Why girls shouldn't play hard to get

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  • Girls think that playing hard to get is the best way to go. But just think - if you go after what you want, you too could be riding the ginger of your dreams.
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    I know a lot of girls who play hard to get, and I've never quite understood it. Why not go after the man of your dreams? Why not pursue what you want with no fear of rejection? Though it's scary, the rewards are LOVE. SO GO AFTER YO MAN.
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  • @wafflingmean4477
    @wafflingmean4477 4 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    - Girl plays hard to get.
    - Guy thinks she hates him.
    *The End*

    • @maria-ed5jg
      @maria-ed5jg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      girls to her best friend after it happens: idk what I did wrong everything was great I thought he really liked me. guess hes just like the rest

    • @nope9858
      @nope9858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Girl is interested in me
      Me: I have a friend that's single
      Girl:oh
      Me:Go get him tiger

    • @user-td9nq5hb5b
      @user-td9nq5hb5b ปีที่แล้ว

      As a girl, this is a good ending because I don't want guys to go near me 💅✨

    • @InternalxHD
      @InternalxHD ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@maria-ed5jg women ☕

    • @clownworld4655
      @clownworld4655 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maria-ed5jg lmao this is so true! I know this most recent one is saying that about me rn. “He must not have cared” naw I gave you plenty of chances and you kept trying to jerk me around

  • @PaganiTypeR
    @PaganiTypeR 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7807

    if a girl plays hard to get, I assume she's not interested and I just forget about her.

    • @AlexMCadventures
      @AlexMCadventures 7 ปีที่แล้ว +276

      yep

    • @herneyalvarez5591
      @herneyalvarez5591 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      MelectroU bporno
      hola buenos

    • @domsau2
      @domsau2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      No, if she plays hard to get, it's your fault.

    • @LadyDynamitez
      @LadyDynamitez 6 ปีที่แล้ว +549

      Nah, people who keep trying and harassing girls who have told you 'no' are the ones to stay the hell away from. He's simply respecting boundaries.

    • @notimportant3686
      @notimportant3686 6 ปีที่แล้ว +179

      4gma is damaged and delusional.... good luck

  • @WouterWeggelaar
    @WouterWeggelaar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2261

    "If you want him to like you, you have to stay 6ft away from him at all times"
    Welllll, that's true for everyone now!

    • @thehealingfairee
      @thehealingfairee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Thinking this too 😂

    • @Qaeta
      @Qaeta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That's true, I instantly don't like people that violate my bubble now.

    • @mr.greymorality4069
      @mr.greymorality4069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Forshadowing!

    • @Pandacalifornia
      @Pandacalifornia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She jinxed it

    • @ACarnealqwerty
      @ACarnealqwerty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Imagine when someone replies"not anymore"

  • @yeehaw8765
    @yeehaw8765 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2851

    This is how my dad did it: He told my mum that it was his birthday (and it was) and that a bunch of his friends were going to Mcdonalds for lunch and she was like ughhh fine cuz its your birthday. She was the only one to show. Also the only one invited. They had a buy one get one free burger. She paid. They have been marries for 20 years. Boom.

    • @dracovet777
      @dracovet777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +399

      Wow what a smooth criminal

    • @punoko6062
      @punoko6062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Damn son

    • @Uriel.45AC
      @Uriel.45AC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      :-O

    • @Skyler_Momoko
      @Skyler_Momoko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +172

      that is the cutest love story i've ever read omg better than titanic

    • @Andrii87
      @Andrii87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      :D

  • @qazedc3
    @qazedc3 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2211

    I heard some guys like it when girls play hard to get...but then again maybe those aren't the types of guys we should be looking for.

    • @Panick_Pancake
      @Panick_Pancake 6 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      qazedc3 OH MY GOODNESS THE WORDS OF TRUTH WERE SPILLED

    • @chloem6609
      @chloem6609 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      I don't know about that. There's thrill in the pursuit. If there's no struggle, there's no feeling of achievement. It's like playing with a cat. You can't give it the toy right away, you have to tease it a bit, yank it away. That's how you keep it interested. If you give the cat the toy right away it gets bored and leaves.

    • @derelektrojude5938
      @derelektrojude5938 6 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      See.... if i ask you on a date and you refuse... what else am i supposed to do?
      I personally move on! Agreeing on a date doesn't mean you're automatically saying yes to
      sex a relationship or whatever it simply states that there's mutual interest and MAYBE things work out.
      During the dating phase playing a little bit of hard to get in the sense of challenging your partner is good
      but uber artificial try-harding isn't

    • @tjeerdroukens5110
      @tjeerdroukens5110 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      The friends I have who like that are seriously not the ones you want a relationship with, they are way more disrespectful and dicks towards women... but guess women like that so good for them

    • @mr.d6275
      @mr.d6275 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      qazedc3, Take it from a guy;Desperate girls are super cute.

  • @loojeer
    @loojeer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +856

    Finally someone said it ! Don't play game people

    • @Luchingador
      @Luchingador 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      but im lvl 98 in world of warcraft :c

    • @loojeer
      @loojeer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Luchingador it's ok wow is a good game ! :D

    • @alessandro4728
      @alessandro4728 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Luchingador so the wow fever is coming back now or what? D:

    • @jblaze5194
      @jblaze5194 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +nether Dwing it really is ^_^

    • @hamzadesidragonsarwar
      @hamzadesidragonsarwar 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep since I always loathed girls who play mind games already was unfortunate enough to come across two who led me on throughout summer but I am glad that's done and over

  • @elizabethoconnor1493
    @elizabethoconnor1493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    After two weeks of talking to my new friend, I bluntly informed them "I am trying desperately not to fall in love with you." Dramatic, but I knew they deserved to know upfront. After they got over their initial shock, we made it official. Two years later and I've never regretted making the first move.

    • @toonpacha2396
      @toonpacha2396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Respect. 👊🏻 a virtual fist bump for you

    • @chevychelios4672
      @chevychelios4672 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, what a phrase!

    • @kilianfirebolt
      @kilianfirebolt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @No_Name thats not true

    • @MK-bj8pd
      @MK-bj8pd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Never even dreamed of having that much boldness, but holy hell if that hasn’t been an exact thought

    • @elizabethoconnor1493
      @elizabethoconnor1493 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MK-bj8pd Life is short, go for it! We're getting married now and I wonder what my life would be like if I hadn't had the guts to just be honest. One sentence can change your whole life.

  • @Hustlehology
    @Hustlehology 6 ปีที่แล้ว +859

    I love it when girls are direct! Makes life so much easier!

    • @brennendehexe7934
      @brennendehexe7934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Women are covert communicators in all parts of life.

    • @Jacel_Varela
      @Jacel_Varela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly

    • @kucinggarong1974
      @kucinggarong1974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen, brother!
      Amen!!!

    • @ameries147
      @ameries147 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      for real man

    • @SilverVolo
      @SilverVolo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@brennendehexe7934 that's a lot of bs you're holding, why dont you drop some

  • @Sayeth0Di0Puppeth
    @Sayeth0Di0Puppeth 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1929

    I'd think that playing hard to get also promotes this idea that "No may not actually mean no." If you act disinterested or say you're not interested, a well-adjusted person will move on... Persistence on the matter after things have been made clear shows a lack of respect.

    • @itsdaneesaur
      @itsdaneesaur 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      yup, absolutely agree!

    • @evakaye5897
      @evakaye5897 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      If all people thought like that then the human race would have been long extinct.

    • @courteneyskye5690
      @courteneyskye5690 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +

    • @BrokeGuysEntertainmentTV
      @BrokeGuysEntertainmentTV 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I approve this message

    • @andycounsell9199
      @andycounsell9199 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hab sag mir d die ganze Nacht durch e ist es r du denn heute ewig bis Gifhorn und gcbvfj. GmbH. jghhchffgcxffxfv dann ist es d das ich Typ i hab noch ein djvbvj. hfh. hg gcbvfj di b d che non y la sua wer. please can I play with a boyfriend

  • @vox3l979
    @vox3l979 7 ปีที่แล้ว +698

    Anna is like me
    except female
    and attractive
    and funny
    and likable
    and popular
    and talented
    oh

  • @The_Skrongler
    @The_Skrongler 7 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    Another problem with playing hard to get is that it drives away people kind and understanding enough to take signs of disinterest as a reason to move on and not be a pain. It also makes that trait less common leading to more people continuing to bother those who are not interested under the impression that the annoyed individual is playing hard to get.

    • @RoxieRedwood
      @RoxieRedwood 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Artsy_Judoka Your comment deserves way more votes!

    • @Skyler_Momoko
      @Skyler_Momoko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      PREACH!! Underrated comment!!

    • @endlessteatime4733
      @endlessteatime4733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Artsy_Judoka Absolutely true!

    • @breakingthemasks
      @breakingthemasks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This. 100%

  • @rahmelpervez697
    @rahmelpervez697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2446

    I love it when girls play hard to get, because that's my cue to go get someone else!!! 😂 😂 😂

    • @translator544
      @translator544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      She’s not playing hard to get...she just don’t want u

    • @RaZhOdKaaaa
      @RaZhOdKaaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@translator544 Ok incel

    • @derrik1878
      @derrik1878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@translator544 youre having a bad day

    • @translator544
      @translator544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@derrik1878 I appreciate the civilness of your response 🖒

    • @James_debusi
      @James_debusi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I dont like to play games if i domt show interest is because i am not.intereated..

  • @darkchild666100
    @darkchild666100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3241

    Anyone who plays mind games is immature and insecure

    • @Joseph3391399
      @Joseph3391399 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      totally

    • @Anonymous_Gambito
      @Anonymous_Gambito 6 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      Playing hard to get automatically makes me *not* attracted to the person.

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Or they might be insane did you consider that

    • @MultiAsdasad
      @MultiAsdasad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I think the only useful thing about playing hard to get is that girls can know if the guy is serious or not.. but they do it all the time even if they know the guy is serious about it

    • @zerishkamal279
      @zerishkamal279 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Not true I am immature and insecure but I never play mind game I just runaway all the time 😂

  • @Jobe-13
    @Jobe-13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    “Playing hard to get” is for teenagers and preteens. Honestly.

  • @fayzio5282
    @fayzio5282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    My friends always tell me to "wait for the guy to ask you out" or "don't respond too fast at his texts" or "don't be easy, make him chase you". And that's not me at all. When I like someone, I like them, I wanna go out with them, I wanna text with them, I wanna show them that I am interested. And if someone loses interest in me bc i am showing interest in them, that's even better, I don't want this kind of person by my side

    • @lonewolf3428
      @lonewolf3428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I need a girl like you 😭😭😭

    • @fayzio5282
      @fayzio5282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@lonewolf3428 She's out there I promise ❤

    • @lonewolf3428
      @lonewolf3428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@fayzio5282 it's kinda hard to find one, so I just stay humble and patient until the time comes. I make music so a few might pop up. Wish me good luck

    • @fayzio5282
      @fayzio5282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@lonewolf3428 That's all you need to do. Just be you, do you, grow. And at some point, it may be in 3 days or 3 months or even 3 years, she will come along. And you will know it's her. When it's special it feels like you are in a movie. :)
      I wish you luck with your music and with whatever you do in life. Stay home, stay healthy :)

    • @fayzio5282
      @fayzio5282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @majestic movement i don't think that it has to do with a girl's appearance .. it has to do with her character🧚‍♀️

  • @joeygibson6867
    @joeygibson6867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    “If you want him to like you, you have to be 6 feet away from him at all times”
    Well that aged like wine 😂😭😂😭

  • @enemywithbenefits
    @enemywithbenefits 7 ปีที่แล้ว +600

    God damn two years already? How long have I been subbed to this thing?

    • @theodiggers
      @theodiggers 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We're all waiting bro, we're all waiting

    • @yandaarf
      @yandaarf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      damn im gettin older

    • @Lynhenoikhe
      @Lynhenoikhe 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ikr

    • @somerandom7672
      @somerandom7672 7 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Damn that's crazy.
      Anna is manipulating time again.

  • @lavish_krish
    @lavish_krish 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1567

    Some people say.. you shouldn't have to PLAY hard to get, you should BE hard to get. Which doesn't mean walking around with ego in your head. But having standards and values that you'd want the other person to respect!

    • @cleem1100
      @cleem1100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      PREEEACH

    • @theodiggers
      @theodiggers 7 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      That's the same thing. Anyone who makes such demands of me as another human, by defining such asymmetric roles in the relationship, is clearly not worth my time. The entire point is, unless you get off on it, why take the role of prey? I hunt if I need to eat, not when I need to fuck.

    • @scarletthanswood105
      @scarletthanswood105 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes!

    • @JulianCaesaro
      @JulianCaesaro 7 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      The point is to go after someone you want, instead of playing mind games and hoping for a relationship

    • @katm7465
      @katm7465 7 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Exactly. If you live a fulfilling life you won't have to play hard to get you just will be hard to get.

  • @Maki-qw8he
    @Maki-qw8he 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Guys and girls, if someone ya like is playing hard to get. Forget about them and move on

    • @JimmyJaxJellyStax
      @JimmyJaxJellyStax ปีที่แล้ว

      They haven't matured enough for dating, and especially not for marriage

  • @elizabethstonem209
    @elizabethstonem209 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I loved that sentence “someone who wants you only because they can’t have you is always gonna looking for the best next thing” 😌

  • @SeasonSunRays
    @SeasonSunRays 7 ปีที่แล้ว +537

    i always tell someone that i like them, when i do. Just makes everything clear enough and you get what you want.....or not. and move on.

    • @antyoutube7796
      @antyoutube7796 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TuffKat certainly lol

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      And that's how it should be honesty is the best policy

    • @dannyarnold4201
      @dannyarnold4201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My kind of girl.
      😎❤️❤️

    • @anisaali6792
      @anisaali6792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤❤❤

    • @Damu1986
      @Damu1986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Wish all women had that approach 😕

  • @bradgagecomedy
    @bradgagecomedy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1416

    Wait wait wait. Who is this FLOATING HEAD GUY you've been dating for two years???

  • @hannahansley8654
    @hannahansley8654 6 ปีที่แล้ว +933

    I met a guy I really liked. We were friends for a while and I decided to just ask him out, be honest about being into him. He turned me down. I said that was cool and we went back to being friends and everything was fine.
    UNTIL I met someone else and started dating him. Then suddenly this friend of mine was into me. I'd asked him out too soon, he wasn't ready for a relationship at the time, blah blah blah. Somehow I ended up being the one who hurt him all because I was upfront and honest.
    Over a year later I'm still vaguely friends with him (there wasn't a lot of drama, just many unsaid words that can make hanging out a little awkward) and still in my relationship. Don't waste time playing games.

    • @Enigmatism415
      @Enigmatism415 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Sounds like he just wanted to plant his seeds, otherwise he'd have accepted you the first time.

    • @treacherousjslither6920
      @treacherousjslither6920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      That guy sounds problematic. I'm glad you never fell for his bullshit.

    • @codycox2685
      @codycox2685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That was a boy, not a man. My qualifications? I'm a man.

    • @whygiveup11
      @whygiveup11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hannah Ansley
      Being upfront with someone especially when they aren't ready for a relationship isn't always a good idea and that can result in them telling you no

    • @jeanchristophegatien
      @jeanchristophegatien 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@whygiveup11 Being turned down is not the issue, wasting each others time is.

  • @frugalforge3657
    @frugalforge3657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Man she was on that social distancing 3 years early

  • @charliemartin2471
    @charliemartin2471 7 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    OMG that's direct as fuck. You go guuurl! I'm not that brave (yet?)

    • @urjnlegend
      @urjnlegend 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      just remember, its the internet , why not lol. (are you judt gonna wait for a guy to come along and ask or possibly not ask you? you know, some guys are shy too)

    • @charliemartin2471
      @charliemartin2471 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No, but i usually flirt a lot before going in and being like.... BANG! I want you.... Also I find it very difficult to flirt with girls, cause like, it's really hard to know if they're actually interested haha

    • @grievingmom
      @grievingmom 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      answer will always be no unless you ask...plus maybe the person you are interested in also isn't that brave yet...then what? you both wait eternally to be brave enough to just tell someone you like them? please...don't waste another minute worrying...plus if you say it and they go no...you won't waste any more time wondering either and can get back on the prowl for the appropriate partner! go get emmmmmm

    • @gavinjenkins899
      @gavinjenkins899 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Inviting somebody to dinner is not really saying you "want" them, it doesn't have to imply anything that extreme, only the bare minimum to indicate a desire to date / romantic interest for now, pending successful dating. Maybe thinking about it that way makes it a bit easier? I don't know, I'm so jaded at this point with initial asks that I don't really remember what it was like to be super nervous about it, so might not be helpful.

  • @ryansanteful
    @ryansanteful 7 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    it would be a simpler world if every woman thinks and acts like Anna.

    • @Jrocka7x
      @Jrocka7x 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      In regard to this, at least.

    • @LEOoONELLDULCE
      @LEOoONELLDULCE 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Not just every woman but men as well

    • @ryansanteful
      @ryansanteful 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      leonell domingo Men are generally more straightforward than women. But yeah, I get what you mean.

    • @ryansanteful
      @ryansanteful 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ***** men are crazy? Yes. I would agree. But women can't be as simple as "1+1=2" unlike men are.

    • @metamancer2775
      @metamancer2775 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      or if they just thought at all

  • @AimaruVee
    @AimaruVee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    finally, I always feel conscious about being honest about my feelings. People around me always say stuffs like "you're a girl, you shouldn't confess to a guy" or "you are ruining your image as a female if you make an effort to a guy" and especially the "You shouldn't take it seriously. You're a female, you should play hard to get with the boys"
    And honestly... it's getting really annoying.
    Boys can't just do everything for you. Boy can't be the only one chasing the girls. Boys can't be the only one saying sorry all the time.
    And boys can't be the only one giving gifts to girls. Just think about it. Unfair, right?
    Well there are guys who don't like straight or direct gals cause to them, it ruins their ego as a male
    While other guys(especially the shy ones) are attracted to direct girls or if not, gets more motivated and falls for the girl more since they know they now have a high chance to be with the girl and wouldn't be so tired to the girl because she isn't hard to get.
    I used to have an MU (MU means mutual understanding. definition of two people knows they like each other but not in a relationship)
    I told him I wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend yet since my dad doesn't want to. He wants me to finish my studies 1st. 2 months have passed and I have grown tired of being in an MU relationship with him because we acted as if we are already in an actual relationship. I stopped playing hard to get, broke my dad's rules.. My old MU became my BF after that. (。・ω・。)
    just thought of sharing how I feel

    • @nfullenwider
      @nfullenwider 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Brilliantly put. And btw, thanks for "mutual understanding," a term that so excellently defines the awkward space between two people who like each other and know, but aren't dating yet. Until now I've been calling it "a situation that's not actually a situation."

    • @MrJM-zr1hk
      @MrJM-zr1hk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Don't listen to those females because I bet most of them are single and they are going to stay that way by playing hard to get!

    • @9Nikko8
      @9Nikko8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      too many times women are simply educated to be ignorant and not think for themselves

    • @DivineAtheistWannabe
      @DivineAtheistWannabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      If you like a dude who's either shy or not experienced with women, just ask them out I say.
      A guy who's experienced with women that doesn't seem to be picking up on your hints just doesnt like you probably.

    • @luisalbertomirandarosas8512
      @luisalbertomirandarosas8512 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      :')

  • @pauls4742
    @pauls4742 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Great advice - games aren't the way to create a successful relationship, honesty is.

  • @Erffyer
    @Erffyer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    Sometimes, I don't understand why Anna doesn't get more views than some other videos that obviously doesn't have content that's as well developed and edited

    • @jeriljoseph7071
      @jeriljoseph7071 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      because she used ray william johnson to get fame then left him after she was happy

    • @kyled2463
      @kyled2463 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Jeril Joseph You don't know that for a fact, so don't try to portray it as such!
      If you have a theory on something, it's fine to express it, but don't assert it as a fact.
      Anyhow, my own theory on that situation is quite a bit different than yours.
      I remember that a while back, Anna uploaded this video titled "things I wish I knew in high school", she later on deleted it at some point, but anyhow, on that video, she was visibly upset, and said something like "you're gonna fuck tons of people in your life" and I just couldn't figure out where that was coming from at that point in time, but shortly afterward, it became public knowledge that she and Ray broke up.
      So personally, I think he cheated on her.

    • @Ayveh
      @Ayveh 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Probably due to connections :/ I was surprised at first too!

    • @scarlettthestarlet2162
      @scarlettthestarlet2162 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      and her characters all hhave diff clothes

    • @MakoKitten
      @MakoKitten 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Share the videos on social media, share them with friends, share them with enemies, share them with randoms on the internet, send out links or pull out your phone and show them videos that way, like the videos that you want to see more of, subscribe to Anna, comment on the videos. If you like the content that a TH-camr is making, be an active and positive role in that TH-camr's community. I only just found her through the too many cats song because someone shared it in the 'memes' section of a Discord server I'm in. I've been on a huge streak of watching her older videos (as is evidenced by my comment on this thread) and I'm already subbed. Also, if you want to understand the algorithm better go to the GameTheorists channel, MattPat explains in depth the intricacies of the TH-cam control brains and how the algorithm works. :)

  • @itsalexclark
    @itsalexclark 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1696

    Anna. I love your videos -

    • @henryesteva3686
      @henryesteva3686 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      OMG ITSALEXCLARK!!!

    • @m3gamiind
      @m3gamiind 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      OH MY LORD #spottedbitch

    • @Gabrielle.g
      @Gabrielle.g 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg

    • @abidarashid1755
      @abidarashid1755 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hi Alex I love YOUR videos!

    • @platipuswarrior4325
      @platipuswarrior4325 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      A wild Alex Clark has been spotted love both of y’all

  • @GeneralG1810
    @GeneralG1810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +764

    These days girls aren’t playing hard to get, they’re playing hard to WANT!

    • @Prince_Oli
      @Prince_Oli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Lol exactly: try talking to that one girl you think you like. You’ll quickly realize how boring she really is. Most girls think of themselves as objects. As trophies. They LOVE looking pretty, but don’t really care that much what’s going on upstairs. They hate words because they reveal how empty headed and shallow they can be.

    • @cct306
      @cct306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      we don't want to be "wanted" by guys. these days girls are lesbian❤️

    • @zedzed4762
      @zedzed4762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@cct306 ah jumped on the bandwagon did ya!?!..forget about social media dos and donts and be yourself!!!

    • @cct306
      @cct306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Master of Reality that envy to the biology is sooo 1800's lol. Religion has fucked up your mind, shame on you.

    • @Prince_Oli
      @Prince_Oli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      C CT The world has warped your mind. Shame on you.

  • @Mystefier
    @Mystefier 7 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Wow! Totally agree! Amen and god bless! I don't go for the hard to get thing. It also motivates guys to be creepy and encouraged sexual harassment because some guys are thinking, "she's just playing hard to get".

    • @TheRedKing247
      @TheRedKing247 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      And also it's just straight up disingenuous and makes guys hang on longer than they should...

    • @brunoivan1875
      @brunoivan1875 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yes totally

    • @orianalopez2855
      @orianalopez2855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You took the words out of my mouth

    • @somberlain8987
      @somberlain8987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly, I’m fine with approaching. But if she says no. That’s the ball game and I’m moving on.

    • @Mystefier
      @Mystefier 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @lavender fields Sorry to hear you had to deal with that. That's disrespect. It's good you had a friend who defended you.

  • @majia
    @majia 7 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    "Pencil me in. I write in pen" :O hahahahahaha xD beautiful!

    • @MONO-rr4rm
      @MONO-rr4rm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      butt i didn't get it, what's that mean?

    • @yanzhao5673
      @yanzhao5673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@MONO-rr4rm if you write in pen, you cannt change it, it shows commitment

    • @MONO-rr4rm
      @MONO-rr4rm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yanzhao5673 THX!

  • @jaejoongssayang
    @jaejoongssayang 7 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    How will i ever have that confidence to say 'hey i like you'

    • @MattTonite
      @MattTonite 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It comes with age, experience, and confidence for starters.

    • @RedNightFire007
      @RedNightFire007 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I did it buddy. I mean, I'm closer now than when I was a couple months ago (I hope). anyways, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. so take it, cause you never know.

    • @MattTonite
      @MattTonite 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      RedNightFire007 absolutely. To be honest I often say that everyone's sexual personality changes or evolves every 6 months. What I mean by that is we're always going to be developing and changing - sometimes slightly sometimes significantly. But from one six-month period to another many of our.... everything (desires, fantasies, fetishes, experiences, wants, needs, whatever) changes.

    • @rachelnguyen4283
      @rachelnguyen4283 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I just say "yolo" and do it because the worse thing that could happen is you not telling them how you feel and then wondering if they did like you back later

    • @user-wy2zp7rv3u
      @user-wy2zp7rv3u 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      you don't have to say it, there's eye contact, gesture etc.

  • @jlj5487
    @jlj5487 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I made the first move on my husband! He respectfully stood back and gave me my space. We got closer and closer over 2 years of him not making any kind of move. But I could tell he liked me. So I made the move.

  • @bebelmatson
    @bebelmatson 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I TOTALLY AGREE!!! I’m going out with a guy solemnly because I walked up to him and told him I liked him. 82.3% chance of success. Seriously, go for it.

  • @Persnikity-yv3nh
    @Persnikity-yv3nh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Given how threatening unwanted advances can be for us women, I am ALL ABOUT the lady making the first move. He knows she's cool with him flirting, she doesn't get hit on by weirdos.... it would be the perfect system.

    • @JulianCaesaro
      @JulianCaesaro 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Why isn't it popular then?🤔... Would make life so much better if it was 😪

    • @Persnikity-yv3nh
      @Persnikity-yv3nh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Agreed...

    • @A_Vicious_T-Rex
      @A_Vicious_T-Rex 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      apparently girls in the uk have been known to ask guys out. maybe it's just a north american thing?

    • @hybby
      @hybby 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Given how threatened (and fucked over) a man can be if the woman perceives his advances as 'unwanted', I'm totally down for the lady making the first move. Everything is spot on, and he doesn't need to worry about getting random charges tossed his way.

    • @missylarsson3517
      @missylarsson3517 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +hybby Nobody press charges just for flirting. Worst case they call you creepy and go away.

  • @-Astraea-
    @-Astraea- 7 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    I don't like games, but I can't be direct either ahhhh D:

    • @maryhotmailde
      @maryhotmailde 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same... the struggle >.

    • @TYAC_TPE_SF-Bay
      @TYAC_TPE_SF-Bay 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Drink maximum amount of coffee/tea before you say it? (to grow that courage)

    • @DJNAS454
      @DJNAS454 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Work at your own pace. It will work out in the end as long you stay you.

    • @dragonbeast6934
      @dragonbeast6934 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Girls of course you can, set aside the guys with super buff bodies who daily pick up girls ,guys have the same problems. Girls if you think a guy could be interesting and he hasent done anything yet...just bump into him, apologize and slide your hand from the album and to his hand (or shoulder to album) and ask if you could buy him a coffe to apologize. Or something....just an idea.

    • @DJNAS454
      @DJNAS454 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      actually men are not all that simple lol. that's how i see it at least.

  • @ynthearmy6439
    @ynthearmy6439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I tend to easily get confused and clueless if someone likes me or not. Playing games would just tangle me up, so i'd leave u in the dust and find someone else worth my time.

    • @ynthearmy6439
      @ynthearmy6439 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @majestic movement im a girl lol 💀

    • @ynthearmy6439
      @ynthearmy6439 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @majestic movement dam i see you. In my side, i tend to back off when a guy gets too close to me, (not in a physical way). Boy tell me i lead people on too much and its not a good habit. bUt iM jUsT tRyN tO gUarD my lil heart

  • @haneul1271
    @haneul1271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    "personally I like to be as direct as possible"
    "I lIKe YoU"
    That's me 😂 and honestly it's always worked well

    • @Damu1986
      @Damu1986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m sure it has. That’s how I want a women to approach me too 😕

    • @JimmyJaxJellyStax
      @JimmyJaxJellyStax ปีที่แล้ว

      Deliberate, yes. First looks, then personality, then a realization.

  • @curthoptry4438
    @curthoptry4438 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I have found that girls who play games with the guys they go out with tend to need the validation that comes from the making of us "jump thru hoops". But be careful with all the games since this tends to backfire. Which reminds me of something I read on the bathroom wall at the Viper Room in my youth "Remember no matter how hot she is somewhere there's a guy who's sick of her shit".

  • @C0d0ps
    @C0d0ps 7 ปีที่แล้ว +726

    Games are for the computer not for relationships.
    #PCMasterRace

    • @dragonswordmountain2908
      @dragonswordmountain2908 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +C0d0ps "Global Thermonuclear War, analyzing all probabilities...(computer freeze) Funny, the only way to win the game is to not play at all." - War Games, movie

    • @Cutiekitti
      @Cutiekitti 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This kinda reminds me of Detroit become human

    • @daviti4611
      @daviti4611 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gamers rise up!! We are supreme Gentlemen!

    • @InvalidPersistentName
      @InvalidPersistentName 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol yes!

  • @Sal0_o
    @Sal0_o 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Direct approach is the best way. More women should be that way. At least no ones time would be wasted

  • @Jordanthecool7
    @Jordanthecool7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    At the end where you said “just throw away the games” , sums everything up pretty much perfectly . No one wants to sit through games, and these games have the potential to mess up what could have been a good relationship

  • @cmocha1
    @cmocha1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I think it's sexy for a woman to have the confidence to ask a man out. It's the age of gender equality, so why not? Go for it ladies!

  • @MrCharles26
    @MrCharles26 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    WOW a no games relationship, that sounds like fantastic thing to have!!!

    • @Sanquinity
      @Sanquinity 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Depends on what kind of games. Board games? If my best friend and his wife are a good example, they can be wonderful. :P

  • @samanthagermanotta4639
    @samanthagermanotta4639 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE how bold you are, it's so inspiring! I completely relate and when you're bold how people react to you really tells you about that person

  • @SreeKrishnaRaja
    @SreeKrishnaRaja 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The problem is its difficult to differentiate between a woman playing hard to get and a woman who’s not interested.
    So I just stop trying the very first time she acts disinterested or says openly (or if I suspect she’s uncomfortable).
    It’s better not to be a creep than to miss out on a girl who’s interested but acting hard to get.

  • @cassidymiao5835
    @cassidymiao5835 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love being upfront with people. They just don't expect it

  • @johnnywang206
    @johnnywang206 7 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    very true, if i txt or call a girl and she doesn't respond regularly, i get it, i'm not a stalker, time to move on

    • @KoeSeer
      @KoeSeer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @majestic movement "happens to me often and it's flattering a girl puts you on that pedestal"
      Teach me, sensei.

  • @Aaron-ot1xs
    @Aaron-ot1xs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The only guys you're going to get playing hard to get are the kind who can't take no for an answer. What's the colloquial term for that?

  • @stanstantalent.5605
    @stanstantalent.5605 7 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Too bad I learned this through the hard way. A guy liked me but I acted disinterested in him (even tho I liked him too), and I never answered him like I should have. we met at an internship and when it ended all contact ended too. I really regret not approaching him. *sigh*

    • @9Nikko8
      @9Nikko8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      awesome for you that you learned your lesson from this experience. many people would just blame the other person

    • @ninepuchar1
      @ninepuchar1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You are learning👍🏻,it wont just come naturally. Next time,you can also take the charge😊.

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahahahah thats funny

    • @gsiya4023
      @gsiya4023 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thay happened except I was ready to tell him genuinely and the covid happened and we graduated to college and never got to see each other and I even tried to get his number from someone and they didn't have it , I tried so much *sigh*

  • @YukianesaDrive
    @YukianesaDrive 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I just want to say, you're completely and totally right, Ana. Being honest is... usually best.

    • @Wild4lon
      @Wild4lon 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      even if you're terrified of rejection, and possibly losing someone you like?

    • @tf4ever11
      @tf4ever11 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Wild4lon stfu

    • @MightyTiger21
      @MightyTiger21 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even then :)

    • @mleeho
      @mleeho 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Wild4lon yes. Because being rejected isn't that terrible in the scope of things, you would never "what if" and someone who treats you weirdly after a situation like that isn't really someone worth keeping around. People have/had feelings. It happens. It's a part of life. Letting get that in the way of meaningful friendships or life is unnecessary.

    • @sabrinadettori9043
      @sabrinadettori9043 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Wild4lon Yes!! Becouse you don't waste your time

  • @ragingsilver
    @ragingsilver 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I prefer the more direct approach too. I ain't got time for games.

  • @beckyb6115
    @beckyb6115 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just knowing a person like you exists is a blessing. I adore your content; thank you. Friggen brilliant!

  • @CountryMusicMann
    @CountryMusicMann 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for saying all this. I never understood the "hard to get" thing either, and too many people still do it!

  • @AnnaAkana
    @AnnaAkana  7 ปีที่แล้ว +747

    The next Mac Air winner will be announced on 9/13. All you have to do to enter is be subscribed. If you're already subbed, you're automatically entered!

  • @LungsOutJem
    @LungsOutJem 7 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Anna, you are spot on.

    • @LungsOutJem
      @LungsOutJem 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Also, Cherry 2000. Lol.

  • @jackiea.7971
    @jackiea.7971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG! just found your channel within the last hour and I freaking adore you already. Love your videos!

  • @greenhawk655
    @greenhawk655 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so right on with this!! Wish more people would listen and follow suit.

  • @elbowstrike
    @elbowstrike 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Playing hard to get is a great way to filter out the multitude of the guys who respect the word "no" and wind up dating the ones that don't. It's insane.

  • @Martieeen
    @Martieeen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    last time i was this early there were no shitty comments talking about how early they are.

    • @whatislovebabydonthurtme1289
      @whatislovebabydonthurtme1289 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you literally just made a shitty joke so..

    • @Martieeen
      @Martieeen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Meg Stop that't the jo.. ugh never mind

    • @TompanTV
      @TompanTV 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      how fucking ironic :L xD

    • @maryhotmailde
      @maryhotmailde 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Meg Stop I wouldn't even count it as a joke. xD

    • @fwola
      @fwola 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      your shitty comment on shitty early comments was a shit joke

  • @shanouboubou
    @shanouboubou 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl I've been watching 3-4 videos of yours and like you're really cool ! I agree with you on so much points, and I love how you explain both sides. It's amazing

  • @angelogarcia1918
    @angelogarcia1918 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your simple direct approach makes life so well, simple. If I got a message from you. I think my heart might stop. Lucky guy that has you!

  • @linhtran9542
    @linhtran9542 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Right on Anna! I 100% agree! Besides, lasting relationships rely on trust so playing games pretty much ruins the relationship from the get go for the long term.

    • @linhtran9542
      @linhtran9542 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      And I love your glasses! Reminds me of Yankumi from Gokusen :)

  • @coolblasterb4066
    @coolblasterb4066 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "Pencil me in?"
    "I write in pen ;) "
    This is how it's done men.

  • @deepanshuthakur9370
    @deepanshuthakur9370 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're Awesome... I'm screaming with agreement when I watch your videos.
    Thank you for the wonderful advice on self love, really helping me.

  • @UntouchableRogue7852
    @UntouchableRogue7852 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your comicbook editing so much

  • @davidvondoom2853
    @davidvondoom2853 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Totally agree. Dishonesty is a bad way to start any relationship and it certainly wont maintain one. Why lie about who your are and what you want, just to win over someone who isn't compatible with you? And why give the cold shoulder to someone you like, when it might make them give up on you? Just be yourself and if it doesn't work out, then there was no chemistry and you're better off without them.

  • @olliehernandez3934
    @olliehernandez3934 7 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    "I love a man who can keep up a schedule."
    Husband goals, tbh.

  • @lusitanus6504
    @lusitanus6504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love when girls are direct. Its refreshing. I was once asked out by two girls at the same time on the subway. My mouth droped! I was interrupted by an emergency before I could take advantage of the oportunity. I was in that city temporarly and that kind of stuff happens to guys more often there than anywhere else in the country, to my knowledge. ( It was in Porto, in Portugal. I'm portuguese)I am currently saving money to move there. Women there are like from another country! Bolder, braver, warmer and more open and giving than women from where I live, plus its a bigger city, with more oportunities for my career goals.

  • @marken8832
    @marken8832 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very well said.....Great message ...strait up is the way to go... Keep on truckin 😎👍

  • @chrismoore9997
    @chrismoore9997 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good advice delivered in a very entertaining format. Great work!

  • @ben10mama
    @ben10mama 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have to say THANK YOU!!! I can't stand girls who play all these games and keep making me claw after them. Usually if it happens I just drop them. I shouldn't have to work or jump through extra hoops (Made by a potential future spouse) to date them. It's silly and just drives me away to think I'm undesired. But that is my simple view point.

  • @avery1199
    @avery1199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "If you want him to like you, you have to stay 6ft away from him at all times."
    Definitely true

  • @Des-hz1su
    @Des-hz1su 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    The scheduling bit was awesome! So steamy!

  • @volckies
    @volckies 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    i just found out about anna but she's amazing so freakin creative. i'm hooked.

  • @cierracharles8028
    @cierracharles8028 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Anna advice videos have got me threw and learn a lot of stuff while being really entertaining. 💕

  • @jonesy5121
    @jonesy5121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "Pencil me in."
    "I write in pen." That was so good 👌

  • @Kenny5867
    @Kenny5867 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your mini skits in between your videos

  • @Breezbriznost
    @Breezbriznost 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I do the same thing, when I like someone I just tell them "I like you" it's so simple, if they say no it sucks I cry blablabla but I rather that than not saying them what I feel. Or when a guy comes to me and start getting flirty I look at them and say "I have a boyfriend you know, just to be clear" haha, being direct is awkward for the other person sometimes but is the best

  • @willythemailboy2
    @willythemailboy2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Wish women that agreed with this were more common.
    Inb4 the deluge of replies saying they are. Face it ladies, you're statistical anomalies.

    • @caffeine_squirrel
      @caffeine_squirrel 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      wish men get a fucking clue that not interested means *not interested*, not 'charm me with your persistence'

    • @GabrielaCenturionNeumann
      @GabrielaCenturionNeumann 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you for the compliment, I guess? LOL! I don't believe in playing hard to get. I always knew what I wanted and what I didn't want. Most of the guys were not what I wanted. I didn't play games, I just simply didn't even give them a shot. When the man I did want appeared in my life, I let him know I wanted him in my life and wanted to be part of his. He is my husband now and I love him more and more everyday :3

    • @cantstumpthetrump5987
      @cantstumpthetrump5987 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Gabriela Centurion Neumann But no one complimented you : ^ (

    • @GabrielaCenturionNeumann
      @GabrielaCenturionNeumann 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Burn Feminists Women who agree with this are statitiscal anomalies is what the opening comment said... I will take it as a compliment :) Have a nice rest of the day!

    • @Parabler
      @Parabler 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe you think they're uncommon because a lot of women have rejected you? I'm sure most women would go on a date if they were asked by a person that they're attracted to.

  • @joshuagray1702
    @joshuagray1702 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You always cheer me up, I love all these videos. Low key just creepin. Cree pin, creo open, yeah just creepin.

  • @psychedlicsouljam1995
    @psychedlicsouljam1995 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    the giggle when she said "give your heart" was so perfect.

  • @MaggieMemoire
    @MaggieMemoire 7 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    I'm glad I played hard to get. I got a good spanking for being a bad girl

    • @kingzant99
      @kingzant99 7 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      You need Jesus

    • @jesusgarcia-rw6pd
      @jesusgarcia-rw6pd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      yes u do and i can help

    • @MaggieMemoire
      @MaggieMemoire 7 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      +jesus garcia I've always considered myself a Christian woman and can never say no to Jesus

    • @poy702
      @poy702 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

    • @saraliu4143
      @saraliu4143 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Omd 😂

  • @kuhaku9587
    @kuhaku9587 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    You are amazing. We need more girls like you.

  • @markchristopher3991
    @markchristopher3991 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how you added the ode to joy

  • @benwilkonski8635
    @benwilkonski8635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ohhhhh my god directness is DEFINITELY desired

  • @oonadoodles
    @oonadoodles 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If there weren't games then it'd be much easier for someone to understand the word "no".

  • @BalticLab
    @BalticLab 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Pro Tip: Don't play hard to get if you're already hard to want.

  • @BelleBean
    @BelleBean 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like the only thing I comment on your videos is "I love your videos" but damn it, they're just so good!!

  • @azariahbaker3046
    @azariahbaker3046 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    U r so inspiration. Never lose your bold and unique spirit

  • @crazycatladyonamoped
    @crazycatladyonamoped 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg thank you! All the "strategizing" is exhausting me! I just want to be myself 😅

    • @4gma59
      @4gma59 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No strategizing involved at all. And by all means, be yourself. But I do hope being yourself involves just setting your boundaries/standards and not allowing anyone into your life that expects you to lower them. Men will test you. Have enough self respect to kick them to the curb if they don't shape up and respect what you have already determined is right for you. THAT is ''hard to get'' -- no game playing involved. You let them know who you are; get rid of the ones who want you to compromise. Sometimes that means you're alone for awhile. It's THAT SIMPLE.

  • @TheChefComic
    @TheChefComic 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    it's a shame there's only one of her I wish all girls were like her.

    • @Damu1986
      @Damu1986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t we all 😕

  • @woblobsterbeatboxer5124
    @woblobsterbeatboxer5124 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Playing hard to get makes you easy to forget.
    Honesty and vulnerability is refreshing

  • @godsgirlkennedy6124
    @godsgirlkennedy6124 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    you’re so funny 😂😂 i love the sarcasm in your videos and you are great at editing

  • @miguelk.705
    @miguelk.705 6 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    women, u can't play hard to get anymore if you're into the guy. today men are getting charged with sexual misconduct even after having "consent". the simple fact that a woman admires u could make things not really consensual. so if a woman plays hard to get, i'll just say "ok bye" and move on instead of continue to pursue and then later be told that since she didn't immediately accepted my attempts that means it should've been obvious that she wasn't interested and therefore i harassed her. no thank u, not worth it

    • @DivineAtheistWannabe
      @DivineAtheistWannabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @ThePHiLsTeR lmao....dude, this is literally sexual harassment.
      Just imagine if you told a chick
      "well, maybe you should have just banged your boss even if you didn't want to. You gotta play it smart to keep your job"
      There would be a lynch mob coming after you.

    • @mnomadvfx
      @mnomadvfx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@DivineAtheistWannabe Actually it's sexual harassment and blackmail if they make it known your job is on the line - one is a fire able offense in the work place, the other is a straight up crime punishable by a prison sentence.

  • @wordsmae
    @wordsmae 7 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    Does anyone else feel disappointed when there are no ads at the end? 😂😅

    • @wordsmae
      @wordsmae 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      i meant her sponsored videos :) She does the ads herself

    • @davidbulko6975
      @davidbulko6975 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao

  • @kdnofyudbn5918
    @kdnofyudbn5918 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I love your content so well made, funny and I could lesson for women. Plus I think sometimes its not hard to get but shy as well. Great JOB!

  • @micccccc
    @micccccc 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I actually just discovered your channel, but I admire you already