Right, I thought he was gonna scam her bank and CC info! At this point, phones are like social security cards, in many cases phone theft can be considered identity theft! Most of us have everything needed to identify us on our phones.
Fr! When I started university a year ago I tried to make some friends in my first class and get their contact info. I handed this guy my phone to put in his info while I was chatting with a group of people and he went through my ENTIRE phone to find my socials. When I realized what happened my privacy felt so violated.
What have we learned? 1. Don't sleep with anyone on the first several dates. 2. Don't bring anyone home. 3. Keep your location on at all times and let your friends know where you are / your plans.
🤣 I slept with my now husband on our first night we met. We met at a bar. We literally did EVERYTHING incorrectly, but survived... 13+ years together, about 7 years married. There are no right and wrong rules, but I do wish I had been more mature at times. Just be careful and follow your gut. My gut said "jump this man, I promise it'll be great"... 5 HOURS of great 😍. Live and date by your morals she values, not rules from TikTok.
She was "dickmatized" is her excuse for continuing to date a man who told her he kills kids. Lord us women need to seriously de-center men and look at our own issues.😳
Right! And I can guarantee, if he was doing that he was also s--lly assaulting them too. There’s nothing cute or funny about this! She should’ve blocked him immediately. A lot of women need help desperately!
At first I thought the "dickmatized" lady was dating a bounty hunter or professional hitman since they get paid exorbitant amounts of money. I appreciate deadpan humor but there are some things you don't joke about.
After working in the industry for so many years (bars, high end restaurants, nightclubs, all of it) I don’t see any reason to get married. I’m completely traumatized at the amount of married men that have tried to get with me inside and outside of work.
@@77kc_77 Yup, same here. I had to delete my social media because I was sick of them trying to contact me. Disgusting desperate losers. Good thing I do not want kids. The worst part about it is when you try to tell their wives they gaslight you and say things like “get your own husband!”
@@TheEmpress0000the reason men say it’s not all men, it’s because they have a million different flavours of bs. They may not all do one specific thing but they are all horrible in one way or another😂😂
@kinkscurlsbwespiritual much further than that sis. Thousands of years of BS, starting from the _moment_ we stopped being nomadic and moved into sedentary lifestyles. That is where inequality started, as well as the subjugation of women, and we have just been calling it all these different names (imperialism, colonialism, capitalism, w/e) when it is literally just the SAME DAMN THING
Agreed, there’s something wrong with them, I think women should stay away from them completely for the time being until things change- they’re out of control, unhinged and losing it
@@jenbodhi1133no women should stay away from men forever because this is who they are- they will never change or be capable of love- best off healing and focus on yourself
Most horror movies are extremely predictalble and boring in my opinion. It was cool as a young Teen on a sleepovwr with friends but noone I know who is older than 20 still watches horror movies. And why watch horror movies because the World is bad? Doesn't make sense. A healthy Balance would be to watch something about a perfect World where nothing bad happens.
There are lesser degrees of crazy types too. Mental illness is common and many of these men have been lonely for a long, long time. The combination encourages crazy behavior. I would not believe it either if I hadn't experienced my fair share in the last few years.
There was a movie called "Contracted", which is literally the story at 5:47. Major difference is she becomes a zombie. I watched it years ago and thought, "That's crazy! Whoever wrote this is so creative to have IMAGINED this." When the plot to horror movies become commonplace, irl, dating situations, it's time for me to take my ball and go home.
I've been alone for a long time (fem) and I'm fine, as have male members of my family. Mental illness isn't caused by celibacy. If anything we're clearer. Don't let them lie. @@Liz-wz8dh
Back in the day men used to try and impress a woman, we were the prizes fast forward to now they expect and want us to impress them. They are sassy and I don’t enjoy male company anymore. The literal only thing i Dislike about being single is people pitying me and refusing to believe I’m happy and content alone, because they themselves are codependent.
I find them extremely boring too, they aren’t thoughtful, they don’t read or have any interesting thoughts, they aren’t intuitive, they aren’t engaging or funny - I can talk to my female friends for hours laughing and having a wonderful time- having a conversation with men is dull, draining, boring and often just the sheer stupidity is shocking
Same, they just aren’t pleasant. The only time you will ever see a man smiling is if he just did something gross, stupid, seggs or racist. They just aren’t pleasant to be around and I try to limit interactions between them and I as much as I can.
I really barely talk to males already. At this point I'm going to start watching passport bro videos to see what they hate so I can be all of those things. Omg. Ew
Many men and women get comfortable and feel safe after they talk to their dates for a bit. However it's never safe! It's best to not go to the other person's dwelling at all. Also best to let people know where you are. I used to have 2 friends I would give my location to back in the day. You just never know.
About a year ago, a Korean man and I went out a few times. The first outing, he insisted I come to his Loft and he’d cook for me. My intuition was uneasy so I switched it to a public park. Second date, we met at an ice cream shop, he paid and insisted I go back Home w/ him (as if my Temple is only worth two scoops of Cookies & Crème 😅). I didn’t and he ghosted me. 🙌🏾💃🏾 Something tells me I wouldn’t be Alive to type this now if I’d been very desperate and/or didn’t have any Boundaries 💯😮💨
I had a date once with a man from Match. Omg! We met at the restaurant. He dominated the conversation. The waitress tried to take our order three separate times, but he kept shoeing her away because he wasn’t finished talking to me. Finally, finally on the fourth time we were able to order. But during all of this talking, he’s telling me that he’s from FL but Indiana, where I live, was “babysitting” his probation bc his girlfriend broke up with him. He followed her and her new man to the bar, waited for them to leave, beat them, kidnapped them, took them to woods and made them dig holes and then just left them there. Then he told me if I hit him, he’d hit me back. And tried to follow me home. I never spoke to him again after that. But really I have plenty more horror stories. It’s so sad how they are. So many of them are just selfish, evil and soulless. They destroy everyone and everything they touch. I just don’t understand it. I never will.
Girl, I’m glad you’re okay but seriously, next time, the minute you get bad vibes or start hearing twisted shi* like this, make an excuse, leave immediately!!
I'm so sorry to hear that! I'm sorry if it sounds extreme, but at this point in the game, I think women need to naturally select these genes right out of existence. A lot of crazy I know/seen came from long lines of crazy, and their kids end up crazy too. Sad as it sounds, some are only here due to modern society/technology and wouldn't have made it in the natural world. And NO, I am not talking about ppl w/disabilities, as long as a person has good character, they're fine. But some of these other ones... the stories I hear about what is being done to women and children, nah. They gotta go.
I stopped online dating a few years ago. Every date I had, they turned out to be liars. How do you lie about your name??? Your job? Where you live? What you do for work? Just psycho.
Yes or they want sex immediately wtf - I just avoid dating now been left dating alone 13 years ago and gave up finding someone because what I want I may never find it - rare mate
Online dating is DANGEROUS: - NEVER put your address in his phone, if you need to for whatever reason give an address 1 block (or more)from where you actually live. - Coffee dates are IMPORTANT. It's not about being cheap, it's about getting close enough to know if you'd actually keep communicating. - NEVER give them your social media handles, it's literally the perfect way to get a stalker.
Yes I had a stalker guy wouldn't move on - ended up moving and blocked him 4 times he found me on a dating profile for lesbians. What's crazy about this is I actually knew the guy, and we went to school together, but he's a lonely desperate guy. He had the nerve to ask me if I moved and where. I didn't disclose my location and he thinks I'm one place when I'm somewhere else which means he went to my old location to see if I were there
Wow, they're disturbing our peace after life too (assuming he was only with dead women)? 😮 My cousin went into a coma before she died. Someone told me this might be likely in her state. 😢 Not comforting at all! These people live among us.
I wonder if she thought he was joking and just had some kind of bizarre sense of humor. She only seemed to get disturbed the more she thought about it and wondered why anyone would make that statement at all, even as a joke. Maybe there's cognitive dissonance seeing an attractive, successful man who seems to have his life together and hearing he murders anyone at all, let alone hunts and kills kids. No one has confessed anything so wild as that, but men have made red flag statements that didn't register as such in those moments. There was a guy I chatted with online occasionally for months out of pity because he seemed lonely (I had no romantic interest but was a codependent who was trying to help him improve socially so he could meet and date women). I realized years after I quit talking to him that I think he may have basically told me he SA a child. He told me in various conversations that only one person had been attracted to him, but she "was too young to do anything" so "it hurt her too much" so that he always "had to stop." The conversations about her were very dispersed, so it wasn't until thinking back that I put them all together and wished I'd asked questions then or sent his image to local police so they could ask questions. I think it's because I was a virgin and always assumed it would hurt the first time, but looking back it's the "too young" that keeps standing out. It still disturbs me. If it's what I think, I hope she got justice. If the person doesn't seem bad overall, sometimes your mind doesn't process what you really heard or saw. It's hard to explain it. But if I ever wanted to date guys again, I would have to keep track of everything they said early in the meeting stages and analyze it carefully later, because men always tell us exactly who they are.
@@ds37215i totally understand what you are saying about the cognitive dissonance bit! One of my coworkers was the most charming / sweet guy and for 3 months it was all good. Then one day he joked about killing animals when he was a kid, I thought he was joking and dismissed it. We exchanged numbers… omg he had a huge dark side to him. Still dismissed it. Then one day at work I just saw him from afar and got a feeling of terror in my stomach like never before. I was on holiday the next week and that day I just went home, deleted his number and I was laying in my bed in fetal position with shacking terrors for 2 whole days. I was SO confused and drained and sad because I cognitively liked him and we got along great, but his dark side and stares felt terrifying. After that episode i told him that his dark side was “Too much too soon for me” and he just pretty much silently disengaged from me and we then both left to different jobs. That was that… thankfully.
She was beyond annoying, I couldn’t even listen to her for the whole story. Something is DEFINITELY wrong with her too! 😒😑 It’s a sick, sick world out here. She was only impressed because he appeared wealthy. 🤢🥴 No morals!!
@@theladynextdoor313 Exactly!! She was ready to marry the man simply because he had nice cars and an expensive looking condo/house! You could hear the excitement in her voice when she mentioned his possessions. She was so enamored with his wealth that she completely ignored/blocked out the red flags he was practically waiving in her face. To be fair though, homegirl is a walking red flag herself, so maybe that's why she wasn't phased by how he makes money🤷🏽♀️
Same. Lol. You just have to weed through so many crazies to get to someone semi normal nowadays. I feel like years ago when I started dating it wasn't this bad. It's only getting worse.
Reading through Reddit threads helps too, when I start feeling lonely I read posts from women about their husbands and boyfriends and I thank god again that I’m single and live alone
I dated someone for 7months who told me he was single & no children, when his girlfriend from the Philippines contacts me & informs me that he is married & has 2 other girlfriends and 3 children one with each. One child being raised by the girlfriend, one being raised by his wife & the 3rd being raised by his mother in Vegas. Absolutely disgusting lying to people to get them in bed with you. To many bad experiences with men has made me distrustful & scared of men
NOTE TO SELF: 1. his WIFE is NOT dead ~ unless he UN-alived her 2. He is LYING about being legally (officially) divorced. Dont do separated either or wife can sue you' for real
@margodphd I was subpoened into a DEPOSITION by wife's divorce lawyer bc he LIED sbout being divorced. Donu want to be dragged into that? GOOGLE IT. Check State records to verify. They lie about EVERYTHING.
I went on a date with a Nigerian guy. At the end of the date he proposed to Me……because he needs to get married to get a green card. “Please marry me so I don’t get deported!”🙀🤪
I met a man off the internet that had just been released from prison (which he didn’t disclose to me) when we began talking. We decided to go on a date and this man had no money, no car, and had the audacity to ask me at the end of the date if I would pee for his upcoming drug test. 😂 needless to say, he got NOTHING from me but the block button once I got away.
That alleged ‘kid deleter’…girl, I’m calling law enforcement, feds, etc. and dropping nickles, quarters & dimes! They need to be watching that creep. Straight to jail! Scary
I can't believe people are still doing the one-night-stand thing. It honestly seems incredibly dangerous to expose yourself that way these days, especially if you are a woman.
I don't think she continued to date him. He kinda stalked her and found out where she would be at. She just didn't report him cos... Did u even watch her bit??!
She has no sense of self preservation. I met a really cute army pilot at the Drs office. The convo was flowing we clicked. He asked me out later. And I said yes. As we were talking I asked him what is one thing he really wanted to do. He deadpan told me cut a humans head off. I went to the bathroom & left even forgot I was sick. No mam just no.
I just watched your vid on men deliberately baby trapping women. It all makes sense!!! I wondered why a man who has no intentions of sticking around for his kids keep on having kids. There is a reason behind their madness! Thank you!
Same,I have been single and celibate for 2 years, I recently decided to casually go out on a date with someone I liked, we dated for 2 weeks and this man turned into a complete nightmare and was causing so many problems- in just two weeks. I am done with them too
Yes very similar to me. The one I met recently had no emotions at all, and was stingy with money. Won't lower my values for anyone. Staying single, and I'm done with dating. Good for you too. Stay safe ❤❤
*somebody's daughter talking about her dating horror story* Me: "Y'all still dating men. . .? 😐" At this point I really do feel sorry for women who are still dead set on "finding love" and having that Disney princess romantic relationship, or on having kids, and fitting the status quo, etc. I really feel lucky in that I've never wanted marriage or children, because dealing with men no longer feels like an obligation or a necessity. Outside of dealing with them in the workplace and basic human civility, I literally don't go out of my way to interact with them. The potential benefits no longer outweigh the risks. I don't need their money, their community dick or their worthless attention. It's not even worth it trying to find the "good guys" that are out there, for every 20 genuinely good guys there's about 80 depraved heathens that you have to fight past first and I'd rather just be by myself. 😜
I think we should call it like it is, its very delusional to to thinks "finding love" is going to be different for you, when statistically you would end up in the same nonsense as everyone else. One way or the other, it can either be abuse, DV, single motherhood, cheating and side pieces and other baby mamas, financial struggles, poor boundaries with mothers, minimum effort with house chores, etc
As soon as I’d seen the overnight bag I would’ve started asking questions. Like let’s find out what’s in there now so we can end the date and not waste time.
I had a friend do this to me. She kept offering to babysit my kids so I could have some "me time". I knew her for years and our kids were friends so one day I finally took her up on her offer. We agreed her and her daughter would sleep over. When I picked her up she had a huge suitcase and a bag. I was like ma'am where are you going? She slept over, I went out, next morning she's trying to convince me her and her daughter should stay a few more days. No ma'am we agreed to a sleep over not a move in. Sad part is if she needed help all she had to do was ask but I don't like the way she tried to sneak into my house. AITAH 🤔
He brought an overnight bag to a first date...? Im depleted y'all. Edit: paused to make that comment. Just made it to the STD story... Apparently there's levels to depletion. 😩
I was on the same boat but it was the cannibalism that got me 💀 WYM she thought it was delicious vegetarian food like how though??? Is it actually that hard to tell the difference or has the vegan food she’s eaten before been just *that* bad? 😭 No way girl got Hannibal Lector-ed she’s genuinely so lucky to even be alive to tell that story like WTF
@@Queen_EL11 You get same poisoning from rotten flesh no matter the origin. Doctors in hospitals don't run very specialised DNA tests on contents of patients poop unless there's very specific reason for it and the story didn't mention them having suspicions. DNA testing especially from proteins mixed with stomach contents, digested by enzymes and denaturated by stomach acid takes WEEKS when rushed,in important criminal investigation so even if we generously assume for some reason they had suspicion she ate human flesh in vegan meal (like you can't tell there's meat..), they wouldn't be able to tell her right away. Human flesh in of itself would not have caused food poisoning.
I went out on a "date" with a man about two years ago. I go to his house to watch a movie, no big deal. He gets himself something to drink, doesn't offer me anything (rude, if you are the one inviting other people over), and falls asleep in the chair while the movie was playing. He gets upset that i didn't let him hug me (I was offended at his poor behavior), and told him goodnight. Not as crazy as some if these but it hits home nonetheless.
I used to be a sucker but if anyone ever told me they killed kids that woulda been immediately reported. I never was that desperate. This the problem, we ain't protecting the kids. We turn a blind eye even when it's in our faces. That's what's truly disgusting
I can't decide what's worse, being fed human meat or passed a bacteria inside your body from a corpse. I'm sickened and shuddering at the thought of both
Sis, please make more of these because I am here for it! It's way too wild out here in these streets oh my GOODNESS 😮 Also, ladies please be careful and don't let these strangers in your house, I'm stressing out just listening to these stories.
Saw an interview with Sharon Stone about how she has given up on dating because of the insincerity and games. I’m with her. Unless the right man comes to my door, it is the single life for me. Proud of it.
The part about the engineer having roommates. I just experienced this, he brags about his new house and always post his brand new Mercedes benz on social media. After 5 years I finally decided to go on a date with him . Something told me to pop up to his house to get a vibe before going through with it bc he wanted to pick me up. I went to this new house of his and guess what, this man rented out his 5 bedroom house to air bnb and sleeps in the basement (a whole engineer) he stated once he gets married he will move into a house with his wife ( he’s 37 years old). I said were is your car? He said it’s out of state 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he can get a rental or use my car to go on the date. I said nope! Another time we can go on a date ( which will be never). So that means if I give him time to pick me up, he was going to get a rental, pretend it’s his and I would have never known. He also stated he rented the basement area to a travel nurse and she has a private entrance (nope that was a lie) she and other folks were walking through the house while we were in the livingroom, no privacy 🤣🤣🤣.
@@omphilemoerane2569 girl yes, dusty, cheap Nigerian dude. He was like “why can’t we use your car?” I said nope! He asked for a hug I was like “hell no” in my head.
I date a man for months before even consider a relationship and they never come to my house. Last guy took that as a challenge. Found my address and started stalking me. Then told me he knew where I lived and had been driving by. Then he was answered that I wasn't scared. He then started coming by and knocking on my door.
Always ask someone “is there anyone who might think they are in a relationship with you” If you hear the “well…..” You know there might be a sneaky link(s) etc that he might try to not include if you ask him just simply “do you have a girlfriend” etc Obviously not fool proof 😢
Spoke with a guy for 5 months to 6. Then one day he sends me a phone screenshot. I see a woman in chats. Ask him He says no big deal just friend. Slowly moved out of that. He accepts just two weeks later that girl is his gf. 😂methinks she was always there i just didn't know 😂😂😂. I am dum😊
The weird lady speaking about her date that kill children, and she laugh it off. She still went out with him. Really show how Women today has major low self esteem and desperate for a man. These are some wild stories from dead bodies to human meat. This is a confirmation why I see it a blessing being single. Dating and dating apps has change, years ago you take chances. I have met people off dating apps I had serious relationships with. I met my ex husband off a dating app. Times has change,people are weird and creepy . Please stay safe everyone
I have a similar story, to what one of the girls said. My sisters coworker is friends with a women, who met a guy on tinder, who she went on a date with (public area). They look for a quite place in the corner of a cafe and it was all okay first. He kissed her but then she got this weird gut feeling and he starts to pressure her to go to his apartment. All is going too fast for her and this strange feeling becomes stronger. She refused to go with him. He tried to convince her two more times but she left, making sure he wasn't following The next day, she feels something on the lips and thought that guy gave her herpes. Herpes doesn't appear so fast so she was confused.. It was burning and red. So she immediately went to the doctor, they did some tests because it was literally attacking her skin. The doctor came back looking at her and said: "You said you met somebody and kissed him ? You better call the police right now.... What you have on the lips is not a rash, it is a flesh eating bacteria found on dead people" Turns out the guy killed a women hid her in his closet and left her there to do all sorts of things with her. The girls lips still have the scar today.
I saw a meme the other day that said, “if you smile every time you see a text from them, delete them immediately”. Haha it’s sad that it’s so so relatable 😅
The men you are meeting irl and introduced by your friends are also on dating apps, at least, in dating apps you're already ready for the shadiness. I chat with a lot of men online who i never end up meeting irl, give them attention and they will tell a lot. Especially on how many women they had slept within last year and the last one was introduced by mutual friends and they got along and bonked but she wanted a relationship and he wanted too but she was clingy and that's unhealthy. This man is going on dates with workmates, women introduced by mutual friends and family while active in at least 3 dating apps and few other online foruns. He has an active social life and the lasf 10 women he bonked he met in friends hangouts. He said it's more difficult to get laid on apps because the connection isn't authentic and it's more difficult to set a date, much better go out in the wild with alcohol and charisma.
The girl talking about the man who said he killed people did the right thing acting like nothing was wrong. When you find yourself in that kind of situation always act in the other person's fantasy, don't make them think they are in the wrong or they might feel attacked, pretend it's a normal conversation and then make an anonymous report
A friend of a friend was dating this nice guy for a couple of weeks, then she stayed over at his flat. She woke up in the middle of the night, he was not next to her, she went to look for him and saw that he was taping his whole kitchen with huge plastic sheets, basically creating a plastic room. She left quietly without being noticed. 🤯 stay safe ladies!
That woman who's too scared to tell the police that some guy told her he kills children but not too scared to do a storytime about him sucks. If he's telling the truth he's a risk to children. Call the police.
How does getting off of the apps keep you from meeting lying men? The better advice is ask questions to ANYONE you meet and feel comfortable doing it...why stop asking questions after hearing his wife died? She should've continued to ask when and how like she wondered... She made it easier for him to lie. Also, don't be so quick to go to the place of a man you just met, or have him in your place. And I find video chatting before dates helps you find out more about the person too, esp when they're at home. Don't be so open to eating and especially drinking what they give you. Plus, sleeping with ppl all willy nilly and unprotected is well known to put you at risk of STDs (that story was 🤢) - if you want to be sexually liberated, be safe and not so hard up for it
This one guy I was talking to said he had one son. You can never be too sure nowadays so I did some research and to my non surprise. He actually had 7 kids and was married. Immediately stopped talking to him.
At this point I've already promised myself to never date or have kids but that story about the meat 👀👀 scares me so much especially since I just had a downstairs neighbor try to trick me into a date (he asked to hang out. Have food and watch a movie not have a date (only reason i found out it was a date is cuz he told my sister when they crossed paths at the trash the day of )) and he was gonna make food for me. Never eating out again no thank you
I wouldn't pass anything with men at this point, I don't trust them , I don't want them cooking for me, I avoid men. I'm convinced women who still want men are in delusional land
It's just ragebait, men can be gross and disgusting and it's wise to be cautious but you can't tell after the fact that one ate human meat from type of poisoning. You would need a sample of the tissue and do protein and DNA sequencing.
My bestie told me about this guy who she had been really hung up over at the time. The guy was a narcissist but she did really know that. They had just finished sleeping together for the first time, he proclaimed his love but said he couldn't have her in his bed after they were done, so asked her to sleep in the dog's bed.
Sounds like what that guy did on Singles Inferno S3E4... he played a guessing game with his date, and she lost. He said since she lost, she had to sleep on the ottoman "at his feet"....at the foot of his bed...I thought it was a joke, but she did it.
I had a worst one that wasn’t as much dangerous as uncomfortable. I was, I think, 17 and a male friend of mine asked me out. He wanted to go to a baseball game. He shows up to pick me up and his hyper religious mom is driving. I was crammed into the backseat next to his little sister and subjected to kid’s Bible songs and then at the game his mother stalked us to make sure “we didn’t sin.” Never went on another date with him
Right because black women are as obsessed with telling white women were not oppressed as men are lmao Deborah Cooper knows white men are better but still ain't sht
5:35 So, you had a casual hookup with someone you didn’t know and slept with him on the first date and are surprised at what happened? Men are gross and creepy, but maybe if you took more than 5 minutes to get to know them before opening your body to them, you’d be able to catch some of the red flags. I’ll reserve my sympathy for those who have reasons to trust their partner and are simply betrayed. When you choose to jump into bed with a stranger, you take the risk of all of the unknowns that come along with opening your body up to that stranger.
This is why I don’t have sex with them - I wait them out to see that they’re really like. I’ve been celibate for 2 years, I recently started casually dating someone and didn’t have sex with him- at first everything was great, I really liked him- but within two weeks he showed his true colours and did something really cruel to me. Still glad I never had sex with him and waited him out to see what he’s actually like as a person, most of them can’t hide it forever- if I have sex with them my judgement becomes clouded. If no sex, I can think clearly without emotions attached and just watch them
@@ayemad Give me a break with this already! She is responsible for opening herself up to someone without requiring literally ANYTHING of him or building some semblance of trust and a general foundation of knowledge. Why is it so hard for people to expect everyone to be responsible for their actions? He is responsible for his depraved behavior. She is responsible for her IRRESPONSIBLE behavior. You just like keeping women as victims, don't you? I guess your mantra is: "What is this world coming to when we can't sleep with complete strangers without a basic sense of trust?" If you gave a complete stranger a key to your home and they robbed you, would we be wrong for telling you that you made a bad choice in giving a key to your home to a stranger? Do you realize this is not the same thing as saying that the stranger is not responsible for their actions? It is simply saying you would not have been in that position necessarily had you not made a poor and reckless decision, and maybe we will reserve our outrage for someone who took all common sense precautions to protect their home and were violated in spite of them.
@@jenbodhi1133 THANK YOU! This is what I am saying. People cannot hide who they are forever. Taking the time to get to know people allows you to catch a lot of these creepy sides to people that eventually start to show in some way. Of course, not everything can be caught, but many things can and you will have avoided unnecessarily exposing yourself to harm. I don’t know why some people continue to call this “victim blaming” as opposed to encouraging everyone to be smart and take responsibility for themselves and their bodies, but some people just can’t be reached. 🤷🏾♀️
When was an exchange student I was to afraid to go meeting guys. I thought I was going to get kidnapped. I was even afraid to go out to party, cus I was afraid someone would lace my drink. I would definitely not go home with a complete stranger. You never know what people are capable of. I know maybe I was a bit too paranoid but I rather be safe.
I’ve encountered a few men who said that they are single dads and their significant other has passed away or something. Anyway, I’ve never met them in person b/c I’m just very suspicious and I’m glad that I’m not the only one hesitant to believe some of these crazy stories. Like one who preceded to tell me he trades stocks and works too much to ever talk on the phone, but send text out of the blue. And some who just ghost out of the blue for no explanation. I just thought something was wrong with me when I started saying things like trying to date and find someone is draining and I just don’t have the energy to waste that kind of time anymore.
No way imma be in someone's house under 6 months. We need multiple dates. And I mean multiple. I only do public spaces. This is the number one reason I ghost people because they ALWAYS talking about they wanna Netflix n chill or cuddle or some sketchy SHIT. I hate modern dating.
A man made a date to meet him from a dating app just to trick me in order to steal my phone! Needless to say, he disappeared with my phone after asking to borrow it to make a call. He left the restaurant with it the moment my back waas turned.
I'm at 7:18 and had to comment that I've heard the dinner and bacteria stories 20+ years ago, before dating apps. They are urban legends. Not saying these things couldn't happen, but just that you know. Stay safe❤
Agreed. Especially the human meat one. I know what Healthcare looks like in the us, and no ER is doing any kind of test like that just for someone who's vomiting.
When I heard all of these 'friend of a friend of a friend' I thought the same thing. Now you mention it, I realized I heard the bacteria one wayyyy back too 👵🏼 Still good to use discernment indd With both stories & people, women & men
@@HighMaintenanceMinimalist The fact that funeral homes openly state they are reluctant to hire men rather puts a truthful spin on the "sex with dead bodies" story
The woman at 12 minutes continued to hang out because trauma bonding. As in, if she bailed it might have made him on edge. Whether he was being truthful or not is irrelevant, that’s why she reacted like that .
Still need more reasons to set up the bar for you relationships above Mount Everest? And not trust dating apps? This happened to ME! I was on tinder and met a very cute dude, really liked him, but he was younger. I was 21 and he had in his profile 19. We matched and went on a date, he looked young, but had a mustache and all, was well built and all, taller than me, etc. Date went great, we hooked up, everything is okay until he says that his mom is coming to pick him up and I was, like, okay. Then he said 'yeah, she is worried cause I told her you are older' and I said 'Yeah, but only two years' and he went full on 'Oh, right! I forgot to tell you that! I'm not 19, I'm actually 17. I will be 18 in a few months, you can Totally come to my party' and just... I just stared at him, internally screaming. Like, I really thought I would go to jail. Needless to say, deleted tinder right after that.
@@missede96 I think my point is 'dont have sex or Trust people you don't know' 'cause like, I was lied to. But yeah, can't understand why so many people have unsafe sex - no protection and no knowledge of their partners
@@Childfree334 There is a difference, with dating apps it’s almost guaranteed that something bad will happen. Even if you’re 18 and gorgeous. In real life you know exactly where to go, how to look and what to say to get a date.
@@Childfree334 I think its Just more unsafe to meet people online, especially when you are underage. Like, you are talking to 22-yo Lily from an online game in your phone, but in reality Lily 67-yo Joe whose actual intentions are to Lock you up in his basement. If you met in real life, Joe would be Joe and you probably wouldnt even Go near him
The "consumed human meat" and "sleeping with a corpse" stories are urban legends. I've been hearing both of those stories for at least 20 years, with little details changed here and there. What doctor/hospital is going to test for human meat consumption simply bc the patient has been vomiting profusely? How would they even test the meat if she didn't bring any with her? **Also, the chick that went on at least 3 more dates with the man that said he "murders children for a living" is a walking red flag herself. There's no other way to excuse or justify her continuing to see that man after what he said. She was so attracted to his wealth that she was willing to ignore all the red flags he was practically waiving in her face🤦🏽♀️
That third story with the blonde woman I'd heard before in college as an urban legend, so either there's multiple ppl catching corpse STI's from dating app hookups, or that story never happened lol.
Idk why I clicked this. My mom's stories she told me, on her awful dates, past fiancée, her ex husband and current husband (my dad), already convinced me to stay single way before this. I'm gonna watch it anyways
What I would think would be common sense is don't sleep with him on the first date!!! I would wait 6 months or more cause you figure out quick what's he's made out of.
LADIES! Please STOP giving men your phones!!!! There’s no reason for a stranger to have your phone in his possession! NONE!
I Agree
Right, I thought he was gonna scam her bank and CC info! At this point, phones are like social security cards, in many cases phone theft can be considered identity theft! Most of us have everything needed to identify us on our phones.
Fr! When I started university a year ago I tried to make some friends in my first class and get their contact info. I handed this guy my phone to put in his info while I was chatting with a group of people and he went through my ENTIRE phone to find my socials. When I realized what happened my privacy felt so violated.
boundary violation yeah @@georgebeckons539
@@georgebeckons539 can't trust anybody 🤦🏾♀️
What have we learned?
1. Don't sleep with anyone on the first several dates.
2. Don't bring anyone home.
3. Keep your location on at all times and let your friends know where you are / your plans.
Amen! Yes!! 💯
Say it again for those in the back
4. don't date
🤣 I slept with my now husband on our first night we met. We met at a bar. We literally did EVERYTHING incorrectly, but survived... 13+ years together, about 7 years married. There are no right and wrong rules, but I do wish I had been more mature at times. Just be careful and follow your gut. My gut said "jump this man, I promise it'll be great"... 5 HOURS of great 😍. Live and date by your morals she values, not rules from TikTok.
@@absolutelyridiculous6743 Wait 5 more years and lets see how great its still going ✨️✨️
She was "dickmatized" is her excuse for continuing to date a man who told her he kills kids. Lord us women need to seriously de-center men and look at our own issues.😳
Right! And I can guarantee, if he was doing that he was also s--lly assaulting them too. There’s nothing cute or funny about this! She should’ve blocked him immediately. A lot of women need help desperately!
I was like wtf??? She is smiling while telling this story…she’s not normal
Right? Like I’m soo confused by her story. Girl if you don’t go to the police.
At first I thought the "dickmatized" lady was dating a bounty hunter or professional hitman since they get paid exorbitant amounts of money. I appreciate deadpan humor but there are some things you don't joke about.
She pissed me off and seem very off herself so I skipped past her stupid story
After working in the industry for so many years (bars, high end restaurants, nightclubs, all of it) I don’t see any reason to get married. I’m completely traumatized at the amount of married men that have tried to get with me inside and outside of work.
I lost the desire for marriage when I had married men in my DM while single
@@77kc_77 Yup, same here. I had to delete my social media because I was sick of them trying to contact me. Disgusting desperate losers. Good thing I do not want kids. The worst part about it is when you try to tell their wives they gaslight you and say things like “get your own husband!”
Yet all men are not like this but 90% of them are 😂 same thing.
@@TheEmpress0000the reason men say it’s not all men, it’s because they have a million different flavours of bs. They may not all do one specific thing but they are all horrible in one way or another😂😂
My married neighbour was actively courting me- while his wife and kids were at home right there
The man who joked about killing children and her excuse of dickmitized was truly bizarre.
Indeed😳
The need for attention is high. Smh
I think she was also tempted by his money, but just cause he’s rich doesn’t mean that he will share
I don’t think he was joking, sis. A lot of these wealthy folks are psychopaths
@@shadowbanned6358& satanists
I don't need stories to convince me that men are terrible, i experience my own horror stories.
Men do this themselves and then blame women.
Yes this validates how I feel
True. To be fair though, some women do crazy shit as well. You really have to vet people these days carefully.
Exactly, I’ve learned everything they say is projection
@Liz-wz8dh The history of men is nothing compared to women this shyt goes back to the 18th century with men
@kinkscurlsbwespiritual much further than that sis. Thousands of years of BS, starting from the _moment_ we stopped being nomadic and moved into sedentary lifestyles. That is where inequality started, as well as the subjugation of women, and we have just been calling it all these different names (imperialism, colonialism, capitalism, w/e) when it is literally just the SAME DAMN THING
“Don’t let him cook for you” STAY AWAY FROM THEM COMPLETELY
Agreed, there’s something wrong with them, I think women should stay away from them completely for the time being until things change- they’re out of control, unhinged and losing it
@@jenbodhi1133no women should stay away from men forever because this is who they are- they will never change or be capable of love- best off healing and focus on yourself
Agreed. At the very least, don't go to a strangers house on the second date.
@@jenbodhi1133agreed
@@jenbodhi1133 100% agree
People always ask me why I love horror movies so much. Because NOTHING CAN POSSIBLY BE SCARIER than real life. Give me ghosts & monsters over MEN.
😂😂💯💯😫
ANY DAY!!
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✨️✨️👹👹👹🧟♂️🧌🧙🏾♀️🦹🏿♀️👽✨️✨️
Most horror movies are extremely predictalble and boring in my opinion. It was cool as a young Teen on a sleepovwr with friends but noone I know who is older than 20 still watches horror movies.
And why watch horror movies because the World is bad? Doesn't make sense.
A healthy Balance would be to watch something about a perfect World where nothing bad happens.
@@CordeliaWagner1999 I used to love horror until I read and watched men's shenanigans. Now Barbie movies and cartoons it is, thank you 😂
I only read horror now because that seems more realistic than the romance novels lol
I absolutely HATE how these dates range from the man is unapologetically broke or the man is psychopath that you’d only see in Netflix originals
There are lesser degrees of crazy types too. Mental illness is common and many of these men have been lonely for a long, long time. The combination encourages crazy behavior. I would not believe it either if I hadn't experienced my fair share in the last few years.
l say Just stay away from them. Take yourself where you want to go
@holographicwing I couldn't agree more. They want claps. I am not gonna build up your self steam over to mine.
There was a movie called "Contracted", which is literally the story at 5:47. Major difference is she becomes a zombie. I watched it years ago and thought, "That's crazy! Whoever wrote this is so creative to have IMAGINED this."
When the plot to horror movies become commonplace, irl, dating situations, it's time for me to take my ball and go home.
I've been alone for a long time (fem) and I'm fine, as have male members of my family. Mental illness isn't caused by celibacy. If anything we're clearer. Don't let them lie. @@Liz-wz8dh
Back in the day men used to try and impress a woman, we were the prizes fast forward to now they expect and want us to impress them. They are sassy and I don’t enjoy male company anymore. The literal only thing i
Dislike about being single is people pitying me and refusing to believe I’m happy and content alone, because they themselves are codependent.
This- I hate talking to them as it's pointless to engage with them
I find them extremely boring too, they aren’t thoughtful, they don’t read or have any interesting thoughts, they aren’t intuitive, they aren’t engaging or funny - I can talk to my female friends for hours laughing and having a wonderful time- having a conversation with men is dull, draining, boring and often just the sheer stupidity is shocking
That’s very interesting. I’ve never had people do that. In fact. Most people expect women to be single where I am. But then again I’m in the city so 😂
💯💯🙌🏽🔥
Same, they just aren’t pleasant. The only time you will ever see a man smiling is if he just did something gross, stupid, seggs or racist. They just aren’t pleasant to be around and I try to limit interactions between them and I as much as I can.
Hinge, where you go to meet the unhinged 😂😂
I've had great dates on there. Idk what happened lol
@@Luckimee Are you sure? Were all of these first dates? Did any of them marry you?
@@missede96You do know many people just want to date for fun right? Marriage is not the goal.
Lol I met a guy on there that was closeted. He kept going on about being anti-gay but had been to PRISON
Psychopaths are on hinge
This is why funeral homes stopped hiring men.
Insane dogs
Yes, I have seen many docs and stories about men having sex with corpses, and they were married. Disgusting. Imagine that being your relative.
How morbid disgusting
Yep🤦🏾♀️ Totally disgusting 🤢
In which country?
I really barely talk to males already. At this point I'm going to start watching passport bro videos to see what they hate so I can be all of those things. Omg. Ew
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😂
😂😂😂 great point, I am about to do the same 😂😂
Girl you are my soulmate
Me too! So far I’ve learned that they hate dark skin, lots of makeup, entitlement, weaves and women that don’t work.
How do yall go to ppl’s house who you do not know?!!! It’s so unsafe!!
This!
Many men and women get comfortable and feel safe after they talk to their dates for a bit. However it's never safe! It's best to not go to the other person's dwelling at all. Also best to let people know where you are. I used to have 2 friends I would give my location to back in the day. You just never know.
@@JukuduBWhy is telling friends more important than telling the parents?
About a year ago, a Korean man and I went out a few times. The first outing, he insisted I come to his Loft and he’d cook for me. My intuition was uneasy so I switched it to a public park. Second date, we met at an ice cream shop, he paid and insisted I go back Home w/ him (as if my Temple is only worth two scoops of Cookies & Crème 😅). I didn’t and he ghosted me. 🙌🏾💃🏾 Something tells me I wouldn’t be Alive to type this now if I’d been very desperate and/or didn’t have any Boundaries 💯😮💨
koreans think BW are easy
the cook for her strategy is pushed by PUA to force a fake sense of intimacy
@seabreeze4559 what is pua
@@helixxia9320
Pick-up "artists".
pick up artist @@helixxia9320
I had a date once with a man from Match. Omg! We met at the restaurant. He dominated the conversation. The waitress tried to take our order three separate times, but he kept shoeing her away because he wasn’t finished talking to me. Finally, finally on the fourth time we were able to order. But during all of this talking, he’s telling me that he’s from FL but Indiana, where I live, was “babysitting” his probation bc his girlfriend broke up with him. He followed her and her new man to the bar, waited for them to leave, beat them, kidnapped them, took them to woods and made them dig holes and then just left them there. Then he told me if I hit him, he’d hit me back. And tried to follow me home. I never spoke to him again after that. But really I have plenty more horror stories. It’s so sad how they are. So many of them are just selfish, evil and soulless. They destroy everyone and everything they touch. I just don’t understand it. I never will.
During a date, he told him this story? 😩
Sis I had to reread this 3 times wtf.. something is wrong with men mentally
Fuck dating apps
Girl, I’m glad you’re okay but seriously, next time, the minute you get bad vibes or start hearing twisted shi* like this, make an excuse, leave immediately!!
I'm so sorry to hear that! I'm sorry if it sounds extreme, but at this point in the game, I think women need to naturally select these genes right out of existence. A lot of crazy I know/seen came from long lines of crazy, and their kids end up crazy too. Sad as it sounds, some are only here due to modern society/technology and wouldn't have made it in the natural world.
And NO, I am not talking about ppl w/disabilities, as long as a person has good character, they're fine. But some of these other ones... the stories I hear about what is being done to women and children, nah. They gotta go.
I stopped online dating a few years ago. Every date I had, they turned out to be liars. How do you lie about your name??? Your job? Where you live? What you do for work? Just psycho.
All men do is lie - yet women continue to trust them
This 💯
Same! It’s horrible
Yes or they want sex immediately wtf - I just avoid dating now been left dating alone 13 years ago and gave up finding someone because what I want I may never find it - rare mate
I haven't online dated in 10 years
Online dating is DANGEROUS:
- NEVER put your address in his phone, if you need to for whatever reason give an address 1 block (or more)from where you actually live.
- Coffee dates are IMPORTANT. It's not about being cheap, it's about getting close enough to know if you'd actually keep communicating.
- NEVER give them your social media handles, it's literally the perfect way to get a stalker.
Yes I had a stalker guy wouldn't move on - ended up moving and blocked him 4 times he found me on a dating profile for lesbians. What's crazy about this is I actually knew the guy, and we went to school together, but he's a lonely desperate guy. He had the nerve to ask me if I moved and where. I didn't disclose my location and he thinks I'm one place when I'm somewhere else which means he went to my old location to see if I were there
wild to me how a lot of women are letting men in their homes or going to men's homes.
@teascobie6557 idk why scary stuff even being around men is dangerous
It's demonic out there 😭😭
😅😅😅😅
Exactly 💯😳
Facts 💯
I’m saying!! 😳
Well said 😢
The necrophiliac story had me repeating “OH, NO!!!” in utter disgust and terror! 😖
That story was TRAUMATIZING.
I can't...
Wow, they're disturbing our peace after life too (assuming he was only with dead women)? 😮
My cousin went into a coma before she died.
Someone told me this might be likely in her state. 😢 Not comforting at all!
These people live among us.
I was expecting beastiality 😮
This is the comment I was looking for...utterly fckn disgusting and horrid. I cannot even imagine the horror and anxiety that woman experienced 😮😮😮😊
To the lady who dated a child-killer. Ummmmmm, WHY are you laughing?!?! And WHY did you continue to date him?!?! HOLY CRAP?!?!
I wonder if she thought he was joking and just had some kind of bizarre sense of humor. She only seemed to get disturbed the more she thought about it and wondered why anyone would make that statement at all, even as a joke. Maybe there's cognitive dissonance seeing an attractive, successful man who seems to have his life together and hearing he murders anyone at all, let alone hunts and kills kids.
No one has confessed anything so wild as that, but men have made red flag statements that didn't register as such in those moments.
There was a guy I chatted with online occasionally for months out of pity because he seemed lonely (I had no romantic interest but was a codependent who was trying to help him improve socially so he could meet and date women).
I realized years after I quit talking to him that I think he may have basically told me he SA a child. He told me in various conversations that only one person had been attracted to him, but she "was too young to do anything" so "it hurt her too much" so that he always "had to stop." The conversations about her were very dispersed, so it wasn't until thinking back that I put them all together and wished I'd asked questions then or sent his image to local police so they could ask questions. I think it's because I was a virgin and always assumed it would hurt the first time, but looking back it's the "too young" that keeps standing out. It still disturbs me. If it's what I think, I hope she got justice. If the person doesn't seem bad overall, sometimes your mind doesn't process what you really heard or saw. It's hard to explain it. But if I ever wanted to date guys again, I would have to keep track of everything they said early in the meeting stages and analyze it carefully later, because men always tell us exactly who they are.
@@ds37215i totally understand what you are saying about the cognitive dissonance bit! One of my coworkers was the most charming / sweet guy and for 3 months it was all good. Then one day he joked about killing animals when he was a kid, I thought he was joking and dismissed it. We exchanged numbers… omg he had a huge dark side to him. Still dismissed it. Then one day at work I just saw him from afar and got a feeling of terror in my stomach like never before. I was on holiday the next week and that day I just went home, deleted his number and I was laying in my bed in fetal position with shacking terrors for 2 whole days. I was SO confused and drained and sad because I cognitively liked him and we got along great, but his dark side and stares felt terrifying.
After that episode i told him that his dark side was “Too much too soon for me” and he just pretty much silently disengaged from me and we then both left to different jobs. That was that… thankfully.
@@ds37215 Men's jokes are never jokes.
She was beyond annoying, I couldn’t even listen to her for the whole story. Something is DEFINITELY wrong with her too! 😒😑 It’s a sick, sick world out here. She was only impressed because he appeared wealthy. 🤢🥴 No morals!!
@@theladynextdoor313 Exactly!! She was ready to marry the man simply because he had nice cars and an expensive looking condo/house! You could hear the excitement in her voice when she mentioned his possessions. She was so enamored with his wealth that she completely ignored/blocked out the red flags he was practically waiving in her face. To be fair though, homegirl is a walking red flag herself, so maybe that's why she wasn't phased by how he makes money🤷🏽♀️
Every time I get the itch to date again I see these videos and realize why I’m right to not to🤷♀️
SAME
Same. Lol. You just have to weed through so many crazies to get to someone semi normal nowadays. I feel like years ago when I started dating it wasn't this bad. It's only getting worse.
Reading through Reddit threads helps too, when I start feeling lonely I read posts from women about their husbands and boyfriends and I thank god again that I’m single and live alone
@@Liz-wz8dhsame, this is a complete nightmare, dating years ago actually used to be fun
@@jenbodhi1133Did you read the one about how the husband impregnated the 17 year old daughter ? Don't know if it's true
I dated someone for 7months who told me he was single & no children, when his girlfriend from the Philippines contacts me & informs me that he is married & has 2 other girlfriends and 3 children one with each. One child being raised by the girlfriend, one being raised by his wife & the 3rd being raised by his mother in Vegas. Absolutely disgusting lying to people to get them in bed with you. To many bad experiences with men has made me distrustful & scared of men
Would you say emotional manipulation is a form of SA
He was a pimp it seems like
Wait a God damn minute. Who the hell goes to the dog park after a guy tells them they unalive children?????
I am floooooored!!!!!
But hey, she was ok with him being bi-s*xual so there’s that! 😂
Who the hell asks about flaws after sex?🤔 girl pack up and go smh
And didn't call the police.
Exactlyyyyy shid she just as crazy as him for sticking around…I def was looking at her weird as she was telling the story
Yall better stop going over to men's homes when you don't even know him that well. That isn't dating, that's called mating.
NOTE TO SELF:
1. his WIFE is NOT dead ~ unless he UN-alived her
2. He is LYING about being legally (officially) divorced. Dont do separated either or wife can sue you' for real
That's good advice but no, the wife can't sue you for dating separated man.
@@margodphdI wish, though!
@margodphd I was subpoened into a DEPOSITION by wife's divorce lawyer bc he LIED sbout being divorced. Donu want to be dragged into that? GOOGLE IT. Check State records to verify. They lie about EVERYTHING.
@margodphd Please hear me 🙏 - THEY LIE ABOUT BEING SEPATAED & DIVORCED. She will try to prove to judge u seeing him during their marriage
Yep! If a man says he is "separated", tell him that you arent interested because 9 times out of 10, they are LYING.
That woman with the children k*ller story should’ve kept that to herself. 🥴
Or hid herself..
Actually she should have told the police not social media 🙄
Agreed. She is a walking red flag herself!!! A big annoyance of a red flag.
I wasn’t sure I wanted to date after taking a 3 year break. Now I think never again. Traumatized
XY's are disgusting
Same I avoid dating
I went on a date with a Nigerian guy. At the end of the date he proposed to
Me……because he needs to get married to get a green card. “Please marry me so I don’t get deported!”🙀🤪
What😂
I met a man off the internet that had just been released from prison (which he didn’t disclose to me) when we began talking. We decided to go on a date and this man had no money, no car, and had the audacity to ask me at the end of the date if I would pee for his upcoming drug test. 😂 needless to say, he got NOTHING from me but the block button once I got away.
That alleged ‘kid deleter’…girl, I’m calling law enforcement, feds, etc. and dropping nickles, quarters & dimes! They need to be watching that creep. Straight to jail! Scary
If you are going to take men seriously or have them for intimacy just to see what happens, have them wear protection?
Yes! It's dangerous having unprotected sex these days
I wouldn't even risk having sex with them - too dangeeous most of them sleep around with escorts and prostitutes heavily brag about it
I can't believe people are still doing the one-night-stand thing. It honestly seems incredibly dangerous to expose yourself that way these days, especially if you are a woman.
@@user-uq9oi9jh1b It is. with all the STD's and these new ones out here are brutal. Have You seen that Blu Waffle BS? Its insane😳🤦🏾♀️
The corpse bacteria and child murderer stories scared me
Guy says he kills kids and she continues to date him ?? Ok she’s faking that story or she’s weird af about getting with men that have money.
She is an entire red flag as well
Maybe she thought he was an abortion doctor
I don't think she continued to date him. He kinda stalked her and found out where she would be at. She just didn't report him cos... Did u even watch her bit??!
If she didn't report it does that count her as an accessory??? Oh boy
She has no sense of self preservation. I met a really cute army pilot at the Drs office. The convo was flowing we clicked. He asked me out later. And I said yes. As we were talking I asked him what is one thing he really wanted to do. He deadpan told me cut a humans head off.
I went to the bathroom & left even forgot I was sick. No mam just no.
We just gonna roll over that cannibalism story....
It's fake, fortunately.
@@margodphd Thank goodness.
No 👎 it's crazy some of these women are crazy in the videos
I had to pause the video
There's no way it's real, way higher authorities would be involved and they WOULD find that man. The lie is not even plausible
I just watched your vid on men deliberately baby trapping women. It all makes sense!!! I wondered why a man who has no intentions of sticking around for his kids keep on having kids. There is a reason behind their madness! Thank you!
r-selection strategy in biology
Just barely survived another really bad date. Im staying single and thats all, im done with men seriously ❤❤❤
I been done with them
Same,I have been single and celibate for 2 years, I recently decided to casually go out on a date with someone I liked, we dated for 2 weeks and this man turned into a complete nightmare and was causing so many problems- in just two weeks.
I am done with them too
Yes very similar to me. The one I met recently had no emotions at all, and was stingy with money. Won't lower my values for anyone. Staying single, and I'm done with dating. Good for you too. Stay safe ❤❤
@candygirl1990 you too sis be safe 🙌❤️💯
@@jenbodhi1133 Yall be safe ❤️💯
A lady goes on a date with a stranger and has unprotected sex with him that same night... What could possibly go wrong?!! 😂
Maaaaan!
Not only was intimate with him, but did it without protection. Do women have no sense of self-preservation? 🤔
@@Childfree334literally!!!! Like girls is you are going to have seggs atleast wrap it up to a complete stranger.
These women are disgusting too and have 0 self respect! It's shameful! They should know better
I'm so surprised smh. These women are disgusting too and have 0 self respect! It's shameful! They should know better
*somebody's daughter talking about her dating horror story*
Me: "Y'all still dating men. . .? 😐"
At this point I really do feel sorry for women who are still dead set on "finding love" and having that Disney princess romantic relationship, or on having kids, and fitting the status quo, etc. I really feel lucky in that I've never wanted marriage or children, because dealing with men no longer feels like an obligation or a necessity. Outside of dealing with them in the workplace and basic human civility, I literally don't go out of my way to interact with them. The potential benefits no longer outweigh the risks. I don't need their money, their community dick or their worthless attention.
It's not even worth it trying to find the "good guys" that are out there, for every 20 genuinely good guys there's about 80 depraved heathens that you have to fight past first and I'd rather just be by myself. 😜
Amen 😊
"Community Dick" gorl! 😂
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I think we should call it like it is, its very delusional to to thinks "finding love" is going to be different for you, when statistically you would end up in the same nonsense as everyone else. One way or the other, it can either be abuse, DV, single motherhood, cheating and side pieces and other baby mamas, financial struggles, poor boundaries with mothers, minimum effort with house chores, etc
The only problem is society who keeps viewing single women as defective...like wtf I'm perfect i lack nothing you, men are the problem
As soon as I’d seen the overnight bag I would’ve started asking questions. Like let’s find out what’s in there now so we can end the date and not waste time.
I had a friend do this to me. She kept offering to babysit my kids so I could have some "me time". I knew her for years and our kids were friends so one day I finally took her up on her offer. We agreed her and her daughter would sleep over. When I picked her up she had a huge suitcase and a bag. I was like ma'am where are you going? She slept over, I went out, next morning she's trying to convince me her and her daughter should stay a few more days. No ma'am we agreed to a sleep over not a move in. Sad part is if she needed help all she had to do was ask but I don't like the way she tried to sneak into my house. AITAH 🤔
coercion but non-sexual @@nonya8193
@nonya8193 did she fight with you when you told her no, she couldn't stay longer?
They’re out here stealing used shoes?!! 😂 💀
I don't trust men - simple
Same, none of them
Same.
@@jenbodhi1133❤
@@Luckimee❤
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Lawd, ladies yall too free, too fast! One date and you are already at his house😳
He brought an overnight bag to a first date...? Im depleted y'all.
Edit: paused to make that comment. Just made it to the STD story... Apparently there's levels to depletion. 😩
I was on the same boat but it was the cannibalism that got me 💀 WYM she thought it was delicious vegetarian food like how though??? Is it actually that hard to tell the difference or has the vegan food she’s eaten before been just *that* bad? 😭 No way girl got Hannibal Lector-ed she’s genuinely so lucky to even be alive to tell that story like WTF
@@healgothit's fake, doctors can't tell if someone ate human meat or animal meat, even if it's spoiled.
@@margodphd you can’t be serious. 🧐
@@margodphd They absolutely CAN tell the difference between human and animal flesh with dna lab testing. Where were you educated? 😕
@@Queen_EL11 You get same poisoning from rotten flesh no matter the origin. Doctors in hospitals don't run very specialised DNA tests on contents of patients poop unless there's very specific reason for it and the story didn't mention them having suspicions. DNA testing especially from proteins mixed with stomach contents, digested by enzymes and denaturated by stomach acid takes WEEKS when rushed,in important criminal investigation so even if we generously assume for some reason they had suspicion she ate human flesh in vegan meal (like you can't tell there's meat..), they wouldn't be able to tell her right away. Human flesh in of itself would not have caused food poisoning.
I went out on a "date" with a man about two years ago. I go to his house to watch a movie, no big deal. He gets himself something to drink, doesn't offer me anything (rude, if you are the one inviting other people over), and falls asleep in the chair while the movie was playing. He gets upset that i didn't let him hug me (I was offended at his poor behavior), and told him goodnight. Not as crazy as some if these but it hits home nonetheless.
Wtf
@@77kc_77 Til this day, I still don't know why I stayed for the movie. I should've just walked away.
@@opticalraven1935 It’s okay honey, you did well. Sometimes it doesn’t strike immediately but you pulled through. Great job. 👏
The fact that you went to his house for a first date...are you INSANE?
I used to be a sucker but if anyone ever told me they killed kids that woulda been immediately reported. I never was that desperate. This the problem, we ain't protecting the kids. We turn a blind eye even when it's in our faces. That's what's truly disgusting
I can't decide what's worse, being fed human meat or passed a bacteria inside your body from a corpse. I'm sickened and shuddering at the thought of both
All I see are reasons not to randomly sleep with people.
Sis, please make more of these because I am here for it! It's way too wild out here in these streets oh my GOODNESS 😮 Also, ladies please be careful and don't let these strangers in your house, I'm stressing out just listening to these stories.
Yes and especially if you have children why are you risking yourself around them in the first place ?
More to come!
@@Priscilla_BoyeAwesome ! 😊
Women take too long to fukin leave
Saw an interview with Sharon Stone about how she has given up on dating because of the insincerity and games. I’m with her. Unless the right man comes to my door, it is the single life for me. Proud of it.
No I'm officially done with men all together they need to be on a seperate island
The part about the engineer having roommates. I just experienced this, he brags about his new house and always post his brand new Mercedes benz on social media. After 5 years I finally decided to go on a date with him . Something told me to pop up to his house to get a vibe before going through with it bc he wanted to pick me up. I went to this new house of his and guess what, this man rented out his 5 bedroom house to air bnb and sleeps in the basement (a whole engineer) he stated once he gets married he will move into a house with his wife ( he’s 37 years old). I said were is your car? He said it’s out of state 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he can get a rental or use my car to go on the date. I said nope! Another time we can go on a date ( which will be never). So that means if I give him time to pick me up, he was going to get a rental, pretend it’s his and I would have never known. He also stated he rented the basement area to a travel nurse and she has a private entrance (nope that was a lie) she and other folks were walking through the house while we were in the livingroom, no privacy 🤣🤣🤣.
I was done at "or use my car to go on the date" 😂😂😂
@@omphilemoerane2569 girl yes, dusty, cheap Nigerian dude. He was like “why can’t we use your car?” I said nope! He asked for a hug I was like “hell no” in my head.
I date a man for months before even consider a relationship and they never come to my house. Last guy took that as a challenge. Found my address and started stalking me. Then told me he knew where I lived and had been driving by. Then he was answered that I wasn't scared. He then started coming by and knocking on my door.
Im sorry that happened to you - hope he’s out of your life now
Tf!!!!
Common theme meeting men on apps and having one night stands seems to guarantee you’ll run into a crazy.
Always ask someone “is there anyone who might think they are in a relationship with you”
If you hear the “well…..”
You know there might be a sneaky link(s) etc that he might try to not include if you ask him just simply “do you have a girlfriend” etc
Obviously not fool proof 😢
Spoke with a guy for 5 months to 6. Then one day he sends me a phone screenshot. I see a woman in chats. Ask him
He says no big deal just friend. Slowly moved out of that. He accepts just two weeks later that girl is his gf. 😂methinks she was always there i just didn't know 😂😂😂. I am dum😊
Why are the girls sleeping with their dates on the first date? What happened to getting to know the person?
Baffles me 😂how do y'all do that? How do y'all sleep with them after the first date? You practically don't know this person,at all.😭
just like you have loose men, you have loose women.
Some women possibly just want to have a sexual release without anything more.
The weird lady speaking about her date that kill children, and she laugh it off. She still went out with him. Really show how Women today has major low self esteem and desperate for a man.
These are some wild stories from dead bodies to human meat. This is a confirmation why I see it a blessing being single.
Dating and dating apps has change, years ago you take chances. I have met people off dating apps I had serious relationships with. I met my ex husband off a dating app.
Times has change,people are weird and creepy . Please stay safe everyone
I laughed so hard when you said “…it’s giving me Jeffrey Dahmer”
2:28 WHAT THE ACTUAL FU*K?????!!!!!!!
Oh my god. That wasn't a bad date, it's straight up from a criminal minds episode. Poor woman.😱😱😱😱😱
I have a similar story, to what one of the girls said.
My sisters coworker is friends with a women, who met a guy on tinder, who she went on a date with (public area). They look for a quite place in the corner of a cafe and it was all okay first. He kissed her but then she got this weird gut feeling and he starts to pressure her to go to his apartment. All is going too fast for her and this strange feeling becomes stronger. She refused to go with him. He tried to convince her two more times but she left, making sure he wasn't following The next day, she feels something on the lips and thought that guy gave her herpes. Herpes doesn't appear so fast so she was confused.. It was burning and red. So she immediately went to the doctor, they did some tests because it was literally attacking her skin. The doctor came back looking at her and said: "You said you met somebody and kissed him ? You better call the police right now.... What you have on the lips is not a rash, it is a flesh eating bacteria found on dead people" Turns out the guy killed a women hid her in his closet and left her there to do all sorts of things with her.
The girls lips still have the scar today.
😳🤮
Jesus Christ!
I saw a meme the other day that said, “if you smile every time you see a text from them, delete them immediately”. Haha it’s sad that it’s so so relatable 😅
Moral of the story stay off dating sites
You think you are any safer meeting men the old fashioned way? 😂😂
The men you are meeting irl and introduced by your friends are also on dating apps, at least, in dating apps you're already ready for the shadiness.
I chat with a lot of men online who i never end up meeting irl, give them attention and they will tell a lot. Especially on how many women they had slept within last year and the last one was introduced by mutual friends and they got along and bonked but she wanted a relationship and he wanted too but she was clingy and that's unhealthy. This man is going on dates with workmates, women introduced by mutual friends and family while active in at least 3 dating apps and few other online foruns. He has an active social life and the lasf 10 women he bonked he met in friends hangouts. He said it's more difficult to get laid on apps because the connection isn't authentic and it's more difficult to set a date, much better go out in the wild with alcohol and charisma.
The crazies are everywhere!
Men are crazy regardless stay single it's safer
The girl talking about the man who said he killed people did the right thing acting like nothing was wrong. When you find yourself in that kind of situation always act in the other person's fantasy, don't make them think they are in the wrong or they might feel attacked, pretend it's a normal conversation and then make an anonymous report
The guy who brought the overnight bag to the date, lmao.
Wicked
The biggest Red Flag. The XY's have NO shame
A friend of a friend was dating this nice guy for a couple of weeks, then she stayed over at his flat. She woke up in the middle of the night, he was not next to her, she went to look for him and saw that he was taping his whole kitchen with huge plastic sheets, basically creating a plastic room. She left quietly without being noticed. 🤯 stay safe ladies!
Whoa😮
NEW FEAR UNLOCKED
Men scare me
😂😂😂
what do you bring to the table? MY MORTALITY
When males ask me that stupid question I leave. That's a demonic question at it's core
Just say "nothing" and blink at them
Just say "nothing" and blink at them
😂😂😂 i love this. I burst out laughing at your comment. Its so true
I say nothing something is wrong with them
That woman who's too scared to tell the police that some guy told her he kills children but not too scared to do a storytime about him sucks. If he's telling the truth he's a risk to children. Call the police.
She’s most likely lying
He slept with her and telling her stories to let go
As a person that works in a morgue…….yeah…..I felt that was coming.
How does getting off of the apps keep you from meeting lying men? The better advice is ask questions to ANYONE you meet and feel comfortable doing it...why stop asking questions after hearing his wife died? She should've continued to ask when and how like she wondered... She made it easier for him to lie.
Also, don't be so quick to go to the place of a man you just met, or have him in your place. And I find video chatting before dates helps you find out more about the person too, esp when they're at home. Don't be so open to eating and especially drinking what they give you. Plus, sleeping with ppl all willy nilly and unprotected is well known to put you at risk of STDs (that story was 🤢) - if you want to be sexually liberated, be safe and not so hard up for it
All this 💯
''ITS GIVING JEFFREY DAHMER'' 🤣
This one guy I was talking to said he had one son. You can never be too sure nowadays so I did some research and to my non surprise. He actually had 7 kids and was married. Immediately stopped talking to him.
Background checks should be automatic on dating apps
At this point I've already promised myself to never date or have kids but that story about the meat 👀👀 scares me so much especially since I just had a downstairs neighbor try to trick me into a date (he asked to hang out. Have food and watch a movie not have a date (only reason i found out it was a date is cuz he told my sister when they crossed paths at the trash the day of )) and he was gonna make food for me. Never eating out again no thank you
I wouldn't pass anything with men at this point, I don't trust them , I don't want them cooking for me, I avoid men. I'm convinced women who still want men are in delusional land
It's just ragebait, men can be gross and disgusting and it's wise to be cautious but you can't tell after the fact that one ate human meat from type of poisoning. You would need a sample of the tissue and do protein and DNA sequencing.
What's the difference between a date and hanging out?
@@maryanne7161 why do you want to hang out with them ? Most of them hate you
@@maryanne7161 No difference
My bestie told me about this guy who she had been really hung up over at the time. The guy was a narcissist but she did really know that. They had just finished sleeping together for the first time, he proclaimed his love but said he couldn't have her in his bed after they were done, so asked her to sleep in the dog's bed.
I hope she just left his house and never spoke to him again
Sounds like what that guy did on Singles Inferno S3E4... he played a guessing game with his date, and she lost. He said since she lost, she had to sleep on the ottoman "at his feet"....at the foot of his bed...I thought it was a joke, but she did it.
I had a worst one that wasn’t as much dangerous as uncomfortable.
I was, I think, 17 and a male friend of mine asked me out. He wanted to go to a baseball game. He shows up to pick me up and his hyper religious mom is driving. I was crammed into the backseat next to his little sister and subjected to kid’s Bible songs and then at the game his mother stalked us to make sure “we didn’t sin.” Never went on another date with him
I think that was the safest date ever 😂
Happily single and happy to stay that way.
Agreed!
A guy and a girl met on Christian Mingle, their first date was at church. He killed her the next day. 🙃
Wow 😮... even church men are dangerous
There is a book called "Church: where women go to pray and men go to prey"
@@truthseeker3967That's actually a book by Deborrah Cooper. The correct title is "The BLACK Church: Where Women Pray🙏🏽 and Men Prey."
@@Childfree334I used to watch her TH-cam videos all the time! I didn't know she had a book. I just saved it to my Amazon list. 👍🏽
Right because black women are as obsessed with telling white women were not oppressed as men are lmao Deborah Cooper knows white men are better but still ain't sht
5:35 So, you had a casual hookup with someone you didn’t know and slept with him on the first date and are surprised at what happened? Men are gross and creepy, but maybe if you took more than 5 minutes to get to know them before opening your body to them, you’d be able to catch some of the red flags. I’ll reserve my sympathy for those who have reasons to trust their partner and are simply betrayed. When you choose to jump into bed with a stranger, you take the risk of all of the unknowns that come along with opening your body up to that stranger.
This is why I don’t have sex with them - I wait them out to see that they’re really like.
I’ve been celibate for 2 years, I recently started casually dating someone and didn’t have sex with him- at first everything was great, I really liked him- but within two weeks he showed his true colours and did something really cruel to me.
Still glad I never had sex with him and waited him out to see what he’s actually like as a person, most of them can’t hide it forever- if I have sex with them my judgement becomes clouded.
If no sex, I can think clearly without emotions attached and just watch them
Somehow managed to blame the woman. Well done
@@ayemad Give me a break with this already! She is responsible for opening herself up to someone without requiring literally ANYTHING of him or building some semblance of trust and a general foundation of knowledge. Why is it so hard for people to expect everyone to be responsible for their actions? He is responsible for his depraved behavior. She is responsible for her IRRESPONSIBLE behavior. You just like keeping women as victims, don't you?
I guess your mantra is: "What is this world coming to when we can't sleep with complete strangers without a basic sense of trust?"
If you gave a complete stranger a key to your home and they robbed you, would we be wrong for telling you that you made a bad choice in giving a key to your home to a stranger? Do you realize this is not the same thing as saying that the stranger is not responsible for their actions? It is simply saying you would not have been in that position necessarily had you not made a poor and reckless decision, and maybe we will reserve our outrage for someone who took all common sense precautions to protect their home and were violated in spite of them.
@@jenbodhi1133 THANK YOU! This is what I am saying. People cannot hide who they are forever. Taking the time to get to know people allows you to catch a lot of these creepy sides to people that eventually start to show in some way. Of course, not everything can be caught, but many things can and you will have avoided unnecessarily exposing yourself to harm. I don’t know why some people continue to call this “victim blaming” as opposed to encouraging everyone to be smart and take responsibility for themselves and their bodies, but some people just can’t be reached. 🤷🏾♀️
@@winter_s_44 I agree, people get mad at me for saying it too, but it’s the truth, a cold hard truth yes, but the truth is often unpleasant
These stories are hilarious😂😂😂May God protect and guide us to the right people. Stay humble work on your mental health and have boundaries. 💛💛💛❤️❤️❤️
When was an exchange student I was to afraid to go meeting guys. I thought I was going to get kidnapped. I was even afraid to go out to party, cus I was afraid someone would lace my drink. I would definitely not go home with a complete stranger. You never know what people are capable of. I know maybe I was a bit too paranoid but I rather be safe.
Why are these women going to a manos place on the 2nd date, or having him in their homes so early in the gametos. Ladies please be more careful
Lying about # of kids has happened to me twice in my life. Turned out both men had 5 kids but told me in the beginning that they had 1 and 3.
were any of them from maryland or dc? lol smh
I’ve encountered a few men who said that they are single dads and their significant other has passed away or something. Anyway, I’ve never met them in person b/c I’m just very suspicious and I’m glad that I’m not the only one hesitant to believe some of these crazy stories. Like one who preceded to tell me he trades stocks and works too much to ever talk on the phone, but send text out of the blue. And some who just ghost out of the blue for no explanation. I just thought something was wrong with me when I started saying things like trying to date and find someone is draining and I just don’t have the energy to waste that kind of time anymore.
All girls need to hear these stories before dating for their SAFETY.
No way imma be in someone's house under 6 months. We need multiple dates. And I mean multiple. I only do public spaces. This is the number one reason I ghost people because they ALWAYS talking about they wanna Netflix n chill or cuddle or some sketchy SHIT. I hate modern dating.
A man made a date to meet him from a dating app just to trick me in order to steal my phone! Needless to say, he disappeared with my phone after asking to borrow it to make a call. He left the restaurant with it the moment my back waas turned.
I'm at 7:18 and had to comment that I've heard the dinner and bacteria stories 20+ years ago, before dating apps. They are urban legends. Not saying these things couldn't happen, but just that you know. Stay safe❤
Agreed. Especially the human meat one. I know what Healthcare looks like in the us, and no ER is doing any kind of test like that just for someone who's vomiting.
When I heard all of these 'friend of a friend of a friend' I thought the same thing. Now you mention it, I realized I heard the bacteria one wayyyy back too 👵🏼
Still good to use discernment indd
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Most of these stories sound entirely too fake to be true.
@@HighMaintenanceMinimalist The fact that funeral homes openly state they are reluctant to hire men rather puts a truthful spin on the "sex with dead bodies" story
One thing to keep in mind listening to this is that sometimes women sleep with men because of past trauma/poor boundaries.
5:48 is an urban legend. I heard that story in thousand different variations.
The woman at 12 minutes continued to hang out because trauma bonding. As in, if she bailed it might have made him on edge. Whether he was being truthful or not is irrelevant, that’s why she reacted like that .
Oh puh-leeeze: she HUNG AROUND AND WENT BACK FOR MORE. Just stupid and greedy, that's all.
Still need more reasons to set up the bar for you relationships above Mount Everest? And not trust dating apps?
This happened to ME! I was on tinder and met a very cute dude, really liked him, but he was younger. I was 21 and he had in his profile 19. We matched and went on a date, he looked young, but had a mustache and all, was well built and all, taller than me, etc. Date went great, we hooked up, everything is okay until he says that his mom is coming to pick him up and I was, like, okay. Then he said 'yeah, she is worried cause I told her you are older' and I said 'Yeah, but only two years' and he went full on 'Oh, right! I forgot to tell you that! I'm not 19, I'm actually 17. I will be 18 in a few months, you can Totally come to my party' and just... I just stared at him, internally screaming. Like, I really thought I would go to jail. Needless to say, deleted tinder right after that.
That’s why you don’t have sex for fun, you could’ve got a charge for that.
@@missede96 I think my point is 'dont have sex or Trust people you don't know' 'cause like, I was lied to. But yeah, can't understand why so many people have unsafe sex - no protection and no knowledge of their partners
Everyone demonizes dating apps, but you get the same results meeting men IRL. They are no different.
@@Childfree334 There is a difference, with dating apps it’s almost guaranteed that something bad will happen. Even if you’re 18 and gorgeous. In real life you know exactly where to go, how to look and what to say to get a date.
@@Childfree334 I think its Just more unsafe to meet people online, especially when you are underage. Like, you are talking to 22-yo Lily from an online game in your phone, but in reality Lily 67-yo Joe whose actual intentions are to Lock you up in his basement. If you met in real life, Joe would be Joe and you probably wouldnt even Go near him
That girl telling the Netflix story has me hollering😂
The dead body guy 😮😮😮
Let me go get my Dell computer 😂😂😂
Omg I love this series!!! Please make this a series if it isnt already!
The "consumed human meat" and "sleeping with a corpse" stories are urban legends. I've been hearing both of those stories for at least 20 years, with little details changed here and there. What doctor/hospital is going to test for human meat consumption simply bc the patient has been vomiting profusely? How would they even test the meat if she didn't bring any with her?
**Also, the chick that went on at least 3 more dates with the man that said he "murders children for a living" is a walking red flag herself. There's no other way to excuse or justify her continuing to see that man after what he said. She was so attracted to his wealth that she was willing to ignore all the red flags he was practically waiving in her face🤦🏽♀️
Greed and stupidity.
That third story with the blonde woman I'd heard before in college as an urban legend, so either there's multiple ppl catching corpse STI's from dating app hookups, or that story never happened lol.
I can't sit long enough to hear these stories!!
Idk why I clicked this. My mom's stories she told me, on her awful dates, past fiancée, her ex husband and current husband (my dad), already convinced me to stay single way before this. I'm gonna watch it anyways
What I would think would be common sense is don't sleep with him on the first date!!! I would wait 6 months or more cause you figure out quick what's he's made out of.