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Do Relationships Kill Careers? featuring Melanie Fiona
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Dating someone in the entertainment industry has its ups and downs. Grammy-Award winning singer Melanie Fiona and music mogul Jared Cotter share their experiences.
Do you get jealous of your partner's work relationships?
Do you have a hard time turning off work at home?
Do you think relationships are a distraction to individual success?
In an ideal world, what career does your significant other have and definitely NOT have?
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Can I just sidebar to say how much I love my core subscribers? In this video my eyebrows and hairline desperately need to be filled in but is anyone here mentioning that?? Nope! Just comments about how appreciative you are of the content. It’s the little things that makes me love y’all ❤️❤️
We didn't even see it.. Until you said it because the content is AMAZING.. i love you!!! Keep it coming!!!
I noticed it. But I thought "Oh hey, she has it also. Cool.". How do you normally fill it in? Or did you already discuss that in a video?
😂😂😂
*goes back to look* I actually prefer brows that way, but I didn't notice. And I guess I see what you mean about the hairline, but it wasn't something I noticed until I saw you had pointed it out! I think you look dope in all the forms I've seen you in! (Also, I'm slowly trying to update my okc by using your guidelines from your video about it. Wish me luck!)
Hush goddess you look amazing as usual
This series is like everything I have ever wanted. And I just think Shannon and Jared and all their guests are always so gorgeous and well spoken! It's honestly hard to find advice on healthy manageable relationships like this, so thanks Shan.
Also, as someone with anxiety, your voices are just really really calming.
If it does, maybe you are in the wrong relationship. In my experience, my partner is the reason I got so far in my career. He gives me the energy and the drive to do more, and to believe in the fact that I CAN do more.
I've been a silent watcher for over a year now, and I have to say that I can't be silent anymore because you really deserve credit. You make beautiful videos, your content and visuals are always amazing and so meaningful. I know some people get turned off by long videos but If I see that your video is 16 plus minutes long I know I'm gonna end that video with some growth. So far this is my favorite series that you have. I'm not sure what it is about it that makes it my favorite. Maybe it's because it just seems so genuine from both you and your partner as well as your guests, maybe it's because it's in a natural setting like at dinner, and it probably has a lot to do with the actual content of the videos. Either way I love these, and I appreciate your time and effort to give us videos like this one. As for your question in the start of the video. I don't know which profession i would or would not date. I'm only 18 and never had a boyfriend, so although I feel like I know myself I don't know what I'm like in a romantic relationship and what it is that I need. I'm open to anyone, and occupation at least now isn't a deal breaker or maker. I'm willing to let love win despite the obstacles that careers might bring.
you guys should do one with Timothy Delaghetto and Chia, especially since they have that long-distance perspective and they been very trusting with each other since Timothy does vids with other girls that are sometimes sexual. You can tell they have a very trusting relationship
ayah h word!!
It’s all about learning yourself and who best illuminates and enhances you. Choosing a partner is choosing a lifestyle. It has to be quality and the return on investment flourishing. The process to learn that is a different topic though. Dope video.
Naturally Lit beautifully said
listen when I say I was grinning like a fool at the end when y'all all touched on the crystal...there was something so special about that moment!
riiight!! it made me so happy they got them a crystal!! 😍 and Kyanite is powerful af!
When Melanie said: its an earthquake Shannon 😂😂😂 it was such a cute moment!
Straight up witchcraft
Wait...Shannon is out here having full conversations with Drake??
ROUND OF APPLAUSE FOR OUR GIRL👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Arent they both from Toronto? There's alot in that group that know each other.
@@brieoliver was going to say that lol all the celebs or popular people from Toronto seem to know each other at least in passing
@@jasminevaliente96 All of them. Its like a thing lol. I feel like Toronto peeps have their own FB group or something 😂
Her bff was an actress who co-starred on a TV show with Drake, maybe she met Drake through her?
ding ding!
when melanie said its easier to write sad songs than happy songs who else thought of her song "sad songs"? its one of my faves
I LOVE that song!! One of my favs by her ultimate fav, Other Side of the Love Song
🗣 *sad songs, are the best songs...*
Melanie Fiona is so cancerian and I’m living for it. Transparent about feelings, being a lover, even had a thoughtful gift at the end. Glad you can be successful, a creative, a sensie and have a partner in crime too 🦀💕✨
PrincessOfTheYew I was about to look up her sign, because I just knew she had to be a cancer lol.
Being in a relationship actually pushed me even harder to be better in everything I did because my actions and my energy directly impacted my partner in a way that no other person in my life would experience. I wanted to always bring my best to them. That love energized me and I was happy and it boosted my ego so I performed in life better. It only amplified my pre-established work ethic and it made me aware that what I do is not just for my fulfillment but it impacts those around me in a way I never got before. Even now that I am single again, my work feels more meaningful, knowing that it (as an extension of me) has direct contact with others. Before I had that experience, I felt like it was going to be a distraction so I was really apprehensive to the idea but my feelings almost immediately changed. It made me a better person😌
When Melanie goes in about the 7 months if incubating with family I felt that...the way both of you couples communicate, vibe and support each other is everything to me 💜💜💜
I'm feelings this "Dine and Dish" segment. I'm like Jared, I rarely get jealous b/c I feel like a relationship shouldn't stop you from being your authentic self.
“Your dream can be a nightmare!” WOW! That is the quote of the month. Sounds like a book TDJakes wrote. It was titled, “Can You Stand To Be Blessed.”
I love this series Shan, love love them. I work in a non-profit that advocates for policy improvements in an Asian country, here I live with my husband and our 3m daughter. As far as the business my husband is in is legal, I would support him no matter what, we all go through different stages and ...m'am...life is just too short to not give away tries to different things we want to try out.
Our biggest challenge is that I am a morning person, he is a night owl. I wake up at 5am, do my thing, work, come back home late..he likes to wake up late in the day and work till late at night, that's our challenge so we can consider ourselves lucky.
Your family sounds awesome
Thanks!!! @@shanboody
"every person has to be their own human"
I LOVE THIS SERIES SOOOOO MUCH, Shan. This is definitely my favorite from the series so far. Melanie and her man are too adorable. Can’t wait for the next episode.
Don't forget to do the poll by clicking the "i" in the righthand corner! It's almost Valentine's DAY!!! What content do you wanna see?
I think relationship do not necessarily have to be distracting but STARTING a new relationship definitely is
Shannon you motivate me to much to believe that everything is possible. Like from the type of woman you've become to the life you're leading including your partnership with Jared. Most people dont relate when I say I want that type of love. You're so awesome!!! Best from Montreal xx
i’ve followed shan for so long and this is by far my favorite series she’s put out, mainly also bc it revolves around food and great conversation! it makes me feel i’m sitting at the table too and privileged to walk away w another perspective or some forward thinking! what a blessing :) thank you...
I love this series!! and movement of open communications and reflections we are experiencing! The world is becoming a better place and it's thanks to all of us making an effort, loving ourselves unapologetically, honestly and collectively. 🙏🏾
This energy is everything. So genuine!
I absolutely LOVED this video! Such radiating energy from both sides. The one word that was on my mind through this whole thing was GENUINE! Genuine conversation, genuine emotions, genuine connections! 👏🏾
That was a beautiful gift !! I LOVE THEM. Please have them on again !! Congratulations again 💕💕
This is so timely. I'm one year into a relationship after a very long hiatus and I worry all the time about not being focused enough on my career and goals. At times I feel like he provides that healthy dose of distraction that I need from constantly being on the grind. But I also feel awful sometimes because my routine has changed. No more getting home from work... to do more work... unless I'm trying to meet a deadline. I feel like I'm in a better place, but I also miss being consumed by my work. But, I guess it's all about work life balance and partnering with someone who can still motivate you.
I’m always so excited for your videos because they’re the perfect mix of entertainment and education. As a young person looking to transition from “kid” relationships to mature, adult relationships, I love hearing experiences and advice from a range of people in such a well spoken and safe environment 😊
Thank you for this video, i'm a workaholic juggling my creative projects as well as working a regular job. And I have struggled to hold down past relationships to the extent that my art has become my significant other , this video has given hope, such an informative and honest video, thank you so much.
This is a great format. There's no screaming and talking over each other. It's relaxed, and it really encourages the subjects to get to the heart of the issue being discussed. Keep it coming.
"Does a Relationships Slow Down Your Career?"
Dunno, I need to be a relationship to answer that!
HAHAHAHahahahaha...
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Lmfaoo. I don't know why this was so funny to me.
What a beautiful and insightful conversation!! MORE PLEASE
I so fucking love this series, I literally find myself truly smiling and laughing because I connect with every topic you choose. Please don’t stop doing them, you are such a creative diamond!
Lots of love. ❤️
i love this so much! great video Shanny!!
I love these. I'm not with a conversationalist, so it vibes me with the interactions I enjoy.
My answers to your questions:
1. To also be in the arts and entrainment industry. I am a Fashion Stylist and Creative Director. I'm building and also working full time at a responsible day job. So I need that understanding 🙏🏾
2.A non creative career and/or entrepreneur . Passion and happiness drives my career and life.
Loved this video it was totally insightful and telling x
Prefect timing and totally in sync 😘🤗
Blessings to both couples.
Another good episide from this series! I like to listen to the varying experiences from everyone’s perspective and I love how you all ask each other questions and how the conversation flows nicely! Job well done, Brady’s!
Yes Shannon! I really needed this! 👏🙌 I’ve been following you since the beginning and I adore you so much! Thank you!!!
Loved this conversation. Thank you for sharing gems like this girl ✨
Your channel always allows me moments to question my experiences. Thank you for the space that you provide. Also, didn't know Melanie had a channel!
I really enjoyed this episode. The honesty and love that you shared for each other was great to see.
I just want to say that you inspire me a lot. I’ve have grown so much just through watching you videos. I left a shitty relationship, learned about safe sex, but more over I learned about self worth. Love you girl!
Love all these perspectives from imperfect couples who make it work. These are the kind of relationships I look up to ♥️
So insightful. Great content Shan. ⚡️
I LOVEEEEE this series! You’re amazing Shan!!!
Not in a romantic relationship or in the entertainment world but I loved this conversation...so much can be applied to everyday life in terms of work/life balance and communication xo
wow i loved this so much as someone who is pursuing a personal creative project and starting a relationship with someone who it feels right with cause he’s so supportive. i love both of your energies. love your channel.
agggghhhhh possibly the best video i have watched this year i love this collab more than any collab i've seen! shout out torontoooooo
Forever LOVING these discussions Shan!!
honestly this series is so damn insightful. it genuinely feels like I'm eating dinner there with y'all. love these conversations that promote an open dialogue and a non-judgemental safe space.
I don’t think the job matters as long as it doesn’t not compromise their or our morals or values. At the end of the day it has to make you happy. Their job does not have to necessarily have to define that person but it has to compliment them.
I LOVE THIS SERIES! Thanks for the insight
Love love love this. I enjoy seeing the conversation you and Jared have with other couples along with the connection and dynamic of the couples you bring to your channel. 🖤
This is my favorite series on all of TH-cam by a long shot!!!
This was such a great conversation. Thanks, Shan!
i love this episode. you're both such ideals when it comes to communicating and being with a partner and i love seeing the differing opinions in this series, so thanks for producing it~
LOVE this video. LOVE this series. Thank you, Shan.
I love this series. It just keeps better and better
That last question was great, it goes back to that video where you were talking about how if youre dating someone well known, that won’t be how you see them everyday. The person will get used to the love and the fame but thats not what they’ll feel when theyre home with you so they gotta get used to that. Cant remember the video now but 👌🏼 full circle, love it
absolutely love this series Shannon 💚
I love everything about this!!! I love Melanie Fiona and listening to you guys chatting about relationships was everything I didn’t know I needed! 😍
love that you play Jared's music in your videos. so supportive
i'm genuinely invested in this series and you can tell the hard work and dedication you put into creating your content. I just felt like i had to say i appreciate your insight and the insight of those around you, it's truly enlightening.
Great Content! Why VH1, MTV, WETV, and BET haven't reached out to Shan for content on national TV?? Conversations like this is highly needed in our generation today to help people more aware of the purpose to live before jumping into a commitment with someone who haven't lived out their mistakes and or found their own individual purpose.
WOW that was a good video. I can say I walked out with way more than I intended to and I’m grateful. Love the overall energy in this video and the honest answers. The editing was also pretty neat
This is my f a v o r i t e video series!! Thank you Shannon for all the heart and hustle you put into this content. Much love.
love you guys. legit watched the squarespace bits all the way through just cause jareds voice is pretty
such a great video! make more like these shan
Love this series keeping it coming!
Shannon is so cuuuuteeeee I love her sensitivity
I love this series so much.
Wow, this gave me so much life. Like the positivity, openness, just the love in the room, amazing people and energy. I just love your content!
SO SAWWWWEEEEEEEEET!!! ThanQ oxo
Thnk you for doing this SHAN , lots of love 💕
Absolutely loved this edition of dine & dish
Goal for 2019 - let go of expectations and enjoy what's happening. Learning that right now.
i am absolutely in love with your content!
This vid is so dope! I love Melly Mel... The couple's relationship dynamic is on point from the angles presented.
IM LOVING DINE N DISH, cant wait of for the new episode
This was so dope!!! One of my fav episodes 🙌🏾🙌🏾
I have such a good image of squarespace just because of y'all lol. I like this video!
As for my partner's career, I hope it is a career where it doesn't cause him stress concerning like the ethics of his work. Like feeling guilty for working for an unethical company, or things like that, I don't want my partner to feel that type of stress from their job that they need to make a living.
Here is the type of entertainment I’m here for thank you I LOVE YOU❤️
I loved this video. People need the reality of life and love. I'm finding the ugly truth but also the amazing beauty in it. Romantic/rom-coms are problematic fantasies and I'm happy that these videos dismantle unhealthy idealisms. THANK YOU ♥️
I love "Dine and Dish"!!! I learn a lot from these videos and the content is very thought-provoking.
This series is amazing
You are amazing. Thank you for your excellent content
Loving the vibes
I love this video. Thxs all the couples. 😊 HAPPY NEWLYWED
What a beautiful and thoughtful gift!
i love this series so much.
Love these segments!!!!!
Lol Shan this video cracked me up but was also super insightful! Keep doing what you’re doing
I loooooooove Shan's natural sm
Ideally... my partner would be in an industry that is also about serving other people. And they would care about health and wellness and helping others. I also think it would be hard for me to be in a relationship with someone "in the industry" someone famous. My partner, now, is very well known just in my small town, and I find it difficult. But, that said, the more I work on myself and my person, the easier that gets. However... I still am not about "that life", the lack of routine and normalcy that is associated with "the industry" as my own independent person, so if I were in a relationship with someone who "lived that life", which, again my current partner kind of dips their toes into, boundaries would definitely need to be set as far as our needs and wants... haha but I digress x'''D
This was hella interesting thank you for sharing
It definitely can regardless of either of your intentions
I definitely needed this video & I love this soo much ❤️👏🏾
*I really enjoy this 'dine and dish' series👌🏿*
Stumbling upon this video is definitely a good indication of being on the right path.
Love this series
I love your channel soo much 💕
I love this! More please!