Avoid Dating Time Wasters by Doing THIS on the First Phone Call

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  • @miloudivyne
    @miloudivyne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    You're absolutely right. Definitely agree with keeping short phone calls because it keeps the mystery. Women should not get comfortable with having long conversations with men. Short, sweet, and straight to the point. Remember ladies the sperm chases the egg. Let him chase you!

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      MOOD.

    • @rickimcfarland2269
      @rickimcfarland2269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Long phone calls also lessen the chances of him asking you out on a date. Keep it short and simple until further notice.

    • @Beingsprout
      @Beingsprout 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😅😅❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @goatt1299
      @goatt1299 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And this is why you’ll die alone

    • @Eire4life
      @Eire4life ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Toxic narcissistic advice.

  • @Sara-zu4og
    @Sara-zu4og 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    The eye roll and giggle during the phone call 💀

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😂😂😂😂

    • @RuthLovesJesus
      @RuthLovesJesus 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sent me!! 😂😂

  • @nene-b6p
    @nene-b6p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I try to do no more than 15 min on the phone and I lie in bed as if I am about to go to sleep because that is when my voice sounds the best. I still need to work on my voice control. Glad you are back. :)

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ooooh Nene is serving sexy bed voice 🙈 love it hehe!!

  • @Sarahhenderson11
    @Sarahhenderson11 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    FINALLY. Someone who doesn't just talk, but gives a role play. GOLD for you !!!

  • @nourhanebn69
    @nourhanebn69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Idk about you girls but im LOVING THIS LOOK 😍😍

  • @alessadolan5718
    @alessadolan5718 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    it's not the conversation, it's the getting nervous for me lol

  • @peopleplacesthings6029
    @peopleplacesthings6029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Sometimes I realize i may not like talking about myself so much, men notice this, they say I am mysterious, private or secretive -I guess that's just naturally the way I am. When I feel it I do open up a bit more, but I like for them to do more talking...

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love your take on this!

    • @jbaru648
      @jbaru648 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s a masculine trait

  • @ini6325
    @ini6325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Girl I’ve been waiting for your vids. Missed you hope everything’s going well. I’d love weekly vids. I usually spend 15 mins max 🥺 💕

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm so sorryyyyyyyy :( I'll do better this time round 😬

  • @sophieb777
    @sophieb777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Excellent advice as always, Ziva! And I love the way your voice sounded when you were role playing *chef's kiss* 😙👌

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww thanks love! I hope it wasn't too weird hehe

  • @boathousedave2383
    @boathousedave2383 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Step 1: Be Good looking
    Stet 2: Don’t be not good looking

  • @Aviao100
    @Aviao100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is honestly a very useful and practical video filled with goldennuggets. Thank you so much Ziva for it.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay! Glad it was helpful! ❤️

  • @LeonaWorldwide
    @LeonaWorldwide 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I particularly enjoyed the "you know the deal" looks between roles lol.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha 😂😂

  • @jacpppp
    @jacpppp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The queen has returned. Giving us the game that men are taught since they day that they’re born 🥰

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey my loveeee ❤❤❤ .....and MOOD!!!! hahaha

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @shastregorshonirel2598
      @shastregorshonirel2598 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Erroneus!!!
      How can you women be so ignorant to belive that all men are taught GAME since they are born!?
      That is NOT reality!

  • @layparisss
    @layparisss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    THANK YOU for actually doing a role play. 🌸

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I hope it wasn't too cringe worthy hahahaha!

  • @biancag6461
    @biancag6461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Queen Ziva coming in with another video! And THAT HAIR looks ABSOLUTELY STUNNING, along with everything else. Love you Ziva. You are constantly transforming my life for the better it's actually insane. ❤️
    You are MY BEAUTIFUL QUEEN 👑

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey Bianca girl 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 I'm using yaki hair to look more natural but I am currently searching for a quality light yaki u-part wig ;) Yay I'm soooo happy that your life is evolving! You deserve it all!!!!!

  • @natasham2407
    @natasham2407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Girlll the girly voice 😍😍😍 I see what you mean by being sweet but slightly seductive !

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hehehe 💅🏽

  • @theelaurendozier
    @theelaurendozier 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is actually GOLD 😢👏🏾

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hehehehe ❤

  • @cinnamongirl7519
    @cinnamongirl7519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    HAPPY SUNDAY ZIVA! Glad you’re well and to see new content! 😊💝

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey lovely 💖 It's lovely to see you back supporting the channel even after my hiatus! Really appreciate you hun xoxo

  • @RachelSLee
    @RachelSLee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your vids!! Very helpful

  • @sincerelydrfaten3777
    @sincerelydrfaten3777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ziva i am dying to see you in a caramel color hair situation or an ash honey balayage with some big loose curls and a lot of shine and a gold barret or a cream color silky head scarf
    It would look like heaven on your skin tone in the summer times ❤xo

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oooooh you've given me something to think about hehehehehe ;)

    • @sincerelydrfaten3777
      @sincerelydrfaten3777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZIVAZIVA please do ❤

  • @christaoo4347
    @christaoo4347 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s the best dating sites you’d suggest ?

  • @peopleplacesthings6029
    @peopleplacesthings6029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have answered the job thing in different ways, recently I have said I am a student. Sometimes, I ask if that's important and they say no, and they don't ask again.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love this!

  • @sallytemraz8614
    @sallytemraz8614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl welcome back!!! You are missed! Also loved this video, you are always about practical advice ❤️

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Sally 🌹🌹🌹

  • @thefantasticnerd6076
    @thefantasticnerd6076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love how real you are ❤️

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hehehe thank you hun 💖💖💖💖💖

  • @a1youngandlivinglife
    @a1youngandlivinglife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I always have guys saying my voice sounds sexy but I think I sound weird

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Most people don't like the sound of their voice - I was like that too ❤❤

  • @ursulatiako808
    @ursulatiako808 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Ziva! I was just thinking about you yesterday! I'm glad that you are back and well xx

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey babygirl 🌹 Yes I am back and trying to be better hehe! It's lovely to see an OG subbie still here too!

  • @katechipata9934
    @katechipata9934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You’re back 😌😍🙏🏾❤️

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sure am ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jillgreene9225
    @jillgreene9225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My 1st call went for 57mins...unknown to me ..Great info shared, I ended the Convo as he was ABOUT 2 tell a story about him learning to swim....I said it is past my beauty sleep hour However I would like 2 hear the story later this week when he has time. He texted me "Good Morning" next day & Good Night after I retired for bed the next night.....I will chat him back TODAY....30 mins or less! Therefore, I prefer .30 or less however this 1st lasted 57 mins😉...He lives in a state 10 hours away therefore we may chat longer & more frequently as we get more acquainted🥰

    • @sethtenrec
      @sethtenrec 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Game playing, yeah that will end well…

  • @chanunique6766
    @chanunique6766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey hun ☺️ I really wanna know how you feel about dating someone older and it being long distance?? Really struggling atm with a older guy I met on bumble. We talk a lot on the phone and we haven’t met as yet but he wants me to FaceTime before meeting, which is fine but I get really nervous and always make up an excuse of why I can’t 😔 I’m not sure if it’s worth it now because of the distance and if it could actually work out. Could really do with your help xoxo

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hey love 💖 I wrote a whole response and it deleted itself :( I hope it is in your notifications. I was basically saying to be careful with your situation as he might not even have an intention of meeting after speaking to you over a long period of time. My best advice is for you to not put all of your eggs into his basket! xxxx

    • @chanunique6766
      @chanunique6766 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZIVAZIVA thank for the advice hun xx

  • @RandomMcRandomness
    @RandomMcRandomness 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All of that is a waste of time if you don't want the same thing. 🙄🤷‍♀️

  • @annaa668
    @annaa668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I never have any calls before I meet anyone, I find texting is enough to gather information if someone is worth meeting, otherwise they think they can call anytime.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As long as it works for you and you're able to get the information that you need, then it's a win win or you xxx

    • @lizcarol1702
      @lizcarol1702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What if he's not a good communicator? Uses foul language or rude? Not a good listener? These things can be determined before meeting.

    • @TheMzperfect1994
      @TheMzperfect1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What questions do you ask while texting to determine if they are worth meeting?

    • @TheMzperfect1994
      @TheMzperfect1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What questions do you ask?

  • @laramartinez9252
    @laramartinez9252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love it 💖💕 missed youuuuu

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey hun :) Missed you ladies moreeeee ❤️❤️

  • @shaunip345
    @shaunip345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How does this work face-to-face? You randomly meet at a restaurant or an outing for example? I'm soo new to this.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey hun, if you have met organically and have exchanged numbers and then have your first phone call, then this will work the same way. I hope I am understanding your question properly ❤️

  • @stargoodman.7387
    @stargoodman.7387 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🥰 I Missed you, Glad to see you happy & healthy Beautiful. Great advice as always! Keep shining ⭐️❤️

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello my love! I really appreciate your support even after my time away from youtube ❤️ Sending you lots of positive energy today!!!!!!!!!

  • @_ladiosanegra
    @_ladiosanegra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Havent even watched this yet and I KNOW this is going to be SOOO good

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hehehe 🙈 after watching I hope your thoughts haven't changed lol xoxo

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@_ladiosanegra This means a lot to me! I really appreciate you! Wishing you a lovely Sunday hun xoxo

  • @BRIANIGANI
    @BRIANIGANI 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If the pandemic has affected his business then he is not in a position to date? So, what does she do and what would make her be in a position to date? Go shopping? Anything with shopping? Luxury? Wow! On her account or on his?
    I'm just curious. I'd like to know how it works.

  • @MissTracyyy223
    @MissTracyyy223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely loved this video and you looked so stunning 😍 thanks for another lovely video ziva 💕

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My pleasure 😊💕💕💕💕

    • @Highlyfavoured_
      @Highlyfavoured_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZIVAZIVA morning my love

    • @Highlyfavoured_
      @Highlyfavoured_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Highlyfavoured_ Hey babygirl

  • @leahr.1475
    @leahr.1475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    First phone call is 10 mins MAX, lol

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      10 - 15 is good! I agree. As long as you have all of the answers that you need, then you're good to exist the call hehe!

  • @souma3137
    @souma3137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I missed your videos lovely ziva ❤️ happy to see you again

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry I uploaded later than I originally said 💖

    • @souma3137
      @souma3137 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZIVAZIVA no worries I just hope everything is good and you are doing well

  • @michaelenns8872
    @michaelenns8872 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Phone call conversations in 2022??? They still happen? There are still girls out there that are open for a phone call conversation???
    All the girls I meet they only want to text.... text, text and text.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha I know right?! Bring back the og phone call hehe ☎️

  • @EbonyRager
    @EbonyRager 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Welcome back beautiful 💙✨

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey sweetie 💖

  • @MissTracyyy223
    @MissTracyyy223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was trying to practice speaking in a feminine tone, i was trying to sound like you because your voice is so lovely, but instead i sound like a frog 😂 urgh i don't have a high pitched soft voice like most women 😑 but I'll keep trying anyways

  • @Sara-vh6sq
    @Sara-vh6sq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Ziva... love your video... for some reason every guy I talk to wants to keep me on the phone and talk my ear off with questions🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️. The shortest call I had is about 25mins.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahaha this made me laugh because it is so true! This is why the phone call exist strategy is necessary hehe x

    • @khassit.9142
      @khassit.9142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omgeee yesss! 🙄🙄

  • @natashadickson4819
    @natashadickson4819 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Ziva

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      HNY to you and your loved ones 🎊🎉

  • @t.chauma
    @t.chauma 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you said Daaaviiid, I couldn’t help but chuckle 🤭, I do like some of these tips! Thank you for this video

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂 hehe and yay I’m glad you liked some of the advice x

  • @claraperry8718
    @claraperry8718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your such a clever girl! this worked a treat!!! Thank you so much xx

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it helped! hehe

  • @efo9640
    @efo9640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this Ziva 🥰 what's the oldest age gap you go for?

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey girly! I would say 30 years is the max for me to take somebody seriously x

  • @saloni495
    @saloni495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I missed you❤️ yay you uploaded❤️ also, pls more videos on self improvement

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I missed you ladies too Saloni 🌹 Okay I will add more self improvement videos to my video to-do list!

  • @ColouredSoul19
    @ColouredSoul19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your facial expressions always make me laugh.. This video came at the right time for me.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey sweetie ❤ You've been such a loyal subbie over the years! I really appreciate you so I am happy that this video came bang on time for you hehe

  • @lindabliss4674
    @lindabliss4674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We missed you Ziva ❤️

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awww I'm happy to hear that ❤️ I wasn't sure if you ladies were going to be over me for doing a disappearing act :( lol..... I missed you all too!!!

  • @user-ih4fd9sf8x
    @user-ih4fd9sf8x 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Ziva. I have a question for you... my orthodontist seems to want to approach me, and he compliments me a lot when Im feeling shy, yet the times I went feeling more confident (due to clothes, better mood, and so forth) he doesn’t say much. He is a good looking man but he was always a little chubby so I think he maybe doesn’t have that much confidence? Maybe he gets intimidated when I feel super confident? I would love to know what do you think?? Thanks love. You are glowing 💗 🌸 🌺 🌹

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe he felt reeeaaaallllyyyy attracted to you on the days when you went to your appointments more done up..? I doubt that he feels intimidated by a beautiful woman but maybe he simply is just trying to avoid staring at you inappropriately. I would probably book my next appointment close to lunch time and ask him if there are any cute places for lunch nearby..... The ball is then in his court to follow that up

    • @user-ih4fd9sf8x
      @user-ih4fd9sf8x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ZIVAZIVA I think you are right, maybe he tried to avoid being blatantly obvious. Thank you for replying and for your advice honey! You are a very smart, beautiful woman, and I just love the fact that I found your channel. I will try what you told me when I see him in my next appointment 😌💗 you are the best! 🌸

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-ih4fd9sf8x Good luck sweetie pie ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-ih4fd9sf8x 🙏🙏🙏

    • @jessicaso4075
      @jessicaso4075 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Any updates? Hahaha

  • @Rosa-qg3xp
    @Rosa-qg3xp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I think it’s so rude for anyone to ask a person “what do you do?” Some people don’t realize they are being rude. I’m thinking “none of your business.” Lol

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂 It can come across a little shady to be fair haha

  • @jessicaso4075
    @jessicaso4075 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hate phone calls, thanks for the video

  • @auroragold799
    @auroragold799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was really good because I just had a convo on the phone for the 1st time with someone I been texting on and off for awhile and he told me he moved for better opportunities but didn’t tell me what they are Just said he’s trying to run his own business so he asked when am I free and I asked him when is he free aswell cause he said he worked at a warehouse and he was just like I can make something happen I can get free time so idk I’m confused

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Trying to run his business sounds weird to me .... it sounds like he is struggling to run it but then he works in a warehouse 😂 He couldn't keep up with his own lies lol

    • @auroragold799
      @auroragold799 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZIVAZIVA thank you so much for replying back I to also smell bullshit from him lol

  • @tubelocal9514
    @tubelocal9514 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    so if his business has been affected, dont date him? What if his business is fine, but gets affected later, dump him? absolutly no logic in this. dating based on money is insane.

  • @nikkiefrancis9850
    @nikkiefrancis9850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Who calls who first should I wait for his call? Or do I call he gave me his number first..

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If he has your number, then of course let him phone. If he gave you his card and you have his number and did not give him yours, then send a voicenote perhaps x

    • @nikkiefrancis9850
      @nikkiefrancis9850 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZIVAZIVA thank you..

  • @redroselace9545
    @redroselace9545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why do some guys keep asking what did I do for the weekend every week its so annoying 🙄?

    • @shirleykean3937
      @shirleykean3937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sounds like they have nothing better to ask you.

    • @LaDeeDah
      @LaDeeDah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Seriously. Or if they ask if you have any "fun" plans. Did you have fun? Are you having "fun"? Like no

    • @jacpppp
      @jacpppp 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LaDeeDah 😂😂😂😂

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I guess it's just small talk.... hehe

  • @amirah6839
    @amirah6839 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Missed youuuu💕

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Missed you too Amirah 💖💕

  • @rachael862
    @rachael862 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gorgeous 🎉🎉❤

  • @adaintydream8759
    @adaintydream8759 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How did i miss this?
    I was thinking of you girl and i searched for your channel and i found this video?
    I was thinking Ziva didn’t upload yet

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey sweetie :)))) I'm happy you found this video in the end hehe xoxo

  • @ellamarquardsen
    @ellamarquardsen ปีที่แล้ว

    We are gonna talk tommorow and I’m so excited!

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope it went as you planned x

  • @StreetBikeTakeoverYT
    @StreetBikeTakeoverYT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The amount of mind games and entitlement that goes on with dating in generation is repulsive. No wonder guys are going to AMS for dating advice

  • @LA-dv4uu
    @LA-dv4uu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Missed you!

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too!! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @peacefullybliss4789
    @peacefullybliss4789 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful ☺️

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay I’m pleased! ♥️

  • @squeakumsthehottie
    @squeakumsthehottie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl u shoot and dont miss! LOL

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hehe 😻

  • @Anngarr-AG
    @Anngarr-AG 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoyed the video, but you didn't talk about video call

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will take this on board for my next videos. I definitely could have gone into more detail ❤️

  • @preciousr.133
    @preciousr.133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Zivaaaaaaaaa

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Darlinggggggggg

  • @natashadickson4819
    @natashadickson4819 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was brilliant. Thank you.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only seeing this now Natasha! I’m glad this video was helpful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @thekarmendanielle
    @thekarmendanielle 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😘😘😘

  • @Eire4life
    @Eire4life ปีที่แล้ว +2

    U must catch em out wtf that’s not just men. Trust your instincts and don’t judge too sooon, I think there is a double standard. This is carp, god datings gone wrong. If a girl went about things this way I drop her quick, not all men are stupid and they will see what you’re doing. I’ve deliberately not told women of my finances for this reason. So disingenuous,so very very shallow, I’m qualified in human behaviour, it’s what I do so again do one, do you even have any qualifications? I’ve worked extremely hard for what I’ve got-u wouldn’t last 5 mins in an intellectual DEBATE, “THE JIG IS UP” , OK YODA 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  ปีที่แล้ว

      Judging by your comment, I can tell you’re not being honest about having any type of finances. The jig is up 🫣

    • @Eire4life
      @Eire4life ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZIVAZIVA and there you go again judging , , I’m highly qualified and highly paid idiot. So sad to see it’s all about the dollar, I suggest you sort your own low resolution thinking, and don’t insult me , Don’t reply, I seriously don’t give a shit, take your outdated narcissism and do one

    • @Eire4life
      @Eire4life ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not being honest- the cheek-don’t judge men on your LOW standards. In fact go get a psych degree like I did and maybe I’ll listen.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Eire4life Please make use of the life your mother gave you instead of using it to spread negativity and stupidity. Find someone your own size to pick on. I'm sure you would be scared to be rude to a man in real life so you resort to trolling under my videos.

    • @Eire4life
      @Eire4life ปีที่แล้ว

      One more thing “please under no circumstances mention my mother” have some basic respect, that’s vile

  • @Crazy_Dashcam_Videos
    @Crazy_Dashcam_Videos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the advice women are getting? 🤔

  • @tommiegreen
    @tommiegreen ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Damn, if his business has been affected than he’s not worth dating? I should have known you were a digger.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I forgot women should aim to date the bottom of the barrel 💡

    • @forddreamsdofly546
      @forddreamsdofly546 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was looking for this comment and you did not disappoint.

  • @miloudivyne
    @miloudivyne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I think the moment a man asks what you do for work is the ultimate red flag for he's dusty. It's a disrespect. Why does a man need to know that information, it's irrelevant.

    • @TaureanDreams
      @TaureanDreams 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I honestly feel that asking what someone do is natural....however, I do stay vague. I am a tax manager at a large firm, but I always say I support a team of tax accountants. That sounds like I am a secretary.

    • @miloudivyne
      @miloudivyne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@TaureanDreams Yes its natural for dusty men. They usually ask what you do so they can judge whether you have your own money so you won't worry about getting any of theirs. Trust its not a natural question for a man that sees long-term or has confidence.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Haha it really is irrelevant ..... but sometimes they will ask because it is a normal question to ask when getting to know somebody but I see what you mean hehehe x

    • @ShanaJahsintaWalters
      @ShanaJahsintaWalters 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@ZIVAZIVA Ye. They are going to ask regardless of how wealthy they are.

    • @redroselace9545
      @redroselace9545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absolutely

  • @TC-yx1qt
    @TC-yx1qt ปีที่แล้ว

    So you say to lie to men if the girl is out of the job and say you've only had your hours cut.. then you say if the guys' job isn't good enough to drop the call. #forthestreets

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  ปีที่แล้ว

      Your hashtag is backwards 😯 This is the exact opposite of being 'for the streets' dumbo

  • @Eire4life
    @Eire4life ปีที่แล้ว

    What do you do for work!!? Zzzzzzzzzzzzz😆

  • @ShanaJahsintaWalters
    @ShanaJahsintaWalters 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    @Ziva, I think that I might have found a splenda (sugar) daddy. His offer does sound like what I need right now since I've been unemployed now for a year. I've known him for almost three years now.
    The reason I am hesitating though is not only is he married but I do talk to his wife whenever I see her. Nothing deep, just causal talk. What should I do?

    • @cinnamongirl7519
      @cinnamongirl7519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Follow your intuition if you’re having reservations it’s probably for good reason!

    • @ShanaJahsintaWalters
      @ShanaJahsintaWalters 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cinnamongirl7519 The pros outweight the cons.

    • @JaqoBlaque
      @JaqoBlaque 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Run! Run! Run! Whatever he’s offering will always be temporary. Your self respect and dignity out weigh the pros

    • @ShanaJahsintaWalters
      @ShanaJahsintaWalters 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JaqoBlaque Of course it is going to be temporary. I'm not looking for anything long term with the dude. A year is too long in my opinion.

    • @JaqoBlaque
      @JaqoBlaque 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ShanaJahsintaWalters 👌🏾 we all have lessons to learn in life.

  • @thecaninecollective-
    @thecaninecollective- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Instead of making a video extremely biased for women how about making a overall video trying to help more people have in depth conversations to get into relationships instead of being picky and fake. This video is terrible. You litterly are encouraging people to lie and be fake.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can’t make an unbiased video since I am a woman, I can only speak from a woman’s perspective. Perhaps you should make a video on both experiences if you have experiences of both sides

  • @Butterfly-gu3gk
    @Butterfly-gu3gk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you be a little bit more natural in your way of talking, we re just girls in this chanel you don’t have to talk that way...

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Awww of course, I'll change my voice just for you

  • @ghostgutarist5234
    @ghostgutarist5234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    BS

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      BS = brilliant speech 🙏

  • @peopleplacesthings6029
    @peopleplacesthings6029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How much time do you invest in online, app dating etc. @Ziva

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wasn't spending much time on there at all until recently because things in London are now open again! I am on Hinge almost daily because I have a few conversations going xxx