r/EntitledPeople - Karen Demands FREE MONEY to Buy a House! She NEEDS ONE.
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- r/entitledpeople - OP tells a tale about her entitled Karen stepdaughter wanting free money to buy a house with. When OP refuses to give her the money, she throws a tantrum and gets dad to help convince OP to hand over $13,000! Subscribe for future stories.
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Entitled People Stories in this episode of r/entitledpeople:
0:00 - Intro
0:23 - Story 1 (u/Mode1961)
3:54 - Story 2 (u/FrainBreez_Tv)
6:14 - Story 3 (u/rkglsjfj)
9:07 - Story 4 (u/NotMineThrowaway)
13:26 - Story 5 (u/camarthe)
17:21 - Story 6 (u/Kaiphranos)
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Story 3: Divorce him asap. Sounds like he’ll just pester you into asking the charity to give the money back.
Oh she’s definitely leaving him
I can totally see him trying that
Give the money away first, then divorce him. That way he can't take it as shared assets
It‘s fake, she must‘ve had her daughter at 15
My thoughts exactly. Really glad to hear she dumped that AH!
Last story: Homeless people I've met are often kind and want to share or trade in some way when shown such kindness. Good on O.P. and the deli person for taking a chance and really making someone's day better.
Story 5: The girl friend is lucky she only got fired, and not also arrested. It's actually against the law to pass yourself off as a lawyer. Even if she had been a lawyer, she could have been fired, lost her legal license, and been arrested for attempting to defraud OP. One more thing. Once the other party starts talking about lawyers, it's time to get your own.
Well, a legal business wouldn't dare say they are sueing someone when it's a private matter. They would confirm if they fired them or not. Just to point out, her being fired doesn't exclude her from being sued by the place for the actions. They just won't talk about it because the best advice is to say as little as you possibly can in regard to the court case.
Not only did dude dodge a nuke, he also was able to get closure on that relationship. Both are absolutely priceless.
Story 6: awwrr so wholesome. Sure it's annoying to be asked to buy a certain bit of food instead of the cheap thing, but he was honest and grateful. Good vibes all around.
The last story reminded me of this homeless guy who was right by a subway station when I was going to work. He always refused to take money from anyone who looked like a student saying "you need it more than me". Sweetest man. I had to get my older colleagues to give him money on my behalf.
Where I lived in Florida there was a very big and nice group of homeless guys who would meet me at my road and walk with me to my work at 5 am. A guy tried dragging me into his car one morning. Luckily I carried a big book and broke his nose.
But until I got a car one or two guys every morning walked me to work. I made sure they got the big breakfast every morning.
But these guys were not the ones you see now on corners. They often worked for man power when they needed money or if they needed a meal my boss would say well I got some work needs done I can feed ya all day and then some if you will get it done.
Mostly they jump right to it.
Sometimes it's the people that are most in need, those that a heck of a lot of society would look down on, that are the most generous. Not always, of course, but sometimes
@@willowtabby4926 Facts. I've noticed that a significant number of homeless people are homeless because of bad luck and bills and inflation. They're almost always nice and helpful/caring people who want others to be happy. They just get shamed because they live outside
The less people have, usually, the more generous they are. I recall when the fiance reports on candidates came out, multimillionaire AL Gore gave a dollar a day, $365 a year, listed as his charitable contributions on his tax forms. We were low income and did 4 times that amount.
The legal secretary who misrepresented herself as a lawyer should have been more than fired from her job, she should have been charged with unauthorized practice of law and sent to jail, or fined at the very minimum. Her serious debt likely means that OP is not the first person she has tried to scam this way.
OP#3: divorce the A-hole immediately!!! OP#4: Lawyer up, restraining orders all around, block everyone!
Story 4: I find it HIGHLY likely that the majority of the people messaging OP were told he's the father, and that he refused to be in the kid's life.
Especially considering the first person she told (other than the runaway BF) was her mom (who convinced her to trick OP).
That last story is actually really sweet. Additionally, he's asking you to support a small business more than likely, and he knows that the benefit of the more filling food will serve him far longer than a cheap burger that's empty calories. I think not only was he brave to ask, but you were awesome to listen to his reasoning and do it, too. Yes, it was choosing, but he had a very solid reasoning. When I was homeless, I'd go to Subway before anywhere else. The food tended to keep me full longer.
As a broke & time- and health-challenged uni student, I've done similar when money's been tight but I'm out somewhere (such as studying at uni) and haven't been able to pack a meal to take with me for any number of reasons. As long as I can have enough self-control to not eat it all in one go, a well-filled Subway footlong is two meals, and is almost always cheaper, healthier, and more filling than two meals from other take-away/fast food outlets
Divorce that man and his daughter ASAP and donate that money 💰. Find a organization that is small and maybe local
Ye he really showed his true colours when he used waste and charity in the same sentence.
And had to approve her going on a vacation to spread ashes.
Story 2, what Fluff said at the end is exactly what my parents always did. They would offer furniture for a very low price but not so low that it would make it seem shady, and then give it for free when the person showed up unless they were super rude, at which point they would take the money for the item.
They also did this with the litter of oopsie puppies we had. Free puppies attract the wrong type of people, so they set them for a low but reasonable price, like $75 or $100 or something like that, and then after vetting the family, they let them have it for free and told them to use the money toward the puppy's first vet appointment, and made a few families very happy and surprised. We still see some of the puppies now, and it was a great decision
"Every time I think you just said the stupidest thing ever, you keep talking." -Hank Hill. Seriously Fluff, every story today had me thinking you wouldn't be able to top it, only for the next to be an even wilder ride! And then to reset our blood pressure at the end with wholesome, chef's kiss. Top quality content.
I remember a story where someone tried to give away a pool table but the buyer had to arrange transport since it is large and heavy. She got the usual range of crazy.
She finally contacted a mover with experience of moving pool tables and asked what it would cost and sold it for that sum with transport included.
Paternity Test Story: OP needs to contact a Lawyer, save ALL messages from the ex and her family. Then contact the police about the harassment. The ex might try for paternity fraud once her kid is born and put OP on the birth certificate. Paternity fraud is a real problem and so many men have been forced to pay for kids that aren't theirs. Even sometimes after they prove they aren't the father by a DNA test.
In Arizona it's illegal to put someone's name on the papers unless the man agrees and fills out a form, or is married to the person. My daughter's father got mad that I hadn't put his name in it, but I couldn't by law.
Yeah, she wouldn't be above putting him on the birth certificate anyway. He needs to lay down the law now.
The last story: an old story, but I love hearing it again after so long. Back when r/choosingbeggers were a hot topic, such a sweet story, the guy asked for something a little fancier than an McDonalds meal, and was grateful enough to offer one of the two extra sandwiches he was given to OP. Very sweet
My congratulations to OP#2. He actually filed charges against the Karen! Awesome.
Story 2: Good on OP for divorcing that selfish creep, and getting him AND his nasty daughter out of her life
James, it’s story 3. Story two is the woman wanting new free pc parts
@@Stonedsheepu8906 My bad. Thanks.
Story 1: I almost wish it was USPS delivering instead of a commercial shipping company.Tampering with mail is a federal crime.
He didn't tempered with the mail, tho. But mail theft is also a felony 😉.
story 1: in austria, it is common curtesy to accept packages that are sent to neighbors. your neighbor can't take his parcel? okay, done.
and then hand it over when the original receiver comes home.
done...
My neighbors do the same for me and I do the same for them in the states
@@SylverWolfable yes, and to make matters... funner: think about it. if a neighbor tries to steal that way, it's on one hand quite easy to find out who stole, and on the other hand, it's totally unknown for the thief what he stole. the stolen good might not be useful to the thief or even sellable.
just saying, that it is a really dumb way for which people can go to prison.
Here in the States, depending on what service is actually handling the package, it might not be theft. If the Post Office is delivering it, then if it gets delivered to the wrong address, it's too bad...unless whoever got it does the right thing. However, if fed-ex, amazon, dhl, or such delivers to the wrong address, and they sign for it, then it's considered theft/fraud.
@@franceswellshutson2121 I believe it is a federal felony, if someone opens USPS mail that is not theirs to open. I recall an earlier Fluff story that went into this, about a postman delivering to a gated community, and a woman and her child tampering with the mail. Anyone remember when that story was?
@@franceswellshutson2121 I've also heard from the special case, where amazon delivers their own products. then they can't even play the game, that it was the delivery companies fault for going to the wrong address.
unless they are subcontractors with amazon branded vehicles, but that is still something they have to sort out internally.
Honestly, if a Karen started demanding money from me, and if I was in a talkative mood.... I'd respond with "I can maybe buy you a nice refrigerator box. How does that sound?"
The last story was so sweet! It actually made me tear up a little to think that this guy felt so embarrassed about his situation is so sad. If you are in this type of situation, it's not always your fault and you shouldn't be ashamed of asking for help. Thank you to the sandwich lady and OP for being so kind.
Story 2: I mean, she agreed to old parts, and then said she didn't want those anymore, so that's that. Not sure what she was expecting, probably to get old and new parts at the same time, but it doesn't work like that.
It's sad that you wanted to give something for free because you didn't want none for it but you didn't titled idiots who instead of being like. Oh let me take this item that works perfectly well for free no. I want the better version of that item for free. Plus the idiot didn't get That since nothing was sold there is no theft. But that's karen's for you. In their mind they're the only person who's real and everybody else is existing for their benefit so it's a harsh reality when It turns out now As was? Said with. That? Tip. Sadly you have to? Add value to something because you'll get the idiots who. Decide that what they're getting for free. They should be getting the better version for free and to those counting their lucky stars that they got something good for free. H*** in this case the guy basically drove to her house Wasting gas simply to give it to her so there was nothing she should have done other than accept the item and be dangeful but instead no she thought. She could get more and she got nothing but a ticket
Story 4 : get restraining order ASAP.
At the very least, hire an attorney to send a cease and desist letter so there's a paper trail in addition to all the wacko texts, for when OP does have to get a restraining order. Some people will back off at a C&D on legal letterhead, and it's generally not too expensive to get a lawyer to draft up something that routine. In addition, it means he'll already have a lawyer if he does need to file for that RO.
Just Story 4? A restraining order would be a good idea response for several of these stories.
@@litning123 Reddit should have a button where you can 1-click a restraining order...
Story 4: I bet ex lied to all of her family and friends about this too, so they think OP is in the wrong.
Yep, he needs to lawyer up and get a court order for a paternity test and then send everyone harassing him cease and desist letters and a restraining order to the ex and her mother.
I hope Op sets up cameras and gets the neighbors info to see if they have cameras too and Sue is brother for the tire slashing. Also a restraining order would be nice.
Story three. OP I am sorry for the loss of your daughter. You would think after three years you could really know someone wow. I'm sorry your current husband was a jerk. Sometimes money ruins relationships unfortunately. I am glad you and your ex husband are still friends.
On the last story, great job op and the deli worker, that was a great thing you both did.
Story 5: the moment the brother’s girlfriend sent that letter was a immediate red flag
Paternity test story : I would go to the cops (with proof) of all the harrasment, stalking and sexual stuff they send to the OP and get them charged for every crime they did.
Story 3: OP should donate the money to the charity of her choice to honor her daughter's memory and then divorce this a-hole. That money was her property and existed prior to their marriage and he has no say in how it's to be used. That's between her and her ex, and they've already reached an agreement of what they want to do with it.
Charity is always a wonderful way to use the money but I also love the scholarship idea
@@kranberry3318same either way it helps someone actually in need
OP might need to use the money herself once she leaves her entitled husband.
That age gap is big; I'm 59, and my daughters are 35 and 30.
Story 1: That guy should have gone to prison for theft.
Story 2: She did agree to those old parts, she can't extort OP for new parts.
Story 3: Op should record herself sending the money to the college, and send it to her asshole ex and his daughter.
Story 4: Op should sue the ex and her family for Harassment and Sexual Harassment.
Story 5: OP should sue the brother for destruction of private property.
I'm glad the last one didn't turn into something bad, I mean I already had good vibes at the beginning like "buddies right, a cheese burger isn't all that great, and its not very filling either"
And the fact that OP was able to get several for free and buddy took them as is, is really nice, I was expecting them to get pissed off that the sandwiches wherent what they wanted or liked, but when your hungry AF you'll eat almost anything.
Story 1: That's why I use the 'Lockers' or go to a 'Package Pickup'.
I blame the Neighbor since his Wife said it wasn't the first time it's happened and the Mail Carrier said the same thing.
@@JadenYukifan28 Also can be charged Federally in the US "Theft of Interstate Shipment" although not likely he would be.
Story 5: it's amazing that the brother was this close to getting the help he needs before he decided to scam OP into giving all of investment.
Because people convince themselves its their right to it
He and his girlfriend are birds of a feather. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I hope that beggar is doing better. He was down on his luck and still wanted to give to someone else to share in his good fortune. God bless that man.
Story 1: I worked in retail when I was younger, and when I was a manager we had one of our packages mis-delivered to the store across the hall, and instead of bringing our package over to us when that manager noticed the mistake, he decided to let his employees loot the box. It contained something like $10000 in video games, and accessories. We got lucky and the assistant manger came and told us what happened, so we called the police. Needless to say half the staff of the store were arrested for theft. And when some of the the employees houses were searched they found a trove of stolen shoes, and computer evidence of them stealing shoes from the store selling them online (at a massive markup), then paying for the shoes as if a customer bought them. The manager was covering for the theft for a cut of the profits.
I can''t remember the total value that they did this with, but these were limited edition shoes like the ones people buy and never wear.
The assistant manager was promoted to manager and was there for years until she was promoted out of the store.
Those are probably multiple felony charges.
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Story 5: Yeah, from the sounds of it, the brother definitely would've burned through whatever cash OP gave him, which could eventually to him leeching off of OP.
What was the GF thinking? I've seen posts where someone trying to lie about what position they have fail miserably.
I'll bet they're drug addicts!
In some states, what she did was probably illegal
@@molliannstocks1709 I'm pretty sure in all States its illegal to do that
She clearly wasn't thinking
@@gfg758 One would hope; but since I couldn't find anything that definitively stated so, there could be one somewhere that allows it.!
Paternity Test Story: OP needs to save all the messages ESPECIALLY the Dick Pics and then call the Police to make a Harassment and Sexual Harassment Complaint and then call a Lawyer to Sue his Ex and her Family for Harassment and get a No Contact Restraining Order...
You forgot the stalking.
if they are saying all of this in conversations through text and other means of leaving a trail then absolutely save every single piece. He should have taken a recorder with him to meet up with her cause with her saying that it was confirmed to be the other person there would be no way for him to be caught up in some BS if they tried to forge his name on the birth certificate. Michigan allows women to put people's names on the birth certificate and then they go after the man for child support even if they have a DNA test done proving the man isn't the father.
@@Some_Guy6 Yes I did...
My Bad...
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The absolute insanity of these people.
Also if she does put his name on the birth certificate anyways he can take her to court and then make her confess. That would be paternity fraud and idenity fraud? (Forgot whats it called when you sign someone's else signature on legal important documents)
She would not only lose the case, but serve some time behind bars, lose court fees, and have to pay op for damages on him and his character; lets not forget emotional damages.
Also the mother of his ex did say 'I would rather die than to have you part of the family' She only wants him now cuz the real dad bounced, op has money and career, and wants the child to be in a complete home with a mom and dad even if the dad isnt his.
8:43 I just hope she gets that money out of the bank and into that scholarship BEFORE contacting divorce lawyers since her husband's lawyer could try to claim half of it for the husband
Story 3: Here's what you do...Donate the money like you intended. And then divorce this toolbag (he is only now showing you who he really is), oh and if it isn't obvious, don't date or marry anyone who has kids that hate you.
Yep some of the psychos the very moment they marry you we'll show their ugly face because They really love that term till death do we part assuming you'll never divorce them. I mean yeah the bullying made me dislike him but the very point he told her she can't do anything like you know scatter her daughter's. Ashes with her daughter's father or anything without his permission shows in essence this was his true face. The nice guy she fell for was nothing but A illusion. These types know their terrible behavior is a turn off They at least have some logic to know that this is the deal breaker To Highgate but they don't have the logic to understand that they would have to keep it hidden forever so I never get why they choose to let it All out when they marry. Don't be explanation I can gather is that they can't keep the beast hidden forever so they let it out the moment they believe they Got you. Because they assume you're the type who won't divorce them and my mother also dealt with someone like this. Sadly still married to him Not out of loyalty but the fact we're no situation to be able to divorce him. The best that could be done is separation indefinitely Or until learn the financial position to move forward? She doesn't plan to marry our date again so it's not like this affects her but I do worry because still being married to him aint even. Gonna happen and a dig could be taken advantage of even though I know you stupid. I can't underEstimate people I never do As you never know how they surprise you
You know would be funny if his daughter dies like he despite being divorced from her and long cut off has the nerve to call her and ask for help bearing his daughter you know because in his mind she was his daughter's mother for a short while you know because terrible people assume even the 2nd of connection with them means you're obligated to help them out. Yet if the reverse happened you know d*** well they wouldn't Return to favor because this is selfish people who believe that they aren't selfish until they need to be selfish in a situation they believe they won't Have to care
My answer to the husband with the entitled daughter (if I was his wife) would be "I agree with you whole heartedly, entitled daughter does need $13, 000! It's high time she had a house of her own. So.... feel free to take out your bank card and give them ($13,000) to her! Im sure she'll appreciate you for the great father you are! I'm out of here! Good luck finding a new wife, oh, and don't forget to find a good lawyer as well, you're gonna need one.
Story #3: $13,000 will also pay for a good divorce lawyer!!
I would tell him to his face that and tell him to shut up about my daughter. he did not know her and tell his daughter the same. and if they harp on it again. divorce him.
Well that last story was unexpectedly wholesome like the sandwiches OP got!
Story 6: The non-verbal comunication is a not to underestimate aspect into understanding what the true motives of a person are, but they often get lost when retelling a story. Like just the eyes can tell stories, but are hard to put into words for details.
In this story however, the „if possible“ was the clue for this story to be about a positively chosing begger for once.
Package thief should have gone to jail, but sadly, it still probably wouldn't help
I wish neighbor was arrested and the package had something cheap like socks or something.
Story 1. Stories like this make me glad I got my neighbors. At least if my stuff is accidentally left with them, they'll call me up, or walk over with the package, and say, "This was left at my place." and thus return it.
Story 1: “So you’re saying that you’re OK with perpetrating mail fraud? Buddy, that’s a Federal offense. What say I call the cops back, and you *do* spend the weekend in jail?”
Paternity test - why the ex’s friends are harassing the OP… who ever said they knew he wasn’t the father?
If she’s ok with lying to him she’s likely ok with lying to others too.
It's also very likely would many of them especially her mother that they will have to step up and help her themselves. And they don't wanna do that their as fake as she is. And they're trying to move quick it wasn't about getting back together with him that would have been a bonus the idea is that if she was together. With him long enough for the courts to see it as him doing fatherly duties. Then he'll be hooked on child's support till the child is eighteen. What this experience taught him was that she and everyone around her are toxic terrible people and it was very good luck you might well give a toast to the asshole she left him for. If not for that dead beat he would never have known her true nature. It's stuff like this that ends up knocking the love fall out of your head and finally make you realize. This person was never an angel was never pure to begin with they're human and the vilest type of human being whatsoever A part of me finds it funny in a sad way when you look at this girl and she looks like a saint pure and innocent. But once you take the goggles off you see her for what she is. She's not different than all those other girls referring to harlots and such. But instead she's no different than them h*** she might even look worse than they are at least they're truthful unlike her who took advantage. And at that point and this includes women who have been screwed over by a****** men too are a******* in general for same sex you realize this person. Was never good to begin with you just likely gave exceptions because you didn't want the dream to die. I feel what makes many of these people cry when they get screwed over like. This is not because love lost but because they invested a lot and it makes them question. Their own ability of assessing a situat home if they weren't able to assess this person for the piece of c*** they actually were. To them I have this to say having a brother who went through this. Maybe a bit of this is your fault but then cheating on you them being Awful like this. This is not your fault you have to make peace with the fact that you made a mistake instead of crying and moping and wanting to change things instead. Improve yourself to make certainly never happen again. I have seen many people who have suffered. This got nowhere eventually and had better awareness because they did run into people who were just as bad as the one who screwed them over only this time. Because they learned their lesson they saw these people for what they were they saw the forest for the trees And not only did many of them avoid a bad fate but the other half even were able to get revenge on these people for what they were going to do. To them had they let things run its course. They got a harsh lesson of what happens with these people there is no change or regret or any of that s*** if there's regret it's. Only because their bad decision was hasty and throwing you away instead of continuing to manipulate you. Which is why he should give a toast to the dead beat a****** Because without him she wouldn't have been hasty in making a very bad decision and she very likely would have Turned against them for the o p at that time I have a question to him I told my brother when he was in this funk if she had picked you would you have accepted Her knowing that she's a cheater the fact the other guy Still wanted to be with her but wanted her to dump you and then ran away the very moment she got pregnant showed that that was just as ego he. Wanted to feel like the big man who stole another man's woman but he didn't want any of the responsibility. She was foolish enough stephen stick with someone like that. But as they say bad people attract each other and they don't like being with each other because it will always be a struggle on who will be the dominant one. Leave them to their toxicity and enjoy the fresh air and the daisies for what they are
Homeless guy was likely sheepish because he was aiming to buy from the deli himself, collecting money to do so as the cost was more likely higher. So when he tried to see if he could just ask about it and got a yes, that likely made his week.
Ken: "It's mine by rule of finder's keepers and possession is 9/10 of the law."
Courier: "You're not stupid enough to call 9-1-1."
Ken: "Challenge accepted!" (dials 9-1-1)
if he signed for that package, that's actually a felony. it falls under either wire fraud, or identity theft, whichever the DA decides really.
3 years ago my husband’s grandfather passed away and he got a sizable inheritance. He told me what he was going to do with the money. I did get some benefit from it but mostly it was him. It’s his money, he spends it as he pleases. A few months ago my dad passed away. I was left with some money. I’ve talked to my husband about what I should do with it. My husband has said it’s my money not his.
I would turn daughter’s college fund into a scholarship. The money might not make a dent in charities but it will definitely make a difference in a student’s life.
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10 years I can understand but twenty-five years that's insane
The choosing beggar is awesome. Good for him and OP
The paternity story reminds me of the famous one about a male OP who broke off with his bitchy ex gf, then later not only had a child from another guy, but decided to come back to him and demand some support cause it’s “his” child. He knew she was instantly wrong yet she’s too stubborn to not take a paternity test cause she knew she was screwed, but his sister, and mother were both on his ass to get him to man up and take responsibility over the child that wasn’t his at all. After getting it out(I think) those two, and the ex were still on his ass and even tried to force OP into a sit down to convince him to help his asshole ex. The funny, and ‘need a slap to her face’ comment his mother told him was “I’m disappointed in you”. He went NC with them and his dad and brother also went NC, and I think the dad divorced that awful mother for how nuts she was being.
If you have an ex that claims you're the father always get a lawyer first and go through him with any conversations. As well as either do the paternity test or leave us alone ultimatums. Also probably send a cease and desist order to all parties that contact you in relation to your ex.
This happened many years ago but here goes. My husband and I purchased a new living room set. Our old set was fine but we had redecorated and wanted something to go with. My husband mentioned this to the folks he worked with. Free but had to be picked up. One of his coworkers said her husband's sister could use it. Fine. We arranged a time she and her boyfriend could pick it up. She, the BF and another guy showed up. It was really cold so of course we asked them in. The old set was in the garage so my husband opened the garage door so they could get it. I heard some raised voices but not what was really being said. A few minutes later my husband came back in with a face like thunder. Apparently, having seen our new furniture, this broad demanded we give that to her instead and didn't like being told no. My husband told the coworker what happened. She had been told we changed our minds about giving it to her because her boyfriend was black. The coworker said she knew that was a made up piece of crap story. And, that her SIL was a piece of work but never dreamed she would try something like that. She also said that would be the last time she would go out of her way to help the SIL.
Story 1. The guy learned nothing. He went straight justifying what he did by telling OP to blame the driver
The last story was nice, I feel like the guy was down on his luck and knew his body was not in a great place atm, and thought if I eat fast food Id just be expediting my body's problem, so he took a risk and asked if he could get a healthier sandwich from the deli instead
Story 1: 3:46
If you think that guy has potentially learned his lesson, I remind you that he went back to the other guy's house and tried to convince him to do something fraudulent so, no he didn't learn in the slightest and he's definitely going to do it again because he's an absolute idiot. 🤦
Story 4: I hope that Op nails the entire family for harassment and gets a restraining order so that they can be taken to court when they inevitably break it.
Story 5: Aaaaaaand then the brother and his girlfriend gets sued for property damage, good job.
On the story about the ex trying to get op back to raise her child from another man, you did the right thing by getting away from her op.
"I don't think your stupid enough!" "I'll show you better to underestimate me!"
Last story.
This kind of choosing begger is acceptable because he asks nicely and would accept a no.
And as he gets more then he asked for, he offers to share.
This is accrptable choosing begger
Brother story: His GF is not just poor, she was poor at her former job. Any paralegal who doesn’t know the seriousness of impersonating a licensed attorney is at best not paying attention, possibly an idiot.
Last story - it’s better not to mention that the store helped (unless they give the goahead) as one careless word can have all the beggars in town camping outside the door.
Story 3: LEAVE. Thats what they should do, L E A V E.
Thats a MASSIVE red flag.
Many years ago, I must've been 17 or 18 (currently 35), I was driving to the post office and had stopped at a red light. A guy came up to clean the windshield but saw my lunch and asked if I was gonna eat it? I said yeah, sorry bro, and I left. I was picking up a package and I couldn't shake the thought of that guy having asked for my lunch. So I stopped by a place and got two big subs (he had buddies). When I made my pick up, I circled back to that same stoplight, parked and saw him and his buddies still there. Walked and gave him the two subs. For many many years after that I didn't thought much of his reaction. I never thought much of what I did, he said he was hungry and that had been enough for me. But one day it hit me, his expression was of utter surprise and amazement, a gawk in bewilderment. He thanked me, very directly. He was very young, a kid working on the streets wiping windshields.
I hope he found a better path.
The last story renewed my faith in humanity
Story 1: this is worse than porch piracy, which is still an ongoing problem all around the world
Not only that but it's also a federal crime to steal someone's mail
Strange how the entitled daughter of OP's ex in story 3 wanted 13, 000 to buy a house seeing as the average house is much more expensive than that. With 13, 000 she'd be lucky to get a ratty old trailer.
Story 3: yeah divorce him immediately! He has to approve what you do?! BS! That's control and abuse! Run!
The last story made me think about an elderly man I'd see outside a certain salad bar/deli that was a little out of my way so I didn't go there that often. He'd be meekly asking for food for lunch. I asked him what kind of sandwich he'd like and he told me anything so I got him a basic ham (no cheese because sometimes elderly people can't deal with dairy) sandwich with lettuce and tomato on white and a bottle of water. I made a point to do that whenever I went there and saw him. He didn't even have to ask me. One time, it was pouring rain and I saw him taking shelter by an office building nearby as I walked past. I got him his usual sandwich and bottle of water and sought him in his sheltered spot to give him his lunch. Since Covid, I haven't been back to the office so I wonder sometimes how he's doing.
S1. There's no way that neighbour learned a lesson
The last one... it sounds like they were a real person who was down on their luck... and when they found someone willing to help... knew what would be better for them. Personally, I would happily do that, as the deli sandwich is better for you, tastier, and does fill you up for longer.
I had a neighbors grill dropped off at Mt house and I caught the UPS guy and told him it wasn't for us and I couldn't move it down 2 doors down. So he did it and was grateful that we were honest.
That last story: not *fully* been on either end of that situation myself, but, if I was in OP's position, and someone had asked in a manner like what's described, I very likely would go for the deli sandwiches as well. Sure, they're likely more expensive than a Macca's cheeseburger or some nuggs, but the guy had solid reasoning for the request and certainly does not seem to have been asking with the *expectation* of the request being granted. Poor guy probably made those sandwiches last at least one meal each, not knowing when he'd next be able to eat
I guy was outside of a strip mall and asked if I had change. I said no, because I have APD and that’s my usual response to strangers when I can’t control the impulse to speak. I walked into one store when I finally realized what he had asked and felt in a generous mood. I got what I needed I needed and paid in a $20 to get smaller bills. I was gonna give him a $5 and a bottle of cold water that I bought, but he wasn’t there. I walked to target, across the street and next door, got what I needed and also got a couple packs of jerky. If he wasn’t there, they’d still get eaten. He was there and I handed him the money and a with the rest. He just took it and stared back at me with a blank face and was completely emotionless. A ‘thank you’ would have sufficed.
Not having basic manners in general is a huuuuuge pet peeve of mine🤣
Story 5: Even if she was a lawyer, issuing legal threats like that, would have gotten her investigated by the State Bar.
Story #1: Had a similar situation, but I didn't know nor see the person. The delivery person delivered to the wrong street. I was on West 74th, but my food went to West 75th, so right behind me. I actually saw the delivery. Called for re-direction, correction, explanation, description of deliveryman. Service woman confirmed, driver waves down driveway. I watch argument thru back widow, see girlfriend in kitchen with my order doing something fishy, tell service woman I will just repay
eorder. They sincerely apologize, tell me to record, send, and send to police. Neighbors are arrested for food tampering, theft, gun charges, drug charges, and loss children. After police are involved, and I get a free meal with a half off coupon for my trouble.
Story 3: that was the most boomer thing he said "you're young and don't understand how selfish you're being" I think Adam Sandler said it best "WHAT AN A******!!"
my dad was going through a custody dispute with my mom, and his (then) girlfriend was the secretary to his lawyer. She ended up getting fired because she insisted on putting my mom's maiden name (instead of her legal married name) on all the letters sent from her boss' office, even after my mom complained.
Paternity OP: I would file a police report about harassment.
Inheritance: I have individual custodial accounts for both my kids. I control the money until they are 18. Neither has access to the other because their social security numbers are attached. Seems like for OP his dad did something similar for him. I will teach my kids what is potentially best for their money however in the end it is their choice and they’d better not come crying to me for more if they made the wrong choice.
Story 3: take that money and run away from that sleazeball
Story 3: If OP wants advice on what to do, "divorce" seems like a good option -- oh good, hearing the update, I'm glad she went with that, especially with the possessiveness, yikes.
I think the reason why the homeless guy didn't wanted all 3 sandwiches is because he might not have ways to keep them fresh, and he didn't want them to go to waste
Loved the last story! Thank you!
Story 3: Dude already hit the jackpot getting married to a woman who was almost half his age in spite of his entitled daughter making a fuss about it; but then he has the nerve to order her to give same entitled daughter money that was left over from her OWN daughter's death! And then he blows a gasket about spending time with her ex for the disposal of their daughter's ashes! How stupid can he get? I don't know why she broke it off with her ex-husband, but considering how he handled the situation, he sounds like a saint in comparison to the new guy. Glad she's kicking him to the curb.
Say bye bye to new husband and his daughter
Anyone who tries to lecture you on what you do with the money that was not only yours but also for your deceased child doesn't deserve to be your spouse!
If he wanted his daughter to have a house so bad, why didn't he buy her one? Or better yet, if she's around OP's age which means she's an adult, why doesn't she get off her lazy ass and get a job to buy a house?!
Story 4: Obvious thing is that the ex told her friend group OP is the baby's daddy. That's why they're harrassing him. Dude needs to lawyer up!
*Story 4-* My hubby was cheated on by a chick he was engaged to before he met me. Luckily he found out about it before they officially got married! 😮💨
*ALSO, one of my hubby’s ex’s MOM’s messaged him after him and her daughter broke up!* She said she wanted him to get back with her daughter because he was the best guy her daughter has gone out with and she was a mess now that they were apart. *He had to block her whole family from talking to him!!!*
i love that last story, now thats the wholesome stuff you need between all these crazy stories
Story number 4 in this video reminds me of the story of the big white church and the 2 greedy money hungry priests
That was a classic! 😆
And the reading of the will! So beautiful.
Theft story: So now the neighbor wants OP to commit insurance fraud. And then he wonders why things cost so much? Good grief, whatever happened to telling the delivery guy he got the wrong house or just taking it next door after the delivery? The only reason this didn't happen to me a lot several years back was that I didn't order stuff online back then. At that time I lived in a house with an address of 202 W. (X) St.. My next-door neighbor's address? 202 E. (X) St.! We did get each other's mail from time to time. No biggie, we took care of it.
College fund story: OP, I'm sorry for your loss. I don't know about helping the environment, but I agree you should use that $12,500 to help someone in real life. That person is YOU. Use that money to hire a good divorce lawyer! The age difference is larger than most I've heard of, but I do know of a successful marriage with an 18 year age difference (and married over 50 years). Obviously, you've discovered your husband is not the person you thought him to be.
UPDATE: Wow, current husband controlling much? You'll be well rid of him and his daughter. I think using the money to help towards a scholarship is a great idea. Given the cost of education these days every little bit helps.
Paternity story: OP, at least you learned the truth in time. Deactivate ALL your social media and start new accounts with "private" privacy settings. And while it's a pain, get a new phone number too.
Really Fluff, you don't understand why they are chasing after OP? Because THEY don't want to pay for raising the child and (so far) they've been unable to locate the father. So they think (thought) they could get OP to do it.
Deli story: A NICE choosing beggar? Wow! That's one for the books/reddit!
"Why are you giving away free parts"
Is a legitimate question and reason to be suspicious
Ugh. That package theft stuff happens a ton sadly. I'm glad I work from home. A lot of companies now take a photo so if they deliver to the wrong building, I can usually tell where it was delivered since now I'm fairly familiar with the neighboring buildings. I haven't had thay problem with neighbors here actually keeping them, but other places I have lived that had happened.