Signs You're More Attractive Than You Think

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  • Here are my top 5 signs to know you're more attractive than you think.
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  • @ShaunZachary
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    • @NefDakingdom4444
      @NefDakingdom4444 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah I like this girl that works at the pharmacy she told me I had pretty eyes she never gave me another compliment since that was like three months ago. I ain’t tooting my own horn but every time I go up there I’m fly well groomed and humble. I wish I knew how she really felt cause I’m really feeling her. What you think? Great video too by the way I just subscribed.

    • @onelife7247
      @onelife7247 ปีที่แล้ว

      I guess it’s useful to consider the points you’ve made - thank you. That said; people could be staring for any number of reasons. I went to the ladies room the other day, (I’m a woman BTW) and realised I had ketchup on my chin lol
      Men do not generally compliment women in England but they do make passive aggressive comments within earshot like:
      i) “ugh, she looks high maintenance”
      (haven’t been to a hair/nail salon in years, which is clear if you look closely enough lol)
      ii) “she looks stuck up”
      iii) “...ugh bet I can guess how she got that contract/promotion”
      Not nice at all... Conversely, when babies, dogs and children stare at me, which happens a lot; I find that hilarious and heartwarming. Also, went into a pub for sunday lunch and literally everybody was staring - probably because I was the only non-white woman / person in the entire place. Perhaps they thought I was a refugee- who knows 👀

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@NefDakingdom4444 Holler at her bro!

    • @ramonpuello2357
      @ramonpuello2357 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If they only knew that there were many times I turned down p$y is was because it was one of my hater's mother

    • @user-ki8mg5jh3n
      @user-ki8mg5jh3n 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This happens all the time.Man and instead of admitting that they like what they see, they look at the girls, because they're afraid.The girls who can't notice me and they jump in front of the girl to distract her from seeing me.They're so frigging pathetic

  • @carlosdanger8043
    @carlosdanger8043 ปีที่แล้ว +1071

    The number 1 sign is older women who don't play the game anymore and have nothing to hide complimenting you.

    • @rayzamarripajr.7571
      @rayzamarripajr.7571 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Facts

    • @VulgarRage
      @VulgarRage ปีที่แล้ว +144

      According to my grandma I’m the cutest guy on earth . Guess I’m a chad then

    • @carlosdanger8043
      @carlosdanger8043 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@VulgarRage well she's related to you.

    • @VulgarRage
      @VulgarRage ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@carlosdanger8043 it was a joke bro.

    • @elihyland4781
      @elihyland4781 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That is fucking true

  • @Kingwithoutathrone
    @Kingwithoutathrone ปีที่แล้ว +464

    Here's a couple more from the top of my head
    - dudes put their arm around their girl the minute they see you
    - women immediately put their head down in a nervous manner and pretend to be on their phone the second they see you (this could also be because she doesn't want you to approach her)
    - women, especially older women, always smile at you
    - people (men and women) will have a sarcastic, disappointing smile the minute they see you
    - people love approaching you and talking to you
    - people also act mean towards you

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  ปีที่แล้ว +36

      On point bro 💪🏼

    • @hyemuhyemu8221
      @hyemuhyemu8221 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Older women give that creepy Jack Nicholson smile, stare and eye brow flash. Its creepy asf lol

    • @christofrjinn
      @christofrjinn ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Bro all I get is older women

    • @brown4548
      @brown4548 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      dudes act funny around their girls once they see you lol

    • @targetegrat
      @targetegrat ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hyemuhyemu8221 ahahahahaha. You just made think of his character in the Departed when he was getting high

  • @jerryesque3747
    @jerryesque3747 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    If you are an attractive guy when you are young, you're gonna feel it even more when youre older.

    • @shmoofgang
      @shmoofgang ปีที่แล้ว +13

      🔥🔥

    • @foreverseethe
      @foreverseethe ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Has not been my experience. But kudos to you. But then again maybe I was never really attractive.

    • @thetoughgroup
      @thetoughgroup 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Facts! I'm experiencing this now in my 40s. The only caveat is you must maintain your physique. Gym 5-6 days a week, plant based diet with fish and shellfish, drink lots of water, get healthy sun exposure but protect your skin from sun damage (particularly the face), avoid stress and toxic people, and nurture your relationship with The Most High. All this has worked wonders for me 👏🏾

    • @infjmale91
      @infjmale91 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I LOVE most people on here, me included (using a face filter) hide behind an avatar NOT because they are too hideous but because they don't want the unwanted attention. Best of luck dude. I'm with you too.

  • @blacksky755
    @blacksky755 ปีที่แล้ว +689

    I agree with almost everything you said completely specifically the part about not reciving compliments because people don't want to boost your ego.

    • @abra.hui.
      @abra.hui. ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I don't get compliment from boys that for sure, but my girl workmate that I'm really close with compliments me and telling me "that's why a lot of girls like you". I think they won't compliment you if you're not close with them, they gide their feelings on you, or also thet feel thar they don't need to compliment you because it is pretty obvious or others already complimenting you so they won't add to them on boosting your ego. But if you made genuine connections with girls, they'll genuinely compliment you

    • @seanknight9808
      @seanknight9808 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yep, I see that, too. Some women would even tease me to try to test me. Everyone things I'm great looking, but I'm not that tall, just under 5 9. And some women will give me shit about my height, such as saying I'm not really 5 9 (I look shorter because I'm stocky built, being a bodybuilder), and try to shame me for not being tall. They are testing me to see how I act and react. Just a s**t test, which women always do!

    • @seanknight9808
      @seanknight9808 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@hatbpto5180 oh man, that's not good what she did. You're right-she doesn't want to inflate your ego. Looks are a plus but they are not as important as you think when it comes to attracting women. I'm also told I'm very great looking, plus I'm a competitive bodybuilder. Yet, I'm still single. Everyone thinks I get any woman to fall to my feet. Not so! Sometimes I feel women don't like me and that I may be one of the loneliest men in the world! :(

    • @hatbpto5180
      @hatbpto5180 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@seanknight9808 Hang in there. I never thought it would happen to me. You are doing the right things. The right woman will come along. She is out there. Think about this: she exists and is doing something at this very moment. One day your paths will cross. For now enjoy your alone time and freedom.

    • @seanknight9808
      @seanknight9808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hatbpto5180 Thanks bud. As far as finding the right woman, I think there is NO right one! They are out there, but already married (or about to be).

  • @keifer7813
    @keifer7813 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Its better to not care whether you're attractive or not. Ironically that makes you way more attractive, but you gotta genuinely stop caring and not act like you dont care

  • @boeingfan2479
    @boeingfan2479 ปีที่แล้ว +487

    I feel like being attractive can make you more intimidating. People treat me very well but I notice I oftentimes have to initiate conversations. I’ve also really noticed women get nervous around me if I talk to them they are super nice and respond well but I’ve seen some get visibility jittery and shaky around me and some even struggle to speak. Being chill and easy going helps the interaction go smoother.

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Facts all around

    • @skeletorlikespotatoes7846
      @skeletorlikespotatoes7846 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@ShaunZachary could I ask you some questions about this?

    • @seanknight9808
      @seanknight9808 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yep, goes for me too. I'm 51, but never been married. I'm not even in a relationship now. Women, esp in the country I live (Turkey), don't trust attractive men.

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@seanknight9808 Yeah...... many people think it's a blessing, but as time passes it seems more a curse.

    • @spreadinglove849
      @spreadinglove849 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@seanknight9808 you too :) in turkey hard life bro:)

  • @battlevain
    @battlevain 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    At the gym, you often find that girls who have boyfriends will interact with you differently when they are alone and then change when they are with their boyfriends. They are much more friendly, but when their boyfriends are around, they keep their distance and often dont really want to encourage your friendship with their boyfriends either.😂🎓

    • @EWWWYOURFAC3
      @EWWWYOURFAC3 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This girl when she is alone always stares at me and tries too come close ! When she with her bf he always mugs and looks at me 🤣🤣🤣

  • @hectorortiz4766
    @hectorortiz4766 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    This is high level intellectual being information, definitely credible and authentic. This is everyday battles.

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤜🏼🤛🏼

    • @AlexanderPews
      @AlexanderPews ปีที่แล้ว +2

      100% agree, this was informative on another level

    • @tujmedia5403
      @tujmedia5403 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it’s tough being a good looking man ! i’m not too pressed tho it has its pros

    • @DB-sd3cw
      @DB-sd3cw ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why are you typing like that? 😂

  • @jamesdudley8696
    @jamesdudley8696 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I REALLY needed to hear this brother. You (and a few of the comments) have described the last 35 years of my life.
    I've always thought i was about average, but most of my dating life is full of women accusing me of being a ladies man. Now i understand why. Thanks.

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      🤜🏼🤛🏼

    • @UnknownSource08
      @UnknownSource08 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m 32 and finally realizing the same. See I didn’t have a strong male figure in my life so it’s been a slow learning process. But I can proudly say I’m a attractive alpha. Keep growing kings!!

    • @vuyissecretgarden
      @vuyissecretgarden ปีที่แล้ว

    • @emre7677
      @emre7677 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vuyissecretgarden you are so pretty

    • @vuyissecretgarden
      @vuyissecretgarden 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙃 aww, thank you @@emre7677

  • @trillykolla8347
    @trillykolla8347 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i hate that shit . people are always starting lol i be feeling like something wrong with me lol. i mean mug alll the time lmaoo

    • @hyemuhyemu8221
      @hyemuhyemu8221 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Staring is one thing. I've had girls, go quiet, break their neck and follow me with their head as i walk by. It feels like being a damn celebrity lol. I used to feel insecure. Now it makes me walk into places with confidence like i own the place! With confidence, its fake it till you make it

  • @seanknight9808
    @seanknight9808 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Jealously and envy from other men is a big issue for me. I've even been let go from my job a few times because of that, besides the fact I'm also intelligent and have a degree.

    • @hobosapien7735
      @hobosapien7735 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Have you also got mean stares, as if other men are trying to intimidate you, for no explainable reason?

    • @TheRelaxingWind
      @TheRelaxingWind ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@hobosapien7735 nah but i get random men testing me or if they are near there girl they will start being insecure

    • @Jedilord882
      @Jedilord882 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hobosapien7735i get that. Especially from other black dudes (for reference, I’m a 6’1 lightskin with a beard and long hair)

    • @kagoatleonard4019
      @kagoatleonard4019 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TheRelaxingWindWhat is it with men showing insecurity in front of their girls I’ve never gotten it. Like do they think their girl will appreciate it or think “it’s cute”??? Or somehow convince your girl to not talk to him like she don’t got a mind of her own. If anything its gonna convince her u see something better in him so its best to hide it and remain humble. Many guys miss that

    • @timthechampmanimtellingu5373
      @timthechampmanimtellingu5373 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kagoatleonard4019they prolly think u gon take they girl 😂

  • @cipherP9
    @cipherP9 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I almost got into a fight at work because a guy who I worked with was trying to get with 1 of these 2 new girls who started working at our job. One of the girls completely ignored him and the other actually worked close with him until she randomly started working with me. Then he saw the other girl who ignored him, give me a long stare until she got back to her station. Since then he would randomly have issues with me for no reason. Good thing he was a shitty worker, so they eventually fired him.

    • @d.d.c.p
      @d.d.c.p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      HAAAAA 😂 @ his lack of work ethic- He was too busy worried about u King!

  • @tyreecestewart4997
    @tyreecestewart4997 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Dont get me wrong, im overweight, short, dark skinned with a bald head and a beard, but im not letting that get in the way of me and my charisma, style, confidence, and humility. A humble warrior with the rep to prove it but with nothing to prove to anyone, my energy is felt wherever i go. And i see it in ppl with their actions (or inaction in some cases) which means my sigma/alpha energy speaks for itself. And i LOVE IT!!!

    • @TheNextProtoman200
      @TheNextProtoman200 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Real shit comin from a tall brownskin I been 6 foot+ since I was 14 didn’t start attracting women till I was 21 cause that’s when I gained confidence and stopped being nervous ab shit. Always tell dudes height ain’t as big as a deal if u a real one to the core!

    • @imjudeau2156
      @imjudeau2156 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Grown ass man calling himself an alpha and being overweight makes no sense if you claim to be “alpha” which is all bs it should mean you’re on top of your shit fitness health etc 😂

    • @roylle6346
      @roylle6346 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's just you romanticizing how short guys are extra 🙄

    • @tyreecestewart4997
      @tyreecestewart4997 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @roylle6346 no need in being extra when im.being myself. I'm usually the quietest guy in the room, but my energy is the loudest or one of.

    • @roylle6346
      @roylle6346 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tyreecestewart4997 hmm. Interesting... you're actually humble. Maybe you're right. Peace

  • @borisstojanovic6633
    @borisstojanovic6633 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    All 5 happened to me exactly like you explained here.Thanx man, much respect and love for great effort ❤
    I will add on top of this my observations:
    6.Girls love confident man, who walks masculine and look straight in their eyes when passing by...some smile helps also
    7.Learn how to develop positive attitude at all cost, repeat it so many times that it become your habit.When it become so natural to you, you are winner my man
    8.Woman are so sensitive and her intuition are so powerful that your vibes she feels miles away.Nobody will say that but I learned that recently myself.If you are desperate and needy, there is great chance she will sense that and ran away.
    9.She laughs at all of your jokes, bad ones also.This sign is so obvious because she want's you to pick it up
    10.Girls love to touch you sometimes, take a seat next to you even there is plenty seats left, rub her body etc.
    I hope this can also help and be valuable to someone.Remember this, winner never quits guys 😎😎😎

    • @hxxdiec428
      @hxxdiec428 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i dont co-sign to vibes but if your desperate and needy it will show in the way you present and converse anyway.

  • @thursdaygrape
    @thursdaygrape ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As a lightskin black man I've dealt with this crazy ish for a lifetime. BIG Kudos for your channel family. We are brothas 4life King. You a 4 real one= straight OFFICIAL

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Appreciate you bro 🤜🏼🤛🏼

    • @Jedilord882
      @Jedilord882 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same shit (6’1 lightskin with a beard). I’ve only recently started to understand why dudes always seemed to hate on me, and still do 😂

    • @STELLARMIGHTY
      @STELLARMIGHTY 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂 light skinned is funny

  • @Re_zoro
    @Re_zoro ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Time Stamps -
    1. People stare at you - 0:46
    2. People will act differently around you - 3:36
    3. People will rarely give you compliments - 6:01
    4. You are going to have haters - 7:17
    5. Women will choose you first - 10:23

    • @TurnOntheBrightLights.
      @TurnOntheBrightLights. ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks boss 👍👍

    • @davidhamm4845
      @davidhamm4845 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruh I've been experiencing this lately

    • @erwaldox
      @erwaldox ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't get a lot of people staring at me but i never get compliments and I got ton of haters for no reason .p

    • @ezecskornfan
      @ezecskornfan ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you comment shoul be monetized.

    • @dogeatsthesun908
      @dogeatsthesun908 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Was looking for comment like this. Thanks man.

  • @josephvincent7912
    @josephvincent7912 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Bro, I needed to hear this. I don’t see myself that way, but friends and acquaintances will tell me I’m very attractive. It becomes so awkward at times walking into a restaurant or a bar. I’ve learned to stay out of my head and realize that ugly people don’t get stared at.😂

    • @jodo7814
      @jodo7814 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well it’s like staring at a painting. Do you wanna keep looking at Mona Lisa, or a kindergartner’s stick figure block head abomination? Lol

    • @Blinkers2007GameDev
      @Blinkers2007GameDev 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yeah people think they stare at you because your ugly but nobody stares at someone who’s ugly or average(unless their super ugly) because they simply disregard them. I used to be ugly and have a lot of face fat and didn’t get stared at. But when I started losing weight and then lost over 8 Kg of fat, I noticed I got a killer jawline. People(and girls) started treating me better but they also started staring at me a lot more. Now I know why, I became attractive

  • @alexdevries8761
    @alexdevries8761 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    thanks this is quite validating. Its hard to talk about with people as noone understands and interpret it as me showing off. So some recognition of this is great.

  • @dominikkkkkkkkkkkkk
    @dominikkkkkkkkkkkkk ปีที่แล้ว +46

    the most important thing is to not judge so quick, if somebody is looking at you you don't know why and shouldn't be offended, just be chill be glad people notice you

    • @onelife7247
      @onelife7247 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True. They could be staring for any number of reasons. I went to the ladies room the other day, (I’m a woman BTW) and realised I had ketchup on my chin lol
      Men do not generally compliment women in England but they do say passive aggressive comments within earshot like:
      “ugh,a she looks high maintenance”
      (haven’t been to a hair/nail salon in years)
      “she looks stuck up”
      “...ugh bet I can guess how she got that contract/promotion”
      Not nice at all...
      Conversely, when babies dogs and children stare at me, which happens a lot I find that hilarious and heartwarming.

    • @dominikkkkkkkkkkkkk
      @dominikkkkkkkkkkkkk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @unknownT-wd2mf yes some are like that I try to not take them so seriously and still do what I think is right, what I'm enjoying

  • @alexanderduff6018
    @alexanderduff6018 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes sir. Finally someone that speaks about this!

  • @concretephysique1564
    @concretephysique1564 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this!! True confidence boost! Thanks bro!!

  • @bernardbrooks3935
    @bernardbrooks3935 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    People can feel our energy. People find us very attractive.

  • @munchmybullets4017
    @munchmybullets4017 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bro I’m going thru exactly what you said man. This videos helps big time thank u

  • @diz0973ify
    @diz0973ify ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Right On Bruh! I feel you. Great Video; Keep dropping that knowledge

  • @bryonwinfrey1923
    @bryonwinfrey1923 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Human behavior is funny. I've been through all of them situation

  • @superjbird2710
    @superjbird2710 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    It does make you somewhat insecure, people just assume that if your that good looking you must have everything or everything figured out. Sometimes I just want to fly under the radar and instead all eyes are on me .

    • @muzixinsider
      @muzixinsider ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes.. attractive women are lonely cause men think they get any man they want. Attractive men are depressed for the same reason but worse cause we 9 times outta ten initiate the convo

    • @will3634
      @will3634 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@muzixinsiderAttractive women are lonely because their hypergamy breaks the scale.

    • @kagoatleonard4019
      @kagoatleonard4019 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@will3634I think theyre lonely because most guys just get nervous around them and they realize that. So they throw themselves onto the guys who dont because they know they got it and they dont wanna deal with that. Its rare for them. But usually these guys are very high value making them come across as hypergamous. Anyways, thats just what i think

  • @cloudattack3279
    @cloudattack3279 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Modesty aside, this does happen to me quite a lot. Particularly when im talking in groups and my wisdom is shared. Some people just farken hate me for no reason. I never reciprocate any negative emotion back their way, the power of positivity is hard wired in me. You have to believe in yourself, no 1. Always dispense a common courtesy, the true people will always appreciate you, and this is infectious. Great vid once again, brother 👍

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏 🙏

    • @TyrianHaze
      @TyrianHaze ปีที่แล้ว

      I know this feeling very well. I am pretty well educated(computer engineer), and engineers are literally there to solve people's problems or make their lives better. But apparently ignorant individuals get offended whenever I speak basic logic based on years of experience solving problems. It's usually the narcissists that have a cow about it though.

  • @PhysicalEntity
    @PhysicalEntity ปีที่แล้ว +18

    All of this is extremely relatable so thanks for making this vid, not exactly a comfortable topic to explore with other real live people

    • @mincarve7697
      @mincarve7697 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      u right, i have no one i can talk to about this :(

  • @tonyglobal1537
    @tonyglobal1537 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    so true , another real video

  • @Quincy82AAC
    @Quincy82AAC ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Excellent video Shaun and I fully agree with you bro. I have been through this experience my whole life as a good looking man. 😎😎

  • @GQguy24
    @GQguy24 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    6:01 this is HUGE for me. I need those compliments and validation. And when I don’t hear them I get very insecure and feel like I’m not attractive at all.

    • @sookiezboly4502
      @sookiezboly4502 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      everyone need that. People saying otherwise are liar because compliment is what build confidence.
      Most men are compliment starved.. A shit ton of men can go through weeks without getting a single compliment.

    • @cipherP9
      @cipherP9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I would say change that mindset, don’t look for anyone’s validation about yourself except your own. If you get a compliment, good but if it doesn’t happen, keep pushing forward. Remember, you are a man and confidence in any situation is key.

    • @sookiezboly4502
      @sookiezboly4502 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cipherP9
      Sorry but that's bs. In a society it's other that build your confidence or your lack of it then the whole thing just snowball in your behavior.
      That's why we always tell parents to not hinder, ronce their children for example whether it's for creativity, imagination, testing limit etc...
      You dont and never build confidance ex-nihilo.
      If everyone call you ungly since you're child you definitely wont have confidence on your looks for a very very very long period of your life.
      If your boss only shit on you you'll lose confidence on your hability to do the job.
      it's been documented over and over.

    • @fiat_ow7876
      @fiat_ow7876 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sookiezboly4502weeks? Try years

  • @RaysGreatAwakening
    @RaysGreatAwakening ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yoo I’m glad I’m not alone I resonated with everything you said the stares the change of energy when I come around the hating 😂 I feel like eyes are always on me whenever I’m out

  • @xander70
    @xander70 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    14:43 minutes of truth. Your observations are perceptive, positive, and uplifting. Well done.

  • @thechucksmitty
    @thechucksmitty ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Straight facts Bro! 💯💯💯

  • @kandikane1588
    @kandikane1588 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Im a woman but I notice at work that when some people have to work with me, they act really awkward or aggressive. This one guy looked like he was gonna nearly pass out the other night and he kept walking away…like he couldn’t even work in my presence. It came off as really weird to me

  • @nomorepartiezz
    @nomorepartiezz ปีที่แล้ว +21

    the struggles of being an attractive guy who’s quiet and has RBF. people think you’re an asshole or are intimidating. people will stare at me and i just give an emotionless look back (because that’s genuinely my natural state of being) and i feel like it doesnt go over the way i was intending it to

    • @Squash45
      @Squash45 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      RBF?

    • @PS-lv1mr
      @PS-lv1mr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      what is RBF?

    • @kingonyx472
      @kingonyx472 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PS-lv1mrlike a permanent mean mug basically, you always have an angry or irritated look on your face .

  • @indiamoreno4859
    @indiamoreno4859 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice advice brother 😊 I found benefit because I know my value

  • @dontex7
    @dontex7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bruh everything you said was all facts no cap 🧢 #salute 🫡 💯

  • @jsabra89
    @jsabra89 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, so many new perspectives man! Never looked at these points this way. Awesome video

  • @BlazeUpMaryJane
    @BlazeUpMaryJane ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks bro I really appreciate this video right now ! Never seen it from your perspective. I always hated being stared at especially when I would go out to eat like other people at the restaurant would just turn and look @ me eat , it made me so uncomfortable or when I was standing at that train station or bus stop everyone stares but I guess I’ll just accept it now 🤩😎

  • @acrididi
    @acrididi ปีที่แล้ว +26

    It's strange, I almost immediately understood it was a good thing when people stared at me, always gave me an ego boost

    • @deeebojangles5588
      @deeebojangles5588 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Not only that bro, it's a true compliment to get stared at blankly by the haters, sometimes we forget we are fly as fuck brah ✅✅✅👌🏻

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯 💯 💯

  • @handsomeX
    @handsomeX ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can totally relate to everything said here 💯🔥💥

  • @kevincoon8573
    @kevincoon8573 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Class in session!

  • @unappealingundesirable2826
    @unappealingundesirable2826 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Shaun, I was born in Seattle in 1973, where I grew up. Japanese-American. Male. I'm 5'10", 152 in high school, 200-220 in my 40s, and down to 195 or so in 2022 (I had to cut down my blood sugar). I've always thought, (except for when I was 20-27, my "handsome" days) "what the heck are people looking at ME for? I'm a TOTAL nobody, a 'blends in with the crowd,' and frankly, a typical Asian male nerd." I'm thinking, no WAY are any desirable women looking at me for GOOD reasons.

  • @emkast8257
    @emkast8257 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i been known but u know its better when u hear it from someone other than yourself. thanks king!

  • @charlesjung2790
    @charlesjung2790 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Totally relatable, I'm not bragging, but I do get a lot of attention from women. Going into restaurants when its full of women gets me so uncomfortable. Eyes on you makes you feel extremely self-conscious. Much easier to walk around unkempt and be unnoticed.

    • @wadimjan7002
      @wadimjan7002 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How old are you?

    • @kamartaj3010
      @kamartaj3010 ปีที่แล้ว

      I too noticed that when i visited pub one time. Girls were checking out too much and i felt uncomfortable

  • @emanuelameh5722
    @emanuelameh5722 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The most inspiring part of this: "Remember fella, you're the prize. Continue to work on yourself day in day out ". Thanks.

  • @11myguardianangel94
    @11myguardianangel94 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome vid …all so true . I love your presentation style too 🎉!

  • @landrytelfair445
    @landrytelfair445 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ppl staring at me gave me anxiety. Legit anxiety to the point where I was on meds before going to bars. I watched this video and realized why they might be staring. I am top 1% shredded, 6'2 200lbs and I always would think my outfit or look was off. But it makes sense. All of these points together gave me closure. Thanks fam.

  • @djtrakakadrunkpoet8598
    @djtrakakadrunkpoet8598 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yo that first part resonates so well . I feel that shit like a sensor on my body . I feel mad eyes on me and it can feel weird as hell. Like a object.

  • @liamcrowwardartist4745
    @liamcrowwardartist4745 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can't believe I didn't recognize that shit about myself when I was in middle school and high school??!!!

  • @steveroman3397
    @steveroman3397 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shaun keeps spreading the ISMs 💯

  • @3mindgame
    @3mindgame 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Number three is on point bro!! Lol

  • @igzotiktv3600
    @igzotiktv3600 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good content
    I love your energy and calm, assertive presence man.

  • @thelearner9984
    @thelearner9984 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, I needed to hear this.

  • @Jakco808
    @Jakco808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not sure why this was recommended to me, but this was some good advice i will admit. Thank you

  • @battlevain
    @battlevain 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very insightful. I would also add that some people just have great magnetic energy and light up a room with their presence alone. It's more than just confidence too, as such people seem to be able to uplift others and create a very friendly and warm atmosphere that others are drawn towards. Attractions happens on many levels and in many different ways.

  • @johnlabroi5550
    @johnlabroi5550 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video hit home. Especially, the first 3 minutes. God bless. Good vid!

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for watching 🙏🏼

  • @MrFennmeista
    @MrFennmeista ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Blessings. Keepin' it real

  • @nightrider2k6
    @nightrider2k6 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video, everything you said was on point

  • @LuisKnight
    @LuisKnight ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So I get the first one and recently at the gym it has been happening that a lot of women workout around me and I usually go to the corner to be alone while I workout. In my head I was like damn I need space. I didn't think that attraction could be the reason. I've been working on getting healthier losing weight building muscle so I'm fairly new to getting attention. Most of the time I'm thinking what do you want from me instead of hey she may be interested. Cool vid man.

  • @franklumanog3043
    @franklumanog3043 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very insightful thank you 👍

  • @boywonder8114
    @boywonder8114 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another thing you just put me up on is I thought if only one girl looked at me from a crowd of 2 to 4 that was bad
    LOL…… you to gotta to develop confidence
    And I DO NEED TO GET OUT THE HOUSE
    And be ready to be social 👍🏾✊🏾💯

  • @OnlyOneCarter
    @OnlyOneCarter ปีที่แล้ว +7

    No 🧢 cap.. good video.. I have that problem, sometimes at the gym I want to stare back, but now I just approach the dude say what’s good man, half the time the hater just wants to be your friend…

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts bro. I realized that I needed to be more friendly at the gym after not speaking to anyone for years. When you see the same MF’s every single day, may as well say hello and be cool.

  • @ragayclark
    @ragayclark ปีที่แล้ว +2

    great video bro, thank you!!

  • @AndI0td763
    @AndI0td763 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You’re a good looking dude yourself Shaun so I know you get it. Sometimes when you see these things from other people you think there’s something off about yourself but then you recognize the signs, so there can be no doubt that what you say is true.

  • @yves-thomasriant5833
    @yves-thomasriant5833 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm in a couple and had opportunities with woman quite normally. Those many awkward moments always questionned me and looking back it might had been because of these reasons. It acted on my, my self esteem and still follows me today to how I define myself. Nice straight to the point video man. Thx

  • @cedricraphiel3339
    @cedricraphiel3339 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just want to say man u inspire me u bring it time after time salute brother

  • @abrahammorales3266
    @abrahammorales3266 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is good to know!

  • @misterpepesalsa
    @misterpepesalsa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would give a thousand likes to this video. Tyvm brother!

  • @ejakaegypt
    @ejakaegypt ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this, as someone who was once ugly, it’s kinda reassuring

  • @crumpetsNskin
    @crumpetsNskin ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciate the first point because I experience it, and no it’s not always bad. Sometimes you might be having the best day and the attention feels warranted, but everyone has bad days.

  • @TheOneWhoBecameStrong
    @TheOneWhoBecameStrong ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I like you man. I can relate to everything you said is true and you're funny 😂

  • @TLW369
    @TLW369 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    On point (all of it). ❤️👏

  • @Ash_Hudson
    @Ash_Hudson ปีที่แล้ว +93

    The first point you made I've experienced for years and years. I always took it as something was wrong with me in some way, maybe I was ugly, or dressed weird or maybe I looked tired. No idea, but it used to make me self-conscious and defensive as well. Not always, but most of the time. Really depended on how I was feeling inside before I stepped out of the door that day.
    I don't feel attractive lately though. Haven't for months since my last break up. Even have girls telling me they think I am, some girls hitting me up first etc. But I just don't believe it or see it, and I think it's showing in my demeanor because now when I go out, no motherfucker is looking at me.

    • @Earthtime3978
      @Earthtime3978 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you bro. In the same boat.

    • @aus_huayra500_3
      @aus_huayra500_3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I still and always have had everyone look and stare at me but im 6"4 so I cant determine if theyre shocked by the height or think I'm attractive.. I hope its the second one

    • @Ash_Hudson
      @Ash_Hudson ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aus_huayra500_3 Height is attractive these days

    • @aus_huayra500_3
      @aus_huayra500_3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ash_Hudson That is true however I havent had a girlfriend for an embarrasing amount of time so idk man I feel like I only got height not looks

    • @TyrianHaze
      @TyrianHaze ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aus_huayra500_3 Early bird gets the worm. If your height gets people staring, then make the first move. There's only two possible outcomes if you try. There's only one outcome if you don't.

  • @pavelonline3913
    @pavelonline3913 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i DEMAND SECOND AND THIRD and etc etc part! The man looks and speaks like a modern prophet! Thank you Mr Zachary!

  • @CiluhStyle1
    @CiluhStyle1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Appreciate the vide my good brother this says alot about my childhood experience into adulthood

  • @renaldsunset
    @renaldsunset ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Weirdly enough I have only one female friend who compliments me and we talked about this. I know I’m attractive and been told often plus my dating life tells all, but she was shocked to learn that I didn’t get plenty of compliments and approached daily by women.

    • @keysoteriq2590
      @keysoteriq2590 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be careful because she may like you too. I had a female friend in high school that I never knew liked me until her friend told me my senior year.

    • @renaldsunset
      @renaldsunset ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@keysoteriq2590 That’s probably true but she’s an ex of my brother. Also I know another guy who she slept with. So it’s never happening 😅

    • @keysoteriq2590
      @keysoteriq2590 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@renaldsunset lol

    • @amandanxala2580
      @amandanxala2580 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol what about the fact that your own friends won't want to take pictures with you but they take pics with eachother.

    • @53strat55
      @53strat55 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@renaldsunset LoL, would be the same reason for me not to go serious with a girl. If you have the choice why settle for a girl who has been fucked by guys you know or has a high body count.

  • @francoismarc3
    @francoismarc3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Anther banger! Keep bringing it out!

  • @marikabastien
    @marikabastien ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The "no compliments" thing! Spot on!

  • @cyantadeo975
    @cyantadeo975 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Now a lot of my interactions with other people back in school make a lot more sense

  • @Mr-qt4xr
    @Mr-qt4xr ปีที่แล้ว +53

    #4 (haters) I lost friends over this. I get approached and initiated by women all the time. All my ex gfs have initiated not me because I am actually pretty shy despite my looks..When other men see you get women this way it makes them really insecure. What makes me uncomfortable: when I'm walking down the street and teenage girls are staring at me, sometimes from quite far away. Or worse they talk about me like I can't hear them as they walk behind me or something. Plus, I can never tell anyone about it or it just sounds like I'm bragging/a creep haha. You can only laugh about how people react I guess.

    • @TonyDracon
      @TonyDracon ปีที่แล้ว +3

      stop the cap

    • @timmymannies6888
      @timmymannies6888 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Honestly, many girls used to stare at me too and can relate to what you're saying but no hate, but I genuinely find it hard to believe that women approach you because it's very rare that happens. If what you said is true then good on you 👍

    • @yaboi608
      @yaboi608 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@timmymannies6888 Women do approach very attractive men. It’s just this guy is probably an 8.5-9/10 while a somewhat handsome 7-8/10 won’t really receive the same reactions. Other men who have never seen this often don’t even believe this happens but it’s not very uncommon for top top tier men.

    • @meechie9z
      @meechie9z ปีที่แล้ว

      I just got out of high school last year and having that happen is really weird to me lmfaoo

    • @cipherP9
      @cipherP9 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think it can be different reactions based on attractiveness of a race of men. Because I almost never get approached by women as a attractive black man, I always got to do the introducing. For instance, there is a Spanish woman at my job who talks about doing a lot a freaky stuff to me when she talks with her Spanish friends. They talk in Spanish so i don’t know what they are saying but then some of the Mexican guys around tells me exactly what she said. But when I actually talk to her the conversation are very normal, I wouldn’t figure she had a thing for me.

  • @ÑEZ0688
    @ÑEZ0688 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The "second look" is another. It occurs in a millisecond, so you gotta be very observant to catch it.

  • @TheRogueJedii
    @TheRogueJedii ปีที่แล้ว

    This is all true. I've had the crazy stalker chicks and everything, haha. Older women also seem to go crazy. Funny. Good vid brutha

  • @garec7849
    @garec7849 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good stuff homie

  • @quan243
    @quan243 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks man

  • @CartelFund
    @CartelFund ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was paranoid for the longest of people staring but I realized why haha

  • @SirPaxson
    @SirPaxson ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That beard is on point

  • @Jervdbur
    @Jervdbur ปีที่แล้ว +19

    some 'friends' act different around me when there gf is alround. Trying to prove there alpha but there showing the opposite.

  • @goldmindmusic365
    @goldmindmusic365 ปีที่แล้ว

    RIGHT ON BROTHER

  • @rosscardenas6636
    @rosscardenas6636 ปีที่แล้ว

    thats true, ive overcome hate and jealousy so much that i cant even comprehend that mindset anymore

  • @zacharyperdew4007
    @zacharyperdew4007 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Bro I got a compliment from a lady today. For the first time in I don’t know when. She said that I was losing weight and to keep up what I was doing.

  • @Live_for_God123
    @Live_for_God123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    best motivation 😮

  • @blixx87
    @blixx87 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’ve been to the gym high as fuck and see people staring at me, guess I know why now, maybe they all didint know I was high after all 😂

  • @jackmenace9579
    @jackmenace9579 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice video. thanks !

  • @jsabra89
    @jsabra89 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just wonder how much potential i have missed out on because i let some of these scenarios get in my head and make me things negatively about myself. I owe it to myself to get myself out there and show up like the attractive man I am.

    • @222333aaaaaa
      @222333aaaaaa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There ya go.. hope you been doing it

  • @chrislife1101
    @chrislife1101 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Walking to the bus stop and people break their necks to look at me, got me feeling all self conscious and awkward....its crazy. Happens so often.

  • @t28mcd
    @t28mcd ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn, a lot of these resonated with me. 😎

  • @BethlehemBoss
    @BethlehemBoss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything spot on big bro💪🏾