Emotional Intelligence: Using the Laws of Attraction | D. Ivan Young | TEDxLSCTomball

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  • The "Laws of Attraction" are real; inasmuch, there is a Divine Component. Connecting Personality Type to The Laws of Attraction positions you for immediate manifestation of your desires while unleashing your preordained purpose. Your Creator gave you a unique Personality Type for a reason.
    There are many words that describe Dr. D Ivan Young, but here are the few that I chose - discerning, enlightened, a spiritual teacher and sagacious philosopher. Seldom does someone possess the ability to connect, at a core level, to impact so many different and varying people. His witty insight into how, and moreover why, people do the things they do is astonishing. Having known Dr. Young for a few years, never have I seen him at a loss for words or searching for an answer. His compassion, his love, and his authentic way of communicating to us exactly what we need to hear and when we need to hear it has profoundly changed my life, and the lives of everyone I’ve witnessed him come in contact with.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • @awesomeayush111
    @awesomeayush111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9738

    Summary -
    - Spend more time thinking about things you want
    - Stop being anxious about past and future and operate in right now.
    - You will train your subconscious mind to manifest your desires
    - Everything happens for a reason
    - Examine every moment for its meaning - what is this supposed to teach me right now?
    - Stop being reactive become proactive
    - Don’t listen to respond, listen to understand
    - Always ask why? Why am I doing what I am doing?
    - Passion, purpose, presence
    - Feel, Believe, Receive
    - That what you seek, that what you desire, is equally seeking you.

    • @rajivriccardo
      @rajivriccardo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ayush Khandelwal nice

    • @edgarcaldera4705
      @edgarcaldera4705 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Thank you! 🙏🏻

    • @simi6153
      @simi6153 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      You've paid attention. Thank you!

    • @HideousNOLYB
      @HideousNOLYB 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      I appreciate you, and everyone else who does this; time is valuable.

    • @sylviabrova2885
      @sylviabrova2885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank youuu

  • @YoungDen
    @YoungDen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4441

    Whom ever is reading this, may you attract what you truly desire!

    • @vikramlall6182
      @vikramlall6182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Lamborghini Gallardo 2004

    • @devaindennis1221
      @devaindennis1221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lord of the Jungle thanks for that I needed it.

    • @missssy
      @missssy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@vikramlall6182 😄

    • @missssy
      @missssy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same to you!

    • @irmaperez1863
      @irmaperez1863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lord of the Jungle thank you!

  • @ritterlott9914
    @ritterlott9914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3328

    Been living like this for 5 years. It was tough at first. Now my mind is quiet. I am busier than i ever thought. Opportunity is everywhere. Its beautiful and a little crazy.

    • @geff7207
      @geff7207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      How'd you go about it?

    • @ud1819
      @ud1819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel you

    • @jolieandrus9936
      @jolieandrus9936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@geff7207 that’s what I want to know too

    • @tshepomogobe1529
      @tshepomogobe1529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How did you go about it please share

    • @Gunner556
      @Gunner556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@jolieandrus9936 I feel like a good start is finding what your passionate about and really want out of life. Focusing on one thing at a time until you achieve it rather then trying to achieve multiple things at once. Just take some time to think about what you really want and what it means to you. Why do you want what you want? The key is truly wanting it. If you desire it and seek it, it has no choice but to come at some point. That sang "if you go looking for trouble your going to find it" is no different. Go find what you want.

  • @ChelsiDivine
    @ChelsiDivine 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1278

    I love the end. “What you seek... is equally seeking you!” Preach!

    • @gladyskris2397
      @gladyskris2397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Great

    • @toobaqureshi9842
      @toobaqureshi9842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It'll find you but it'll be upto you to recognize it and embrace it.
      Perhaps he should be doing a talk over this aspect too!

    • @Dave-ps3ff
      @Dave-ps3ff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I've heard that before sounds great. I believe the universe always works for us. Trust and believe !

    • @Dave-ps3ff
      @Dave-ps3ff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @James Ramirez if you are referring to me, being Dave I don't get mixed up with people online involving money. I deal with verifiable companies or people I know personally who have a proven track record. No disrespect but I'm never interested.

    • @ceritabaik5539
      @ceritabaik5539 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think it's from one of Rumi's poem

  • @sanysl9524
    @sanysl9524 6 ปีที่แล้ว +761

    “Don’t listen to respond,listen to understand”

    • @user-sc1gh9or2s
      @user-sc1gh9or2s 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      200 iq play

    • @spikenardmz3355
      @spikenardmz3355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      listen understand respond and meditate on jesus the son of god and repent

    • @O0001
      @O0001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@spikenardmz3355 No.

    • @AlexReese-ql9oo
      @AlexReese-ql9oo 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@O0001yes

  • @norrainebaby
    @norrainebaby 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3030

    If you're reading this, I hope something that is fill with joy and love happens to you today !

    • @obyvanessa
      @obyvanessa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Norraine you too honey!

    • @shaurya9260
      @shaurya9260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      where ever you are stay healthy stay happy .

    • @victoriaa9344
      @victoriaa9344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Norraine received!

    • @swag-vz9fc
      @swag-vz9fc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aww that's so sweet to say. I'm having a hard second half of 2019 and just wanted to say thanks for writing that

    • @ssplague
      @ssplague 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you friend. Blessings right back to you today for joy and love as well 😊

  • @ladybird491
    @ladybird491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1916

    I wrote an entire how to book in under a month because I kept telling myself I am an expert in it and believe deeply that I am and began to realize that I really am. My editor said my book is good 😊

    • @tp4993
      @tp4993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Poet Victoria Hunter that is amazing!!! Congratulations. When it drops, please tag me so that I can support you!!!

    • @jeanpaulsaintil3035
      @jeanpaulsaintil3035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @thefamilypurposeshow3271
      @thefamilypurposeshow3271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Poet Victoria Hunter congratulations

    • @butterflyygyrlsworld5106
      @butterflyygyrlsworld5106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Poet Victoria Hunter WOW!!! I needed to hear this!

    • @jabulilecebekhulu4197
      @jabulilecebekhulu4197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congratulations, what is the name of your book and where can i find it

  • @awomanwithavision
    @awomanwithavision 2 ปีที่แล้ว +557

    THIS IS THE TYPE OF EDUCATION THAT WILL BE TAUGHT IN OUR SCHOOL SYSTEMS 👏🏽👏🏽 he did absolutely amazing !!

    • @OffTheCouchProd.
      @OffTheCouchProd. ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Our future teachers will know the mistakes of today and take great heed to steer from them with grace

    • @aneesabdulrehman8398
      @aneesabdulrehman8398 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      great same suggestion gievn by one the eminent writer , psychologist Daniel Goleman in his write emotional intelligence .

  • @ginadimauro9784
    @ginadimauro9784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1686

    May who is reading this be blessed!

    • @jessicaconnordawson888
      @jessicaconnordawson888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Gina Dimauro May you be blessed as well!!

    • @BLACKSHAMPU
      @BLACKSHAMPU 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I pray the same for you. Have a day that matters. Have a day that means something 🤘🏾😎🤘🏾

    • @nyreshia19
      @nyreshia19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gina Dimauro I hope you’re blessed as well!

    • @pineapplecrimsonred5686
      @pineapplecrimsonred5686 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!

    • @adriennebarela7047
      @adriennebarela7047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have a blessed day!

  • @WreinMusic
    @WreinMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    This guys feels like a father I wish I had.

  • @user-ml1kd8zp3i
    @user-ml1kd8zp3i 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Whom ever is reading this, may you attract what you truly desire!. Educated man indeed, great speech. ''What you seek, is seeking you''..

  • @sohaibahmed226
    @sohaibahmed226 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1590

    Great ted talk. If you get annoyed by someone maybe that's a sign that that's a trait that you need to work on. True

    • @chrischambers7535
      @chrischambers7535 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      sohaib ahmed yeah this stood out to me as well

    • @crhsalonconsulting970
      @crhsalonconsulting970 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I swear I thought he was talking right at me

    • @gebrealstinge9132
      @gebrealstinge9132 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      sohaib ahmed sure

    • @ms.5779
      @ms.5779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      sohaib ahmed I've heard this over the years and see thats not always true. But I do know that when a person is ready or need to learn a thing that all relevant info will "pop up"

    • @tshepogabasie1333
      @tshepogabasie1333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Please someone explain that to me?

  • @Max-px5ym
    @Max-px5ym 7 ปีที่แล้ว +947

    This guy managed to explain Happiness rationally :
    "As you learn *to master being sensitive* to the little things,
    you will *train your subconscious mind* to manifest the things you truly desire"

    • @wahhabaziz258
      @wahhabaziz258 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I like how this comment had no replies until I replied - just shows how powerful of a quote it is. No replies needed...

    • @thefamilypurposeshow3271
      @thefamilypurposeshow3271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wolf yes

    • @frederickhoward5598
      @frederickhoward5598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be Mindful of...🤔

  • @jrg1121
    @jrg1121 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I’m becoming emotionally intelligent! One way I keep my mind on track is playing these TED talks. I started a new job and I’ve been doing all these steps unknowingly in my day to day life. I sometimes feel silly, being so foreign to the social world at my age (24), but I stay motivated and keep pushing because I want to! Not because I have to. Life is awesome, we are lucky to get to work on these things!

    • @KiyoNatsume
      @KiyoNatsume ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s totally fine to feel like this . You got this 💕

  • @MrLibye
    @MrLibye 6 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    Educated man indeed, great speech. ''What you seek, is seeking you''.

    • @amalbouhniz5136
      @amalbouhniz5136 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Djalâl ad-Dîn Rûmî 's quote

    • @mehzabeensayani4860
      @mehzabeensayani4860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What you seek is seeking you this quote is by Rumi who lived in 12 century....

  • @lisaGullion
    @lisaGullion 6 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    Why are so many people offended by what he said being "too preachy"?
    Take the parts that work for you and leave the rest.
    He was just speaking about how thinking negatively brings negativity to your life. Lol
    Search for the positive. There was a whole lot of good in what he said.

    • @CrimsonLotus-dj6yp
      @CrimsonLotus-dj6yp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly. All religions have some form of belief in this. I feel foolish saying this but...I fought against this belief for years. I didnt start believing in the possibility of it until about 2 years ago. I thought I was losing my mind bc things I thought about and told no one started playing out in my life. I thought a huge prank was being played on me tbh..
      Thing is, sometimes God will draw ppl to u and vice versa. If you're on the same vibration then I believe clarity and understanding is just sharper.

    • @elit1712
      @elit1712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Some people aren't ready to hear the truth!.

    • @valentinaazzam5828
      @valentinaazzam5828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      People consider it too preachy because they’re not ready to listen to what hes saying. Theyre unconsciously resisting to change but to each his own pace. People often reject someone that can teach them better because their ego cant take it

  • @lolove8794
    @lolove8794 6 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    "... there's some part of your character that's being reflected on you, through them." Come on now 🙌🏾

    • @steph7115
      @steph7115 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lo Love That's deep.

    • @deniemmonroe6234
      @deniemmonroe6234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ladies Im trying to capture this and just can't seem to grasp... I'm came in the "comments" section seeking answers instead I found people to ask...can either of you give me an example of this statement ?

    • @renataperkovic539
      @renataperkovic539 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meaning pls¡

    • @foreveralchemy3193
      @foreveralchemy3193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@deniemmonroe6234 often what we don't like in other people, we tend to do display those same traits. Example: I don't like people that complain, yet you may find yourself complaining all the time about traffic or your neighbors. Example: you don't like nosey people or a person, yet you read tabloids or gossip sites. There's a part of you being reflected in people that gravitate towards you. Example: narcissistic lovers, you may have had a narcissistic parent & those narcissistic traits in your lover may be hidden but what is it about what your use too that gravitated you to keep going back? It's deep but I didn't want this to be long.

    • @SkyFullOfLighters542
      @SkyFullOfLighters542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@deniemmonroe6234 using a personal example, I hate people that don't use their money sparingly, not because I care about their finances, but probably because I wish I have the courage to not think too much about the future and stop saving my money religiously. or maybe I wish I'm in their circumstance where money isn't too much of a problem for them

  • @alanac3764
    @alanac3764 6 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    Like Earl Nightingale stated, "you become what you think about."

    • @Streetzlegend
      @Streetzlegend 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Evelyn C i listen to my boy Earl daily. And it shapes your mind just like this man has.

    • @jamesbates5552
      @jamesbates5552 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The bible said that

    • @JaliyahDW
      @JaliyahDW 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jamesbates5552 lol ikr

    • @ikranyusuf9100
      @ikranyusuf9100 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Streetzlegend has

    • @jamescwinchester7568
      @jamescwinchester7568 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alana C 💯💯💯💯

  • @AnaFlores-il8hp
    @AnaFlores-il8hp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "It takes effort to be succesful, but the greatest effort is mastering how do you use your mind"

  • @mirandad2777
    @mirandad2777 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautifully said. I'm going to start asking myself "why are you there" whenever I get into a situation I don't like.

  • @alpaca1482
    @alpaca1482 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    my favorite added affirmation from this talk: what i seek, is equally seeking me.

  • @tomlennon3469
    @tomlennon3469 7 ปีที่แล้ว +828

    Constantly thinking positively and about what you want to achieve will make you more likely to achieve it but it doesn't mean it'll just automatically come to you. Thinking positively means you won't give up and you'll be less afraid to try. Always thinking about what you want to achieve helps you come up with new ideas, but ultimately it's still down to you to do everything. I can't believe how many people buy into the idea that they can change the universe buy doing nothing other than thinking about it.

    • @Ornacia29
      @Ornacia29 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Tom Lennon I totally agree with you. So so true

    • @LifeSourceRetreatsTulum
      @LifeSourceRetreatsTulum 7 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Tom Lennon Everything is energy FIRST - but not "only". So for example - first you'd need to allow and trust abundance (wealth, money and/or luck) in order to win the lottery, but you still have to go out and buy the actual ticket. Take "inspired actions" that are in alignment with your "positive thoughts".

    • @OFFICALMENOFCULTURE
      @OFFICALMENOFCULTURE 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tom Lennon well I see you clearly haven't done this yourself before

    • @OFFICALMENOFCULTURE
      @OFFICALMENOFCULTURE 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Tom Lennon In order to achieve something, you have to become the person that would expect it, because the person that would have what you desire already has it/expects it. (hope you can follow) so when you have the mental shift yourself in the way you think, and you become that person, it very much seems like it's come to you.

    • @OFFICALMENOFCULTURE
      @OFFICALMENOFCULTURE 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tom Lennon also to clarify, I'm not saying they're doing nothing.
      However try it out for yourself.

  • @Kate.Sangalang
    @Kate.Sangalang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My takeaway: You think of negativity, you will get it. You think of positivity you will get it. Thanks D. Ivan!

  • @davit1652
    @davit1652 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    From this video, I've learned about the concept of connecting personality type to the laws of attraction and how it can lead to the manifestation of desires and the fulfillment of one's purpose. Dr. D Ivan Young's perspective on the divine component of the laws of attraction resonates with me, as it emphasizes the importance of understanding oneself and aligning with one's unique personality type to attract what is desired in life. His ability to connect with people on a deep level and offer insightful wisdom is truly remarkable. I appreciate his compassionate and authentic communication style, which has the power to positively impact lives.

  • @nourwassim6141
    @nourwassim6141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Take Away Points -
    -Like attracts like expectations
    -What you you feel/consistently think about, you will get
    -Monitor what you think about (Thoughts + Feelings = Manifestations)
    -Learn to master your subconscious mind, be sensitive to your surroundings & circumstances
    -Operate right now, do not stress over the past or future and your subconscious mind will manifest the things you desire
    -Everything in your life happens for a reason, ask yourself why.
    -Why am I doing this? What motivates me to do this?
    -Don't wait for an answer - meditate. The better you feel about something, the more you do it
    -Be willing to examine every moment for it's meaning. What is this moment trying to teach you right now?
    -Stop being reactive, become more proactive
    -Seek Truth
    -Confront yourself and others
    -Passion, Purpose, Presence
    -Feel, Believe Receive
    -Run on faith - without seeing outcomes but knowing you will get the results you desire
    -That which you seek, that which you desire, that which you long for, is equally seeking you.

  • @robertdorr6607
    @robertdorr6607 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The speaker sounds like a buddhist. Whatever he is, his words were beautiful because they serve nothing other then truth and the desire for others to succeed. Wonderful person, blessings to you.

  • @Roughestdiamond
    @Roughestdiamond 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is my favorite TedTalk of all time… been watching over & over again for years

  • @adrianna8993
    @adrianna8993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Everything happens for a reason ……the betrayal of the person who I thought was the love of my life teach me to stop looking for validation in them n start loving every inch of myself, remember everything starts with us n the way we feel about ourselves!! I really hope you start you self healing journal today because you’re worth it.

    • @carissafeal
      @carissafeal ปีที่แล้ว

      I truly hope I feel this one day

  • @ashmcgraw3894
    @ashmcgraw3894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If you’re reading this, you are deserving of peace, success and hardship. You have the power and the strength to become your individual self. Believe in your journey

  • @ankslee6209
    @ankslee6209 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    • You have to run on Faith, you have to run not seeing the outcome but just Knowing that there will be the result that you desire
    • And aaaas you Feeeeeel, aaas you Belieeeve...you will Recieeeeeeeeeeeeieve.
    • That what you desire, that what you long for. That what you seek.....is equally seeking you.

    • @user-dx5bn4yk4f
      @user-dx5bn4yk4f 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anks Lee you’re picture is from spotify right? 😂

  • @thefamilypurposeshow3271
    @thefamilypurposeshow3271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Staying positive and understanding the situations your in is important. That’s why my motto is; Never Personal Always Purpose. It doesn’t matter what we encounter we don’t have to take it personal, everything has purpose behind it

    • @davidsmith-oi3zg
      @davidsmith-oi3zg ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello The how are you doing today i hope everything is fine with you?

  • @theniceguy4932
    @theniceguy4932 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We are all linked to the universe what we think and desire the Universe will provide so positive thoughts and positive desires is the key for a happy prosperous life.

  • @Brobix
    @Brobix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The best way to monitor your thoughts is to do meditation and train your mind to be present so from then you start to be more aware of your thoughts because now your training your mind and body to be present. Make prayer, meditation and gratitude a daily routine.

  • @Clauds71
    @Clauds71 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    This came at the right time, I’m trying to process some bad news and this is helping so much. Thank you 😊

    • @mardigras33
      @mardigras33 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Claudia Okyere-Fosu awwwww sweetie I
      Hope you get an understanding of what is occurring right now

    • @favourokonkwo6847
      @favourokonkwo6847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you get through it

    • @tyreektulley7656
      @tyreektulley7656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I pray strength for you keep focus nhave a open mind 😁😁😁😁😁

  • @ryanwilliams6478
    @ryanwilliams6478 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I like how he said, “You don’t need to know the ball is coming. You just gotta keep running.” Not needing confirmation is HUGE to the ability of endurance. Keep doing it, believing with all your heart you’ll find it, and you will succeed. That’s faith

  • @mscassama
    @mscassama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Year 2020 and I just found this video! Awesome message! The laws of attraction will always work in my favor!! I truly believe this!

  • @anthiekoukiou4262
    @anthiekoukiou4262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "That what you seek, that what you desire, that what you long for, is equally seeking YOU! " Loved that!

  • @LunaLu-00
    @LunaLu-00 6 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Thoughts + Feelings = Manifestations

  • @TjihuzeSherlynnKavaaKanjaa
    @TjihuzeSherlynnKavaaKanjaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    That what you seek
    That what you desire
    That what you long for
    .... is equally seeking you 💖

  • @mandymakhumalo4568
    @mandymakhumalo4568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This Ted talk changed my life. I never understood emotional intelligence till this video.

  • @trosa7593
    @trosa7593 7 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I have often worried that most men simply lacked the capacity to be emotionally intelligent, to quiet the mind and be proactive instead of reactive as Dr. Young mentioned. But you are correct Dr. Young. I have merely been here like a sitting duck allowing myself to feel almost victimized and unwilling to attract men who have embraced the capacity you have studied and practiced. But with your reminder, I am now ready to begin seeking out the men that I know exist who can open themselves up and discuss emotions the way that we believe is healthy. Thanks Doc!

    • @trosa7593
      @trosa7593 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      thanks :) it is kind of funny, I actually met someone, a date, who is just this way, and I am so grateful! You are absolutely right, we have to stick with our intentions!

    • @basiliorenovato6686
      @basiliorenovato6686 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      L

    • @ZFern9390
      @ZFern9390 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      T Rosa good luck w that

    • @leahmaepelaez-abangan3833
      @leahmaepelaez-abangan3833 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's just means that men are more emotional thAn women..

    • @ashleynoel
      @ashleynoel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      T Rosa amen girl!!

  • @EmmeRain11
    @EmmeRain11 7 ปีที่แล้ว +623

    One of the best messages on Law of Attraction I've heard. I shared it all over the place. lol

    • @schoolkutielake5336
      @schoolkutielake5336 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great Video clip! Sorry for chiming in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you heard about - Lammywalness his happiness Guide (do a google search)? It is a good one of a kind product for understanding what men really want minus the hard work. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my old buddy Taylor after a lifetime of fighting got cool results with it.

    • @acajudi100
      @acajudi100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Real truth. Thank you.
      Judi Grace Storycorps.

    • @ImOldandSoAreMyBooks
      @ImOldandSoAreMyBooks 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lacresha Hayes-Raino My favorite is 'work until you no longer have to introduce yourself'.

    • @QueenJeneeneX
      @QueenJeneeneX 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im glad someone got it cause im sitting here thinking the opposite

    • @ashleynoel
      @ashleynoel 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lacresha Hayes-Raino girl I hear ya!!!

  • @mukhammed_kaldybai
    @mukhammed_kaldybai ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1.Emotional intelligence is the clarity about the situation that has occurred.
    2.We put our emotion into things that we are thinking.
    3. Monitore what you think about 🤔
    4. Don't focus on negative things get rid of it
    5. Understand that the conscious thinking is not the solution.
    6. There are no accidents Master Oogway.
    7. If you struggle with something ask why this is happening to me ? Why now? Why me? What should I learn from it?
    8. Meditate Find time to stay quiet to stay with your own thoughts.
    9. Seek the truth. You have a tunneled narrow vision so don't think that you know s lot.
    I'm enhancing my active listening so thats why I noted ✅️

  • @abbyagust
    @abbyagust 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Adding onto his mention of meditation, I do think being silent is the best way to sort out our desires and thoughts, but you don't have to sit down and not move for half an hour to get the benefits. I find showering to be really meditative, because I'm blocked from all distractions and the loud background noise of the shower blocks out my loudest thoughts and allows me to think about things that have been in the back of my mind all day. Just doing any physical task where it doesn't require you to think to do it is a good way to get that meditation in, like working out alone in a room or taking walks outside alone. By allowing yourself to be alone and silent you make yourself one step closer to figuring you and your desires out, which will help you on your path to success.

  • @magesense456
    @magesense456 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Yes!!! A doctor who is so pleasant to listen to. So nice to hear a caring educated man speak of the universe and people’s relationships to it.

  • @KanekiKojo
    @KanekiKojo ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It wasn't a sermon but he went to church with this🔥
    Thank you for a great talk

  • @linarawrite8045
    @linarawrite8045 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    this might truly be THE best ted ex talk out there! everything he said just resonated with me in a deeper level and i'm so grateful to have stumbled upon this videos

  • @arkpolar9604
    @arkpolar9604 6 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I have explored, travelled, discovered and looked all over the place for wisdom. I've ventured deep into the depths of philosophy, religion and science. I have taken in so much information but somehow this was different. When you listen, you can choose to do three things: You can Ignore, you can acknowledge or you can believe. Ignorance will only keep you running from the things that you need most. Acknowledgement is observing the wisdom but letting it pass right by. It is wise, but it isn't adventurous. It is serene, but it isn't life-changing. Believe in that knowledge, embrace that wisdom. This video helped me to do just that - to embrace, and I'd just like to mention that I am incredibly thankful that this man shared such divine wisdom in such a kind and understanding way. All the best to everyone xxx

    • @justinthematrix
      @justinthematrix 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I screenshotted your comment to read again and again. Well put

    • @arkpolar9604
      @arkpolar9604 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Justin Shaw Thanks!

    • @jpwopwop
      @jpwopwop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is beautifully said. Take the time to listen to the Bible, I promise you will find even better wisdom. God Bless you!

    • @gladyskris2397
      @gladyskris2397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great

    • @peterkinuthia172
      @peterkinuthia172 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice one there

  • @jayayo6392
    @jayayo6392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "After all, that which you seek,
    that which you desire,
    that which you long for,
    is equally seeking you.”

  • @candicevs.candice6494
    @candicevs.candice6494 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is so great. I am going to consciously allow this message to penetrate the way I live and respond to life's circumstances. Thank you so much for this mind altering message.

  • @ashleynoel
    @ashleynoel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love it! Best LOA lecture ever. It runs perfectly together. I like his examples , he explains everything in lamens terms . EXCELLENT!

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish I could speak with such power and have such presence on stage. I literally stopped typing my work to pay close attention to this talk. Absolutely great ❤️

  • @sherrod1139
    @sherrod1139 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    It’s amazing that his gift has been manifested. I have learned a lot from this Talk and I will love to watch it again and more. Please pray and ask God for wisdom as to how to go about this. It is truly blessing

    • @renataperkovic539
      @renataperkovic539 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi from future..i discover this just today but his talk is timeless...

  • @anastasiahegwood2106
    @anastasiahegwood2106 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed this ✝️🙏🏾💪🏾

  • @zachashh4864
    @zachashh4864 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is one of the best presentations i’ve seen. simply calling this a lecture understates the value of not only what’s being said, but how it’s said as well. I’m going to watch this video at the beginnings and ends of my days at least three times a week.

  • @18632ewa8
    @18632ewa8 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    in 12 minutes one of the best talks I've ever heard in my life. I thank you for your time.

  • @LunaLu-00
    @LunaLu-00 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    seek the greater truth...: "you said i can't, the system says i can't, but something inside me tells me *_i can_* "
    you have to run on faith ☺

  • @escuchareescuchar2473
    @escuchareescuchar2473 7 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Thank you for helping me have a deeper meaning about some stuff I've been working through in life. You're plain right on.

  • @togokeynes
    @togokeynes หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Dr Young for sharing your gift. Your talk spoke to me and you captivated me. Its like I was seeking YOU, but in fact I was seeking ME. Thank you for magnifying my power to serve, give and keep following my true path to enlightenment. I know our paths will cross in the future and we will collaborate together. Thank you, Togo

  • @lisadixon6617
    @lisadixon6617 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My favorite part is the last sentence. The whole talk was simple to understand. Just perfect. Thank you.

  • @kaitlynb4171
    @kaitlynb4171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beautifully said! This speech offers a lot to reflect on. The ending in particular really gives me hope. Thank you for your words! 🙏

  • @kdr2882
    @kdr2882 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This speaker resonates so well with higher principles. I'm extremely impressed.

  • @kbrown6543
    @kbrown6543 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh my. The way he ended it gave me chills. I believe in the Law of Attraction and the universe has been proving to me that it works. I needed to hear this message. Thanks so much!

  • @judecranbourne1481
    @judecranbourne1481 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I told myself, the first video i will see in youtube tonight will provide me comfort at this very trying time. Had a hard day today. This video came up. His words hit the spot! Thank you!

  • @stellastenkova1082
    @stellastenkova1082 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Best TED talk ever!!! Love love love it! Bless you, Dr. D Ivan Young! ❤ This video found me when I needed it most! Thank you!

  • @ashleybee2190
    @ashleybee2190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You know this is one of the most beneficial TED videos I've ever seen or it at the least came to me at the right time in my life. I've been surrounded by people who say i can't when i feel the burning "yes i can". It also had me reflect on my negative experiences with people and really back up to think about why i feel this and what bothers me about it so much. Being able to find the similarities between you and the person you can't stand is one of the hardest things to reflect on if you aren't prepared for it and now i do feel prepared! Thank you!

  • @2random628
    @2random628 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This guy is incredibly insightful! "How do you use your mind?" Love it!

  • @annierivera2987
    @annierivera2987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Tears are streaming down my face. You’ve explained a topic that I’ve heard and read about again and again. I almost “subconsciously” watched this video bc of how many I’ve seen. I really understand now. Thank you as this was a game changer for me. Much love.

  • @hoyyoh1179
    @hoyyoh1179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Things will come to you when your feelings and thoughts are ready to receive it. Harmony and Alignment. 2020! We got this! You are not alone.

  • @Leanstephan
    @Leanstephan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Amazing speech. Been thinking about this for a while now. He put it into words..

  • @SehrGutFenchel
    @SehrGutFenchel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This talk got me in the most helpful rabbithole in my life. I truly think I understood a lot about my mind and what brought me in my current situation. I’m ready for change now. Thanks a lot Dr.

  • @WendyInTheCity
    @WendyInTheCity 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The way he broke down the law, was easy to receive and understand!
    Love it!

  • @donnasalter3791
    @donnasalter3791 7 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Brilliantly said.I took notes. I am so grateful for the insightfulness that it gave me. Thank you so very much!

    • @hn20ad
      @hn20ad 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      طججج

  • @jeaninelanza981
    @jeaninelanza981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I believe I can manifest the thing I desire! (Healthier mind) and so can you! Blessings to everyone!

  • @melissaproietti4253
    @melissaproietti4253 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best talk i heard so far, his voice brings your attention yes or yes... So good, grateful to find this talk!! Smart man, made me question my life in such a short time

  • @93anagirl
    @93anagirl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    His words spoke exactly what I feel in my soul. I know I'm in the right place when I start hearing my heart speak to me again and my soul feeling so fullfilled it could explode. It's the best feeling. The Alchemist really made me understand better what that voice inside me was.. it's deff full of the Law of Attraction.
    This speaker was wonderful.

  • @MiszTopNotch04
    @MiszTopNotch04 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Took me all over the world with that one, I going to watch this many times and study it until I overstand it.

  • @leohagan5274
    @leohagan5274 7 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I'm constantly bombarded by negative thoughts surrounding my relationship with my parents & own self esteem that I believe they rubbed off on me. I constantly focus on the person I want to be and the relationships that I want to archive, because I know that it lies somewhere within me to live up to my full potential and intelligence. I wouldn't want something this badly if it wasn't within my abilities to manifest.
    I've been practicing positive thinking and visualizing what it is exactly I want but so far I've seen minimal change...I have to keep trying though because it's all I have left. I'm really hoping with perseverance & intent, this will pay off.

    • @eklctc1Kng1arrw
      @eklctc1Kng1arrw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Great attitude. Regardless of what anyone has seemingly done, take ownership of how you feel. You shall continue to get better.

    • @brej1521
      @brej1521 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It will. Just keep going and don't give up. I'm on a similar path as you. We'll get there. ☺

    • @rubytuessdayxox3993
      @rubytuessdayxox3993 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      bro same i like your train of thought.

    • @jadeluna773
      @jadeluna773 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Leo Hagan very similar x

    • @saniasinghania1183
      @saniasinghania1183 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very relatable.

  • @Cube-hu4dp
    @Cube-hu4dp ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Dont wait to talk, truly listen.”
    I dont know why but this hit deep

  • @fantasypolice
    @fantasypolice ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much praise. Everyone here must be better listeners because I had trouble following and connecting the dots. If it was one, streamlined topic to a majority of you, I am aware of my deficiency and desire these skills. By rule, now it should manifest. 🔥🔥

  • @husseinsa5050
    @husseinsa5050 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is one of the best TED videos I’ve ever watched!

  • @nurulassyfa9160
    @nurulassyfa9160 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love watching these types of videos it reminds me of why I need to continue my journey of finding myself and discovering the keys to reaching my inner and outer peace. lots of inspiring words I got from this video. I was so touched by the word "That what you seek, that what you desire, that what you long for, is equally seeking YOU!” "It takes effort to be successful, but the greatest effort is mastering how you use your mind" Excellent message!
    Words and thoughts of encouragement, specifically targeted, can help a person change his/her life. You may never know how many people took the rope from their neck and stepped down from the chair because your words helped to revive their hope. May all who care enough to share be granted safe and prosperous passage through this life. The better you feel about it, the more you should do it. And if it doesn’t make sense to anyone but you... all the better.
    I wish I could speak with such power and have a such presence on stage. I literally stopped typing my work to pay close attention to this talk. Absolutely great
    ❤♥

    • @saltoftheearth333
      @saltoftheearth333 ปีที่แล้ว

      Start a different self-talk and you will indeed have the power and the presence on stage. Decide what you believe of yourself and make small moves towards it. You are already a powerful human being, step up your game! xxx

  • @TheBrian100k
    @TheBrian100k 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I haven’t been living my life the way I should. Nor have I have emotionally aware of any of my own self destructive habits. I’m blessed to have been able to come across this video. Thank you so much!

  • @jrg1121
    @jrg1121 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like this guy from the start, taking a moment to appreciate his fellow speakers.

  • @ItsAlexusGreene.
    @ItsAlexusGreene. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Starting off the New Year the right way.. very thankful for this message

  • @jollyjokress3852
    @jollyjokress3852 7 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    i think that emotional intelligence is increased one you are relentlessly yourself and you have a good sense of self-worth.

    • @user-dx5bn4yk4f
      @user-dx5bn4yk4f 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jolly Jokress that’s true 😁

    • @ryanwilliams6478
      @ryanwilliams6478 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jolly Jokress “Relentlessly yourself.” Beautifully phrased.

    • @Freespiritedqueen
      @Freespiritedqueen 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have a high level of EI.

  • @1fty
    @1fty 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the best Law of Attraction videos out there which addresses the key ingredient i.e. investment of emotion on the thing that you want to attract!

  • @chelsieharris8136
    @chelsieharris8136 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this. I’ve needed to rewrite my anxious mind for sometime but I would consistently go back to the same kind of thinking. This makes so much sense

  • @marieslane5883
    @marieslane5883 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love this guy So intelligent and great to listen to... Respect !!!!

  • @Hairbytyra.s
    @Hairbytyra.s 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This gives me so much chills because last year I had finally decided to follow my intuition and God's word since then I've been seeing manifestations in the little things turning into big things. Enlightenment of the good and the bad is what I call this and I'm in love with every moment of it 💕

  • @anguie12
    @anguie12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing, wonderful, incredible things will happen to you! You deserve everything good that your life will bring!

  • @quickshorts-4u
    @quickshorts-4u ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I re watch this everyday and I went from an addict with no ambitious to a family man and now I have started a yt something I've wanted to do with years, words aren't as powerful as actions, you gotta love to learn, and learn to love💜

  • @bfitnessforlife
    @bfitnessforlife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you thank you thank you 🙏🏼 This is a truly inspiration talk!

  • @niyati493
    @niyati493 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    One of the most effective talks till now...really inspiring!

  • @xoxo_s2903
    @xoxo_s2903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much D. Ivan. Really needed this. Thank you for those insightful methods you gave us that we can use to better ourselves. Thank you!

  • @JerryFitness01
    @JerryFitness01 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Speechless... What I can I say? All I studied, learned, believed on the subject, he got it! Well said, well explained. Just feels good to have of some kind of confirmation!

  • @moniqueisboring
    @moniqueisboring 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I really liked this speech, but I think I need a few more listen throughs to be able to fully grasp all of which he is saying. It's like I understand yet at the same time I don't

    • @ellie3431
      @ellie3431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lmao same

  • @jeanniecampbell1374
    @jeanniecampbell1374 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    well presented and SO INTERESTING .....THANK YOU

  • @hanifamenen1082
    @hanifamenen1082 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely love this talk! Speaking my Language and what I strive to teach my clients too! Thank-you for your work and talk D. Ivan Young!

  • @thetravelguy8461
    @thetravelguy8461 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn...what an amazing speech. BRAVO Dr. Ivan Young! Listened to this while working late at night and feel totally refreshed. Love the knowledge!