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I literally was at the Bar waiting for my friend at the Four seasons, when I saw a handsome gentleman working on his computer at one of the cocktail tables. I caught eyes with him and looked away. I was wearing a pretty dress with a little cardigan sweater over it. I hung my sweater on the back of my chair and pretended I didn’t notice. The man came over and picked up my sweater and squeezed my arm and handed me my sweater. I said thank you and of course my face turned red ☺️so I panicked. Then my friend arrived and his colleague arrived. OMG 😳 I couldn’t believe the old hanky trick worked. It was excellent practice. Next time I will work on not panicking. Literally, this man was Gorgeous and I freaked out! 😂
Ooooh you have the tactics so that’s a great start 🤪
Ahh! Such a cute and omg story haha. 🥰🤣
Cute and hilarious!
🤣🤣🤣 I’ve panicked before too I know the feeling
Lol you were in a bar! Girls n guys go there to get picked. Everyone knows that. So it's no biggie
That background is so pretty against your skin tone 😍
Awwww thank you babygirl!!!!
@@ZIVAZIVA don't mind me, I'm only here to learn the body language and signals you'll diss out that I'm not familiar with. Lol
So I can be gamed sand know what I'm up against 💜💮🍓
Frrr
I laughed all the way whilst watching this video. I love this video. You’re so honest and straight to the point. Time is going. We have no time for dancing around subjects. You’re my type of person
Clearly you are my spirit animal then because you totally GET IT hehe 😜
I live in a quite urban area so generally attract bums. I can't wait for lockdown to be lifted so i can go to designer stores and high end restaurants in central london and hopefully attract a better calibre of men.
Not hopefully; definitely 💅🏽 hehe xoxo
lolol! I was just thinking this myself! I only attract bums and scrubs. Grant it, I'm mostly walking to run errands. I guess I too need to go to sophisticated places to attract a better calibre of men.
Ty for the advice 💛
@@Meeounn were you able to work on this?
Hello Ziva, your mini lessons are “gold”. Thanks.
Ooooh thank you and you’re welcome 💝🙈
“A teardrop underneath your foundation...” Lmao
Guuurrrrrlllllll 👀
My future self will thank me for watching this video. Thank you, Z!
I know that’s right 💅🏾 hehe
Ayeee this lady knows what she’s talking about 😂💯 those techniques would definitely work on me
Omg! Love you! I just happened upon your channel and I will be watching all of your videos! You share so much of my social/life ideologies. A good portion of it all has to do with self-brand/self-branding. I am a strong believer that everyone should have a self-brand (personal brand) similar to that of a professional organization. I know that may sound weird or even outlandish, but each day we go to the office /work. One of our main objectives is to ensure that we are in compliance with the company's brand. Why can't we do the same for ourselves! Starting with our personal style(fashion), intellect, etiquette, etc... Love your videos! Continue to do well! Btw, you are beautiful!
Hey Bernie 💕 your ideas are most likely too out there for most people who simply live inside the box their entire lives - I personally love that you have a different point of view! It makes the world more interesting that way! I’m pleased to found my channel 🥳💜
What about if guys never approach me at all? 😭 like no low quality men or high value, I just get stares. I try to smile but they only look away😔
Always grateful for your amazing content 💖 Btw you look absolutely radiant in the video thumbnail!
Hey Sara! I hope you found these tips to be helpful and realistic :) & thank you re thumbnail ❤️
Hey Ziva, good to see, you’re glowing different 🔥🔥 I’m busy prepping myself for June 21, can’t wait 😝
Oooooh thanks girl! Yaaasss I'm living for your self prep hehe
Your nails are always so neat and perfect!
Oooh thank you! 💅🏽
My babe is back💕
Looking gorgeous and classy as always:)
Ooooh thank you my love 💖💖💖
These masks are killing me. You can't smile underneath them. 😢🤷🏾♀️☹️
Ikr I'm soooo looking forward to them being over! lol
Girl, you know Tyra taught us to 'smize'! (smile with your eyes)
I attracted and attractive guy while having my mask on. Sometimes they look at the eyes men are predators and they know what they want no matter what.
@@littlegirlblue9829 exactly
Another great video Ziva! Really becoming a fan 👌🏽😍
Awww :))) Happy to hear that Sejal 🙈❤️
I love chanel too its more subtle. As far as stereo types you are so right. I dated an Italian guy who said he goes out his way not to dress Italian in certain types of suits whatever that means. He was in business.
Awww bless him hehe
Very helpful!! Thank you! I love your energy!
Glad it was helpful hun 🌹
Beautiful Ziva, thank you🤗😍
Thank you darling 🌹🌹🌹
Any ladies from Hong Kong watching this amazing channel as well?
Omg Ziva please please please do a makeup tutorial on this look (and or the looks on your latest videos) you look 🔥 love you!
Giiirrrrllll my makeup videos are 🤢 Unfortunately I don't think that is my calling 😭 lol .... Love you too hun xoxo
Great, very useful video and you look amazing as always!
Awwww thank you so much sweetie 💖💞
Too much wisdom in one video! 🙏🏾❤️
Oooh thank you girl 💖
Thank you for the advice and tactics you give us ❤️❤️❤️
I hope this was helpful my love ♥️❤️♥️
This is so helpful since lockdown is ending soon. ZIVA do you have a like a group chat for women who are based around London it would be great to get more tips. & I can feel the silent judgment from my actual friends haha x?
I’m glad you found this helpful Georgina 🤎
I don’t have a group anymore but I’m sure there are forums online 💞
Georgina can you start one please I’ll join you, that’s a lovely idea! Most are on Facebook and I don’t have Facebook
@@Ela-vw9gv yeah sure if people will join lmao. What do you think WhatsApp ?x
@@rochellegeorgina6710 I think wadsapp will be great!
Love, I undetstand what you ment, I just couldn't help but laugh imagining 5 full seconds of eye contact after bumping into each other 😋☺🍓
I usually do three🌸🧜♀️
Love 🎀
I meant including apologising for bumping into them x
@@ZIVAZIVA I know, love, it just made me giggle imagining it
Yay! You uploaded 🥰
Sure did 🤩 Thank you for watching 🌺🌹♥️
@@ZIVAZIVA you’re welcome! 😊 your channel is so helpful.
Hi Ziva you are on point 💯💯💯💯 i am enjoying every one of your videos, you are really go...........od at what you do, keep up the good work,💣 excellent 💥 i am learning so much thanks .
I appreciate that! Thank you so much hun 🤗💗💗
Bless bbygirl, I want U to have the best ever year too💖💖..!!! Great video ur voice is so soothing 🥰 I’m also lovin ur new merch I got me on eyes pon that mug it’ll be perfect for me morning herbal tea 🍵🙌🏽✨✨✨
Haha that would be such a diva-ish way to start your day! LOVE ITTTT lol 🌹
Great advice. I need to take into account and practice what you suggested. Because i gets ZERO approaches by guys.
You got this!
She said a gang 😂😂😂
Giiirrlll 😂😂
That is a pretty background, is that paint (name color) or a back drop. Im thinking about starting my own channel that's why I asked. I love your videos.
Go for it! :) My background is fabric - here is the Amazon link: www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B07DLZGLY9/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o05_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
@@ZIVAZIVA thank you so much!
Looking good girl! ❤️❤️❤️💎 💎💎 Quick question are your brows microbladed? Your eyes are beautiful. Another question what method are you using to learn Portuguese? I want to learn another language but trying to figure out where to start. Thanks for your input.
Wow thanks for the video! I definitely agree. However I live in Scandinavia and people (guys) don’t really approach each other like this compared to eg. US that I’ve experienced. Or then they’re just drunk in a bar trying to get me back home 😅 It’s a shame, but I’ll still give these tips a shot.
I have noticed that men with nothing to offer will approach a woman without a second thought; whereas men with value will approach a lot less. I think it is the same wherever you are. I do agree that American men can be very direct.
Thank you Ziva! I love your brain. Looking so beautiful
😊 thank you girl 💖💖💖
So happy to find your channel ☺️☺️☺️☺️
I’m happy you did too girlie 💕🎀🥹💝
This is so helpful. I went to a bar with my bestie last night and practiced lol
I hope it went well ♥️
@@ZIVAZIVA it did!
Ziva I absolutely love your pink background. What did you do to get it? Is it a green screen? Love you lots!!
It’s fabric that I bought on Amazon 💞 This is the link to the exact fabric that I have used in this video: www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B07DLZGLY9?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title
You are the sweetest Ziva, thank you so much for sharing ❤️❤️
Curly French fries 🍟?? I'm done with you 😑🤣
I had to 🙈😯 haha
Hey Ziva! So I'm not a stalker or anything I just really enjoy your videos lmaooo. I have a question because I do wonder how exactly do I find these places online? How do I search up where men like this usually are? If this is a silly question I get it lol but I just want to be prepared for the summer when I hit the SKREETS lmao. Also, your tips got me further than ever with the men I am going for thanks so much! Btw again im not a stalker its jusr so weird talking to people I find on the internet is all LOL.
Hey Hannah 💞 Firstly google the most affluent areas in your city; then in those areas use google maps to see the restaurants/ shopping centres/ brasseries etc and simply take yourself to as many as you like the look of... that is where I think you should start. It is also a bonus if you go to places bang in the middle of residential streets in those affluent areas because the bulk of the people in there will most definitely live exactly where you want to be!
I also look at the photos shared on google for any place before I go so that I can see a few photos of the inside of the venue to see if it has a bar seating area and also (hopefully) if it has photos showing customers eating! This is a huge tell tale sign of the types of crowds that go to that venue. Also look at the £££ set by google!
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@@ZIVAZIVA Girl! We don’t deserve you!! lol Thank you for ur reply and Im def gonna try this. That is HELLA smart!!! The Google photo is perf. cause some places can appear more upscale than they actually are! Okay let me get to work. XoXo ur the best!❤️❤️
I'm in Lancaster at the moment so freestyling is a bit weird because it's literally a student city. I'm so annoyed 😅
Can you do a skin care video for your body. My skin on my body has gotten so dry. I'm using oil and lotion. I'll be adding gel.
I only use baby products because I’m sensitive to everything... My body care routine is simply hair removal, exfoliation and coco butter 🧖🏽♀️💅🏾
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Which baby products you use please?
I love your user name
@@sanaa8367 i love aveeno
I live in France. Paris precisely. Right now, unfortunately all the restaurants are closed.
I really want to try these tips because I want to have a new friend circle and maybe a sugar daddy too.
I would like to be kept for real.
I just need to loose weight since I am overweight and it’s inhibiting my confidence so much it’s bad.
Since you're in lockdown it's the perfect time for you to go hard with your fitness journey to regain the confidence you have lost. This lockdown seems to be a blessing in disguise for you hun ❤️
@@ZIVAZIVA thank you so much for your advice. I will do so !
Ugh girl I feel you ! I’m in Paris too, definitely can’t wait for restaurants to open againt and going on datesss 🤗✨ Try intermittent fasting, it helped me loose weight 💖
@@bambyndiaye9132 Girrrl ! Can’t wait also ! Let’s get this moneyyy ! La kishta on a dit 💸💸💸
Yes thanks for the tips !
@@futureriche8471 💰💰💰 on va se mettre bien 🤩 tu as des endroits préférés à Paris pour freestyle ?
So since every guy that I’ve been approached by looked like "big Ed" I’ll try these tips but since you live in London I’m actually coming to there soon so can you tell me about the places that most rich good looking guys are at... my friend said that one of places that rich men go to is the Shard is this right & if not... any suggestions ??
Btw I love your videos they’re so on point & entertaining 💋❤️
I don’t know big Ed but I’m presuming he is cringe to you lol .... the Shard is ok but it is busier when offices are open. My advice is for you to hang out in Chelsea, South Kensington, Knightsbridge, Mayfair and Marylebone and try out different restaurants, brasseries, shopping centres etc 🤎🤍
ZIVA ok thank you fingers crossed 😂❤️
What to do in london during covid? I just go hyde park for walks randomly just for fitness purpose but no one approaches lol
lolo pari yes 😭😭😭
@@veronicajata3121 Oh him lol
Not a tear drop!
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I can't say I agree with not approaching men. I have had men approach me and it took them months to drum up the courage.
He finally plucked up the courage yay lol xx
@@ZIVAZIVA I am talking about several men. LOL!!!
@@ShanaJahsintaWalters seems like you are intimidating and/or harsh. Even in your manner of speech and that is just based on reading your comment. If I was a guy I'd be scared to approach you as well. Js
@@lavishlovergirl I have no idea what the hell you are talking about. If the guy never even heard me open my mouth, what would stop him from approaching me? Please stop making shit up.
@@ShanaJahsintaWalters your energy is full of shit. I can't make that up.
I can only explain this to you but I can't understand it for you babe
Thank you
Thank YOU for watching❣️
I want to be ziva’s friend 😩 she’s so cool.
Then let's be friends 🤪 hehe
Ok I will make sure to keep a pair of tangled earphones on hand.
If you stay ready, you don't have to get ready 💅🏽 lol
A bit off topic, but what kind of dates should we be accepting from men? Since no restaurants or bars are open there aren’t much options
I want to know too!
At the moment, I personally would tell them that I prefer to wait until we can have a romantic dinner in a restaurant after lockdown. If you're in the UK it is technically illegal to meet up outside of your bubble and date etc so let that also be your reasoning. If you are have been dating a man for a looooong time then of course meeting up for a stroll or something is entirely different x
@@ZIVAZIVA will this work for guys too?
“Curly French Fries”, ma’am😂😂😂
Hehehehe
What are some affluent areas places or cafes in London? Any suggestions
Knightsbridge, Chelsea, Kensington, Marylebone, Mayfair are a few areas to hang out in hun ❤️
@@ZIVAZIVA I just noticed you are from london too & your content is so much similar to mine!! Girl we need to hang out! What's your instagram?
Elan cafe lots of flashy Arab men around there
I use ed hardy. But I always get compliments on it from men and women
Ooh I might have to check it out 🤪
Ziva, last night / this morning I dreamt that you had a course on teachable..... I'm just saying
Lol I received the hint haha ♥️ love itttttttttt!!!
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First!!
Yaaaay 💖💖💖
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If 10s don't approach you that means you are not a 10. About to get your body moving.. But rewarding a man a 10 for his money is pretty shallow though 😅
Hi Ziva, what do you think of ladies that go out in their Pjs and dressing gown? it looks terrible doesnt it?
It is crazy because we all know that they haven't bathed their skin or brushed their teeth yet and they are out breathing on everybody lol 🤢 ew
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Nice look
Thank you!
CAN you please ..show no doubt.. out together styles that will hit if your personally matches? I'd love to just have a "new "outerwear hidden on the prowl" ...bangers idk i think it be fun and I'd take your examples for sure 😊
I have an outfits video coming soon - just in the process of editing 💞
@@ZIVAZIVA omygosh Thank-you ...your amazing! Guess I'm gonna have to make an insta account xoxo
What's an example of what an answer could be to: so why are you here tonight? I know the info is valuable so I don't expect you to a everything but maybe what you would say to this question
“Just having a drink”…. Remember he doesn’t actually care why you’re there - it’s just small talk while he gets a feel for if you’re waiting for your bf 🙃
What if im not beautiful
Don’t worry about it, she’s obviously very up her own ass it’s cringe af when she says someone probably looks ‘urban’ like girl you are black, why are you distancing yourself from words that are used to describe people of your race it’s giving ‘pick me’ ‘I’m not like them’ in her straight hair wig lmao, it’s called insecurity & hating who you really are & also bashing women through the whole video to elevate herself, her attitude makes her unattractive af you can put glitter on a piece of pop it’s still a piece of poo so be yourself & you’ll attract the right person :) she’s obviously attracted the wrong people to be so self loathing & try & put on such a fake persona & distance herself so much from her roots
£700.00 sandals. Ouch :(
Ouch but cute 😍
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@@ZIVAZIVA can i ask you a question, i noticed that some girls get approached or even pursued by men oftenly while others don't . Why in your opinion that is happening ?
Sista thank you for putting these women on game. The whole "I'm a diva" thing is not working with guys. Btw I just come to your channel just to check you out.
This crap only works on simps
I hope you do an on foot video in yezzy slides or black leather boots 😻
Professional gold diggers
Would you prefer I do videos on places to meet men with no ambition?