Remarkable Interview With An Anxiety Sufferer Now Recovered...MUST WATCH

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ค. 2024
  • Shaan Interview's Nico on his recovery journey and his experience in the Bye Bye Panic Mentorship. In this interview, Nico and Shaan dive deep into the nuances and complexities of anxiety recovery, what common pitfalls to avoid, and how to focus on long-term freedom from anxiety symptoms, depersonalization, and derealization.
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  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The acceptance is so hard. Especially when more symptoms are being added on

  • @charlesbarkley4765
    @charlesbarkley4765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Love how Shaan got more personal in this interview every recovery story convinces me I will get out of this!!!

    • @ApulicaOfficial
      @ApulicaOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i doubt if shan himself got out of it

    • @charlesbarkley4765
      @charlesbarkley4765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ApulicaOfficial lol I’m damn near fully recovered already

    • @ApulicaOfficial
      @ApulicaOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@charlesbarkley4765 it will always be near...not 100% ..never seen anybody telling he is 100% recovered..

    • @charlesbarkley4765
      @charlesbarkley4765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ApulicaOfficial na u can fully recovered trust me , I can see it and feel it I’m back to my old self going out with friends to bars have some drinks meet people I feel like this anxiety / depression open up my mind and made me a much better person

    • @ApulicaOfficial
      @ApulicaOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@charlesbarkley4765 that much I am always doing...the only thing is random thoughts..which sucks

  • @garyparker6583
    @garyparker6583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "freaking out cos you opened your fridge and thought about existence" lol
    I love it, absolute legend 👍👍👍👍

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you enjoyed

    • @figsworld6977
      @figsworld6977 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      These are the kind of things I wish people would say. But I understand why you wouldn't want to. But I really believe these things are what resonate with people that have anxiety. The really strange intrusive thoughts.

  • @user-xd8pj2mm4t
    @user-xd8pj2mm4t 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are ALL AMAZING! The more i listen, the more i feel "normal", always feeling like im the only one "going crazy", you folks sharing your this issue is absolutely astronomical! Anxiety is an isolated, terrifying experience,thank you so very much

  • @alphaomega7433
    @alphaomega7433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great Interview!

  • @zoemilinkovic
    @zoemilinkovic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great interview. 👏

  • @SeanLeonDrumz
    @SeanLeonDrumz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Tremendously insightful for those who are suffering. Nico the wise.

  • @smartpanna1975
    @smartpanna1975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    wonderful story, Thank you so much.

  • @BrendaHall1
    @BrendaHall1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great interview!!! Nice is very insightful

  • @cardad2220
    @cardad2220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This has to be one of the best videos.

  • @rickm6232
    @rickm6232 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Another great interview! A true blessing ❤ Thank you Shaan & Nico! 😊

  • @toshuarussell4703
    @toshuarussell4703 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow he’s amazing ! You two together are gold

  • @vinylg3421
    @vinylg3421 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love this ❤ truly wise and inspirational .. hoping full freedom for myself and everyone going through this

  • @deon_pet
    @deon_pet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Very great, insightful, and relatable interview. The Apple store story is so real. And I hate when people figuratively say they’re gonna have a panic attack when I’m like “you don’t know the half of it”. But that’s just shows the difference in baseline’s of the two

  • @friendofclaire
    @friendofclaire ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Insightful and well delivered. Everything resonated with me. Well done and thank you for this labor you have taken on!

  • @ashishparmar2073
    @ashishparmar2073 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The way he puts that "its a new landscape" so simply and clearly ❤️

  • @Nick__E2
    @Nick__E2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You’re the man Nico!! Would love to see you become a coach!

  • @pkc3168
    @pkc3168 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I desperately needed to hear your guest's genuine experience and advice. I hope to be like him.

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nico is smart! Perceptive! And makes good metaphors. Such an inspiration!

  • @aishabenyahya4125
    @aishabenyahya4125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    AMAZING video!!! Iv watched all of Shaans content as I’m recovering on my own and this is a really good video! Thank you both so much for this 🙏🙏

  • @hugo3conde
    @hugo3conde 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "It feels like both your mind and body have betrayed you" - wow ...How I feel everyday. The physical symptoms, the intrusive thoughts, the derealization, I mean.... this is no easy feat. Wish he would have listed all 70 symptoms he wrote down :/

  • @slv6470
    @slv6470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    he seems super cool! also love listening to this.

  • @suzanaflorestherapy
    @suzanaflorestherapy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great discussion

  • @carliebryant7627
    @carliebryant7627 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love hearing that others don’t notice you’re having panic symptoms. Hearing you guys talk about that really helps.. that he couldn’t see any signs of anxiety in you when you asked him for help at Apple.

  • @user-xq1gd8xl8n
    @user-xq1gd8xl8n 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’ve had intense generalized anxiety for 50 years. I had friends in high school, but was made fun of constantly. Since then I’ve had very low self esteem. I’ve been on medication but your videos are the first thing that has really helped. It helps to know I’m not alone.

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Nico! You describe just how I feel

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Listening to this guy has helped me so much because he described how a change of weather could or hot it really shakes your system. That happened to me recently and it really scared me not knowing why.

  • @pillsooshin
    @pillsooshin 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My favorite part from this is that “ The answer is to recognize the world you are in and learn from that. Don’t take the knowledge you had previously to solve the current problems “ Thank you!

  • @mandarsawale4596
    @mandarsawale4596 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your guidance 😊

  • @knowledgecorner2944
    @knowledgecorner2944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Shaan thnku for everything..:)

  • @Truth_Bringerxx
    @Truth_Bringerxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    God bless you both

  • @maralynrigby9157
    @maralynrigby9157 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Now I understand why I have been described as being aloof... This constant cultivation of my difference from others rather than the opposite...

  • @patdaniell5528
    @patdaniell5528 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just found you yesterday l can not believe l am hearing me in both of you 16y it started 71y now phobia of vomiting and the things that were said about going out the reason why different places in the house safe etc
    I am going through it at this moment as lot of health problems don't stop

  • @amdphen
    @amdphen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Nico the philosopher!! 😁 . He's really good! 👍🏻

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nico is a sage.

    • @amdphen
      @amdphen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@byebyepanic hehehe.. thanks Shaan for all the amazing work that you do!

  • @liztowers2058
    @liztowers2058 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I must have had 100 panic attacks in that SAME bathroom 😂😂 I needed a laugh today.. life is funny.

  • @effortless4588
    @effortless4588 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing content

  • @evelyndaisy9722
    @evelyndaisy9722 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He gives me hope 🙏

  • @JerothyOle-pt2ee
    @JerothyOle-pt2ee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You both are amazing ♥️♥️

  • @justinpemble7453
    @justinpemble7453 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello. My name is Justin. I have suffered with anxiety for so many years. I have now watched a number of your videos and would really like to join your program! Please let me know what I need to do or where to find your application? Thank you so much for all your content! Have a great day!!😃

  • @alpal681
    @alpal681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing video guys thank you

  • @mouthearnose
    @mouthearnose ปีที่แล้ว +4

    26:25 "Sitting with it"
    35:52 "We are here not to fix anything, but to point you to the understanding that there has never been anything to fix :)"

  • @IrishMexican
    @IrishMexican ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's interesting how I hear different people's perspective on why "this" issue seemed like the most important to "me." Probably why the symptom/issue persisted - because of the fear of it.

  • @But_Whyyyy
    @But_Whyyyy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When they talk about the weight loss part, I was smiling cuz of happiness due to the fact that I am 88 pounds at 20 age

  • @byebyepanic
    @byebyepanic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

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  • @MrSKlim
    @MrSKlim 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol! So funny, Apple store was a trigger place for me as well. I would just be sitting waiting for a tech to help and it was I just wanted to leave. Shallow breathings, hard time swallowing, abdomen tightening, non stop restlessness lol.

  • @sukhimahal5153
    @sukhimahal5153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Suffering as student from 2 years

  • @brianschnurr3254
    @brianschnurr3254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is literally me. My entire life has been just like this, and i am 31 now and STILL struggling.

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Stay strong!

    • @Idontknow-uq2ct
      @Idontknow-uq2ct 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Looks like u still haven’t accepted your anxiety

    • @yassinechaouki4755
      @yassinechaouki4755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      8 Months with dealint with gad and panic disorder , last 3 months my panic attacks are gone my normal life is back im not recovered 100% i still deal with my setbacks and my symptoms but i totally accept that its just anxiety i dont judge or justify any symptom you have to accept it like a sneeze and trust me you will start making progress im 19yo btw i had my first panic attack in my last 18y

    • @yassinechaouki4755
      @yassinechaouki4755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Another advice its the best for me , just live your life do what you used to do even if you are dealing with heart palpitations whatever you have to do that and live with the symptoms and they ll start disappearing

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Could you please elaborate more on how or when is the insomnia gets better and how?

  • @crystal_vvave9045
    @crystal_vvave9045 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Speaking about health anxiety there is a 6 minute cartoon called kikoriki, episode: "Chiko and his health" which is very accurate

  • @ashishparmar2073
    @ashishparmar2073 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would like to listen Nico more

  • @danielpolednik
    @danielpolednik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My story is very similar. Indigestion, Gad, terror.. Right now I'm in process of finding if my symptoms are physical. Blood testing tomorrow. After results it will give at least some certainty. I wish everybody to find certainty, I wish you to heal, we can do it!!!

    • @danielpolednik
      @danielpolednik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just follow up. My blood is ok just low vitamin D + lower testosterone. I will take vit. D3. My nervous system is still very sensitive even if I'm calm. I'm gonna continue to apply acceptance. I will follow up with my progress later - i hope this could help at least one person in the future.

    • @user-eb3ut2ij8d
      @user-eb3ut2ij8d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@danielpolednik hey daniel
      if i can suggest some tool to help while u doing this work
      try wim hof method watch it carfully and understand the process very well before u apply it
      its like anxiety meds without the side effects it will only take the edge off but wont fix everything but will help to work on urself calmer

    • @TheSpectraYT
      @TheSpectraYT ปีที่แล้ว

      how you doing 2 years later?

    • @danielpolednik
      @danielpolednik ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheSpectraYT Hi, I'm doing well. If i can recommend something to other people -> Focus on something else (job, project, hobby, family). I know it's hard and you want to fix your problem now! But if you want to fix the problem you are telling your body there is a problem. Also don't consume coffein and go to sleep early (max 10pm). The other part is acceptance. How can you accept suffering? For me it was easier because i had this episode once before in my life. So i could assure myself, that i know what's going on and my body will come back to balance again. YOU WILL GET THROUGH AND OUT - ACCEPT!!!

    • @TheSpectraYT
      @TheSpectraYT ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danielpolednik so are you fully recovered now? no symptoms?

  • @dompurpura
    @dompurpura 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shaan, do you have a patrion? I would love to give back to you for giving so much to me. Thanks

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Best way is to help someone else :)

    • @dompurpura
      @dompurpura 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@byebyepanic you are a legend.

  • @maepaderna20
    @maepaderna20 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I wish i found Shann’s video sooner

  • @SoberAgoraphobic
    @SoberAgoraphobic ปีที่แล้ว

    I get intrusive thoughts..I don't know how to move forward riding in car because my kids are with me and I fear if I react

  • @tonima4784
    @tonima4784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't sleep because of anxiety. Or not good sleep.

  • @umbertofurlan501
    @umbertofurlan501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    anyone has persistent chronic muscle tension due to stressfull anxiety period? me its 1 year and a half without any improvements.

    • @hugo3conde
      @hugo3conde 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m going on 6 months :(

    • @itsjen94
      @itsjen94 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hugo3conde how are you feeling now? Still physical symptoms?

    • @hugo3conde
      @hugo3conde 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@itsjen94 I still have symptoms - but other ones now - the muscle tension is not as prominent but now I have migraines and tingling on my face that really freaks me out … it’s tough :( but we can do this !!!!

    • @mikepaquette1245
      @mikepaquette1245 ปีที่แล้ว

      @max how you doing these days?

    • @crystalH30
      @crystalH30 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes lots of shoulder tension

  • @pillsooshin
    @pillsooshin 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can I ask from what age did you start to have anxiety? Did you have that since you were a preteen?

  • @evatempleton5994
    @evatempleton5994 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My biggest symptom is insomnia and loss of appetite. And also loss of appetite. How did you start getting those things back?

    • @ElenaRata-iv5pk
      @ElenaRata-iv5pk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah me too exactly insomnia and loosing a appetite and loss weight. How you accept insomnia and be friend with when you feel so bad. But I’m still wake up and do lots of stuff. I’m not afraid to go out or in shop and if I sleep 4-5 hours I feel better. Pray for you to start feeling better soon!!

  • @editinglearn4395
    @editinglearn4395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Suffering rn

  • @ashishparmar2073
    @ashishparmar2073 ปีที่แล้ว

    Actually it's true' doing job helps 👍

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 ปีที่แล้ว

    Was Nico recovered when you two worked together?

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He quoted Joe Dispenza who is phenomenal!

  • @laurenbaldwin6068
    @laurenbaldwin6068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is this fo DPDR i have it feel like giving up

  • @suukinsin6771
    @suukinsin6771 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My anxiety went away just after 1 week of black seed oil daily...all the inflamation and stress in my body dissapered..great oil..iherbs

  • @nitesh7397
    @nitesh7397 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is the freeze response also Anxiety?

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It falls under the stress response. For simplicity we throw it under the anxiety umbrella. It’s a different mechanism, but the solution is the same . Good question tho h

  • @ashishparmar2073
    @ashishparmar2073 ปีที่แล้ว

    It becomes familiar ....ya

  • @tannerbrandon5211
    @tannerbrandon5211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Did he experience 24/7 depersonalization? Did he recover?

  • @johnlant1730
    @johnlant1730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Shaan why does the body change up symptoms on you. Sometimes I feel like my body is saying this symptom isn’t getting a reaction from him anymore so let’s now send this. Sometimes I feel like I have the upper hand on this then I will get a new symptom and be like WTF is this now. Is your body intentionally looking to spark fear by doing this?

    • @ghassenbohli4056
      @ghassenbohli4056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      U dont need books to move over anxiety , the easiest way to recover is to absolutely do nothing and live ur life back , u want the mechanism behind it ? Intense fear stored in the mind and body , does the body heal ? Yes . How ? By releasing the fear (aka u feeling rotten and fearful ) do u let it ? No , there u go u stay in the cycle , the longer u stay the longer the memory the longer the recovery . Its not magic its a pattern , and to answer ur question why the symptoms change because an anxious traumatised mind will play every trick in the book to survive ..... ur job is not even accepting ur job is to live ur life fully with or without anxiety

    • @johnlant1730
      @johnlant1730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you friend. This makes complete sense.

    • @Idontknow-uq2ct
      @Idontknow-uq2ct 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ghassenbohli4056 so acceptance

    • @ghassenbohli4056
      @ghassenbohli4056 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Idontknow-uq2ct when u tell people accept , their anxious mind outsmart them and turn it to a technique to get rid of anxiety

    • @Idontknow-uq2ct
      @Idontknow-uq2ct 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ghassenbohli4056 some do do that but acceptance is not supposed to be used as a technique

  • @kamaconnection
    @kamaconnection 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That quote is from joe dispenza

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Which one?

    • @kamaconnection
      @kamaconnection 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thoughts are the language of the mind and feelings are the language of the body

    • @nicopaolo
      @nicopaolo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😬

  • @katelyndefreitas2810
    @katelyndefreitas2810 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm stressing out but only getting fatter :-(

  • @ApulicaOfficial
    @ApulicaOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    he says he still has some symptoms..how can u tell he is recovered...u can say he is managing