What To Do When My Spouse Wants A Divorce
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"Saving Your Marriage: Strategies When Your Spouse Wants a Divorce | Coach Lee"
Welcome to a crucial video for anyone facing the heartbreaking situation of a spouse seeking a divorce.
In this deeply insightful and empathetic session, Coach Lee, a seasoned relationship expert, shares powerful strategies and wisdom for those hoping to change their spouse's mind about divorce and give their marriage the best chance of survival.
About This Video:
Divorce is not always the final answer, and sometimes, a marriage can be salvaged from the brink.
Coach Lee's approach in this video is grounded in understanding human psychology, emotional needs, and the dynamics of marital relationships.
He provides a compassionate, step-by-step guide on how to approach this delicate situation, keeping in mind the emotional turmoil you're going through.
What You'll Learn:
Understanding Your Spouse's Perspective: Gain insights into the possible reasons behind your spouse's decision.
Coach Lee delves into common issues that lead to such drastic decisions and how to address them effectively.
Effective Communication Techniques: Learn how to communicate with your spouse during this challenging time.
Discover the importance of listening, empathy, and expressing your feelings in a way that fosters understanding rather than conflict.
The Power of Self-Reflection: Explore the importance of self-reflection in this process.
Coach Lee encourages viewers to look inward to understand their contributions to the relationship's current state and how personal growth can positively impact the marriage.
Rebuilding Connection: Strategies to rebuild emotional connection and intimacy.
These practical tips are designed to rekindle the love and bond that may have diminished over time.
Managing Emotions and Stress: Get advice on handling your emotions and stress healthily.
It's crucial to stay grounded and clear-headed to make the best decisions for your relationship.
Navigating the No Contact Rule: Learn when and how to use the no contact rule effectively in a marriage facing potential divorce.
Understand its psychological basis and how it can create space for re-evaluation and potential reconciliation.
Seeking Professional Help: Coach Lee discusses the importance of seeking counseling or therapy, either individually or as a couple, and how it can provide valuable tools and insights for repairing and strengthening your marriage.
Who Should Watch This Video:
This video is a must-watch for anyone whose spouse has expressed a desire for divorce and who believes in the potential for reconciliation and healing.
Whether you're in the early stages of this crisis or have been grappling with it for some time, Coach Lee's guidance can offer you a new perspective and tools to approach your situation more effectively.
A Message from Coach Lee:
"I understand the pain, confusion, and desperation that can come with hearing that your spouse wants a divorce. But there is hope, and sometimes a marriage that seems doomed can emerge even stronger. My goal is to help you navigate this tough time with dignity, wisdom, and a clear plan."
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Remember, you're not alone in this journey.
With the right approach, understanding, and effort, there's always a chance to turn things around.
Thank you for watching, and take the first step towards healing and possibly saving your marriage.
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My journey has been a rollercoaster, thanks to you i'd like to say i survived it but to be honest i dont know if im out of the woods yet 😂 sure feels like something like that though but i dont know. Man i dont think ill ever be the same, but a different version I sure hope its a better one, I'll try to. Unfortunately seeing your videos on my feed kind of re ignites hope strongly which right now might do me some real harm after a very long time. I dont know how to silence your videos without unsubscribing because you ve been such a lovely person Lee, for now Id have to say goodbye, maybe I'll come back once in a while to say hi haha thanks man for everything and thank you for helping thousands of people through the toughest of times. Please listen to this guy! He's the bomb!💣😂❤️🩹
See you on the other side!
I am in a divorce process. I said what you told from min 1:57 - 2:18 without success, maybe was too late, she is so sure about the divorce and We have had this type of conversation before...
I'm probably in the same situation.
I want the divorce because of his cheating and the fact he monkey branched to the other woman. They are sleeping together and in some kind of relationship 12wks post separation. She has taken my place. I am repulsed by them. I see him differently now. I love him but he isn't chasing me either. I'm sad.
That’s a crossed boundary that one should forgive and never take them back . Ever !
My spouse left me and says she filing for a divorce. This is after I finally realized that I’ve been being emotionally abused for the last 7 years and started calling her out on it. All of my feelings of feeling like I was going crazy, never receiving and apology without her withdrawing, anxiety I’d never had before, feeling like I was less than a man (feeling castrated) always feeling like I was to blame for everything etc. I finally realized all these feelings were the result of emotional abuse. I have very mixed feelings right now. I’m a Christian and do not believe that even me filing for a divorce, much less HER, is biblical grounds for divorce. I don’t want to be around her so I can heal and learn how to set boundaries for myself but also want to let God work on this mess and not get in HIS way. It’s so confusing.
Heartwarming, beautiful words👍❤️🌹
4:50 - Stop negative reactions... That's a good one.
I broke up with my girlfriend of 10 months because I was not sure of my feelings and I had lost some attraction as well as interning abroad being 6 hours ahead. After a month I realized I’d made a mistake and reached out to her saying so. She was open to talking and said that we can revisit the idea when I return (2 months later) because I couldn’t prove I’ve changed being away. I return in a week and I messaged her asking if we could talk when I get back and she responded a day later with her saying she’s thought about it during the past month and she doesn’t think it’s a good idea to talk because she’s in a good place and doesn’t want to risk it. She said she has no bad feelings towards me and hope I can see where she is coming from. She said it wasn’t easy for her but feels confident on this decision. She said to then have a good last semester. Should I respond?
I wish I saw this video before 😊. But now it's too late as he is living peacefully with his new someone. 😊
I'm in pretty difficult situation.. Me and my wife are living separately coz we are in a long distance marriage, I'm in the uk and she in the states, been together for 5 years been marriage for 18 months been sorting out visas and me moving too her but it's been tough and difficult.. We've been having problems for aboyt the last 7 8 months and 6 weeks ago she finally told me she wanted a divorced.. Got angry at her but told her I didn't want it, next day I apologised for getting angry at her, but now I've gone NC since then, just watch your video and I'm now worried that I might have made a big mistake going NC worried I might being actually pushing her aways even more, any advise
So listen Coach, I am kind of confused again. At the part where you said you that you shouldn't leave, because you don't want them to have relief etc., isn't that the opposite of what's supposed to happen?? Why is it different for a spouse vs an ex? Like if you don't want your spouse to experience that, why is it necessary for an ex to? Thank you for your information as always!
An ex doesn’t share a household, children, home, etc. Plus an ex would leave your life. You wouldn’t be the one walking away (unless you lived with them and they owned the house or paid the rent). If you are married, it’s their free will to leave you, but unless they do that, I suggest you stay. It’s a different situation.
@@RealCoachLee Got it, that makes sense!! And I hope you remember me, I am the one who made a different comment one of your videos the other day!! 😊🌷
Wish I didn't have to leave, tried for 8 weeks to stay in but her feelings weren't changing and she asked for space. Hearing that in this video has killed me :(
But if she’s asking for space do I need to leave her alone for a week or so or do I need to try and send positive messages in the meantime?
Give her space and time this is critical!… Her asking for space is actually good, she could’ve just walked away without reasoning.
Is my chance gone post 3 months after breakup and 1month into NC ? i begged and pleded in the start and send her roses twice.. i know its bad, she responded few times, saying she felt bad for not responding and this was really hard for heraswell then 1 month ago told me to stop texting her and force my self to move on, that she just coulndt anymore and she have been staying with me for a long time cuz she loved me but wasnt happy and waited for me to change, now she just had enough, she say she still loves me but she know that we not going to be together.. this is 4.5 years together living for 4 of them, talked kids mariged etc..
TheOstekaj, I am sorry to hear that, but at least you both have deep feelings. I recommend Coach Lee's mini course which will help you immensely. MyExBackCoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis
Please click onto this link, and best wishes to both of you.
Lemme tell you my story short and tell me if the no contact is what I need to follow to get him back or not.
We’ve been in a relationship for over a year. Was a beautiful year my ex also cherished every single moment with me. He never wanted to let me go we were gf and bf. one time I tried to leave him but he stopped me after a week he said it’s about time we separate because I was hurt after finding out he cheated on me while he was with me. But we weren’t exclusive either but he gave me most of the time he had. I feel bad for few reason one I was discussing over text
Another thing is when he said we need to separate I didn’t stop him I said I don’t know what to say
All I can do is nothing but to agree.
What should I do? Why I feel like I have better chance to talk this out than do no contact?
can you tolerate that he cheated you? He most likely will do it again. If yes, and he doesn't want relationships now, you should go no contact to at least understand what do YOU want. I wish you find a person who will treat you well
They said it's because of them and they still Love me 😮😢Won't talk to me about. Told my sister Iam draining. I have really bad anxiety
What if your wife has blocked you from contact , been separated for 10 months and hasn't sent divorce papers or will talk to me
Marcus, you need to book a free discovery call with Johnny on my staff about my Relationship Reignite workshop. Do that here: myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite/
Been separated for 3 months, now my wife push me for divorce, the divorce process didn't get through last time because incomplete documents was presented. She got really upset and blamed me and blocked me on social media, should I just give up. I feel like i had zero hope but I still want our marriage of one and the half year to work out.
Brandon, you should start with my free mini-course on saving a marriage at myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/
what if your spouse is still being a jerk about business matters how can i have peaceful interactions when he won’t cooperate it’s like he’s trying to hurt me even more even though he left?
My ex girl reached out after 5 years of me going no contact to express how she regretted how she has acted for a long times saying she wanted to "clear the air" between us, and explained she left me for someone else and she should of been open and honest with me. Complimented me saying I'm an awesome guy and if I have questions now or in the future she will be there. Can someone explain the ambiguousness of this statement? Part of me wants to talk again but I cut her off and kind of ghosted her after that. Thanks for your insight.
If she reached out after all that time, that means she finally understood what she did wrong and wanted to apologize. Apologize for her own closure . I know because I did that with an ex after 10 years of not talking
@@alessandroduma1594 @xhango0kx thank you for your replies, I appreciate it. I think both of you are exactly right, I took it as being her being selfish and I'm not going to revive anything with her, I cut her off and it's going to stay that way. I was fine and moved on, and she made shit resurface in my head and it's basically just pissed me off. Thank you for clarifying.
Stick to no contact. Print the message, burn it, and change all your contact info. She is doing it for her own reasons. All you do it relieve the guilt.
the grass wasnt greener
She got in an argument with the new dude thats all
My husband filed for a divorce 1 year before and we are in no contact ,he hates me and ready to get married again ,what should i do?
Start with getting my free mini-course on saving a marriage at myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/
Does pain medication cause her to be emotionless towards me. She broke up with me after a surgery
Meds, birth control, and other things can cause her to respond to and treat you differently.
You know what? This advice while good intentioned is just shit when you’ve given a woman your whole life and she just walks away after thirty years of marriage. I was left blindsided, although every video I’ve seen points to her having considered her position for months or even years. I only wish I knew the outcome when I first met her, gave up my military career for her, bought and paid of our home. For her. I would have run the other way.
you were too nice with no backbone. women dont like when you do things for them. do things for you and allow them to join if they please.
I think I need to give her this break up and experience it with no contact.
I wish i would have seen this before she left the marriage. But its to late.i love her done ny best.she gone.
My wife n me now separate she left me n with smiling n
Hello is it turth that Not every affair involves sex. ARE still affair or do people need sex for affair or cheating to happen ur not .
Jess-wk5jo, TO be honest, YES it is. Dr. Harris Jackson said that a lot of relationships are based just having fun together, and not based on sex.
Good stuff. Can you do a video on what’s going through my spouses head during no contact and how to build attraction if you separated and live in different states?
Did you get my free mini-course at myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/
@@RealCoachLee yes but you didn’t go over those things.
What if she has been abusive? But then I get arrested for domestic abuse when I reacted one night. Time for divorce.
Texas has 60 days no fault
My ex abused me and my family. I didn't feel safe. I moved out. Sometimes I missed him and had this wishful thinking that one day he would act and treat me right. It hurts so much.
My ex husband initiated a separation but I divorced him. I would never be able to deal with the pain of infidelity.
Marriage is a love triangle. Holy matrimony is another thing
I dont know why im watching this i have no interest in trying now that he put that sh** out into the universe. It's not a matter of if but when.
He wanted a divorce because I discovered his adultery affair.
Good for you 🎉