What was new to me was that, she had custody and was taking care of the child and he wasn't involved. So that was his Karma, he tried to trap her with their son, that he wasn't involved with in the first place, she filed, now he wants full custody, and now he got uno reverse carded
Dude just raise your son on your own. Women do this all the time. My kids' father left the country without notice. I raised them alone. There's nothing new here.
that part killed me)) 😂😂😂"I... I was calling to cops..... and they they told .... f*ck off") as much as I feel sorry for kid to be in this mess, I am oddly satisfied with situation
Why is he recording IN FRONT OF HIS SON?! He is a person. He can hear you. HE WILL INTERNALIZE ALL OF THIS. Be the full-time, greatest of all time dad that you are clearly telling the world you are😌
Yes because raising a kid from birth to 18 averages 237k versus the128k 137$a week would cost him. He might be getting child support but he might actually be reconsidering if the money is worth not having to parent.
It absolutely is! I've done both - received child support and paid child support. I had WAY more money when I was paying than when I received, even if we take into account the public assistance I received while I was receiving child support. This is because as the non-custodial parent, you don't need to follow "the rules" - as long as you don't hurt the kids, turn up for your parenting time, and pay your support order you can pretty much do anything you want to. I didn't have to provide my kids with their own individual bedrooms the way the custodial parent has to, so I got a 1-bedroom place and saved myself a bunch of money by downsizing. Since the kids' school district was based on where their other parent's house was, I could move into poorer, cheaper neighborhoods with bad schools because that didn't matter to me. My utilities and food costs were also cheaper because I wasn't feeding as many people. And even though it was in the court order that we split medical costs, my ex thought he was "winning" by shutting me out of medical decisions - but all that meant at a practical level was that I didn't have to pay copays for medicine or doctor's visits for the kids. Finally, because I wasn't bogged down in child care, I was able to put more time and energy into my career. I leapfrogged far beyond where I started in job duties and responsibilities, and the money followed. There's a reason why after divorce, men do financially better than women - because the men don't ask for custody, they leave all of the childcare to their ex-wives, so they get the freedom and financial benefits of essentially being child-free. The child support is a tiny sum compared to the money earned and saved.
Right. I listened twice trying to identify the problem😂 it sounds like his ex doesn’t want anything to do with him or their son. So raise your son on your own and go about your life sir. Idk choose better next time 😂
yup gave mine custody after he went part time in order not to pay the full support. now I can go to therapy and go to school to better myself... I refuse to struggle by myself...
men give up their custoty and dont show up to court then say ''women privlege'' sir u abbandoning ur kid and ur kid growing up alone and hating u isnt ''woman privlege'' its men delulu and abusu and consequencu of actionu
Courts..... traditionally run by men...... favor other men's privileges and freedoms. 'Hard to get back in the game or continue your bachelors' lifestyle when you've got a kid taking up most of your time and resources. The same guys who complain about not getting custody also still think taking care of a child is 'women's work'.
Totally heartbreaking that kids only parent is speaking all that in front of him- right there in the car, in front of his mama’s house. May God protect that little boy 🙏🏼
I came here to comment that. This little boy is being taught that both of his parents don't want him and he's being taught to hate women because of male entitlement.
Raise awareness?! 😂 “Did y’all know that FULL custody means I gotta be a daddy all the damn time? I thought it meant I would do a week here and a week there…” Poor Mav. 😢 He knows his son doesn’t want to be dropped off but he’s trying to do it anyway.
What did he expect? He poured poison in the boy's ear about his mom...yet wanted the boy's mom to watch the son when it was inconvenient for him...even though she's not obligated to watch him. He's a stalker and is using that child to help him do it. SMH
My abusive ex did this to me. He had better legal and political connections than I did. I was afraid for my kids because he abused and raped me and a relative of mine, so to punish me he filed for full custody. Because of his connections, he got it, and I was forced to pay my abuser child support. I was devastated. I had given up so much to try to raise my kids properly while being abused by him. I had put my life and career on hold to take care of and protect my babies. I was also upset because of the "moms always get custody" rhetoric that MRA men spout. What was wrong with me that I couldn't have my babies? But then I had an epiphany. He wants to be mommy, and the courts want him to? FINE. Being mommy is so much harder. It sucks and is thankless. I'll be daddy. I'll do the fun shit during my parenting time and I'll pay my support order, but that's it. That's all you get from me - the bare minimum. Wouldn't you know it, the very first time there's a problem with one of the kids, when I go to pick them up for my time he comes to me, explains the issue, and says, "How are we going to fix this?". I laughed and said, "Oh no. You wasted months of my time and thousands of my dollars to fight for the privilege of doing this on your own. You didn't ask for 50/50, which would have meant I have input. You asked for 100, so this is all your issue. I'm just supposed to show up on my time when I feel like it, and send the check. Figure it out." The kids are grown now, but it was difficult for them to go through. Now that they are older, they see him for what he is. Only 1 still talks to him. As for me? The time I had to myself meant that I could get therapy, get my finances in order, grow as a person, and level-up my career. Motherhood takes so much from you. We need to normalize acting like men, because these men can and will make you have their babies and then leave you doing everything. Maybe if they actually had to be mommy, then they'd start getting serious about wearing condoms and controlling themselves. Men shirk their responsibilities, but women let them get away with it by making it easy for them out of love for our kids.
I don't see myself getting babytrapped (I'm Female-to-Male) but I always thought if I did, I'd just suck it up and raise the kid, but ...Nah you're right.
I normally don’t read long posts but I read every single word of yours. I’m sorry you and your kids had to go through that but I’m glad you came out better from it. Your ex played himself and I was happy he ended up miserable. I hope you and your kids are doing well!!
Lol I’m relishing in his frustration. Men can’t handle full custodial parent role . They feel done wrong now and feel the weight of that role. I don’t feel sorry for him
@@kosmicinclinations3333no, she said she wants nothing to do with him or the child, and the judge gave him Full custody so no physical involvement either. What was he expecting?
Full custody literally means full custody. It’s not just making the decisions, it means FULL CUSTODY and NO HELP! It sucks to suck. She gone! She was slick! She filed for child support knowing he would want full custody so he wouldn’t have to pay child support. She willingly gave him the baby and now he’s stuck with his own decisions.
So why is this “player” want to force her to see a kid she didn’t want. Why is he collecting documents and talking about coparent?! 😂😂She doesn’t want to parent and gave you full custody. Whew! He thought full custody meant he can drop him off whenever he wants and come whenever he wants. She’s not dodging, you have FULL CUSTODY! Whew! This male is cognitive rigid. 😂😂Also, again, he’s wearing a shirt saying Player. Ladies, we have found Boo Boo the Fool!
I remember a few years ago I told women to start giving their sons to their fathers. Those women came for me; they thought I was stupid. Lol I knew what I was talking about! If more women did this; these men would be more cautious about trapping. They don’t care because they’re not used to the weight of the responsibility. More women should do this 🤷🏾♀️.
Yup. I've been saying this for years as well; 🗣DROP THOSE SONS WITH THEIR DADDY & DON'T LOOK BACK, BUT FIGHT TO THE D€ATH TO KEEP YOUR DAUGHTERS! Most women simply refuse to listen, though. But it is absolutely glorious to witness the few that truly had the wisdom to WALK AWAY!I love to see it!!! 💫💛💫
This would only work if *other* WOMEN would insist he raise his own children - grandmothers, aunts, sisters, girlfriends, friends, etc. Give him a break every once in a while (like ALL parents need) but, hold him accountable and responsible for the day-to-day. 💯
Because she didn’t say that, she wants nothing to do with him and that was his interpretation of that. If she said that in front of a judge I’m sure that they would have ordered supervised visits and then if she failed to show up they would remove her rights
@@morganbarber5009 At 1:28 in the video he says that she said in court that she didn't want anything to do with their son, and that she also said it for a 4th time in text.
@@fantym1633 Who knows if he's being honest or not, that's not the point. The point is, I made my comment based upon what he's claiming. It's weird for a parent of any gender to come on the internet and complain that they can't drop their kid off to someone who supposedly doesn't want the child around. He's making himself look irresponsible. I hope that clears it up for everyone who didn't immediately have the same take away.
My ex fought me and won primary residency. He's been upset about it for 17 years. He's mad that I don't pay child support, just the travel expenses. He's mad that I have so much free time. He's mad that I NEVER give him extra money for things. I really don't care. I wanted my child, I wanted to give up all this "free time" and spend it with her. He could have run off and I never would have come at him for a dime. But no, I didn't get to do that because he wanted to be petty, he wanted to keep me hanging onto him and following him around as he moved and got remarried - twice. But instead I built a life that my daughter gets to enjoy when she's with me, and pretty much cut communication with him down to emails about pick up and drop off times. I moved back to the state where all my family and support system is and learned to budget my money and time off to always be on time to pick up my child during my days with her. She'll soon be 18 and a new chapter will begin for us. I feel nothing for this man. He got what he asked for, just like my ex. Sorrows sorrows prayers 🤷🏾♀️
Really?! I didn’t know that! That actually is pretty great if your dealing with a petty person that didn’t pay child support and tried to ‘cheat the system’ by filing for full custody.
This is iconic. He sounds just like the “bitter baby mama” they want us to hate so much! I feel so sorry for the child listening to his father cry on tik tok like a little bitch but his mom is literally a GOAT. Iconic iconic!
@LeesaLilHop she didn't want him to put a baby in her, he wanted the child from the very start and she made it clear before the child was conceived that she didn't want a child. HE LEFT her with the child, was not helping, she filed for child support and he filed for FULL custody, he got what he wanted, he wanted the child, made her have the child and left her. He has no right to complain
@@LeesaLilHopDeadbeat = Not paying child support And while its sucks so much for the kid, he was an actual deadbeat so even if she actually deadbeated that mannit would be just karma for being a deadbeat himself.
He didn't realize that she was more toxic then him. Her daughter said that she abandoned all 4 of her kids because she didn't want to be a parent. Though to be fair she did tell him she didn't want the kid and that if she had the kid they would NOT be getting back together. He thought he could take her to court and have his way and instead she opted out all together. Men and women should be careful who they have kids with. Dudes should stop baby trapping cause not everyone is fit to be a parent.
Men think that because they listen to other dumb man who lie on the Internet, talk about how the courts are abused by women. No court can force somebody to be a parent and no real parent like the man at the end said would send their child to go be with someone who has explicitly said that they are not interested in parenting because of course, that would be endangering your child. This man thought he was gonna be able to abuse the court system to make this woman do what he wanted her to do and he came out finding out that the court offers the person who doesn’t want to parent a lot of leeway. I would hope that now he would understand how millions of women in this country feel when they’re up against a brick wall of a man who refuses to parent and flat out, says they do not care about their own child. Welcome to being a single baby mama
He did all this to get out of paying 137 dollars. And she did an uno reverse. He can find out that it costs way more than 137 dollars a month to raise a child.
He’s upset because she basically did a reverse uno on his arse and now he’s solely responsible for raising HIS child because she refused to play his gaslighting game. Let him enjoy being a true single dad with all the benefits that go along with raising a child as a single parent. Plus more women need to start forcing irresponsible males into being a solo responsible parent to HIS child because some of these fools need to be humbled.
The switch up is real. Abusive men are not abusive all the time. They will often switch up when they feel they have secured the relationship… after marriage, after pregnancy, when the child is born. Why do you think it takes on average 7 times for a woman to leave an abusive man? Do you think we’re just all weak and stupid and choose abusive men on purpose?
this is exactly what my son dad was goin around saying. every time he said he was goin to come see his son, the excuses followed. I asked him to keep him for the whole summer to help me out and he said "no" he didn't even think about it. After he BEGGED me for a child. he went part time in order not to pay full support. So I told the judge I need to give him full custody cause I need therapy and to go back to school to better myself. Court Granted him custody..
@@schokococoa575, his lawyer was shocked cause she didn't see it coming, she was scratching her head cause the judge asked him to get the baby that same day. He was shocked cause in his mind he thought 💭🤔 "she would Never give me her child". No Sir "you begged me for a child", when you met me, my last 1 was 16 years old". Yup he's your sole responsibility now, I will help you when I can. Now you Big Mad..... Oh well 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️ I took Saturday off, drove down on Friday, picked him up, spent 3 days with him and give him back to his custodial parent.
He doesn't want or love the child. He just want to ruin and control the mother. For a person to do that to a mother is pure hatred and spite, where she said that she loved her child but hate him more. It is said that she told him to "pull out," showing that she didn't want a child, but he didn't. Now, he is outside of a building that he is not a hundred percent sure that she is there, traumatizing his son. But he doesn't love his child, anyway, so it doesn't matter to him.
I CAN NOT feel bad for him. Men do this allllll the time. Women are either choosing to not have kids, not have a lot of kids, or giving the dad full custody.
“I will just keep on doing what’s best for my son” all while he’s literally ranting about his kid never asking to be born IN FRONT of his kid, talking about how his mother doesn’t want him when HE was the one who demanded full custody. This isn’t about the kid, it’s about control. He didn’t want full custody, he wanted full control. He didn’t want a kid, not really, he wanted to be able to control the mother through the child. He didn’t want to protect or take care of the child, he wanted to deny his baby’s mother any financial support while also still expecting her to take care of the baby. That poor child is the true victim in all of this 💔
I'm appalled by the fact HE'S TALKING ALL THAT IN FRONT OF THE CHILD. He's making the child hear that his moms and pops don't want him!!! WHAT THE EFF?!? that is horrible parenting and I don't feel bad for this man at all but I do feel bad for his son who is being taught to hate women.
It’s not a win for him at all. He put himself on social media and did all of that mess. Nowadays a lot of women don’t want single dads. They aren’t trying to be Nannies. 😂😂😂 He did her dirty and no one wants to be the next victim.
He sounds like a bitter baby mama that tried to trap someone. She said f that kid....should've pulled out. Play stupid games. You dont get no cookies ninja.
My mom never ONCE bad-mouthed my absentee dad in front of us. I feel sorry for the kid. He probably internalizes how his mom doesn’t want him around and how he is a burden to his dad, who tries to force a kid on her that she does not want. No wonder he doesn't want to go there.
He got baby mama’d🤣🤣🤣🤣 He listened to those podcasts bros that told him to file for full custody so he wouldn’t have to pay child support. Now look at u 🥹🎻
👍🏾 No, we're not understanding. He *wanted* to control the *woman* . Everybody knows once we have a baby, we have to go along with whatever they say and do... It's us. *Weee* just are *not* understanding! 🤣🤣🤣 She got his @ss *good* !!!
I’m glad the internet went for him. I didn’t even need them to clue me in on the fact that he asked for full custody to avoid child support, it was the fact that he was saying things in front of the kid. Even if it is true, no child should have to unnecessarily hear that their mom or dad doesn’t want them, doesn’t want to spend time with them, etc.
🙄🙄🙄 I've had my daughter 16 years the dad doesn't pay child support, he owes maybe 10,000 in child support. He use to move everytime he started paying. Its been over 7 years since he's paid. I do not contact him or the courts. I just take care of my kid because she's mine. Sooooooo shut up dude if you have full custody and you know she wants nothing to do with the kid just move on and raise your kid. Simple. Stop crying and wasting time posting videos. Take your kid home and love on him.
I swear, believe them and their boy's math. Most these dudes don't like woman but are just too afraid to be openly gay. Oftentimes a man would get you pregnant thinking that will slow you and tie you down to him for at least the 18yrs. Bro wanted to try that but he met a real OG. She stated: "My hatred for you is greater than my love for the Child" in simple language she is saying even if that child came out of her womb but was fertilized by your seed, she'll rather let go of it. This woman will be judged but that is the most honest thing a person can do for a child. Other women just drown them in the tub or run up a cliff with them. Since you thought for 150$ a week you'd be the better parent, be the better parent then full time then! Unfortunately you are submitting your child to the trauma she was hoping to avoid him... Narcissistic people would dig their own grave hoping someone else would fall into it just for the sake of being right...
Tried to trap her with a kid and she uno reversed him. And why does he keep saying this would never happen with a man? Is he new? He also seems to be implying that the court said she could have visitation when she said multiple times that she didn't want it. Well, yeah, I have never heard of any man being given time with their child after they vehemently and repeatedly said they don't want it. So, you are right dude. That does not happen with men.
Oh my gosh, somebody call the “Whambulance”… What he did was try to trap her by going to court, blame it all on her, so that he could get out of paying child support and walk away Scot-free; seeing his kid once or twice a week, if at all. But what happened was, after he made his comment in court, the judge got so angry she granted him custody and now he’s mad because he realized the fact that his stupid stunt backfired on him and now, he can’t be “the player” that his shirt proclaims him to be. He asked to be a DAD-lying, and now he’s mad because he actually has to BE A DAD IN REAL LIFE. Sike! “Player”, you played yourself!
Ok - I was gonna say upon watching this - if he has SOLE custody, then he wouldn't be paying child support no matter what state he's from. Secondly, if he has sole custody than the mom only has visitation rights and she would have to schedule those with him. If she's saying she didn't want him then she's not scheduling anything. She doesn't have to exercise those rights or take him ever.
He still has to pay what he didn’t pay for the first eight months of the child’s life. That’s why he can’t file for child support. He is in arrears. He mumbled his way through that at the beginning of the video.
Kudos to the mom for being strong and brave to detach from this toxic situation. She can have a relationship with her son when he is grown and an adult. He is her son after all and he will love his mama no matter what. We see this with children of absent fathers all the time. The father filed for 100% full custody. That means 24/7 and 365 for the next 18+ years. The father is just a crybaby after he fought for this job.
Hmm I dunno about "he will love his mama no matter what." If a parent decides to not be in their kids life that's their decision (right or wrong), but they have no right to be loved by the child they left behind. I don't think most children would care much for an absentee parent unless the reason they were gone was an unexpected passing.
@@zachanikwano The human mind and emotions is not linear nor logical. The more a parent abandons its kid, the more the kid pines for that parent. You often see this in divorce families and you see it with kids who were adopted. Without fail, when the absent parent shows up, the abandoned/neglected child goes out of their way to build a relationship with that parent. They will, in turn blame and punish the parent who raised them. So, I stand by my statement. That mama can strut on by when the kid is grown and the child will love her.
@@zachanikwanoexactly I would never let my absentee father back in my life. He had his chance to be a good dad to me and he has disappointed me enough times I will never give him another opportunity to hurt me. He had his chance to be my dad and he blew it. That’s on him. He can live with that guilt. It’s not my job to alleviate the guilt of being a terrible person and not having a relationship with your own child.
He was looking like a loser 😂 And they talk about men being providers and leaders. Male leaders are the reason why most countries are 💩 More mother who dont even receive child support should do this, either way they nag about not getting child custody. The irony is he don't understand full custody 🤭💀 He taking that kid to that mother house making him sad and talking 💩 about her infront of him, not a fun dad. Notice how dads don't look fun dads anymore when they are asked to take responsibility that mothers take all the time. That son is going to have many issues after growing up.
I remember when he thought the internet would be on his side and that's NOT what happened... He wanted a child and he got one. He should just be a parent.
Didnt u hear that the court is making him do visitation my gosh he said himself he dosent want to do it she keeps putting him in court concerning visitation and yet they tell him that he has to do it actually listen to the video
So she says 3 times in court, 4 in total that she doesn’t want anything to do with either of them, and his idea is to force both of them on her ? He’s trying to play victim when he’s still trying to control the narrative
When men complain ALL DAY LONG that the court system caters to the woman but once this man got full custody; now he’s trippin. Make it make sense.😂😂😂 What do y’all (men like him) want?🤷🏻♀️🙄🤦🏻♀️
I agree with everything that was said in the video, but I just wanna add one thing. Ladies we gotta take our birth control. We can’t rely on men to pull out or wear a condom because that is in no way 100% protection from pregnancy!! Stay safe ya’ll ❤
So, he could really be pissed off .... (for been stupid not to have agreed to give 137 measly dollars a month for child support, and instead; he came up with the brilliant idea of filing for Full Custody). I think that's what it's known for: Making an autogoal! 🤣🤣
That applying for custody stunt these controlling men pull ALWAYS backfires. They do it to hurt and control the mother and avoid child support. On those times when they get full custody and the mother walks away - they're left fuming with a child they never actually wanted. I'll tell you what this mother has done, she's played the long game. She knows he just wants leverage to bind her with and it will go on forever... UNLESS she gives him full custody and walk away. Then, we all see that all he really wanted was control over her, because he's still trying to re-engage her into a cycle. He'll hand custody back to her after 2 years tops - and the mother knows this.
Yup instead of sitting there and being happy that he got what he wanted when so many women wish they could get full custody, but are forced to have custody with men who abused them, and even who have, abused their children. If you file for full custody, you better know what you’re asking for. Don’t go crying. I know so many women with abusive baby daddies, who would give their left arm to be free of those men, and actually have full custody, and would be happier than they’ve ever been if the courts would just grant them full custody, but they’re forced to coparent with toxic and even dangerous man if she was so bad, he should be over the moon that he no longer has to share his son with a dangerous or toxic person instead is in a car crying and hurting that babies feelings
😮💨 the guy at the end!👏🏾👏🏾 💯 Trying to leave your kid with someone who told you they don’t want him there is insane. He even said, The boy is scared to go in. Which means she wasn’t treating him right. But no, this guy is too focused on being obsessed with a woman he tried to trap into dealing with him for the rest of her life. SHE DOESNT WANT YOU. And now she doesn’t want your kid either. SMH I’m just worried that this guy is about to raise another man who uses women but don’t like women.
My father divorced my mother when I was around 6 and got primary custody of my sister and I. He used that custody over her to keep her with him. Even though they were divorced she stayed in the house and they stayed together. Then they got remarried and then he divorced her again! He was telling me about it later in my life and he said the second time was because she was so "mean" to him. MEANwhile, I had grown up only ever seeing him being abusive and controlling. It was sort of a "are you going to believe your eyes or what I'm telling you?" situation. Just ridiculous. One of my greatest wishes as a kid was for my mom to leave my father and take us with her. I don't blame her for staying though.
What bothered me before he even had to say much of anything…. He made it exceptionally clear that his son was IN THE CAR as he started bad talking his mom. Rule 1. U don’t bring kids into adult issues… whether ur the mom/dad…. idgaf what the mother did. You don’t openly bash 1 parent in-front of the other. You don’t bring that child into ur issues as parents or adults. He sits there & OPENLY states IN FRONT of that child that “his mom doesn’t want anything to do with him” I’m sorry… Wtf?! And then u proceed to openly bash his mother right in front of him. The ease that he did this shows me it’s not the 1st time. What it proves is that ur hatred for women/mother outweighs the wellbeing of ur son. He can’t even decide what he wants to bitch about… he goes from “she’s not answering her phone, doesn’t wanna see him” to “my son doesn’t even wanna see her, when he saw where we were going he didn’t even wanna go & I’m sure as hell not gonna force him” Well then SIR!!! Why are u waiting outside for her?!? Why did u drive him ALL the way over there & are complaining about ur ex wife not answering IF u weren’t gonna make him go over there. Wtf. That poor damn kid.
💯💯 I am the child of two miserable narcs and one thing that narcs will always do is use the children that they never wanted as pawns for the sake of manipulating the other parent/situation, doing eternal damage to the child in the process and not caring at all. They are fundamentally deficient people. He's literally doing untold emotional damage to his child in exchange for potential sympathy from strangers on the internet. This is what they do
@@junawallace7315 duuuuude… u have no idea how sorry I am u had to grow up experiencing that. I bet u anything they sit there complaining how no one ever helps them; how it’s just them & no one else EVER cares; no one lifts a finger.. *que ‘all eyez on me’ * meanwhile, as soon as their done recording/using their child in video for social points; they immediately hand the baby off to the grandparent or whoever has been designated to ACTUALLY care for them… (You know… either pay to feed them & or actually put food together for & feed them… properly clothe & wash them… spend actual time w/them…all the things no narcissistic parent actually wants to do when they don’t have an audience their trying to impress. Which has left that designated grandparent or whoever frustrated as all hell w/the parents cuz once again they were given a hungry kid w/no notice, no care no concern, but they don’t say a word cuz that’s their grand baby except kids are DAMN smart/emotionally intelligent even if they don’t have the proper words/info… But all the kid knows/feels is the frustration so they just think “damn.. I really do just be pissing everybody off, don’t I??” Nothing about that is ok… 1 of the cruelest ways for any kid to have to live. The amount of ppl who will ALWAYS put their feelings or being “right” before/over the well-being of their actual children will NEVER stop pissing me off. My mom always involved my in her financial worries for as long as I can remember (Ofcourse never bringing it up when she bought something for her, only when she bought something or food for me) & whenever I’ve tried to explain to her that rlly freaks me out/worries me & makes me feel guilty for needing food/needing to eat/basically making her spend money… she would justify it by saying “but it’s just me & you… UR Dad LEFT & chose NOT to be involved & I NEED to prove to ur Gma we can do it on our own” (sidenote: that’s another thing in her head since we live w/her now & have for awhile) “SO it’s just ME & U…WE support eachother cause WERE ALL WE HAVE. U just making it about u it’s being selfish” ….💀😭 But then … no amount of $, groceries, housework will makeup for or be enough… if anything, they’ll get upset & take it as a lack of power…. And they wonder why a majority of us millennials stay single/only become cat/plant moms 💀 I’m done w/the generational trauma.. Y’all can HAVE IT. I’ll stay alone, learning how to make artisanal bread while my cats watch me play Jenga in 3day old pajamas… Sure beats continuing THIS bullsh*t…😭
THIS is what "men's rights activists" wanted - they wanted custody of their children more than they get, since the children usually go the mother for full custody. MRAs wanted more "rights" in parental/divorce court proceedings with their children. And they got it! They got what they so desperately wanted! And now they're complaining about it because they actually have to follow through with their demands and because they have to be responsible. The sheer audacity of men continues to astound me.
He actually thought he was going to get sympathy for being expected to be a father to his child. This women did what was best for her just like he thought he was doing.
Most of the time, this works. Most moms will do the drop-off even 5 times a week. He thought he had found a loophole, but she turned it around. I personally could never do that. I would be under this abusive control because of the love of my kid.
Nah, do that for a bit and then ask the man if he wants to give me a full custody. Some will give in. You got a lot of control at that point now that they know how it is really.
We are going to start seeing more stories like this because the internet hyping them up. They don’t understand what it means to be a REAL single father. I’ve dated a man that had full custody of his two kids and that shit isn’t easy. Men are used to being part-time parents, they have no idea what it’s like to have full responsibility
Why is he bad mouthing the mother in front of the child. He's trying to make himself look good. Why would you go over to her house knowing she told you no. You did it to so your child could have a bad image of her. And you wonder why she doesn't want to be bothered with you.
How is he bad mouthing her he just stating facts he isnt calling her bitch and horrible mother all he said is that she refuses visitation that he is being forced to do per court wth
I think your lack of empathy is wrong. Ive seen it plenty of times that personalities ( mostly male) changed after child birth. I dunno how this happens and why. But its a true thing. Those Men are really perfect players and seems really nice and Loving at First.
@@MZBS639 👍🏾 Some change-up as soon as they know you like them. Some change-up as soon as they impregnate you. Some wait 'til you've given birth. Some wait 20 years 'til the kids are grown. However, they usually *switch-up* on your @ss at some point.
If she keeps saying she doesn't want anything to do with you or the child, why are you trying to force her?? Women go through this with their children's fathers all the time.
Are we supposed to feel bad for dude. Men do this everyday. Turn your damn blinker off and go be a dad. You wanted full custody, you got it. That's what it is FULL TIME. Figure it out.
Sis understood the assignment and acted accordingly. This is an example of what happens when you have bad intentions for someone with a deed you're doing. Enjoy the next 18 years bruh! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
His shirt told on him. The correct thing to do is to go on about your business instead of trying to embarrass his Mom by posting online. It's trifling sir! Remember you call the shots.
this video has been around a while now. turns out she never wanted the child, but he talked her into having it with the hope that her maternal instincts would kick in. smh
Sisters go through this daily.. now ya know how it feels .. some of these women need to leave their children with them for several months so they can see how challenging it is .. especially those who think it’s nothing .. I’m not saying what she did is right but I’m glad he can see how much time and effort it is
Wait til his childs mom finds a new boo and treats the new boo kids better than her own.🤣.. Or wait til his child's mom is paying $145 dollars a month in child support and tells everyone that her baby dad is a gold digger. 🤣... This man is a bitter baby momma now lol. HE shouldve chose better
😂 someone got any tissues for the man who deals with what most single or separated women deal with? 😅 that was a rant …. Where did you balls go, sir?? Lol
He got what he asked for. Welcome to single motherhood.
Exactly and now he’s crying. He’s sorry, just worried about his video going “viral” 🙄
Jesus! This comment! 😭
What was new to me was that, she had custody and was taking care of the child and he wasn't involved. So that was his Karma, he tried to trap her with their son, that he wasn't involved with in the first place, she filed, now he wants full custody, and now he got uno reverse carded
Dude just raise your son on your own. Women do this all the time. My kids' father left the country without notice. I raised them alone. There's nothing new here.
You didn't call the cops? 😂 😂 😂
@@peachesandpoetswhat were they supposed to do? Bring him back?
that part killed me)) 😂😂😂"I... I was calling to cops..... and they they told .... f*ck off") as much as I feel sorry for kid to be in this mess, I am oddly satisfied with situation
Why is he recording IN FRONT OF HIS SON?! He is a person. He can hear you. HE WILL INTERNALIZE ALL OF THIS. Be the full-time, greatest of all time dad that you are clearly telling the world you are😌
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So he's mad that she pulled an Uno reverse card on him and made HIM the bitter baby mama instead. Got it. 😂😂😂
Bitter baby mama indeed 🤣🤣
Right right 😂😂😂
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Bingo! 🤣🤣🤣
Hope he enjoys trying to date and trap other women now with a kid. A lot of women these days don't want to date single dads. Ha ha.
He took full custody to spite her and she took the message. Don't be bitter
I bet sole custody is way more expensive than the child support he skipped out of paying.
Yes because raising a kid from birth to 18 averages 237k versus the128k 137$a week would cost him. He might be getting child support but he might actually be reconsidering if the money is worth not having to parent.
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@@laurennelson3918come down clown children not that expensive. big cry baby
@@laurennelson3918how did you get to the number 237k? Does that include daycare, afterschool activities, healthcare, sports?
It absolutely is! I've done both - received child support and paid child support. I had WAY more money when I was paying than when I received, even if we take into account the public assistance I received while I was receiving child support.
This is because as the non-custodial parent, you don't need to follow "the rules" - as long as you don't hurt the kids, turn up for your parenting time, and pay your support order you can pretty much do anything you want to. I didn't have to provide my kids with their own individual bedrooms the way the custodial parent has to, so I got a 1-bedroom place and saved myself a bunch of money by downsizing. Since the kids' school district was based on where their other parent's house was, I could move into poorer, cheaper neighborhoods with bad schools because that didn't matter to me. My utilities and food costs were also cheaper because I wasn't feeding as many people. And even though it was in the court order that we split medical costs, my ex thought he was "winning" by shutting me out of medical decisions - but all that meant at a practical level was that I didn't have to pay copays for medicine or doctor's visits for the kids.
Finally, because I wasn't bogged down in child care, I was able to put more time and energy into my career. I leapfrogged far beyond where I started in job duties and responsibilities, and the money followed. There's a reason why after divorce, men do financially better than women - because the men don't ask for custody, they leave all of the childcare to their ex-wives, so they get the freedom and financial benefits of essentially being child-free. The child support is a tiny sum compared to the money earned and saved.
Hmmm...she pulled a typical man move on a man. That's what I heard. Nothing to see here. Moving along now.
Right. I listened twice trying to identify the problem😂 it sounds like his ex doesn’t want anything to do with him or their son. So raise your son on your own and go about your life sir. Idk choose better next time 😂
@@lol.3460 That part
@@lol.3460the choose better next time 😂
“CoUrTs fAvOr wOmEn” 😂😂😂😂 If you want custody, gentlemen, have it.
yup gave mine custody after he went part time in order not to pay the full support. now I can go to therapy and go to school to better myself... I refuse to struggle by myself...
men give up their custoty and dont show up to court
then say ''women privlege''
sir u abbandoning ur kid
and ur kid growing up alone and hating u
isnt ''woman privlege''
its men delulu and abusu and consequencu of actionu
Courts..... traditionally run by men...... favor other men's privileges and freedoms. 'Hard to get back in the game or continue your bachelors' lifestyle when you've got a kid taking up most of your time and resources. The same guys who complain about not getting custody also still think taking care of a child is 'women's work'.
🎯🎯🎯 ppl who say courts favor women have never been to court. They keep repeating lies from deadbeats
Lawyer here. When fathers ask for full custody, they get it 60% of the time.
Totally heartbreaking that kids only parent is speaking all that in front of him- right there in the car, in front of his mama’s house. May God protect that little boy 🙏🏼
I agree.
I came here to comment that. This little boy is being taught that both of his parents don't want him and he's being taught to hate women because of male entitlement.
🤔 Karma is A bitch, serves him right! APTTMHY
Yep... He told us more than he thought about him... hopefully he'll grow up!
Huge Emphasis on praying for that little boy❤
Raise awareness?! 😂 “Did y’all know that FULL custody means I gotta be a daddy all the damn time? I thought it meant I would do a week here and a week there…” Poor Mav. 😢 He knows his son doesn’t want to be dropped off but he’s trying to do it anyway.
Yes “raise awareness” 🤣 he didn’t read the terms and conditions bless him 😂
Oh, please. He was fishing for sympathy and got the complete opposite.
@M00nst0ne these men do this to enroll other women online to be his future ex wife
What did he expect? He poured poison in the boy's ear about his mom...yet wanted the boy's mom to watch the son when it was inconvenient for him...even though she's not obligated to watch him. He's a stalker and is using that child to help him do it. SMH
It should go viral to raise awareness 😂 boy ! Looking for clicks and sympathy 😂
My abusive ex did this to me. He had better legal and political connections than I did. I was afraid for my kids because he abused and raped me and a relative of mine, so to punish me he filed for full custody. Because of his connections, he got it, and I was forced to pay my abuser child support.
I was devastated. I had given up so much to try to raise my kids properly while being abused by him. I had put my life and career on hold to take care of and protect my babies. I was also upset because of the "moms always get custody" rhetoric that MRA men spout. What was wrong with me that I couldn't have my babies?
But then I had an epiphany. He wants to be mommy, and the courts want him to? FINE. Being mommy is so much harder. It sucks and is thankless. I'll be daddy. I'll do the fun shit during my parenting time and I'll pay my support order, but that's it. That's all you get from me - the bare minimum.
Wouldn't you know it, the very first time there's a problem with one of the kids, when I go to pick them up for my time he comes to me, explains the issue, and says, "How are we going to fix this?". I laughed and said, "Oh no. You wasted months of my time and thousands of my dollars to fight for the privilege of doing this on your own. You didn't ask for 50/50, which would have meant I have input. You asked for 100, so this is all your issue. I'm just supposed to show up on my time when I feel like it, and send the check. Figure it out."
The kids are grown now, but it was difficult for them to go through. Now that they are older, they see him for what he is. Only 1 still talks to him. As for me? The time I had to myself meant that I could get therapy, get my finances in order, grow as a person, and level-up my career.
Motherhood takes so much from you. We need to normalize acting like men, because these men can and will make you have their babies and then leave you doing everything. Maybe if they actually had to be mommy, then they'd start getting serious about wearing condoms and controlling themselves. Men shirk their responsibilities, but women let them get away with it by making it easy for them out of love for our kids.
Thank you for sharing, I'm sorry you went through that. What an important lesson to pass on 💕
I don't see myself getting babytrapped (I'm Female-to-Male) but I always thought if I did, I'd just suck it up and raise the kid, but ...Nah you're right.
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I normally don’t read long posts but I read every single word of yours. I’m sorry you and your kids had to go through that but I’m glad you came out better from it. Your ex played himself and I was happy he ended up miserable. I hope you and your kids are doing well!!
You're very strong. Glad to hear things worked out for you because it must have been stressful at the time.
Lol I’m relishing in his frustration. Men can’t handle full custodial parent role . They feel done wrong now and feel the weight of that role. I don’t feel sorry for him
Me either.🤷🏾♀️
He got what he wanted, why is he complaining?😂
Imagine a mother calling the police and telling them that the kids father won't take their kid
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Bandits are hilarious
@@peachesandpoetsthe police phone would be busy 24/7 if mothers called every time the fathers didn’t take their kid. 😅
Can't believe he is talking about this in front of that baby.
I was thinking this the whole time. That poor little one. His dad is doing him dirty.
He probably thinks "he's just a baby and doesn't understand, this is grown up talk"
Yeah, that's unbelievably fucking cruel, hearing AT THIS AGE that his mother wants nothing to do with him.
@@xejelahI’m just glad kid see him for tha rugrat of a pop he is!
I am hoping that Dad learns not to talk like that or hate on all women for his experience. The little one is a sweetie.
"i have SOLE custody" "Im dropping him off for HER week"...so which is it?
He has full legal custody and they have joint physical custody probably.
@@kosmicinclinations3333no, she said she wants nothing to do with him or the child, and the judge gave him Full custody so no physical involvement either. What was he expecting?
This was a Narcissistic move to control and torture this woman. I love how it didn't work! 😊😊😊😊
@JukuduB but in some ways it did. She loves that child and she will not have access until he grows up or he dies.
I’m like dude. ALL the weeks are YOURS!
Full custody literally means full custody. It’s not just making the decisions, it means FULL CUSTODY and NO HELP! It sucks to suck. She gone! She was slick! She filed for child support knowing he would want full custody so he wouldn’t have to pay child support. She willingly gave him the baby and now he’s stuck with his own decisions.
They are both stuck with their own decisions. She left her kid. It’s sad. It’s sad when a mom or a dad does it.
@@user-lt1jd1ye3vhe tried to do that to her at first so?! Trying to trap her with the baby and not be involved but that backfired on him not her
Good for her... but my heart breaks for the kids. Thos is what selfishness does. We pass on the broken-hearted to the next generation
His child support was like literally $157 too. That's per month, right?? Does he know how little that is??
He knows now 😂
He knows, men aren't as dumb as you think they are
Yep, they have no idea what it is to be a single mom.
He appears like an entitled pos. He effed around and found out
@@annnee6818This is literally the BEST example of effed around and found out that I have ever encountered. Flawless.
So why is this “player” want to force her to see a kid she didn’t want. Why is he collecting documents and talking about coparent?! 😂😂She doesn’t want to parent and gave you full custody. Whew! He thought full custody meant he can drop him off whenever he wants and come whenever he wants. She’s not dodging, you have FULL CUSTODY! Whew! This male is cognitive rigid. 😂😂Also, again, he’s wearing a shirt saying Player. Ladies, we have found Boo Boo the Fool!
Boo boo the fool 🤣🤣🤣
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I think that's exactly what he thought he was getting - full CONTROL of her and the child with no change in his responsibilities. He's learning.
@pixelgirl843 my thoughts exactly, he thought full custody meant full custody of HER and being able to chain her to his life and whims
Dude effed around and found out. Sympathy levels at solid zero.
Yep
I remember a few years ago I told women to start giving their sons to their fathers. Those women came for me; they thought I was stupid. Lol I knew what I was talking about! If more women did this; these men would be more cautious about trapping. They don’t care because they’re not used to the weight of the responsibility. More women should do this 🤷🏾♀️.
Yup. I've been saying this for years as well; 🗣DROP THOSE SONS WITH THEIR DADDY & DON'T LOOK BACK, BUT FIGHT TO THE D€ATH TO KEEP YOUR DAUGHTERS! Most women simply refuse to listen, though. But it is absolutely glorious to witness the few that truly had the wisdom to WALK AWAY!I love to see it!!! 💫💛💫
@@GB_008 I totally agree with you and @Lastdayone. Women can NOT teach/show boys how to be men. 💯
Same here. Dump your sons at daddy’s. They claim Women can’t raise boys anyway.
This would only work if *other* WOMEN would insist he raise his own children - grandmothers, aunts, sisters, girlfriends, friends, etc. Give him a break every once in a while (like ALL parents need) but, hold him accountable and responsible for the day-to-day. 💯
Why would he even feel comfortable dropping his son off to a woman who is saying she wants nothing to do with him…
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Because she didn’t say that, she wants nothing to do with him and that was his interpretation of that. If she said that in front of a judge I’m sure that they would have ordered supervised visits and then if she failed to show up they would remove her rights
@@morganbarber5009 At 1:28 in the video he says that she said in court that she didn't want anything to do with their son, and that she also said it for a 4th time in text.
And everyone knows that men *always* the truth, the *whole* and nothing *but* the truth, right ?
@@fantym1633 Who knows if he's being honest or not, that's not the point. The point is, I made my comment based upon what he's claiming. It's weird for a parent of any gender to come on the internet and complain that they can't drop their kid off to someone who supposedly doesn't want the child around. He's making himself look irresponsible. I hope that clears it up for everyone who didn't immediately have the same take away.
My ex fought me and won primary residency. He's been upset about it for 17 years. He's mad that I don't pay child support, just the travel expenses. He's mad that I have so much free time. He's mad that I NEVER give him extra money for things. I really don't care. I wanted my child, I wanted to give up all this "free time" and spend it with her. He could have run off and I never would have come at him for a dime. But no, I didn't get to do that because he wanted to be petty, he wanted to keep me hanging onto him and following him around as he moved and got remarried - twice. But instead I built a life that my daughter gets to enjoy when she's with me, and pretty much cut communication with him down to emails about pick up and drop off times. I moved back to the state where all my family and support system is and learned to budget my money and time off to always be on time to pick up my child during my days with her. She'll soon be 18 and a new chapter will begin for us. I feel nothing for this man. He got what he asked for, just like my ex. Sorrows sorrows prayers 🤷🏾♀️
What’s funny is he can’t file for child support from her until he pays what he originally owed.
Wait, that's actually HILARIOUS
Really?! I didn’t know that! That actually is pretty great if your dealing with a petty person that didn’t pay child support and tried to ‘cheat the system’ by filing for full custody.
And she can do just what so many father's do & quit her job, work under the table & avoid paying it.
@@fantym1633
If u are an app developer or work remote it’s hard to track paystubs esp when judges need warrant to search mobile device
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This is iconic. He sounds just like the “bitter baby mama” they want us to hate so much! I feel so sorry for the child listening to his father cry on tik tok like a little bitch but his mom is literally a GOAT. Iconic iconic!
Yes! We always get guys back simply by treating them the way they treat us.
It's so iconic. He got full custody to spite her and she detached
His mom is a deadbeat. When do we praise bad parenting?
@LeesaLilHop she didn't want him to put a baby in her, he wanted the child from the very start and she made it clear before the child was conceived that she didn't want a child. HE LEFT her with the child, was not helping, she filed for child support and he filed for FULL custody, he got what he wanted, he wanted the child, made her have the child and left her. He has no right to complain
@@LeesaLilHopDeadbeat = Not paying child support
And while its sucks so much for the kid, he was an actual deadbeat so even if she actually deadbeated that mannit would be just karma for being a deadbeat himself.
A man experiences something women have been experiencing for thousands of years👏👏👏👏
😂😂😂
He didn't realize that she was more toxic then him. Her daughter said that she abandoned all 4 of her kids because she didn't want to be a parent. Though to be fair she did tell him she didn't want the kid and that if she had the kid they would NOT be getting back together. He thought he could take her to court and have his way and instead she opted out all together. Men and women should be careful who they have kids with. Dudes should stop baby trapping cause not everyone is fit to be a parent.
Men think that because they listen to other dumb man who lie on the Internet, talk about how the courts are abused by women. No court can force somebody to be a parent and no real parent like the man at the end said would send their child to go be with someone who has explicitly said that they are not interested in parenting because of course, that would be endangering your child. This man thought he was gonna be able to abuse the court system to make this woman do what he wanted her to do and he came out finding out that the court offers the person who doesn’t want to parent a lot of leeway. I would hope that now he would understand how millions of women in this country feel when they’re up against a brick wall of a man who refuses to parent and flat out, says they do not care about their own child.
Welcome to being a single baby mama
They’re both toxic. Why abandon 4 children? If she doesn’t want children why doesn’t she get sterilised…..bizarre!
They’re both toxic. Why abandon 4 children? If she doesn’t want children why doesn’t she get sterilised…..bizarre!
@@jaijai5250Not defending her but unfortunately women aren't treated seriously when they say they want to be sterilized more if they're young.
@@jaijai5250 do you know how hard it actually is to get sterilised. They will lie and break the law to deny you it.
Boy math is fighting full custody for a child you don't even want 😂🤣🤣
👍🏾😂😂😂
That's why they lie and say courts take their kids. They know they don't want them
He did all this to get out of paying 137 dollars. And she did an uno reverse. He can find out that it costs way more than 137 dollars a month to raise a child.
$137 is unreal. narcissists cannot look at the cause and effect of their actions. They are blinded by their ego. All that matters is revenge.
He’s upset because she basically did a reverse uno on his arse and now he’s solely responsible for raising HIS child because she refused to play his gaslighting game.
Let him enjoy being a true single dad with all the benefits that go along with raising a child as a single parent.
Plus more women need to start forcing irresponsible males into being a solo responsible parent to HIS child because some of these fools need to be humbled.
He said he snooped and seen she was on an island living her best life THEN decided to show up to her house trying to drop the baby off 😂😂😂😂
A lot of women won’t do it because we want to protect our children against their toxic father.
Yes. But the best way to get around that is not to have the kid in the first place with them.
And the demons know that.
So why do they have children with toxic men? Does that make any sense?
The switch up is real. Abusive men are not abusive all the time. They will often switch up when they feel they have secured the relationship… after marriage, after pregnancy, when the child is born. Why do you think it takes on average 7 times for a woman to leave an abusive man? Do you think we’re just all weak and stupid and choose abusive men on purpose?
@@purplelove3666women can get baby trapped too you know
It's ironic he said "Let's do what's right for the kid" after doing everything wrong for the child.
When women deal w it, men complain she’s keeping me from seeing my kids…
this is exactly what my son dad was goin around saying. every time he said he was goin to come see his son, the excuses followed. I asked him to keep him for the whole summer to help me out and he said "no" he didn't even think about it. After he BEGGED me for a child. he went part time in order not to pay full support. So I told the judge I need to give him full custody cause I need therapy and to go back to school to better myself. Court Granted him custody..
@@tita8202what was his reaction 😮
@@schokococoa575, his lawyer was shocked cause she didn't see it coming, she was scratching her head cause the judge asked him to get the baby that same day. He was shocked cause in his mind he thought 💭🤔 "she would Never give me her child". No Sir "you begged me for a child", when you met me, my last 1 was 16 years old". Yup he's your sole responsibility now, I will help you when I can. Now you Big Mad..... Oh well 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️ I took Saturday off, drove down on Friday, picked him up, spent 3 days with him and give him back to his custodial parent.
@tita8202 did he marry you? Yall are to blame for this too, having a whole child cuz some lame begged you. Smh
Yes we are married going through a divorce now
He got full custody; what he wanted was selective custody w/FULL control...
He doesn't want or love the child. He just want to ruin and control the mother. For a person to do that to a mother is pure hatred and spite, where she said that she loved her child but hate him more. It is said that she told him to "pull out," showing that she didn't want a child, but he didn't. Now, he is outside of a building that he is not a hundred percent sure that she is there, traumatizing his son. But he doesn't love his child, anyway, so it doesn't matter to him.
I CAN NOT feel bad for him. Men do this allllll the time. Women are either choosing to not have kids, not have a lot of kids, or giving the dad full custody.
“I will just keep on doing what’s best for my son” all while he’s literally ranting about his kid never asking to be born IN FRONT of his kid, talking about how his mother doesn’t want him when HE was the one who demanded full custody.
This isn’t about the kid, it’s about control. He didn’t want full custody, he wanted full control. He didn’t want a kid, not really, he wanted to be able to control the mother through the child. He didn’t want to protect or take care of the child, he wanted to deny his baby’s mother any financial support while also still expecting her to take care of the baby. That poor child is the true victim in all of this 💔
I'm appalled by the fact HE'S TALKING ALL THAT IN FRONT OF THE CHILD. He's making the child hear that his moms and pops don't want him!!! WHAT THE EFF?!? that is horrible parenting and I don't feel bad for this man at all but I do feel bad for his son who is being taught to hate women.
It’s not a win for him at all. He put himself on social media and did all of that mess. Nowadays a lot of women don’t want single dads. They aren’t trying to be Nannies. 😂😂😂 He did her dirty and no one wants to be the next victim.
He sounds like a bitter baby mama that tried to trap someone. She said f that kid....should've pulled out. Play stupid games. You dont get no cookies ninja.
I love that he is wearing a shirt that says player. He played himself 😆
My mom never ONCE bad-mouthed my absentee dad in front of us. I feel sorry for the kid. He probably internalizes how his mom doesn’t want him around and how he is a burden to his dad, who tries to force a kid on her that she does not want. No wonder he doesn't want to go there.
He baby trapped himself lol. now he won’t have time to be out there to be a “player” 😂
He got baby mama’d🤣🤣🤣🤣
He listened to those podcasts bros that told him to file for full custody so he wouldn’t have to pay child support. Now look at u 🥹🎻
So he mad because he got exactly what he asked for? Ok.😂😂😂😂
👍🏾 No, we're not understanding. He *wanted* to control the *woman* . Everybody knows once we have a baby, we have to go along with whatever they say and do... It's us. *Weee* just are *not* understanding! 🤣🤣🤣 She got his @ss *good* !!!
"1. Why you can't turn your blinker off?
2.Why you got a finger wave?" 🤣🤣
Important questions that need answers.
What part of FULL CUSTODY does he not understand?
I think the full part I don’t know I could be wrong😂
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The "I can't use my son to control his mom" part. 🤣🤣🤣
I’m glad the internet went for him. I didn’t even need them to clue me in on the fact that he asked for full custody to avoid child support, it was the fact that he was saying things in front of the kid. Even if it is true, no child should have to unnecessarily hear that their mom or dad doesn’t want them, doesn’t want to spend time with them, etc.
I’m so worried for his child. He deserves a better foundation than his father who whines about being a parent and could barely pay child support.
And, impregnated a woman who told him beforehand, that she didn't want another child.
This dudes whole video is pure documented "parental alienation" as defined by family court. That poor baby boy
🙄🙄🙄 I've had my daughter 16 years the dad doesn't pay child support, he owes maybe 10,000 in child support. He use to move everytime he started paying. Its been over 7 years since he's paid. I do not contact him or the courts. I just take care of my kid because she's mine. Sooooooo shut up dude if you have full custody and you know she wants nothing to do with the kid just move on and raise your kid. Simple. Stop crying and wasting time posting videos. Take your kid home and love on him.
Can't. He's a man. They cry like b!tch3s ! 😂😂😂
Now you know how it is to be a mother :) youre one of us now buddy :)
I swear, believe them and their boy's math. Most these dudes don't like woman but are just too afraid to be openly gay. Oftentimes a man would get you pregnant thinking that will slow you and tie you down to him for at least the 18yrs. Bro wanted to try that but he met a real OG. She stated: "My hatred for you is greater than my love for the Child" in simple language she is saying even if that child came out of her womb but was fertilized by your seed, she'll rather let go of it. This woman will be judged but that is the most honest thing a person can do for a child. Other women just drown them in the tub or run up a cliff with them. Since you thought for 150$ a week you'd be the better parent, be the better parent then full time then! Unfortunately you are submitting your child to the trauma she was hoping to avoid him...
Narcissistic people would dig their own grave hoping someone else would fall into it just for the sake of being right...
Uhuh he wants a co parent but filed for sole custody?! That makes no sense
Women do it all the time
Tried to trap her with a kid and she uno reversed him. And why does he keep saying this would never happen with a man? Is he new? He also seems to be implying that the court said she could have visitation when she said multiple times that she didn't want it. Well, yeah, I have never heard of any man being given time with their child after they vehemently and repeatedly said they don't want it. So, you are right dude. That does not happen with men.
Oh my gosh, somebody call the “Whambulance”… What he did was try to trap her by going to court, blame it all on her, so that he could get out of paying child support and walk away Scot-free; seeing his kid once or twice a week, if at all. But what happened was, after he made his comment in court, the judge got so angry she granted him custody and now he’s mad because he realized the fact that his stupid stunt backfired on him and now, he can’t be “the player” that his shirt proclaims him to be. He asked to be a DAD-lying, and now he’s mad because he actually has to BE A DAD IN REAL LIFE. Sike! “Player”, you played yourself!
Ok - I was gonna say upon watching this - if he has SOLE custody, then he wouldn't be paying child support no matter what state he's from. Secondly, if he has sole custody than the mom only has visitation rights and she would have to schedule those with him. If she's saying she didn't want him then she's not scheduling anything. She doesn't have to exercise those rights or take him ever.
He still has to pay what he didn’t pay for the first eight months of the child’s life. That’s why he can’t file for child support. He is in arrears. He mumbled his way through that at the beginning of the video.
@@jendee5566CS arrears equals no license nor passport! PP Bros movement was a farce
Kudos to the mom for being strong and brave to detach from this toxic situation. She can have a relationship with her son when he is grown and an adult. He is her son after all and he will love his mama no matter what. We see this with children of absent fathers all the time. The father filed for 100% full custody. That means 24/7 and 365 for the next 18+ years. The father is just a crybaby after he fought for this job.
His mom doesn’t want him imbecile
Hmm I dunno about "he will love his mama no matter what."
If a parent decides to not be in their kids life that's their decision (right or wrong), but they have no right to be loved by the child they left behind.
I don't think most children would care much for an absentee parent unless the reason they were gone was an unexpected passing.
@@zachanikwano The human mind and emotions is not linear nor logical. The more a parent abandons its kid, the more the kid pines for that parent. You often see this in divorce families and you see it with kids who were adopted. Without fail, when the absent parent shows up, the abandoned/neglected child goes out of their way to build a relationship with that parent. They will, in turn blame and punish the parent who raised them. So, I stand by my statement. That mama can strut on by when the kid is grown and the child will love her.
@@zachanikwanoYou are so right. It's hard to love a stranger.
@@zachanikwanoexactly I would never let my absentee father back in my life. He had his chance to be a good dad to me and he has disappointed me enough times I will never give him another opportunity to hurt me. He had his chance to be my dad and he blew it. That’s on him. He can live with that guilt. It’s not my job to alleviate the guilt of being a terrible person and not having a relationship with your own child.
He was looking like a loser 😂 And they talk about men being providers and leaders. Male leaders are the reason why most countries are 💩 More mother who dont even receive child support should do this, either way they nag about not getting child custody. The irony is he don't understand full custody 🤭💀 He taking that kid to that mother house making him sad and talking 💩 about her infront of him, not a fun dad. Notice how dads don't look fun dads anymore when they are asked to take responsibility that mothers take all the time. That son is going to have many issues after growing up.
Just read the dude's shirt...PLAYER is definitely what he is
except he lost the game. lol
@@Li8aGun92 👍🏾🤣🤣🤣
I remember when he thought the internet would be on his side and that's NOT what happened... He wanted a child and he got one. He should just be a parent.
He is. He's even getting all the heartache and heartbreak his baby-mama and social media can *heap* on him. 😀
So leave her Alone!!!!! Raise your Son!!!
Didnt u hear that the court is making him do visitation my gosh he said himself he dosent want to do it she keeps putting him in court concerning visitation and yet they tell him that he has to do it actually listen to the video
So she says 3 times in court, 4 in total that she doesn’t want anything to do with either of them, and his idea is to force both of them on her ? He’s trying to play victim when he’s still trying to control the narrative
When men complain ALL DAY LONG that the court system caters to the woman but once this man got full custody; now he’s trippin. Make it make sense.😂😂😂 What do y’all (men like him) want?🤷🏻♀️🙄🤦🏻♀️
I am this mom. The moment I see a man wanting me to be a single parent I am giving over full custody.
I agree with everything that was said in the video, but I just wanna add one thing. Ladies we gotta take our birth control. We can’t rely on men to pull out or wear a condom because that is in no way 100% protection from pregnancy!! Stay safe ya’ll ❤
Keep making these men single baby daddies !
I would advise to not even get in that situation at all , protect your wombs.
Men really just be wanting control.
he wants to raise awareness... like women don't already know 🤣
He’s just realizing that it cost A LOT more than $137 to be the custodial parent.
👍🏾 In time, too.
So, he could really be pissed off .... (for been stupid not to have agreed to give 137 measly dollars a month for child support, and instead; he came up with the brilliant idea of filing for Full Custody).
I think that's what it's known for: Making an autogoal! 🤣🤣
#boymath 😂
Women raise their alone all the time. Married or not.
That applying for custody stunt these controlling men pull ALWAYS backfires. They do it to hurt and control the mother and avoid child support. On those times when they get full custody and the mother walks away - they're left fuming with a child they never actually wanted. I'll tell you what this mother has done, she's played the long game. She knows he just wants leverage to bind her with and it will go on forever... UNLESS she gives him full custody and walk away. Then, we all see that all he really wanted was control over her, because he's still trying to re-engage her into a cycle. He'll hand custody back to her after 2 years tops - and the mother knows this.
Yup instead of sitting there and being happy that he got what he wanted when so many women wish they could get full custody, but are forced to have custody with men who abused them, and even who have, abused their children. If you file for full custody, you better know what you’re asking for. Don’t go crying.
I know so many women with abusive baby daddies, who would give their left arm to be free of those men, and actually have full custody, and would be happier than they’ve ever been if the courts would just grant them full custody, but they’re forced to coparent with toxic and even dangerous man if she was so bad, he should be over the moon that he no longer has to share his son with a dangerous or toxic person instead is in a car crying and hurting that babies feelings
Yep, she’s very smart and played him
I think he is more likely to find another woman that he can control to care for his kid.
@@wildolive3630so true and that’s even more disgusting.
Wow, he’s talking a lot of shit in front of his kid
Tell ur son the truth bro. She wanted to get rid of YOU so bad she tossed the baby out with the bath water🤣🤣🤣
👍🏾 She sure did.
😮💨 the guy at the end!👏🏾👏🏾 💯
Trying to leave your kid with someone who told you they don’t want him there is insane. He even said, The boy is scared to go in. Which means she wasn’t treating him right. But no, this guy is too focused on being obsessed with a woman he tried to trap into dealing with him for the rest of her life. SHE DOESNT WANT YOU. And now she doesn’t want your kid either. SMH
I’m just worried that this guy is about to raise another man who uses women but don’t like women.
That last line is too real...
Unfortunately, it's most likely going to happen
Or he has talked bad about the mother so much the child believes him.
My father divorced my mother when I was around 6 and got primary custody of my sister and I. He used that custody over her to keep her with him. Even though they were divorced she stayed in the house and they stayed together. Then they got remarried and then he divorced her again! He was telling me about it later in my life and he said the second time was because she was so "mean" to him. MEANwhile, I had grown up only ever seeing him being abusive and controlling. It was sort of a "are you going to believe your eyes or what I'm telling you?" situation. Just ridiculous. One of my greatest wishes as a kid was for my mom to leave my father and take us with her. I don't blame her for staying though.
What bothered me before he even had to say much of anything…. He made it exceptionally clear that his son was IN THE CAR as he started bad talking his mom.
Rule 1. U don’t bring kids into adult issues… whether ur the mom/dad…. idgaf what the mother did. You don’t openly bash 1 parent in-front of the other. You don’t bring that child into ur issues as parents or adults.
He sits there & OPENLY states IN FRONT of that child that “his mom doesn’t want anything to do with him”
I’m sorry… Wtf?!
And then u proceed to openly bash his mother right in front of him. The ease that he did this shows me it’s not the 1st time.
What it proves is that ur hatred for women/mother outweighs the wellbeing of ur son.
He can’t even decide what he wants to bitch about… he goes from “she’s not answering her phone, doesn’t wanna see him” to “my son doesn’t even wanna see her, when he saw where we were going he didn’t even wanna go & I’m sure as hell not gonna force him”
Well then SIR!!!
Why are u waiting outside for her?!?
Why did u drive him ALL the way over there & are complaining about ur ex wife not answering IF u weren’t gonna make him go over there.
Wtf. That poor damn kid.
💯💯 I am the child of two miserable narcs and one thing that narcs will always do is use the children that they never wanted as pawns for the sake of manipulating the other parent/situation, doing eternal damage to the child in the process and not caring at all. They are fundamentally deficient people. He's literally doing untold emotional damage to his child in exchange for potential sympathy from strangers on the internet. This is what they do
@@junawallace7315 duuuuude… u have no idea how sorry I am u had to grow up experiencing that.
I bet u anything they sit there complaining how no one ever helps them; how it’s just them & no one else EVER cares; no one lifts a finger.. *que ‘all eyez on me’ * meanwhile, as soon as their done recording/using their child in video for social points; they immediately hand the baby off to the grandparent or whoever has been designated to ACTUALLY care for them…
(You know… either pay to feed them & or actually put food together for & feed them… properly clothe & wash them… spend actual time w/them…all the things no narcissistic parent actually wants to do when they don’t have an audience their trying to impress.
Which has left that designated grandparent or whoever frustrated as all hell w/the parents cuz once again they were given a hungry kid w/no notice, no care no concern, but they don’t say a word cuz that’s their grand baby except kids are DAMN smart/emotionally intelligent even if they don’t have the proper words/info…
But all the kid knows/feels is the frustration so they just think “damn.. I really do just be pissing everybody off, don’t I??”
Nothing about that is ok… 1 of the cruelest ways for any kid to have to live. The amount of ppl who will ALWAYS put their feelings or being “right” before/over the well-being of their actual children will NEVER stop pissing me off.
My mom always involved my in her financial worries for as long as I can remember (Ofcourse never bringing it up when she bought something for her, only when she bought something or food for me) & whenever I’ve tried to explain to her that rlly freaks me out/worries me & makes me feel guilty for needing food/needing to eat/basically making her spend money… she would justify it by saying “but it’s just me & you… UR Dad LEFT & chose NOT to be involved & I NEED to prove to ur Gma we can do it on our own” (sidenote: that’s another thing in her head since we live w/her now & have for awhile) “SO it’s just ME & U…WE support eachother cause WERE ALL WE HAVE. U just making it about u it’s being selfish” ….💀😭
But then … no amount of $, groceries, housework will makeup for or be enough… if anything, they’ll get upset & take it as a lack of power….
And they wonder why a majority of us millennials stay single/only become cat/plant moms 💀
I’m done w/the generational trauma.. Y’all can HAVE IT.
I’ll stay alone, learning how to make artisanal bread while my cats watch me play Jenga in 3day old pajamas…
Sure beats continuing THIS bullsh*t…😭
@@OoooshetriesSs omg yesss me and my little ficus benjamina are chilling. I love my role as Childfree Cool Auntie. Ps cats are wonderful ❤
THIS is what "men's rights activists" wanted - they wanted custody of their children more than they get, since the children usually go the mother for full custody. MRAs wanted more "rights" in parental/divorce court proceedings with their children. And they got it! They got what they so desperately wanted! And now they're complaining about it because they actually have to follow through with their demands and because they have to be responsible.
The sheer audacity of men continues to astound me.
Custody usually goes to the mother simply bc the father doesn't bother to ask. They don't even bother to show @ the hearing 70% if the time
@@fantym1633exactly! The reality is most men know they don’t want primary custody of their kids 😂
The fact that his shirt says playerrr 😂 is beyond meee. It’s called the game of life man.
He actually thought he was going to get sympathy for being expected to be a father to his child. This women did what was best for her just like he thought he was doing.
What’s that thing they’re always saying? Maybe… he “should have chose better.” 🤷🏾♀️
Or maybe kept his legs together ?
@@fantym1633 😂😂😂
Most of the time, this works. Most moms will do the drop-off even 5 times a week. He thought he had found a loophole, but she turned it around. I personally could never do that. I would be under this abusive control because of the love of my kid.
Nah, do that for a bit and then ask the man if he wants to give me a full custody. Some will give in. You got a lot of control at that point now that they know how it is really.
Social media is not a diary
We are going to start seeing more stories like this because the internet hyping them up. They don’t understand what it means to be a REAL single father. I’ve dated a man that had full custody of his two kids and that shit isn’t easy. Men are used to being part-time parents, they have no idea what it’s like to have full responsibility
Why is he bad mouthing the mother in front of the child. He's trying to make himself look good. Why would you go over to her house knowing she told you no. You did it to so your child could have a bad image of her. And you wonder why she doesn't want to be bothered with you.
How is he bad mouthing her he just stating facts he isnt calling her bitch and horrible mother all he said is that she refuses visitation that he is being forced to do per court wth
Manipulating the kid to get at the other parent…not a good idea.
I never feel bad for the bad choices adults make,both men and women,i only feel sorry for the child
I think your lack of empathy is wrong. Ive seen it plenty of times that personalities ( mostly male) changed after child birth. I dunno how this happens and why. But its a true thing. Those Men are really perfect players and seems really nice and Loving at First.
@@MZBS639 👍🏾 Some change-up as soon as they know you like them. Some change-up as soon as they impregnate you. Some wait 'til you've given birth. Some wait 20 years 'til the kids are grown. However, they usually *switch-up* on your @ss at some point.
*OH WELL THESE MEN LOVE SCREAMING MEN ARE BETTER FATHERS AND RAISE KIDS BETTER OH WELL*
Text messages saying he didn't pull out🤣
Lawd well she said you can be a dad....if he gets a girlfriend she'll be the nanny
He just wants to go viral and find some pick me that's gonna come and save him 🙄 sir/ma'am bye
If she keeps saying she doesn't want anything to do with you or the child, why are you trying to force her?? Women go through this with their children's fathers all the time.
Are we supposed to feel bad for dude. Men do this everyday.
Turn your damn blinker off and go be a dad. You wanted full custody, you got it. That's what it is FULL TIME. Figure it out.
Sis understood the assignment and acted accordingly. This is an example of what happens when you have bad intentions for someone with a deed you're doing. Enjoy the next 18 years bruh! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
His shirt told on him. The correct thing to do is to go on about your business instead of trying to embarrass his Mom by posting online. It's trifling sir! Remember you call the shots.
this video has been around a while now. turns out she never wanted the child, but he talked her into having it with the hope that her maternal instincts would kick in. smh
Sisters go through this daily.. now ya know how it feels .. some of these women need to leave their children with them for several months so they can see how challenging it is .. especially those who think it’s nothing .. I’m not saying what she did is right but I’m glad he can see how much time and effort it is
Wait til his childs mom finds a new boo and treats the new boo kids better than her own.🤣.. Or wait til his child's mom is paying $145 dollars a month in child support and tells everyone that her baby dad is a gold digger. 🤣... This man is a bitter baby momma now lol. HE shouldve chose better
“He should just of chose better”
Oh how the tables have turned. 😂
👍🏾😂😂😂
Parent or not why would he want his child around her if she made that statement. This video proves his ass was lying from the beginning
😂 someone got any tissues for the man who deals with what most single or separated women deal with? 😅 that was a rant …. Where did you balls go, sir?? Lol