First Date Rule: HOW TO STOP WASTING TIME ON TIME WASTERS

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ธ.ค. 2019
  • Hello Beautiful Ladies! Today's video has homework for you! I came up with the First Date Taxi Rule as a tactic to stop women wasting time on men who are not interested in providing anything apart from 15 minutes of boredom in their crusty single bed! 🤢 lol

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  • @ZIVAZIVA
    @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    By the ways ladies, the heel comment is subjective & depends on the event etc :) Love ya guys xo

    • @ShanaJahsintaWalters
      @ShanaJahsintaWalters 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Finally I got to the last video. The internet God was on my side tonight.

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Instagram?

  • @skyloveup
    @skyloveup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    We risk so much in dating, our safety and our time are both precious. Space your drinks out wide, mocktails, slow sip!

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree totally! Safety is paramount 💯

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Honey this is on time and on point because I have a guy that I'm seeing this weekend and hes driving 1.5 hours to see me. He insisted to pick me up and I told him I'll catch a cab. Then he was persistent. I said its VERY important for me to catch a cab for personal reasons and he said okay he will pay my cab fare. Ladies don't back down from your standards. Dont shove it in his face, but let him know that your priorities are CRUCIAL so take it seriously. And I'm MAKING sure I get my own ride back too because its gonna be late. If he doesnt pay for that cab back as well, hes canceled..

    • @tanashabethel4708
      @tanashabethel4708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      how did the date go

    • @Mindsetolympics
      @Mindsetolympics 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tanashabethel4708 I'll let you know when it happens haha.

    • @tanashabethel4708
      @tanashabethel4708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Mindsetolympics is he older than you?

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Good for you re standing your ground! & make sure you get that money back Kianna 💛

    • @Mindsetolympics
      @Mindsetolympics 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tanashabethel4708 yes he is.

  • @smiles9599
    @smiles9599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The point is if he doesn't care about your safety, that means he doesn't like you enough. If he likes you, he will show he's protective side.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said 🙏

  • @tab2n0
    @tab2n0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Dude paid for the meal but supposedly didn't have the cash for the tip and asked me for cash for the tip I said ahy dont you tip on your card hes like because they tax the tip and he feels bad...I've never had anyone do this on the first date!!! I was so disgusted

    • @tanashabethel4708
      @tanashabethel4708 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      did you see him again lol

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope you said you didn't have any change !!

    • @tab2n0
      @tab2n0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ZIVAZIVA I gave him $2 but he'll never hear from me again, eff that!!

    • @tanashabethel4708
      @tanashabethel4708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tab2n0 you clearly did not like him that much anyway! on to the next one!!!

    • @leelee8387
      @leelee8387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      tamleo1 maybe he was testing you ? His ‘rules’ -see if you would?

  • @Sara-vh6sq
    @Sara-vh6sq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thanks for the tips! First dates always set the standards for the rest of the relationship.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are SPOT on Yaya 💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @Kaylagregg2076
    @Kaylagregg2076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lol I thought of you today I ordered some closed toed heels and some tights so I can wear my dresses at work at dates when it’s cold

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      oooh yessss come through with the spicy outfits :))))) yaaaasssss Allie 💜💜

  • @GlitzChickz
    @GlitzChickz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Can you make a video about what to focus on when talking about yourself? I love talking but sometimes find myself sharing just too much LOL. I want to be more mysterious and seem more spectacular than relatable. You have so much charm and mystery about you I feel like but also are so personable, that I bet you could make a great video about this!

    • @tanashabethel4708
      @tanashabethel4708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      just talk about him ask him questions

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ok love I will cover this for you x

    • @JayLidz1223
      @JayLidz1223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @ZIVA Im so glad someone asked this!! I love talking so much that I have no idea what’s too much or too little in these situations

    • @abbadonne8342
      @abbadonne8342 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ZIVA hello sis
      What is the video title where you cover being mysterious? I’ve been binging your videos 💕 classy and intellectual

  • @Dan-ck5xs
    @Dan-ck5xs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When you said Sloppy Sally it had me LOL.........You give great advice.......Keep the great videos coming

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤪 Thanks Dan !! :) x

  • @joycag
    @joycag 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your knowledge on this, thanks for this video! xx

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Joy! I hope the taxi rule helps you save time ❤️

  • @Keke1980s
    @Keke1980s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Epic experiment ⚡️ when I finally get the courage to pick a date; I will try this 💕

  • @lalasi5832
    @lalasi5832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a very wise advice ! Even for a normal date is still applicable.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely 💯 xxx

  • @neptunethecat1884
    @neptunethecat1884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lovvve this nude/pink lip look. Looking extra extra good Ziva.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much babygirl 💖 & I looooovvveee your name hehe

    • @neptunethecat1884
      @neptunethecat1884 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZIVAZIVA 😄💞💞💞

  • @Bouboune509
    @Bouboune509 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Raw! Thank you

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching Emma x

  • @gitanamk
    @gitanamk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Notification Squad 💯

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yaaaaaas for my NOTIFICATION SQUADDDDD ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @gitanamk
      @gitanamk 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZIVAZIVA 🤗🤗❤️❤️

  • @nikkireal9236
    @nikkireal9236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Thought U Were Gonna Say
    'It's About Dating Smarter, Not.. Harder😂
    I Like Ur Videos.. U Know What Ur Talkin About. I'm Pretty Good.. But Ur Videos Help My Game More 💯

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha that is a good point though - smarter not harder... hehe

  • @ninawestlake5005
    @ninawestlake5005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    HOW TO STOP GIVING TIME TO TIME WASTERS WOULD BE A BETTER TITLE. LOVE THE TIPS, GRACIAS!

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hola amor! I chose the word WASTING because it gives it more emphasis but thank you for your feedback - always appreciated xxx

  • @apriljoixrush
    @apriljoixrush 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow great video

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay thanks April ❤️❤️❤️

  • @stacykaykenya343
    @stacykaykenya343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tomorrow is my birthday you guys wish me a happy Birthday

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy Birthday for tomorrow Stacy! May you have a fabulous day and get everything you want! Lots & lots of love and 😘😘😘😘

    • @stacykaykenya343
      @stacykaykenya343 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thanks ziva❤️

  • @Yasmin-xt2rj
    @Yasmin-xt2rj 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I actually liked this video 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay thanks for the positive feedback Nash :) x

    • @Yasmin-xt2rj
      @Yasmin-xt2rj 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Always ZIVA 💋you’re amazing

  • @xonellyxo1060
    @xonellyxo1060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    💖💖 You look so pretty 💖💖

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awweee thank you so much hunny bun 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

  • @Jordan-pb1iq
    @Jordan-pb1iq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing tips as per usual 👌🏼

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you Jordan! Im happy you enjoyed this video hun 😘

  • @jacquelinee1220
    @jacquelinee1220 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey girl, do you suggest we block them or just stop contact and ignore when they ahow those signs?

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It depends on the guy, I'd either block or ignore after letting him know that the guys I'm used to dating do X Y & Z for me lol x

  • @cleansing132
    @cleansing132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'Push you on the train' 😭😭

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol 🤪🤪

  • @ShanaJahsintaWalters
    @ShanaJahsintaWalters 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn't know Uber was going out of business.

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My sis told me she read an article ... I'm not surprised though because there have been so many horror stories

  • @OAmoretNoctis1Izzy
    @OAmoretNoctis1Izzy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💜

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @Angie-nb4pg
    @Angie-nb4pg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What if he had offered to drive you home, but I don’t want him to know where I live

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You say that you'd prefer a taxi (& presumably he had been drinking too so he really shouldn't be doing all that) x

    • @tanashabethel4708
      @tanashabethel4708 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      why dont you want him to know where you live

    • @LifeofMinna
      @LifeofMinna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tanashabethel4708 safety reasons in case he becomes a stalker

  • @marianalikatv
    @marianalikatv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So when you’re going to meet a guy for the first time, you pay for your own taxi ride? Or you ask him indirectly to pay for it?

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You ask him indirectly x

  • @zmanson3940
    @zmanson3940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    YOU STAY TALKING ABOUT HEELS LOL!

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mrs2brych1980
    @mrs2brych1980 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @taniarussell6536
    @taniarussell6536 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is a pilot considered. High profile men?

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In my eyes it isn't but it is a solid career x

  • @anonanonanon4646
    @anonanonanon4646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always love your uploads. Do you. follow 'The Rules'?

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The taxi rule? Yes I sure do lol - I made it up so I definitely abide by it hehe x

    • @anonanonanon4646
      @anonanonanon4646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ZIVAZIVA Lol noo, I'm surprised you don't know bc you seem like a Rules girl. The Rules it's a very clever and old set of rules that works for women. For example, a rule would be don't accept a Saturday night date after Wed. And there are things like Deadzones and such. I'm mid-twenties but do much naturally, guys respond well (can send u the pdf if you'd like)

    • @KsenijaCelner
      @KsenijaCelner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ZIVAZIVA she probably meant The Rules series of books by Robert Greene ;)

  • @oneaccountannon499
    @oneaccountannon499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Should we not request beforehand? lol

    • @ZIVAZIVA
      @ZIVAZIVA  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You try it and see if it works for you. For me, I feel like I have more power when in person so that's why I would wait until I'm in front of the guy lol xx

  • @bettycalixte6494
    @bettycalixte6494 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How about like yes he is a millionaire but we have gone on dates and he got the Uber he pay for everything. However when I talk about like other stuff other stuff for him to buy he doesn’t say anything he’ll just laugh it off