Why I Have No Friends in Singapore
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- Hi I moved to Singapore from San Francisco alone and live alone also. I'm sharing why i have no friend in Singapore, from INTJ and minimalist perspectives.
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I have seen it.. though I m surprisingly not a solo traveller so can’t relate much, but I will share to those who do ;)
I too go solo-travelling, karaoke alone, eat alone and spend my weekends alone! That has been happening for the past 27 years of my life, however, I still get lonely as a result and I really agree that it is a state of mind which takes time to develop. I still occasionally meet up with friends but still 80% of my time is spent alone, perhaps it is by choice now. Would definitely like to hear your thoughts in future videos what does it take to get rid of that loneliness and be satisfied with oneself although this video pretty much is a good summary! Sometimes the joy of being alone manifest itself the best for activities like solo-travelling 🤔
Oh haha so you’re 27 yrs old? That’s a great question. It’s hard to answer how to get rid of loneliness. But I kind of answer that across a few videos before. I think you’ll also enjoy my solo travel channel! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LblJ_nztP_OX_o8G
You did mention you appreciate deep, meaningful relationships. I can relate to that too… friends who will tell you when you suck, not just hi/bye friends who always tell you how great you are or keep quiet about your faults. So if you’re prepared to accept deep, meaningful relationships, a life companion can be that sounding board to you, that mirror to your self and your soul. Sometimes it’s hard to see yourself truthfully. You need someone who cares about you enough to show you truthfully where your weaknesses and improvements needed are.
You will need people to tell your weakness when you don’t have high self awareness of yourself. So we all need to develop self awareness :)
I appreciate your honesty. I feel like TH-cam is a special place for ppl like this. I feel so different from ppl as well but I also feeel lonely without a strong community around me in singapore
you're welcome dear. i hope i can be your company during your solo journey. i also have another channel about solo travel. hope to see you there too! www.youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo
I enjoy me time to organise my thoughts. That’s why I like to lunch alone at work. But I also enjoy social time with close friends whom we share similar values and have endless topics to chat about. Those times are also my “offloading” session! 100% with you on not wasting time with people who have very different values because they just drain you instead of energize you.
Yes totally! Joyce 🐨💘 I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
Your characters are very hard to come by! You are the gems of Singapore!
Awww thank you 😊
😊🙏 Don't worry Krazy Koala , you've plenty of Royal Fans from your channels! It's better to be alone & be sane rather than in a toxic relationship & be insane! Stay Safe , Stay Healthy & Stay Humble! 🌷🌿🌍✌💜🕊🇸🇬🇺🇸
hahaha ya. thank you. hope everyone play my videos until the end!! esp on my 2nd channel. need to meet 4000 hours viewing. so plz loop them 5x a day :)
Love your confidence and the way think! ❤❤❤
Hi Ting! Nice to see you here too after our NZ chat haha
I can relate, I thought I was strange but I’m not alone in this
that's great to hear!! this channel of mine is about solo travel: www.youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo
I Am Always Alone but Never Lonely.
It’s Just Me, Myself and I but l Love It.
I Am My Best Company.
I Thrive In Solitude 🌟
kudos dear! agree with your! i have a solo travel channel. i think you may enjoy too. hope to see you there! www.youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo
such a beautiful piano
Thank you 🐨 I made some video with piano solo. You can check out my old video too 😁
I agree with you for the meaningless connection.. i can relate to that.
Totally 👍 I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
I’m an infj and I currently have one good friend. I’ve had friends in the past, but I’ve burned too many times. I’m very selective of who I share my energy with and have found peace and happiness in being alone. I also enjoy deep connections and know I’ll make more of the right friends in due time 🙂
Hello INFJ! I’m INTJ! We are similar enough 😅 I’m sure I would like you!
Happiness coming from with in girlfriend ❤️..and its up to you weather to go solo or not...❤❤❤
It’s definitely our choice!! I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
@@TheKrazyKoala thank you sweetheart ❤️❤️❤️
But Koala, that yellow wall HDB shoot… some of the shots could not have been done without a friend as they were motion camera angles. I thought you did the entire sequence on your own, but I realised it can’t be done all by yourself. 😊
You can do it with camera trick, editing trick, hiring people. Why need friends?:)
@@TheKrazyKoalaAh hiring people. That makes sense. Lol.
@@Hllee6428 , Ya, I also question that myself, now I know how she did it.
how did you manage to take your solo runway show alone? :) Thanks for sharing your life and being so authentic :)
there are many editing tools and techniques on editor. and you can always hire a staff. this channel is about my solo travel. www.youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo
enjoy time on yourself as it is okay to spend time alone
agree with your! i have a solo travel channel. i think you may enjoy too. hope to see you there! www.youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo
As a fellow introvert (I am INTP), I can relate to most of what you say. However, I find that being able to live a fulfilling introverted life requires a lot of $$$$ and freedom from immediate family commitments (eg needy elderly parents) even if trying to be minimalistic….Also, while I agree we don’t need too many friends nor hangout buddies, let’s face it….we still need people in general. I need my employers while you need your patreons, coachees, and subscribers… for inspiration like you say. We also need to think about who will care for us when we are alone in older age and may be less mobile/healthy to enjoy our freedom doing what we want to do…..maybe check into a nursing home or hire personal butlers? Lol. Just my thoughts…..
thats great too know! i also have another alone travel channel haha. are you on my 2nd channel too?
I have no friend.
Only family.
That’s good enough! 🥰🥰I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
Hi Gal, you do have a friend, or should I say a cameraman taking your video? Or is this "person" a drone that is taking your video shots for you. I am almost similar to you. I am an INFJ-T aka The Advocate.
I have been randomly watching your videos without commenting, but have subscribed to your channel. Glad you are enjoying your 7 years stay in Singapore. Welcome!
Camera trick. Editing tools. Tripod. Drone. Hiring ppl. I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
@@TheKrazyKoala... Nice!
I have been to your other channel, nice content you have there... Btw, I am a Singaporean staying in the north-eastern side of SG. Have an awesome weekend exploring Singapore. Cheers.
I think the societal pressure to have friends and be an extrovert is just an American thing. Here in Singapore I've never felt or seen any of this pressure at all.
Oh really ??
You must have one close friend...who is doing the filming of this video?
tripod is my best frd. you can check out my selfie drone shot in desert here too. th-cam.com/video/gDv9RI4_uvY/w-d-xo.htmlsi=wrQZsL8qCeAV_KfZ
wait a sec, who took the video and photos for you on that yellow wall?
Camera trick. Tripod. Edit trick. Hire ppl
@@TheKrazyKoala do you have a tutorial? i'd love to know how to do this.
Potential to become model 👍👍👍
You can watch my bio of “why I travel every country” in my second channel. youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
You can also check out my Fendi magazine filming video on this channel
Our Queen-Goddess is sufficient for herself
Yes 💕👸
You have a good friend in SF Bay Area❤
Haha yes my queen 👸
@@TheKrazyKoala besties
@@kaylita6446 hahaa
There are no true friends in this world
I agree with you. I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
Me too alone.. from Malaysian Chinese.. off days also don't know what or where to go.. willingly to hangout if got chance.. will you lol😅.
Hahah you’re funny. You sound like writing script for my video. I also have travel alone channel. Check it out!! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=PzQUXUUJkD6leEFX
last count u've got 26.8k subscribing friends on YT 😉
😆🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🐨🐨
focus on working hard
And working smart :)
@@TheKrazyKoala ok smart and higher
come malaysia we became best friend for life
lol. Hope to see you on my 2nd new channel. th-cam.com/video/dN-_KJp6CH8/w-d-xo.htmlsi=tzCyo1ZQMbrV6DYx
Looking forward to it
It seems to me that being alone has become quite a trend nowadays. I mean, usually people don't dare to share such ideas online because they feel shy or inferior to tell people they don’t have any friends. But coming across such youtube videos more and more nowadays, it seems people are getting more open about not haivng friends.
My meditation master once said, ‘Everyday, there is only one thing to learn : How to be honestly happy.’ -Sri Chinmoy.
Being a spiritual person, I find it hard to find people who thinks and feels like me. Singapore is such a spiritual desert. People are more interested in material stuff and ordinary things in life. Who is interested in God or spiritual topics? Nobody. And even if I mention spiritual, most people would think I am talking about ghosts and spirits. People have no idea what is spirituality in this little red dot. Is it a religion? No. But we believe in God, so why is it not religious? Only a true spiritual person will understand me.
Most of my spiritual friends are overseas. I do miss interacting with them. Being alone means I don't have to buy new clothes to impress anyone. That save me lots of money from buying clothes. I can wear the same clothes multiple days before washing.
Being alone means I have more time to do my own things like meditation and exercise. Being alone means I can go anyway I like without having to wait for someone.
Being alone means I am not subjected to listen to what people think about what I do and what I like. I just do what I like doing.
Being alone means I have more time to be with my higher self, my soul and God. I love feeling God in my life as Peace. I dunno about you, but I think most people have never feel peace in their entire life without knowing it. God is peace and peace is God. God is light and light is God. Simple, but rare unless you meditate like me.
i feel the situation is the same in all the 7 countries i live in though... that's why i travel solo around the world. check out my solo travel channel. www.youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo
i wan apply BTO with this zeh zeh
Haha really?
@@TheKrazyKoala yes
Oh dear - not a good sign 😮
sign?
No SG friend 😶 I like the video mash up it's the best parts together ❤️
Supportive always of your alone time therapy 🦅
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Na. This video was created with the help of somebody. There is no way you can do this video alone. Therefore you have friends.
You have to ask yourself honestly why you deny the existence of people who help you as your friends.
Not interested in your answers but something to help you think about what you claim to be.
If you spend money to hire ppl, you call all your employees as friends? You call tripod and editing tool as friends? Good for you 😂
Yes i go karaoke, shopping n travelling alone why entertain people you dislike my free time is precious 😂
Haha you too?? High five 🙌 I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
You are cute and funny.
lol. I started my 2nd channel. Hope to see you there too!
Who filmed this video then😂?
Camera trick. Editing trick. Tripod. Pay for someone
u hv me
Haha ok
@@TheKrazyKoala 🫠
I can sing pengyou
cool! look fwd to seeing you in my solo travel channel too!
Huh? No way. Adunbilivit.
Huh?
becoz u high class ma😅
Hahaha
the color of american influencer is coming out soon ....
haha what?
Join a church and serve God; you will be blessed with many brothers and sisters, better than friends..
love that idea! i do go to church once in a while!
Even if not introvert still need alone time. So true. My partner travels on business some times and I so much enjoy being alone for a few days. But also so much true is the old saying that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Always a big moment when returns. 💖💕 We are all our own selves. It's not differences which divide us, it is a failure to recognise and accept them which does.
Love your comment KS Queen. So deep and philosophical 🥰
Nothing is wrong with being alone. I am an introvert, more of a social introvert. I enjoy being analytical and having a "me" time, which recharges me. When I'm around people, my energy level gets depleted easily, so extended meetups would exhaust me. That's why I can connect with your channel, as you are genuine and do not bother about what other people perceive of you.
social introvert is skillful base, i like that! ya somehow i also connect with introverts better too!! thank you and look fwd to seeing you more on my 2nd new channel too!!
I totally get you. I find dinners, drinking sessions a waste of time & its liver damaging. I'm at my happiest at home or going outside with no plans in mind. No rushing of schedules.
Totally. I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
Yes, I don't understand why most people drink beer/wine/alcohol when it damages the liver.
I drink coffee, tea, milk and water only.
No way. You must have someone filming you for this video especially your self runway! You can't do this alone HaHaHa
haha tripod is always my best frd. but hiring also works
Hi , I’m new here ,I’m from Singapore. Honestly I think is fine to be alone , I’m 15 years old and I don’t even have one friend in school, but I always feel happy to be alone. Have a nice day by the way.❤
Hi Shaun. Wow you’re so young. Welcome to my channel. I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
@shuan1270 : "Rock on, dude!" Being alone is cool.
U got the pretty look n rich, so likely too many people want to be closed to u n you get annoyed. If u got the average or below average looks n earning average pay , likely your view is opposite.
haha
I feel 4 u, but u have a dog, n you have laundry, laundry will always be there for you, laundry will never leave you nor 4sake you ... laundry..BFF....
💕🫶🏻🐨🐶 I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
I can be your friend anytime I stay in the Downtown East D Resort chalet Pasir Ris U can find me & meet me
Haha thank you. I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
You know exactly what you want to do and already planned far ahead what you want to do. Time is short. You don't waste your time as well as other people's time.
Totally agree 👍
no need friends in sg, sg gohmen and people here are famous for pragmatic, especially in NS you see this very very clearly, pragmatic. wat it means? it means you must give something of similar value to the friend in order for him to help you in something, it is exchange
haha. what is gohmen?
@@TheKrazyKoala singlish for government
Hello from SG! 😃 Thank you for sharing this video as I find it inspiring. I am similar to you - Been in SG for almost 9 years but I don’t have friends here. I always hang around on my own and I really enjoy my own me-time. I would rather be on my own than forcing myself to be with someone I don’t click with.
That’s amazing luckybaby 🤩 I have another alone travel channel. Maybe you’ll enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=PzQUXUUJkD6leEFX
Nothing to worry about being alone...Malaysia is just a stone's throw away...lots of green and beaches...of course with varieties of foods n friendly people 😅
haha ya. i started my solo travel channel too. hope to see you there too! www.youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo
i totally get you , I chose not having any friends. Friends are a waste of time and there's no perfect friends , I myself is a terrible friend who doesn't care . Not having any makes me a happier person
that's awesome! i thin you'll like my solo travel channel too!
Hey, you're lucky! At least you've got a cameraman! Me? I'm out here trying to take a selfie, but I've got no real friends, so it's just me and my outstretched arm, hoping for the best.
so u dont consider the person filming u to be a friend? jus a hire help whom u pay by the hour/session?
tripod is def my best frd
Hi💚 my friend Koala👋🏼😊have a nice 'n sweet day
hi materealist-san!! thanks for your support!!
Hi, amazing piano play. You should try outdoors activities, events, conventions to meet people. GLGL
thanks haha..... love playing that!
Bring Cooper to Singapore with you ❤️😍
Haha 😆 great idea 🫶🏻🐨 btw how do you like my solo travel channel videos?? 😆
I believe Japan or Europe would be more suited for you. In Singapore, people are generally not well-read, so they lack in wisdom and judge a lot based on their own standards.
wow why japan. uptight culture. europe too laidback
I have so many friends...friends...😅...I decided to ignored them...😁
Hahah. I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
Sorry to ask, somebody is taking videos for you all this time, right? So you're not really alone, right?
Tripod is my best frd. 🥰🥰I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
Who cares what others think... as long as u are happy will do... 🤣
Yes totally 🥰🫶🏻🫶🏻
But, who's taking photos/videos for you??
Koala
Hey
Your tuber supporter is your friends anytime right
haha yes. look fwd to your support on my new channel! www.youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo
Thought u had celebrity friends.
haha that's for work
You never meet me where have friends, lol🤭🤭🤭
hahah true that
I've only one friend. I'm a local Chinese.
I spend most days at home, and seldom go out, except when i need groceries.
I'm an INTP, and spend most days watching shows and writing programs 😁
I don't feel I need more friends, and if i do, i also want deep conversations.
awwww. i have a solo travel channel. i think you'll like it. hope to see you on my new channel here too www.youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo
Friends are many. If You want to have GOOD friends, it is so easy, my dear. How?
Very simple. Stop looking for friends. And start being a real friend to people. Humans are fantastic. You will see the great people emerging from everywhere. Of course there are duds and selfish people...and many are. Expect it, Cultivate, yes you gonna work hard for the enduring & endearing ones u want to keep. You ll need a set of good listening and people reading skills, tho. Not being judgemental.
Only question is: Be honest, are you up to it, being a great friend to someone or many people?
Me I dun need many friends, so I dun complain the lack of friends. I ain't no good farmer in cultivation , in line with my nature.
In the end, like a farmer, you reap what you sow; be contented with what your soul is and therefore, wants. Your nature ll not allow you have many friends, neither do you need or desire them. You may hv many transient and fair weather friends who admire you and attracted to your aura, tho... and sorry to say, out of these, many are fakes.
Wow haven’t seen you for a long time! How are you? I started my 2nd channel too. Hope to see u there
U said u have no friends. So the person taking videos for u, not your friend. Then who is he or her 🙄🤔🤨🥴⁉️📳
Tripod is def my best frd
I'm surprised! U hv no friends? With your looks, and personality, many men wud like to b your friend, including me!
Each individual has their own way of managing their social circles. There are people that have tonnes of friends and those that keep in touch with friends who are trustworthy and reliable or have the same frequency.
I'd stick to those people with the latter.
Being Asians, knowing that our parents are getting on ages, I think it's equally important to spend time with them before you realise that you don't have many fond memories with your ageing parents when they departed from this World.
Cherish every moment they have while you can...
I agree with you!
As long as you are happy, that's matter. Interesting concept, you are young you can afford this life style, have fun
I agree! 😆🐨 I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
@@TheKrazyKoala big parade in Brazil
i like karaoke
haha
We are all your friend😊😊😊
Haha cool
You can join the community centre group
You have almost 30k subcriber, that's not alone, taken out all this interaction other might hard to mimic your lifestyle , you have the choice but not all people are TH-camr lol
Haha ya I’m fortunate to have subscribers 🫶🏻😁 but real life is different
th-cam.com/video/FncTDZxNbM4/w-d-xo.html
Wolf are the most intelligent Animal on earth
You cannot find any wolf in the circus
Following other is just like a sheep
Wow haha really?! I should do a fox video on my 2nd travel channel soon!
@@TheKrazyKoala Wolf can communicate with the MOON
Become sociable path.. carry a bag of alcohol paper.. give it out and shake hand with everyone…
Haha kind of. I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
Poor girl, when you reach late middle age, deep inside your heart will regret why I didn't give love a chance.
Why poor? 😅
@@TheKrazyKoala If life has not been tempered by love and friendship, your outlook on life will seem narrow and the sense of self-protection will be too strong. Everything is difficult at the beginning. Take your first step bravely.
You have many friends in your channel. You just don't meet them regularly.
Haha you call everyone as frds
@@TheKrazyKoala Nobody knows me. I am nobody.
Being alone and happy is good. But...who is taking the catwalk video xD
Camera trick. Tripod. Editing trick. Pay for someone
Guys, don't miss the second Koala's channel too!
Today will be lucky day to see it🌼
You’re such an amazing person 💘😊 arigatou !! Yes today a new video. And next week will be a new Japan video again haha
That's what I'm most looking forward to! thank you🌼
Nothing wrong with being an introvert! I'm one as well. I have a few acquaintances but no real friends. Glad you're enjoying your life!
Actually you have a friend - the videographer. are you simian btw?
Simian ? I’m 🐨
well said, in this world you came alone, you will also leave alone (not unless someone wants to die with u?hahaha) ;)
Hahaa exactly. And my new channel is about solo too. But solo travel. youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=p8Rs3d7z2i2XJHdO
@@TheKrazyKoala will check that out! thanks!
Those who can't be comfortable with themselves won't ever be comfortable at all lol
Haha yes you’ll enjoy my 2nd channel about travel alone too
Same no friend
Ya. I think you’ll enjoy my solo travel channel. youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=QwFB8dx4K-wg-QHS
Haloo Koala...can I be your best friend？plzzz❤❤❤❤😍😘
Ok haha. I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
Thou shalt not alone, Robert De Niro is watching you. 👀
Hahah. See you on my 2nd channel too
I can't stay home.. just need to get out even alone
Haha why you don’t like your home 😅
Staying alone is fine.
Koala Yr similar topic before and that is OK.
😁🐨🐨🙌🙌 I have another channel about travel alone. You may enjoy too! youtube.com/@KoalaTravelSolo?si=LXOTyxspESisfPsm
Very Aries……..great Tori Amos from a long time ago.
lol why Aries? How’s tori like?
@@TheKrazyKoala I mean you are very ♈️…Great Tori Amos song from a long time ago.
@@kcleong4054 haha. But why aries??
@@TheKrazyKoala ♈️ is all about the self..very self sufficient and action oriented.Your birthday may be in July, but you are a 🐏 within.
@@TheKrazyKoala I wish I know Tori personally 😀🤟
The one holding the camera and filming you is your friend.
No. I hv no frd film for me
Lovely viewing🌹🌹
As long as you feel happy 🎉
Thank you Lin 🥰🫶🏻 look fwd to seeing you again on my 2nd travel solo channel too!
You had friends at your ceremonies, didn't you?
Haha my neighbor and my classmate