways now in current days almost 3 years later, I manage my own anxiety. I packed up a few items and moved to a new town with my husband and son to live a completely different lifestyle. I bought a farmhouse and homestead 3 years ago and a pile of land to hunt on..and a gorgeous garden. I take on projects that both help my homestead/ family but things that are therapeutic for me. Feeding animals, tending to plants, cooking etc. When my anxiety surges though I also get that "omg I'm gonna faint" feeling. I think it makes me think of the seizures. So I get triggered by that feeling and it brings on a panic attack. I've gone within over the past couple years enough to be able to talk and breathe myself out of a panic attack. So anyways thanks for letting me share and thank you both so much for taking the time to create this video. We are never alone!

    • @MindyParker
      @MindyParker 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My mom took klonopin for a few years and she missed 5 days and had a major seizure! They should warn people of this.

  • @jamesnwankire3408
    @jamesnwankire3408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Her beautiful smile and voice even make me feel better today. I think the key to this situation is knowing that nothing is gonna happen to you and know that you are not alone

  • @jacquecombs5546
    @jacquecombs5546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I resonate so much with Kendra's story. This is so much like what I'm going through on my journey. Love, love, love her recovery story!! Shaan, do a follow up video with her!! 💜

  • @stefanojoyce5039
    @stefanojoyce5039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing and SO helpful to listen to..thank you Kendra and Shaan.. Bridget

  • @rickm6232
    @rickm6232 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our parents didn't have access to this information which is sad. Like they say now, there is no better time to have a mental illness! I hope they teach children of today these tools. Kendra said a great thing "problems that use to create a setback or cause anxiety in the past really doesn't anymore."

  • @lauraa7994
    @lauraa7994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loved this! Her voice reminds me of Drew Barrymore 💙

  • @anxiety_recovery
    @anxiety_recovery  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    To accelerate your recovery journey, book a discovery call to see if the mentorship with Shaan will help your specific situation:
    byebyepanic.lpages.co/scq-funnel-optin-page/

  • @pinnymusic
    @pinnymusic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey friend! If you’re dealing with road anxiety, perhaps my story can shed some light on how to get out of this problem as soon as possible:
    Here’s my story:
    One night, as I was driving from Miami to Orlando in the twilight hours, a fierce panic attack hit me like a tsunami wave. I couldn't move, my body shook, and I struggled to breathe. The world blurred, closing in on me. I wanted to pull over, but I kept going, determined not to let panic win. And I’ll add, that it really felt like impending doom. Just Incase you think that somehow your story is different, let me tell you, It felt like I was a dead zombie behind the wheel! (I wasn’t sure that I’m gonna make it out alive)
    I’ll break it down: I felt like I couldn’t breathe, felt nauseous, as if I were dying. “BUT” I WASN’T FIGHTING THE SENSATION (THIS IS THE IMPORTANT PART). I wanted to prove to myself that my body could handle driving at 80 mph for another hour and a half, even though it felt unnatural and out of my control, with shallow breathing at its maximum, making me feel like I was drowning inward. Despite this, I kept driving.
    Somehow, I made it to Orlando, the city lights welcoming me like a victory parade. I had faced the darkness and won, proving to myself that I was stronger than the storm inside me, that it’s possible.
    On the way back, something amazing happened. I felt calm, as if the earlier struggle had never existed. No fear, no torment, nothing!
    Afterward, I realized a powerful lesson: our fears can only be conquered by facing them. (Even if it feels literally impossible) Just like someone wise once said, our brains (the amygdala) learn from experience. By confronting fear, the storm eventually fades away. (Even if it takes two or five hours) It was a huge realization that echoed within me, showing me that I had the power to overcome my own fears.
    Ever since, no panic attack occurred on the road again. As a matter of fact, it helped me with other panic attacks as well.
    Wishing you all a happy safe journey, and a wonderful life!

  • @jf8461
    @jf8461 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hate to but have to ask this question - Why all the relapses?? I’m not sure this point was fully addressed. How confident is she (or you) that this time she is completely over it?

    • @guestplayer4797
      @guestplayer4797 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think its because she was still using benzos (xanax) which makes it difficult for your amygdala to learn from facing your fears (exposures).

  • @tashaandjacob6836
    @tashaandjacob6836 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wonder when people realize this was when she reached tolerance on the Xanax. It’s no joke.

  • @rudoludo
    @rudoludo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    the link on the report page doesn't work

  • @markpatrick5246
    @markpatrick5246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i have been fainting with anxiety since i was 18 - im now 60....recently with having covid, etc - i lost consciousness and fractured 5 ribs and had a partial lung collapse - fainting is rare with panic but for me, its not.

    • @markpatrick5246
      @markpatrick5246 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chrisbonen6933 no its called neurocardiogenic syncope - its the vagus reaction

    • @liztowers2058
      @liztowers2058 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So so so rare ....considering when your blood pressure is high and rapid heart beats...u can't faint! So u must have had sudden DROP in BP.

    • @markpatrick5246
      @markpatrick5246 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@liztowers2058 probably

    • @evanbonnell9611
      @evanbonnell9611 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Try tensing your calf muscles and clasp hands together and pull outward during an attack. Pilots use this to raise BP and not pass out. Has worked for me a number of times. There are TH-cam videos on it.

  • @pinnymusic
    @pinnymusic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What does Shaan mean by “responding”?

  • @sumeetbisht9560
    @sumeetbisht9560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can anyone pls answer my question when i am having anxiety should i tell my self that its due to anxiety or i should just stop discussing this topic with my self

    • @zoeymaicaboo
      @zoeymaicaboo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Sumeet Bisht I think it helps to recognise and acknowledge it when you’re in the middle of an anxiety or panic attack. For me at least it helps a little because i know i’m not actually dying or having a heart attack

    • @liztowers2058
      @liztowers2058 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Read Clare weekes ....the book Shaan keeps mentioning...it does WONDERS FOR ANXIETY

    • @sumeetbisht9560
      @sumeetbisht9560 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@liztowers2058 hey liz thanks for reply but i am already recovered i read paul david book that one is easy to understand as he translated claire weeks book in easier way.

    • @liztowers2058
      @liztowers2058 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will get his book! What's it called?

    • @sumeetbisht9560
      @sumeetbisht9560 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@liztowers2058 at last a life by paul david

  • @kylieblackwell4995
    @kylieblackwell4995 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the only thing that has helped me with nocturnal panic attacks is prozac

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Did you experienced insomnia?

  • @kendramorin9879
    @kendramorin9879 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's my name too!

  • @santsu8392
    @santsu8392 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have newly developed fear of high blood pressure 😕

  • @ApulicaOfficial
    @ApulicaOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    can we realy be free from anxiety disorder?

    • @liztowers2058
      @liztowers2058 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. Read Clare weekes book..Shaan keeps mentioning

  • @ns_ganawa
    @ns_ganawa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi

  • @umashreepramod5221
    @umashreepramod5221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey shaan plz tell me how to come out from anxiety

    • @Alafasy3
      @Alafasy3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      By allowing it telling yourself this is normal and breath through it

    • @liztowers2058
      @liztowers2058 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch all his videos and get Clare weekes book

  • @liztowers2058
    @liztowers2058 ปีที่แล้ว

    "when the hangovers felt like normal hangovers ...."
    LMAO THIS.
    although I quit drinking because of my anxiety.