I love that you said make the most of what you have. Took me years to understand this. At 24, I cannot be another woman I saw on IG but I can the sexiest version of me🤗
the everyday man really isnt looking for an IG model..granted yes there are SOME men who fantasize but the everyday man is easily attracted to the everyday woman....the best version of herself
One thing I learned is when being a beautiful woman is that high-quality men aren't brave to approach you IRL. It's about opening up the space for conversation in a simple way for it to expand. You can look like the prettiest woman in the world and still not be approached if your body language says otherwise and if you can't carry a conversation in an interesting manner.
While I do agree, there can be another reason they don’t approach you which is that they don’t think they can afford you. You can look that good and therefore high maintenance to them.
Its a gift and a curse. They will always ASSUME you are taken. Plenty of guys says to me " I know somebody hitting that" 😒. Im listen man im the most single beautiful girl out there.
@@laundrybasket2689 agreed, most men are going to be rejected when approaching women anyway. I still approach myself as there really isnt any other way as a guy to get an abundance of dating options. Most women especially when they are young never have to appraoch a man, and they can still have 20 times the dating options of an average man.
I totally agree with these tips. Appearance matters. You attract men with your looks and you keep them with your inner beauty. You look gorgeous, babe! 😍
True. I don’t attract men because I’m not beautiful. I’m turning 28 in September, and have never dated nor had sex. It’s sad how much appearance affects your everyday life. I know for a fact, that guys would give me a chance, if i was physically attractive.
@@RoosaM88 are u trolling ???! 28 NEVER had sex or a date ??? Your trolling right..I know men ..I'm one ..It don't take MUCH to find a man to have sex with if you REALLY want to have sex ..All u have to do is walk down the street ...
i started looking my best every morning when i'm going to work. who knows if i will ever wake up another day and get the chance to look pretty. ty hunny you helped me with my journey.
I started looking pretty to work too. I used to save my best outfits & makeup for special occasions but my mentality has changed. The world is my runway and everyday is a special occasion.
you know girls I think if we are really healthy looking that's alredy abpve average. Imagine beautiful shiny hair, haelthy radieant skin, amazing face shape
I am working extra hard on my looks now that I am 18 and attending college later this fall. This will be a forever process, but already I did a self care day. I’m going shopping, doing my hair, shaving, threading my eyebrows. The whole 9! This video came just one time.💓
It absolutely will be an ongoing journey but it is so positive that you are starting this journey now instead of well into your 20s. Good for you for beginning now! ♥️
This will be one of the best times to meet your future mate as well because you both will be attending college with the same mind frame, starting a successful future. Because believe me, when you get passed getting your degree and start working. It's easy to get in a rut due to being tired after work and find yourself going to work, going to the store and going home. I say this to say, maximize this time in college and focus on meeting your husband there and you both are successful in your careers and have finances.
The reason she is saying this is because men think of the scale differently than we do. He’s trash but watch Kevin Samuels to understand why she said that. Most people are average
@@mandalaqueen828 I would never, ever click on anything with Kevin Samuels. He and others like him want us women to buy into that narrative of us being less- than, but it's not true.
@@mandalaqueen828 never watch Kevin Samuels . He just wants to put women down. He was an image consultant turned “high value man” he tries to compete with women too much seems like he’s trying to hit the same target if you ask me 👀
I also think getting fit helps soo much, like when I lost some good weight many guys were looking at me and I even got begged for my phone number. Now I gained some again, because of anxiety and I had depression, only very old man look at me, but I want someone near my age, so I will put the work again.
I need to gain weight because being skinny makes me look too young and I get chatted up by teenagers rather than grown men. Having some curves and meat on your bones is attractive girl but I agree being fit and healthy is extremely important whatever weight you are x
Don't do it for anyone but yourself. What if you gain weight again? he will leave and the cycle continues. The right one will like you the way you are. Stop stressing yourself but love yourself and do you. Love and light.
Speaking a LOT of sense, as always Ziva! Especially about men being visual creatures so dress for the type of man you WANT to attract. Thanks for this ❤️
As a man I want to thank you for this video. Men and women are different. We think differently and what we want in the opposite gender is different. You are breaking it down for these ladies, and they will listen to you. And some of us understand that a woman can wear tight and revealing clothing and not be promiscuous but that type of dress invites unwanted attention men don’t want to deal with. Again, thank you.
Ziva I’m having the worst luck on dating apps! Men will arrange a date to a low quality restaurant, get offended if i request something better, do not follow through on their dates, do not offer compensation for transportation, or just want to play pen pal. Please make a video on how to navigate online dating! It’s gotten worse since the pandemic. Btw u look gorgeous ❤️
Hey sweetie, I did a video on this a while ago but maybe try a different dating app like Hinge..? I am on there and so far so good. Also, it might suit you better to be approached organically in person x
I am wasting so much time with my life and I am so unhappy. Thanks for being upfront and honest with me and the other's who just sit around and do nothing about it. Like, I have been doing for 30 years now.
Love this video! I appreciate the encouraging words and tough love so to speak. I totally agree with everything that you said. It's a hard pill to swallow that some of the attention may come from how we dress when we initially think we are dressing the right way. Especially when we are in this transition period of changing our style. Love you! thank you for the video! They really help me!
The great thing about weightloss is that it is doable :) Maybe not easily done because there is lots of discipline that goes into it but weight can come off with as little as a choice for a change in lifestyle ♥️ Good luck with this my love!
I agree with always looking your very best when presenting yourself to the world...the funny thing is I'm usually approached more when I'm at my most relaxed state as far was my appearance. Men seem to feel far more comfortable and less intimidated then.
That’s good but it depends less on approaches and more on the quality who are approaching. As long as they are the men who you are interested in who approach on your less made up days, then it’s a win win x
You are definitely not average! I can tell even though you have hair and makeup on. I totally understand when you were talking about your pretty sisters. I always have had really beautiful girlfriends, and while I do feel beautiful sometimes, if I was ever with my friends they would get all of the attention. It didn't make me jealous, it was actually fun to watch. And I did start to borrow some of the things that they did, i.e. more makeup, hair extensions, better posture, sexier clothes and it puts me 'in the running' as you said :) I have always dressed super conservatively like a librarian or teacher and I am finally shedding all of that and actually looking cute now out in public. It's hard but I have to do it.
I love your outlook - when you mentioned that you found it interesting to watch your friends getting attention without making you feel any jealousy. Good for you with your sexy revamp! Go girl !!!
Being with a narcissist zapped all my femininity and happiness out of me. I don't even like taking pics of myself. I feel so drained and hopeless. I don't think I'll find it again until I leave. They never compliment you and make you feel like there's something wrong with you
I understand what you’re saying because I’ve also experienced something similar. What I have realised is that the same way you want him to be more complimentary towards you, is the same way he does not want to be more complimentary towards you. It is his right not to be. It is your choice to stay with somebody who doesn’t tick your complimentary boxes ❤️
You Look Stunning As Always Beaut🥰 You speak Nothing But Facts. I Always felt Ugly in my friend Group but Truth was I never made no effort , I Was The skinny jeans and trainers kind of Girl 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂 & I would always question why the undesirable men sitting outside A betting shop would Run me down . I am 36 and I am still playing around with my Look as I like to push myself out of my comfort zone . Ladies DO NOT! Wait until that “special occasion” to Get Dressed Up you are the special occasion , Shine like The Beauties You Are 🥰 Ziva The Pink Blazer and skirt sound SO pretty . Keep Shining beautiful ⭐️❤️
You have no idea how much useful information your videos always have! Already looking forward to your next video! Stay beautiful Queen Ziva. Your videos are my religion because they transform my life like no other.
Great advice Ziva. Before the level up, I wasn't even average - no makeup, tomboy clothing (yikes). Average is awesome. I always wear bras because I'm a DD :)
I try to keep a good balance between sexy and conserved. If I wear something tight it usually doesn’t show much and if I wear something that isn’t as revealing I add a little subtleness of sexy to keep things interesting.
I feel lk no matter what I wear, I always get the same outcome when it comes to attracting men. 🤦🏻♀️ I’m an old soul, with so much depth, extremely spiritual, but my look somehow says otherwise. I don’t want to dress like some hippie in order to be understood. Some women just carry certain energy that attracts men no matter what. And I honestly don’t even lk that kind of attention. I’m an introvert and a true Virgo at heart. Renaissance man would be perfect for me 🥰 unfortunately he doesn’t exist these days lol
I had to stop by just off the title alone. Haven't even listened but I appreciate women who care about what we as men want. So many women decided that they don't care about us and it's driving dudes to bad choices. THANK YOU.
I think that if we want to look pretty for ourselves is great. And not just pretty but smart, professional, eloquent. What I don't like is when other people give the message that we are nothing without a man. Men grow up with another mentality; they want to be independent and stand on their own feet. We the women have the mentality of a lost puppy, that we need an owner, that we need to be protected. Sorry but this is the truth: We are pathetic.
Thank you so much for your vulnerability, this is a truth that a lot of use Ladies feel but would never verbalize it and on a platform. That was so real, we appreciate & love you, Ziva. If I were into girls, you’d be my type.💕 I often felt like the “middle pretty” amongst friends…up until now! I’m coming with it, va va voom: femininity, faith mindset, confidence & knowing my power as a woman.✨
100/100🙏🏽. EVERYTHING U SAID WAS SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE GODDESS. THANK U FOR BEIN' U, MY FUTURE DAUGHTER'S, WON'T LACK FEMININITY U'RE HELPIN' ME TO TEACH MY UNBORN!!
Hi Ziva, I really really love your videos and advices but you forgot the most important point to say and the point is staying away from people who always tear you down and really lower your self-esteem seriously some people are so evil, I’ve seen so many beautiful girls and women but always the low self esteem thing and sometimes it’s due to toxic relationships,family,friends you name it but as soon as you get to a clear point and always surround yourself with positive people it seriously shows, and it make you feel and look a million times better. ❤️
@@ZIVAZIVA Have you any idea how many men, even decent looking men who are just lacking in a bit of confidence in todays dating market feel? Zero attention, zero validation, never good enough for even a scrap of attention? Never getting asked out by women? Almost constantly rejected by women eho just stare at their phones and never attemp to make a connection. Younger women have it way easier in general in dating. After my girlfriend broke up with me I got zero attention from women despite the fact I am fit 6ft tall and in shape, work a decent job and have my own place. Women do not realise how hard dating is for the average guy.
you always look 🔥🔥🔥 I'm always screaming 'turn around' let me see you. i wish you could spoil us with that in your videos. i love your make up, your fashion.
I wear this Sun hat and my long braids I always get compliments from people.Some men just look.I love your point if I was guy I would approach you..Love it!
Ziva, I started watching you from a while back and I love the direction of the channel. Also you epitomize femininity, from your makeup to your soft voice & choice of style. Thank you for the valuable content. 💖✨🤗
Thank you so much for this video. Being in scrubs all the time, I am now working on building my sophisticated body conscious wardrobe. I love when you model outfits and provide links 😍❤️
Ziva I felt that when you said that about your sisters. That’s how I feel about my sister and when we go out so I’m happy you made this video!! And btw your beautiful!!!
I’m pleased that this resonated with you Tammy 💕 I really hope that it helps you to feel good about yourself and making the most of what you look like regardless of your sister’s beauty ❤️
I just wanted to say, I don't know what your sisters look like, but you are absolutely stunning, and very far from being an average looking woman. Great video, and thank you for the tips!
I see women are also making changes and working on themselves and not what the world has made you think the way we should see each other. We men are also working on our masculinity and other aspect of what it means to be a man as well. We will changed the way we see each other and not what media has projected to us to think of each other. Good luck ladies!!
Here are a few of my favourites:- Penhaligon's - Changing Constance (this is my absolute fave) Aerin - Amber Musk Boadicea The Victorious - Bravery Jeroboam - Insulo (smells like caramel... although scents are subjective)
You are so self aware, beautiful, hawt and smart. I bet it will be super easy for you to marry rich if that's what you eventually want. Thank you for all this extremely helpful information!!!!!!
The balance can be tricky but this also depends on your body type. For example, women who are extremely curvy can make an outfit look very sexy whereas somebody with less curves could make the same outfit look less racy xxx
You’re a very pretty lady. I agree with a number of the commenters who say that you look like Sade. However, I totally get what you said when you called yourself “average”. Very few women on this earth are still drop-dead gorgeous in sloppy clothes, messy hair and no make up. Heck, even the majority of celebrities and models who are heralded as beauties look average or below average without all the glitz and glamour.
That’s such a good advice what you said about going out dressed how you’d want to see a woman being dressed if you were a man. Great tips! I’m currently dating a sweetheart who’s showing me love in all kinds of ways and it feels genuine, so I’m really not looking for his money but for his respect and honesty. But your tips are definitely helping me look my best nonetheless! :D Thanks so much!
same lol. first i was like i can't wear these types of clothes with the hijab but idc any more all the wealthy muslim women are non hijabis and their husbands are ok with it.
One thing that I have noticed is how much effort women wearing hijabs put into their makeup 😍 It makes your beauty stand out so much because it makes people focus on your facial features ❤️🌹🌺
I love your videos Ziva. However I have to disagree that receiving unwanted attention from unattractive men can be used as a barometer for how we are dressing. The truth is, low-value men will shamelessly hit on anything that walks with boobs... It doesn't necessarily mean you are dressed trashy. I dress classy/sexy/sophisticated, and in LA it's every day some Joe Schmo tries to catcall me.
I agree with what you have said but the point I was trying to make is that there are blatant outfit choices that will fully guarantee unwanted attention x
I love that you said make the most of what you have. Took me years to understand this. At 24, I cannot be another woman I saw on IG but I can the sexiest version of me🤗
You are spot on Niasha!!!!!! 😍
the everyday man really isnt looking for an IG model..granted yes there are SOME men who fantasize but the everyday man is easily attracted to the everyday woman....the best version of herself
Dark skin women also?
@@nstar1372 Of course !
Excuse me. Ziva you look like a 10/10 to me ! No where near average, you’re beautiful 😍
Awwwwwww ❤️❤️ You're so sweet for saying that Latani :) Thank you my ❤️
Exactly
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I was thinking the same! No way is she average. She's gorgeous
One thing I learned is when being a beautiful woman is that high-quality men aren't brave to approach you IRL. It's about opening up the space for conversation in a simple way for it to expand. You can look like the prettiest woman in the world and still not be approached if your body language says otherwise and if you can't carry a conversation in an interesting manner.
I totally agree!
While I do agree, there can be another reason they don’t approach you which is that they don’t think they can afford you. You can look that good and therefore high maintenance to them.
wow great advice
Its a gift and a curse. They will always ASSUME you are taken. Plenty of guys says to me " I know somebody hitting that" 😒. Im listen man im the most single beautiful girl out there.
@@laundrybasket2689 agreed, most men are going to be rejected when approaching women anyway. I still approach myself as there really isnt any other way as a guy to get an abundance of dating options. Most women especially when they are young never have to appraoch a man, and they can still have 20 times the dating options of an average man.
I like how you said "We don't have time to be invisible" your defiantly right
We really don't 💅🏽 hehe
Why is your pic a cartoon love ??? Lol ....
I totally agree with these tips. Appearance matters. You attract men with your looks and you keep them with your inner beauty. You look gorgeous, babe! 😍
Love this summary hehe ❤️❤️
Great comment!!!
I have no looks so I will never attract them.
True. I don’t attract men because I’m not beautiful. I’m turning 28 in September, and have never dated nor had sex. It’s sad how much appearance affects your everyday life. I know for a fact, that guys would give me a chance, if i was physically attractive.
@@RoosaM88 are u trolling ???! 28 NEVER had sex or a date ??? Your trolling right..I know men ..I'm one ..It don't take MUCH to find a man to have sex with if you REALLY want to have sex ..All u have to do is walk down the street ...
i started looking my best every morning when i'm going to work. who knows if i will ever wake up another day and get the chance to look pretty. ty hunny you helped me with my journey.
This is so true! I love that you are choosing to put your best foot forward every day! Go girl!
I started looking pretty to work too. I used to save my best outfits & makeup for special occasions but my mentality has changed. The world is my runway and everyday is a special occasion.
When she said most of us are average I’m looking at her like girl your not average your up there with the beautys
men see us as average. Unless you're a VS model or an actress we're average in their eyes
I think she’s pretty but she’s average like the majority of us, as she said. Especially because men evaluate us without make up on haha 😂😅
@@rasantos4538
Lol look most beautiful women contests with out makeup
I really appreciate this Aurora
you know girls I think if we are really healthy looking that's alredy abpve average. Imagine beautiful shiny hair, haelthy radieant skin, amazing face shape
I am working extra hard on my looks now that I am 18 and attending college later this fall. This will be a forever process, but already I did a self care day. I’m going shopping, doing my hair, shaving, threading my eyebrows. The whole 9! This video came just one time.💓
It absolutely will be an ongoing journey but it is so positive that you are starting this journey now instead of well into your 20s. Good for you for beginning now! ♥️
This will be one of the best times to meet your future mate as well because you both will be attending college with the same mind frame, starting a successful future. Because believe me, when you get passed getting your degree and start working. It's easy to get in a rut due to being tired after work and find yourself going to work, going to the store and going home. I say this to say, maximize this time in college and focus on meeting your husband there and you both are successful in your careers and have finances.
I plan on being seen this Summer :)
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I LOVE to hear it!
Me too
YEESSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!! 😍😍👏🏾👏🏾
I already see u ...mission accomplished...ok dinner date , you pay ..
I can't believe that you're calling yourself average. You're gorgeous... Now you made all the actual average girls feel ugly lol
The reason she is saying this is because men think of the scale differently than we do. He’s trash but watch Kevin Samuels to understand why she said that. Most people are average
Lol 😍 thank you Aliya! I guess beauty truly is subjective.... x
@@mandalaqueen828 I would never, ever click on anything with Kevin Samuels. He and others like him want us women to buy into that narrative of us being less- than, but it's not true.
@@mandalaqueen828 never watch Kevin Samuels . He just wants to put women down. He was an image consultant turned “high value man” he tries to compete with women too much seems like he’s trying to hit the same target if you ask me 👀
Yess she looks so beautiful. She is 10/10 to me. I love her hair too.
I don’t think you’re giving yourself enough credit girl. You are GORGEOUS!
I also think getting fit helps soo much, like when I lost some good weight many guys were looking at me and I even got begged for my phone number. Now I gained some again, because of anxiety and I had depression, only very old man look at me, but I want someone near my age, so I will put the work again.
I need to gain weight because being skinny makes me look too young and I get chatted up by teenagers rather than grown men. Having some curves and meat on your bones is attractive girl but I agree being fit and healthy is extremely important whatever weight you are x
I'm excited for you to be on your body goal journey again! Go girl !! ❤️
@@ZIVAZIVA thank you!!
Don't do it for anyone but yourself. What if you gain weight again? he will leave and the cycle continues. The right one will like you the way you are. Stop stressing yourself but love yourself and do you. Love and light.
@@JourneywithKasitti thank you so much for your kind words ❤️❤️
Speaking a LOT of sense, as always Ziva! Especially about men being visual creatures so dress for the type of man you WANT to attract. Thanks for this ❤️
Well said! Khloe your summary is short, sweet and straight to the point....and SPOT ON hehe!
“I have two sisters who are prettier than me”... wow 😍 because you’re so gorgeous
LOL 💜💜💜💜 & thank you :))))
That blouse looks beautiful on you 😻 goddesss 😩
Thank you darling! I put the link in the description box if you're interested ❤❤
My style I love vintage 50s clothing but not like a grandma 😂 I’m more Marilyn if anything (she gives grown and sexy)
Your style sounds very interesting and sexy 🙈
“How you can stop being the ugliest girl out of your group of friends!” 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
And I oop 🤭😂
As a man I want to thank you for this video.
Men and women are different. We think differently and what we want in the opposite gender is different. You are breaking it down for these ladies, and they will listen to you.
And some of us understand that a woman can wear tight and revealing clothing and not be promiscuous but that type of dress invites unwanted attention men don’t want to deal with.
Again, thank you.
Ziva I’m having the worst luck on dating apps! Men will arrange a date to a low quality restaurant, get offended if i request something better, do not follow through on their dates, do not offer compensation for transportation, or just want to play pen pal. Please make a video on how to navigate online dating! It’s gotten worse since the pandemic. Btw u look gorgeous ❤️
A channel called mocha mommy does dating advice
Hey sweetie, I did a video on this a while ago but maybe try a different dating app like Hinge..? I am on there and so far so good. Also, it might suit you better to be approached organically in person x
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@@dongysakura418 thanks babe
@@ZIVAZIVA thank you gorgeous ! I’ll definitely try that. I’m starting to give up😓
That's my Capricorn Queen 😍
Whip us into Shape
Has to be done hehehe 😛 thank you for watching my love!
I am wasting so much time with my life and I am so unhappy.
Thanks for being upfront and honest with me and the other's who just sit around and do nothing about it.
Like, I have been doing for 30 years now.
Most men would not consider you average looking. You are very pretty. I am sure you are just as pretty as your sisters.
Thank you for this Tehra 🙏
Love this video! I appreciate the encouraging words and tough love so to speak. I totally agree with everything that you said. It's a hard pill to swallow that some of the attention may come from how we dress when we initially think we are dressing the right way. Especially when we are in this transition period of changing our style. Love you! thank you for the video! They really help me!
Hey Leila ❤ I totally get this - it can be tough when you are, like you pointed out, in a style transition phase.
I’m currently working on my weight loss journey currently now I’m invisible to men being the size I am
The great thing about weightloss is that it is doable :) Maybe not easily done because there is lots of discipline that goes into it but weight can come off with as little as a choice for a change in lifestyle ♥️ Good luck with this my love!
You got this just don't give up even if you fall off some days 🤎
Bestie, you skin against this white color
Omg 🔥 so gorgeous 🥺
Awww thank you darling 💖💖💖💖💖
I agree with always looking your very best when presenting yourself to the world...the funny thing is I'm usually approached more when I'm at my most relaxed state as far was my appearance. Men seem to feel far more comfortable and less intimidated then.
That’s good but it depends less on approaches and more on the quality who are approaching. As long as they are the men who you are interested in who approach on your less made up days, then it’s a win win x
You are definitely not average! I can tell even though you have hair and makeup on. I totally understand when you were talking about your pretty sisters. I always have had really beautiful girlfriends, and while I do feel beautiful sometimes, if I was ever with my friends they would get all of the attention. It didn't make me jealous, it was actually fun to watch. And I did start to borrow some of the things that they did, i.e. more makeup, hair extensions, better posture, sexier clothes and it puts me 'in the running' as you said :) I have always dressed super conservatively like a librarian or teacher and I am finally shedding all of that and actually looking cute now out in public. It's hard but I have to do it.
I love your outlook - when you mentioned that you found it interesting to watch your friends getting attention without making you feel any jealousy. Good for you with your sexy revamp! Go girl !!!
Being with a narcissist zapped all my femininity and happiness out of me. I don't even like taking pics of myself. I feel so drained and hopeless. I don't think I'll find it again until I leave. They never compliment you and make you feel like there's something wrong with you
I understand what you’re saying because I’ve also experienced something similar. What I have realised is that the same way you want him to be more complimentary towards you, is the same way he does not want to be more complimentary towards you. It is his right not to be. It is your choice to stay with somebody who doesn’t tick your complimentary boxes ❤️
You Look Stunning As Always Beaut🥰 You speak Nothing But Facts. I Always felt Ugly in my friend Group but Truth was I never made no effort , I Was The skinny jeans and trainers kind of Girl 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂 & I would always question why the undesirable men sitting outside A betting shop would Run me down . I am 36 and I am still playing around with my Look as I like to push myself out of my comfort zone . Ladies DO NOT! Wait until that “special occasion” to Get Dressed Up you are the special occasion , Shine like The Beauties You Are 🥰 Ziva The Pink Blazer and skirt sound SO pretty . Keep Shining beautiful ⭐️❤️
You're so right when you say not to wait until a special occasion to put in that effort! This is a great point!
You are most definitely not average 😭 you’re flawless!
Oh thank you! 💖 I appreciate that my love !
You have no idea how much useful information your videos always have! Already looking forward to your next video!
Stay beautiful Queen Ziva. Your videos are my religion because they transform my life like no other.
This comment has made my day Bianca 😍😍 I am so happy that you're life is improving! This means the world to me :))))))))
Your voice is so calm, it helps me relaxed and happy somehow. I love this video x
Absolutely stunning 😍
Thank you beautiful :) ❤️❤️❤️
Great advice Ziva. Before the level up, I wasn't even average - no makeup, tomboy clothing (yikes). Average is awesome. I always wear bras because I'm a DD :)
Hey beaut ❤ hehe I love your honesty x
I try to keep a good balance between sexy and conserved. If I wear something tight it usually doesn’t show much and if I wear something that isn’t as revealing I add a little subtleness of sexy to keep things interesting.
I feel lk no matter what I wear, I always get the same outcome when it comes to attracting men. 🤦🏻♀️ I’m an old soul, with so much depth, extremely spiritual, but my look somehow says otherwise. I don’t want to dress like some hippie in order to be understood. Some women just carry certain energy that attracts men no matter what. And I honestly don’t even lk that kind of attention. I’m an introvert and a true Virgo at heart. Renaissance man would be perfect for me 🥰 unfortunately he doesn’t exist these days lol
Maybe you could compromise and wear a flowy maxi dress..? It could be the ideal medium 💕
The renaissance man does exist. Your just not attracted to him.
I had to stop by just off the title alone. Haven't even listened but I appreciate women who care about what we as men want. So many women decided that they don't care about us and it's driving dudes to bad choices. THANK YOU.
I think that if we want to look pretty for ourselves is great. And not just pretty but smart, professional, eloquent. What I don't like is when other people give the message that we are nothing without a man. Men grow up with another mentality; they want to be independent and stand on their own feet. We the women have the mentality of a lost puppy, that we need an owner, that we need to be protected. Sorry but this is the truth: We are pathetic.
Beautiful video 🌷 I am already married but I do take these into consideration when trying to make sure I look attractive for my husband
The queen has returned 🥰.
Sure have my love 💅🏽
Lordy I need to see these sisters because you are stinking beautiful!!!
Hehehe thanks hun 🙈❤️
This is the truth.. We start with the look.. Then open the book 📖 👌
Oooh I love this !
Love your top , beautiful Ziva.
Thank you! 🤗 I linked it in the description box ❤️
@@ZIVAZIVA thanks again love 🌸🤍
@@maricelg777 ❤️❤️❤️
@@ZIVAZIVA found the top. On sale too :-) Zara is having sale . Thanks again Ziva.
Thank you so much for your vulnerability, this is a truth that a lot of use Ladies feel but would never verbalize it and on a platform.
That was so real, we appreciate & love you, Ziva. If I were into girls, you’d be my type.💕
I often felt like the “middle pretty” amongst friends…up until now! I’m coming with it, va va voom: femininity, faith mindset, confidence & knowing my power as a woman.✨
Awww I really appreciate this comment Jaz ♥️
100/100🙏🏽. EVERYTHING U SAID WAS SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE GODDESS. THANK U FOR BEIN' U, MY FUTURE DAUGHTER'S, WON'T LACK FEMININITY U'RE HELPIN' ME TO TEACH MY UNBORN!!
Ooooh loooove this comment hehe 😘❤️
You're so feminine and inspiring 🥰😃🦋. So few women who really embrace it nowadays. ..which is sad.
Hi Ziva, I really really love your videos and advices but you forgot the most important point to say and the point is staying away from people who always tear you down and really lower your self-esteem seriously some people are so evil, I’ve seen so many beautiful girls and women but always the low self esteem thing and sometimes it’s due to toxic relationships,family,friends you name it but as soon as you get to a clear point and always surround yourself with positive people it seriously shows, and it make you feel and look a million times better. ❤️
You are so bang on with this Maria! Thank you for sharing this point! ❤️❤️
@@ZIVAZIVA Have you any idea how many men, even decent looking men who are just lacking in a bit of confidence in todays dating market feel? Zero attention, zero validation, never good enough for even a scrap of attention? Never getting asked out by women? Almost constantly rejected by women eho just stare at their phones and never attemp to make a connection. Younger women have it way easier in general in dating. After my girlfriend broke up with me I got zero attention from women despite the fact I am fit 6ft tall and in shape, work a decent job and have my own place. Women do not realise how hard dating is for the average guy.
You ARE very beautiful don’t call yourself average
you always look 🔥🔥🔥 I'm always screaming 'turn around' let me see you. i wish you could spoil us with that in your videos. i love your make up, your fashion.
Awwww I really appreciate this Saadyiah ❤️ You are also 😍😍
Absolutely love your videos! I can you hear speak all day, you’re so eloquent when you speak 🍷🤍
I wear this Sun hat and my long braids I always get compliments from people.Some men just look.I love your point if I was guy I would approach you..Love it!
Oh how i wish i could wear a cute sun/fidora hat with my braids but my head is i little big...cute look!
@@tamarastone141 Thank you.
30k subs great job sara
Awww thank you!!
She is a real lady
You’re super pretty!!🤩 😍
And we love it.
Aw 😍 thank you Tee !!!!!
Do you realize how much this advice worths? Thanks Ziva 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Aww 🙈 I am so pleased this video was helpful! Thank you for watching Sally! I really appreciate you ❤️❤️❤️
Sis, you are not average more like gorgeous 😍, I’m not sure what mirror you are looking through
Wow, thank you ♥️
I should be asleep right now, but I have to witness the Ziva shake first.
Hahaha I ❤️ this!!
@@ZIVAZIVA Thanks.
So happy this video came up on my recommended, I needed this
Aww I'm so pleased it came at the right time for you Claire ❤️
NEVER FORSE ANYTHING
Ziva my favorite human 😍 thank you for the precious advice doll.
Thank YOU for watching and supporting! You are appreciated darling ♥️♥️
Well. That little intro caught my attention 👍🏿
Ziva, I started watching you from a while back and I love the direction of the channel. Also you epitomize femininity, from your makeup to your soft voice & choice of style. Thank you for the valuable content. 💖✨🤗
Wow, thank you! I really appreciate this Rose ❤️
Yes, you’re soooo right!!!!! Her voice is ICONIC!!!! She’s ICONIC!!!!!!!!!!
@@LosAngelesLaura I love it too! I try and channel it before any date or when talking to a POT.
@@ZIVAZIVA Aww. Babe, you are most welcome!
You have my attention.
Invisible, girl! I don't think you have any problems getting male attention.
thank you ziva! we love you
Love you moreeee ❤️
You are NOT average Ziva! Believe me. Look at the women walking on the street or in the supermarket…. That’s average
You're so pretty, I can't imagine your sisters being prettier than you
Thank you so much for this video. Being in scrubs all the time, I am now working on building my sophisticated body conscious wardrobe. I love when you model outfits and provide links 😍❤️
Hey Kimmy ❤️ Happy shopping with your new wardrobe :))))
" BANGABLE". LOL...it's the WAY u said it.
Such a great message.
You look lovely Ziva & great advice I really enjoyed it! Look forward to the next one! 🥰❤️
Aww ♥️ I'm pleased you enjoyed this one hun! Roll on Sunday for my next upload :))))
Great video as always Ziva. And you are nowhere near average. You are gorgeous 💕
I really appreciate this lovely, sweet comment Amirah ♥️ Thank you!!!
Love ur video sis, great advice. I'm 35 and this has been my glow up year ✨️
Awww love this for you girlie ❤️🌷🌹♥️
Ziva I felt that when you said that about your sisters. That’s how I feel about my sister and when we go out so I’m happy you made this video!! And btw your beautiful!!!
I’m pleased that this resonated with you Tammy 💕 I really hope that it helps you to feel good about yourself and making the most of what you look like regardless of your sister’s beauty ❤️
@@ZIVAZIVA It really does Ziva!! I just have to put my best foot forward and say in the race!! Great Video!!!
@@kimberlynicole9888 Absolutely! x
I just wanted to say, I don't know what your sisters look like, but you are absolutely stunning, and very far from being an average looking woman. Great video, and thank you for the tips!
Aww this is so sweet of you 💕💕 I'm pleased you found the video helpful!
I see women are also making changes and working on themselves and not what the world has made you think the way we should see each other. We men are also working on our masculinity and other aspect of what it means to be a man as well. We will changed the way we see each other and not what media has projected to us to think of each other. Good luck ladies!!
Some people just have it - others don’t. Some just have to make the extra effort to get men.
I’m super interested to learn more about the feminine voice control and ‘open’ facial expression.... please tell me more!
Can you please make a video on your favorite parfumes? oxo
Here are a few of my favourites:-
Penhaligon's - Changing Constance (this is my absolute fave)
Aerin - Amber Musk
Boadicea The Victorious - Bravery
Jeroboam - Insulo (smells like caramel... although scents are subjective)
ZIVA thank you I’m so obsessed with perfumes, you have great taste!!
@@mandalaqueen828 I hope you enjoy trying out these suggestions sweetie x
So glad I came across this video and a new channel to subscribe to, thank you!
yes! make the best of what you have!
Great video! Could you do a video on casual outfits that are feminine?
You are so self aware, beautiful, hawt and smart. I bet it will be super easy for you to marry rich if that's what you eventually want. Thank you for all this extremely helpful information!!!!!!
Thank you so much darling 🫶☺️🥰❤️
I really enjoyed this and you are 10000% right. Facts on facts
I love that this resonated with you! ☺️☺️
Love this video, Ziva! On point as usual.
Awww I'm pleased that you enjoyed this video Nicole
Yesss please do a video on how to look sexy without TOO sexy it’s so hard to get the balance right
The balance can be tricky but this also depends on your body type. For example, women who are extremely curvy can make an outfit look very sexy whereas somebody with less curves could make the same outfit look less racy xxx
You’re a very pretty lady. I agree with a number of the commenters who say that you look like Sade. However, I totally get what you said when you called yourself “average”. Very few women on this earth are still drop-dead gorgeous in sloppy clothes, messy hair and no make up. Heck, even the majority of celebrities and models who are heralded as beauties look average or below average without all the glitz and glamour.
you are a beautiful queen!! thank you for this video, new suscriber here!!
Follow what she says ladies
You are beautiful, feminine and not to much makeup.
Thank you Ann! 💖🌸💕
I can say you are not average, you are beautiful 🥰🥰
Thank you Monde!! 😊
That’s such a good advice what you said about going out dressed how you’d want to see a woman being dressed if you were a man. Great tips! I’m currently dating a sweetheart who’s showing me love in all kinds of ways and it feels genuine, so I’m really not looking for his money but for his respect and honesty. But your tips are definitely helping me look my best nonetheless! :D Thanks so much!
First of all i’m hijabi but thats not gonna stop be from showing these curves idc.
same lol. first i was like i can't wear these types of clothes with the hijab but idc any more all the wealthy muslim women are non hijabis and their husbands are ok with it.
One thing that I have noticed is how much effort women wearing hijabs put into their makeup 😍 It makes your beauty stand out so much because it makes people focus on your facial features ❤️🌹🌺
@@ZIVAZIVA so true. Love you ziva ❤️❤️
@@Yasmin-xt2rj Love you moreeeeee
Ziva this is one of your best videos. Brilliant tips here, thank you x
Thank you! I really appreciate you for saying this ❤️❤️❤️
Please do another clothing video. You look gorg 😍
Coming soon darling! 🙈🙈
Us men love the Feminine energy that is being restored. Slowly but surely lol.
We need women with beautiful hearts and beautiful minds, the real deep beauty thats what we want. make up and nails doesn’t seduce us anymore..
Yeah right 🙄
I love your videos Ziva. However I have to disagree that receiving unwanted attention from unattractive men can be used as a barometer for how we are dressing. The truth is, low-value men will shamelessly hit on anything that walks with boobs... It doesn't necessarily mean you are dressed trashy. I dress classy/sexy/sophisticated, and in LA it's every day some Joe Schmo tries to catcall me.
I agree with what you have said but the point I was trying to make is that there are blatant outfit choices that will fully guarantee unwanted attention x
@@ZIVAZIVA oh yes definitely! In that case I agreed
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@@cubanadelrey ♥️♥️♥️
Love your videos. 🌸 I love summer because of floral dresses we can wear 😍
So true! There are soooo many gorgeous pieces to wear this time of year ❤️
Omg this came at the right time! Thank you ❤️🥰
Perfect! I love when I'm in sync with you girlies 💖💖💖💖