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Thanks for sharing your journey! My 2 cents having gone (and still going) through a similar kind of process. I think when you're in a midlife crisis it can seem like external factors are making you feel empty: not enjoying your work anymore, not enjoying the place you live anymore, not enjoying hobbies, friendships, relationships, etc... It can be easy to see these external factors as having somehow changed for the worse, pulling you down and causing a feeling of emptiness and lack of purpose or direction. However, if you then follow the instinct to walk away from all those things, the feeling does not necessarily go away. What has changed isn't so much the external factors, things and people, getting worse and pulling you down (although that can definitely be part of the problem), but you yourself having changed on the inside to no longer feel whole, purposeful or fulfilled by those same things and people. Finding out who you have slowly been becoming and what and who that person finds fulfilling opens the door to figuring out what experiences to put in your life more. That can mean walking away from some things or some people, but mostly it means moving towards what makes you feel slices of wholeness. It's about changing your life to match who you've become, not changing your life to get back to who you used to be. In a way it is finding out how to be true to your new self. At least, that's my sense of it now. Ask me again in a few years and I may have a better answer.

Expectations will lead you to greatness as well as leads you to depression. Making mistake is just part of life. Life is never perfect. Moving on is the way to truely live a life.

Why didn't i see you during my NS time? Hehe

Very Gorgeous figure and celebrity like video narration Ms Koala:) From a fellow lady (:

Ntt ...tetangga timor ..wah pas...suku suku hitam.

As I watch this, I’m cringing so bad from all the safety mistakes you made. 🚩🚩🚩 I am also a solo traveller who has also travelled extensively and watching this video I can’t comprehend how have you survived this far. Nobody in their right mind drives to a thief’s house!!! What were you thinking!?!🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Beware of Malaysian men

Oh no … don’t cry my friend. Life is full of ups and downs. You take care and God bless you always 🙏

dont cry dear.. i wish i could take care of u

What is the second channel?

dont cry my dear... i wish to help u if i could

Lovely viewing💗🌹❄❄💕🌹

Hi Koala, To me to live happily be thankful each day for something. Accepting yourself as what you are or what you can do.

Thank you KK once again for this enlightening video. The last 3 sentences are very meaningful. from a lady with deep thoughts. In short for me - DONT WAIT FIND WAYS

I am in a mid crisis 😢. I feel old daily and keep thinking death is near.

Always remember: “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present.” You’ve achieved so much, come so far, and you’re still so young. Take pride in the incredible person you are and everything you’ve accomplished up to now. Live in the present-it’s the most important moment of our lives. I’ll be turning 24 in August, and I’ve been reflecting a lot. Right now, I’m studying for a public civil service exam here in Brazil, and I’m confident I’ll pass and secure the position. Still, sometimes I feel like I haven’t accomplished anything yet. I’m still unemployed, living with my parents, and it’s easy to feel like I’m “nobody” at times. But I remind myself, everyone has their own timeline. Life is long, and there’s so much ahead of us. From here on out, we can keep working toward our goals and building the future we want ❤

Meeting you in person would be a dream. Hope it happens someday! I am in SG too.

My mom and I are still thinking and praying for you! You remind me of a lifelong family friend, and I have always dropped tiny nuggets of wisdom so I do not come across as a pesky know-it-all. Listening to your life coaching tips, you have spent time doing the same for clients and others around you. You have most of the answers, and you’re doing so much that seems to be perfect, yet the impact you leave and steps you take can border along the gray line between “look what I did and what I accomplished along the way” and “how did my way, words, and actions help others along their way?” Apart from your friends or acquaintances, does anyone you know or meet miss you or remember you for very unplanned reasons? I ask myself this often to maintain my humility while living my life. I know education and career success are measurable, but the resulting effect on the rest of the world we encounter may not be easy to record. When you know you impacted those who were never clients or friends, you can rest a bit because they’re the ones who live stronger and wiser because of you. 😊 Those stories told about you may not cross your ears to uplift you in a down day.

A very meaningful video. I've been following you for a long while on TH-cam, through your ups and downs, trials and tribulations, and appreciated your reflections. I may not always agree with how you live your life, but I truly respect your choices as you take full responsibility for them. One thing I agree with you: Happiness is not the end point or the goal, it's the journey; having the courage to live life the way you choose, with no regrets.

We should all live the life that feels good to us. Thats the beauty of life ❤ thanks koala

🙏 Yes , you're right KK , we might feel a bit jaded when we already experienced or achieved certain goals or milestones in our lives , we are getting more experienced & matured in life & beginning to realised the samples of the reality of life. The wise will remain as student in everything they do , as there always will be new illuminations to be realized in the journey of our lives! Practicing humility , respect , appreciations of the rare space-time we are currently in as oppose to be borned into the realm of the animal kingdom , ghostly realm or the hellish realm , where we can't be abled to read nor hear or understand the True Teachings that illuminate us to the Path Towards The Light of Liberation from the unending cycles of samsaric processes of birth , ageing , sickness & death ... The Middle Path is the Balanced & Correct Path to take in our pursuits of True Liberation , as extremes in anything will only caused more conflicts , problems & sufferings ... May we stop creating bad karma , to apologize for our past infringements everyday before the effects manifest , to be thankful for the life experiences & insights gained & for the Divine protections , Guidances & Blessings from the True Good Angels , True Good Gods Goddesses & Enlightened Beings for us & for our loved ones & to forgive others & to our selves , as we all lacked the good merits , life experiences & emotional maturity to think & to do the right things in our past! We should embraced our midlife crisis as a sign of our spiritual awakening & emotional maturity to reduced our bad karma , while to accumulate more good merits & wisdom to propel our Soul / Mind / Consciousness into the Heavenly Realms of the True Angels , True Gods , Goddesses or the Purelands of the Enlightened Beings in due time & space ... Thank You So Much KK for this Soul Cleansing realization & therapy session! 🙏 Lord Jesus Christ 🙏 Epsilon Phi Beta Phi 🙏 OM AMI DEWA HRIH 🙏 OM MANI PADME HUM 🌷🌿🍎🍊

Likewise for me. but your self motivation & walking through this journey will bring you along way. Life story to tell life partner at old age.

Maybe you crave a home. A family . A sense of belonging

To anyone reading this, I’ve been following KK for about five years now and is one of my favourite YTubers. She’s one of the most beautiful souls I’ve ever come across. Appreciate her, folks!! 💖

There are lots of China YT videos about the single woman's midlife crisis.

Cool... 😊

The way how you phrase things, it feels like you're blaming your friend and not yourself. Ive watched a few of your videos and noticed a pattern of narcissistic behaviour and responsibility avoidance. You keep alluding the fact you never get scammed, its more like you got robbed rather than scam. Like you said you seldom get scammed its cause you were not brave enough to do things and said no to alot of things. The car rental thing os really just an excuse. Hope you adjust your attitude and maybe you'll have a better friends circle.

Until you live in Gaza or Ukraine or the slumps all these are just moments in time 😂

Today is a new chapter for me. My mum passed on on 5 Jan 2025 and I have to let my helper go back home. I am 60 and living by myself. Life has been great so far. I try to keep myself healthy through regualr exercise, eating healthy food, prayers and meditation. Upon reaching 60, I felt my body starting to slow down. My knees are not like they used to be. They ache more often than before. I have to be more careful. Other than that, I feel great. My spiritual life helpes me to stay sober and purposeful. Everyday I look forward to learn to sing a new spiritual song composed by my spiritual and meditation master. His songs are very mantric to me. For me, the sole purpose of life is to grow spiritually, eventually reaching enlightenment. Every day is a step forward towards that lofty goal. Every meditation is peaceful. due to my good karma of self cultivation, my mum did not have to suffer much during her dying moments. She only had to stay in hosital for 35 days. It was a quick exit for her. My duties towards my mum has completed. Now I am taking care of my own health and spiritual growth. Songs, meditation, youtube, trading, exercises are now my friends until the end.

Life has ups and downs and whatever doesnt kill u will make u stronger. Material processions arent permanent so dont place too much attachments to it. U control your brain and mind so dont let emotions and material attachments rule your mind and your life. Everyone has walls around their thinking and mind, its how u recognize and deal with it that makes u stronger.

subbed because I'm a millennial and intj 😀

07:38 Please could our Queen-Goddess tell us where this is?? At first I thought it was the Golden Bridge in Da Nang in Vietnam, but on closer inspection I don't think it is.

Which rock have been living under? Women only have value when they are in breeding years. Get married, have kids in your 20's. This is not news at all. Sad, but this is realty for all women. Self help books won't help at all.

My advise as someone single and reaching my 50 soon, what more to lookout for is not mid life crisis but the silent of depression arises within it. Change your expectations is a way to overcome it. I change to a new industry at the age of 30 but only to experience of losing all saving and in debt at mid 40s, it took me a year plus to restart everything after clear the debt. Learning from past mistake and change your mindset, making everything a little bit better every day (to me is looking at my bank acc increase bit by bit every month 😅) KFC successful at the age of 60s... So long as you stay optimistic and positive, create dreams and goals so you will be motivated to move forward. 😊 May you have a great 2025! Cheers !

Have you ever considered moving to Kuala Lumpur? The cost of living is much lower here, and the standard of living is more or less like Singapore's

good! it's not only about the wins, it is also about the losses. accept that as the years goes by, we would decline in ability but gain in experience.

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Living well is about satiating the senses and the pursuit of happiness…the operative word is continuous pursuit

I hope this year wraps you up in good times, good health, and good fortune. Gong xi fa cai!🎉❤❤❤

I'm in 40s .. I'm still single and lonely. .. u not Alone.. I felt in your shoes right now.