My Top 3 qualities: Speaks my love language Securely Attached Supportive/ Happy for my Good News My Bottom 3 qualities: Good parenting skills Likes to do new things Faithful What are yours?
My top 3 are: Supportive / happy for my good news Faithful Similar values Bottom three: Follows direction Enjoys working together Physically attractive It was very hard for me to pick :( loooool
Top 3: Trustworthy (IMO trust is the #1 component in ANY relationship, business or personal) Speaks my love language (I took one of those quizzes once and got tied with words of affirmation and physical touch) Has similar interest - Cause if we don't have anything in common then why are we together anyway? Bottom 3 Faithful - I need someone I can rely on when life goes sideways. I would also hope she felt the same way about me. Supportive/happy for my good news - Please be my corner man. Or in this case corner woman. Sexually compatible - It would suck if we were unable to mesh well sexually.
The most knowledge I've received in 8 mins. My Top 3 qualities: Physically attractive Speaks my love language Supportive My Bottom 3 qualities: Good parenting skills Shared politics Extroverted
I binged watched your show and enjoyed every single second of it! Top 3: must be faithful trustworthy speaks my love language Bottom 3: allows others to take the lead cooperative extroverted I'm soooo glad I found your channel! xoxo
My top three would be similar values, shared politics, and speaks my love language. My bottom three would be extroverted, good parenting skills, and I guess strong leadership skills. I'm about to go on a coffee date, so this was definitely an interesting video to watch before that 😂❤️
+Nia Pipkin-Glover it's interesting to have politics and values at the top then parenting at the bottom! Most ppl prioritize those when they have family planned
I could never date myself and I really strive to find a polar opposite. That all being said, here's the list! Top 3: Faithful, Intelligent, Physically attractive Bottom 3: Extroverted, Allows others to take the lead, Good parenting skills Booked a session with you later this month, can't wait
Top 3 Most 1) Has Similar Interests 2) Supportive/Happy for Good News 3) Intelligent Bottom 3 Least 1) Good Parenting Skills 2) Allows others to take the Lead 3) Enjoys Working Together I really did enjoy this, and it made me really dig deep into myself, and to what I want. Thanks for this Shannon, love you and your videos!
Top 3: Intelligent Sexually compatible Shared politics/ outlook on life ---------------------------------------------------------- Bottom 3: Physically attractive Good parenting skills Extroverted
Such a great list Shannon! I really liked doing the exercise. To make it easier for myself I separated the 21 characteristics into three categories: high, mid and low, then ranked them from there. My Top 3: Cooperative Emotionally stable High novelty seeking My Bottom 3: Good parenting skills Strong leadership skills Faithful
Thank you, this was really eye-opening! My top 3: trustworthy, intelligent, takes responsibility for themselves Bottom 3: extroverted, good parenting skills, faithful
Top 3: trustworthy, faithful, speaks my love language. Bottom 3: good parenting skills, extroverted, follows directions. Although my bottom 3 are important the other qualities took precedence.
So I did this rating style : (1 to 10) Shared politics/ outlook on life=6 Emotionally stable=8 Securely attached=7 Likes to do new things=8 Supportive/ happy for my good news=9 Intelligent=8 Physically attractive=8 Takes responsibility for self=9 Enjoys working together=9 Has similar interests=7 Similar values=8 Speaks my love language=9 Strong life skills=9 Good parenting skills=10 Sexually compatible=10 Financially independent=8 Extroverted =9 Trustworthy =10 Faithful=10 Strong leadership skills=8 Follows directions =7 Allows others to take the lead=6
My companion and I have no hobbies in common and that gives us time to spend apart and develop our own identities. However our core values, such as finances, raising kids, society's structure, morality and our love languages and many others built a solid foundation for us in the years we have been together and to top it off ! I'm 9 years older than him !! 🤣🤣🤣😘😘
I can go back and forth between a few; very helpful though-the insight it provides for me and my partner's disagreements is pretty powerful. Some of this can make you rethink your entire life. Top 3 Shared politics (outlook on life people/equality is what's most important for me) Cooperative Speaks my love language Bottom 3 Parenting skills Financially independent Extroverted
My Top 3 -speaks my love language -shared politics/outlook on life -similar values Top 3 bottom -Extroverted -likes to do new things -similar interests
My top 3 qualities: supportive/happy for my good news, enjoys working together, similar values. My bottom 3 qualities: strong life skills, extroverted, has similar interests. Once again a very informative video, I liked it !
This was so hard! Top 3: Securely Attached Similar values High novelty seeking Bottom 3: Has similar interests Follows direction Strong leadership skills I think it comes down to me wanting my partner to be up for an adventure, care about topics/values that are important to me and be affectionate but also be able to give each other space to not lose ourselves in the relationship. I don't rank the hierarchy based ones because my partner will be my equal so it seems less relevant. And I'd almost prefer if they had different interest so we could each try new things, and if we didn't enjoy it then those interest would be perfect for times spent apart from each other.
Had to do top 5 😭 1. Shared outlook on life 2.Physically attractive 3.Speaks my love language 4.Finachally independent 5.Sexually compatible Least important 1. Allows others to lead 2.Enjoys working together 3.Follow directions 4.Securely attached 5.Emotionally stable ☹️
Thumbnail on point. Love the blue in your hair also Shan. Just finished watching both seasons of your show & loved it. Keep up the amazing content girl. Much love. 💙
It's kind of hard to rate my top 3, because almost all of the qualities are highly important to me, but, here you go - TOP 3: similar values, because this is also how we chose close friends, right? Emotionally stable Intelligent, because I love to talk a lot and think fast at the same time, we need to be on the same level BOTTOM 3: financially independent, because people my age usually still live with their parents tbh follows directions strong leadership skills
My top 3 qualities are: Securely attached Similar values Emotionally stable My bottom 3 qualities: Speaks my love language Allows others to take the lead Follows directions This was so hard because I'm like damn, all of these are important!!
Hi Shan, just wanted to let you know just how much i truly enjoy your content, I find it relevant, useful and interesting. Omw to binge watching season 1 and 2 now haha. Best of luck with any of your current and future projects (season 3 hehe...?). TOP 3 -speaks my love language -faithful -similar values BOTTOM 3 -high novelty seeking -shared politics -similar interests
My Top Qualities♡ 1. Trustworthy 2. Similar values 3. Intelligent (If we could do top 5 lol) 4. Securely attached 5. Emotionally stable My Bottom Qualities♡ -Extroverted -Allows others to take the lead -Enjoys working together
my top 3 qualities: speaks my love language securely attached supportive/happy for my good news. my bottom 3 qualities: extroverted good parenting skills faithful
My top 3 qualities: Similar values Emotionally stable Sexual compatibility Top bottom 3 would be: Strong leadership skills Likes to do new things Enjoys working together Thanks for this video Shan! You rock my world ✨✨✨✨🌷🌷🌷🌷
Top: 1.enjoys working together 2.Similar values 3. Sexually compatible A lot of the qualities listed in the description bar are REALLY GOOD......I was on the fence between similar values and good parenting skills. But I thought if my partner had similar values they would also value the idea of raising a child in a nurturing household. bottom: 1.Physical attractiveness 2.Extroverted and hmmmmmm.....this is hard. Maybe (3.)speaks my love language. I enjoyed this activity!
My top 3 would be -physically attractive -similar values -trustworthy My bottom 3 would be -Likes to do new things -Extroverted -Speaks my love language
Yo this was harder than I thought but I did my ranking! Top 3: Shared politics/worldview physically attractive Intelligent Bottom 3: Extroverted Financially independent (I'm a college student living with my rents so...) Good Parenting Skills
Top 3: Takes responsibility for self (You have to take care of yourself! You got to stick up for yourself and treat yourself the best. I don't want someone to ever down themselves and I don't ever want to hear negativity about yourself because how you treat yourself ultimately is really how you treat others. If you constantly are bashing yourself, I know it would be nothing to you if you turned that negativity toward me. Don't be insecure and fake confidence in yourself until you believe you're actually good enough.) Follows directions (I need you to listen to me when it matters. Following directions can come to how I will my my sex to be or how I like to be in public. Say if I'm the girl that hates holding hands, listen to that. Follow how I like what I like. Don't make me feel uncomfortable if I rather show intimacy from only hug you know, what I'm saying.) Trustworthy (If I can't trust you to be around me and stay in my life, then I don't know what you're here for. I have to know how your days been, what you've done for the day-I mean you don't have to go in to detail, but I just have to know that I could trust you with my life. No judging each other and that you'll be there when I need you, even when I don't. Knowing when to be there for me is so crucial. If you not there when I do need you, it makes me lose trust in you.) Bottom 3: Extrovert (I'm an introvert and could care less if someone was extroverted. If they were extroverted I wouldn't really care because they could help me with my introverted nature all in all, but you don't have to be super outgoing for me to like you. I actually prefer the quiet types who have some mystery to them.) Securely attached (I don't care if you are super clingy or not, as long as you know how to be there for me whether I needed you in the moment or not. Learn to be there either physically, mentally, and or emotionally.) Emotionally stable (I wouldn't say I am emotionally stable, so I would help others who aren't emotionally stable like me. I'm very emotional. I get sad, you know..depressed. Get in my little/big moments, so if others had problems I would help them like I help myself, no problem. I take people's emotions serious.)
Top 3 1. Trustworthy(for me without complete trust and honesty what is the point in a solid relationship) 2. Emotionally Stable( Cause I guess I can be classed as quiet emotional in the sense that my emotions can quickly change although I'm not over dramatic so I would need someone to anchor me😂😁) 3.Faithful(This kind of ties in with the trustworthy and I need a fifty/fifty relationship were we both put in the work and I don't need to be worrying about them. Also I understand their needs and the understand mine and we're on the same page) Bottom 3( Although this may change in time) 22.Extraverted(It might be nice but I don't need it) 21. Follow directions 20.Strong leadership skills(I feel as though this quality is subjective because if it meant in a work sense where they can lead a project I would of put it higher but in a relationship it wouldn't work with me as I don't like to be told what to do and that may cause a lot of strain)😂
top 3: intelligent (emotionally and knowledgable) shared values (trustworthiness is one of them) sexually compatible (+ physically attractive to me) bottom 3: securely attached extroverted similar interests
1. Interesting 2. Intelligent/knowledgeable in multiple aspects. 3. Strong morals and leadership and caring (all goes hand in hand) 1. Attractive 2. Sensual 3.Quirky
Thanks Shannon. I'll be sure to analyze this list and rearrange it for myself later. Congrats on the show. Also I got an idea for season 3: You know how some fans said the show would be more impactful if you were coaching people on dates? How about doing that? Good luck!
The top 3 was so hard to pick! I don't think I'd date someone for long who didn't have ALL my top 10. Is that being too demanding? -Intelligent -Trustworthy -Supportive/Happy for my good news Least important: -Enjoys working together -Extroverted -Good parenting skills
Only worried about 18 of them so that's why mine stops there. 1)Emotionally Stable 2)Trustworthy 3) Attractive bottom 3: 16) Similar interests 17) Likes to do new things 18) Same outlook on life
My top 3 Qualities for a partner. They'll have to... : - Be Intelligent -Speak my love language - have Similar Values My bottom 3 Qualities: -Be physically attractive (although @ times my eyes lead before my brain starts an interview with the individual) -Be sexually compatible (I mean... I'm all for sex. Having it, talking about it, watching it, heck even drawing it. But, I have learned that the fantasies are more of my enjoyment and the actual act is a bonus. So, it's not high on my radar- for a long term partner) -Follows directions (b/c I sure as heck fight against the rules the majority of the time)
Never thought about doing a list like this. Was quite interesting, wonder what my top 3 (bottom 3 included) says about me.. Top 3: Emotionally Stable Securely attached Trustworthy Bottom 3: Good parenting skills Has similar interests Likes to do new things Anyways been enjoying your videos for quite awhile keep up the great work.
My Top 3 1. Supportive 2. Strong Life Skills 3.Takes Responsibility for self My Bottom 3 1. Emotionally Stable 2.Sexually Compatible 3. Physically Attractive
My top three qualities are shared politics/outlook on life, physically attractive, and intelligent, while my bottom three qualities are strong leadership skills, follows directions, and allows others to take the lead. Lol. It's interesting to see all my values in a list form.
Also, I wanted to ask if you could do a vid (if you haven't already) on loving someone vs being attached. I'm dating my boyfriend for 3 months now and it's my first relationship. I'm 20 btw. I feel SO much for him. Care about him deeply and maybe even love him. But those priorities of mine when dating someone is not evident in him, but idk if it's too soon to tell or what. I don't want to let go of him because he's amazing but I'm not being satisfied emotionally. Do you have any advice PLEASE!? :(
Ill be sending in my video shortly! Top 3: Strong Leadership Skills, Similar Values, Trustworthy Bottom 3: Likes to do new things, Extroverted, Follow Directions/ Allow others to take the lead
My top 3 qualities: 1.speak my love language 2. Intelligent 3. Faithful My bottom 3 qualities: 1.follows directions. 2. Extrovert. 3. Allow others to take the lead.
i bloody love this channel *cries in English* so when it comes to "opposites attract", what is it that people look for subconsciously or consciously in other people, that is different to them?
My Top 3 qualities: Trustworthy Supportive Shared (or similar) outlook on life My Bottom 3 qualities: Follows directions Faithful Enjoys working together
What a great exercise! I have to admit I think I spent as long as this video has been posted thinking about what my top and bottom priorities were: Top: Supportive Intelligent Financially Independent Bottom: Extroverted Allow Others to Take the Lead Strong Life Skills If there's anything I would ask though, it's definitely how people feel about themselves if they answer these honestly. I always found myself to value intelligence over good looks, but this only revealed to me that maybe my priorities are also in quality of life and something that I look for partners that are the spitting image of what I inspire to be. Anyone care to share?
Top: Supportive/Happy For my Good News, Similar Values, Securely Attached Bottom: Extroverted, Strong Leadership Skills, Likes to Do New Things Thanks for the opportunity to think through this! It was tough at times!
Top 3: cooperative trustworthy intelligent bottom 3: leadership financially independent(prob shouldn't be bottom lmao I'm in college tho soooo) others take lead
My Top 3 qualities:
Speaks my love language
Securely Attached
Supportive/ Happy for my Good News
My Bottom 3 qualities:
Good parenting skills
Likes to do new things
Faithful
What are yours?
My top 3 are:
Supportive / happy for my good news
Faithful
Similar values
Bottom three:
Follows direction
Enjoys working together
Physically attractive
It was very hard for me to pick :( loooool
Top 3:
Trustworthy (IMO trust is the #1 component in ANY relationship, business or personal)
Speaks my love language (I took one of those quizzes once and got tied with words of affirmation and physical touch)
Has similar interest - Cause if we don't have anything in common then why are we together anyway?
Bottom 3
Faithful - I need someone I can rely on when life goes sideways. I would also hope she felt the same way about me.
Supportive/happy for my good news - Please be my corner man. Or in this case corner woman.
Sexually compatible - It would suck if we were unable to mesh well sexually.
Shan BOODY you are an amazing person. I love your videos. Thanks for informing us on these topics.
Shan BOODY What do you mean by "securely attached" dear?
Top 3:
1. supportive
2. Faithful
3. Strong leadership skills
Bottom 3:
1. allows others to take the lead.
2. Physically attractive
3. Extroverted
If I looked like Shan I'd date myself.
When you touched his hand in the clip, I burst out laughing!
top 3: spiritually compatible. invested in each other's well being, so we're each other's biggest support/cheerleaders. not sexist.
The most knowledge I've received in 8 mins.
My Top 3 qualities:
Physically attractive
Speaks my love language
Supportive
My Bottom 3 qualities:
Good parenting skills
Shared politics
Extroverted
Top 3:
-strong life skills
-physically attractive
-faithful
Bottom 3:
-enjoys working together
-shared politics/outlook
-likes to do new things
I am SO shocked at how many people rank "strong life skills" at the bottom. That's cool you prioritize it
I binged watched your show and enjoyed every single second of it!
Top 3:
must be faithful
trustworthy
speaks my love language
Bottom 3:
allows others to take the lead
cooperative
extroverted
I'm soooo glad I found your channel! xoxo
My top three would be similar values, shared politics, and speaks my love language. My bottom three would be extroverted, good parenting skills, and I guess strong leadership skills. I'm about to go on a coffee date, so this was definitely an interesting video to watch before that 😂❤️
+Nia Pipkin-Glover it's interesting to have politics and values at the top then parenting at the bottom! Most ppl prioritize those when they have family planned
I have some pretty firm beliefs regarding gender since I'm non binary, but I've never wanted kiddos of my own 😅😅
I could never date myself and I really strive to find a polar opposite. That all being said, here's the list!
Top 3: Faithful, Intelligent, Physically attractive
Bottom 3: Extroverted, Allows others to take the lead, Good parenting skills
Booked a session with you later this month, can't wait
Top 3 Most
1) Has Similar Interests
2) Supportive/Happy for Good News
3) Intelligent
Bottom 3 Least
1) Good Parenting Skills
2) Allows others to take the Lead
3) Enjoys Working Together
I really did enjoy this, and it made me really dig deep into myself, and to what I want. Thanks for this Shannon, love you and your videos!
Top 3:
Intelligent
Sexually compatible
Shared politics/ outlook on life
----------------------------------------------------------
Bottom 3:
Physically attractive
Good parenting skills
Extroverted
Such a great list Shannon! I really liked doing the exercise. To make it easier for myself I separated the 21 characteristics into three categories: high, mid and low, then ranked them from there.
My Top 3:
Cooperative
Emotionally stable
High novelty seeking
My Bottom 3:
Good parenting skills
Strong leadership skills
Faithful
Top 3:
Speaks my love language
Has similar interests
Similar values
Bottom 3:
Strong life skills
Good parenting skills
Extroverted
love this Shannon!
Thank you, this was really eye-opening!
My top 3: trustworthy, intelligent, takes responsibility for themselves
Bottom 3: extroverted, good parenting skills, faithful
On The 4th Of July I've Finally Met The Girl I Dated Online In Person It Was Her Birthday!
Top 3: trustworthy, faithful, speaks my love language.
Bottom 3: good parenting skills, extroverted, follows directions.
Although my bottom 3 are important the other qualities took precedence.
So I did this rating style : (1 to 10)
Shared politics/ outlook on life=6
Emotionally stable=8
Securely attached=7
Likes to do new things=8
Supportive/ happy for my good news=9
Intelligent=8
Physically attractive=8
Takes responsibility for self=9
Enjoys working together=9
Has similar interests=7
Similar values=8
Speaks my love language=9
Strong life skills=9
Good parenting skills=10
Sexually compatible=10
Financially independent=8
Extroverted =9
Trustworthy =10
Faithful=10
Strong leadership skills=8
Follows directions =7
Allows others to take the lead=6
My companion and I have no hobbies in common and that gives us time to spend apart and develop our own identities. However our core values, such as finances, raising kids, society's structure, morality and our love languages and many others built a solid foundation for us in the years we have been together and to top it off ! I'm 9 years older than him !! 🤣🤣🤣😘😘
I can go back and forth between a few; very helpful though-the insight it provides for me and my partner's disagreements is pretty powerful. Some of this can make you rethink your entire life.
Top 3
Shared politics (outlook on life people/equality is what's most important for me)
Cooperative
Speaks my love language
Bottom 3
Parenting skills
Financially independent
Extroverted
Wow I'm early, LOVE U SHAN!
morning from the west coast Kelly!
My Top 3
-speaks my love language
-shared politics/outlook on life
-similar values
Top 3 bottom
-Extroverted
-likes to do new things
-similar interests
My top 3 qualities: supportive/happy for my good news, enjoys working together, similar values.
My bottom 3 qualities: strong life skills, extroverted, has similar interests.
Once again a very informative video, I liked it !
Wow. I've loved all your videos but I feel like you've lifted your game even more. loving everything you do even more!!
Top 3:
- financially independent
- speaks my love language
- shared politics
Bottom 3:
- enjoys working together
- follows direction
- extroverted
This was so hard!
Top 3:
Securely Attached
Similar values
High novelty seeking
Bottom 3:
Has similar interests
Follows direction
Strong leadership skills
I think it comes down to me wanting my partner to be up for an adventure, care about topics/values that are important to me and be affectionate but also be able to give each other space to not lose ourselves in the relationship.
I don't rank the hierarchy based ones because my partner will be my equal so it seems less relevant. And I'd almost prefer if they had different interest so we could each try new things, and if we didn't enjoy it then those interest would be perfect for times spent apart from each other.
Saved in WATCH LATER playlist as my go-to guide when I'm ready to date again 😄
Had to do top 5 😭
1. Shared outlook on life
2.Physically attractive
3.Speaks my love language
4.Finachally independent
5.Sexually compatible
Least important
1. Allows others to lead
2.Enjoys working together
3.Follow directions
4.Securely attached
5.Emotionally stable ☹️
TOP
1.Similar interests
2.Trustworthy
3.Sexually compatible
BOTTOM
18.Strong leadership skills 19.Extraverted
20.Good parenting skills
Thumbnail on point. Love the blue in your hair also Shan. Just finished watching both seasons of your show & loved it. Keep up the amazing content girl. Much love. 💙
It's kind of hard to rate my top 3, because almost all of the qualities are highly important to me, but, here you go - TOP 3:
similar values, because this is also how we chose close friends, right?
Emotionally stable
Intelligent, because I love to talk a lot and think fast at the same time, we need to be on the same level
BOTTOM 3:
financially independent, because people my age usually still live with their parents tbh
follows directions
strong leadership skills
My top 3 qualities are:
Securely attached
Similar values
Emotionally stable
My bottom 3 qualities:
Speaks my love language
Allows others to take the lead
Follows directions
This was so hard because I'm like damn, all of these are important!!
my top 3:
intelligent
speek my love language
similar values
my bottom 3:
Emotionally stable
Strong leadership skills
Extroverted
Hi Shan, just wanted to let you know just how much i truly enjoy your content, I find it relevant, useful and interesting. Omw to binge watching season 1 and 2 now haha. Best of luck with any of your current and future projects (season 3 hehe...?).
TOP 3
-speaks my love language
-faithful
-similar values
BOTTOM 3
-high novelty seeking
-shared politics
-similar interests
+Viv Chong ahhhhh Viv you doll thank youuu. Your list makes good sense to me
My Top Qualities♡
1. Trustworthy
2. Similar values
3. Intelligent
(If we could do top 5 lol)
4. Securely attached
5. Emotionally stable
My Bottom Qualities♡
-Extroverted
-Allows others to take the lead
-Enjoys working together
my top 3 qualities:
speaks my love language
securely attached
supportive/happy for my good news.
my bottom 3 qualities:
extroverted
good parenting skills
faithful
Top three:
Intelligent
Supportive
Financially stable
Bottom three
Strong life skills
Extrovert
Similar values
My top 3 qualities:
Similar values
Emotionally stable
Sexual compatibility
Top bottom 3 would be:
Strong leadership skills
Likes to do new things
Enjoys working together
Thanks for this video Shan! You rock my world ✨✨✨✨🌷🌷🌷🌷
your show is the best!!!!!!!
you have the best advice i love you shan
Top:
1.enjoys working together
2.Similar values
3. Sexually compatible
A lot of the qualities listed in the description bar are REALLY GOOD......I was on the fence between similar values and good parenting skills. But I thought if my partner had similar values they would also value the idea of raising a child in a nurturing household.
bottom:
1.Physical attractiveness
2.Extroverted
and hmmmmmm.....this is hard. Maybe (3.)speaks my love language.
I enjoyed this activity!
strong life skills-intelligent-financially independent. Bonus: great sense of humor!
My top 3 would be
-physically attractive
-similar values
-trustworthy
My bottom 3 would be
-Likes to do new things
-Extroverted
-Speaks my love language
top 3: securely attached, supportive, similar values
bottom 3: parenting skills, strong leadership skills, extroverted
Yo this was harder than I thought but I did my ranking!
Top 3:
Shared politics/worldview
physically attractive
Intelligent
Bottom 3:
Extroverted
Financially independent (I'm a college student living with my rents so...)
Good Parenting Skills
Notification GANG!!!
+Quilz Tamay Flores yayyy my people
this video is top tier. editing, content, setting. >>>
+brandy b. Thank you I really worked on this one and added some animated text!
I just binge watched both seasons!!!!
Im so glad i waited for all the episodes to be available 🙃👌🏽❤️
My top 3:
1) Faithful
2) Trustworthy
3) Shared outlook on life
Top 3:
Takes responsibility for self (You have to take care of yourself! You got to stick up for yourself and treat yourself the best. I don't want someone to ever down themselves and I don't ever want to hear negativity about yourself because how you treat yourself ultimately is really how you treat others. If you constantly are bashing yourself, I know it would be nothing to you if you turned that negativity toward me. Don't be insecure and fake confidence in yourself until you believe you're actually good enough.)
Follows directions (I need you to listen to me when it matters. Following directions can come to how I will my my sex to be or how I like to be in public. Say if I'm the girl that hates holding hands, listen to that. Follow how I like what I like. Don't make me feel uncomfortable if I rather show intimacy from only hug you know, what I'm saying.)
Trustworthy (If I can't trust you to be around me and stay in my life, then I don't know what you're here for. I have to know how your days been, what you've done for the day-I mean you don't have to go in to detail, but I just have to know that I could trust you with my life. No judging each other and that you'll be there when I need you, even when I don't. Knowing when to be there for me is so crucial. If you not there when I do need you, it makes me lose trust in you.)
Bottom 3: Extrovert (I'm an introvert and could care less if someone was extroverted. If they were extroverted I wouldn't really care because they could help me with my introverted nature all in all, but you don't have to be super outgoing for me to like you. I actually prefer the quiet types who have some mystery to them.)
Securely attached (I don't care if you are super clingy or not, as long as you know how to be there for me whether I needed you in the moment or not. Learn to be there either physically, mentally, and or emotionally.)
Emotionally stable (I wouldn't say I am emotionally stable, so I would help others who aren't emotionally stable like me. I'm very emotional. I get sad, you know..depressed. Get in my little/big moments, so if others had problems I would help them like I help myself, no problem. I take people's emotions serious.)
This video was so interesting and cool! (I also want to point out that the colors in you hair are very pretty)
Top 3 cooperative, similar values, trustworthy.
Bottom 3. Similar interests, high novelty seeking, allows others to take lead
Top 3
1. Trustworthy(for me without complete trust and honesty what is the point in a solid relationship)
2. Emotionally Stable( Cause I guess I can be classed as quiet emotional in the sense that my emotions can quickly change although I'm not over dramatic so I would need someone to anchor me😂😁)
3.Faithful(This kind of ties in with the trustworthy and I need a fifty/fifty relationship were we both put in the work and I don't need to be worrying about them. Also I understand their needs and the understand mine and we're on the same page)
Bottom 3( Although this may change in time)
22.Extraverted(It might be nice but I don't need it)
21. Follow directions
20.Strong leadership skills(I feel as though this quality is subjective because if it meant in a work sense where they can lead a project I would of put it higher but in a relationship it wouldn't work with me as I don't like to be told what to do and that may cause a lot of strain)😂
top 3:
intelligent (emotionally and knowledgable)
shared values (trustworthiness is one of them)
sexually compatible (+ physically attractive to me)
bottom 3:
securely attached
extroverted
similar interests
My top 3:
1. Shared life/societal outlook
2.Securely attached
3.Sexually compatible
Bottom 3:
1. Emotionally stable
2. Similar interests
3. Extroverted
I feel like your Fullscreen tv show would be a hilarious Sitcom! I need this to happen.
1-trustworthy 2-faitful 3-supposrtic. bottom 3 were physically attractive, extroverted and strong leadership skills
My Top three:
Faithful
Similar values
Physically attractive
Shan you left out sense of humour, thats a really big one for me too.
+Michelle O that goes under extroversion
My top 3:
1) Supportive
2) Similar values
3) Faithful
X
1. Interesting
2. Intelligent/knowledgeable in multiple aspects.
3. Strong morals and leadership and caring (all goes hand in hand)
1. Attractive
2. Sensual
3.Quirky
Thanks Shannon. I'll be sure to analyze this list and rearrange it for myself later. Congrats on the show. Also I got an idea for season 3:
You know how some fans said the show would be more impactful if you were coaching people on dates? How about doing that? Good luck!
Jamal I am SHOCKED! You of all people have not watched the Fullscreen show? This is literally the last episode
Yeah but now i get to binge watch it. So who really wins here?
Me :)
The top 3 was so hard to pick! I don't think I'd date someone for long who didn't have ALL my top 10. Is that being too demanding?
-Intelligent
-Trustworthy
-Supportive/Happy for my good news
Least important:
-Enjoys working together
-Extroverted
-Good parenting skills
Only worried about 18 of them so that's why mine stops there.
1)Emotionally Stable
2)Trustworthy
3) Attractive
bottom 3:
16) Similar interests
17) Likes to do new things
18) Same outlook on life
'likes to do new thing', strong life skills, extrovert. top three ideals.
Top: Trustworthy, Faithful, Intelligent
Bottom: speaks my love language, good parenting skills, securely attatched
My top 3 Qualities for a partner. They'll have to... :
- Be Intelligent
-Speak my love language
- have Similar Values
My bottom 3 Qualities:
-Be physically attractive (although @ times my eyes lead before my brain starts an interview with the individual)
-Be sexually compatible
(I mean... I'm all for sex. Having it, talking about it, watching it, heck even drawing it. But, I have learned that the fantasies are more of my enjoyment and the actual act is a bonus. So, it's not high on my radar- for a long term partner)
-Follows directions (b/c I sure as heck fight against the rules the majority of the time)
My top three= 1. Trustworthy2. Similar Values3. Supportivewas so difficult to choose x
my top 3:
-securely attached
-takes responsibility for self
-sexually compatible
That thumbnail tho 😍 I love your channel always sooooo interesting 💖
Never thought about doing a list like this. Was quite interesting, wonder what my top 3 (bottom 3 included) says about me..
Top 3:
Emotionally Stable
Securely attached
Trustworthy
Bottom 3:
Good parenting skills
Has similar interests
Likes to do new things
Anyways been enjoying your videos for quite awhile keep up the great work.
+MrQuantumObserver your list to me says you're looking for a peaceful life where you can focus on what's important to you
Well hi, thanks for replying. Yeah that would make sense, appreciate you taking your time to reply :D
Rearranging this list is harder than I thought.
I feel like I really needed this list to help with my relationship. Thank you so much for this
+Cassandra Barrett so glad to hear that Cass! Thanks for being here
I enjoy your videos and the great information you put out.. I wish you the best success!!
My Top 3
1. Supportive
2. Strong Life Skills
3.Takes Responsibility for self
My Bottom 3
1. Emotionally Stable
2.Sexually Compatible
3. Physically Attractive
MY TOP 3
Faithful
Supportive/ happy for my good news
Speaks my love language 😍
+The TH-cam Shaderoom hi boo!! We have 2/3 of the same BUT your top quality is at the bottom of my list...not quite compatible but close!
Top 3: Supportive, physically attractive, speaks my love language
I'm so tickled by you mirroring him 😂😂😂😂
1. faithful 2. shared politics 3. emotionally stable
19. strong life skills 20. enjoys working together 21. follows direction
My top three qualities are shared politics/outlook on life, physically attractive, and intelligent, while my bottom three qualities are strong leadership skills, follows directions, and allows others to take the lead. Lol. It's interesting to see all my values in a list form.
Also, I wanted to ask if you could do a vid (if you haven't already) on loving someone vs being attached.
I'm dating my boyfriend for 3 months now and it's my first relationship. I'm 20 btw. I feel SO much for him. Care about him deeply and maybe even love him. But those priorities of mine when dating someone is not evident in him, but idk if it's too soon to tell or what. I don't want to let go of him because he's amazing but I'm not being satisfied emotionally. Do you have any advice PLEASE!? :(
top 3
faithful, trustworthy, good life skills
bottom 3
parenting skills, emotional stability and letting others lead
Ill be sending in my video shortly!
Top 3: Strong Leadership Skills, Similar Values, Trustworthy
Bottom 3: Likes to do new things, Extroverted, Follow Directions/ Allow others to take the lead
+Shelley S yessssss submissions!!! It's so clear as day you're looking to date a preacher 😂..JK! Or maybe..
Speaks my love language, sexually compatible and supportive! - top, similar interests, shared politics, takes directions - bottom ✌🏻
My top 3 qualities:
1.speak my love language
2. Intelligent
3. Faithful
My bottom 3 qualities:
1.follows directions.
2. Extrovert.
3. Allow others to take the lead.
Hey Shannon! I am in need of a good "love language" video
Nailed another awesome video. Love you Shannon
i bloody love this channel *cries in English*
so when it comes to "opposites attract", what is it that people look for subconsciously or consciously in other people, that is different to them?
Top 3:
- Intelligent
- Trustworthy
- Securely attached
Bottom 3:
- Good parenting skills
- Allows others to take the lead
- Follows directions
My Top 3 qualities:
Trustworthy
Supportive
Shared (or similar) outlook on life
My Bottom 3 qualities:
Follows directions
Faithful
Enjoys working together
Off topic but your eye makeup is on point and it makes your eyes pop
+Devon Moretti ooooh thank you Devon!!!
My top 3:
Trustworthy
Similar values
Speaks my love language
My bottom 3:
Faithful
Strong life skills
Allows others to take the lead
You should do a video talking about Sza's new album and songs like "the weekend" and "doves in the wind" !
top 3: trustworthy, good parent, faithful. bottom 3: allows others to lead, love language, extrovert
What a great exercise! I have to admit I think I spent as long as this video has been posted thinking about what my top and bottom priorities were:
Top:
Supportive
Intelligent
Financially Independent
Bottom:
Extroverted
Allow Others to Take the Lead
Strong Life Skills
If there's anything I would ask though, it's definitely how people feel about themselves if they answer these honestly. I always found myself to value intelligence over good looks, but this only revealed to me that maybe my priorities are also in quality of life and something that I look for partners that are the spitting image of what I inspire to be. Anyone care to share?
@Shan BOODY
love everything about this !
Top:
1. Trustworthy
2. Supportive
3. Shared values
Bottom:
1. Extroverted
2. Follows directions
3. Life skills
Top: Supportive/Happy For my Good News, Similar Values, Securely Attached
Bottom: Extroverted, Strong Leadership Skills, Likes to Do New Things
Thanks for the opportunity to think through this! It was tough at times!
Highest
1. Trustworthy 2. Life skills
3. Intelligent
Lowest
1. Allows others to take lead 2. Has similar interests
3. Shared politics
I can't do top 3 but I can do top 6
my top three
emotionally stable
supportive/happy for my good news
trustworthy
My top 3:
Trustworthy
Securely attached
Strong life skills
My bottom 3:
Allows others to take the lead
Good parenting skills
Likes to do new things
Top 3:
cooperative
trustworthy
intelligent
bottom 3:
leadership
financially independent(prob shouldn't be bottom lmao I'm in college tho soooo)
others take lead