Avoid These 3 Mistakes to Attract The Woman You Want

[@tteokkochi2084]

I always hear people say that "looks don't last" and that personality is what truly matters in the end. While that statement has some truth to it, I often see it used to dismiss people for wanting someone they are genuinely attracted to. It's like saying "I'm going to die anyway, so why should I maintain a healthy lifestyle?".

[@RelearningRelationships]

physical attraction is a precusor for emotional attraction.

[@lockstock2866]

Very valueable much needed information, thanks again C

[@RelearningRelationships]

Glad it was helpful!

[@itachi_blvckitachi_blvck-jq6pf]

“You only attract the quality of woman based on the quality of man you are” spot on! .you are quite based and you are saying ally of things that I also try to tell other guys I know. It’s so pathetic guys waiting around for a woman who literally looks at them like pathetic trash. Ans even if you get that girls she’s not going to give your her best (physically, sexually emotionally and mentally).

[@RelearningRelationships]

Exactly. Well said

[@rahcrow7525]

I need Advice. A girl I used to date said I was very attractive and said I looked good. I met this girl on a dating app she asked me if I wanted a friends with benefits or a relationship, I said relationship. Relationship started off very nice but surface level. We had sex three times. She said she wanted to marry me, have kids. Then ended up breaking up with me, because I lied over not not having a job. Got called a bum. She said “maybe” when I was considering being friends. Then later on being called a rebound because I did something that made her very mad and then getting blocked on everything. What does that mean? What did I do wrong ? She also a single mother with 1 son and deadbeat baby daddy. She also has abandonment issues because her dad was never in her life and she already with another guy and it’s only been a week sense we’ve broken up. I feel so used. Please give me some advice

[@RelearningRelationships]

first mistake: she asked if you wanted to be friends with benefits which indicates this is something she wants therefore it is clear she doesnt have the moral standards to be a good future wife. You chose to push through and continue.
second mistake: everything was very surface level, which is again, indicative of her not truly interested in getting to know you. She is bringing up marriage and kids but lacks the morals to make that happen.
third mistake. she was a single mother with 1 son and is in no position to bond with you since she has birthed the seed of another man.
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[@rahcrow7525]

@@RelearningRelationships your right, I guess a ignored a lot of red flags because I found her so attractive.

[@rahcrow7525]

@@RelearningRelationships and it’s 2024 bro. Marriage is dying, especially out here in the west. Nowadays women don’t use there 🧠’s they just run off emotion

[@RelearningRelationships]

@@rahcrow7525 you are referring to modern women. There are plenty of godly women that are serious about marriage. That is what I teach my clients to find. It’s easy with the correct information.

[@RelearningRelationships]

@rahcrow7525 yeah, you did.

[@jeffknowlton5200]

Being a "good guy" to get the girl is like being a "good guy" to get to heaven

[@RelearningRelationships]

?

[@jeffknowlton5200]

@@RelearningRelationships we know being a good person doesn't get you to heaven. And being a good guy who takes a woman out on six or seven dates and then treats her with the utmost respect is no guarantee she'll like the guy. She may find him repulsive.

[@RelearningRelationships]

Yes, we are saved by faith alone (Ephesians 2:8-9) sure. I agree.
But what you’re saying about taking girls on multiple dates and how there’s no guarantee they like you is extremely wrong.
When you meet a girl are you observing her words and actions to assess whether there is genuine desire or not? Are you asking her specific in depth questions from the get go to assess whether she is compatible in terms of values, belief system and lifstyle? Are you observing to discern if there are any red flags or if she is genuine? All of these things are doable if you have your head screwed on as. Are not lusting.