Gender Reveals Are Kind of DUMB
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If there’s a 50% chance you’re going to be disappointed with the gender of your child, you have no business having a child in the first place
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My friends parents held a gender reveal, my mom made cookies for the reveal. She made them all green by accident. They came to the consensus that it was a dinosaur
That’s fucking brilliant 😂
Why is there so many scenarios of it coming out green?
@@GeckoTech_Engineer true. I would expect some shade of purple as a mixture of both colours.
@@GeckoTech_Engineer the cookies were supposed to be all filled with green filling besides one, my mom accidentally made them all green
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the poor little girl who started crying and said "im scared." indicates to me that hissy fits from the father are a consistent part of her life imo
Yeah - I found that pretty significant as well.
Not trying to say it isn’t a possibility or anything, but I thought she was just scared of the loud noises
"mantrum" is my favorite new word
@guadalupendelar9616 if she was she would have immediately said that after they set the thing off but she didn't until the dad got mad and started stomping around
As someone with a dad who enjoys throwing hissy fits, can confirm
the fact that the second dad's quiet anger was so obvious to his youngest daughter and made her scared of him how is he not ashamed of himself 💀
Where in the video?
@@abdoolthegreat69 6:25 - 6:40
A couple of friends had a gender reveal party with rainbow cupcakes and a sign that said, "Who the F*** cares, it's a baby!!!" and I loved them even more for that.
You have great friends!
I will literally SO do that if i have kids!!
friend of mine recently had a kid, part of their family was expecting a gender reveal but they didn't wanna do that (for basically all the reasons FrogBait said lol) so they told me they would make the reveal either yellow or the trans flag (tho they were leaning more toward yellow, in case the flag got misinterpreted as "both")
not actually sure if they went through with it, they live in a different state. i hope they did. especially cuz they wouldn't do anything that could start a small natural disaster.
i’m stealing your friends idea i’m sorry 🥳
This sounds amazing ❤
my favorite gender reveal will forever be the woman that popped a balloon but then nothing came out and then the grandma (i’m assuming) threw her wig off to reveal another bright blue wig under it 😭😭 the only valid gender reveal tbh
The only one that matters
That sounds like an awesome gender reveal party
Thank you for reminding me of this video!
That one or the dad slams a guitar down and it explodes in pink dust as Sweet Child O Mine plays
I actually really like that
My dad is an old school boomer and the youngest of 3 boys. He married a woman with 2 daughters already, and my parents had 2 girls and 2 boys together. I remember growing up we would go out as a family, mom and dad with the 4 girls and 2 boys in tow, and sometimes men would make comments to my dad like, "Must be awful to be so outnumbered" and "Had to keep trying until you finally got a son, huh?" One I distinctly remember saying it was a shame he had to "put up with all those daughters" to get the sons he wanted. Hearing that as a 6-year-old made my stomach hurt. My dad is not a perfect man or a perfect father, but I'll never forget the disgust on his face when he'd reply with something like, "I didn't give a damn if they were boys or girls as long as we got to bring them home safe from the hospital."
Hope you are doing good ❤
Make sure your dad knows he's a good man, a good man in a cruel world,and also,there is nothing wrong being what yoibsre
I grew up as a girl with four sisters and a brother. Because he was born into a family mostly made up of females, my brother developed more interests in stereotypically 'feminine' activities like painting nails and dress up. Whenever us kids would be bonding and my father walked in to see my brother wearing makeup or something, he'd always pull him away and make up some problem that he needs to help with.
My sisters and I would commonly step in to say that we wanted to help, but my father would use the argument that he 'needs a man's help' or it was 'a man's job'. Keep in mind, he's around 2/3 of my age and we had two older sisters who were a decade older. These 'projects' would usually end up with my father either being upset that my brother didn't know how to use power tools or that one of us older children tried to say that having a child that young around those kinds of objects was unsafe.
Nowadays, my parents are divorced, and my father commonly says things like 'those children are now bastards' or 'now there's no man of the house'. Whenever I'm around to overhear this, I step up and say that I'll be the man since I'm the oldest child living here.
I feel like parents like mine that try to force their children into sex-based stereotypes don't understand that children are humans with multiple personality traits. The fear of their child being something other than what they think they should act like based on gender proves that these parents cannot deal with the concept of personalities being different between people. I, my older sister, and my brother all present both stereotypical masculine and feminine personality traits and interests. Neither of my parents (especially my father) can really connect with us or even attempt to because of this.
Children and people and people don't stick to a script. As humans, we're multifaceted and develop with our experiences. Treat us like it.
Exactly. Parents should support kids interests, not suppress it.
Im sorry that your brother have to go through that. You sound like an amazing big sister.
Growing up with only a grandmother and an older sister (who usually always instigated activities) I grew up doing some girly things and I was fine with it because I was fitting in (sort of) with family. the only time I spent with guys was during school and like, parties and stuff like that.
There was never a man in the house in the first place your father was no man he’s a disappointment of a man. A man is someone who is always there for you. A man is strong and never try’s to put others down for their accomplishments or likings. A man is…. I don’t even know anymore….. your dad is pathetic just know that I’m sorry….
I'm rly sorry that your brother had to go through something like that and that you have parents such as that that don't appreciate their kids for what they are and treat them inhumanely, you are right and I think it's very good and cool of you to stand up for your brother like that! my siblings weren't like that despite being older so it's rly nice of you to do so!🌻🌻
my parents used green for my gender reveal party. they were so excited to tell everyone they would be raising three lizards in a trenchcoat 🥰
My favourite gender1!!111!!!!!!❤
or that the baby will get the Triforce of Courage
Ah yes, the only gender that truly matters, very close to attack helicopter
so pissed i didn't do this when i was pregnant :(
This is hilarious if real
I had two girls. While delivering my youngest I nearly bled to death. Afterwards my ex told me he wanted to keep trying for a boy. I told him to find another uterus.
I see why he's your ex
Good on you!
He made a huge mistake, didn't he?
That's actually disturbing how men think womens are nothing but baby makers.
Good on you for breaking up with him 👏🏿
He didn’t think of adoption?
I didn’t need a gender reveal to know I was unwanted, my tactless Mother straight up told me! 😂
I’m sorry bro you didn’t deserve that
@@gy687u9 Thankyou. 😔 I guess at least I knew where I stood! lol!
@asassynation9955. My mom made sure I knew that neither she or my dad wanted me. She’s told me several times that she should have gotten rid of me like my dad wanted her to.
Well at least the world wants you cus it brought u here to it! I hope you still live your best life irregardless!
@@learobinson4450i’m sorry
My father told my mom they'd have to try again because I was a girl. Nothing hurt more than knowing my dad didn't want me from the get go. Can't believe people say things like that. How could you not love your child?
Sorry you had such shitty parents.
Hey, my mother has told me on several occasions “I should have gotten rid of you like your Dad wanted” or “Your Dad said to get rid of you. I should have listened”.
Sorry to hear that. No child deserves such selfish parents.
I’m sorry that you guys had to go through that if you need someone to talk to then I will listen
Hope your okay
"what gender is your child"
"bomb."
KABOOM
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“So what’s the sex?”
“Terrorist.”
“I’m sorry?”
Parents: were letting them PICK their gender
Kid: I wanna be a damn bomb!
@ville__ don't say that to people. That's an awful was to get subs
My sister had three children because her husband kept asking for "the boy." They had what they thought were three girls and they stopped because they were poor and couldn't afford any more. Years later, their youngest came out as a trans man and the wailing and tearing of robes began. They so badly wanted a son, and when they finally got one, they couldn't accept him because he didn't have the anatomy they thought he should have.
thats really sad honestly. sometimes I forget how lucky I am that my parents were accepting
Holy hell
They didn't want a son, they wanted the experience of being son having parents.
@@margodphd That's awful. I unfortunately had a very similar experience through my teenhood during my era of questioning my gender/Identity as a whole-- I really hope your nephew is doing alright now
@@margodphdDidn't mean to reply to you specifically! But TH-cam is bugging out and I can't edit or even see the reply--
Edit: But I can see and edit this one.. did the other even post?
If I ever have a kid, I'm gonna have a gender reveal party. It's gonna be one of those "cut the cake and see the colors" ones, but the inside is gonna be purple and once the slice is removed, I'll push a button or something which unfurls a large banner that says "WE HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE!!" Everyone will be confused and/or disappointed, and if they leave early, I'll get more cake :)
Honestly that’s a vibe 💀
my banner would say “WE DONT GIVE A SHIT”
As a girl i liked cars, dinosaurs, teddy bears, dolls, horses and climbing on trees, playing with Barbie and cowboys and indians, doing cooking and working with a saw or a hammer...
Some of my aunt saw that wihh concern...
But it never bothered my parents!😁👍
Hey, same! How none of my family cared, though I mean now I am a rock climber and I do so many sports and I could not care less about gender, rules, and rules set in place for girls
Same and I often played with a boy soldier things (sorry idk how to explain it) or we both played with dinosaurs and horses (we had a game were we included both)
My mom leaned toward encouraging pretty "girl" things for me, but I am grateful that our family overall just let be curious and try things.
Same! There are many childhood photos of me wearing shirts with monster trucks and lizards surfing. I liked playing with hotwheels, trucks, dirt, worms, barbies, watching scooby doo and Batman beyond ect. I'm still female and I still like all those things. Except instead of playing with hotwheels I collect them now lol.
Me too! We always played games at recess where we chased each other and said murderous things but we also played house
To quote FunkyFrogBait themselves,
"There's nothing special about a baby *boy* versus a baby *girl... IT'S A BABY.* A collection of fat rolls missing it's kneecaps - a default starter human that hasn't even allocated their skill point yet..."
Frog seems like they'd be hella fun to be friends with, ngl.
perfectly describes my thoughts better than i could bc i was ranting at my screen like "why need to know the gender you still dont know who tf they are???"
@@hunnydew_Its so they know how much to save for college because a boy gets paid more💀
"A child doesn't exist to fulfill your expectations"
I can't even fathom how many people have had children strictly to fulfill expectations.
I'm a girl. I've always been a girl. I was assigned female at birth too.
My mom miscarried a boy, and the role of "son" was forced onto me.
My heart hurts for my brother, who would have been treated with cruelty in an attempt to "toughen him up"
I'm glad he was never born. He doesn't deserve that.
Neither did I, but still.
@@DonutsAndAmane Same thing happened to me. My dad desperately wanted a son, and I could tell even as a young child. So I was made to fulfill the "coach's daughter" tough tomboy persona, he always cut my hair short, and wouldn't let me cry or show emotion. He'd tell me to shut up or he'd "give me something to cry about". My brother was born when I was 7, and suddenly he was the new favorite. I was pushed into a new box of being the feminine caretaker (raising my brother) and strictly controlled with regard to my gender once my brother was old enough to fulfill my dad's standards of what a boy should be. I wasn't allowed to express my interests or have hobbies that he deemed masculine, and I was made to feel ashamed of my body once I hit puberty. The whole 'gender disappointment is valid' argument completely falls apart when we acknowledge that kids know when they're unwanted.
Yep and we can see examples of that with child stars!
Even when that's not your intention, it's hard not to imagine and start developing expectations. Sometimes you have to remind yourself to appreciate what you have.
Yeah me. I'm the second child after a boy, so our parents wanted a girl desperately. My dad was fine (I was a dad girl and he also has a good relationship with my brother) but my mom dumped all her expectations, wishes and emotional needs on me. For example she never had friends all my life, because she had "me" and me having friends and going out like a normal child and teenager made her freak out every single time. I was her best friend, her sister, her therapist, her lawyer, her maid, her emotional support pet. I was never her daughter though and I never had a mother. It's how things are. I don't hate her, I care for her but I don't love her, she doesn't know me at all, she doesn't understand why I don't try hard to be her friends etc etc. But our relationship became way better after she got a dog FINALLY. I just wish she got the dog earlier, because apparently that's all she needed.
At 8:37 the dad was wearing a light pink shirt. He wanted a girl. He was showing happiness in his own way and people just immediately assumed he was waiting for blue and it pisses me off. I wish MY dad was that happy for me!! He looked shy, but psyched!
Yeah, that dad looked like he was pretty happy but was also waiting for his wife to celebrate with him.
I think we're all mostly looking at mom's reaction which is... less than enthusiastic. I agree that he's clearly happy about it but i also agree with funkyfrogbait that he doesn't seem to know what to do... not in general, but rather about the mom's reaction.
@larizzo Yeah, but they said he keeps spraying hoping blue comes out, as in they think he wants a boy too
“YOU DONT GOTTA BIRTH THEM ALL” LMFAO
FR I WAS LAUGHING WAY TO HARD AT THAT
Our gender reveal was during our ultrasound. The tech asked if we wanted to know the gender, we said yes, she said it was a girl, we said cool.
Same here, although my third son's was questionable because HE didn't want us to see! Lol! We only did my daughter's because I already had 3 boys and dad had 2 girls and a stepson, and we wanted to know who's streak was ending. I love all my kids, and knowing what I was having helped me to decide whether to keep clothes from the last baby and buy new or reuse what I could and just add a few here and there.
I love ur user
this is the only normal way to do gender reveal where im from.
Yeah in my family it's getting a group text saying what gender the baby is, sometimes a picture of the ultrasound, and what names they're thinking of at the most. Plus baby showers already exist and are about the baby as a whole, so having a party just about the baby's gender is kinda dumb.
I was hiding, appareantely, whenever the lady put the ultrasound near me, I just ducked away from it and 'ran' and so they could not clearly see what I was and I always held my legs in a way that made it difficult to see. I think they did know near the end, but they already had genderneutral clothes, for the most, because it was the olden days and all clothes were superwhite (superpractical!) and youknow, turquoise embroidererd with ducklings.
“Yall are acting like you opened blind boxes and are pissed you got duplicates” this took me tf out😭 worded soo damn welll
This makes me so sad. I was absolutely over the moon that i was going to be a dad to a little girl and 3 years later she is still the best part of my day. Just love your kids, people, come on.
The fear of capturing a family member disappointed was the reason I didn't want gender reveals. I frustrated family members when I would answer "What do you want it to be?" with "a healthy baby".
What really gets me about the lady who started the gender reveal trend is that the reason she did it in the first place was because she'd miscarried in the past. The party was to celebrate that she'd reached the point in her pregnancy where she COULD know the gender of the baby. It was a nice thing to do after a tragedy, not an ego stroking thing that reinforces the gender binary and lets immature baby men be openly misogynistic.
I was going to comment that. It's so sad that something so touching turned into this awful thing.
I think if I was ever expecting a child, I'd host some baby shower, let everyone think it's a gender reveal party, and when we cut the cake, it's dyed a random color that isn’t pink or blue or it isn’t dyed at all. Even we wouldn’t know if it’s a boy or a girl.
@@15oClock Dye it purple! "Doesn't matter if it's a boy or girl, both or neither. We're having a kid :)"
this! plus her kid has since come out as nonbinary iirc, and she’s disavowed the whole concept…
And now SHE doesn’t even like them
If they react this poorly to the sex of a fetus imagine how shitty they are at everything else about raising a child. Kind of horrifying really
@ville__ oh? How do you know this
@ville__yo wtf? 😂
@@OscarLangleySoryuville is probably Dan
@@OscarLangleySoryuThey're a random weirdo who comments on different channels saying that the TH-camr is friends with some random problematic person
@@criptastical yeah, I haven’t seen this strategy yet but I just noticed the profile pic this person is a total freak, they were writing even worse comments before, basically they’re trying to get around tos by saying this stuff
My favourite gender reveal will always be two wrestlers, one in blue and the other in pink, having a hardcore match in someone's backyard
Who won? Or was it a tie
The man stabbing the table in excitement is genuinely terrifying 😊
A girl in my theatre class has 4 older sisters and no brothers and even my own mother has made comments such as "Their father is probably miserable having no sons." It annoys the shit out of me that people think a father can only be happy if he has a little mini me
Exactly, like what's wrong with having daughters?? they're your kids too
When ppl say stuff like that, all I hear is "I hate women". 🤷🏽♀️
It's also scary how often parents project themselves onto their kids in very unhealthy ways. Wanting them to live out the parents dreams. ""fixing"" their fucked up childhood. basically living through another's eyes the life you didn't get to have. the disturbing part is the fact they're treating their children as test subjects or "projects".
It's even worse if the child is not of the desired gender so the parent forces them into the box of how they're supposed to look and act like (having girls act more aggresive and cutting their hair or getting boys dressed up in dresses etc.-not to say kids don't usually differ from each other in these ways, but this is specifically about forced behaviour)
My partner has 4 daughters and was still hoping our baby would be a girl. Obviously, we were extremely excited either way, but my family was shocked he wanted more girls.
I am one of 6 girls and we used to get the same comment. I used to say that he didn't mind because none of us were particularly 'girly' and most of us even have gender neutral names, but now I'm unpacking a whole lot of internalised misogyny that was handed down from my mum and I'm not sure about any of it anymore.
Istg gender reveals are so weird now- what happened to just cutting a cake and checking the color of the icing inside instead of polluting our already polluted earth???
Frr like people just start 1 uping what they see in social media and this time next year people are going to start killing each other (the handcuff colours are the gender)
the only fire involved in a gender reveal should be on a pink or blue cake
My farts are better than FunkyFrogBait's farts.
What happened to just telling people their fetus's gender?
@@Ienteredmynamecorrectly-lt3nu i guess that that doesn't exist anymore ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
As a park ranger, gender reveal parties at parks are the worst. They spray plastic colored confetti everywhere, leave it all for park staff to clean up, and usually involve alcohol and general chaos. I had people threaten bodily harm to me when I asked them to clean up their confetti explosion.
I've seen so many posts of boy-moms being so visibly annoyed when having a girl and not a boy. Like far more than the father at times.
And I can understand it. I am not saying its a nice thing but most people have a preference deep down and some are more honest about it than others. I am a woman and if I have a child, I want it to be a boy too. No, I didnt grew up in a culture, were men are more worthy than women or whatever....thats just what I feel. I dont see myself with a girl. Which doesnt mean I wont accept it and love it too...butg if I could pick- boy. People want what they want and yes alot of women want boys..thats not a secret.
@@calistafalcontail Well that's very misogynist of you isn't it, you should do a little exercise of self examination and maybe figure out why you have a prejudice against girls instead of brushing it off as a normal thing to have
Ok but theres being dissapointed and there's acting like you are about to commit a crime because you are so distraut by the gender of your unborn baby.
Sorry not sorry there is no excuse to scream and cry, throw a tantrum, break things or "grieve" over your child's gender.@calistafalcontail
the worst part is that the woman who invented them made it to celebrate her daughter coming to term, becasuse she had suffered multiple misscarriages and so it was a celebration of the fact that the child was succending to the point that they could get a determined reveal of the child's gender rather than celebrating the gender itself. and the fact that she regrets inventing them hurts me so much becasue this celebration for her is now a horror story of wildfires, destruction, and parents and family having meltdowns because the child isnt the gender they want (and then they have another meltdown when the child comes out as trans/non binary)
@ville__hey bot? the early 2010's called, they want their crappy email chain curse nonsense back
The fact they call it gender reveal parties instead of sex reveal parties...
I know that it has got a completely different ring to it, but your child is going to reveal their gender, not you looking at an ultrasound.
@@alexswindley-wilson2762 the bot responded 💀
@@lillywhoanother reason that the original woman who made the “gender reveal” trend hates it is because her daughter is androgynous and fits closer non-binary. The mom is very progressive and encourages her kids to wear and be what they feel most comfortable wirh
@ville__good
honestly, they say "not what i wanted" like they ordered something off of Amazon and got a crappy version of the product ... how sad..
I think it's okay to be a little disappointed. But it's weird to memorialize that moment by filming it and posting it for the world to see
@@msjkramey disappointed isn't the right word for the healthiest feeling to experience when you don't get exactly what you want - especially when it doesn't tell you anything about the person other than their genitals.
@@jax2903 disappointment is a perfectly healthy emotion as long as you don't stew in it or use it as an excuse to harm others. Negative emotions aren't automatically unhealthy just because they're unpleasant
@@msjkramey The other user is pointing out that it’s unhealthy to be disappointed about a future child’s sex assigned at birth. Genitalia doesn’t determine who a future child will be.
@alexwyatt2911 it's a pretty good predictor though. And we raise them as the gender based on the genitals we observe at birth. Why is it wrong to do that a couple months earlier? You have no idea if a newborn baby is going to end up being under the trans umbrella either, but you call her a girl and name her Suzy unless you get information that goes against that judgement, like your child coming out to you and asking for different pronouns
Majority of my family has girls, and it’s considered a “rarity” for someone in my family to have a boy. When my sister got pregnant, my dad kept telling my brother-in-law “hope you made it a boy!” We now know she is going to have a girl. It makes all of the younger members of my family uncomfortable hearing the older folks freak out over the chromosomes of the newest family member.
I also grew up hearing my dad complain about have four daughters and no sons. When I found out I am not cisgender, I would hint at it and my dad would flip out. Old man, do you want a son or not?
My gender reveal was to ask the ultrasound technician if my baby was male or female. Thats it. We all survived. 😂
If my future husband reacted as disappointed as of these men did I would demand a divorce IMMEDIATELY.
I know a lot of people will think this sounds dramatic, but I'd consider it...I'd at least demand we go to family conselling immediately because if I'm about to birth a female child and that's how her father reacts to learning of her, I'd be so alarmed and question how much he should really raise her!
Same tbh 😂
i'd abort too lmao
no human deserves that as a parent
imagine the dad gets their boy and they end up trans later on in life. i cant imagine these parents being able to handle the changes of their growing kids if they cant even handle finding out the gender before theyre born
wow what a solid marriage you must have
as a trans person, i already experience “gender disappointment.” i don’t need my parents to do it for me. 😭
XD I felt that
god, what a mood
:33 < Fucking mood
True
Was about to say gender disappointment is only ok if you’re the kid
The way my sister did her gender reveal was, in my opinion, one of the best ways to handle it. She'd picked out two names with her husband, and the reveal was to let the extended family know what the baby's name was, and it was done *after* she and her husband had gotten the chance to see for themselves what it was.
Fun fact! My mom SOBBED when she found out that my brother (her first baby) was a boy! My brothers kinda dislike my sister now because she was my mom's first girl so my mom ADORED her 😭😭😭😭
"How can I love another boy? Will I be replacing my first son? How can I love 2 sons?"
W H A T
Yeah that made me pause the video as well. That is actually insane.
reminds me od Addams Family: Family Values movie: "Why do you hate the baby?" "We don't hate it (We just want to play with) Especially its head" -"Do you believe one of the two older siblings has to die?" "Yes"
LITERALLY WHAT I SAID LIKE EXCUSE ME???
Tik tok is awful people publicly posting every stupid thought that pops in their brain.
Agreed, Love isn't a limited resource reserved for only one kiddo.
At my last job, on my last day, I had to be polite while someone told me "it's just different with boys!" and claimed her infant grandson was just very wildly different than her granddaughters.
He's a baby. He can't even lift his head yet. And you just had another granddaughter, but you only ever talk about your grandson. This isn't how he's just different from your granddaughters. It's about your valuing boys more than girls.
"Toxic boy moms" are exactly this.
My farts are better than FunkyFrogBait's farts.
And then it becomes a self fulfilled thing because surprise! They’re gonna act different because you treat them differently!
O my fucking God this bot Is multiplying
@@p-__
Not a toxic boy grandmother 😭🤚
My mum told me that she found a letter from her mom to her aunt saying she wished my mom was a boy. (They ended up having 4 girls and a son who was a miscarriage) I think my mum had a really hard time, as an adult, processing that and coming to terms with how that made her feel, especially since this was after my grandma passed.
13:37 Congratulations on your child! It's a funky frog!!!
My husband really wanted to do a gender reveal party. So my brother baked us a cake. We cut into it, and it was green. We were so confused. Then they brought out the real cake, and it was pink. I was so sad, just because I am a survivor of sexual assault and didn't want to bring another girl into this world. That disappointment surprised me, I evaluated it, I ended up going to therapy for real. It forever changed my life for the better to face my demons and try to be better so my daughter could have a better life than I did. She was sexually assaulted at 4 in a day care setting we thought we could trust. She told us the day it happened. We got her into therapy. She's 8 now, and so fierce and strong, with a very mature perspective on fairness. She's going to change this world. I'm so proud of her.
Hey, congratulations on realising and getting help early, and for supporting yourself to be able to support your daughter through her own experience. I hope you feel proud of both of you.
I am so sorry that happened to you. I honestly know very few women who haven't been taken advantage of but I'm so glad you and your daughter eventually handled it better than most. It's disgusting what people do to those who can't fight back.
Holy shit
I am so sorry for you both. How people can do such horrible things still baffles me. At the same time, it's good to hear that both of you seem to have faced your respective incidents and went on to live your lives fully. It can be a challenging thing to do, and hopefully you both know just how resilient you are.
My mother didn’t want a girl because she knew how the world treated her for being a woman. I never felt unwanted, she loves me with her whole heart, she’s incredible. So I’m sure that your daughter feel that you love her despite what happen because she have a loving home. Unfortunately we can’t control everything, so what we can control is the way we show love to our loved ones.
i completely understand your fear and concern on bringing another girl into the world, i have the same thing. granted i know it could happen to my child regardless of gender i know it is more likely to happen to one over the other. i also experienced sexual assault various times and still constantly deal with harassment and it is quite literally the last thing i want my little one to experience one day. it feels so cruel to bring another human into the world just to suffer alongside us. but we will do our best to protect them and help them just as we had wished someone had done for us. you’re a good mom/parent. 🫶
Every child deserves a parent. Not every parent deserves a child.
Exactly.
@ville__so?
@@OuroborosTheProtobeanDan Schneider is a pedophile. (but funky DEFINITELY does not like Dan Schneider)
Amen
I turned the likes to 1234 :)
If I ever have kids in the future I want to throw a party just for the color to be purple.
I still wonder till this day what happens in gender reveal party when the baby/child is an intersex like is purple is smth idk
If you can't handle the possibility of having a child that doesn't exactly conform to your expectations for them, you do not deserve a child. You need to be sent to therapy and kept AWAY from small children.
people only having kids so they can make them their little perfect doll arent parents theyre still kids
God forbid if the child was LGBTQ
Also if you can't handle that your child will be disabled, then people shouldn't be having kids
@ville__prove it
@ville__ considering the fact I'm having an allergic reaction that will likely end up being anaphylaxis, this isn't funny.
As someone who was given both dolls and dinosaurs, the dolls rode the dinos to escape the meteors and then in combat over the throne.
flipping epic, can relate. pool party in soaked kinetic sand and naked barbies that had affairs with dinosaurs.
@@happylittlekyobashidragon42 Ours got shoved into the Tonka trucks to drive our dirt and chert rocks around.
Horses and dinosaur forbidden romance, always ending off the story with a karate scene
I think what helped me solidify my gender was that I loved (and still love) my grandmother very much. Was raised by her during the most important years of my development and sporadically afterward. This is because I loved everything about her. Being a strong female, loving but not submissive wife, understanding that times have changed since when she was a kid/young adult, and being a great grandmother/parent to me. All of which were female role oriented there at the time. So I guess I feel lucky that my gender matches my sex and that I'm attracted to a guy. (which means I can emulate my grandmother's basic life more) Cuz life is already complicated enough (I'm creole so that's already racism stacked against me there I've experienced) and physically female. (misogyny dealt with too.)
I honestly don't think I'd be able to do deal with homophobia on top of that. And I'm best friends with some people who already deal with what I like to call the big three mentioned. They're so much stronger than me and I always commend them for fighting for their right to exist outside of the societal norm.
Hell yeah
I just noticed the Dark Souls health bar showing up at the bottom of the skit. Kimberly, Birther of the Unwanted, shall meet her match! XD
I just noticed that too
In my country gender reveal parties don’t exist and I’m extremely happy about it
'they arent toys for shelves!'
Van life parents:
👁👄👁
XD
🤣🤣🤣
NO WAY-
Most of the time the dad is upset about it being a girl 😭
In front of their existing daughters to boot.
I more often see moms upset about having girls -- they want to be "boy moms" so bad.
My farts are better than FunkyFrogBait's farts.
Yes
@@larad9180 Or they get so excited it's a boy they completely ignore there wife or gf 😅
When i was young my mom got yelled at for putting me in the supposed wrong colour for my gender
At first I was sure I’d disagree with you from title alone because I think gender reveals are fun and special, but you’re right about the people who take it way too far!! I live in California and I remember the fire.
I wonder in how many instances the parents spent all their money on the gender reveal instead of making the child a room to live in.
Off topic but we have the same gender and sexuality :0
I’m nonbinary so don’t worry when i reply this, when your parents are stressed about your gender and you lose the gender-
@@Wisdom_X3 good to know.
@@Wisdom_X3 oh cool so do I but I'm aroace
@@Wisdom_X3 Same 😊
Such childish behaviour. Having childeren is a gift. Whether it's a boy or girl shouldn't matter. Imagine if the child saw the footage years later.
The kinds of people who throw these horrid parties don’t care how their children get hurt
Their children aren't people to them. They're property. Toys. An extension of them.
I didn’t need a video to reveal that my parents wanted me to be a boy. My mom would say on occasion how much she wished I was a boy
I know what you actually meant when you said ‘having children is a gift’; but then I thought about how some gifts are unwelcome or disappointing.
@@leejerrett8268 tell us more Debbie downer
Some people can’t even have kids or struggle to :/ it must be heartbreaking when they come across on of these types of videos :/
Love how i just came out of Ao3 reading the smuttiest fic possible, and my asexual ass still gets flustered when hearing about sex toys
Any recommendations?
@@anonthe-third2367 how weird is acceptable, cause i have a lot
@sadbtch2976 as weird as you like as long as it isn't animals or kids
@@sadbtch2976 hey i'm not the og commenter but i'm ace too. please throw any good recs at me, it doesnt matter how weird
I'm aroace & this is so fucking real lmao💀
'Kind of' is an understatement 😭
Real 😭
Real
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Yea
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“It’s a baby girl!”
*the entire place explodes*
My farts are better than FunkyFrogBait's farts.
@@p-__tf
“it’s a baby girl!”
the universe explodes
@@p-__stop saying your farts are better then other peoples istg😭 (at least its not UTTP💀)
Edit: nvm theres a uttp now
@@p-__ my farts are better than yours
I genuinely hope those little kids never see that footage of their dads. Well, moms too. So sad.
The "I'm the Grandpa" pin had me choking on my coffee. A+
See this hit me. My dad wanted a boy so badly that they had another kid after my sister and I. He got what he wanted but my little brother had no interest in football and fishing. He got into web design and painting and wanted to spend his time with our cute as heck grandma. I was already out in the yard playing sports with my dad before he ever came along and I didn't want to do that with my dad anymore because he made me feel replaceable. He was out there tossing the ball for the dog because none of his kids wanted to play anymore.
Aw man. Your dad really fucked up. Hope you and your siblings are doing good? :D
@@Huuu7252 Yeah we’re good :) we all ended up being artsy tech kids lol
@@chloeyoung4045 Yuh, great!!! :p
so sorry that happened to you and your siblings. no child deserves that
I wanna give you a hug rn. I'm sorry your dad was a jerk.
As a daughter who was supposed to be a son…your daughter who is a disappointment before her first breath, will never forget this. Great job mom and dad!
I'm so sorry
same lol my dad hated me since day 1 he even wanted to name me after himself but then he named me the girl version of his name (i hate my first name sm)
@@caramelosdefresitachange it then! Name changing isn’t just for trans people. If it makes you feel good, nobody has any right to tell you no.
I’m confused. Did the doctor get it wrong while you were in the womb or are you trans?
@@goldenfiberwheat238 I was born in 1967 before all this was possible.
12:44 I honestly really appreciated hearing this as someone who struggles with their sense of purpose and self-worth to the extent of resenting having been born sometimes. Thank you for saying this :)
Hope you're doing well and doing what you love!! 💜 you matter!
@@carelesscamel thanks! Hope you're doing alright yourself
You playing the family watching the disappointing revel was epic! Especially the little kid just swinging their arms around! haha. Thanks for the laughs!
My little boy loves to wear sparkly dresses. I let him. I don't care. I get some crap for it from other people, but he will grow up to know that he could be himself. I'm not changing him to fit into societal views I don't even believe in. Let kids be kids!
The idea of having a child to fill a quota regarding that child's gender, and not because you genuinely want to bring a human into the world and care for them is... Disgusting. There's no other word for it. That's absolutely disgusting.
I’d add irresponsible as well.
Can you imagine being the middle child of a family knowing you were only born as an attempt fill that quota? Can you imagine being that child and seeing your own gender reveal party immortalized on the internet, with one or both of your parents acting like this? Wtf.
@ville__you again? Begone filth!
yeah especially because that also puts so many expectations on that child. imagine being the gender they wanted but not the "right way". i also bet these parents would be very normal ab it if their kid was trans
Love your pfp!! :DD
My parents didn't know my gender until I was born. They did ultrasounds but every time they did one I had my legs crossed. So whenever someone wanted to buy something they would tell them to guess the gender and get something based on that. Which meant that when I was little I had a mix of "girl" and "boy" clothes and toys and my parents used all of them. I had barbies and dinosaurs. Horses and trains. People could never figure out if they had a boy or girl baby at first glance cause they would mix and match the clothes in a way that never made it apparent. Turns out I was trans so they actually didn't learn my gender for 17 years, which kind of makes the confusion even funnier
Those ultrasounds were foreshadowing
I bought a lot of mixed clothes for my daughter. I have always dressed in mixed clothes, and I liked having that freedom. Some days I wanted a pretty dress, others I wanted a shirt with hotwheels on it and jean shorts. I was the same with toys. I had barbies, MLP dolls, and a baby doll
I took everywhere, but I also had hotwheels, legos, and dinosaur toys. Some days I wanted to stay inside and make bracelets, others I wanted to be outside in the mud finding worms and toads. Kids, if given the chance, will do whatever they think is fun or cool. It's good to give them the freedom to make those decisions for themselves. My daughter does have a pink room, but if she grows up and decides she hates it, I'll change it in a heartbeat. I was afforded that privlage, I will gladly give her the same opportunity.
I was the same. They had no idea what I was until I was born. And the doctor that did the ultrasound for my sister misread it and said she'd be a boy.
@@StupidCatLadyoh my god, you sound like an awesome parent!! I was raised the same, so from expiriance i can tell you she will apreshiate it!🙂 (sorry for the bad grammar😅)
@user-cr6cx6mw9f Thank you. I'm trying. I'm still new to being a mom, and I know I've messed up more than a few times. But I want to give our daughter a chance to choose who she is. I may have been a tomboy, but maybe she wants to be a girly girl. I would love it if she wanted to play video games with my husband and I, but maybe she'd rather go and play a sport. Who knows what she'll want to do, and whatever that is, my husband and I are here to support it. She's only 4 month old, and her possibilities are endless :)
*Me watching the ATF shoot the fake gender reveal baby full of Tannerite as they raid my house*
My mum has told me on multiple occasions that she never wanted kids, wasn't trying for me, and that I was a mistake before going on to say oh a happy mistake of cause. I just wanted to be loved then mother pulls that out. 🎉🎉
god i hate the amount of people being upset that they're getting girls compared to the amount of people who are upset about getting boys.
like i'd assume that it was just parents seeing their kids as accessories (which it still is for the most part) but it's also becoming so abundantly clear that misogyny plays such a massive role in it as well.
i still think it would be the same if the moms had all boys and no girls but wanted a girl, i agree it does play a role in it but i think the role it plays is more in the reactions like in the video not the disappointment itself, definitely case by case tho
Do i smell homestuck?
As a girl, it was very upsetting. I can tell you that my parents wanted a boy. My mother miscarried a boy, and it's clear how badly they wanted one, because I got raised like a boy. Since my sibling (AFAB) is the favorite, the scapegoat is the one who got raised like a boy and didn't get to have a normal childhood.
They wanted their boy, and I guess it just makes sense that someone would get projected onto.
The only valid reason I can imagine is to want all best for your kid and the world is just harder for girls. I find men today a little sad and useless but it is still their world
ABSOLUTELY. It is more often anger that they aren't getting a boy
Being dramatically sad about the gender of a bundle of cells is crazy 😭 these people don’t ‘need’ a boy. They need therapy.
@ville__ And I am "friends" with your mom
Gender of a literal LIVING BEING since you CAN NOT check a baby'"s gender before their heart starts to beat. So they are not "pundle of cells"
If you want to seem like a better person BE A BETTER PERSON!
@@berrymint6384 “being” nah
It’s still part of the mother’s body. Just because that freaks you out or whatever doesn’t mean it’s magically its own person already just because you can tell if it’s developing a wee or not
Besides the fact that I have no idea how a fetus develops during pregnancy and that I don’t care: theoretically, being pro choice doesn’t mean denying any humanity or moral value that an unborn potential human could have.
@@berrymint6384heartbeat starts way before that, but it’s still just a clump of cells, just like we are. The actual difference is it’s dependent on another human being who’s supposed to legally have bodily autonomy over themselves(if you’re not in a place that can force procedures or doesn’t view women as capable of having body autonomy). Don’t really care if it makes you uncomfy, no one should be forced to carry a child when we’ve scientifically advanced to the point of not needing to force yourself to go through about a year of physical and emotional stress/labor (which for some people means you’ll never be the same physically and/or emotionally) just to abandon a child into an extremely dangerous foster system if you can’t care for them. Not everyone can afford to have a child, afford to stop taking antidepressants or other medications, or afford to live in a way that’s healthy to a baby while pregnant.
9:26 IVE WATCHED THIS VIDEO LIKE 3 TIMES AND I JUST NOTICED THE BOSS HEALTH BAR AT THE BOTTOM LMAOO THAT IS GOLDEN
"Kimberly, Spawner of the Unwanted" absolutely SENT me!
imagine your parents thinking you're a disappointment before you're even born
It’s just so sad
Jesus fuck thats depressing
THAT PART
I was put up for adoption, so I know I was a disappointment to someone, lol
Wait people have to imagine what thats like?
The father's disappointed that they're having a girl can only blame themselves; the male sperm determines the sex of the baby!
theve got that Henry 8th energy
Thank you for bringing this up!!! I don’t see any comments talking about this. Literally it goes through my mind when the dads have a bad reaction, like dude that’s on YOU.
I was thinking the same thing
I remember learning this last year, I was so shocked by it that I seen myself wondering what random peoples parents look like
Some men genuinely believe the woman is responsible for the baby's sex. I just had an argument with my dad a few days ago over this, he was absolutely adamant that the woman's body determined everything about the child and the man's sperm just gives her the baby. Told me what I learned in school was wrong and that what he learned (over 50 years ago mind you) was right, and that throughout history, the woman's always been responsible. He wouldn't believe me until I proved it by looking it up for him.
My sister has two girls and one step-son with her husband. She's said multiple times that she's done with having children, but her husband wants a boy. Literally everyone is mad at him because he already has a boy 😤🥲
Right before this video, I got a video of build-a-bear voice recordings, and one of them was “it’s a boy!” In a cute harmless lil teddy bear 😭
justice for androgynous muppet designs that never made it past the felt cutting room floor !!
Yes!
Such a cultural shock, in my country it is illegal to reveal the gender of the baby due to decades of female foeticide, never knew such sentiments percolated so far.
I'd adopt this everywhere.
Do you happen to be Chinese? I remember the issues surrounding the one child policy led to a ban on doctors revealing genders, but I’m not sure if that ban still exists today
I'm sure she is Indian, just like I am. Yes, till recent times India had a pretty high female foeticide, even many women in my family have aborted female fetuses, it is illegal but it's an open secret just like dowry😢
I can’t even put into words how much that breaks my heart. People shouldn’t have kids unless they’ll love them regardless of what gender they are
it's a bit different here. Doctors aren't allowed to reveal the gender of a fetus before the due date for legal abortions.
I try to take this serious because I have never had a gender reveal party for my younger siblings but the "Im the Grandpa!" pin is making me giggle sm..
And 11:43 that’s what happened with me and my sister… and I will see myself out
Recently I was invited to my first gender reveal party. The Dad kicked a football, that broke and blue powder was everywhere. Everyone startet sceaming hysterically, some guests started crying. I wonder if it would have been the same reaction for a girl...
After that you could listen to the family's conversations and play bullshit bingo: "Thank god, it's a boy. Someone to play football with." (Dad) , "Hopefully, he will not be gay." (Grandma), "It does not matter what gender the child has, today they can choose, what gender they want to have. If you want, you can even be a strawberry. HAHAHA" 😒
A nice afternoon of misogyny, homophobia and transphobia. Bingo.
Ugh 😮🫤
jesus ....
Are they Catholic by chance? Cause if so, they'll have a dead kid if he's left with the priest too long-
That’s horrific bro I’m so sorry 💀
Sounds really Christian to me, my old church had a LOT of people like this
I never even heard of gender reveals until after I had my kids. I had a boy and and a girl, and guess what! Now I have two boys! 🏳️⚧️
I have a friend with three kids in their teens who found out last year she now has, in her words, "one of each", after one came out as nonbinary. Congratulations on your second son's transition!
Man I wish my mom was like you CONGRATULATIONS BTW
I love how supportive you are. Kudos to you mama for loving your kids unconditionally! 👏👏👏
Congratulations!
@@AD_AP_T THAT IS SUCH A CUTE WAY TO SAY THAT 🥹
I love how you added in the "Boy Mom" issue in the segment at 11:22 and how it's suddenly broken hearted boy mom because of the "I'm gonna break my firs boys heart" -- Yes, I saw this one _after_ your Boy Mom being creepy one because treating your SON like your BOYFRIEND is sick and borderline illegal.
why would you even want to get pregnant if you know you’ll be disappointed at your gender reveal 😭
see back in my day my parents didn't tell me I was unwanted, they showed it through passive aggressive emotional abuse.
Same
Exactly! People just don't know how to properly abuse their kids anymore 😂
Same
Well my parents and relatives told me that I was unwanted 3rd girl. I am still fucked up.
@@aesharadadiya8447 :/ I'm sorry that happened. My mom told me I ruined her life. And I was one of two kids.
I'm the eldest of 3 girls and a boy (he's the youngest). He gets away with EVERYTHING. I came back home late after meeting my friends at a café. I got grounded. He got home late after drinking and breaking into someone's home because he thought that 'it was our home'. What did my parents do? A pat on the back and a 'boys will be boys haha'.
The favoritism doesn't end with gender reveal parties and it definitely doesn't end when they are adults.
holy shit 💀💀💀
@ville__ no they are not what lol 😭
They have openly criticized him several times dude lmao
@@closet_gnome hey, don't worry, it's a very obvious, weak troll. They weren't getting the engagement they wanted with the last thing they were spamming, so they're trying this now.
My sister was the youngest and got away with everything too. I think by default the youngest always gets treated better
This sounds exactly like me and my brother
Can you imagine the kids seeing these videos in future and their parents are absolutely disappointed or even angry? I feel so sorry for them! It also shows a lot about how selfish these people are in general which can't be a good environment for a kid to grow up anyway...
Apart from destruction of both private and public property it's always the reactions that both or one parent that always gives because it wasn't "the" gender they wanted. Always pisses me off.
people deadass be treating having a baby like a gacha machine 😭😭
You got a ultra legendary baby!
You got an uncommon baby!
You got an epic baby!
You got an event-only baby!
Reminds me of thst tweet of an edited glowing purple baby with the caption "yoo i just rolled an epic baby"
I’d do a green reveal. “Be grateful you’re getting grandkids. The nursery is pastel rainbow coloured. Buy whatever. You’ll find out when we pop it out and it will be confirmed or denied when they’re old enough to tell you. Tada. Now shut up and eat the cake.”
cut open a green cake and a faint "hyeah!" can be heard from within
i support this @@gwennorthcutt421
@@gwennorthcutt421 soon the child will be born and next thing you know, you're dead and your orphan child is fulfilling their destiny saving hyrule...
@@murmirr blue, pink, and green is for revealing what piece of the triforce they're destined to get. yknow, the three genders: bigender woman, man with lots of lesbian friends and two moms, and Reverse Changeling
I think people forget baby showers exist and think gender reveal parties are the only way to celebrate the mother and baby.
It's why I love when my brother was asked to make a cake for a gender reveal by friends.
They wanted the cake to be rainbow inside.
After cutting it, they announced that they would let their child decide their favourite colour after they wwre old enough to make the decision.
Moat people loved it but boy howdy did it confuse and anger others who left.
i once gave my cousin a toy truck for her birthday, i got screamed at that I was pushing gender onto a child, that child told me she wanted a truck because she likes playing in the dirt and also wanted a glittery card, you ask and i give, i see no issue
do a gender reveal but instead of pink or blue make the icing black and yellow and then unleash thousands of bees on the crowd
Lmao
The crowd screams as hundreds of thousands of fire ants spill from the center of the massive cake. "FIRE ANTS ARE MOSTLY MALE! ISN'T EVERYONE SO HAPPY!!!???"
OH
NO
NOT THE BEES
And you just know these "disappointed" parents would be just as mad if said child comes out as trans and actually was the "right" gender all along 🙄😬
The overwhelming majority of people aren’t going to be trans, so your comment is stupid.
Whats trans? Never heard of it. Male or female. The rest is a figment of ones imagination
@@Macattack11639 It's so funny that you don't even know the difference between sex and gender, yet here you are commenting on it, if you're going to spit out transphobic bullshit at least be educated about it.
@@Macattack11639 Haha very not funny 😐.
@@Macattack11639 This is not a figment of imagination, as I actually went through this experience, but I would say that it is simply the influence of patriarchy and gender stereotypes. If this did not happen, the whole world would be better off. Although my experience of gender dysphoria is always discounted and it will most likely happen again here in the comments. It’s a little unpleasant that people don’t want to understand that gender dysphoria is not about self-acceptance, it’s, on the contrary, self-destruction and such people need help, and not in the form of surgeries and hormones. I'm just glad I didn't do this to myself at 18.
My dad loves my sister and I thought that was how most people are it’s crazy people are this angry over something they don’t have the rights to be angry over at all!