17 SIGNS YOU’RE MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN YOU THINK 😏

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  • 17 SIGNS YOU’RE MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN YOU THINK // Want to know how to know if you’re attractive? These signs you’re attractive are the key. Knowing how to be attractive can feel intimidating but once you know the right skills it’s actually pretty simple. After these signs, you’ll be able to understand how to know if you’re attractive, how to be attractive to girls, and ultimately how to get a girl to like you. You’ll learn some body language, some psychology, and a bit about self-confidence. Ready to dive in? Let’s get started with 17 Signs You’re More Attractive Than You Think!
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  • @CoachMelannie
    @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    ARE YOU THE ATTRACTIVE GUY WHO STILL DOESN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND? LEARN HOW YOU CAN GET THE SKILLS YOU NEED IN MY FREE MASTERCLASS 👇
    coachmelannie.com/masterclass/
    P.S. Which of these signs surprised you the most? Tell me in the comments! 💭

    • @johncimino2802
      @johncimino2802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes

    • @charlieswank8820
      @charlieswank8820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes 👍

    • @fredhamann3852
      @fredhamann3852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Master uragon

    • @davidthompson410
      @davidthompson410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Steve A sounds like u left it way too long so she's making u pay by appearing uninterested plus maybe she's genuinely moved on from when she liked u

    • @mrpowerfull100
      @mrpowerfull100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are freaking adorable.... What hair!!! Just beautiful... I think your correct on all your points.

  • @adamblair4470
    @adamblair4470 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    It's tough being a guy. We have to do so many things all at once. Wisdom, discipline, respect and authority.

    • @HansensUniverseT-A
      @HansensUniverseT-A ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Or you could be yourself.

    • @charli4815
      @charli4815 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      and then we also need to look like Thor or Cpt Amerca

    • @AmisCorolla
      @AmisCorolla ปีที่แล้ว +10

      it is not, Just buy adventure bike and live your life.

    • @thebatman7730
      @thebatman7730 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not really. Just get your self a passion or a dream/goal and fully commit to it. That’s probably going to give you all 4 of those things without you even noticing.

    • @mtd1089
      @mtd1089 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@charli4815 Not only LOOK like them, but ACT like them 💯

  • @stephenpenland278
    @stephenpenland278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1493

    I feel like this is the perfect map to getting friend zoned.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Here are some videos about that. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XdKzj6IIcUEdcSb4HimAAe.html God bless!

    • @notthebeaver1532
      @notthebeaver1532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      Yeah you're not wrong...😆😂🤣

    • @jonesey1981
      @jonesey1981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      Yea they save the friend zoned guys for after they’re done experimenting. So basically you’re right where you want to be for long term relationships. Not for scoring quickly. Different animals.

    • @llcooldrockindahouse4631
      @llcooldrockindahouse4631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Tbh i don’t mind the friend zone and it’s not as bad as most people claim. To me the friend zone is like a sanctuary as it buys me extra time to better myself. See use the fz as personal time to get better. That’s what I use it for. I don’t use it to be miserable and incel like cuz that’s not my character. I use it to get better and make myself even more attractive.
      I mean I am attractive but I always strive for more. Also Melanie, might I add sign of attraction #18: always raise the bar for yourself. If you don’t raise the bar or challenge urself, ur never gona improve. It’s like that hamster on the wheel not going anywhere which fits with ur direction step. And also girls like it when the guy has purpose and direction. Cuz they wanna have the support and security as well.

    • @TheMan-ud2wq
      @TheMan-ud2wq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      I didnt hear her mention money... I mean come on, these things might get someone to talk with you but its money and status that keeps a woman.

  • @snakemont
    @snakemont ปีที่แล้ว +41

    1) Look People in the Eyes
    2) Listen to People
    3) You Smile
    4) You ask Questions
    5) Dress Right
    6) You take Care of Yourself and Your Possesions
    7) HEALTH is Attractive
    8)

    • @Makta972
      @Makta972 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yeah I stopped @ nuber 8 too, she's so boring

    • @smoothlyrough512
      @smoothlyrough512 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Only made it halfway through the video?

    • @222333aaaaaa
      @222333aaaaaa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Makta972damn 😢

    • @johndel2697
      @johndel2697 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Talking to ppl in real life is way better .
      But I'm sure you don't do that so that's why you here lol😂​@@Makta972

  • @jonathanrose829
    @jonathanrose829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    I already know I am attractive, It's my drool that makes me irresistible.

  • @xFlared
    @xFlared 3 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    I'm the best listener. The only issue is that no woman ever talks to me.

    • @chumadoshi6987
      @chumadoshi6987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hahahaha man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.... She's full of it... She knows you gat to be mean to get em chicks. Fc nice

    • @xFlared
      @xFlared 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@chumadoshi6987 Rule #1: Don't ask a fish on how to catch other fish.

    • @eddieolson3226
      @eddieolson3226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well maybe you gotta start talking to women. If your as good as a listener as you say then work on you and what you present

    • @camronreynosa4958
      @camronreynosa4958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@xFlared
      You do have to talk dude, but open with anything that can be short, concise and leaves popential for your targets input to get a convo started.

    • @waynethompson5955
      @waynethompson5955 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

  • @Metalkid1500
    @Metalkid1500 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    I’m a 5’1 dude so any attractive traits I may have immediately goes into the garbage disposal 😂

    • @supaflywhiteguy7635
      @supaflywhiteguy7635 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I'm a 5'10 and 3 quarters dude. I feel you brother. Women only like men 6 foot or taller

    • @alexander63736
      @alexander63736 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      @@supaflywhiteguy7635 5”1 and 5”11 are nowhere near bruh

    • @ccjrdrums
      @ccjrdrums ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@supaflywhiteguy7635 that’s not true. my short friend got a gf before I did, and my cousin’s wife is taller than him.

    • @hatbpto5180
      @hatbpto5180 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      My best friend was the shortest guy in our school. Somehow he got with the hottest girls.. freshman princess, sophomore princess, junior... etc. He married a really hot woman from a rich family. I don't know how he did it though. He was kind of crazy and talked a lot.

    • @Metalkid1500
      @Metalkid1500 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@hatbpto5180 not all men are created equal sadly

  • @kamarrawlings6285
    @kamarrawlings6285 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Women are quick to say what they want but never what they are willing to give.Relationships and partnerships are 50/50.

  • @RustyX2010
    @RustyX2010 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “A fish can’t tell a fisherman how to catch fish!”

  • @normanaraya6534
    @normanaraya6534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +649

    Ok, according to your list I'm the perfect man and here I am, single, I don't get it 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Good for you! Allow yourself to be proud of that. However, I realize how frustrating it is to have so much to offer and still be alone. I help men just like you every day. As important as attraction is, it's not the whole picture. It's simply one piece. If you don't have a girlfriend it's because you are missing the other pieces. If you have any other questions about this feel free to email me (melannie@coachmelannie.com) or DM me on Instagram or Facebook!

    • @andytheindividual3862
      @andytheindividual3862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

      Dont be a simp and stand around brother get to work!!!

    • @teemoleague907
      @teemoleague907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      Women like looks or money or your house. That's why they branch to other men.

    • @ninjanerdbjjandfitness9544
      @ninjanerdbjjandfitness9544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@teemoleague907 not always. Women are hypergamous by nature. She may leave because she no longer sees you as alpha. It can be money related, but also it might be because you lack ambition, and you got fat and lazy.

    • @kb-rr1wb
      @kb-rr1wb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      If u stack that 💰 they will come👌🏾

  • @jo9354
    @jo9354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Love your enthusiasm Melannie! Doesn't surprise me kindness is at the top of this list. It shows you care like nothing else can. That's the whole point, right?

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true! Thanks for watching! 😀

    • @Jen-qt6eg
      @Jen-qt6eg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What a wonderful world this could be, if parents taught KINDNESS instead of deceiving children with santa, tooth fairy, and Easter bunny, etc.
      1 in every 68 children are under the autistic umbrella, most from negative reactions to vaccines, and a lot go undiagnosed until late in life.

    • @Jen-qt6eg
      @Jen-qt6eg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CoachMelannie thanks for your video, KINDNESS really is the answer!

    • @adipsous
      @adipsous 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Kindness knows no shame." - Stevie Wonder

  • @colepearson9497
    @colepearson9497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yes, I would love to get more of your perspective on the matter! You’ve very keen insight Coach Melannie!

  • @CrossXseven
    @CrossXseven 2 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    As a person who has severe autism I had to learn my whole life how to behave in a social environement, how my actions are received and how people react because none of these comes natural to me. Even if it is not to have a relationship, watching your videos helps me a lot to understand other people, their reactions, but also to understand myself and my self image.
    Thank You!!

    • @Impericalevidence
      @Impericalevidence 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I was never diagnosed, however I do believe I have asperger's. I spent so much energy and time as a younger person learning what to do and when.
      Now, many years later, I am consistently praised for my understanding and "way".
      I always say "it's more than half intentional" in a humble manner.

    • @thecompletebasquiat6872
      @thecompletebasquiat6872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      haha, me too. I have no idea what is going on socially, and like other ASDs, I choose "earnestness" and "just be yourself" advice, which is not effective. Sure, people may "like" you, but you provide no "social titillations" that attract people beyond a "hello."

    • @Cybersword1910
      @Cybersword1910 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      L

    • @VasilBelezhkov
      @VasilBelezhkov ปีที่แล้ว

      +1 undiagnosed here. I know what it is... Keeping artificial eye-contact, keeping some appropriate kind of 'smile', following a conversation which is spoken (and not written)... With all the respect to the lady who did the video - it's the Neurotypical version. We'd benefit more from an 'Autistic' one.

    • @B0K1T0
      @B0K1T0 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@Impericalevidence "I was never diagnosed, however I do believe I have asperger's. I spent so much energy and time as a younger person learning what to do and when."
      I had exactly this experience, so extremely grateful I saw it through at some point, with the help of very dear friends, and even ex-girlfriends (one of whom is now diagnosed with autism herself and we uncerstand each other so well on hindsight ♥).

  • @abeyo1
    @abeyo1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The growth mindset was an interesting one that I've never heard of before?! I've got a dating coach so I'm planning to go over that one. Thanks for your assistance! You're so kind and beautiful 😘❤ plus I think also "wanting to learn new things." That should be on the list.

    • @HughjazzBalz
      @HughjazzBalz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤟🏾👈

    • @user-zr6pl6nb6z
      @user-zr6pl6nb6z 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A dating coach? Seriously? Do you think people starting relationships in previous generations had to use dating coaches? Why are we making something natural become so damned complicated?

  • @ashtonhettich9195
    @ashtonhettich9195 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Melannie, thank you for your videos! You have helped me in getting a girlfriend-- someone I've known from undergrad, and even dated before--and she has even started talking with me about 5, 10, even 20 years down the road! Thank you again for all you do!

  • @kittykitty643
    @kittykitty643 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you for your reminder! Sometimes a video like this is worth watching and SO VALUABLE! Thank you for your time and effort to help men who have been affected by other situations!

    • @jwill9877
      @jwill9877 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's worth watching so you know what not to do. These women who answered the survey questions are speaking from the perspective of the bad boy who did them wrong. Not the 80 percent of men they don't even notice. They want Chad and Tyrone to be more nice not the guy she friendzoned who was already nice. Don't listen to fish on how to catch fish. Listen to the fisherman.

    • @tebo4681
      @tebo4681 ปีที่แล้ว

      Never ever listen to a woman about dating advice. never. ever. to any woman, ever. consider this your one and only warning, for your own good

  • @davidb3738
    @davidb3738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I am now traumatized after having a 2 year relationship with an extreme female super Narcissist. It scared all desire to date or even try again for the last few years. Trauma avoidance still I think.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I understand and I am so very sorry! These videos will help you so much! th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html Let me know if you have questions! God bless! 😀

    • @PapeAveDonDadda
      @PapeAveDonDadda 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know the feeling

    • @mymusicmysoulperfectlife1809
      @mymusicmysoulperfectlife1809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feel that, i have avoidance trauma me too, 6 years with a narcisist girl 😒 but i have study psychology and sociology and philosophy and now im very good better than before

    • @keysoteriq2590
      @keysoteriq2590 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well narcissist won’t be with you if you’re not attractive. They do everything to gain….

  • @truthseeker73able
    @truthseeker73able 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    For me it's never been about needing to attract anyone...it's about how to know she is worth it.

  • @lokihammerfall7781
    @lokihammerfall7781 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The unpleasant truth is that just be an Orc but an Orc with money then you are attractive to most of the women. Period.!!

  • @unitechbusinesssolutionslt2823
    @unitechbusinesssolutionslt2823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Melanie you are amazing..!!
    This gives us all confidence to realize we are doing fine and just need to polish up a bit....

  • @henryleschen5141
    @henryleschen5141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Melanie your sincere advice and lovely delivery puts hope and encouragement right before me. Your fore-thought and Christian advice is willingly received so be sure I shall put into my day by day life plan. Thank you so much Melanie.
    Henry

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so happy to hear that! Thanks for watching! 😀

  • @shinobimusic3247
    @shinobimusic3247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don’t usually comment on TH-cam/social media but I just want to tell you all watching to always love/believe in yourself. You do not need anyone in your life to validate and/or complete you! Stay gold kings!

  • @adamgood5643
    @adamgood5643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Great video thank you, It's really nice to know that there are some people out here still trying to preach kindness and niceness as a way of not just being a better person but as a way to succeed. Thank you bunches 😁.

  • @sidlove5798
    @sidlove5798 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You totally rock! Thanks for the advice!! God bless you and your family.

  • @Jefff72
    @Jefff72 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I found that I had success when I was either working out, running, or just being active. I felt like it improved my mind where it gave me the confidence to not overdo it. In fact, I met my wife when I was running.

  • @creativethinker6691
    @creativethinker6691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I was attractive until genetics and my teeth started falling out

    • @Buckeye_4_Life_
      @Buckeye_4_Life_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Well quit smoking crack lol

    • @LiathBahjatNorCal
      @LiathBahjatNorCal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Buckeye_4_Life_ 😂

    • @BasedMando
      @BasedMando 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Wow, your genetics fell out? Damn, that's brutal. Are you still the same species? Or are you now, a horse 🤣🤣

    • @creativethinker6691
      @creativethinker6691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Had a lot of dental work done and they still fall out

    • @thetrickisirarelyrespond5945
      @thetrickisirarelyrespond5945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@creativethinker6691 its because dentistry is a scam. Removing teeth fucks up the foundation of the neighboring teeth- so inevitably they start to wobble and eventually fall out. Next stop Gumsville.

  • @richardzbikowski1337
    @richardzbikowski1337 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for your 17 points. Very clear. I appreciate my friends and the ladies i am associated with more.

  • @man-yp1gb
    @man-yp1gb ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Step one have a high paying job, step two look like you have a high paying job. Good looks doesn't cut it anymore.

  • @Gem3237
    @Gem3237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😍 I can agree with all this! A growth mindset is at the top of my list.

    • @indigophanta8288
      @indigophanta8288 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There's probably a lot on your list, lol

  • @6120avon
    @6120avon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is a great list! So much of the dating advice out there centers around channeling aloofness and "alpha" traits. While there is merit to that line of thinking in the initial attraction stages, it will only work for awhile. Then you better have substance to back it all up, like what is discussed in this video.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

    • @ronaldboneslinger
      @ronaldboneslinger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This was written by a 14 year old indian in a click farm

    • @Colleens-Corner
      @Colleens-Corner ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You don’t have to be completely aloof or snobby but you don’t have to be needy either 😬

  • @JohnJones-nq6pi
    @JohnJones-nq6pi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was surprised at none of the 17 points. I need to work on several of them. Thanks for your positive attitude.

  • @obithewan
    @obithewan ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. I really like the blooper reel at the end lol. I hope to find my person soon. I like the insight you give in each video. Thank you for that.

  • @johnfiveash6733
    @johnfiveash6733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes! Melannie a very awesome and informative video. Thank you for the inspiring video. I had a very bad day today. Your video it really uplift my spirit. Your bloopers were uplifting to me. Once again thank you for the amazing and awesome video. Keep up with the awesome work. God bless you,family, and friends. Have an awesome night. Stay well and safe.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

  • @sonerozkan1794
    @sonerozkan1794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Melannie , So sweet to explain this complex things with the simple terms ...well done friend

  • @HuanRazboinic
    @HuanRazboinic ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Number one sign you're attractive: your grandma told you you're one good looking boy.

  • @sven_ampleforth
    @sven_ampleforth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Coach Melannie!!
    The sign number 8, Take care of yourself and your belogings; it was kind of surprising.
    I never thought a girl observes the stuff I use to see if they are mistreated or dirty or have missing parts.
    And smile is one of this traits I usually forget to do.

  • @DarrenBocksnick
    @DarrenBocksnick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nicely articulated... Your smile makes the message even more powerful.

  • @expression883
    @expression883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Melanie, thank you - so grateful I found you for the first time just now, and beyond grateful for your warm, comforting, upbeat advice. You gently reminded me of things to be proud of and things I can work on. So helpful to be reminded, especially in these strange if not scary times to be dating. Thank you so much for a much-needed shot of encouragement and confidence. You're amazing, keep up your awesome work!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you so much for your kind comment! It makes me so happy to know my videos are helping! God bless! 😀

    • @billybobs1705
      @billybobs1705 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CoachMelannie there could be a million reasons why someone does not want to smile or think somthing is funny.....you are a shallow boring character not to mention the fact that you claim to have better channels on this subject makes you also arrogant. 👎

  • @bricebrooks609
    @bricebrooks609 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    100% on point at 11:21 mins into this. actually on point throughout this video. Lifted my spirits

  • @Kalel19711
    @Kalel19711 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes more like this please. I'm divorced and 51 and I hope that God has a" special "next someone for me, in time. God bless you Coach 😉

  • @taranmagee6144
    @taranmagee6144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Also I love how well all this useful information is presented. I definitely fall into the "clueless guy" category. It's nice to understand what women are actually looking for/interested in rather than just what society and media tell us. Keep up the good work!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

    • @johngentlemusic
      @johngentlemusic ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your sincere advice ma'am Melanie...I was happy to see that I naturally do some of the things on your list. I used to be an emotional fool who didn't what girl loved him and what girl didn't. But with nuggets like yours I am a more knowledgeable man and I still believe in christian dating,godly relationship and marriage. Thank you for helping us navigate through these murky waters. Thank you for bringing so much value to the table.

  • @ihatemyself9260
    @ihatemyself9260 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so so much for this video!!!!
    I had to take notes cause I feelt so much insecure about me but I know now that most of the times I am more attractive.
    I hope you have a lot of success on TH-cam and in anything that you do!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏

  • @aegisprotection4969
    @aegisprotection4969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Enjoyed the video. Happily married, myself.
    The kindness one is interesting. Before I finally found my wife, one thing that a lot of women found attractive was seeing me in violent situations.
    That I was capable of defending things but I was never mean about it.
    And women worth being with recognize that distinction.
    So much is spot on... learning how to dress nicely, keeping a clean car and clean sink. Laundry folded.
    It doesn't have to be perfect. Just look like one cares.
    An interesting one that didn't go anywhere but still led to a date, a lady I knew saw me changing a diaper of a friend's child I was watching. But that has to be natural. It's part of kindness.
    I can't count how many times I have called my wife and said: Hey. I am going to be late. It's pouring down rain and there is someone walking. Let me see if they need a ride. And my wife adores me for it.
    (Side comment: I am careful about giving rides to strangers and evaluate each situation carefully. )
    The eye contact one is.a tricky thing. Abused people don't like eye contact.
    Good video.

  • @azndrifter204
    @azndrifter204 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    For those who want to skip her long intro it starts at 2:58

  • @O_MontY
    @O_MontY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Please make a video regarding signs she might be getting ready to file an order of protection against you

    • @clarkoption1941
      @clarkoption1941 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anyone can do it whenever, so just live a life of paranoia or get one on them first

    • @ericperez7872
      @ericperez7872 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

  • @Ray-li9be
    @Ray-li9be 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Loved the video. I have the woman of my dreams but could not understand what she saw in me until I watched your video. Now I know. The 17 things you mention I have always held close to my heart. I also strive to protect and support her when she has problems (rarely). Thank you for reinforcing my beliefs ❤️

  • @ghostoferlock
    @ghostoferlock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hooray for chivalry. Bring on the flowers, bring on the romance, bring on the eye gazing, this could be a long list lol
    Kindness makes sense. Brings to mind a saying. 'Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind'.
    Nice that physical appearance wasn't really on the list, it should be heart that wins someone over.

  • @joshuamclean4588
    @joshuamclean4588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I see some of all of these already, and still apply the growth mindset: I see how I can apply them even more even if theres aspects already there. Thanks for the informative video.

  • @mouraddaoudi3424
    @mouraddaoudi3424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you, think is bit difficult to convince a man you're coaching to get his dream girl, when you show up in his life with this smile,or you most be very good at what you doing as coach.
    Bless you😏

  • @jasonkeller6221
    @jasonkeller6221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I believe this stuff is important after having a job, having a vehicle and your own place, plus showering daily helps, maybe having a sense of style 😉

    • @yankee2666
      @yankee2666 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, it's that eye in the middle of your forehead.

    • @dallasstiles118
      @dallasstiles118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hierarchy of needs 😁

    • @dallasstiles118
      @dallasstiles118 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Melanie talks about that stuff actually

    • @bradmason4706
      @bradmason4706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Too sophisticated.

    • @briansnead4787
      @briansnead4787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My blow up doll doesn't care that i don't shower...

  • @LeviAWilson
    @LeviAWilson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an awesome voice! From your very first words I heard they gave me goosebumps. And being a vocalist myself (as well as a songwriter, musician and body builder) I've heard a lot of voices and yours absolutely incredible. Your boyfriend or husband is pretty lucky to get to hear that voice all the time.

  • @IssacBenAvram
    @IssacBenAvram ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. Beautiful. Thank you. Definitely worth checking out. Holistic wholesome approach raising love awareness self esteem being giving and kind. Love it!

  • @ronkrueger-capt_koron6112
    @ronkrueger-capt_koron6112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Thank you Melannie, I took notes and it will be helpful with me to develop the self confidence and improve myself toward finding that girl of my dreams. So far, I've liked all your videos and just keep doing what you are doing. 😊

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wonderful! Thanks for your kind words! I'm so happy you like my videos 🙏

    • @Mrfacts00000
      @Mrfacts00000 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lost my confidence long time ago

  • @maximusdecimusmeridious3784
    @maximusdecimusmeridious3784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    She’s the ultimate hype woman haha 👏🏻

    • @beachbum4166
      @beachbum4166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It is fantasy bro.

    • @orangeandslinky
      @orangeandslinky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@beachbum4166 It's so nice to see some guys that are not simps and believes this long list of crap.

  • @dougfrank8223
    @dougfrank8223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I am so glad I found your series - thank you for sharing your expertise with us! I'm a widower who has recently re-entered the dating world, and had a backlog of things to learn, so much of this has been part of my recent experience.
    Also: I'm impressed by your delivery. Your facial mannerisms, and /especially/ your voice modulation, is very effective. It also helps a lot that you're cuter than a box of puppies. ;)

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching! I'm so glad it was helpful! 🙏

    • @TheBanana93
      @TheBanana93 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She got it lets put it that way.

    • @InNateWayz
      @InNateWayz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CoachMelannie that's code for he wants to date you

    • @jpowell2603
      @jpowell2603 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@InNateWayz 😂

  • @dejay9404
    @dejay9404 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don't project you're trying to get with girls... demonstrate your happy with being yourself regardless

  • @Dario_Mazzella1975
    @Dario_Mazzella1975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your a beautiful woman with a soothing voice. I never thought I was attractive at all but I guess I am after watching this. Thank you for the priceless advice Coach Melannie. God Bless

  • @billjackson8956
    @billjackson8956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This surely is without color meaning that love is blind and love is what we all need. Great list. To be current, all lives matter and , blindly + deftly, goes without saying.

  • @donaldduck759
    @donaldduck759 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of a little over a year, watching this video I can see how we both developed some of the unattractive things from this video, and how they split us apart, she’s really speaking facts here boys trust her.

  • @CurtAndAdrienne
    @CurtAndAdrienne ปีที่แล้ว

    Put me in, Coach. I was watching your texting tips video earlier and I'm definitely going to try a few of them out.

  • @Ikeman59
    @Ikeman59 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So nice to hear from a Christian Dating Coach. First time of watching and listening to your video. You have a gift of communicating and teaching that makes people want to get out and be who they are make a difference in their lives and other people. Looking forward in watching more of your videos. What I have noticed is that women are always smiling at me and I smile back but am hesitant to communicate more because I know that they are not Christian and will not have anything in common. Do not want to get involved and have her liking me and then hurt her feelings.

  • @reddrunners
    @reddrunners 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    This woman is beautiful inside and outside. Imagine if all women had her mindset, the world would be absolutely amazing. I just found her channel and subscribed. So grateful.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Thank you for being so kind. I'm happy you are here! Have a great day 😀

    • @reddrunners
      @reddrunners 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@CoachMelannie WOW! Thanks! 😊

    • @rob7296
      @rob7296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She isn't real man

    • @socloseagain4298
      @socloseagain4298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rob7296 🤔🤔🤔

    • @Spydur0ne
      @Spydur0ne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Guys love redheads

  • @hlubmos2chah945
    @hlubmos2chah945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bingo! Very knowledgeable Coach! Thank you.

  • @johnvonmartin7501
    @johnvonmartin7501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I do love the fact that dating takes challenge coz I do love problem solving. And I am a geek/ weird type. But presenting yourself as a who you are is what makes you naturally attractive.

  • @mr.irrelevant8826
    @mr.irrelevant8826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow you have completely opened my eyes👀 you ma’m have a new subscriber

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome aboard! I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

  • @kabukiwookie
    @kabukiwookie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This video was fun. I didn't know there was a thing as a Christian Dating Coach.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏

    • @beachbum4166
      @beachbum4166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't get confused. Christian girls are exactly the same as all the others. They only pretend for church.

    • @orangeandslinky
      @orangeandslinky 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      there isn't.

  • @sethsentertainmenttalks
    @sethsentertainmenttalks ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is really helpful… I just finished watching and wow very interesting… thank you for sharing your thoughts

  • @Karxar1as
    @Karxar1as ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You boost a lot my confidence, thank you

  • @gailsegal6843
    @gailsegal6843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great video Melanie, From a middle aged perspective, I feel women want to be loved, respected, and taken care of (not necessarily monetarily) however, have our best friend want to enjoy doing things together. We want to compliment eachother with a respectful attitude, we want similar values, we want to put eachother first (after God, that is.) It's not as easy to find a good partner as you age because many of the good ones are already committed. Most importantly, we want to share a deep love, joy, trust, and commitment with a soul mate, therefore, grow old together as one. Many of us are in a bad relationship's but are afraid to move on, it becomes very difficult to transition the older we get because we develop disabilities, or medical issues, etc...not to mention it's hard for most people to afford to live on just one income. In my opinion, the ideal relationship is based on true love, (not based on sex), but desiring your best friend by your side, it's about sharing a similar faith, political views, laughter, responsibility, and family values....it's about putting eachother first, after God.
    What do you think?

    • @rudyfranco1009
      @rudyfranco1009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That is exactly how I feel as a guy. I don't understand why it is so hard to meet someone. It is getting scary the more time that goes by.

    • @babyfacenelson2704
      @babyfacenelson2704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds like great friend zone candidate

    • @gailsegal6843
      @gailsegal6843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@babyfacenelson2704 that would be nice but it's virtually impossible to find a man who wants anything other than one thing - it bothers me that it's their priority.

    • @Sommers234
      @Sommers234 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@babyfacenelson2704 That term is ridiculous and over used.
      You're putting women on a pedestal like , pick me, pick me. eff the ones who are quick to judge.

  • @artoheino7315
    @artoheino7315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Melannie, your 17 signs are absolutely spot on!! I am that person after the Dentist sorted my teeth, now with that extra confidence and good smile, I have so many ladies wanting my attention everywhere I go, even passing in the check out at the supermarket, I get that extra smile and gleam from her eyes and some nice personable comments. You are right, my age (65) does not bother the lovely ladies I meet (18-45), that is not what they care about. I love your videos, they have confirmed my life long philosophy that the great virtues of being a gentleman/chivalrous/kind/generous/happy/fun /creative/expansive/healthy/well groomed and confident are what all men should strive for. Thanks for being beautiful as well :)

  • @IAM_MATOS
    @IAM_MATOS 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes please and thank you!! Thank you for all the great information!

  • @lanevotapka4012
    @lanevotapka4012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve recently started watching “Gunsmoke” from the 1950’s. I feel like Marshall Dillon basically embodies all these good, attractive qualities. It’s been very enlightening.

  • @luingalls
    @luingalls 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Your list describes my husband of 18 years perfectly! They do exist. #1 on the list - he's a Christian! I wasn't one when we met but shortly after he started taking me to church (dates) I was baptized!

  • @vr-vik5660
    @vr-vik5660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love your hair and your adorable blue eyes Melannie!!

  • @stevenvialpando8365
    @stevenvialpando8365 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    17 tips to getting friend zoned 🤪

  • @UrbanNinja123
    @UrbanNinja123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This definitely helped me realize my attractive attributes even more im like wow!! 😀

  • @tadeuszsolowiej1522
    @tadeuszsolowiej1522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hmm, you are very warm and so attractive speaking with confidence, and assurance. Thank you🌹🙂

  • @brianshields6374
    @brianshields6374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel like these make it sound simple. But then in practice it seems hard.

    • @mr.fettesq.7705
      @mr.fettesq.7705 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are a lot of contradicting messages from women advise givers on you tube. Just take the co census on topics they agree on. Peace

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They are simple they just take some practice. It's just a skill. Don't you think you (and your dream girl) are worth the effort? 😀

  • @BruceJC75
    @BruceJC75 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Definitely need to take the very idea of a relationship off a pedestal and actually TRY to find one. I just keep moving the goalposts with excuses for why I can’t look. Hopefully I can get past it before I’m still doing the same thing in my 40’s 😏

  • @1687rlopez
    @1687rlopez ปีที่แล้ว

    This was actually really helpful. Thank you!

  • @sdmackpictures
    @sdmackpictures 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're very beautiful and you don't need the pop filter since you're speaking away from and not directly into the mic. Love your video.

  • @JM-bv3qm
    @JM-bv3qm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'd rather be friend zoned for being engaging then be disingenuous and get a date. I want to attract what matters longterm not in the moment.

  • @alejandromears2539
    @alejandromears2539 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so attractive Melannie, I love your personality and energy. Incredible!!

  • @Sonofgod384
    @Sonofgod384 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very insightful thanks for this 🙏💯

  • @larrywelchko6136
    @larrywelchko6136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My wife and I have been married for 26 years and we met through a mutual friend. I guess we were kind of meant for each other because when we first started dating we couldn’t stop looking at each other or keep our hands to ourselves. 3 kids later and some things have slowed a bit we are still very happy. I watched this out of curiosity

  • @chrisbunka
    @chrisbunka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Have all 17. Still single. Focusing on enjoying the journey right now.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's why I became a coach. I want good guys to be able to have happy, healthy relationships. Please let me know if I can answer any questions. instagram.com/coachmelannie/ facebook.com/coachmelannie/ melannie@coachmelannie.com

  • @loganwilcox4037
    @loganwilcox4037 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pro tip, if you are the exact opposite of all the things she just laid out, a lot of women will find you extremely attractive, and I have no idea why.

  • @DSWTube
    @DSWTube ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The most important thing is to have a relationship with YOURSELF first, before you think you should have a relationship with others. Look at yourself first, be with yourself. It's all about mind, body, spirit. Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.

  • @TruckJulius
    @TruckJulius 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s an art fellas, it starts with how you feel about yourself. If you’re focused on “getting” and “having “ instead of building up yourself to “give”, you’re sabotaging yourself.
    Respect to Melanie, she’s helping you to build the best you not “get” something for you. This is where we are unable to use a fix all tool but rather be creative and become better men, Face our fears become better lovers! Better fathers! Melanie is definitely dropping a small piece on you but this one video won’t fix everything. Study and build yourself as you’d like and the women will chase you down... thank me later. Peace

  • @CallSignJammer
    @CallSignJammer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being in the friend zone of the hottest girl on your radar, it’s a blessing…she probably ain’t the right girl. A quality woman will go for a quality man. Her advice is geared toward long-term, quality relationships, how to get the right kind of attention. It’s a filtering mechanism to eliminate attention from toxic, stuck-up, shallow women. (Just my opinion)

  • @Luddegrus
    @Luddegrus ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much this video made me very confident. I have quite a lot of the things you said in the video

  • @Sindollx666x
    @Sindollx666x ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video & I really enjoyed the outtakes at the end, very cute!

  • @jameswalsh2427
    @jameswalsh2427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    O My God I can listen to you all day.

  • @jonathans.9713
    @jonathans.9713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hello Melannie, Thank you for the list of 17 signs you're more attractive than you think and sharing them. They are outstanding, great insight, and good to send out positive feed back on characteristics we are aware of. I will be checking out your free master class; thank you. God bless you, have a great day, and week! In Christ, Jonathan S.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏 God bless!

  • @stephen6whitehead398
    @stephen6whitehead398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All of those are true!I"m 67!Too old to worry too much about future relationships!But can relate to all of those!

  • @modalsoul6511
    @modalsoul6511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you’re physically unattractive ( ME ) none of this matters

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't think anyone is unattractive. These videos will help. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-UGjAqyuVtuju_OWNkqllaD.html And these too. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-X_ynv6PY785bErqiZoqbSk.html

  • @lawrencejor277
    @lawrencejor277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She is right!!!!! I've done all 17 things and they all have worked for me and I got the girl I wanted. The problem was that she wasn't the right one 😕

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sure sorry about that! Dating can be a numbers game and that does happen. However, sometimes it's because she's toxic.. Here are some videos that will help you if that's the case. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html Please let me know if I can answer any questions for you! 😀 Thanks for watching!

  • @rudyfranco1009
    @rudyfranco1009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It has always puzzled me how total strangers will tell me their life's trial's and tribulations upon just meeting me. That seems easy to make conversation. But so much harder when trying to attract a ladies attention.

    • @deandawiz
      @deandawiz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      you a scorpio?

    • @BrianCave
      @BrianCave 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Been there so many times throughout my life, a few times literally an hour or two after meeting. I’m always happy to help, but far less do I get support in return. The few that do help in return are those I’m closest to, friend or spouse.

    • @Brett7777
      @Brett7777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have people tell me some crap I do not want to know. Had client tell me he wants bump his wife off. People open up like crazy to me. Like they new me for 40 years. Aquarius.

  • @lanemorrison4145
    @lanemorrison4145 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice! Spot on! Thank you dear! Some of my past (and current) problems were that I attract women with major issues - drama, alcoholics, liars, baggage, etc... I need a better vetting process...lol

  • @hump1953
    @hump1953 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video! First time I have seen you and I will look at your other videos