Overcoming Rejection, When People Hurt You & Life Isn't Fair | Darryll Stinson | TEDxWileyCollege
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- A vision-driven change agent with a career-long record of community outreach, leadership development, marketing, and communications success for leading organizations. Mr. Darryll Stinson seeks to use rejection as a powerful tool with which we can discover our true and complete identity based on a variety of healthy and holistic influences. Darryll’s theory is that by understanding who we are and what we are uniquely gifted and created to do, we can more healthily process the sting of rejection and turn the initial pain into strength to become a better version of ourselves. A vision-driven change agent with a career-long record of community outreach, leadership development, marketing, and communications success for leading organizations. Mr. Darryll Stinson seeks to use rejection as a powerful tool with which we can discover our true and complete identity based on a variety of healthy and holistic influences. Darryll’s theory is that by understanding who we are and what we are uniquely gifted and created to do, we can more healthily process the sting of rejection and turn the initial pain into strength to become a better version of ourselves. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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Never regrets being a good person to the wrong people..
Your behavior said everything about you,and thier behavior said enough about them- Buddha
Awww this one made me smile ;-; :)❤️
True
I just had a moment of realisation. This has totally changed my outlook.
True. Thanks for commenting
@@stinsonspeaks hey mr Darrly thanks to people like you can making the difference ...
Thanks you God bless
Rejection is even more painful when the person lead you on and drew you in, and made you feel like they were interested, only to completely stop reaching out, once you become attached. 😪
same
This is what I'm going through as well.. but I don't even know for sure. She left me confused and doesn't want to talk. I made some mistakes but I was always genuine and trying.. We lasted for two months and when I finally felt safe and started to believe that this was real she just left me, ignoring me ever since.
I've been hurting for more than half a year trying to cope..
@@hgzmatt I'm so sorry my man....but don't lose hope there is someone far better out there you just gotta wait and they'll come around
@@hgzmatt Be proud of yourself for putting yourself out there for what you want, that is how real world bravery looks like. Every thought and feeling you had during your time together was real and worthy of being acknowledged, the silent treatment is a form of psychological abuse employed consciously by the narcissistic and unconsciously by the insecure to make the victim feel insecure and /or unworthy, so dont ever take it personally unless there was an obvious thing you did to make the other person feel hurt and want to hurt you back. Truth is, it speaks about her and not you.
The moment pains...
But it takes time and effort to heal
"Rejection is protection". You saved me from depression.. Thanks
Aasaimani S Wishing you well ❤️
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It gets better dear, trust me, one day you will get up. I am telling this from my own experience. This pain will not go waste. It will make you stringer and wiser.
how about when you are depressed and avoid people?
I am crying listening to this. A man I love is rejecting me and it hurts so bad!! I’ve dealt with him almost 4 years now and it’s eating me up. Rejection is a hard pill to swallow. But thank you for this message. Maybe 4 more years from now I’ll come back to this post and leave a review
Is true rejection is hard pill to swallow
How are you right now
Hope you doing fine.
Are you ok?
Sometimes, you are rejected because,you are a person of high quality and you don't match with the person who has low qualities.They subconsciously recognized it and ,by rejecting you,they just set you up for someone else who better matches your high quality life.
Amen, sister.
I think it's self protection for them.. they are not facing certain issues within them and so they are rejecting you in an effort to block out uncomfortable truths.
I went for a very creative career and I get rejected constantly by people in very traditional jobs.. to the point I dread it when I get asked. Because inevitably you will see the judgement in their faces.
Sometimes
Needed that
I just loved what you said about being "a person of high quality and you don't match with the person who has LOW qualities." Been there and done that and it hurt but survival was in my corner.
"Rejection is projection. A projection of someone's own fears and insecurities onto another person."
View rejection "as protection from something or someone that isn't meant to be in our lives anymore."
Powerful talk.
Those are healing words.
@@bagobeans They are!
So you're saying that when you rejected somebody, you are telling them that you yourself aren't worthy of being with? They could do better?
@@scaboi nobody tells anybody. Both party are not meant to be together by nature. It's noone's fault, but it's an event that we can't avoid
I am facing potential job loss at the moment. The manager has stated that "do you know that you tell people what to do a lot? You aren't the boss and you behave like you are and it turns your coworkers off". Really? This is the same manager that has stated that she is a pushover and doesn't like to say anything to offend people or make them angry or upset with her. Hmmm.
Most of the rejections that I have ever received in my life truly hurt me and even changed me, but now I can honestly say they ALL were blessings in disguise. 💯
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Amen.
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That's so true!
I have been feeling suicidal the last few weeks because my now ex boyfriend, dumped me for another woman , the pain is so deep I couldn't handle it, but I prayed and I have been watching videos, yes some about pain Free suicide , I watched a few and I found it helpful, so even though I feel suicidal, I won't because, if I do, I'll lose out on the guy I'm actually meant to be with. Thank you GOD for showing me, and thank you to this man , for helping me not want to kill myself. Thank you
Many felt that way after breakup. My ex girlfriend broke up with me from day to day because she fell for someone in new work and forgot about all those years with me... It felt like end of the world until i realized that i am actualy happy thay it happened cause i wanted to spend rest of my life with her and she dont deserve me... I was always by her side and supported her in her worst moments and she didnt value nothing i did for her... So i deserve someone better... So ye you might feal like its all over and that person was the best, and you might be long time alone after that, but trust me... You will find someone better, cause you are better !
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I'm sorry to hear that. If you are ready to do the inner work hit me up ❤👑
That’s insecurity. Work on becoming a whole and complete person and not relying on someone else to make you happy.
Hi please don't feel that way ...no one is worth it if that person isn't with you it's cause god has other plans for you. I was in a similar situation years ago my ex boyfriend left me to get married in arrange marriage ...but no one is worth it for you to take your life...time will heal you and make you strong...trust God's timing ask him for godly man it's the best thing we can do as humans...trust god...your worth it...
I hold tightly on the phrase “rejection is a divine protection and what is meant for you will never pass you by” to keep going
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
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YEs. It has helped me through many of times! You're not alone!
Thank you!
The stone that was rejected became the head cornerstone 🙏🏼
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Wow
Read your Bible study it's in the bible
AMENx10!!!
Yes it's true in bible
I've spent 3 years trying to make friends in my community (I moved here about 3 years ago). I have been rejected by every person I'd hoped would become a friend. My last of about a dozen rejections came three weeks ago when my housemate (I live in a roominghouse) told me, "I could never be friends with you. You're too boring. I can't stand boring people.". This talk made me consider if any of these people would have made good friends if they had accepted me. Probably not. This could be an example of "Protection by rejection.". I now believe that God has much better friends waiting to meet me somewhere sometime. Thank you for suggesting that possibility.
@Laurie J. Don't feel bad. It's a matter of time, good things are waiting for you. I wish you all the best
Dear Laurie Jay
u certainly have put in the time and effort. kinda think 3 years may be enuf. there is a whole world and many places u will b wecomed. just go do it. peace.
You are not boring, you are responsible. Stop trying to fit in with people who are irresponsible and have no inter personal skills.
You are a wonderful person. You will meet wonderful people mate
I can relate. I lived almost my entire life in the same area… And I still barely have any friends. Women in particular are very difficult to befriend for some reason.
Got rejected recently by a friend who I really trusted and liked, but this presentation made me realize that it was a "protection" to save myself from a person who's been taking advantage of my generosity. I can feel the temporary loneliness fading away while the courage to love myself and challenge new obstacles grow back again. Thank you very much for sharing this content, this is definitely what I needed.
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Hello I ghosted a girl who wanted to be my friend, she invited me somewhere then didn't show up the first time then kept trying to invite me again I just couldn't trust her for some reason I ghosted her to think if I want to be friends with her or not. That's a very ♒ Aqua thing to do. We sometimes seem like we rejecting you but actually we buying time to make a decision about You.
“What would happen if we stopped viewing rejection as a negative, humiliating force, and start viewing rejection as a necessary development tool, and catalyst for success.” -Darryll Stinson 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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Absolutely!! It’s hard to see it when you’re in it, but if we take a step back and really evaluate the situation that’s usually what we end with.
This pain is so deep I’m not sure how much longer I can hold on. Don’t play with people’s hearts
You are definitely loved K H! Stay strong!!! You can do it🥰🥰🥰
Lots of love. You'll make it through. Chin up! God bless you!
Be encouraged, from experience I know not only will the feeling pass but it will absolutely get better... I promise
Man I'm so sorry to hear that?
I'm so sorry to hear that. Is there anyway that I can help?
Anybody reading this you are loved & appreciated even tho you get rejected .
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Thank you. I needed to hear this today.
thank you.
Everyone suffers rejection sometimes, don't take it personally.
Thank you! Hug
Thank you for that!
9:25 BAAAM! "Rejection is protection from a life that wasn't meant for me." Thank you! Two people bounced from my newsletter list today and... it's okay. :D I want to have a tribe that's true to who I really am. Absolutely loved this talk!!!
Re- jection, po- jection, pro- tection..... absolutely!!!!!!🤦
Felt like I was in church for 13 minutes and 6 seconds 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Amen
Anyone else sobbing watching this after just being rejected 🙋🏻♀️
yup
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Me
Am suffering now from rejection it hurt
Really felt this one. I loved the concept that sometimes rejection is the universe's way of saying you don't need something in your life. Incredibly powerful for everyone to hear.
Thanks, professor. It's true. We have to be courageous enough to let people go!
Definitely 👍
I was rejected at my previous workplace. I know now that it was then l should've left. Pity it took me 10 years to work out & another 3 to get out! 🤔
Great Comment!
@@sweetchestnut How did you get out of it?
A hard lesson i learned not too long ago:
It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life. Jean luc picard.
I just exp. This at my workplace and I cried for days still unable to understand why I was rejected for no fault of mine
@@sarim6213 love yourself there beauty in you
“The very thing that made them reject me has become a crucial component to my success.” Great talk Darryll! 👏🏽
Lynn Nguyen one of my favorite moments as well. Hope it blessed you!
All teenagers should watch this! Many young people reject their sense of self just to fit in. I love how you turned life's disappointments and rejections into a an opportunity to rediscover your true self! You weren't rejected but projected into living your best life! It's all a matter of perspective!
Yes, yes and more yes!
All teenagers should watch this! Many young people reject their sense of self just to fit in. I love how you turned life's disappointments and rejections into a an opportunity to rediscover your true self! You weren't rejected but projected into living your best life! It's all a matter of perspective!
Many ADULTS need to do the same thing, because they were the teenagers that didn't understand the concept in this Talk....
My husband was rejected by his whole family and disowned because he married me. This video is right in point. Thank you and God bless you!!💜💜
Him: do you remember the last time you felt rejected?
Me: yes, it was 2 hours ago.
Same! Cheers mate!
SAME
SAME LOL
Same here 🙋🏽♀️
Two hours ago😭
Same 💔😂
I came across this video in the perfect moment. Synchronicities of life. I wish I could like it twice.
Your comment counts as the second like. You actually liked this video twice without realizing it. I wish you all the best.
You took the words right out of my mouth 👍
Its AI sweety... Knows everything you are doing, going through, thats why this video came up on your feed.
I feel you ;)
@@kossieseii85 Facts lol
I just had a moment of realisation. This has totally changed my outlook.
Seon F awesome. Make sure you head to my website and download the free rejection to success application guide.
The glass is half full! Not half empty😉
@@stinsonspeaks hello
No one is better than u f them all they all drop their pants to have a shite x
This man has magic in his words. Everytime I hear him I can't help to feel powerful about my own future
Great advice! Reminds me a bit of the saying,
“Life doesn’t give you the people you want, it gives you the people you need. To help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to make you the person you were meant to be.”
Going through rejection right nowThe Irony about Rejection is that, it makes you feel like you are the only one feeling rejected when there are countless around you that feel the same or sadly far worse !!
Yes! This is so true. Would you mind sharing this video with others?
Sobbing while watching his video. I was rejected many times..work, friends, ex boyfriend. Lowered my self-esteem. Thanks for inspiring me 🙏
Don't worry, Abby. You have everything you need, they just couldn't see it. :)
@@hgzmatt thank you
@@abbybella2884 You will be fine girl, just love yourself ❤💙💜💛
@@eka-eteololade710 thanks 🙏
God loves you
Am 35 yrs old ,My own father has insulted me humiliated me several times rejected me embarrassed me , i feel have lost hope but am strong through prayer i just have o ne prayer that not a single day will ever say bad things about my sons and their mother, God fogive me if i ever wrong him
A family member rejected me. I was beneath him. When he left, I thought I would die. I was devastated beyond words. But after hearing this, maybe it is a gift.
Thank you. ⚘
I'm sorry Marie, may you prosper!
Your son's rejection of you says more about him than about you. Live your good life, Marie.
nice
You didn’t deserve that... I’m sure you’re a wonderful person
@Yasmine Thank you, Yasmine.⚘
I love this video. Rejection is protection that preserves you from what you don't belong to and adjusts your life into its right way. I really believe in our God, that he is working and following us every day, in every moment. The moment you are rejected, someone is helping you!
I've yet to see any good come out of all my rejections. All rejections lead to more bad things and heartache.
Every time we are rejected, that means the Lord has something better for us to come.
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Rejection was my biggest healer.. Finding my selfworth.. 🙏💕
Every time we judge someone, we expose a part of ourselves that is unhealed. -unknown
I’ve been rejected a lot, but until I loved myself and god more importantly…I was lost. We all are guilty of mistakes. Myself included! I have cut off people bc I went through so much abuse and trauma…it was hard to trust and I had a borderline mom so it’s been hard to navigate human emotions, including my own. Hurt people hurt others. I am still a work in progress but with God, I feel like I can heal and move forward. I think when you love yourself and his, the right people come into your life! I pray I can move forward and continue to heal! Wishing that for all of us!!!
I was fired and rejected from a company. I was laughed and teased by many friends. I was centre of being a joke and always chased to fit with these people. I was rejected from many companies that I applied to. I came close and lost the opportunities. That’s why I’m grateful today for those moments weren’t meant for me. It’s a form of protection & projection I faced. That’s when it’s good to be yourself and define your career again.
"The very thing that made them reject me, has become a crucial component of my success."
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Love yourself for who you are , don't change for nobody..periodtt
Experienced enough rejections and in the end it was a blessing all the way along!!
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This man is a hero. Thank you so much for what you do.
I’m going through massive depression right now. But simply watching this video has helped immensely. I’m so grateful people like you exist in this world.
Is it okay to cry as a thirty year old?
I am 46yrs old and it okay to cry. I agreed with you -- he is a hero, cause like you I am depress and is believing I will become strong within myself. What he has said and what you wrote is so helpful to me.
I don’t know your belief or your faith if you have one… but if you do, call out to God! Tell him how you’re feeling and ask Him to walk you through this season to come out to the other side!! How you’re feeling now IS NOT the end!! It’s ok to cry😌 Crying is liberating but give your problems to God and he’ll take the pain away!
Absolutely! You are loved!
It's not only okay to cry, but it's healthy. Our bodies don't have this emotional coping mechanism within us to just be suppressed, it's our natural way of feeling emotional pain and shouldn't be fought. Next time you feel yourself crying, don't judge yourself or try to stop it, let yourself feel what you're feeling ❤️
It's definitely okay! Hope you're okay.
This is my story. They use to say "You act like a white girl". I tried changing so much and it never helped. You have to love yourself first and foremost.
So agree. Glad you've found peace in being YOU!
Girl same! We unlock our true God given power by being our authentic selves.
Amen sister!
Our Excellent Life I so can relate
@@khadenecampbell4377 My goodness, me too! Fantastic talk - Thank you. Best wishes from The UK 🇬🇧
BEST TED TALK EVER!! Rejection can be either Projection or Protection. YES. WISDOM!!!
This man is literally describing my life in the last 6 years, i've through the stage of massive rejection and being suicidal, and the learned the "protection" and then "projection"
and now i much more value myself than ever before.
to anyone wondering, this man is spelling the truth, believe him.
"Sometimes talking bad about others makes people feel good about themselves" ....that hit home. NEVER again will I allow someone's rejection of me to change who I am. I now look at rejection as projection and protection. Thank you God.
My jaw dropped. One of the best speeches I've heard, if not the best. Thank you so much!
I know right! It was sooooo good.
This talk needs to be listened to by more young people
Thanks! Some schools have already added it to their learning periods, feel free to pass to others once this COVID-19 thing goes away.
Absolutely...come over to The UK!
That’s exactly what I thought as a teacher myself. I have saved this Talk to make it a speaking topic in my lessons, which start tomorrow.
Yes it should be taught to ALL children 👑🦋
Yeah ✨❤️🌱
As a person who has allowed rejection at points to dim my light and take me out of my purpose this talk spoke to my soul. It has reignited my calling on a whole new level. Thank you Darryll for this message. It couldn’t have come at a more perfect time 🙏
Great talk! It included one of the key things I learnt in 2019;
Do not allow other people to project their insecurities onto you!
you got it!
Truth!
True!!!!!!
How??
@@juveriasweet5354 If you are believer , just pray for yourself , for protection , if you are non believer walk away from situation that's makes you uncomfortable . I have learned it's powerful .
Rejection is our friend! Not our enemy. Once we get that figured out, life would be so much easier. I wish I could master this one. Your talk has inspired me to look at daily situations differently!!!
Wow. Thanks! Glad it was helpful!
This fellow knows what he says! I was rejected many times. Just there are people that hate everybody who is different.
True,rejection is my friend,i achieved alot from rejection than when accepted.When you feel you belong,you condone alot of nonsense.
I love you Amy.. Thank you
And just like that...I am out of my rut. Thank you.
Wow. Glad the message impacted you!
Yes, I've been rejected many times and when I look back on these experiences and feel it is meant for the better
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On the job rejection. I just keep holding my head high!!! Pure jealousy & envy. I so needed to hear this. You just confirmed my beliefs. Thanks Darryl.
I wish, I knew this for 10 years. This could have saved me from so much pain. Rejection is Projection /Rejection is protection.
This a life changing Talk!
Thanks 🙏
Rejection is projection. Rejection is protection.
F@&k, that’s good. Thank you, brilliant man 🥰
Rejection being projection...such a memorable phrase. I really needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing your story, Darryll. The Lord really does protect us from things we badly want because His plan is so much better. Fantastic talk.
Just watched this at the perfect time after 2 hours of suffering from depression, Thank God I saw this. it's an awesome speech... I need this.
At least it was a very brief depression, there are people who are depressed for years or decades.
@@yellowblanka6058 there is no need to take away from their experience with your comment. Let them have their moment of appreciation. Thanks.
This was so great. The RIGHT way to view rejection. It can be the fuel to greatness.
Yes, From this day forward I will "start viewing rejection as a necessary development tool and catalyst for massive success!" Thanks Mr. Darryll Stinson for this vital shift in my perspective.
You're welcome. This is EXACTLY what my goal was to help people understand. Your comment just made my day!
Being judged and rejected by family and community from a past that has no relevance in my life today really makes life more difficult. It really exposes how the majority of people live in hypocrisy and will protect their ego obove anything regardless of being guilty of the same things themselves.
What an amazing mind shift: viewing rejection as a catalyst and not a life-stopper! Man, I wish I had heard this years ago. This gives me so much to think about. And your delivery was beautifully succinct. KUDOS and THANKS to you!
Thank you for the feedback and cheers. Feel free to share with the world!
Tis man got a blessed voice with an outstanding outgoing personality.
you come across some videos on youtube that make you think "ahhhhhh, this is so inspiring and relatable". This is one of them
Hey Darrell, I’m so glad you are still here. You helped me. God bless you ❤️🙏🏼
When you get what you want that's a blessing; when you don't, it's fate or life protecting you.
I've been feeling discouraged by life and missed opportunities. Bless you.
I am struggling with rejection all my life. It is depressing me for years now. You just encouraged me to work on a turnaround. I feel so energized and motivated. Thank you so much!
Hello Lydia
Don't ever lose sight of your value no matter how many rejections you have to endure :-)
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One of the greatest Ted talks ever. Definitely my favorite. I learned alot. People who reject us really rejects themselves first. Unforgettable message.
A rejection isn't always about you. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you not being good enough, or your race, color, class, or creed. Yes, your feelings will get hurt, and you will experience those negative emotions brought on by rejection. Remember, people have insecurities that they contend with. Sometimes it's easier to pass those negative feelings on to others rather than facing them(projection). If you're feeling rejected. It doesn't mean that you're not good enough. To the right person, you'll always be good enough, but the wrong person will never see your true worth.
This is fantastic. It came at the perfect moment too. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you. I’d appreciate if you would share to your social media as well!
Me too.
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Yep, I REALLY needed to hear that message to keep my mind focused on my 1st goal, publishing my book... When the time is right 🤣
So thankful for this message How timely on Thanksgiving Day! So glad it was here to tap into even a year after delivery. Thank you for your encouragement! Now I'm grateful for "the protection" I received this year. 👍😀
I felt everything in his speech . “The greatest catalyst to our success “ ... Damn.
Darryll's story is one I am sure he didn't wish had to tell. The strength of his character after all he has gone through in his life is inspirational. This message can translate to almost any industry, issue, etc.
Wow. Thanks!
☺️ I’m with him, projection and protection. This made my heart full. ❤️
Absolutely true words - "Sometimes talking bad about others makes people feel good about themselves."
You made my day.
A must listen to for all generations
Anti bullying is not working
Resiliency is the key to overcoming rejection
Daryl captures its concept brilliantly
Enjoy
Yes. Resiliency with a purpose and the right perspective is key!
My mother rejected me her whole life. One day I just stopped calling her or having contact with her. It’s the most difficult thing to break up with your mom.
Ted X talkss
Mother rejecting their child, is it possible to do that for a Mom? I am really surprised with this comment.
@@RizwanAhmed002 Moms who reject their own children must have serious rejection wounds themselves.
@@kathleenc8810 hurt people hurt people...
@@natashagem9054 NO, hurt people go on helping others, and try to protect their children from pain. Narcs and psychos hurt people.
Rejection sometimes is projection… absolutely sir!!!!
A simple and doable antidote to overcoming rejection from a voice of experience.
Wish I had seen this while I was in College. Rejection had me change me completely and now realizing that it was my friend protecting me. So many rejections the past 3 years from relationships to job offers. This i very timely. Definitely got me rethinking. Thanks for this
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"I wonder if the next level of your success, is lock beneath your most painful moment of rejection?", dang! That hits me hard, though. But I'm gonna try my best, wish me luck
Wow I weant through a painfully hard semester this fall and really needed some motivation after not getting the gpa i wanted this semester and i was not expecting the guest speaker to be from my home town… god works in mysterious ways
“Rejection is protection” - Darryll Stinson
This was amazing!
Thank You! ❤️
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I don’t have to live a tortured life ? This talk has leveled me up !
Yes! Get out that victim mindset! You are the one thing in your own way. The one thing we have 100% control over is how we choose to think and feel towards a situation ❤
I so needed this today! Thank you! Your words will continue to push me forward in my journey to heal from heartbreak "Rejection is protection ... removing someone from my life who is not supposed to be there." Amen! Something much better is awaiting me.
Failure doesn’t mean YOU are a failure. So many profound truths in the talk 💕♥️💜
I want to give 100 likes to this Ted talk
Perception really is everything. Thank you God for all the times I’ve ever been rejected in my life. I now know that you were protecting me, teaching me and so much more. Thank you so much for all that were involved in creating this video. I truly appreciate all of you.
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AMEN!
💯 “I built the life that I love”…. Powerful. The beauty of letting go of rejection as a negative force. 🙏🏽
This man has delivered profound truth. Thank you Mr Stinson.
I've been rejected my entire life. I'm 55 now, been single for 6 years, got no friends, family don't bother with me much. Get a dog is my advice. People are overated. Some of us just don't fit in
I came across this video because rejection has left a pain in myself recently. I’ve applied to over a hundred jobs, changed my questions, dressed up nicely, updated my resume and even learned to drive to get to the locations. Still nothing. I’m depressed because I left several jobs because I didn’t like them and I could’ve kept them.
This video is literally the only thing that is keeping me from hurting myself at the moment. Thank you for your advice.
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯
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Wow my heart goes out to you. I know you’ll get through it. Remember, the fact that you struggle doesn’t mean you’re weak. It’s actually evidence that you’re strong!
I felt rejected just few hours ago that landed me straight to this video. Thanks I have a new perspective now. You saved me from more bitterness
TH-cam knows our feelings too. Perfect timing to appear in my life.
REjection is projection and protection. This is absolutely true. Tribally we don’t help each other understand how to move through rejection. This is helping to heal the tribe.
I am watching this to prepare myself for an expected rejection. And it's so great to see that you are still reading all the comments. Thank you for some great advice, sir.
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯
Whtsaap him**
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@@giftkane5172 that was not his point or his lesson, still very happy for you :)
This is an outstanding concept! Rejection DOES so often mean protection and redirection. I speak to college kids and this is a concept they NEED to understand and embrace.
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Rejection directs you down the path of depression
I was rejected this evening by the one person I thought would never reject me. This hurts so bad
Sending hugs and love to you 💕💕💕
You are not alone! Hope you got over it by the time you read this!
Channel that energy and raise your vibrations to acknowledge that you are "Change" and that you can let go to let in new gifts in life . Love has no boundaries and it's unconditional and the person who rejected you didn't know the true meaning of it , walk away and see the power of it . You are strong 🙏
It's the same for me, my boyfriend gave up on me and thinks we cannot work our issue out
@@kikkysamuel7180 This is the same as my wife, who would rather break up our family with 2 little children rather than work our issues out. :(
Really needed this today, I tried to gain a friend and then I got rejected. But after hearing this, I realized it's for my protection.
This is an awesome message! I can't tell you how many people I know who have shut their life down after rejection. It is important to look at the opportunities that rejection provides to you.
That’s it sir! That’s it!
Rejection doesn't provide any positive opportunities. It destroys you.
When I was 25 years old I passed on a exame that was so diffilcult here in Brazil, and I was rejected by people. I suffered a lot and, I didn't understand why. Now, watching this video, I could realize why I passed by a lot of matters: rejection because of my studies.Thank you so much! God bless you!!! Hugs from Brazil...
there are a lot of key takeaways that I have learned from this talk. Rejection is a projection and protection that help us to embrace our true selves and reframe our minds to overcome the deepest darkest struggles in our lives.
Exactly what I needed to hear! It's still impossibly painful when family, particularly the parents, show rejection though. I finally flat out said "I'm done. No matter what I do, I will never be enough with you, so I will no longer prove my integrity to you" I've become the outcast of my entire family simply because I finally learned to set boundaries (it only took me 53 years). To this day I have no idea what I did to deserve this. I didn't drink, party, do drugs, nothing. My sisters did but they're the ones who are respected. I was the workaholic and the designated driver. What's wrong with this picture? It's beyond painful, but I'm okay because I have the love and respect of my #1 - my son, and my friends - even from my ex in-laws and I've been divorced 27 years!
I experience the same, also with my siblings. Whatever I do, I will be nothing to them anyway, I don't understand how they can do this to their own daughter, sister ... but it is. Thank God you have a son, there are rejected people who have no one ...
you were the family scapegoat. look up narcissistic abuse videos on you tube. usually the most decent, empathic person in the family is used as a punching bag. its meant to be crazymaking and have you question your sanity.
@@jennydoucette2538 Truth...
Everything is gonna be alright.
@@WinnyEzeme thank you, God bless