Listen men leaving a woman who cheats is pointless. It's dumb. Now if she's a cheater yes but if she cheated dont leave It's stupid. Every woman cheats we all struggle with infidelity. Have you ever met a man that hasn't been cheated on I'll wait......... now with that being said leaving for the next women isn't going to change the fact that all women are cheaters. Stick it out with the women who cheats the least. Yall sound so STUPID trying to be philosophical.
Oh but they would have a FIT over that statement. Don't you know all women need to be pure, motherly virgins? Nevermind that these guys have to be cheating with someone.
For sure. He cheats with everyone who will have him and expects his partner to just take it, but he'll raise hell if his partner even breathes towards another man. Something about having your cake and eating it too.
Yep. Men tend to want grace, mercy and forgiveness for their "moments of weakness." But these same men will scorch the earth if a woman does the same to him. Make it make sense.
My sister caught an STD from her husband when she was pregnant that ended up causing cervical necrosis that almost killed her AND her baby. NEVER stay with a cheater. If he doesn't care about your feelings, he probably doesn't care about your health either.
@@scottdaniels2500plenty of STDs can cause reproductive harm and that goes triple for when the infected person is actually pregnant, so you can go do a Google.
“Cheating is abuse” Just because he doesn’t hit you, if he’s cheating on you, it’s still abuse. Therefore, cheating should be a dealbreaker. Point. Blank. Period.
Thank you for saying this! Women should recognise this! Multiple forms of it! It falls in line with emotional and usually financial in a marriage. The covenant is broken.
Agreed they don't want relationships they want a marriage that allows men to cheat but not the wife so it's easier just to stay single and be the side gf you can get more out of them that way. . I've even read about stories we're a woman cheats on her boyfriend and she gets killed so it's easier just to stay single or get a vibrator it might do you some more justice there because at least it doesn't talk or have any opinions I don't think a hypocrite should be rewarded like that because without the woman in the porn it wouldn't be a porn.
Reconciliation process in the Bible but BOTH parties have to agree to reconcile and then the deed has to be put behind them with a brand new start. Otherwise there is grounds for divorce, and the wife can divorce her husband and is justified in doing so.
If a man cheats on you, he doesn't respect you. If there's no respect, there's no love. You can't love someone you don't respect. So ladies, have some respect for yourself and leave if a man cheats on you.
The only reason women tolerated men cheating in the past is because financially they didn't have a choice. Young ladies GET YOUR OWN MONEY so you don't have to tolerate this nonsense..... have some self respect.
True. 😂they want to shame women for leaving abusive relationship. Bro, peace is everything. Unless he is millionnaire and I got paid thousands dollars...maybe I would think of staying (to get as much as I can before leaving). If he isn't. I don't see a reason to stay.
The moment I heard those older ladies acting like keeping a cheat around was some groundbreaking hot take, all I could think was... "Y'ALL, Alice Walker, Maya Angelou, Zora Neale Hurston and numerous other writers did NOT etch their names into history and literature by writing stories and poems about how we (as women) DESERVE better than a cheater who doesn't respect us for you to turn around and try to roll that back and act like it's a new take!"
He looks like a cheater. Dude, all you have to do is NOT get in a relationship, and you can have all the women you want. There's PLENTY of women who don't mind sharing and fighting over a man. My gosh, they make simple things so complicated 🤦🏾♀️
they want a non monogamous relationship but those typically mean that the woman can also step out and see other people. So they get into monogamous relationships where the woman thinks shes the only one and cheat on her. They want the cake and to eat it too, but if a woman cheated theyd be out the door before you could say the word cheat.
They want our free labor and codependent asf. They NEED a woman to be up under at all times. So, it has to be women who walk away and put up the boundaries and standards.
No, we're not going to just find another one that struggles with infidelity. We're not going to bother with any at all. We will leave everytime and go ahead and just ultimately be single. They aren't getting it.
The lady who asked "Why do they get into monogomous relationships?" Well it's because they want all of the benefits women bring, but don't want them to do it for other men. 7:12
Cheating is a lack of respect for your partner. A lack of caring about your partner’s health. A lack of love for your partner. And the height of selfishness. If you cheat, you’re 🗑️ and you deserve to be alone… forever.
I like to think we won and they lost. We have peace, pets, family, and friends(women nurture other relationships besides romantic). While they are struggling to figure out why we don't want to be bothered anymore.😂
He is saying that women should just cope with it. However if a man a cheats on a man he should leave and that is not dumb.😐🤦🏽. These men are ridiculous. However, if you with a rapper, athlete, millionaire type of man, every woman should expect that man to cheat. I know it sounds bad, but men who have many many options lack self control and most likely he will cheat. For the other men, they have no business cheating. Women will stay for status but it means nothing, just means the woman is a fool, and the man is the ONLY one benefiting. This idiot splashed his face claiming all men cheat and he will complain that he can’t find a nice women to settle down with when he 50 plus year old. HE wants to cheat…HIM. 🤦🏽
You know, I want to be mad, but part of me is like...at least they're being honest about it now. So you can avoid them. This shit is getting ridiculous.
That one woman called cheating a mishap. Does that mean the cheater accidently met up with their cheatee, accidently took off their clothes, accidently put on a condom (or not), accidently slid in and accidently lied to their wife or girlfriend about the whole thing and probably lied to the person they just cheated with? Just one big mishap?
Exactly!!! There are SO MANY steps that have to occur before penises and vaginas intersect. People will embrace cognitive dissonance in order to make themselves feel better about staying with a cheater. If you want to stay with a cheater just say that, don’t try to minimize the cheating act. Let’s call a spade a spade! Cheaters don’t respect you, nor honor you, nor cherish you nor love you. And it’s also statistically impossible to be caught on the first occurrence so typically this behavior is rampant and with many. And they don’t use condoms. Just disgusting!
You never feel the same after a man cheats on you. Even if you give them another chance it never the same. The trust is gone. Don’t do it! I will never do it again because it just gets worse. It is better to get rid of him, you will feel 100% better.
The smartphone is the worst thing to happen to antagonistic men, lmao. They can't stop telling on themselves. Honestly, ladies, if you don’t find your one, it's genuinely okay to stay single and happy (most likely happier) that way.
The more they talk, the more undesirable they become, pls keep talking. Its like they are giving us more reasons to leave them alone, I mean they are going to cheat anyway so what is the point.
I dumped a man because after I gave him my first kiss, he went, slept with a situationship I was not aware of, and then came to me in a couple of hours and asked me to be his girlfriend. Before starting the relationship he took me home to meet his parents and brother and they organised a Christmas dinner for me even though they had another religion. Why did I dump him? Because I couldn’t trust him.
@@lilaoliva793 After 5 months. A common male friend told me that he had a girl with whom he had been sleeping for a long time. I am quite conservative and keeping myself for marriage and the dude gave me the impression that he also had a high level of moral values. Our common friend, who was in love with for quite some time, knew that him sleeping around with a woman might have been a problem for me and let me know. My ex accepted that he was sleeping with that girl till some hours before he asked me to be his girlfriend and never thought that this would be a problem for me. He even proposed me marriage in the last three days of our relationship, when I was considering dumping him or forgiving him
@@lilaoliva793 After five months. A common friend saw his profile picture where he was together with me (covid times so he had no idea that we were already a couple) and wrote to me to explain that my ex was in a friends-with benefits situation with a girl from high school very recently. Our friend knew that I am quite conservative, keeping myself for marriage and that I had high moral values so something like this would have definitely be a problem for me. My ex accepted that it was true and I had to think about it for three days till I was strong enough to dump him. During those days blood was running from my nose and my soul was hurting.
@@lilaoliva793 We had been together at that point for 5 months. A common friend , who had been secretly in love with me, let me know what he was doing and I dumped him 3 days later.
These guys don’t just struggle with temptation, they WANT to cheat deep down, so they do. I couldn’t do that to someone, but I would feel dirty as well. It’s because I would never want to cheat in the first place. It’s never worth it!
Ofc it only applies to if/when the xy cheats. They can legally unalive their partner in several states (or receive slap on wrist sentence) if the xx is found out.
@@fantym1633 If they aren't going to tolerate it they shouldn't expect us to tolerate it either. They are jealous of women for having options will take women rights so she can rely on him. Good thing 4b movement will make a wave soon.
Got together with this guy that had cheated in all his previous relationships. But he wanted fidelity from me. When I told him I would only do an open relationship with him he lost his mind 😂😂😂
I am single and drama free. It is so very peaceful!!! I am 47 and child free. I went on my first date at 23 and married him 8 years later. I wasn’t cheated on we just grew apart. I will never stay with anyone that cheats on me. I respect myself.
They don't want to say that they are not monogamous because that means then the woman has room to also not be monogamous. They want to be able to step out while the woman remains theirs only
There is a saying "fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me". Leaving a guy who knowingly cheated is a woman choosing herself and showing self respect. But oh no as soon as she threatens to leave these men want to whine to social media.
Never let any man threaten your health, heart, and security. Anyone who cheats is also likely to mistreat the person they’re with. It’s not worth the headache at all.
Sum up of this guy's video: "I am an a*hole, I want to keep being an a*hole in peace so I'll blame all other men and try to once again take advantage of women by making them thinking it's our nature". Geez, some people have too much free time on internet!
I can understand polyamorous relationships and open relationships where the non-monogamy is out in the open and everyone involved is aware of it. However, cheating is a deal breaker for me. Knowingly and willingly hurting the person you're supposed to love is beyond my comprehension.
"Would you feel comfortable living a in a community where your leader falls into temptation every single time they're tempted?" Lol thats a damn good point
Cheating is never ok. The assumption that ALL men cheat is the first of a long list of fallacies this man is spouting. Liars believe everyone is a liar simply because THEY are. Struggling with infidelity doesn’t mean you must succumb to it. Cheating involves making a choice to cheat; you have to create a time and place to meet up with a prospective affair partner. I may be behind the times but the last time I checked there’s no cheater’s store in the mall or a cheater section in the grocery store where you walk down an aisle, pick up an AP and go from there. This XY is upset the woman he was with has left him or far more likely, put him out and the AP doesn’t want him either. He’s sitting in his car talking this nonsense on his way to the homeless shelter.
My sister is 25 I’m 24 been cheated on recklessly I’m a single mom my sister is 25… no kids married met her husband in college they graduated together been married almost 2 years now … HE NEVER CHEATED tmi they lost they v card together. Tbh it can happen someone can love you unconditionally 🥺
@@user-ly3li3ex8c while it doesn’t have to be as specific as both being virgins for things to work out, I have certainly noticed a pattern that the decent men who go on to be decent husbands are the kind of men who only ever have sex within a longterm romantic relationship. It’s generally a red flag if a man is capable of engaging in casual sex or if he’s the type of man to rush to have sex within the first three months of dating. Men like that are just too hypersexual for monogamous relationships and demonstrate a lack of impulse control along with a clear prioritisation for personal sexual gratification over any genuine romantic desires. Sex will always matter to them more than a romantic bond, which is why I personally don’t think a man that’s truly capable of pair bonding with a woman would ever be capable of engaging in casual sex.
What's even the point though? Men take it so personally when you cheat on them because they're so convinced they need to be top dog and the only one rocking your world. So they're probably not even going to be the same after that.
they literally tell on themselves … and then when women say “ight imma head out.” All of a sudden, “it’s not all men.” Why would I take the risk??? Y’all aren’t worth the trouble 💀
Instead of settling for a cheating spouse, why not be single? I don’t know why people have difficulties being alone. It’s really not hard to be alone people. It is better to be alone than to be constantly heartbroken because of a cheating husband.
It's because sex with men you're actually physically attracted to isn't nearly frequent nor satisfying enough as a single woman, people forget women have sex drives too and attractive men aren't abundant even if you are very physically attractive as a woman.
Omg. That's awful. I remember seeing a video where staff that are working in clinics, are urging women in committed relationships, to use condoms because they are seeing an uptick of married women with STDs/ HIV.
So basically he’s telling us to simply not to get involved with them because they’re all cheaters soooo again confirming that remaining single and childfree is the best. Thank you for confirmation.
So long as people know they can get away with something, they will do it. Just imagine if we had no law enforcement to make people pay for their criminal activity.
Like many men, he wants to be free to cheat without consequences, but doesn't want a woman who does the same. And those ancient pick-mes are just too pathetic for words.
I agree 1000% with the last speaker (8:06). Men don't have to cheat. If they want to play the field, don't make a commitment to one person. Then it's not cheating. But when you make a commitment, betrayal after trust is cheating. There's a saying: When a man cheats, which woman is he more likely to try to stay with? The woman he fears will leave him or the woman who will forgive him and stay. Answer: the woman who will stay, because she's the one he feels is the weakest and safest to continue cheating on. He might respect the other one more, but men don't always stay with the women they respect. Women (especially Black women) who try to make other women feel wrong for not staying with husbands who cheat, are simply justifying their own willingness to stay in "cheating" situations. If a woman wants to stay, she can. But don't judge those who don't. Don't try to normalize it. It's a choice.
The problem is that WE think men have the same goals as women. It makes no sense to us why they do what they do because we project our own goals onto them!! These men want frequent secure [unprotected] sex with a woman who fulfills the wife/mommy roles in his life and is faithful so he isn't exposed to STDs or raising babies that aren't even his from men she could sleep with. He wants ownership of that kind of woman while he goes out to try a variety of women and maybe even find what he thinks is an upgrade from his current girlfriend who fulfills that wife-mommy role before he discards her. If he fails on his cheating adventures at any point, its no problem for him because he still has his current girlfriend to fulfill the roles of wife-mommy-sextoy... he never has to go without frequent sex if he just stays in a relationship!
I was talking to this Nigerian man who said the same thing. He said men don't cheat for love but sex. So why leave him when he loves you but just bangs her? He said as long as he's careful she shouldn't trip and she's being dramatic. But ofc she can't cheat on him! Let's just say we aren't talking off but he was still trying to reconnect. Blocked!!!
Sleeping with a man who cheats will throw your ph off down there. I have an older friend who told me that’s how she knew her ex husband was cheating. They are risking not only their own health but yours. It’s not dumb to leave, it’s anyones perogative to leave. It’s like saying it’s dumb to not get in a car with a drunk driver, everyone does it. It’s a serious health risk. The demographic with the highest number of std’s are cheating husbands and their spouses. The woman isn’t even thinking she needs to use protection with her husband.
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
I’m so glad more and more of these geniuses are exposing themselves to the world. Imagine calling yourself a man _because_ you’re a cheater. Unbelievable. And these are the same men that will demand a 18 year old virgin that cooks, cleans, gives it up whenever he feels like it and is loyal. They truly need to start dating each other, that should crush any misunderstandings. Another man will know and give these men exactly what they deserve. Edit: oh, and I’ve never been cheated on. I have dumped men in the dating stages as soon as my intuition told me they weren’t serious or they answered certain questions with the wrong answer.
A lot of women need to understand male psychology & anatomy better and always remember in this society. Women are raised to be loyal good wives/partners when men are not! Ladies stop buying dreams in 2024 and play this shyt to your best advantage✨✨
And I am in no way condoning cheating to be right at sum point women have to be honest. Sometimes these guys are telling on themselves and they’re being truthful and women don’t wanna hear it for the last decades and generations men have not been faithful to women collectively speaking. Do you think they’re gonna change and start just because women are still shedding tears about it they are not. They’re telling you who they are listen and believe them the first time them move accordingly
This is sad. 😂😂😂 From the other guy who said only few of good men remain, since all straight men are in jail, to this one admitting that they are all cheaters, it is laughable at this point. They all start to sound desperate. I wonder why? Is it because they know that an era of wilderness is onnthe way? An era where they will actually have to prove themselves or being on each other in their manosphere ? 😳🤦🏿♀️🙄🤣
If infidelity is a STRUGGLE and men CANNOT be faithful... Then why claim to be monogamous? I swear, all these "trad men" should stop being trad. They WANT polyamory, and that's FINE. Just date polyamorous people. Stop lying to your family, to your wife, to your children, and to yourself. They're all just trying to be possessive, not monogamous. They got it all mixed up. They're getting off on it.
There are all types of cheating, and every last single one of them are deal breakers. The idea that cheating is not a deal breaker = I don't have standards, and I don't have self-respect. Men are hella desperate. The more we live by the standards we continue to raise and live by, the more desperate and reckless they will talk and behave.
Love this!!! So happy that women are waking up and letting go of that, "as long as he comes home to me" sick mindsets. Men understand how much of a betrayal cheating is, reason why they will not forgive or stay when a woman does it.
They sure do like telling on themselves, don't they. Also who is going to listening to advice on infidelity from anyone with facial hair that utterly ridiculous? I'll wait. .......exactly.
The one thing I hate is when women or men use children as an excuse to stay in a unhealthy relationship. Your kids aren't stupid. They know exactly what's going on and the fact of the matter is that these type of men who think this way are not at home anyway. They out in the streets running after the wild woman so they can tame her they aren't spending time with the family or with the kids. So stop using them as an excuse to stay in a abusive or unhealthy relationship. Besides the fact that it also affects the kids, I'm one of those kids that mother tried to stay and then when we my brother and I told her about what we knew that's when she decided it was time to go because she did not want her son thinking it was okay to be unfaithful in marriage and she did not want her daughter thinking it was okay for a man to be unfaithful in marriage which is why she finally did made the decision to leave. But it did psychologically affect me and my brother to be in that situation to see my father being so disrespectful to our mother and to us because you're choosing to go out there in the streets and chase after those women. When you have a family at home, you not spending time with us. You barely probably remember when our birthday is! Stop doing this to your children. Thinking that it's a benefit because it's not. In fact it often will turn them against marriage. I know it did for me because I'm not trying to get married to nobody.
People that think like this and support this line of thinking are not the types of people to be listening to. No faithful partner deserves to have their heart broken and their health put at risk. To accept that is lunacy.
I love how they want you stay to deal with their bs, but would rather end you if you stepped out😂. Am so glad women are no longer staying. Save yourselves and run
The most amazing part of this is that they will say things like this loudly and publicly without any embarrassment and expect to be taken seriously amongst the demographic of men.
Listen men leaving a woman who cheats is pointless. It's dumb. Now if she's a cheater yes but if she cheated dont leave It's stupid. Every woman cheats we all struggle with infidelity. Have you ever met a man that hasn't been cheated on I'll wait......... now with that being said leaving for the next women isn't going to change the fact that all women are cheaters. Stick it out with the women who cheats the least. Yall sound so STUPID trying to be philosophical.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾😂😂
That is an echo they don't want to hear!😂❤
Exactly, women cannot help it when they cheat. Women are biologically wired to cheat
Sometimes I read pinned by creator comments and I am like why? But this one I get. Had me laughing while reading!😂😆👍💕
Oh but they would have a FIT over that statement. Don't you know all women need to be pure, motherly virgins? Nevermind that these guys have to be cheating with someone.
"It's dumb to leave a man because he cheated"
- a man who probably cheats on every partner he's ever had.
Probably?!
Then tells her she can't do better.
For sure. He cheats with everyone who will have him and expects his partner to just take it, but he'll raise hell if his partner even breathes towards another man. Something about having your cake and eating it too.
Of course he cheats. He can't commit to combing his beard. LMFAO 😂😂😂
I don’t understand why they won’t just stay single and sleep around
Says the men that would leave a woman IMMEDIATELY if she cheated on him. 😒
💯 This!
Yep. Men tend to want grace, mercy and forgiveness for their "moments of weakness." But these same men will scorch the earth if a woman does the same to him. Make it make sense.
@@kmross73-The math bear witness of the scorched earth.
Right
Nah... they won't just leave, they sometimes m urder women that they even just suspect of cheating on them. Men are awful.
Staying with someone who puts your reproductive health in jeopardy is dumb. 😕🤷🏾♀️
I've known women who are sadly no longer with us because they caught something from their cheating husbands. It's a hard 'no' from me dawg.
@gee_emm definitely. I got chlamydia when pregnant, and I was like, what's next, aids? No thanks
right
@@Lala89856I pray you and your baby are happy healthy and safe ❤️ I’m sorry that happened to you
@@jamilahzahirahhadid I appreciate it. It was rough, but we were fine, thankfully
Males, don't leave your woman after cheating. And take you own advice 🤡
They say it’s different because they’re doing the penetrating. 🤦🏾♀️
@@ladybug3380 and that's superior or wut? xD
@@ladybug3380tell them it's different because we have that wap 😎 and actually desired more unlike the low quality hanging ball
They will never allow the same treatment that they DISH out.
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Why are men so afraid of getting left? If you're cheating, clearly you have "options" right?
👆🏽Exactly!! This the logical conclusion
I swear.
Telling you @@The1GeminII
They need a main slave, lol.
They don’t want to lose the benefits of their relationships but what sexual pleasure from elsewhere. Disgusting
My pH balance begs to differ. Absolutely disgusting 🤢
Very disgusting 🤢
Exactly!!! Cheating is wrong for a reason. There is a reason why ppl can get STD’s because you’re not supposed to be messing around with other ppl!!!!
Nice of him to self snitch and let us know he ain’t sh*t 😂
😂yes, 🎉number one comment.🎊✨️💯
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Girl and unfortunately there are still stupid women out here who will take a chance on him
Period
Not shit and not cute.
My sister caught an STD from her husband when she was pregnant that ended up causing cervical necrosis that almost killed her AND her baby. NEVER stay with a cheater. If he doesn't care about your feelings, he probably doesn't care about your health either.
Is there a specific STD that causes cervical necrosis?
@@scottdaniels2500 I researched it. Most can. Ow.
Well, now I have a new fear 😬 I hope your sister is doing okay! That sounds awful!
@@scottdaniels2500plenty of STDs can cause reproductive harm and that goes triple for when the infected person is actually pregnant, so you can go do a Google.
Herpes and chlamydia can cause birth defects
Why do men who argue this always look like THAT?!
Always they own self fulfilling prophecy. Got a woman and still cheated
😂😂😂 they begging instead of building
Thank You!!!
Have yet to see an attractive male spew these arguments
These types are much too confident
Bro looks like he snuck onto earth last minute
Like what Osama Bin Laden?
“Cheating is abuse”
Just because he doesn’t hit you, if he’s cheating on you, it’s still abuse. Therefore, cheating should be a dealbreaker.
Point. Blank. Period.
Period. 😊
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Exactly!! It’s that simple
Thank you for saying this! Women should recognise this! Multiple forms of it! It falls in line with emotional and usually financial in a marriage. The covenant is broken.
Emotional abuse is still abuse. Cheating hurts your partner emotionally AND can put them in danger for STIs. Cheating is abuse.
(agreeing)
I love when they remind me that remaining single is the right choice.
Same, girl. Same. Watching these videos has given me a whole new perspective on dating. I'm happier without the bs.
Frfr !! Big single I love my freedom
Exactly
Honestly being a in a relationship is so embarrassing
Me, myself and I are doing very well mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially 🥳🥰☺️🤑🤑🤑....🛀🏽🛌🏽🤸🏽🏊🏽did I mention 🤑 No worries...
A women shouldn't leave her husband If he cheats but a man can If his women gained a split of weight 😂. These men need help.
Chile they leave us if we get sick so....
@@OGfromQueensU better say that again, that's too true. Period. 💯💯💯💯💯💯
@@OGfromQueensso sad but true
They leave us for any reason. Better not get sick either
They don't really wanna be with us, they want they homies but homies can't carry that "legacy" they so desire
Ok men is it dumb to leave your woman because she cheated? Yeah, that's what I thought. Go sit in the corner and be quiet 😂
My thoughts exactly!
The double standard is real on this one. To hell with him.
Right or leave her because she dont pregnant
Adding to that men it’s dumb to not raise other men’s children.
With a dunce cap.
At this point they need to date one another and leave us alone.
Agreed they don't want relationships they want a marriage that allows men to cheat but not the wife so it's easier just to stay single and be the side gf you can get more out of them that way.
. I've even read about stories we're a woman cheats on her boyfriend and she gets killed so it's easier just to stay single or get a vibrator it might do you some more justice there because at least it doesn't talk or have any opinions I don't think a hypocrite should be rewarded like that because without the woman in the porn it wouldn't be a porn.
They are, just not openly.😂
@@AramintaRossPistoltrue 😂😂😂😂
I mean… that are always ditching us for their “bros.”
@Laurengrey410 my ex would go on vacation with the boys and never with me. So I told him to keep dating them and to live happily ever after. Period.
Cheating nullifies a marriage Biblically.
True
Reconciliation process in the Bible but BOTH parties have to agree to reconcile and then the deed has to be put behind them with a brand new start. Otherwise there is grounds for divorce, and the wife can divorce her husband and is justified in doing so.
And non biblically lol
Literally
They don't care about no Bible 😂
If a man cheats on you, he doesn't respect you. If there's no respect, there's no love. You can't love someone you don't respect. So ladies, have some respect for yourself and leave if a man cheats on you.
Period.
Exactly.
That's on God.
That’s how I felt. I tried to forgive, but I had lost all respect for him. And the love followed.
The only reason women tolerated men cheating in the past is because financially they didn't have a choice. Young ladies GET YOUR OWN MONEY so you don't have to tolerate this nonsense..... have some self respect.
True. 😂they want to shame women for leaving abusive relationship.
Bro, peace is everything. Unless he is millionnaire and I got paid thousands dollars...maybe I would think of staying (to get as much as I can before leaving).
If he isn't. I don't see a reason to stay.
The moment I heard those older ladies acting like keeping a cheat around was some groundbreaking hot take, all I could think was...
"Y'ALL, Alice Walker, Maya Angelou, Zora Neale Hurston and numerous other writers did NOT etch their names into history and literature by writing stories and poems about how we (as women) DESERVE better than a cheater who doesn't respect us for you to turn around and try to roll that back and act like it's a new take!"
So why having a whole relationship? I’ll get a cat 🐈⬛ no cheating no STDs. Peace 😂
Yes! I love my kitty! 🐈⬛️She's good company, and I get kitty snuggles at night.
I rly want a Guinea pig or something
I have 2 🐈⬛ they are great company.
@@Datb2 if u like it…, I LOVE IT! Do u hun 🫶🏽
Well, then he gotta accept the woman cheating on him too. That's just fair.
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When a woman does the same to them thats when they think they have the right to delete you!!!!
@@thatgirlkells5505 With all their boys chiming in with mics
@@thatgirlkells5505 you also have the right to delete him.
I would absolutely do that
@@thatgirlkells5505 I also have the right to delete them
He looks like a cheater. Dude, all you have to do is NOT get in a relationship, and you can have all the women you want. There's PLENTY of women who don't mind sharing and fighting over a man. My gosh, they make simple things so complicated 🤦🏾♀️
Thank you. My goodness gracious. Someone finally said the shit.💯💯🤦🏾♀️
they want a non monogamous relationship but those typically mean that the woman can also step out and see other people. So they get into monogamous relationships where the woman thinks shes the only one and cheat on her. They want the cake and to eat it too, but if a woman cheated theyd be out the door before you could say the word cheat.
That’s why he’s single and saying how his girl left him low key
No can do. Men can't be alone so they want a woman babying them while they step out.
They want our free labor and codependent asf. They NEED a woman to be up under at all times. So, it has to be women who walk away and put up the boundaries and standards.
No, we're not going to just find another one that struggles with infidelity. We're not going to bother with any at all. We will leave everytime and go ahead and just ultimately be single. They aren't getting it.
Exactly. Being alone is 1 million times more tolerable and fulfilling.
This. Give me my cats and my peace over men like this any day
Exactly
Exactly 😂😭this man sounds like my ex I just left! DODGED A BIG BULLET
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Even the Bible says cheating is grounds for divorce. What is wrong with these men 😢😮
*males
I'm sick and tired of these men trying to convince us to "settle."
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Sure as hell ain’t working 😂
It's because they can't handle being subpar and undesirable but they lack the self-reflection capabilities to actually fix themselves there.
The lady who asked "Why do they get into monogomous relationships?"
Well it's because they want all of the benefits women bring, but don't want them to do it for other men. 7:12
Stop bringing benefits 🤷🏾♀️ I don't perform domestic duties and I make sure they know it.
@@theteleisewilliamsexperienceSame. I don’t even deal with them anymore.
They want relationship like their grandparents. Where the women take the abuse and forgive, forgive, forgive. 😢😢
The bar is in HELL
There is no bar, it vanished at this point 😂.
is there even a bar anymore😭
And some folks are still playing limbo with the devil.
Cheating is a lack of respect for your partner. A lack of caring about your partner’s health. A lack of love for your partner. And the height of selfishness. If you cheat, you’re 🗑️ and you deserve to be alone… forever.
Period
Period exactly
Irresponsible & no self control also comes to mind
The pain of being cheated on is soul crushing.
Esp when you know but they keep lying
So true, one time it took me like 3 years to move on, I needed therapy, I had anger issues from the pain, it changed the chemistry of my brain
It is psychological and physical abuse and should be punishable by law everywhere.
@@njcs420yep it changes your brain. I had months of severe anxiety, panic attacks, couldnt function. Changes you as a peson. Forever.
Sir! A “cheater” & “cheated” are the same thing! Sooooo if your woman does the same thing, just one time, would you forgive her? You tried it 🙄
Nope. Cause and say it with me now "MeN anD WomEN aRE DiFferENt 🤪"
@@detectivestick8858 nah that's just 'rules for thy but not for me' applied
And they say they are logical🙄
Nope. They don't want to forgive us for anything but want us to forgive them for everything.🙄
Right
But the gag is he’s right, they all struggle with infidelity, that why I signed off , yall won , I rather be with myself and happy lol
Lol. Right?
I like to think we won and they lost. We have peace, pets, family, and friends(women nurture other relationships besides romantic). While they are struggling to figure out why we don't want to be bothered anymore.😂
They think we will be unhappy like them lol better to keep your peace
Thank u ....I said that too.....I let them have it cause I will not try no more
Okay!!! I’ve heard too many men excuse infidelity. I think they all do. So single it is!
0:32 Wait! ALL men cheat so we should just accept that and open our arms to any old fool?
I looked it up. THIS is the definition of tripping! 🤦🏾♀️
He is saying that women should just cope with it. However if a man a cheats on a man he should leave and that is not dumb.😐🤦🏽. These men are ridiculous. However, if you with a rapper, athlete, millionaire type of man, every woman should expect that man to cheat. I know it sounds bad, but men who have many many options lack self control and most likely he will cheat. For the other men, they have no business cheating. Women will stay for status but it means nothing, just means the woman is a fool, and the man is the ONLY one benefiting. This idiot splashed his face claiming all men cheat and he will complain that he can’t find a nice women to settle down with when he 50 plus year old. HE wants to cheat…HIM. 🤦🏽
You know, I want to be mad, but part of me is like...at least they're being honest about it now. So you can avoid them. This shit is getting ridiculous.
Exactly let them tell on themselves. So More and more women cant STOP dealing with them
Exactly. Let the cheaters cheat on the cheaters and the rest of us can live alone in peace.
That one woman called cheating a mishap. Does that mean the cheater accidently met up with their cheatee, accidently took off their clothes, accidently put on a condom (or not), accidently slid in and accidently lied to their wife or girlfriend about the whole thing and probably lied to the person they just cheated with? Just one big mishap?
🤣🤣🤣
Whoops! It was a little oopsie accident!
Exactly!!! There are SO MANY steps that have to occur before penises and vaginas intersect. People will embrace cognitive dissonance in order to make themselves feel better about staying with a cheater. If you want to stay with a cheater just say that, don’t try to minimize the cheating act. Let’s call a spade a spade! Cheaters don’t respect you, nor honor you, nor cherish you nor love you. And it’s also statistically impossible to be caught on the first occurrence so typically this behavior is rampant and with many. And they don’t use condoms. Just disgusting!
@@nikevabrown6614💯!!!
You never feel the same after a man cheats on you. Even if you give them another chance it never the same. The trust is gone. Don’t do it! I will never do it again because it just gets worse. It is better to get rid of him, you will feel 100% better.
This is true I was cheated on and stayed. It was never the same. I never trusted him again. I had to get out.
@@mmonae6122 They beg and beg that’s what they do. Nobody really mentions that.
The smartphone is the worst thing to happen to antagonistic men, lmao. They can't stop telling on themselves. Honestly, ladies, if you don’t find your one, it's genuinely okay to stay single and happy (most likely happier) that way.
Exactly this. These men are just telling on themselves and looking foolish while doing so.
At this point, single should just be the default, unless some truly amazing man comes along and EARNS my time, nah, I'm just gonna be on my own.
The more they talk, the more undesirable they become, pls keep talking. Its like they are giving us more reasons to leave them alone, I mean they are going to cheat anyway so what is the point.
True
That's what I thought. They make you happy to be single.
Basically. The more I watch these guys talk about themselves, the less I pay attention to them while out in public.
Natural birth control 😂😂
Oh no, let them keep talking. Let the trash take itself out, lol.
I dumped a man because after I gave him my first kiss, he went, slept with a situationship I was not aware of, and then came to me in a couple of hours and asked me to be his girlfriend. Before starting the relationship he took me home to meet his parents and brother and they organised a Christmas dinner for me even though they had another religion. Why did I dump him? Because I couldn’t trust him.
Oh, Lord! How far along did you find all that out?
@@lilaoliva793 After 5 months. A common male friend told me that he had a girl with whom he had been sleeping for a long time. I am quite conservative and keeping myself for marriage and the dude gave me the impression that he also had a high level of moral values. Our common friend, who was in love with for quite some time, knew that him sleeping around with a woman might have been a problem for me and let me know. My ex accepted that he was sleeping with that girl till some hours before he asked me to be his girlfriend and never thought that this would be a problem for me. He even proposed me marriage in the last three days of our relationship, when I was considering dumping him or forgiving him
@@lilaoliva793 After five months. A common friend saw his profile picture where he was together with me (covid times so he had no idea that we were already a couple) and wrote to me to explain that my ex was in a friends-with benefits situation with a girl from high school very recently. Our friend knew that I am quite conservative, keeping myself for marriage and that I had high moral values so something like this would have definitely be a problem for me. My ex accepted that it was true and I had to think about it for three days till I was strong enough to dump him. During those days blood was running from my nose and my soul was hurting.
@@lilaoliva793 We had been together at that point for 5 months. A common friend , who had been secretly in love with me, let me know what he was doing and I dumped him 3 days later.
After 5 months dear.
At least we know they ALL struggle with being faithful. What a revelation😂
These guys don’t just struggle with temptation, they WANT to cheat deep down, so they do.
I couldn’t do that to someone, but I would feel dirty as well. It’s because I would never want to cheat in the first place. It’s never worth it!
But not all men right?
If women cheated would they feel the same or this just only applies to men? 🤔
Ofc it only applies to if/when the xy cheats. They can legally unalive their partner in several states (or receive slap on wrist sentence) if the xx is found out.
@@fantym1633 If they aren't going to tolerate it they shouldn't expect us to tolerate it either. They are jealous of women for having options will take women rights so she can rely on him. Good thing 4b movement will make a wave soon.
They'd want to put her six feet under.
Then staying is idiotic.I detest a cheater. I would never be able to trust them again.
Disgusting. This is why Diflucan, Penicillin, Doxycycline and BikTarvy is flying off our pharmacy shelves.
Got together with this guy that had cheated in all his previous relationships. But he wanted fidelity from me. When I told him I would only do an open relationship with him he lost his mind 😂😂😂
That's absolutely hilarious
He’s a fool.
BIG. Dusty. Fool.
I am single and drama free. It is so very peaceful!!! I am 47 and child free. I went on my first date at 23 and married him 8 years later. I wasn’t cheated on we just grew apart. I will never stay with anyone that cheats on me. I respect myself.
They don't want to say that they are not monogamous because that means then the woman has room to also not be monogamous. They want to be able to step out while the woman remains theirs only
That first lady at about 530 is hilarious 😂. She should get a show.
She’s on tonights conversation
@@Priscilla_Boye thank you I just looked it up, I never heard of it before!
@@Priscilla_BoyeThank you for letting me know, she's incredible and so are you ❤
EVEN if every single man was destined to cheat on me..... I would still leave. I'm worth more than that kind of betrayal and disrespect.
Too many diseases and bad energy transfers out here… it’s not worth it ladies. Think of your life and health first.
There is a saying "fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me". Leaving a guy who knowingly cheated is a woman choosing herself and showing self respect. But oh no as soon as she threatens to leave these men want to whine to social media.
Never let any man threaten your health, heart, and security. Anyone who cheats is also likely to mistreat the person they’re with. It’s not worth the headache at all.
The lady with the fro had me rolling 🤣
Sooo cute and funny.❤😂
Sum up of this guy's video: "I am an a*hole, I want to keep being an a*hole in peace so I'll blame all other men and try to once again take advantage of women by making them thinking it's our nature". Geez, some people have too much free time on internet!
If a person believes that their nature is X, then they’re right and believe them 💯 that’s a mindset trap they ensnared themselves in!
Would a man leave a woman after cheating? Yes, yes they will. Because it is a deal breaker for their fragile egos.
This.
Abuse is the deal breaker & cheating is a form of abuse
I can understand polyamorous relationships and open relationships where the non-monogamy is out in the open and everyone involved is aware of it.
However, cheating is a deal breaker for me. Knowingly and willingly hurting the person you're supposed to love is beyond my comprehension.
Same here
"Would you feel comfortable living a in a community where your leader falls into temptation every single time they're tempted?" Lol thats a damn good point
Cheating is never ok. The assumption that ALL men cheat is the first of a long list of fallacies this man is spouting. Liars believe everyone is a liar simply because THEY are. Struggling with infidelity doesn’t mean you must succumb to it. Cheating involves making a choice to cheat; you have to create a time and place to meet up with a prospective affair partner. I may be behind the times but the last time I checked there’s no cheater’s store in the mall or a cheater section in the grocery store where you walk down an aisle, pick up an AP and go from there.
This XY is upset the woman he was with has left him or far more likely, put him out and the AP doesn’t want him either. He’s sitting in his car talking this nonsense on his way to the homeless shelter.
The lacefront looking beard tells me all that i need to know. He also gives me DL vibes.
#ALL
My sister is 25 I’m 24 been cheated on recklessly I’m a single mom my sister is 25… no kids married met her husband in college they graduated together been married almost 2 years now … HE NEVER CHEATED tmi they lost they v card together. Tbh it can happen someone can love you unconditionally 🥺
Sounds like the condition is both were virgins
@@user-ly3li3ex8c while it doesn’t have to be as specific as both being virgins for things to work out, I have certainly noticed a pattern that the decent men who go on to be decent husbands are the kind of men who only ever have sex within a longterm romantic relationship.
It’s generally a red flag if a man is capable of engaging in casual sex or if he’s the type of man to rush to have sex within the first three months of dating. Men like that are just too hypersexual for monogamous relationships and demonstrate a lack of impulse control along with a clear prioritisation for personal sexual gratification over any genuine romantic desires. Sex will always matter to them more than a romantic bond, which is why I personally don’t think a man that’s truly capable of pair bonding with a woman would ever be capable of engaging in casual sex.
I cheat back!!! we can stay together for sure. Just know I will get my back Beat the fuck out of frame. 💜
😂😂💀
On Fleek! 💯
Ok😂
What's even the point though? Men take it so personally when you cheat on them because they're so convinced they need to be top dog and the only one rocking your world. So they're probably not even going to be the same after that.
@@Liz-wz8dh that’s the point lol
they literally tell on themselves … and then when women say “ight imma head out.” All of a sudden, “it’s not all men.” Why would I take the risk??? Y’all aren’t worth the trouble 💀
These are the same men who tell us to choose better.
Instead of settling for a cheating spouse, why not be single? I don’t know why people have difficulties being alone. It’s really not hard to be alone people. It is better to be alone than to be constantly heartbroken because of a cheating husband.
It's because sex with men you're actually physically attracted to isn't nearly frequent nor satisfying enough as a single woman, people forget women have sex drives too and attractive men aren't abundant even if you are very physically attractive as a woman.
It's because of societal pressures, and conditioning. Also, It's a sign of low self esteem, and maybe feeling, they can't do any better unfortunately.
These guys really think we women will continue to participate in the Struggle Olympics. Men, go date other men.
lolol struggle olympics 😂
They already do. They want women for labour, soft landing and resources.
*WAIT THESE THE SAME MEN THAT SCREAM "she for the streets" IF A WOMAN ISN'T DROOLING AT THE MOUTH OVER THEM*
One of my friends just found out this weekend she caught HIV from her husband...Smh
Wow. This is why I’m celibate. I’m absolutely terrified of this happening to me. I’m so sorry for her.
Omg. That's awful.
I remember seeing a video where staff that are working in clinics, are urging women in committed relationships, to use condoms because they are seeing an uptick of married women with STDs/ HIV.
Cheating hurts on so many levels. Why would you put your partner/spouse through such horrible pain😢
AND-- not to mention the health/well being of any future children. 🤨
“Now if he’s a cheater, yes. But because he cheated?“ I don’t see a difference sir.
So basically he’s telling us to simply not to get involved with them because they’re all cheaters soooo again confirming that remaining single and childfree is the best.
Thank you for confirmation.
Exactly they are sooooo freaking slow
So long as people know they can get away with something, they will do it. Just imagine if we had no law enforcement to make people pay for their criminal activity.
We really don’t many abusive relationships last for years
@@thankyoujesus2836Trauma bond.
Yep@@ibabechanel
Now let’s see if he have that same energy for when a woman cheats don’t worry I,ll wait gtfoh
He said the quiet part out loud. Sooooo, back to decentering men and living single and happy. Next record please! This one is played out.
And yet another member of the Unfuckables opens his round mouth 😂
Like many men, he wants to be free to cheat without consequences, but doesn't want a woman who does the same.
And those ancient pick-mes are just too pathetic for words.
ooof these ninjas are getting desperate out here with this stupidity.
I agree 1000% with the last speaker (8:06). Men don't have to cheat. If they want to play the field, don't make a commitment to one person. Then it's not cheating. But when you make a commitment, betrayal after trust is cheating. There's a saying: When a man cheats, which woman is he more likely to try to stay with? The woman he fears will leave him or the woman who will forgive him and stay. Answer: the woman who will stay, because she's the one he feels is the weakest and safest to continue cheating on. He might respect the other one more, but men don't always stay with the women they respect. Women (especially Black women) who try to make other women feel wrong for not staying with husbands who cheat, are simply justifying their own willingness to stay in "cheating" situations. If a woman wants to stay, she can. But don't judge those who don't. Don't try to normalize it. It's a choice.
The problem is that WE think men have the same goals as women. It makes no sense to us why they do what they do because we project our own goals onto them!! These men want frequent secure [unprotected] sex with a woman who fulfills the wife/mommy roles in his life and is faithful so he isn't exposed to STDs or raising babies that aren't even his from men she could sleep with. He wants ownership of that kind of woman while he goes out to try a variety of women and maybe even find what he thinks is an upgrade from his current girlfriend who fulfills that wife-mommy role before he discards her. If he fails on his cheating adventures at any point, its no problem for him because he still has his current girlfriend to fulfill the roles of wife-mommy-sextoy... he never has to go without frequent sex if he just stays in a relationship!
I was talking to this Nigerian man who said the same thing. He said men don't cheat for love but sex. So why leave him when he loves you but just bangs her? He said as long as he's careful she shouldn't trip and she's being dramatic. But ofc she can't cheat on him! Let's just say we aren't talking off but he was still trying to reconnect. Blocked!!!
Sleeping with a man who cheats will throw your ph off down there. I have an older friend who told me that’s how she knew her ex husband was cheating. They are risking not only their own health but yours. It’s not dumb to leave, it’s anyones perogative to leave. It’s like saying it’s dumb to not get in a car with a drunk driver, everyone does it. It’s a serious health risk. The demographic with the highest number of std’s are cheating husbands and their spouses. The woman isn’t even thinking she needs to use protection with her husband.
Why sleep with him at all ?
Ok so a man who's woman cheated on him would be stupid to leave her make it make sense 🤦.
🤣🤣 'tell me youre a low quality man without telling me you're a low quality man'
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
@@DavidVelasquez9Oga,go rest. We have seen u many times
I think say na just me oh. I dey try understand. Wetin be this? 😭😂@@97VIRTUESHEART
I’m so glad more and more of these geniuses are exposing themselves to the world. Imagine calling yourself a man _because_ you’re a cheater. Unbelievable. And these are the same men that will demand a 18 year old virgin that cooks, cleans, gives it up whenever he feels like it and is loyal. They truly need to start dating each other, that should crush any misunderstandings. Another man will know and give these men exactly what they deserve.
Edit: oh, and I’ve never been cheated on. I have dumped men in the dating stages as soon as my intuition told me they weren’t serious or they answered certain questions with the wrong answer.
A lot of women need to understand male psychology & anatomy better and always remember in this society. Women are raised to be loyal good wives/partners when men are not! Ladies stop buying dreams in 2024 and play this shyt to your best advantage✨✨
And I am in no way condoning cheating to be right at sum point women have to be honest. Sometimes these guys are telling on themselves and they’re being truthful and women don’t wanna hear it for the last decades and generations men have not been faithful to women collectively speaking. Do you think they’re gonna change and start just because women are still shedding tears about it they are not. They’re telling you who they are listen and believe them the first time them move accordingly
You hit the nail on the head and I completely understand what you’re saying.
@@Love-Fashion-Makeup thank you 🫶🏾
If he cheats on you. Cheat on him.
….or just leave.
I thought about it, but if I ever dated again I'd have to tell them I cheated
This is sad. 😂😂😂 From the other guy who said only few of good men remain, since all straight men are in jail, to this one admitting that they are all cheaters, it is laughable at this point. They all start to sound desperate. I wonder why?
Is it because they know that an era of wilderness is onnthe way? An era where they will actually have to prove themselves or being on each other in their manosphere ?
😳🤦🏿♀️🙄🤣
Some men have integrity.
It is much better to be alone than to be with someone who has no integrity.
If infidelity is a STRUGGLE and men CANNOT be faithful... Then why claim to be monogamous? I swear, all these "trad men" should stop being trad. They WANT polyamory, and that's FINE. Just date polyamorous people. Stop lying to your family, to your wife, to your children, and to yourself. They're all just trying to be possessive, not monogamous. They got it all mixed up. They're getting off on it.
We can shorten the title to "Man ... is dumb" and be correct.
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They are telling YOU ladies NOT to be with them.
There are all types of cheating, and every last single one of them are deal breakers.
The idea that cheating is not a deal breaker = I don't have standards, and I don't have self-respect.
Men are hella desperate. The more we live by the standards we continue to raise and live by, the more desperate and reckless they will talk and behave.
Love this!!!
So happy that women are waking up and letting go of that, "as long as he comes home to me" sick mindsets.
Men understand how much of a betrayal cheating is, reason why they will not forgive or stay when a woman does it.
They sure do like telling on themselves, don't they.
Also who is going to listening to advice on infidelity from anyone with facial hair that utterly ridiculous? I'll wait.
.......exactly.
The one thing I hate is when women or men use children as an excuse to stay in a unhealthy relationship. Your kids aren't stupid. They know exactly what's going on and the fact of the matter is that these type of men who think this way are not at home anyway. They out in the streets running after the wild woman so they can tame her they aren't spending time with the family or with the kids. So stop using them as an excuse to stay in a abusive or unhealthy relationship. Besides the fact that it also affects the kids, I'm one of those kids that mother tried to stay and then when we my brother and I told her about what we knew that's when she decided it was time to go because she did not want her son thinking it was okay to be unfaithful in marriage and she did not want her daughter thinking it was okay for a man to be unfaithful in marriage which is why she finally did made the decision to leave. But it did psychologically affect me and my brother to be in that situation to see my father being so disrespectful to our mother and to us because you're choosing to go out there in the streets and chase after those women. When you have a family at home, you not spending time with us. You barely probably remember when our birthday is! Stop doing this to your children. Thinking that it's a benefit because it's not. In fact it often will turn them against marriage. I know it did for me because I'm not trying to get married to nobody.
People that think like this and support this line of thinking are not the types of people to be listening to. No faithful partner deserves to have their heart broken and their health put at risk. To accept that is lunacy.
What? A man advising women to put up with cheating? Shocker! 😂😂
I love how they want you stay to deal with their bs, but would rather end you if you stepped out😂. Am so glad women are no longer staying. Save yourselves and run
Men say we’re the ones with accountability issues lol instead of holding these men that are weak for flesh accountable
These men can dish it but they CANNOT take it 🙄🙄🙄
If he cheated, he ain’t my man, obviously.
The most amazing part of this is that they will say things like this loudly and publicly without any embarrassment and expect to be taken seriously amongst the demographic of men.