My Husband Hates Me, What To Do?
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"What Can I Do If My Husband Hates Me?", is a deep dive into practical steps and strategies you can employ if you find yourself in the heart-wrenching situation where your husband seems to harbor hateful feelings towards you.
Coach Lee begins by emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying issues. It's crucial to discern whether these feelings are recent or have been building up over time. Identifying the root cause, without jumping to conclusions or blaming yourself, is the first step towards addressing the problem.
Creating a positive and nurturing home environment can play a significant role in turning your husband's heart from hatred to love. Coach Lee discusses how small changes in daily routines and home settings can make a significant impact. This could involve setting a peaceful atmosphere, engaging in activities that bring joy to both you and your husband, or even adopting new traditions that foster warmth and closeness.
Positive reinforcement can be a powerful tool if your husband hates you. Coach Lee suggests focusing on the good aspects of your relationship and the positive attributes of your husband. This isn’t about ignoring the problems but about creating a more positive perspective that can gradually overshadow the negativity.
Engaging in Shared Interests:
Rediscovering or developing shared interests is another practical tip offered for a wife whose husband hates her. This could mean taking up a new hobby together, planning trips, or even engaging in simple activities like cooking or gardening together. Shared experiences can often bridge gaps and create common ground even if your husband said he hates you.
Understanding the Dynamics of Respect:
Respect is a two-way street. Coach Lee delves into how mutual respect can be nurtured in a relationship. This includes respecting opinions and decisions, as well as showing appreciation for each other’s contributions to the relationship and household.
Empathy and Understanding:
Developing a deeper level of empathy is crucial. Understanding your husband's perspective, his stresses, and challenges can help in creating a more empathetic and compassionate relationship dynamic.
Conclusion:
Coach Lee wraps up the video with a reminder that every relationship faces its challenges and that working through them requires patience, understanding, and effort. It's about finding a balance and rediscovering the love and respect that may have been overshadowed by life's stresses and misunderstandings.
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Can’t have sex with someone who abandoned me and doesn’t want to live me. I refuse to be used for sex.
They don't know what love even is.
I wish more people listened to coach Lee... I did and my fiancee is back after almost a year. Last week he ordered wedding rings ❤️ All because I applied Lee's advice for 7 months (after 3 months of acting emotional).
I just wish more and more adults seeked proper advice.
It’s really hard to coddle, respect and have sex with someone who is always yelling at you and refuses discussions about things as simple as what to make for dinner. Giving your body to someone like this feels like disrespecting and abusing yourself
I get it. You two (or just one) could get on a session with me at www.marriageradio.com/marriage-coaching/
How wpuld that help when he thinks he knows everything??? Do you honestly think he is going to listen to you, when nothing I have asked for, simple kindness, which is free. He can't or won't give me???? @RealCoachLee
Honestly, ya'll! Why in the heck would you stay with someone who hates you? Take it from someone who stayed for 4.5 years. Hate is a strong word. A much better title for the video would be "What to do if your Husband is Unhappy or Upset with you" or something along those lines. Teaching someone to win over someone that hates them is just horrific.
Yes. You shouldn't have to do anything to MAKE someone love you. They either do or they don't.
I wish I could speak to this man and tell him my story...I wish i could just talk to someone. My husband WAS my best friend and now he hates me.
A wonderful, wonderful message and good advice!!
Thank you so much ❤
Hello Coach Lee,
You have helped me in rough times, gave me power and hope to push through the breakup. After month and a half of total no contact, she has broken it yesterday, breadcrumbing me. I'm sure I don't want her in my life anymore, I also do not hold any grudge towards her. Yesterday, I had the best sleep after quite some time. Thank you. Stay strong everyone, it's worth it.
My long term partner resents me because he lost the woman he was having an affair with. He lied to her from day one. He said it wouldn't and couldn't last. All the lies would destroy it.
I contacted her and told her about us. She thought he was single, she didn’t know we lived together etc. She had been treated badly by her ex, lied to etc..She ended it with my partner.
He still lives with me, says he's confused, one minute wants to try again, and talks about what he wants to do together. Then, a few days later, he says something different, like he doesn't want to be here..
Any advice....
Coach ain't playing with us this time!!! He's spitting fire😊
I love this advice! I listen only to this guy and Kels Coaching on here, as they are so knowledgeable - They have literally got me through my heartbreak :)
Unfortunately the number 3 I learned the harder way, but I did learn. Thank you for the advice as always!
Oh really cool that you speak about other topics too. I like your coaching but not trying to get my ex back anymore. The most freeing thing that ever happened to me 😂 more topics about relationships in general please
I did no contact for like 3 months and she contacted me to meet up and now it's been 4 days meeting her up and she says she regrets breaking up with me and wants to come back but says she can't get back because he has a new boyfriend who she is attached with now.... What should I do?
If my wife would have atleast tried any of these ideas and advice just 1%, I might not have divorced her and been forced to put the whole family and our children through additional misery. Ladies, I hope atleast one of you listens to this video and saves a family.
Question for you Brad: if your wife has tried any of those advice during separation. Would you still have considered divorce?
@@hlix554 I don’t know but I believe it would have helped. I desperately wanted to avoid divorce.
I totally hear you Brad...and fully respect it. Some of us ladies need to try seeing and experiencing what it may be like for the other party...that is, the men (and children) affected in our relationships. Sometimes I think the women (me included) act and feel like we are the only ones affected and are oblivious to what impact our choices and behaviours have on our partners/family. Thank you for your insight and honesty...
what about how the “man” treats his wife… this is not helpful for a person who also deserves respect
Both spouses deserve respect. And a husband should treat his wife with love and respect and make her feel wanted just as she should him. I say that often. And do in my free mini-course on saving a marriage at www.marriageradio.com/mini-course-to-save-your-marriage/
My husband stopped getting perused for sex because of emotional and financial abuse. It has been 3 years and we have been intimate maybe 5 times. He still doesn’t fall to his knees and tell me just how sorry he is. We are in counselling. I am just disgusted and want to give up. been together 15 years. I think this video is good but also, this is how women operate as well. Men don’t need sex. They want it. In marriage both a woman and a man want it if they feel safe. Or there could also be medical issues, but both spouses need this connection.
this is not related to this video but i just wanna get this out of my chest: its been a week already since we last had a contact. i miss him so much and i just wish i can get him back. im losing hope he’ll ever message me again 💔
You have more time than you think. Stay in no contact and take it one day at a time.
@@RealCoachLee hi Coach Lee! thank you so much for taking the time to reply. your videos have helped me tremendously all throughout my breakups. everytime i feel like reaching out to my ex, i stop and then go back to your advice. its hard but it gives me courage. thank you so much! ❤️
My boyfriend broke up with me because of my behaviors, he really wanted to marry me and he did nothing wrong during the relationship but i was the one that act childish and immature. He said he can’t see a future with me and he thinks we are not compatible. After he left i realized all my mistakes but i think it is too late . The regret and grief is killing me day by day and i am stuck. I am in NC almost 40 days but nothing changes, still crying everyday and missing my man. Please help me 😢
Let it go. Learn from it and move on!
I like #1 a lot. Ladies, sometimes we say our thoughts out loud and just want to be heard, to feel heard and be acknowledged. Constructive advice/criticism is appreciated but please ask for permission to give it. Sometimes people gripe, moan and groan and just wanna be heard. It takes the power away from worry thoughts and gives it back to us.
Girls please please just follow this great coach and everything will be perfectly okay. Mt bf broke up with me 5 months ago, believe me I did everything I could to convince him that he was wrong but it didn't work till finally almost 40 days ago accidentally I found coach Lee here and I began every day and night listen to him. Gradually I realize I need to value myself, control my emotion and follow no contact rule.... He just sent me a voice message that how he missed me ( during no contact) ❤😅 how he remembered me lately.
I must confess without coach Lee's help I couldn't give him space and value myself. Thanks a million times coach Lee❤❤❤
I have Questions about affairs.
1 Is it turth that Not every affair involves sex. ARE still affair or do people need sex for affair or cheating to happen ur not
2 can people have affair or Cheat on someone without having no sex
3 .If i was dating Morgan i starting seeing my ex boyfriend Stephen start to make emotional attachment to Stephen i when i know him from school to college by texting him and meeting up and talking to Stephen on phone and thinking about him and watching films with him without never never having no sex ? Is it emotional cheating
Cheating is defined as anything that breaches a contract with your current partner, regardless of what it is. This will vary from couple to couple. For some couples, texting is cheating. For others, sex is not cheating. I would agree that cheating involves whatever is done in secret, undercover, and involves lying.
Hey Jess. All 3 of those are definitely cheating. There is no doubt about it. There is an emotional attachment in the meeting, communicating, texting, and calling. It is very disrespectful to do any of these things, and it is a willful choice. Having friends of the opposite sex is not good either. A GF, or wife going to ladies night out at the bar, or club is not good at all. This is especially true if it is someone from her past that she is having comms with. You are exactly right in your train of thought.
@@jimenaverdaguer5858I have questions for you over affairs and cheating.
If i was dating Morgan i starting seeing my ex boyfriend Stephen start to make emotional attachment to Stephen i when i know him from school to college by texting him and meeting up and talking to Stephen on phone and thinking about him and watching films with him without never never having no sex ? Is it emotional cheating
@@williamconrad6561hi william I have question. How long does it take emotional bond to turn to emotional infidelity when you and person got history from school to college and you date them before? Me and stephen got history from school to college could it turn to emotional infidelity because i date him in past?
@@williamconrad6561 When the need to control rears its ugly head, the couple has problems.
Yes it is this is also cheating even with no sex ..