Chase. Am I Really Trans, Anxiety, Passing, and Which Lips? (Q&A)

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  • @Thequeerartist
    @Thequeerartist 7 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Hey, winter runner with asthma here, and what I do personally to protect from an asthma attack is I take a thick scarf that I can still breathe through and wrap it around my mouth, neck, and ears. the goal is to keep your breath warm because what normally triggers an asthma attack is the cold air. I also breathe deeply from my diaphragm instead of short breaths. Hope this helps anyone!

  • @aidenc9575
    @aidenc9575 7 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    "you would say that? to a limeee?" I WISH I WAS A LIME

    • @rylenddk547
      @rylenddk547 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aiden C IKR OMFG

  • @0MGitsRayRay
    @0MGitsRayRay 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    THAT HAIR COLOUR IS SO NICE

  • @Catmandoku
    @Catmandoku 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And I also have to be super organized to feel less stressed and I also feel like I do nothing because I do everything at home. Just so you know you're not alone, I feel you on such a deep level

  • @pigeoncube8881
    @pigeoncube8881 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    have you heard of the app habitica? its basically life organisation turned into a game where you get points for completing tasks and can go on quests and shit

  • @0MGitsRayRay
    @0MGitsRayRay 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    man, i don't pass every day when I'm in my house because i have these girls pajama pants that are so comfy and i don't bind or deepen my voice at home.
    passing is a good way to feel better and rid dysphoria, but if you're okay with not passing some days then that's 10000% fine!!!!

  • @Zhespy
    @Zhespy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As you started talking about organising things I literally just got up and organised everything and hung up a calendar and everything. It actually feels so nice seeing everything nice a neat. Also ah it's so great (well not great) to know that others have those thoughts of Am I trans? Because I've been going through that a lot these past weeks.

  • @unconditionallykaleb
    @unconditionallykaleb 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    DBT! Also the organization thing is so legit. I don't know what I did before I had a passion planner.

  • @ashxx6548
    @ashxx6548 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I like these chill little Q&A videos.

  • @yourfaceishumerus
    @yourfaceishumerus 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    For the asthma ask, from one sufferer to another, you have 2 options.
    1. keep ventolin on you at all times
    2. say 'fuck it' and keep running through it until your own adrenaline acts as a bronchodilator. Eventually it'll get less and less to the point where it's barely noticeable.
    Best thing to do is to combine the two. Winter exercise is amazing purely because you're not at nearly as much of a risk from overheating and dehydration.
    Chase I'm a very chubby boy who wasn't always a chubby boy and I was constantly picked on in PE/gym for my mild cerebral palsy causing me to spasm if I tried to run. I've just recently dislocated both my knees and been diagnosed with generalised ligament laxity and will have to start physio. Even so, I'm confident that I can work myself up to better and better fitness goals and even maybe start running as a hobby myself. Your adorable enthusiasm is #fitnessmindsetgoals

  • @mudkipjuice
    @mudkipjuice 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Literally as soon as i clicked on this video I was like "Oh this layout is so familiar"

  • @krrez
    @krrez 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel you so much on the organizing stuff to deal with anxiety.

  • @CelesteM
    @CelesteM 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    #femaletoorganizedaf I am the same way, organizing stuff and making lists has helped my depression and anxiety a ton. And handwriting especially makes a big difference. I went a long time where I just did everything on the computer, including to do lists, but making handwritten lists and logs has a different, more satisfying effect for me (which makes sense 'cause handwriting activates different parts of the brain).

  • @peroxide.princess
    @peroxide.princess 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chase what you were saying at 5:04...hit me so hard. I'm the exact same way. I'm turning 22 this year and I still feel like I'm 16 cause I genuinely didn't see a future for myself. I'm having a hard time coping with graduating college this year because idk how to plan for my future...cause I didn't think I'd have one. It's getting a little better day by day, and i hope it is for you too

  • @cyrilwhoom5807
    @cyrilwhoom5807 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Avril Lavigne! Back then when she had her first hit I was like "oh, she wears boys clothes and hangs out with boys and skates.. yes!" and then happened what aaaaaaaaaalways happens in movies or media: She turns from tomboy into a sexy woman and I am like "yeah well.. that was that.." just like the stereotypical librarian who gets her glasses removed and all the guys love her and I roll my eyes into the next dimension.

  • @Andi1422
    @Andi1422 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omgooodnes I loved the chapstick challenge video. 🤣 I think that was the first one of yours I watched. I first came across Maya on TH-cam then Ty & you. I'm a cis female & I absolutely love watching your videos. I've learned so much about trans people & the community. Keep doing what you're doing Chase. The world is a better place because of you. I can't wait to see the video of you & Stef! The 4 of you & Aaron need to do a major collaboration together!!!
    #femaletofan #inspiring #chasetystefmaya #femaletofriends 💖💖💙💙

  • @katelyns694
    @katelyns694 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    DBT is great, it was glad to hear you mention it briefly. it legit saved my life

  • @Xsoulofonyx
    @Xsoulofonyx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like I'm the same with not being able to get past a certain age. I was legit terrified I wouldn't live to be 18. But now I'm almost 20 and I just figured out that I was trans last year. And I'm going to come out to my parents in 2 days. They're kinda abusive and I'm so scared. Like living with them makes my internalized transphobia worse. So I'm moving out and coming out. Btw Chase you've helped me so much with my journey. I love you. Thank you so much.

  • @skye96
    @skye96 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    yoooo thank you so much your video are always super helpful and interesting!!! also love pink floyd and classic rock, good taste my dude

  • @adambrandenburg998
    @adambrandenburg998 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for doing these videos. Good luck with your endeavors.

  • @KurosakiMAN
    @KurosakiMAN 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so inspiring! Organize everything! DBT is so helpful, I went to DBT as a teen and still find everything useful... has helped me live through man y heavy stressful situations.

  • @nfc598
    @nfc598 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    to anyone who thinks that could benefit from daily organization, I seriously recommend a bullet journal. look up BuJo videos on YT to get ideas if you're not a very creative person. having one has SERIOUSLY helped with my anxiety.

  • @notasilentcreation7105
    @notasilentcreation7105 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your hair 😍 jealous of the quality hair colour

  • @rainesavage510
    @rainesavage510 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you so much, you put words to how I feel a lot of the time 💕

  • @danniballecter7936
    @danniballecter7936 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like the Q&A vids. Thanks, Chase! :)

  • @jamieabel477
    @jamieabel477 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have those thoughts too, like why are people cool with me being trans and I'm kinda suspicious that my friends and co-workers just tolerate the fact that I'm trans but secretly think its weird as fuck.

  • @coleray8045
    @coleray8045 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    love how you make lists and stay organized! sounds a lot like me haha

  • @knuckles6430
    @knuckles6430 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love these type of video

  • @scottieboyd2660
    @scottieboyd2660 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I liked this, I think you should do more q&as :)

  • @angel-gu8co
    @angel-gu8co 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i don't remember what they are but i've heard that there are two main types of weed and one usually gives people anxiety and the other one calms

  • @deniseemond9263
    @deniseemond9263 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My grandson spent a summer in Europe. He loved loved loved Germany and Italy.

  • @alexaaronheart1677
    @alexaaronheart1677 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    WINTER ATHSMA PERSON: bring a rescue enhailer, bring room temp or slightly warm water, interval running to catch your breath

  • @sima4162
    @sima4162 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    About the anxiety and weed. Have you considered the possibility of it might have been the wrong strand for you? Both my gf's parents smoke weed but they're divorced and live at different parts of the city so they get it from different people. Her mom's weed makes me very anxious, but her dad's weed makes me feel like I'm melting into the chair and it's amazing.

    • @uppercaseCHASE1
      @uppercaseCHASE1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Marshall M yeah I got a Very low THC strand and i still felt all fucked up. I do have an appointment with a cannabis clinic next month tho

    • @sima4162
      @sima4162 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      From what I understand, with medical weed, they can give you very precise doses so that might help. If only it was legal in Tennessee. Sometimes my anxiety gets unbearable. I take anti-anxiety meds but they make me feel "empty". Do you know what I mean?

    • @MikiBlackheart
      @MikiBlackheart 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Marshall M the empty feeling with meds tho! :/

  • @LesAnderson
    @LesAnderson 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chace is adorbs 💕

  • @bornwithoutconsentobviously
    @bornwithoutconsentobviously 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like these videos. Moreeee!

  • @arijay7721
    @arijay7721 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Chase, I know you literally *just* did a Q and A, but I couldn't think of a question until now. When you used to bind, did you ever bind for longer periods than what is recommended? I bind daily and between classes, work, and my internship, I usually end up binding 14-16 hours a day, and 18 hours on Thursdays. I don't want to hurt my body, but not binding makes me feel gross about my body and triggers my eating disorder which in turn hurts my body and my mental health.

  • @antiox9170
    @antiox9170 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Random: Chase, where do you do your grocery shopping?
    Because of you, I've eaten so much healthier! Even including vegan/vegetation meals in my diet and trying Lush products. Never thought I'd enjoy it

  • @jamiedoesasmr5841
    @jamiedoesasmr5841 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Come to England!!!

  • @spencersaturn5237
    @spencersaturn5237 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the video

  • @jullzsolberg8845
    @jullzsolberg8845 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Chase. If you are going on a Europe tour then I will highly suggest Denmark xD (In the spring!)

  • @rukittenmerightnow
    @rukittenmerightnow 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Do you ever think about modeling for FTM magazine? I feel like everyone on FTMtranstastic should be a model because you guys are so handsome and are pretty good representatives. Y'know, there may not be many people who represent trans* people positively (there maybe are, but y'know) BUT you guys are basically uploaded on the internet. Maybe not "big" (to me you guys are big, inspirational, but not Lady Gaga's brilliant Superbowl halftime performance big :D), but I hope you guys grow to 1 million subscribers and that trans* people and cis people walk by each other not really caring what's in each other's pants. think of pee-- I mean beee 🐝🐝🐝🐝 xD

  • @joshlukaskrp9786
    @joshlukaskrp9786 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg please chase come to Germany 🙈🙈🙈

  • @amenkittens
    @amenkittens 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    we have the same bullet journal!!

  • @Catmandoku
    @Catmandoku 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude we are like the same person. I've thought about this before because I was also raised by my dad and I also don't drink or do anything because I've had bad experiences in the past

  • @delenaeffler3969
    @delenaeffler3969 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey I've been watching your vedios for as long as I know. but you help me so.! much an Idk how I could ever thank you♡ but I also have extreme, anxiety depression an a thyroid problem.. Idk that much about all of it an your body an what your supposed to do to like help or whatever but I've realized I have alot of the same stuff you do. an was just worrding how you cope, an get in to being organized an staying that way cuz I really fill that would help out alot I just wanna know some of the things you do to cope with some things an deal with them an such.. I really look up to you an alot, of your vedios has helped!!! sorry this was so long an you probably can't read all of this but it was worth a shot.. I love you so much an just keep being YOU, (also I go bye kayden. I made this gmail in like 9/10 grade. I'm also FTM)

  • @rodneybeck1980
    @rodneybeck1980 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are awesome .

  • @MissPollyPopcorn
    @MissPollyPopcorn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like this.

  • @andiehernandez1995
    @andiehernandez1995 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like turquoise and it's one of my mom's favorite color (my house is painted in turquoise outside). Organization gives me anxiety lol (I just use my digital agenda on my phone). Are the other lips labia menora and majora? Just curious and not trying to trigger anyone.

  • @eppicNESSSS
    @eppicNESSSS 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    chase is daddy af.

  • @beebbeeb796
    @beebbeeb796 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love dbt!

  • @stupidsminkle
    @stupidsminkle 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I first listened to the podcast and yall said "which lips" for the first time, I thought you were saying "Witch lips" and i was like what do witch lips look like.... ((But I got the joke shortly afterwards))

  • @soapoperavideos
    @soapoperavideos 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been to the Stones 3x too. 👍 classic Rock ❤

  • @abadiabadye8458
    @abadiabadye8458 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chase, I don't know what to do. I want to come out as trans in school first. I did this when I came out as a lesbian. It felt testing out how I could deal with all reactions to it before the opinions would actually matter. What's stopping me is that one of my friends came out as trans a couple years back, then detransitioned after having made it a big thing. I'm afraid of being seen as an attention seeker and being complete denied. I've come out to one friend, but she wasn't there for the others transition. What do I do?

  • @kmturtle298
    @kmturtle298 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your hair is brighter than my future

  • @oliversolar3504
    @oliversolar3504 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    THE WORDS AND MOUTH ISNT SYNCHED UP. THIS IS MAKING ME UNCOMFORTABLE

  • @peaceisnature
    @peaceisnature 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're so awesome. And cute :)

  • @felixallover
    @felixallover 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you come to Sweden I'll show you around Stockholm (if you want to of course :P ) ^^

  • @cremat
    @cremat 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    i feel the asthma thing even though i live on the equator

  • @samxd5002
    @samxd5002 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeeees, you should definitely visit Germany!!! 👍👍👍

  • @stayinganonymous922
    @stayinganonymous922 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo, if you ever travel to Germany, I leave near the airport and I'd totally host you and show you around! :D

  • @Bucherviews
    @Bucherviews 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whit woo, naked vlog :D Like, I listened to what you had to say as well, but naked vlog

  • @ro846
    @ro846 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg you have a leuchtturm journal.
    But omg, also, I feel like my question I wanted you to answer about internalized misogyny might've been totally offensive and gross, and I'm sorry !! if it was !! but !! anyway !! i'm just being dumb. -- Love the Q&A videos. etc. etc.

  • @pucksandpaperbacks
    @pucksandpaperbacks 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    damn i'm in the phase where i question if i'm trans all the time i think it's more because my family thinks i'm not

  • @nicholerivera4060
    @nicholerivera4060 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    you should come to sweden

    • @thwipthwap8870
      @thwipthwap8870 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nichole Rivera and Ireland

  • @thetransboy9437
    @thetransboy9437 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'd be so happy if you went to frankfurt because I live quite close to it :D

  • @williamvalente10
    @williamvalente10 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love chase so much. but IF ANY OF YOU GUYS ARE LOOKING FOR ANOTHER FTM CHANNEL SEARCH Paperboy Collab and subscribe

  • @MsKaddelz
    @MsKaddelz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    COME TO GERMANY!!!

  • @brandonohnine2998
    @brandonohnine2998 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    when will we know what this project is?

    • @lola_dash788
      @lola_dash788 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brandon Tucker I know! I'm intrigued!

    • @AlexxWretched
      @AlexxWretched 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Been subscribed about a week and still trying to figure out what the project was? Was it all those videos they did together?

  • @Kayla257ismyname
    @Kayla257ismyname 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    you should visit Amsterdam (the Netherlands :)))

  • @buggoeth7225
    @buggoeth7225 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    would you ever dye your beard??

  • @benc417
    @benc417 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Come to Manchester uk 😃😃

  • @Tixylixx
    @Tixylixx 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chase is deffo hawttttttt.

  • @gonkuku
    @gonkuku 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    2:50 "You would do those hand gestures and say that to ayyyyyyyyyyyyyy...... LIME"

  • @malinsormlind
    @malinsormlind 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have a friend in Sweden right here if you want to check skandinavia out. :) would be so much fun to see you meet up and stay a night with a subscriber and vlogg it.. could also be dangerous but I mean.. yolo? :)

  • @artsandcraftsfordrakie3242
    @artsandcraftsfordrakie3242 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Iam a girl but I'm so mad at my mom right now she said I look like a boy I'm so mad I feel like hitting her my parents are supposed to love me for me but they think my sister is the perfect daughter but she does bad things and she gets away with bad things it just makes me sick but I just feel like telling someone since I have nobody to talk to but I just felt like I wanted to get my anger out it's bad to keep it in

  • @AnnaThatcher
    @AnnaThatcher 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    YAS DBT THERAPHY

  • @ummmforgetnames8052
    @ummmforgetnames8052 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    But I thought "which lips" was from Aaron on vlogs 21 at 1:30 I went back and re watched it and he wispered it when you said your lips were dry

    • @uppercaseCHASE1
      @uppercaseCHASE1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ummm forget names nah I had been saying it before and when I made that video with ty it kindof STARTED all of us saying it. And yes aaron did say that in the vlog I just re watched it but we were saying that long before! I just meant like when I made the video with ty that's when ppl caught on lol

  • @senecarus_whitur
    @senecarus_whitur 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not okay today...

  • @leomounier1520
    @leomounier1520 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    si un jour tu passe en France dit nous !!! Je me débrouillerai pour me déplacer xD ;)

  • @readmarx420
    @readmarx420 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    -8 felt amazing? Nope. Just no. I live in Georgia, where it almost never gets below like 20F in the winter, and i can't even stand that.

  • @EldritchVelvet
    @EldritchVelvet 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    have you ever tried to bleach and dye your beard?

  • @tonyp8159
    @tonyp8159 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    For too long I thought you were saying witch lips.

  • @vitalsiordia2529
    @vitalsiordia2529 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your camera focus... u.u

  • @PheonixAnarchyReaper
    @PheonixAnarchyReaper 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    HEY I'M AN ACCOUNTANT HIRE ME
    Or just let me volunteer, I'm a trainee i nEED EXPERIENCE

  • @iopentico414
    @iopentico414 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is his nipple pierced?

    • @JacksenRose
      @JacksenRose 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Addyson Slaugh yes

  • @pikachukid9650
    @pikachukid9650 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude, you talking kinda fast xD (well, English isn't my mother tongue buuut)