Can We Not Let Our Breakups Break Us | Tasha Jackson | TEDxCSULB
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- Getting over a painful breakup can be one of the hardest things we will ever experience-why doesn’t our culture have any rituals for mourning a lost love? Psychotherapist Ms. Tasha Jackson, MA, takes the TEDx Talk stage to discuss the messy work of learning to mend your heart and love again by sharing her personal story and professional remedies for not allowing “breakups to break us” as we try to stay connected during this “loneliness epidemic.” Finding symbolism, wisdom, and even humor in heartbreak, Jackson inspires anyone grieving a lost love to get their hearts pumping again. Born with a girl crush on a two-foot pig-clinical psychotherapist, marriage family therapist and relationship counselor, Tasha Jackson believes we could all glean some hutzpah from the audacious, trailblazing feminist, Miss Piggy. Daring to make psychology digestible and self-help actually fun, Tasha channels her spirit animal in her TEDx Talk to playfully karate-chop a little emotional wisdom into people mending broken hearts -“Don’t forget how miserable they made you! You deserve to be happy! You’re an awesome catch-Hi-Yah!” Raised by a lesbian mother, Tasha gained national attention in the LGBTQ community for being one of the first U.S. based therapists to openly advocate for gay parenting. With a diverse clientele that ranges from drag queens to CEOs, Tasha Jackson has been widely published in academic journals and guest lectured as a master-level teacher. Her new book is Master Dater: The New Normal Dating Guide for Finding Love In the Digital Age, Plus 29 Hilarious and Humbling Anecdotes from a Therapist’s Dating Life. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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what pains the most is one minute they’re your bestest friends in the world, and the next they’re strangers. even though he hurt me so much, brought me so much pain, i know the love i have for him will always be superior than the negative emotions I feel towards him. that’s what sucks the most.
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This relationship has not failed, it was completed. I like this. Thanks a lot!!
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I'm one week fresh out of a breakup after 8 years together. It's the hardest thing I've had to go through. This video is comforting right now...
3 days into a break up after 6 years and 11 months
How are you now?
@@emjay11bravo How are you now?
How are you now?
How are you now?
I’m one week in, and it’s been so rough. After five years it was just thrown away. Movies I found comfort in doesn’t make me laugh the same anymore
Songs don’t have much meaning anymore
Food doesn’t taste the same anymore
Sleep isn’t as restful and desired anymore
And the world isn’t as colorful anymore
I’m praying for myself and whoever else is going through this rn 💔
5 years, day 1 for me
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never read a comment so relatable. nothing is enjoyable anymore. I am literally on a lifetime adventure right now and I can't fully enjoy one bit of it and it feels terrible that this is destroying my experience but I can't change it. Hope it gets better for you too
I hope you are going to be okay. I am undergoing the same right now. I was fooled for years and only knew the betrayal days ago. Thankful to my friends for their support.
How are you doing now? I need hope
It hasn't been too easy for me to admit the end of my relationship with the woman I consider as everything in my life. But therapy and Tedtalk have made me realize myself to move forward
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The part where one day your so close and the next day your strangers hurts man… it’s almost like did the love ever really exist?
And I keep asking myself this same question? Did the love ever reall exist?
Exactly what im feeling now.. Its like a nightmare and I cant wake up
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exactly how in feeling right now. it's so painful
Thank you Tasha. I'm just 2 weeks fresh from a heartbreak. Your encouraging words helped me feel better.
I. am 2 days fresh from it. Keep it strong!
Me too, it's almost been a year but it feels like yesterday. We will get past this, heal, and will find what we really deserve!
How are you doing today with this any advice? To someone on their second week
@@stellaariano7720 I want you to know that you are not alone. You will be crying a lot and its okay. But we need to accept the situation. It would be extremely difficult for the first few weeks, but I assure you that the pain will be well worth it. All you have right now is yourself, you must be extra gentle and take care of yourself more 😊 Breakups can also be a catalyst for you to truly discover and love yourself. I'm praying for your heart to heal and to receive the love that you truly deserve 🌷💚
hoes ain't loyal
For anyone who's feeling unworthy
you are not, and i love you..
Love right back at you. Bless your kind heart. What happened to the Discord channel?
Love you too
Loneliness is a part of being human. We all need to learn to be alone.
If I could pick one video to show anyone going through a breakup it would be this. Everything was just what I needed to hear.
I totally agree with this one.
I so needed to hear this; heartache is the only pain a doctor cannot heal…
Thanks Tasha! I credit my breakups with giving me the clarity and maturity to choose to marry my wife after dating for only a year. Those breakups became assets!
Thanks for watching! It's a nice reframe you give that the breakups served you with wisdom to know when it's right!
I married mine after 6 weeks, big mistake
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I am 65 and have to get over a breakup. The TH-cam bots served this up, and I was skeptical that I would find Tasha relatable because of our age difference. I’m happy to say that nothing could be further from the truth. She has great insights and her vulnerability makes her really compelling. Thanks for a great talk, it really helped me:)
Everything I've read says rebound relationships are a horrible idea. And statistically they do not work. You want to take the time the LEARN from your suffering And grow yourself and that takes time. You will be comparing your rebound relationships to the one you just got out of and that's not fair to either of you. Take some time off, learn from your suffering, take the time to grow from the loss, build on you first and foremost before taking on another. Whoring yourself out is a distraction not a fix. And leads to regret and remorse. Rebound relationships are a bad idea unless you're a codependent insecure human being.
You are so correct . i just got dumped and kicked out with my 3 yr old son . my ex said i didn't love him and didn't show it . i was trying but it was too much because he would accuse me of liking my boss and everyone else but him .he treated me like a cheater . two days after we broke up he took all my things to a storage and went back with his ex . It hurts so much knowing he never cared and could just drop us like that
She’s rebounding me atm actually, thank you for reminding me she’s completely terrible for that
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why hasn't this gone viral? I did a search on how to let go as I am struggling with a breakup..even though I know it is the right thing to do..and this TedTalk hit the spot! Thank you so much for your words of wisdom Ms. Tasha Jackson!!
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One week after losing the man that I thought would be my life partner. We were so compatible and I thought things were going well. He ended it with me. Looking back, I wish I could change a few things and have shown him my interest more in the way he wanted (even though I was into him). It started out so strong, I don’t know what happened. He said we lost our connection and that hurts so much, because I still wanted to be with him and thought we were a good match. The heartache is horrible. Replaying everything in my head, feeling alone, and wondering about the what ifs. I know they say you will be someone else, but it took me 8 years since my first relationship to find this feeling again. Im 30 now and I see everyone else finding love around me. I really miss him and thought we would have a life together, I can’t get out of bed.
I’m in this same kind of pain. I ended my relationship while going through a health crisis. He won’t take me back. It’s brutal. I hope you’re feeling better ❤
hey, i hope you're feeling better. i am 2 weeks in, its truly awful x
If he didn't fight for you then he wasn't valuing you enough. I know it hurts, I'm still recovering myself but eventually you will realize that it's better sooner rather than later.
My boyfriend of 4 years went to work last week and then just vanished. He never came home. I learned he quit his job and they claim he moved to another state. I am completely blindsided and devastated. There was no fight. There was no discussion leading up to this. We had just signed a lease together. The pain is unbearable. It creeps into my thoughts all day. It consumes me. I cannot sleep. I cannot function. I dealt with the sudden and unexpected death of my parent better than I am coping with this. Because atleast with death, there is an end. And now I have to find a roommate, a stranger to move in so I can pay the rent. I don’t know how I’m going to do this when I can hardly get out of bed. I am paralyzed by sadness and fear. I want the pain to end.
@@HH-gv8mx i feel your pain my girlfriend of 4.5 years decided to leave after i just bought a house for us to live in so that she could be closer to work and because of how expensive renting was, that was 4 months ago and now shes leaving me, im fortunate that i have some closure and im really sorry he left you suddenly like that, im really worried about finding a dependable roommate myself 😂 i hope youre feeling better since you made your comment and i hope you found a decent roommate
I loved this talk. I watched it twice in a row. Fresh out of a break up. I think you are an amazing speaker and made me feel better today! Thank you!
My face mattered but not my words. What a powerful sentence to describe what It is Like Being a woman!
Rebounding doesn’t work and makes me feel worse.
My husband of 40 years left me 4 months ago and I was blindsided and had no idea. He has filed for divorce and I am grieving so terribly.
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@@johnnyg1229 thank you I am getting better everyday
Im at the point where Im asking myself “how could I have been better” or “what did I do for her to be able to let go so easily” even though I know I treated her the best I could and would’ve gave her the world. I just have to much love for her that I can’t have any grudges or anger and idk if thats a good or bad thing. It definitely helps to know that I’m not the only one feeling like this
Sometimes that’s what drives people away. Through my many rejections and years of total singledom, I’ve only learned to stay fiercely independent and even when you like someone again, keep suggesting that it won’t work or you shouldn’t be together, almost to test whether they’re actually even interested. You can’t allow yourself to be the one more invested because you won’t let the other person even compete with your level of attachment.
@@Liusila this!
It’s easier for people to move on if they are good looking. It doesn’t guarantee finding the right one, but it guarantees a greater chance… through more opportunity.
I used to be beautiful. But my ex left me battered with broken bones and he smashed my front teeth.
20 years of marriage..completed. I'm worth of ❤️, healthy love.
Loved this Tasha! I think we need more healthy rituals, more awareness, more healing. So inspiring!!!
Today, I realized I need to DECIDE to move on. 🙂
How are you 10 months later?
@@cabrondemente1 Hey! Thanks for asking me. Wow! I forgot about this 😂
Honestly, I SEE MY BREAK UP as a BLESSING now.
I don't feel sad anymore. I'm currently in a place of my dreams, and working my dream job. I am also doing a lot of reading and writing (hobbies that I neglected coz I was in love) and I've been feeling productive each day.
So, to everyone who's reading this:
IT DOES GET BETTER!
Just choose to move on. You don't need to know everything to move on. Learn as you go 💯🥰
@@restymacalisang thanks for replying. I'm glad you're doing well, I'm going through the "mother of all break ups" right now and you're an inspiration to me because I too went back to books and writing which I had been neglecting and they've been a good refuge.
I'm three months in, it still hurts but I've learned how to manage my emotions with therapy; weekends are still the worst but at least I don't break down anymore. I'm starting a new job on monday so who knows? Maybe it's my dream job as well.
@@cabrondemente1 You're on the right track! I'm proud of you. YES! do what makes you feel ALIVE again.
And also KEEP trying new things.
Healing isn't linear. I still have bouts of sadness at times but I grow to love it.
As a happy person, I never knew I could reach my inner melancholia.
Sadness makes you reflect. Reflection makes u a better person.
I really enjoyed this speech. It is a topic that I have been struggling with for over a year and a half. I feel the topic of boundaries really needs more discussion in our society. While a very effective tool, it can be abused. It can be a very selfish tool. While happiness comes from within, and we must heal ourselves first. It is vitally important that we then share our happiness with others. Especially those that we may have hurt while on our path to recovery. Thank you.
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start 18:41 for me is self compassion with courage to summary, thank you
Had a break up after 6 years. Didnt see it coming. Your video really helped
Thanks Tasha
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wow....... im lost for words. this was so direct, i strongly believe God drew me to this video. your amazing tasha!
I am touched. Thank you for your words and spirit here.
It wasn't god but you! You want the change, dont undervalue yourself!!
@@alejandrofrade325 I agree. Moreover why do people only attribute GOOD things to an UNVERIFIABLE deity? Why not attribute the BAD as well? It’s because “divine salvation” comforts the mind, but it’s a fairytale nonetheless.
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I hope everyone that sees this is healed in every area in their life. I know it may be hard but keep going. You got this 👍🏼 ❤
When will the pain go away? How do you move forward through the pain?
My boyfriend of 4 years went to work last week and then just vanished. He never came home. I learned he quit his job and they claim he moved to another state. I am completely blindsided and devastated. There was no fight. There was no discussion leading up to this. We had just signed a lease together. The pain is unbearable. It creeps into my thoughts all day. It consumes me. I cannot sleep. I cannot function. I dealt with the sudden and unexpected death of my parent better than I am coping with this. Because atleast with death, there is an end. And now I have to find a roommate, a stranger to move in so I can pay the rent. I don’t know how I’m going to do this when I can hardly get out of bed I am paralyzed by sadness and fear.
Im 2 years and half but still cant move the pain is still their and dont fancy anyone else since her
Tasha Jackson just spoke to my soul! 😪
Thank you so much and God bless you in huge ways, this is like a small dose of pain reliever to my broken heart and trust me when I say that it has given me a different perspective on my situation🙏🏼 I believe that I’m worthy of an extraordinary love story and sometimes we confuse the wrong person with a great story only because we want it but reality is we shouldn’t have passed after the first date; however, we end up learning something because of that wrong person so it’s not all to waist...change hurts but we’ll definitely be better, stronger, wiser and more alive ❤️
Tasha is being very vulnerable here. Brava.
This was so great! Thank you!
Seriously tho.. self compassion is so important.
I was a rebound woman. Be responsible and don't use another person to get over a breakup. It might help yourself but it leaves somebody else in tears and suffering.
I’ve become lost in a mirage of sorrow and grief. I want to trust the process, but the pain blinds any hope. Is this what love does to one ?
it does, it's like getting lost in a very bright light yet all you will see is darkness.. you get have sight but you are blinded and all you want to do is get out of it ... but........
I feel the same
@@wiwihoyos it gets better ! My biggest advice is to sit with your emotions and feel them 100%. Journal your feelings as well and tell yourself it’s okay to feel the way you do. Time will heal I promise
So proud of this wonderful woman! Best talk ever❤
The only thing I disagree on is the rebound thing. There’s also a lot of studies why it isn’t healthy and why hook up culture isn’t actually healthy but anyway 🙈
Going through it now I feel so lost and broken thank you for this video
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I've been married for over 40 years, then betrayed by an affair....The breakup is heart breaking and soul destroying. I hope I can utilize some of what was said by Ms Jackson.
I loved this talk. It has been so helpful. Thank you, I truly feel grateful for it today ❤
Thank You Tasha. I Needed this So bad today. Very much appreciated 🙏
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You can tell shes genuine from the way she talks and laughs at her own memes. Love it❤
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I went through a break up in January and I told myself that I wasn't going to look his social media at all. I am not going to check if he is with someone or not. I am going to focus on myself and that's it. I still want love and all. I just don't need to feel like I need to chase it down in order to have it. One day I will fall in love one day... Just not now and that's okay.
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2022 fresh from breakup of a 10yr relationship with the father of my child i hope the more i watch vids like this will help me
I’m really hurting after my ex broke up with me 4 days ago. I’m scared that I won’t be able to move on and feel hopeless
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I'm so sorry I'm 2 1/2 months in after she broke up with me. Dont be ashamed to cry alot do it! Member don't recover, heal! Give yourself time for you. Best of luck!!
I can totally understand ur struggle no words or sympathy will work for u now...but trust me with time u will start healing.. just have patience and focus more on keeping urself busy..if u want to talk and get some help..I m here to help u..because I can totally relate with ur pain
Thanks Tasha. Sharing your experience
Thanks Tasha made my eyes stop leaking for a second.
I am a male and it seems I am out of a 7 years relationship . It happened a week ago . Oh boy it hurts so so bad .. I have not given up on her and said so and suggested a joint counselling as we both agree we have behaved in way that was not right .. this is I see as a glimmer of hope and worth holding on to as to just accept it and throw in the towel surely can’t be right given so many good good moments shared .. I am 65 she is 55 . I wonder what anyone reading this has to say ? Hurting and shedding tears is I believe a way to cope with emotions - being now on my own is one heck of a truly bad feeling
This speech was very difficult to follow. Im sure the message was good but it's hard to have a takeaway when it's delivery is very choppy and so unprepared.
And what was that hot tub video/reason??
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I agree, the references to her life and lifestyle did nothing for me. This only reminded me that a person can have a message yet if the delivery/presentation is weak or muddled, then the message is lost.
Amazing talk especially about reframing relationships as completion dates instead of breaking up
I’m still heartbroken after 30 years. I chose to be single for the last 17 years. It helps to be single for lots of reasons. Dating me has been the very best part of my life. I have only one piece of advice….dont be afraid to find yourself and be your own best friend and learn to sit still and feel even when you can’t. The pain passes, gratitude helps.
I enjoyed the talk as a whole, but suggesting that getting over someone by getting under someone is good advice is actually terrible advice. I know she mentioned a study, but many other studies show that that's what serial monogamists do, and no self respecting therapist would suggest that serial monogamists are healthy. At best, they have a serious problem with spending any amount of time on their own. At worst, they have underlying emotional issues that have never been addressed. Breakups are hard, no doubt, but actual growth comes from spending some time alone to analyze the relationship, what you did wrong, what you did right, etc.
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Thank you!
Thank you for this sincere talk :)
Thank you. I am meant to listen to this.
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Thank you for this. ❤
I’m destroyed , I have it all and he just broke up with me because he stoped loving me . After all this years
I am really sorry,i hope good things will come ur way soon ,have faith in urself
I’m really sorry. I’m going through the same exact thing :(
I know we wall feel better, all I’ve been hearing is time heals all so I’m just trying to trust that process- and do what I can say to day to avoid thinking about her too much
How are you? Mine was 6 weeks ago and it sucks. Chat off here?
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This was such an insightful video. It really resonated with what I’m going through now and it’s making me feel a lot better about moving on. Thank you.
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This speech told me nothing I haven’t experienced or known before. I guess I’m used to heartbreak more than most of you here lol
YES! Thank you for the part about lying under somebody else. I felt guilty about moving in with a decent woman after a divorce. But the close companionship accelerated the recovery. It is now scientifically established. Also Tasha, you did not deserve any kind of disrespect from that lowlife of an ex. Nobody does. You are really quite attractive. You should be proud of your accomplishments. Keep up the good work! 👍 Joe
Thank you Joseph for your comments. I had my role with my ex too but I appreciate that positivity you left here. I like how you have my back ;-) It warmed my heart.
I am so glad I could relieve some guilt about lying under somebody else. This made my day! Of course, it is not for everyone and it can have its problems too like not taking the time to look at our patterns. But I wish society would not only look at the new research but also stop being so judgemental of others lives of what is making them happy or accelerate their recovery (alone or with someone.) I wish you all the best! May peace be with you. - Tasha
Not all of them fail but most do. Research shows people that go through the pain of a breakup and take time on their own have better personal growth than those that jump from one relationship to another; most end up reaching back to their ex after a while when they don't find what they're looking for in the new person.
I drove the love of my life last month because I am wild. We were supposed to moving country, I had all my things packed, I attended my surprise leaving do, my phone lost battery... he abandoned me. I sold my car and got rid of flat, I was left to an empty house with all my things in boxes. I have never felt so humiliated. He is super smart, if he loved me surely he would have really worked with me. I did though, change into a lovely happy go lucky girl, it was the off Friday night I went out and a little too drunk. I know I have a few issues, but I treated him like a king. This talk moved me and although I sat here in my dads bed as I have no home and working on my net moves, which is actually studying again after so many years and at 36, I am ready. He taught me that and that was to stop perhaps the modelling and business but work into something I really love. He did have mood swings, he did get a little boring and he used to always point at me when arguing which I hated. Maybe I dodged a bullet, maybe he did with me. Im still trying to forgive myself :(
this is very similar to what i'm going through, i feel like i drove my boyfriend away because of my childish impulses and i'm 20, i feel so broken and alone i feel like if he loved me he would've tried as well to work it out and that says a lot about how much they really cared. everyone makes mistakes in relationships and somebody will gladly love us and work through them together. so maybe one day we'll think this was actually a positive and not so much a negative ): but i completely understand you
Perhaps it’s a good thing that you see that I am 36 and it will happen. Learn from this now and learn from me too. At least at both our ages - we can spot the signs, but also to give ourselves the time now to work on ourselves also! X
I feel so isolated.
Try taking your ex back after she got cheated on, got back together for 2months for her to cheat on me!
Done everything and anything for her, to be kicked to the curb when I was of no use…just found out she was seeing someone else for the past few weeks before she broke up with me…HEARTLESS/RUTHLESS!! 🥺
I'm so sorry this happened to you. My goodness. Wishing you the best and joy and happiness to come!
this really helps a lot I am going through a breakup right now
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amazing talk
She said that psychotherapists believe many enter relationships to heal things from our past. I disagree with that. I believe many enter relationships to escape things from their past that have not been dealt with.
Beautiful! Just what I needed to hear. Thank you so much (-:
just went through a breakup and this helped
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That was similar to my journey after my divorce. And I can only be grateful for it as it started me on the journey to become who I am and with the help of friends, I now love who I am.
Loving who you her now is not what you wish because it is the expression of your last relationship because you were not in love with the right person love makes you happy in life when you are with the right person
This made me feel happy we broke up!
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Just broke up with my ex literally yesterday. It was very toxic and l'm actually handling it pretty well😊.
If you'll be watching this around july 2025, kindly like so l can account for my growth😊😊. Say no to toxicity ❤️
I am lonliness, im the guy that gets excited when i hear a notification on my phone thinking someone hmu but no one ever does
Going through heartbreak now. Thank you for this video. It helps.
How are you doing now? Is there any end to this pain?
My boyfriend of 4 years went to work last week and then just vanished. He never came home. I learned he quit his job and they claim he moved to another state. I am completely blindsided and devastated. There was no fight. There was no discussion leading up to this. We had just signed a lease together. The pain is unbearable. It creeps into my thoughts all day. It consumes me. I cannot sleep. I cannot function. I dealt with the sudden and unexpected death of my parent better than I am coping with this. Because atleast with death, there is an end. And now I have to find a roommate, a stranger to move in so I can pay the rent. I don’t know how I’m going to do this when I can hardly get out of bed I am paralyzed by sadness and fear.
Is there any official website from Tasha? Or channel or something? Im HSP too and going through a devastating breakup and I would love to hear more…
I am 60 years old. What do I have to look forward to?
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Thank you 👏
incredible talk
Powerful Talk 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
What gets me in my situation is we have a kid together. We live together because she can't afford to live on her own. I let her use my car because I want to be nice. I cook, clean, get our son ready for bed, wake him up every morning to get him off to school because she's not there because she wants to hang out with friends all night at the bar and pass out at friends houses. With my car. All the while I'm unknowingly aiding her in building a bond with another man who she is now dating. I did a lot of damage myself, by no means am I innocent here but what is that? Telling me she loves me, she misses being in love etc. Man I have nearly completely destroyed myself but I'm tryn to hang on.
I disagree with the part about using a rebound lover to recover. You're lying to yourself about getting over your ex and risk hurting someone else.
thanks for existing mam
Anyone else really distracted by the fact she's dressed as a wife out of The Handmaid's Tale? Hair and everything.
She looks great 😁
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Just imagine what breakups are like for people who are not attractive young blond intelligent women with loads of friends and almost guaranteed lots of dating options in the future.
But still, a good talk ;)
I became the toxic one, constantly complaining, doubting, crying about my problems, becoming clingy, getting frustrated at the lack of communication, getting annoyed at everything he did even when he was trying...
And still wanting a miracle to save my mind, because I still loved him and wanted it to work... I wanted to go to couples therapy...
But in the end, I was too toxic for him to see a future with me. People around me tell me that I'm not all to blame, that I did what I did because I had reasons...
But I feel like it's all on me. I could have handled things differently... My brain and my depression ruined it for me...
I wish I were dead...
i feel this exact thing. i wish i were dead too. but we are still here, and we are strong.
keep your head held high plz
THIS. I’m in the same situation 💔
All you can do is reflect on your behaviour, but do it calmly and with compassion, not with blame. All you can do is your best. The past is in the past.
Beautiful and smart
Definitely can use some friends
This was such a confusingly unhelpful talk
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I learned more from the comments before the video even played lol
it literally feels like there’s a knife stabbed into my back coming out the front of my chest 💔
why are you encouraging rebound relationships lmao
That whole thing was great except for the bit about rebounds, that doesn't seem right.
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12:59 thats great advice and all, until youre the rebound stuck watching this video.
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
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Sorry, but I have a hard time believing that you ever had someone break up with you. You are smart, beautiful, and articulate. I note that your story about the silky maned man ended with a mutual breakup, or you ended the relationship. Make no mistake, I thoughtfully absorbed your words in spite of them being from a female perspective. That is fair enough. However my need is different. I am an older male whose wife just divorced him after 35 yrs. of marriage and a son. The last 2 decades were a downward spiral. I now know that she had a long term affair, or a series of short term affairs. I haven't really wanted to find out which. Suffice it to say that I am now a broken man. I was a successful professional and I used to be a mentally and emotionally strong person. Now I look at my future and only see nothing. It seems like I'm just waiting to die, but I'm too chicken to end it myself. Sadly, your Ted Talk was of no value to me. And probably to other husbands in similar to my situation. But good luck with your career anyway.
My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. I hope you continue to connect and share your feelings. I couldn't help but reply to the first three sentences by saying: "how about she became the smart, beautiful, and articulate person after her heartbreak?". I say this as I am a witness of positive post-breakup effects. These effects take a lot of time, sometimes years, and sometimes involve counseling, journaling, being connected with trustworthy people, and therapy (in my experience). I guess what I'm trying to say is, if you may allow me to shed light from my experience, that breakups aren't really about the breakup itself, but more about the difficult yet worthwhile journey after, that teaches you about who you're meant to be, your inner child, your past traumas, and much more about yourself. Breakups are a journey of life that are meant to teach us the depth of our souls and how much we can handle. Please forgive me if I shared unsolicited advice but I guess I was hoping someone reading this might benefit from my past experience.
Ugh. That sounds awful. YT usually isn’t a good place to find “answers”. I have wasted so much time on here. Here I am again. lol. This info was not of value to me either. Most of these ppl are grifters. Occasionally you will learn a few tips. The best thing I have learned is to work on myself. Ps-ur ex wife sounds terrible. You’re better off and surely you know it.
So sorry John
You can be beautiful and all the best and they still don't choose you.
As a woman i guess i naturally and often blame men for break up s in their quest for novelty.but of course it doesn't always happen that way.tho i can b of no use to u i found the comment rather heartbreaking and wanted to say pls don't loose hope
U will recover and the lord will help he is our only hope .i lost my mother in March who was 83.And even now can't control the crying Jags in the evening if i let myself go.
But i pray and hope the lord will help me .i will pray for you as well pls don't b so dejected.i recquest u
Her overall perspective is correct but some of her theories are flawed.
Marriage is supposed to last till death. It's not a necessary phase of life like puberty. It's a vow you make to join with another for life to give life and a foundation for a future generation.
Heartbreak is a consequence of choice not a choice in itself.
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Am turning off after "You are loved". Not interested in fantasy thinking.
There are parents who only act from sef interest.
Finding self- love and creating a good relationship with oneself is the key.
Your fantasy thinking works for some, but not for those who want to go down the path of wisdom.
I wasn't seeing things right under my nose, rude awakening. With That slap across the face.. How ! And Why.? Did he lie all that time then leave! I've been alone for six years. First three I was hopeful he,d come back. Then After three years time boy things came to light. . But I was hurt and still in love . Yes I morned him thought about all that he had just promised we would build our life together. . What happened with in that 6_7 month period??? He was never affected by the break up. Cause he leaves with someone.. I'm wondering what happened. Why would he do this
3 weeks in. Sucks.