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Awesome you are aware about the J's

Samething i experience she monkey branch to her best friend an few months later she came back we was still hooking up while she was cheating behind his back i should had call it off in the beginning the reason why she came back because so call miscarriage by the new guy while we was still hooking up but when she got pregnant again by the new guy she wan back to him i didn't care anymore she use me for my personal needs an after she got pregnant she told she was sorry for hurting me i told her the damage is done i block her on everything an was the last time i heard from her since last year now she got 2kids by two days guys she was very evil person but karma allways win in the end

No... it's not a desirable or masculine trait for sure. But even if you try a relationship with them, as a woman who doesn't do these things, it usually doesn't last. Because unlike what we hear in the media, sleeping around damages men's pair bonding as well.

You just bringing this up and bringing light to the situation is a tremendous help. Thank you. If it's worth anything you are not alone in seeing all this.

Why Christianity and not Islam?

No need for a 20 minute video to explain that women want the best genes for their offspring (same as men) cuz they will have the best chance of survival and to continue the bloodline..

Off topic but America was Doom when we Give Women the Right to Vote repel the 19TH Amendment.

pornstars do a lot of casual sex and they can't pair bond because they have took in a lot of oxytocin and dopamine

I am 40 and single. I want to have my own children-not be a stepdad. The only way I can do this is to marry a woman in her 30s.

This is just close-minded thinking. Ppl can have the lifestyle and dating experiences they want. Basically this guys telling you if you don’t marry your high school sweet heart your a degenerate lol. There’s more than one way to skin a cat! Also this guys relationship is prob a bore.. imagine going on a first date and it’s like a job interview, shoot me nah

Thankyou God for this

This is good information I learned a lot

A big age gap is 20 plus

Absolutely true ❤

There are some things I agree with in this video and there are some things I disagree with.

thanks for debunking the lies of all these annoying redpillers and tbh I used to watch and believe them but not anymore and your videos really help debunk the bullcrap that they spew. can you do a video about cold approaching girls? if its effective or not? like is it not weird to cold approach random girls to get to know them? because the redpillers encourage cold approaching too but I dont think its an effective way to meet women since women dont wanna go with a guy they dont know, right?

I'm a single man in my 40's. Recently I've noticed a pretty girl younger than me who plays music in the worship team giving me attention. She must be in her early 30's. For my age I look 10 years younger as I take good care of myself and I'm in good shape. I was worried about the 10 or 11 years age gap but hey if we love each other and have a connection then why not? I'll make my move very soon regardless what people think as long as God gives us his blessing.

Great video. Can you censer the spicy images for future purposes?

Also, a sign is she'll drive the relationship and want to commit early. The relationship goes like the speed of a train. Your meeting the parents after 5/6 weeks of dating. Rushing milestones that in normal relationship you build over time. Acting like youve been in a relationship for years and doing couple goals things early. Basically, carrying on the same level of relationship she left only with you instead. Like going over to the subs bench and subbing you in.

I'm a woman, and I can 100% confirm what he's saying. From my experience, majority of the young women I've known wanted men their age, and they found much older men gross and intimidating, despite their money and status. But there was a handful of young women that exclusively went for much older men. These women were already highly sexual in high school, and they usually had no male or female friends because boys found them intimidating and us girls could not relate to them (like, it was shocking to hear what they were doing with their "older boyfriends"). These women grew up to be very promiscuous, but only with men that were able to meet their interests (get them into exclusive clubs, buy them nice things, take them to nice places, etc.). When I was younger, I couldn't understand how blind men were to the emptiness of those transactions. When I got older, I realized that the men were just as empty as the women. For the betterment of the world, the rest of us sane folk should step back and leave the empty shells to date and destroy each other.

Sorry dude, but you are totally off the mark on this one. Like WAY off. You are transposing the logic of SMV dynamics of women over to men, which are polar opposite. Women's SMV is given to them at birth largely through physical beauty which will generally peak at 25-ish and spiral down from there, with their only duty being to maintain it and avoid doing damaging behavior to their purity and emotional stability along the way. On the contrary, unless you are born with absolute Greek god genetics, almost all men's SMV is residual at birth and slowly earned through life with the grind of failures, achievements and experience. In other words, your SMV as a man cannot possibly peak, by definition, in your 20s. Likewise, if you have not raised your SMV in magnitudes versus your 20s by the time you hit the 35-55 age range, then you have some serious rethinking to do about your priorities, growth and self improvement as a man. The same goes for physical attributes. Maintaining workout and dieting discipline will keep a man sharp and attractive, likely very close to his 20s form, well past his 20s. The reason why top-shelf women aim for older men is not necessarily because they are damaged or gold-diggers. Many look for relationship maturity, increased self awareness, emotional safety, sexual experience, better self-control in handling life hardships, a wider set of life skills, more interesting conversations due to increased knowledge etc... none of which relate to material qualities bound to be exchanged in a transactional relationships.

Ideally you'd both be young. But if that's not the case an age gap might be the next best thing. It's not easy to start new relationships when you're both 30+. You've become full-fledged adults, you're fully grown. The two of you are set in your ways. There is no growing together. You butt heads on issues small and large, and politics ofc. Perhaps this changes once again when you grow out of adulthood and into maturity, at around 60. But that's mostly irrelevant(because these are not very fertile years.) But if one is younger, typically the woman, she can attach to you and grow with you and adapt to you. Studies show men prefer women who are about 20-25 years old, regardless of age. Makes sense, that's when they're the most fertile. Women prefer men their own age.

Young women are also easier to manipulate

Why those who monkey branch ALWAYS also ghost you and say to others you were "abusive"? Is this some kind of pattern? It is. For those ill from BPD.

Dont listen to these religious delusions. Its the real cowards. Always getting emotions response. Instead of being like a logic and algorithmic brain. This is being Self preservation. Except others are cowards contains negative emotions. If we have logical assessments at all tine. We are perfect brain. This is no a drill. The problem with most people are blinded by lies they copy paste without analysis and being blinded by fact is The Cowards.

weak women also play victim

Their traits match up with the narcissistic ones. 1) no empathy 2) no regrets for bad actions 3) no apologies ever 4) extreme idealization and calling me the best person ever then going to saying you're the worst after cheating

Back at this video two years later!

You're right. You're absolutely right

So you are saying that if you are a single man, you should not masturbate at all? So basically, you are saying that single men should practice semen retention until they meet a wife? I heard there are health issues that can come with not ejaculating frequently.

I’ve been dating on and off for a few years. Many women does this to maximize their entertainment. They don’t care about anyone else but themselves

Can you do a video on the best ages for both genders to find a partner

Hard disconnect! The trash took itself to the kerb and you dont bring that stink back into your home. Completely no-contact as a clean sheet reset for you and you are free-and-clear my man - she is someone elses problem now she monkey branched... its not your circus and not your monkeys!

Most of this is simplistic thinking. People are much more complex in terms of preference and why than just childhood wounds. Relationship dynamics that are toxic due to trauma is a thing but that's only if the attraction proves toxic. Not everyone is looking through a lens of psychology when meeting people, that's a lack of education sure. I don't like women over 30 by default cause they come with too much baggage and most likely are single without a family for a reason. There are exceptions of course, but it's not a mommy thing, it's a lifestyle choice based on experience. Being a woman's father figure is also something I don't want, nor do I want her to use me as her emotional outlet all the time, it's tiring and not worth it. There are messed up immature people and there are those that introspect and strive for balance. Mommy and daddy issues are for the ignorant masochists, let them enjoy that and don't participate.

Good topic!💯

This is funny no father figure then later 5,10,20,30 yrs later after marriage they’ll say they been abused and the husband is a narcissist and want a divorce

He is just a friend or you dont need to worry about him or he is like my brother....... Sure baby. Watch this space and start pulling back to safe distance.

Getting a call or text or email from your ex-partner, then be civil and just block them afterwards. Bump into them in some place, then be civil and polite and avoid returning to that locality again. Its a big world full of new opportunities without rehashing what has proven unsuitable already.

Low oxytocin levels is why it hard to pair bond.

So avoid people like you, got it

The main predictor of a victim vs. non-victim behaviour is - like the author says - intelligence. Don't expect amazing awakenings, transformings, etc from someone with a very limited understanding of her past, current situation and the actual 1=1=1...so, if there's something really to vet here, it's the level of intelligence, the classic concept of the executive fucntions. And she/he is telling you stories from their past - just pay attention of how they're reacted and what they did, the answer is there. If you see she/he can't make sense of more complex situations; better walk away, there's no real material to build upon.

Very valueable much needed information, thanks again C

Powerful 🙌🏽

An ancient sub of the channel here(coming out the woodwork I know, after fuck knows how long😂). Excellent video yet again Christian , and despite the video length at face value, you don't actually notice it because his videoes are packed with invaluable information. I'm yet to find another TH-cam or person in general whose as well learnered as Christian is on the topic of relationships. Christian was instrumental in my recovery from my previous relationship and his teachings have saved me from alot of turmoil relationships. Christian I hope you're doing well mate. Thank you for another banger video once again. Additional note : Christian teaches us the art of story telling in an inadvertent way 😂❤

This is the most articulate and logic explanation you'll ever need or find. The hardest part is leaving in denial ('it didn't happened, she can't be like that after all we've been through , there's a misunderstanding etc) and trauma bonding ( "If I do more for her, maybe she will come back, even if she treats me bad, it's better than without her..."). This video makes an important reality check i.e. face the facts and accept the situation for what it is. It's over and you're monkey branched for all the reasons and explanations the author skillfully presents.

My opinion The attention seeker one I pretty much get, but there’s not really a way to make her stop unless it’s a loved one telling her to stop. There is nothing wrong with being a feminist. Some of them can get a little annoying but most of them are just telling women to be confident. Not a lot of them take it too far. Feminists are just trying to help women, and there is nothing wrong with that unless they are being rude about it, and if they are just minding their own business trying to tell women to be confident, then you are just out of your mind if you think that’s a red flag. The in-modestly dressing I get a little bit. But everybody and anybody regardless if it’s a woman should be able to dress however they want to without the man needing to tell them how to dress. It’s not anybody else’s business how a woman is dressing or how anybody is dressing besides the person herself or himself. And there is nothing wrong with plastic surgery. It means maybe a woman is insecure and that’s when they are going to need someone like a boyfriend. Or maybe the woman is not secure and she is only doing it to be confident in herself, which is fine. Also I know that I am commenting a year later but that just shows how upset I got when I saw this. And I’ve definitely figured out a red flag, I bet not in a man cause I haven’t seen a whole lot of other men do these ridiculous reasons, but I think it’s just a red flag in you, I get that it’s your opinion, but that was mine. And the red flag in you would be thinking women who dress how they want to dress it bad, or women making other women feel confident is bad, or getting surgery to feel more confidence is bad.

Hi Christian, I watch your videos from time to time as you really give great advice that can help Men develop better relationships. I wish you and your lovely Girlfriend the very best of Happiness. I can relate to your Girl's story about a broken home. I came from a very broken and unhappy home but never let it spoil my outlook on life. I always smiled and kept a sunny and happy demeanor and knew eventually I would meet a great Man. I did and I care for him so much. Most of all I always say that Men only ask for very little from a Woman Peace and Respect. That is all and that is not much to ask.

Same goes for men

Pornstars and IG models can’t pair bonded because they looking for natural high for other men they find attractive (Oxytocin)

24:20-24:40 Here is game: Dont wait for her to initiate her need for space. At that point, shes had her fill of you. As the man, ALWAYS lead and initiate. Dont "fall in love fast. Be the first one to pull away. That'll ace her neediness test. Theyre always trying to weed out weak men. Watch a channel called hoe_math. Thatll help you men navigate female logic much quicker and effectively. Cheers!