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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ส.ค. 2024
- Do you believe in love at first sight? Or maybe you even experienced it with someone?
Attraction is not enough for a meaningful relationship. A deeper connection between two people is required for a couple to survive its ups and downs - a connection we call compatibility. It means to share values, beliefs, interests and lifestyle. It means being able to negotiate, set boundaries, solve problems and respect each other.
Understanding the difference between the two can get confusing sometimes, but when you know what to look for, you can see if it’s just chemistry, and not compatibility.
DISCLAIMER: This is for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional advice. If you can relate to any of these signs, please know this feedback is not meant to discredit anyone. It is meant to be a self-improvement guide for those of you who have been feeling a little stuck. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and always do what is right for you.
We also made a video on the differences between love and lust: • 6 Differences Between ...
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References:
Barnes, S. (2017, October 7). 7 signs you’re not actually compatible with the person you have amazing chemistry with. HelloGiggles. www.hellogiggles.com/love-sex/dating/7-signs-youre-not-actually-compatible-person-amazing-chemistry/
Mandriota, M. (2021, February 16). What the Differences Between Chemistry and Compatibility Can Mean for Relationships. Well+Good.
www.wellandgood.com/chemistry-or-compatibility/
Manson, M. (2021, September 15). Compatibility and Chemistry in Relationships. Mark Manson. www.markmanson.net/compatibility-and-chemistry
Robinson-Kiss, S. (2021, November 13). Why Chemistry Gets Mistaken for Compatibility. Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/they-re-not-coming/202111/why-chemistry-gets-mistaken-compatibility
Chemistry to get it started.
Compatibility to keep it going.
Shared values and vision to make it last.
This 💕
When I started considering my partner as boring, I remind myself too that I can be boring sometimes. Just give each other time and space to get to back each other in a better version. He is not here to entertain me it's not his duty so let both of us be ourselves
@@mishba9998 very wise. We expect things of our partners that we can't even deliver ourselves. That's hardly fair.
@@mishba9998 ooh wait wow I really like this, I’ve never l thought about it like that before, that’s a more mature and wise outlook that u have, and I can appreciate that, thanks for giving me another way to look at things :0
@@EmEmTv7585 My dear the boy iam talking about is none other than himself (the guy where iam replying on his comment) (Dev) :-)
You can have so much in common with someone but it doesn’t always mean that you will get married or a committed relationship.
Story of my life 💔
One of the things I'm realizing... I'm still keeping an open mind though because our relationship as lovers is still young though we've been friends for years. I'll just keep my eyes open to things that will prove to be deal breaker for us. Good thing I've communicated this to him at the beginning and he shares the same stand on this.
Yes and no I think these are always dependable because we can never know the future and how we get there.
@@Qvotes that’s a good idea
@@Qvotes what are your thoughts on open relationships?
Here you go:
00:29 You can't imagine spending your life with them.
01:16 You don't share the same values.
01:58 You are complete opposites.
02:40 You're often bored of each other.
03:24 You have different goals for the future.
Ah
So I probably like them still because of the chemistry
And my body doesn't understand that we're not compatible.
Thank you and thank the video I think I'll be able to properly get over them now :)
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It's weird that me and they have same values, we are totally similar! ,We are never bored with eachother, and we have similar goals for life
The thing is that we don't think we are meant for eachother 🙃
What’s real confusing is when you have compatibility, but you don’t know if you have chemistry. Like you two share the same beliefs, like all the same things, are never bored of each other, all that. Extremely compatible. But you can’t tell if you have chemistry. That’s what sucks
If you're asking you don't
For me I had a similar situation. But I weirdly started ti get that chemistry feeling after 2 months together. Everyone is different in how they feel and specially when your past experiences were negative that it may take time to love again something I needed time to so I could feel it again
@@damjay005 true it takes time
Getting bored with someone is natural. Life is mundane and it isn’t someone’s job to make it exciting for you.
I wouldn’t life is mundane I would say the work is because for me life is about achieving
Nah, there is a difference in the boredom mentioned and the one you’re talking about. I’ve met a girl who I was insanely compatible with and never got bored with the situation for the 8 months I was lucky to talk to her. I’m talking to someone new now and that excited feeling just isn’t there. Even tho I like her and we get along, I can tell that feeling of excitement just isn’t there after after a couple weeks of talking.
I agree, but is it natural to feel bored during the early stages of that relationship? say 2 to 3 months?
@@no-nameduser1117 it depends on what's going on. Typically the early stages are fun because everything feels new together. Life could take the wheel and the relationship even though just started can feel like an afterthought. That's when you express your feelings together. Don't blame yourself or them. Blame the problem and brainstorm a solution together
There's a difference between being bored with someone and being comfortable.
The reality is, this channel reminds me why I'm endlessly single:- the complexities of relationships has always been too complicated for me to navigate through. It's just an obstacle course of things to tiptoe over or around. When you choose to remain on your own, the issues just aren't there.
I feel the same... That's why I am single and not really looking for any relationship. I kinda want freedom bit more
@@It_is_Okay_to_be_Sad
Life is short. Just live it your way, and don't apologize for it.
@@noelgibson5956 yeah sure... We can be good friends if we ever meet lol 😂
Love is simple. These pseudo psychology channels have over complicated things for everyone. Best wishes for you.
@@CH-hh4mq not really
I think chemistry and compatibility are both necessary for a long lasting relationship, even when you are finding just compatibility with someone you'll notice that chemistry is very important in order for two to get along. If you base your engagement in the relationship on compatibility only you'll most likely find yourself in an unhappy relationship.
100%. My ex boyfriend and I were compatible in everyway but I did not feel the chemistry on my end. I thought it would develop more over time but it didn’t and it made me feel awful. Both are very important
Yes
@@chlobers I went through something similar, i thought i could build that chemistry with time but i was wrong !
@@chlobers i get you. Without chemistry, most of the time it feels like we're settling because it's convenient. We may care about the person deeply but it feels somewhat empty/lacking.
My friend and I are insanely compatible. We have the same values, outlook on life, ironic humor - we even have the same personality type. We're equals in every way, intellectually and otherwise. And, to be frank, he ticks all my boxes. It's very easy to be together: we don't get bored or confused talking to each other, nor do we feel uncomfortable at any point being in each other's presence. When we're together I also find us slipping into too-comfortable-with-each-other territory: leaning on each other, speaking with our faces too close, ignoring most other people etc. It would be very easy to be in a relationship with him. But the thing is we just don't have chemistry. I can't feel the butterflies in my stomach when I'm with him. I don't think about holding and hugging him all the time. And touching him doesn't make my heart go a million miles a minute. In fact, I like someone else: a guy just as smart as the both of us, but less sarcastic and chatty, more quiet and focused. Seeing him smile makes my heart jump. No matter how compatible my friend and I are, after all, I just can't see him in a romantic light.
Your whole comment is so much like mine too, and hes also my friend, except, but we were more than that we were literal besties since childhood, and now were in a relationship, im so glad we never get bored with each other.
I guess you’re confused.Sorry
@@eriko2350man I’m confused too
Signs that is chemistry and not compatibility:
1- There is a poster of the periodic table
2- You have a paper that usually have questions like "how many electrons and neutrons there are in Au?"
And last but not less important:
3- You are in class
Haha I love this! 👏
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HAHA lol
Thanks for lightening the mood! 😅
Ironically, the people I had the biggest chemistry with never worked out as a relationship. However the one who I developed feelings for slower and more careful, I have now feelings for like for no other. We were curious about each other but very careful and started out as friends but the more I got to know him, the more I was falling for him and it keeps me more curious about him every day, even after years of knowing him. So yeah, be careful, chemistry is all nice and good but for me it was never enough. Strong fast feelings like that can fade pretty fast. Take your time to get to know a person, you have time.
This is so true. Things that happen fast disappears quickly and thing that happen slowly lasts longer. Not only relationships but almost everything in the world. And I wish you a happy future ahead💕💕
Yes yes yes
I love this
😢😢❤ ahh yes
"Chemistry to get it started.
Compatibility to keep it going.
Shared values and vision to make
it last." - Super Mario
Not too long ago, I had to break up with my boyfriend because of reasons like this. Our lives were moving in completely different directions anyways, but #2 was one of the main things that first made me realise we might not be compatible. He told me he didn’t see why it mattered if we had different values (such as religion or politics) and didn’t like talking about them. At first, I kind of understood; I have a few friends with different values than me and, because they are reasonable and understanding people, it’s never gotten in the way of our friendship. But then I realised that the very reason these friendships work out is BECAUSE we’ve talk about such topics. I don’t mean my friends and I will regularly debate about controversial issues (although sometimes we like to listen to the other to hear where they’re coming from), but I mean we’ve talked about the fact that we have sometimes have different views politically, religiously, etc. My boyfriend knew mine because I was open about it with him but he refused to be open about it with me. I remember getting home from my date that evening with him and thinking to myself, “ok, so if stuff like that doesn’t matter to him at all, then he should have no problem sharing his values with me….” I decided to ignore it but things just started slipping through the cracks and-even though he tried to hide it-his true values, moral, and character started shining through. One thing led to another….and now I’m single again. Long story short: yes, sharing the same values does matter and it’s one of the reasons one of my previous ex-boyfriend and I broke up.
Yeah I completely understand
My story is different but basically I found out later that he had completely different views, even about relationships! But he kept them for himself, saying that “we just never talked about them” while in reality we talked about relationships and it seemed to me that we had the same opinion. But no, it was more convenient for him to hide his true opinion. He showed he didn’t care about me anymore lol but we kept arguing because he didn’t want to accept my point of view and didn’t even listen to me. You just can’t stay with someone who doesn’t care about your opinion and has such a strong opposite view on everything
Plzz no
It looks like your ex dodged a bullet.
Same, even tho he's quite open about it I'm still young and stupid and thought it wasn't a problem. 2 years after I realize how much it was affecting our relationship. Is hard, I really don't want to "lose" him, but I can't contuine it
So essentially open communication could have resolved the issue. The conversation could have been left at agreeing to disagree, with understanding each other.
yeah, I've recently finished the relationship in where we had quite different goals and views on life. The sad part is I really understand it was a right solution, but my heart still hurts...
you sound like as if women have feelings.
To be honest, a bit of compatibility might be of use, but there are not a lot of people who are fully compatible at first, especially at a younger age. If you are open, curious and truly interested in the other you might grow more compatible. What I'm trying to say is that compatibility isn't the key, it's the reward. Some fundamentals have to align yes, but love is much more than chemistry, compatibility, lust or romantics. You won't be the same 5 years from now as you weren't the same 5 years ago.
Consider yourself blessed to have found someone who you can fall in love with all over again because you both stayed interested and curious. You both grew closer, went through better and worse and became better people because of it.
Compatibility comes in many different subfactors, just because you aren't compatible religiously doesn't mean you aren't compatible by other factors. It just requires more effort. Loving is and always has been a verb. It's the personal development you have to go through as a human being that is the most valuable you can share with someone.
Love is a verb, it requires effort. It's only when it requires more than it gains you should ring the alarm bell.
Well said
Spot on!
when your heart is at peace, you've found the one
I think this is my current relationship. It's starting to become more and more apparent we only have chemistry...not really compatability tho
Marinette and Adrian at the beginning LOL 🐞🐱
Just broke up with GF. We're not planning on getting married anymore. I really needed to hear this, and now I feel more assured of my future. It sucks, but such is life. In the end, I'm thinking it was for the better.
My parents very clearly have chemistry and no compatability, and they've made it work for the last 22 years- but there's always talk of how they'll divorce once I finally move out :( I'll be very sad because there is clearly a lot of love between them but also just so much resentment at the same time
We are the same. My parents are married for 25 years they aren't compatible and have different wants in life. Now they want a divorce. Sometimes I wish they did it earlier because I feel like they wasted our time. They say they stayed together for us but through those 25 years there are more bad moments. I felt like we have been robbed.
Chemistry, when you're not used to having it with anyone before, can feel like you did find the one. Sometimes opposites can compromise and feel compatible over time. Regardless of how magnetic the feelings are our core values will leave us questioning things more often than not.
When they also say "you can do better" take it. I always gave benefit of the doubt and believed in the best of people, especially if they were sabotaging themselves. My feelings were crushed again because I didn't heed their warnings at face value. Just a rule of thumb if anyone needs it.
Never gonna give you up
>:|
Never gonna let u down
Never gonna run around or desert you :)
Never gonna run around
Never gonna turn around
Previous relatioship: a lot of compatibility, little chemistry. Current relationship: a lot of chemistry, small compatibility. Damn it
Sorry about that. Hope you get it figured out. Wishing you the best. ✌️
This definitely would have been helpful when i was still in school trying to figure out what love is. Im glad this is available now for those who are still wondering.
The miraculous and owl house references at the beginning
I was looking for this comment :)) the umbrella scene
This is how it was with my last ex. Her and I fell really hard fast. There was a ton of emotional love, basic appreciation, physical attraction, sex passion, etc..
But the sad thing is that we just were not compatible. When someone has deep internal beliefs, you can't change them into something they're not at their core. The more you try, the more it fails. 💯
Overall, she's a great woman with a lot of good qualities, and she was a very loving GF. But she's a hyper independent modern feminist and I'm traditional with a belief in gender roles. So we'd butt heads over the lead in the relationship.
Love all the references in these videos! I’ve spotted Solangelo from Percy Jackson at 1:59, Lumity from The Owl House at 0:17, and Hans and Anna from Frozen at 4:04
My gf broke up with me few months ago, we tried to get back but it just wasn’t it for me. For her I guess I was the one but for me, this video is exactly what is going on with me… I feel bad for her. She deserves better…
This really helps! Thanks!
Right video right time, thanks 🌼
these videos are so awesome. I'm currently relating with this state of relationship and thinking about it now, I can't no longer extend on this
Bruhhhh I needed this, you honestly don’t know how much you helped me. Thank you 🙏🏽
All my relationships are chemistry connection,thats why they never last. Thanks for the insight.
for me the most important thing is to understand each other no matter what
I don’t even need the advice on these videos, I just watch them for the information, and I find these videos relaxing!
I had this with my last relationship, I felt bad for just falling out of love for seemingly no reason but this explains alot 😚 thx
Love these new art styles! You are posting a lot though! Make sure you are taking care of your self please.
Edit: Love how you use so many references lol!
I love the will and Nico part!:)
You guys always make amazing videos, thank you endlessly
Everyone: hmm yes compatibility.
Me: Dang, these characters got chins.
Hi psych2go u guys are my comfort channel your voice and everything is calm ;) i love itt thank you for everyhing
I actually needed this video. Thank you so much
I love seeing you happy and my biggest reward is seeing you smile.
I think some people just get the two mixed up, great explanation. 👏
Most helpful video of yours so far!
You guys are Awesome ! 🙂
Make a video on why and how a person can love someone but yet still cheat on them.
Nice visual reference to the recent animated movie, "Turning Red" at 2:43. There is lots of psychology involved in its plot. I loved the characters, especially the hyper-intense Abby!
I just love the references you do!!
I'm a miraculous fan, and I'd like to know your opinion about Marinette's and Adrien relationship? Don't you actually think they are made for each other, as many times mentioned in the series?
Thank you for your videos! Your contents are great.
Now this one is really important, I wouldn't have been able to tell the difference... tnx Psy2Go! ♡
the adrienette and lumity references at the start……… 😭😭💖💖
another sign of chemistry is when you go through the door and see multiple images of the periodic table stuck onto the wall aswell as multiple conical flasks
what a good video to pop up when I am shipping two people with great chemistry
I was just thinking about interest today. Like how I like anime, but some people might not like it. Although I do have friends who don't like anime. I'm not sure if it would be too extreme to judge a possible significant other base on whether they like anime lol. Time tells all, I like that 🤣 It brought me a little peace of mind
This is a very helpful set of thoughts
I've experienced all these signs in my previous relationship. Hopefully I will find someone who is compatible for me. I love the Anna and Hans reference at 03:58 ❤️
I was looking for a comment to point that out lol
I hope you find the one! And no worries, there is such a person, it's just that you haven't met them, yet.
Well, this is quite eye-opening.
You can only get bored of each other if one person or both people stop putting in the effort toward one another and choose to only self-indulge. Taking an interest in your partners things and doing the things that they like with them, is part of actual love and being in a relationship. If someone doesn't do this, it's not because they got bored, its because they selfishly stopped putting in the effort. Relationships take effort toward one another on both people's parts to maintain in the long-term.
If they end up leaving for someone else just because they get that initial new attraction with them, then this is due to the fact that they are impulsive and don't value loyalty at all and don't know how to be in a lasting relationship.
Are you saying people should fake interest in things they really aren't into? Sometimes there are things that just dont appeal to you at all. And I dont really think one should have to pretend. Ideally partners should have some genuinely shared interests. And its only things both are actually into where both can have fun as well. But of course a good relationship takes effort. And I also think that effort could get too complex sometimes. I imagine another reason for boredom is running out of things to talk about, that are actual conversation topics and not small-talk (of course that depends on both people and compatibility, but it can actually be hard to find something at times). As well as relying too heavily on feelings that are only there when you are newly in love.
@@zakosist I don't think we should ever fake our interest. I'm just saying that if we care about our partner, you'll care about what their interests are. It might not be your thing, and you might not do it all the time, but you can just join them sometimes if they want to share it with you, because you care about them.
You're right that we ideally want to find someone that shares our interests, but people's interests tend to change over time, so if you never make an effort to take an interest in the things your partner cares about, you won't be able to maintain your bond as strongly over long periods of time. Remembering that we care about our partner makes this easier. I say "Remembering", because sometimes, we get complacent, and might take them for granted at times. Obviously, you don't have to force yourself in their interests, or act extra excited, but you showing you care about the things that they care about is doing a lot for them and the relationship. It's good to do that for one another.
I know a woman I think I have great chemistry with, but I realize a relationship with her could never work out because there are many areas where we aren't compatible. For instance, she likes country music, I don't. She's neat and tidy, but I'm not. She is more active and athletic than I am, while I'm more of a couch potato. Violent movies don't bother me, but she doesn't like them. We don't have similar hobbies or the same, or even similar outlook on life.
I think having just a couple of these issues could work out just fine if you otherwise like each other and are compatible. I know people who are together in healthy long term relationships, and still have different music and movie taste for example. And every relationship have some occasional minor disputes and elements of annoyance over your partner. Nothing is perfect in life, including relationships. But it should be mostly good. I still think one needs to have some shared interests, and values and life goals. And actually like each other as a person. But it doesn't need to be a perfect match and almost never if ever will be
OKAY BUT WHY IS NOBODY TALKING AB THE SIX REFERENCE AT 2:53 AHHH “cause I feel the chemistry, like I get you and you get me” such a good songggg 😩❤️
I WAS WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO POINT IT OUT!!!! I was so excited to catch it❤️
This is what has happened to me, since this person liked me for me it's quite sad we weren't made for each other
Miraculous tales of lady bug & chat noir reference in the beginning 🌚
Well this video was very interesting and learning about compatibility especially from here is very nice and informative,overall good video
Hope y'all can still have a great day
This video speaks my mind💭
This is really vital stuff, folks!
I love how this channel gets into it immediately rather than imposing seven minutes of endless waffle on us first. I hate having my time wasted with nonsense.
Hiiii!! I support your videos! Hope your ok!
I’m divorcing over a 20 year relationship that was based on chemistry/infatuation and has been a horrible ride
Well I can say I've learned something new today 🙌
Seeing this 2 days after meeting what I think is my platonic soulmate. She’s a girl and I am a boy but we do not see each other in a romantic or sexual way but we vibe so well together and so comfortable around each other as if we had been friends for years despite literally knowing her for a week.
1. Don't really know
2. Do share a lot of the same values
3. We are not opposites, we are pretty similar
4. And we are never bored of each other
5. We have some similar goals for the future
When I saw my partner again for the first time in a few years this year I wasn't that excited but I was stunned by how much she had grown and how beautiful she is now , and then at some point we talked to each other after she came to my house for dinner once on my birthday I think and I started the conversation in the most unusual way lol by saying your almost as tall as me and she said I will grow taller than this and maybe who knows even as tall as you, and then at school every time she sees me she would actually say hello or hi like if she sees me she wouldn't pass by without talking to me about something
I think those are good advice. But one should remember that no relationship or partner is perfect. Even people who stay together for many years and are generally happy, tend to have some different interests from each others, have occasional disputes and things that annoy them about their partner, and aren't having fun every moment they are together. But I still think you need to have some shared interest, mostly shared values and life goals, compatible plans for the future and at least sometimes enjoy the time spent together. Just that those things will never be an absolute. And if you dont keep that in mind too, you could also give up potential relationships that actually would be good.
To be honest my parents are complete opposites my mom is very outgoing type while my dad just likes to spend time working and being alone yet they're still together for 25 years by this point already
Can you also make videos about anxious attachment? Like how people deal with breakups
Beautifully explained 👌👌👌💐💐💐
I never really thought about those two being different. Interesting.
omg!!! the mlb and Toh references are up top!! Tysm psych2go for these videos
Ha!! Y’all basically described my last relationship!!
Indeed, conflicting values and future plans will very likely make a pair realize they were just having a fling.
We just met and there's this instant "click" in my heart like I have known this person for years. We end up talking for like one hour, it's just flowing so freely. There's even one time that I knew instinctively what this person was about to say and it exactly right word per word! Was that chemistry or compatibility? Or some say soulmate?
That's chemistry
🤔,
1- enjoy their company, serious enough for a long term relationship.
2- beliefs religion politics parenting style
3- opposite interest ideas and opinions
4- bored of each other do you still feel the same or are you bored. ( Could be blinded with chemistry but not compatible with each other ) future goals places to live
This channel feels like it's based on romance and love at this point.
Loved the Hamilton art poster
I actually have the opposite with someone. He shares my beliefs, lifestyle, kind calming nature and i feel like i could easily be next to him my whole life. We probably wouldn't fight, would be nice to eachother etc. but its like i just cant fall in love with him because of it being boring...Like yeah we could live as friends next to eachother but i dont feel chemistry or the need to kiss him.
the struggle is real. As far as I know, I heard you can actually build up chemistry with someone though but that depends on the situation. Is he physically attractive and/or fun to be with though?
Yes it's cool to have compatibility in all areas of the relationship but if you never feel some sort of physical, romantic, or affection towards that person, then you might as well be roommates
@@G33KN3rd Hmm, he's rather thinner and feels smaller overall. He is like 2cm taller than me but i like heels...And his shoulders and everything are rather slim. I dont really feel any physical attraction. When we hug it feels like he's lost in my arms because he's just so thin...He's very calm and colected and i never figure out his sarcasm because its in the same tone of voice all the time. He has a whispery voice. He's sort of comforting to be around and slightly fun but because we play games or watch anime.
@@vzaddy694 Honestly yes, if i think of living with him it feels like just being roommates...
@@SweetGir12 They say that over a period of time a person can grow on you, and you could end up falling in love. So you never know. I just wish you happiness whatever you're decision.
The miraculous ladybug reference was so cute loll
00:03 This is the scene of origin episode of miraculous ladybug
0:11 omg the owl house reference!!!
anyone else notice the broadway references? (hamilton and six)? also amazing video as always
Honestly this broke me. Now I'm not sure if any women I meet will be genuine attraction, let alone chemistry after the first date.
Lets goooooo! Lumity/Owl House reference!
0:12 AHHHHH I LOVE THE OWL HOUSE REFERENCE
Great animation
I have a crush on this girl at first it was just a small thing but the crushing grows as times went on and I also heard from her friends that she also has a crush on me for an entire year now but now she’s changing school and from past experience I don’t think it is gonna end well
What happens when one person feels that you're their soulmate, but the feeling isn't mutual? This has happened to me at least twice, so I'm extra concerned.
Chemistry & compatibility, but wrong timing😭😭
1:37 I think only Filipinos will understand
If someone truly wants you, they will show it through actions, how effective their communication is, their vibe, body language and how they treat you. If you have to constantly ask yourself if someone is into you or not, they act hot and cold towards you, then most likely, they're not!
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Exactly actions speak louder then words . When someone likes you they'll make it beyond easy for you . I legitimally hate mind games and people that are fickle
I think some people may be too shy/afraid to show those things even when they do really want someone. Or lack opportunities to actually spend quality time with someone/just dont know how. Or even be afraid of seeming intrusive/desperate. But of course you can decide that these are not things you want in a partner.
I love how their antennas move to the rhythm of the music.
Starting with a miraculous clip got my attention 😭😭
Chemistry ⚗️ or Compatible..
Whatever you say...
but
we had a great understanding 🧠
OMG it's the umbrella scene from "Miraculous" 😍
I thought that this is just the same, I get it now. 😊
Honestly me and my partner have only been dating for seven months and we already have the same goal/idea for the future we plan on spending together for eternity: get married and most likely adopt a kid