- Self-doubt is a mental conversation in which your mind questions your ability to find a desired solution to a perceived problem 1. Share your self-doubt with the people you trust 2. Self-doubt is a call to love yourself 3. Love yourself regardless of your achievements 4. Forgive yourself for your past failures
good to stop worrying or caring how the outside world regards you and begin to pay attention to the one whose opinion matters most of all...your own...
“Acting the way you did at the time is proof you could not have acted any differently” really hit home. I think a lot about coulda woulda shoulda scenarios and feel bad about them, but everyone, including myself, is just doing their best with the info and experiences they have to pull from at any given time.
"surround yourself with people who build you up" I think that was one of the best advices I'd ever received. Alternatively sadly, if you can't find those people, it's better to be alone than in the company of those who was to take a jab at you whenever possible because they have issues with themselves.
"Everyone faces self-doubt, only those who are courageous enough to admit it will find the support, that allow them to move forward, while still facing self-doubt " 👏👏
I had an interview at my dream job abroad, 30 minutes before the phone call started I began doubting myself: "What am I doing here interviewing for this job? I don't even have the skills to work there!" and with this mindset I went to the interview, already thinking very low of myself and it showed and affected my whole performance. I didn't get the job and regret it to date! Great talk, thank you! :)
9:16 Wow. "That's because your mind cannot distinguish between what you want and what you don't want. You will always give more power to that on which you focus." - Mario Lanzarotti
Thank you for uploading this. I really love the phrase "everyone faces self doubt, only those who are courageous enough to admit it will find the support that allows him to move forward" This speech was wholesome.I Love it
I needed this video in my life right now. I’ve been so lost and confused trying to be an overachiever, but I didn’t realize I was losing sight of who I am. I have been trying to perform for everyone else and forgot about myself in the process.
One of the best Ted talks I’ve heard in a while. Most talks on anxiety or self doubt never tell you the cost of going after something and realising you’re not cut out for the job. Look at all those people you work for or with who are hopeless at their jobs but maybe got it because they were the only applicant … going for a role doesn’t always make you the best fit. So the line between being able to identify that you’re not a good fit for a position and having self doubt is really thin. I fear being perceived as incompetent more than simply failing! So I like that he mentions that having self confidence only clears you for take off…. You still gotta do the work to be ready to do it!
Yeah! Self-doubt is like a painkiller which kills our all dreams . Believe in your self don't let your past determine your present. You got every right to a beautiful life. So go outside and conquer the world.
я сейчас сидела и рыдала от безысходности , думая что не справлюсь, что не оправдаю ожидания родителей и себя. но теперь я продолжу трудиться и не буду сомневаться, спасибо вам 🤍 вы сделали большой вклад в моё будущее
Thanks a million for the statement " The Pain of the past must not determine the possibility of your future"... Getting back the lost enthusiasm and motivation.. God bless you.
Thanks mario,. I recently just got turned down from a job offer which I worked hard for. I have been questioning myself and my future so much I kept asking myself " can I make it in the future?". I guess it's time to treat myself better and stop blaming myself that I didn't do better. In fact, I already did, and it's the best of what I could do at that time. We can grow, but everyone starts from somewhere including myself. The fact that I gave myself the chance to be in the interview and apply for the job speaks volumes of my effort. That I should be proud of, better than not doing anything or giving myself a fighting chance. Better luck next time:)
Great conversation. I have suffered from self-doubt for years, but with high aspirations. I had to get out of cult and leave all my family. I had did it and it was the best decision ever made. I did travel around the world and studies college, lived in a few countries, but leaving my family was my big crutch. I also suffered from depression before that. Today, I miss my family, but I don’t have this huge depressions anymore. I have a great husband and son.
Wow I also left my family. It was largely because of them that I doubted myself. They never believe in what I do. Leaving them was my last resort and it was a form of self preservation. I think this is what the speaker Mario said, we need to love ourselves and this is us giving ourselves a chance for success. Sending love.
Powerful speech on how self doubt is one of the best things EVER! I took notes and accept the challenge by the way: I will forgive myself for all wrong and let go of blaming myself. Give myself permission to express a new level of confidence, passion, and commitment.
I wished I watched this sooner before but then I realized that if I didn't experience self-doubt before I wouldn't have gone through this video. Thanks for giving us this talk, now I can see my past as a lesson and not a failures I made of my younger self.
Stop doubting yourself and go after what you really, really want. The nex time self-doubt comes, dont fight it. Embrace it as a friend to remind you to fill your self-love tank. Not knowing how to deal with your self-doubts --- delay your dreams.
I am 15 but I have experienced...and realising that it has make me unstoppable.....❤❤❤I am proud of myself...I and you reading this comment destined for greatness ❤
This is so relatable! I have experienced a similar journey of self doubt and still do. This video gives so much of clarity of how to deal with it correctly without sabotaging my self worth! Thank you Mario, this is exactly what i wanted to hear!
Best TED talk so far.. Makes you think about all past failures as badge of experience and possibilities we can create for ourselves with positive and happy mind. I will be coming back to this video number of times ❤️
This speech is relating to my current situation. I stack at a point of learning where I am thinking that I am too weak to perform that work. But not now. I have to overcome my all self-doubts. Learning may take time but you can learn if you will be consistent. So from now own I have decided to not quit at any cost. I am forgiving myself for the mistakes which I have done before.
There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.
I have listened to this video over 7 times, and pull new distinctions from it each time. So clear, concise, and packed with wisdom that we can all apply immediately to our own lives. Well done, Mario! Thank you!
Great message. I totally agree. There was a time when I treated my self doubt as the enemy and was basically at war with myself which means I was pretty hard on myself. Now I see fear and self doubt as my allies....and I love myself a whole lot more. Thanks for the great talk.
I really like the way he delivered his speech , verbally and non verbaly because its kinda like something you wanna need to hear for your entire life. I was kinda amazed how he expressed in the best way. You really can understand truly.
Thank you Mario. Self doubt can be very crippling and keep you stuck not doing anything for years in depression. You worded and explained everything perfectly. Love ourselves, love our self doubts, forgive and grow🙏🏾
I wish i had the privilege of this talk earlier in my life. I forgive myself for all the shortcomings and self doubts that has stopped me from realizing my true potential. I feel you have freed me today dear brother. Lots of love to you ❤️ This is the best moment. Thank you so much Ted Talks. You guys are really making a difference. ❤️
This talk resonated with me on many levels. Ambitions with shallow or false motivations. Keeping oneself "busy" with so many distractions. Admitting one's mistakes or missteps in the context of knowing that you did the best you could at that moment. Learning from one's past missteps. Lots of great content. Very inspiring to me. Thank you, Mario!
Self doubt creates the hesitation and hold you back from right decision. However, we're living in the world of spreading the self doubt, some people always makes this to us and this is why we have to avoid these toxics. Furthermore, we all must have self-esteem to lower our self doubt. Thanks for the speech.
I will remember this video for the rest of my life. because the later i was rejected when propose the final project topic to finish my college. But now I can take a lesson within, I will not give up! and it feels like I am given a more confident feeling to do it other way, wish me luck!
One of the best ted talks. Self doubt really killing yourself and made you missed opportunities. But it's never too late to change yourself and build self-trust within yourself. You just have to reflect and move forward..
My takeaways- In striving to achieve desired goals, what you really really want are the positive emotions those goals promise. True freedom comes when you no longer rely on your achievements to fall in love with who you are right now.
What I feared was their judgment and rejection.. what I received was judgment and rejection. But no problem, I got me. I'm strong and I will support me till the end. I will make it.
What a talk man you really opened my eyes ! Never let self doubt stop but use it as a fuel to move you forward ! Take it as a positive thing and fill up ur self love tank and be kind to your ownself !! These are some really life chaning inspiring words !!
Thought provoking, Inspiring and yet relatable speech! Thank you! 👌🙏. The points that resonated with me- beyond the underlying thread of the positive influence of self doubt in utilising it to connect head and heart. 1.What you really really want are the positive emotions those goals promise... 2.Not knowing how to deal with your self doubt delays your dreams. 3.Forgive yourself of the past mistakes because the fact that you acted shows that was the only thing you could do then!
This is a great talk! While I am fortunate enough to generally look at my negative internal dialogue as merely signals of how I need to account for possible roadblocks & succeed nonetheless, it took me much longer to develop this relationship to similar comments I get from others. There are particular people in my life that, while I love them, I used to get very frustrated & discouraged by their comments on my life path. Once I learned to simply thank them for pointing out the things I needed to account for in order to persist & succeed, it changed my relationship to them completely. Thanks for giving this talk, it’s inspiring for sure!
I had a difficult time, i don't belive myself and doubt my ability and my life. I couldn't find a person can encourage me. Afterthat i realise my self-doubt couldn't make my life better so i find my purpose to commit with my shift. Luckily. my girl come to me and she has inspired me to move forward.
I always doubt myself. I used to think that I am the only one who does it but after watching this video I can say it is good to doubt sometimes and when we doubt ourselves that incline our abilities because we try to figure out the confusion which has built in our mind.
Hidden Time Wealth is so unique. I can’t believe I hadn’t heard about it sooner. It’s amazing how life-changing this can be for anyone battling procrastination.
Ooohhhh this hits the spot. It’s the story of my life. Wish I had heard this talk years ago but I’m grateful for it now. Thank you so much for sharing your story. You have no idea how this impacts me. Now I can accept my self doubt and love myself.
"Self-doubt only exists as an illusion in your mind, and your heart has no illusions like that. The most important journey in your life is the one you take from your head through self-doubt, into your heart. And that's why self-doubt is one of the best things ever."
Im just writing first time comment to under a ted videos, This man saying exactly what i need. I know i have enough power to get over my issues but sometimes just i feel self-doubt. Unfortunately, i dont have any person to talk about my issues and self-doubt. I just moved to Germany and i have to fix my problems by myself.
How ironic is that we expect/wants other to love us unconditionally and oftentimes we ourselves don't love ourselves unconditionally and linger our happiness at a particular thing/person/position.
Your brain will tell you all sorts of false stories. One of the biggest being, ‘I could have done something different.’ The fact that you acted the way you acted is all the proof you need to know that you couldn’t have acted in any other way. Your mental, physical, and emotional state produced the only outcome possible. So it’s not your fault. And you couldn’t have done anything different. Because you’ve had the experience, you now possess new insights that allow you to make a new choice. Now, you’re responsible to choose what you’re going to do with the wisdom you’ve harvested from that experience. 🙌🏽
that was really awesome. and btw for me as for a non-native speaker the way how the narrator speaked was a huge pleasure. so clear and straight. really impressive
Self Doubt is essential to overcoming your hurdles in life. They'll help you gauge what you need to achieve them. Self Doubt in a sense is the vision, and Confidence is the plan. In today's world social media portrays certain standards and expectations, and it may seem like you're either falling behind, or maybe you're not even in the ball park. This is not the case. You might even compare yourself to your peers around you who you might think are successful, and that might be the case, but understand that it takes time and effort to get to where they are today. Everyone goes through the same issues in life, one way or another. Be confident in what you do and you'll experience progress you never thought was possible. (A speech I had with a former employee. It's mostly word for word. Some words I've substituted with vernacular from the video. But I hope this helps anyone who thinks they're inadequate in life, or if they're stuck in a rut)
"The most important journey in your life is the one you take from your head through self-dought into your heart, and that's why self-dought is one of the best things ever."
Self-doubt could make your life procrastinating and it could be affect all the decision in your life. Forgive of being self-doubt and let your mind to open a new chapter of your whole life, self-doubt would have nothing to do for your future.
I could of done something different “The fact that you acted the way you acted is all the proof you need to know that you couldn’t of acted a different way “
“On the other side of self-doubt is the person you have been looking for your entire life”. So true.
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This one was my favorite too 🥰
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True 🎉🎉
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“the pain of my past does not determine the possibility of my future.” 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Great quote💪
Beautiful 🌟
So true
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Ima get this tatted on me, cause I am more than self doubt and pain
"Not knowing how to deal with your doubts delays your dreams"
True indeed🥺
- Self-doubt is a mental conversation in which your mind questions your ability to find a desired solution to a perceived problem
1. Share your self-doubt with the people you trust
2. Self-doubt is a call to love yourself
3. Love yourself regardless of your achievements
4. Forgive yourself for your past failures
who honestly cares what we do
Very hard to do it. I’m dealing with depression because of self-doubt.
Well recapped . Thank you ❣️
Thanks!
Thank you
“True freedom comes when you no longer rely on achievements to help you fall in love with who you are right now”
good to stop worrying or caring how the outside world regards you and begin to pay attention to the one whose opinion matters most of all...your own...
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This is the key point not to let our achievements or failures define us and love ourselves 👌✌️
What a beautiful quote ❤
Powerful
The pain of my past does not determine the possibility of my future. Touching my heart so deeply
"Let go of blaming yourself, give yourself permission to express a new level of confidence, passion, and commitment".💕
“Acting the way you did at the time is proof you could not have acted any differently” really hit home. I think a lot about coulda woulda shoulda scenarios and feel bad about them, but everyone, including myself, is just doing their best with the info and experiences they have to pull from at any given time.
"surround yourself with people who build you up"
I think that was one of the best advices I'd ever received. Alternatively sadly, if you can't find those people, it's better to be alone than in the company of those who was to take a jab at you whenever possible because they have issues with themselves.
That’s the key
"Love yourself regardless of your achievement." We all needed to hear that! 👍
"Everyone faces self-doubt, only those who are courageous enough to admit it will find the support, that allow them to move forward, while still facing self-doubt " 👏👏
I had an interview at my dream job abroad, 30 minutes before the phone call started I began doubting myself: "What am I doing here interviewing for this job? I don't even have the skills to work there!" and with this mindset I went to the interview, already thinking very low of myself and it showed and affected my whole performance. I didn't get the job and regret it to date! Great talk, thank you! :)
What is self doubt?
When you can love the person in the mirror regardless of your achievements ,you become truly unstoppable.
When i am lonely I actually find my true power. The things I really need to do
I found him incredible, and he gave us a lot of proof that self-doubt is a good way, and if we understand how we can controll it ,we win the war
9:16 Wow. "That's because your mind cannot distinguish between what you want and what you don't want. You will always give more power to that on which you focus." - Mario Lanzarotti
Thank you for uploading this. I really love the phrase "everyone faces self doubt, only those who are courageous enough to admit it will find the support that allows him to move forward"
This speech was wholesome.I Love it
I needed this video in my life right now. I’ve been so lost and confused trying to be an overachiever, but I didn’t realize I was losing sight of who I am. I have been trying to perform for everyone else and forgot about myself in the process.
One of the best Ted talks I’ve heard in a while. Most talks on anxiety or self doubt never tell you the cost of going after something and realising you’re not cut out for the job. Look at all those people you work for or with who are hopeless at their jobs but maybe got it because they were the only applicant … going for a role doesn’t always make you the best fit. So the line between being able to identify that you’re not a good fit for a position and having self doubt is really thin. I fear being perceived as incompetent more than simply failing! So I like that he mentions that having self confidence only clears you for take off…. You still gotta do the work to be ready to do it!
Forgiveness of ourselves and others-for both things we did and didn't do-is one of the key gateways that leads to personal freedom.
sounds good how do you do that exactly
Yeah! Self-doubt is like a painkiller which kills our all dreams . Believe in your self don't let your past determine your present. You got every right to a beautiful life. So go outside and conquer the world.
"The most important journey you take in your life is the one from your head through self doubt to your heart " 🙌
я сейчас сидела и рыдала от безысходности , думая что не справлюсь, что не оправдаю ожидания родителей и себя. но теперь я продолжу трудиться и не буду сомневаться, спасибо вам 🤍 вы сделали большой вклад в моё будущее
Thanks a million for the statement " The Pain of the past must not determine the possibility of your future"... Getting back the lost enthusiasm and motivation.. God bless you.
Thanks mario,. I recently just got turned down from a job offer which I worked hard for.
I have been questioning myself and my future so much I kept asking myself " can I make it in the future?".
I guess it's time to treat myself better and stop blaming myself that I didn't do better. In fact, I already did, and it's the best of what I could do at that time. We can grow, but everyone starts from somewhere including myself.
The fact that I gave myself the chance to be in the interview and apply for the job speaks volumes of my effort. That I should be proud of, better than not doing anything or giving myself a fighting chance. Better luck next time:)
Failure is the mother of success / foundation for success (This is a Chinese saying roughly translated.. hope this encourages whoever is reading this)
Thanks bro.. Great saying..
Great conversation. I have suffered from self-doubt for years, but with high aspirations. I had to get out of cult and leave all my family. I had did it and it was the best decision ever made. I did travel around the world and studies college, lived in a few countries, but leaving my family was my big crutch. I also suffered from depression before that. Today, I miss my family, but I don’t have this huge depressions anymore. I have a great husband and son.
Your paragraph was interesting to read. I hope you write a book about your life. Thank you for sharing your message of courage. 🏅
wow, similar life story to mine
Wow I also left my family. It was largely because of them that I doubted myself. They never believe in what I do. Leaving them was my last resort and it was a form of self preservation. I think this is what the speaker Mario said, we need to love ourselves and this is us giving ourselves a chance for success. Sending love.
was it jehovah witnesses?
Can I have your mail id ? I need some advises from you pls
We are in similar line
“True freedom comes when you no longer rely on achievements to help you fall in love with who you are right now” Mario Lanzarotti.
Powerful speech on how self doubt is one of the best things EVER! I took notes and accept the challenge by the way: I will forgive myself for all wrong and let go of blaming myself. Give myself permission to express a new level of confidence, passion, and commitment.
I wished I watched this sooner before but then I realized that if I didn't experience self-doubt before I wouldn't have gone through this video. Thanks for giving us this talk, now I can see my past as a lesson and not a failures I made of my younger self.
Stop doubting yourself and go after what you really, really want.
The nex time self-doubt comes, dont fight it.
Embrace it as a friend to remind you to fill your self-love tank.
Not knowing how to deal with your self-doubts --- delay your dreams.
how do you still have wants? What on earth do you mean?
I am 15 but I have experienced...and realising that it has make me unstoppable.....❤❤❤I am proud of myself...I and you reading this comment destined for greatness ❤
This is so relatable! I have experienced a similar journey of self doubt and still do. This video gives so much of clarity of how to deal with it correctly without sabotaging my self worth! Thank you Mario, this is exactly what i wanted to hear!
Best TED talk so far.. Makes you think about all past failures as badge of experience and possibilities we can create for ourselves with positive and happy mind. I will be coming back to this video number of times ❤️
This speech is relating to my current situation. I stack at a point of learning where I am thinking that I am too weak to perform that work. But not now. I have to overcome my all self-doubts. Learning may take time but you can learn if you will be consistent. So from now own I have decided to not quit at any cost. I am forgiving myself for the mistakes which I have done before.
So precise and profound.Our limitations are mostly ours ,that’s the nature of self doubt.
There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.
Can anybody watch this without crying and wanting to hug this guy???
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I have listened to this video over 7 times, and pull new distinctions from it each time. So clear, concise, and packed with wisdom that we can all apply immediately to our own lives. Well done, Mario! Thank you!
i watched different types of self development videos .all have one thing in common that is LOVE OURSELVES .
Great message. I totally agree. There was a time when I treated my self doubt as the enemy and was basically at war with myself which means I was pretty hard on myself. Now I see fear and self doubt as my allies....and I love myself a whole lot more. Thanks for the great talk.
I really like the way he delivered his speech , verbally and non verbaly because its kinda like something you wanna need to hear for your entire life. I was kinda amazed how he expressed in the best way. You really can understand truly.
Best TED talk ever!!! Man spoke nothing but the truth.
Thank you Mario. Self doubt can be very crippling and keep you stuck not doing anything for years in depression. You worded and explained everything perfectly. Love ourselves, love our self doubts, forgive and grow🙏🏾
I wish i had the privilege of this talk earlier in my life. I forgive myself for all the shortcomings and self doubts that has stopped me from realizing my true potential. I feel you have freed me today dear brother. Lots of love to you ❤️
This is the best moment. Thank you so much Ted Talks. You guys are really making a difference. ❤️
This talk resonated with me on many levels. Ambitions with shallow or false motivations. Keeping oneself "busy" with so many distractions. Admitting one's mistakes or missteps in the context of knowing that you did the best you could at that moment. Learning from one's past missteps. Lots of great content. Very inspiring to me. Thank you, Mario!
One of my dreams, is to stand in that stage and share also a motivational speech someday
The message of that speech is really an enlightenment
Self doubt creates the hesitation and hold you back from right decision. However, we're living in the world of spreading the self doubt, some people always makes this to us and this is why we have to avoid these toxics. Furthermore, we all must have self-esteem to lower our self doubt. Thanks for the speech.
Really sweet knowledgeable man. He clearly had done the hard work on himself. Bravo to him, i'm so inspired
I will remember this video for the rest of my life. because the later i was rejected when propose the final project topic to finish my college. But now I can take a lesson within, I will not give up! and it feels like I am given a more confident feeling to do it other way, wish me luck!
How did it go?
Mario lanzarotti and supermario..they both taught me , don't doubt yourself, keep trying until you reach the next level..
One of the best ted talks. Self doubt really killing yourself and made you missed opportunities. But it's never too late to change yourself and build self-trust within yourself. You just have to reflect and move forward..
From
9:00 - Treat self doubt as a friend
13:30 to 14:45 - Forgive yourself
Thankyou so much.. This is the best Ted talk I've ever seen.. I've gone through many videos on self doubt,but here I get the answer..
My takeaways-
In striving to achieve desired goals, what you really really want are the positive emotions those goals promise.
True freedom comes when you no longer rely on your achievements to fall in love with who you are right now.
yeah pretty much, it's all just narrative.
What I feared was their judgment and rejection.. what I received was judgment and rejection. But no problem, I got me. I'm strong and I will support me till the end. I will make it.
This feels personal, at my 26 I'm finally understanding this. Thank u. Everyone can do it.
What a talk man you really opened my eyes ! Never let self doubt stop but use it as a fuel to move you forward ! Take it as a positive thing and fill up ur self love tank and be kind to your ownself !! These are some really life chaning inspiring words !!
Thought provoking, Inspiring and yet relatable speech! Thank you! 👌🙏.
The points that resonated with me- beyond the underlying thread of the positive influence of self doubt in utilising it to connect head and heart.
1.What you really really want are the positive emotions those goals promise...
2.Not knowing how to deal with your self doubt delays your dreams.
3.Forgive yourself of the past mistakes because the fact that you acted shows that was the only thing you could do then!
Well said 💯
It’s hard to let go of my mistakes but this talk has definitely given me a boost of motivation to start loving myself.
Go after what you really want is the key 🔑
This is a great talk! While I am fortunate enough to generally look at my negative internal dialogue as merely signals of how I need to account for possible roadblocks & succeed nonetheless, it took me much longer to develop this relationship to similar comments I get from others. There are particular people in my life that, while I love them, I used to get very frustrated & discouraged by their comments on my life path. Once I learned to simply thank them for pointing out the things I needed to account for in order to persist & succeed, it changed my relationship to them completely. Thanks for giving this talk, it’s inspiring for sure!
"No one in my family has ever done such a thing" hit me so hard.
I had a difficult time, i don't belive myself and doubt my ability and my life. I couldn't find a person can encourage me. Afterthat i realise my self-doubt couldn't make my life better so i find my purpose to commit with my shift. Luckily. my girl come to me and she has inspired me to move forward.
I always doubt myself. I used to think that I am the only one who does it but after watching this video I can say it is good to doubt sometimes and when we doubt ourselves that incline our abilities because we try to figure out the confusion which has built in our mind.
Hidden Time Wealth is so unique. I can’t believe I hadn’t heard about it sooner. It’s amazing how life-changing this can be for anyone battling procrastination.
Ooohhhh this hits the spot. It’s the story of my life. Wish I had heard this talk years ago but I’m grateful for it now. Thank you so much for sharing your story. You have no idea how this impacts me. Now I can accept my self doubt and love myself.
"Self-doubt only exists as an illusion in your mind, and your heart has no illusions like that. The most important journey in your life is the one you take from your head through self-doubt, into your heart. And that's why self-doubt is one of the best things ever."
Im just writing first time comment to under a ted videos, This man saying exactly what i need. I know i have enough power to get over my issues but sometimes just i feel self-doubt. Unfortunately, i dont have any person to talk about my issues and self-doubt. I just moved to Germany and i have to fix my problems by myself.
How ironic is that we expect/wants other to love us unconditionally and oftentimes we ourselves don't love ourselves unconditionally and linger our happiness at a particular thing/person/position.
Whenever you are in self doubt it's the Signal that 'love yourself ' ❤ increase your self-love ☺️🤗
Your brain will tell you all sorts of false stories. One of the biggest being, ‘I could have done something different.’ The fact that you acted the way you acted is all the proof you need to know that you couldn’t have acted in any other way. Your mental, physical, and emotional state produced the only outcome possible. So it’s not your fault. And you couldn’t have done anything different. Because you’ve had the experience, you now possess new insights that allow you to make a new choice. Now, you’re responsible to choose what you’re going to do with the wisdom you’ve harvested from that experience. 🙌🏽
I really wanted to go or pursue my dream , now I'm gonna do it, wish me luck . ❤️
Good for you for having a well connected and supporting family. The rest of us might not have that which make us being less fearless than you.
Self-doubt can stop you to archiving your lofty goals.
Even though the pilot career did not work out, I still learnt how to fly because I found my true calling 👏❤️
This is the best Tedx talk ever! Truly motivated and relaxed by this man. 💙
that was really awesome. and btw for me as for a non-native speaker the way how the narrator speaked was a huge pleasure. so clear and straight. really impressive
One of the best speaker that I've seen and heard in TED.
“What we focus on expands”
Thats the tagline of the phase 4 podcast ❤
What a beautiful speaker with a great message of inspiration. GRAZIE MARIO 🇨🇦
Love yourself regardless of your achievements. Loved this line man!
Self Doubt is essential to overcoming your hurdles in life. They'll help you gauge what you need to achieve them. Self Doubt in a sense is the vision, and Confidence is the plan. In today's world social media portrays certain standards and expectations, and it may seem like you're either falling behind, or maybe you're not even in the ball park. This is not the case. You might even compare yourself to your peers around you who you might think are successful, and that might be the case, but understand that it takes time and effort to get to where they are today. Everyone goes through the same issues in life, one way or another. Be confident in what you do and you'll experience progress you never thought was possible.
(A speech I had with a former employee. It's mostly word for word. Some words I've substituted with vernacular from the video. But I hope this helps anyone who thinks they're inadequate in life, or if they're stuck in a rut)
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Powerful presentation, reminds me of Brené Brown’s Tedx talks on ‘Them power of Vulnerability’ and ‘The power of Shame’
Such an inspiring speech! Thank you Mario, for showing the positive side of self doubt, loved it
He takes off at 8:40. From that point on he had me, to the end. 👏
In striving to achieve desired goals what we really want are the positive emotions those goals promise. Ultimate truth!
Self doubt really is the best thing ever that brought many of us to this amazing enlightening session
Wow! This is such a great message. Thank you for sharing this with the world. This message came at the right time. It made me cry!
"The most important journey in your life is the one you take from your head through self-dought into your heart, and that's why self-dought is one of the best things ever."
So helpful,
Self doubt is our friend
Whenever we feel the doubt, let's assure ourselves to work more and become even better
Wow this video came out at such a perfect time. Needed to hear this I’ve been stuck in a crossroads of what I should do this gave me clarity
Oh my god, this video is exaaactly what I need now! Amazing speech, thank you million times!!!
A LOT of key points for healthy and positive state of mind. Thanks Mario , I really felt everything you were talking about.
One of the best ted talks I've watched. I really loved it! Thank you for sharing all this keys for personal growth.
Omg!! What a talk🙏🏻 came in a proper time ♥️
This is easily my favorite talk here! Love this.
Self-doubt could make your life procrastinating and it could be affect all the decision in your life. Forgive of being self-doubt and let your mind to open a new chapter of your whole life, self-doubt would have nothing to do for your future.
I have try so hard to stop doubting myself but just don't know how to go about it
I could of done something different “The fact that you acted the way you acted is all the proof you need to know that you couldn’t of acted a different way “
Thank you. Your Ted Talk made my day. I truly appreciate it.