The SAD BEIGE Moms of TikTok
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The saddest thing is that this trend was supposedly started to get away from plastic toys and more towards natural woods, cotton, wool, etc. Just spray painting a plastic toy in neutral colors (without sanding or a sealant mind you) negates everything the movement towards natural toys was going for.
WOW someone misunderstood the assignment! I didn’t know this.
Just another example of social media influencers taking an idea and twisting it WAY out of porportion
Spray painting the plastic toy with no sealant or sanding isn't even neutral, it makes it WORSE
Keeping this in mind for when I have kids ✍️ I never considered wood and cotton toys
@Akalim they're great and don't have to be expensive! Growing up my grandparents had this set of blocks from when my dad was a kid, and they were originally made out of lumber scraps (aka free/repurposed).
As a young mom I find it horrifying that kids are treated like they aren’t people, but accessories by their own parents.
Yah acceptance only goes as far as... It might need a professional helper with an Md License
Right? Kids don't choose their parents. If you're going to bully your kids and force them to always do what you want then maybe you shouldn't have any.
sadly quite normal for narcissists to view their kids as personal belongings
As someone who's still treated like an accessory by my own mom, this felt like a warm hug. Thank you
Americans and a lot of humans but mainly americans treat children like property
Babies eyes are literally still developing, so they can see high contrasts and bright vibrant colors better than varying shades of beige. Children in general also just seem to enjoy the more stimulation from lots of colors. Like there’s a reason why colorful toys are the go to, generally it’s what kids tend to pick for themselves
Sad beige hell
I don't think it's true only for babies, I'm an artist and I sometimes have a hard time between what some of these people think are different colors, we all experience vision differently.
@@bluester7177 That's actually true. For instance, communities that live isolated in snowy places, such as Eskimos, can differentiate shades of white with slight variances. Also, there's a linguistic peculiarity about colors in japonese. If I remember correctly, the same term can be used to refer to either blue or green colors, which implies that people may have different ideas about colors. I heard about that in my linguistics class :)
@@blazer4729 Yeah, colour terms in different languages are so interesting. Some languages only distinguish between light/warm and dark/cool colours, so basically everything that's closer to black than white is called black and everything else white. There's also a hierarchy of colour terms that languages tend to follow, first you have black/white, then red (which also includes other warm colours like orange or yellow), then there's some distinctions happening with blue/green/yellow and basically it gets more and more detailed. So, if a language has a seperate term for blue, it probably has seperate terms for everything before it in the hierarchy, too. Of course, there's variations, and not all languages develop all of those terms. And even within one language there's always disagreement. Like, when is a purple so blue-ish that it stops being purple? Or conversely, when is it so red-ish that it becomes red? When is an orange dark enough that it's no longer orange, but brown? As someone who is both into linguistics and colour theory, I find that fascinating.
you litteraly see more colors when your younger, and these dumbos want to make sure you never see color
“That is a toy, not a bomb threat. Why does it have to be neutralized?” really got me
" MA'AM THE EYESORE HAS GOT WORSE, WE LOST 7 GOOD MEN, WE NEED TO NEUTRALIZE THE TOY "
@@SucullentbutterTOO MUCH COLOR, TO VIBRANT, WE NEED TO END THIS TOY TREE’S REIGN! TOO COLORFUL!
i remember seeing a gothic mom who's whole house was different shades of mainly black but she still gave her baby an entire playroom full of vibrant colors for enrichment.
Right!
That’s a wwe wrestler and his wife. I love their house!
I'm pretty sure she mentioned that near the end of the video
@@ville__what the fuck is wrong with you
i saw that too
i remember seeing a couple who lived exactly like the 1950s, they dressed and acted like a typical 1950s couple. the only room in the house that wasn’t 1950s was their son’s room. they wanted him to have his own choices in terms of style and i love that. you can have aesthetics without forcing them on others and your kids, they’re people not property
The wife has a TH-cam channel too where she does a lot of baking vids with vintage recipes and other stuff
That's actually awesome- thats a good example of what parents should do, if.. they have a specific theme-
Its like the goth family. 95% of their house is black and goth, and their youngest, who is a baby, has a room full of colour as their playroom.
my mom has a mid century modern theme in our house but she let me do whatever i wanted for my own room which i think is the best way of doing that
i love this! my ex's mom was overwhelmed easily by color and toys. she converted the office room of their house into a play room. the kids could have all the loud, colorful toys in there and make as big a mess as they wanted, and the rest of the house was spotless. instead of making them fit into her lifestyle, she adjusted and accounted for them and found something that worked for everyone. she had her issues, but i always really respected her for that.
I have noticed lately that there's not enough colors in the world. Even our cars are falling into this greyscale with an odd red or blue here and there, and even then the reds and blues have a subdued tone. I absolutely cannot wait for 10-20 years from now for the color explosion. I hope it's all neon and rainbow colors.
I've been thinking this so much, old cars came in so many fun colours I hope more colour comes back
fr I want fire engine red as a trend
Spotto is nearly impossible these days, it's actually tragic
I hate the car colors in California EVERY THING IS WHITE! We only get white, black and red! I want blue,green,pink, dark purple, orange! I hate it here, the only color car I could get was white…I hate white but at least it has sparkles ✨ in the paint 😭
I have a vibrant orange car hehe
“Kids are just little goblins who like to play with trash” realest sentence ever
“Bring in *THE CYLINDER.* “
Edit: MUMMY IM FINALLY FAMOUS
"holy sh*t, I thought I went
c o l o r b l i n d
For a second"
I ALMOST INHALED MY SODA SO MANY TIMES
@@wooperfan584 “like the first 30 minutes of the wizard of oz 💀”
“The old one w/ the asbestos snow to be clear 😜”
@@Bella_the_cripple "there's no place like home! :D
WRONG.
Thousands of middle aged woman decorate their houses like this now 😂"
YOUR NAME?? 😭😭
I'm a goth mom, everything in my house is black/gray, but my daughter's room looks like a unicorn vomited there. she loves expressing herself with colors and it makes her happy.
thats so adorable
Good for you! 😊also I love your username
There's a wall in my house that is painted rainbow and I love it ‼️
Im a goth (almost) mom but my house is green/botanic vintage 😂🌿
Relatable. I have her room pink, white, AND black and then her toys are all normal.
What freaks me out the most is that they aren't even putting a protection layer on the spray paint, like your kids going to scratch that off and inhale it. That's not safe at all!
The pookie bear Arven pfp 🤩
aesthetic matters more i guess
Literally this!! It’s so hard to get the crafting community mad but here i am commenting about the importance of sealant
@@Fumbuzzl07 KIERAN'S FOREHEAD ISNT BIG
@@shihohinomorisbiggestfan YES IT IS. I COULD LITERALLY GET LOST IN IT.
those kids will see a beautiful colorful sunset one day and pass out from how overwhelming it will be for them
Bedazzled was supposed to be a comedy, not real life!!!!!!
They're gonna go outside during pride month, or go to a festival, or see a rainbow for that matter and have a seizure because it's "an eyesore".
It's honestly very sad.... Imagine going through life not knowing the colors of the rainbow. (Well obviously they're going to learn it. Their minds are going to go insane)
as someone who’s red-green colourblind it’s really upsetting to see mothers take colours away from their kids. i always try and include all different colours to my surroundings because i don’t see colours like everyone else, and when i learnt what colours actually look like it upset me. smh.
My grey walls in my new apartment are apparently slightly purply pinkish 😭
I'd be happy for the colour if I could see it
Children are not an aesthetic. Let your kids be who they want without you forcing them to like certain things. This is the new cycle of generational trauma.
They just have kids to take “big happy family” photos for their social medias. They don’t actually view their kids as people
Exactly! How do parents not see that.
@@NearsightedNarhwalYup.
Watch as these kids grow up and bring back the styles from the 80's in a big way.
Big hair, big shoulder pads, big pink tiger striped sunglasses. It will be glorious 🤩
social media is taking over people's brains so much that they think life must always be a photo op
The sad beige moms saying stuff like "their bright and colorful toys are an eyesore" sooo... You didn't want kids? You wanted a decoration that won't talk back?
Can't wait for their kid to get older and be obsessed with like fluorescent orange or hot pink or electric blue or something like that 😅
@@XxMCRroxnonstopxXelectric blue sounds cool
@@qiqiland443 it's a great hair colour 🤣
I mean, to some autistic people like me bright colors can be overstimulating so... yeah. Not all kids are a monolith.
(Jesus, You guys REALLY shouldn't have kids if you are all mad that some kids don't like bright things and others do, because guess what? Sad beige moms were once children too. 😂 I mentioned that I was a goth kid that got glaring headaches from too bright, and my very existence y'all are in tears about it.)
like at that point just get a cat or something
I'm real worried about what's gonna happen to these sad beige families when their kids reach about 7-9 and start expressing interest in their own style. Like, are you going to deny your kid the sparkly ballerina shirt or fire truck pajamas for your aEsThEtIc? That's a great way to teach your child that their thoughts and feelings don't matter, and /that/ could have all sorts of terrible consequences.
I have friend growing up with parents like this, she is basically a doormat at this point because eventhough she's an adult, she continue her degree and choose her career because her parents choose them for her. She had zero interest in life and basically just binging on tiktok and neflix all day everyday during her free time. There's barely things we related to because her personality is just anime and movie only
“Kids are just little goblins, who like to play with trash.” Killed me 😭
There's literally episodes of 1980s cartoons like "Rainbow Brite" and "Care Bears" that have villains stealing color and making everyone miserable. Then those villains got social media accounts, had little Jaxxtyns and McKensleighs, and are continuing to use their powers for evil.
I love the way you worded this
@@MockImagesReal Thank you.
It’s the entire premise of Rainbow Brite!
Not the McKensleigh 😭
not 80s but you reminded me of that powerpuff girls ep with the clown spreading black and white, powerpuff girls saving the day with their music spreading colorful joy🥲
It's the "our children's toys don't look like an eyesore" for me. If your child's needs are an imposition on your life you're not willing to accept, you shouldn't have children.
literally why does their "aesthetic" come before their own child's needs and wants?? it is so selfish of the parents to do this shit
no one asked@@ville__
Yeah, tbh I think FF went super easy on these people. A little too easy, really. Notice that I called them people and not parents.
@@ville__ I’ve literally seen you do this shit on multiple channels Lmaoo. Plugging your own channel in other people’s TH-cam comments, low af.
true
“BRING IN…THE *CYLINDER”*
NAH-
That thing looked like the kid was being shipped somewhere in round packing peanuts.
@@MariAnKenobi OMG 😭
You can both be a beige mom and still have colors for your child. My parents when I was small had a simple rule. Your room is yours. You can decorate it freely. Toys can remain out.. But. Outside of your room, is our stuff. Simple Separation. I got my room, the rest of the house is theirs. They werent sad beige parents, but they did have their style. It's not hard to draw clear lines and have everyone win
Gotta love the first mom continuously calling the tree "my tree" - it's clear who the tree's really for
I was thinking that too
Pretty sure 'my tree' is the name of the actual tree. Correction, it is the name, they're called 'Step2 My First Christmas Tree' or simply 'Step2 My Tree' for short which is what the mother calls it. It's not good either way but at least she's not claiming it's for her (even though it is)
@@bendingdemon6483 to be fair you don't know if she was calling it by the name or actually saying it was her tree lol either way, it's pretty evident it's for her
The children that only exist as a vessel for content…
@@bendingdemon6483In that case she would have said ‘THE My Tree’, which she did NOT.
"You can't blame us!"
But we can. Your child is not a ball of clay that you can forcibly mold into your liking.
fr fym "you cant blame us" you are depriving a whole as person of stimulation and color, fuck you
Sadly, that’s been the societal belief since forever. Children are not human beings. They are property and an extension of the parent. Children are to be seen, but not heard. It’s so disgusting and is the leading cause to childrens mental health problems and behavior throughout their life.
@@antisocialal4799 I have never seen anything more true on the matter.
Spot-on description, considering clay is also beige.
I think they'd prefer the ball of clay. At least it's beige.
I love how you pointed out the "goth baby's colorexposure room" bc i find it funny how many ppl defend the sad beige moms but came at the "goth babys" parents for lack of color and whatnot...
My father and his fiancé have a “pure white” aesthetic so my room’s walls are white, ceiling is white, and the floor is fake wood a light sad beige. My bed is white and pine green. I want to paint my room SO MUCH but it would “mEsS uP tHe AeStHeTiC”, it kinda hurts my eyes to look at it rn. (Edit: 5:03 Yes, this is them.)
The gothic baby is a great example of parents combining their style and providing color for the child
Omg yes I was just talking about this with my husband! At least even it out a bit right? Let them have colourful bedrooms FFS 🤦🏼♀️😂
@@ville__shut up uttp-looking ass
@@ville__ loser
@@ville__ Wheres your proof troll I already know you're just looking from clicks...you poor sad thing
@@ville__You have.. zero uploads 💀
"organic modern vibe" has me reeling as she literally lathers her child's plastic toys in toxic chemicals
It's giving Lorax
@@ville__ You have no videos and only crummy community notes. Actually start posting content before deciding to troll spam a comment section only cuz you're not getting any attention in your pathetic day to day.
@@ville__ 30 years old you should go to the nursing home granpa
like, just buy baubles made of wood or straw, please, if the plastic is too colorful D:
“Organic Modern Vibe” is crazy
Can I just say that I’ve studied theory and I have a degree in art therapy? and how wildly unhealthy it is for a developing brain to be surrounded by this kind of monotone
the thing that makes me so annoyed abt the tree is that u can still make it match your aesthetic by just using like pastel colors or something but she quite literally only chose browns/nuetrals like it is so bonkers
The irony is that (along with religious/cultural tradition) Christmas Trees were invented precisely to bring color into our lives during white and colorless winters...
omg......that makes so much sense!!
When I was little, I was disappointed when my parents chose to put white lights on the christmas tree.
Ik, right? That’s horrible! Imagine forcing your family to have a happy Christmas with a colourless tree!
Yup! The Christmas or Yule tree was supposed to be the biggest pine or evergreen you could find. Decorate it with color and candles/lights.
All to ward off the depression of winter and celebrate the solstice.
It’s to bring color DANGIT
@Ax-xo4ux it's a representation of the Light of the World, Jesus Christ
Can confirm as someone in development psychology right now, the beige and non stimulating colors are really extremely harmful to children’s development. If things don’t catch their interest, they have no reason to learn to hold their head up, look around or learn to walk and crawl. This is so selfish of parents to do just to fit their theme
Funky frog, pls plis pin it
I feel like this is that part of information that should be common knowledge but somehow like most ppl have no idea
@@zouipl6181I really hope they pin this post too, PLS LISTEN FUNKYFROGBAIT!!! People need to realize that our concerns are scientifically backed.
This isn’t fully accurate though- as long as the kids are still being exposed to different environments occasionally they’ll be fine. They see the grocery store, look out the window in the car, things in TV etc. picture a child in a rural city in Iraq in present day- they aren’t exposed to many bright colors expect intermittently, but they grow up fine. Picture children growing up 1000 years ago. Brown and beige and earth tones with bright colors only intermittently isn’t bad for kids development at all, it’s just not what the average person is used to.
So like, manufactured baby depression?
@@hanasanai665this is true to an extent, intermittently though is the key word there I feel, it is far better for a baby/toddler to have more exposure than occasionally seeing outside colors or things on TV, but you are right and I agree to an extent.
Also as an edit: I’m speaking specifically to the parents who cut almost all color out as a choice, like the people displayed in the video, they are actively making the choice to stunt their children’s development.
“To quote the Beatles:Let it be, let it be, let it be!” Got me dyin’ 💀
This also works impacting the kid in the opposite way. For example; I grew up in a house that was just too much and no sort of organization or theme for the decorations. I now have started to hate this type of thing and prefer more beige and what some would call boring decorations. Of course if I ever have a child they will be allowed to decorate however they want.
100% same for me too
As a child visual development specialist - a lack of colors will LITERALLY diminish a Childs visual system especially primary colors
As a graphic designer, we get taught this exact thing when it comes to designing spaces and interfaces for kids. Kids crave colour!
Please put out content to educate these moms. I'm getting my doctorate in clinical psych and I'm scared for my future patients 😅
Like a Kid cant Tell the Sky IS blue If you never Tell them, they plain do Not See that . . .
Also children craved color!!!
I am pretty minimalist when IT comes to colors, especially when IT comes to clothes in me, bright and high contrast plain unsettles me, even If I find it pretty for the Moment . . . .v.but even I Look Like a fountain of color next to that and I Recall having been drawn to brightet colors AS a child . . . .there IS Just so much Joy in colors, even now I get euphoria when I find the exact right shade of teal . . . .allow Kids color! Development of mental capacity, comfort, development of personality and preferences . . . .
Those ornaments had shapes on them (also good for mental development) before being painted over
It's actually insane how much damage you can do to a kid by just... Not providing something basic. Like everyone knows that ailments like pneumonia, hypothermia, or malnutrition in infants can cause lifelong health issues. But we don't really talk about the other stuff.
Don't talk to your baby? Congratulations, they have an underdeveloped language center and will struggle with verbal communication for the rest of their lives!
Don't expose your baby to bright colors? Hope you weren't counting on them being an artist! Or enjoying art!
Don't play with your baby? Welp they're gonna struggle to develop general social skills, but how important are those, really?
It's one of the things that puts me off having kids, tbh. I work in elementary special education; I've seen the kind of damage neglect in the early stages of development can do, and it isn't pretty. Those kids suffer, and they didn't even do anything wrong. And even if the parents are doing their best now... I mean, it's a bit of a too little, too late kind of situation. Those critical development stages are gone or almost gone by the time we get them, and we don't know how to "turn them on" again yet. So yeah. Talk to your babies. They may not understand you now, but if you don't, they might never understand you at all.
"Beige is not a color. It's a distressed state of mind"
Said by an architect friend of mine that had to design an entirely beige house almost 30 years ago. She would probably have a breakdown from this trend.
Even in Saudi Arabia there are plants with Color
Beige is absolutely a colour, it is the colour of chain smoking cigarettes working at 1980s computers.
@@ville__ so sad to see another kid that tries to plug into big youtube channels and say: "oH mY cOnTeNt iS sO mUcH bEtTeR" when in reality the only video they posted is stepping on a pride flag with less than 1K views
@@michagarecki2402 they're literally a russian troll bot that spams a ton of different content creators. Report it.
@@BottomOfTheDumpsterFireah I see they want their kids to know about smoking by taking away the bright colors 😔😔😔
80s throwback day at school will be so hard for these parents 💀
honestly 🤣
“🟡🟢🔵🟣🔴 BOO! DID I SCARE HER?”
Yeah, you go scare those sad beige moms 😊
They’re turning their houses into sensory deprivation chambers.
I wouldn’t be surprised if the only meal this people could cook is rice and chicken.
unseasoned chicken at that
I think some people might not be able to cook rice correctly.
I doubt they'd know how to make rice correctly
@@ville__isn't aspergers an ableist term for autism?
@@chocomilitant I thought it was an actual syndrome? I remember it was Aspergers Syndrome and was merged into the Autism Spectrum.
What scares me about these “sad beige moms” is how saddened their children will grow up being. Imagine your mother throwing away your elementary art project because it doesn’t fit the “aesthetic” and having unused homemade Christmas decorations due to them being too colorful. These poor children
heck i'm 30 and i still get down about an instance in 2nd grade. i loved my teacher and would always draw and paint for her. and looking back, if i were a teacher, i'd love to hold onto my students art to remember them by and display it in my class. but at the end of the year, she handed me a folder with every painting and picture i ever made for her. looking back, she never once displayed any of her students' art. i suppose giving it back to me was better than just tossing it out. but it still made little seven year old me really sad. i still get a little :/ when i think about that vs. what i would have done in her position.
My mom did that when u was in kinder and elementary, she isnt beige or anything she just doesnt like having "trash" lol
God right? Imagine your kid working really hard on an art project, and it DOESNT go on the fridge because its "an eye sore". Horrific....
@@promisemochi After 4 to 5 years you will have more than 100 drawings. If that is your career you just can't keep all of them 😅
@@l.c.7955 maybe. but it was just me and one other girl that would draw and give her art. i had other teachers before and after her that displayed their students art on the walls, sometimes from years prior. they'd make collages out of them and it always looked very cool and was very touching they'd do that
“To green-light; sorry, *SAGE-LIGHT* that obnoxious display” I’ve been giggling at this for the past 5 minutes your comedy is TOP TIER 😭😭😭
HER JOKES ARE TOO WILD( like the safari birthday party 🥳) 7:07
Imagine growing up and your parents take all your Pokemon toys and bleach/spraypaint them white and brown. Kid me would cry if handed Caucasian Pikachu.
Caucasian pikachu 💀
CAUCASIAN PIKACHU CRACKED ME TF UP
Which Caucasian Country?
Not the Caucachu
Not picashew🥜
The problem with the "babies don't care" argument is that, at some point they DO start caring. And what is the plan then?
Throw out the art your kids make that doesn't match your aesthetic?
Spray paint the toys they picked out themselves?
Force them to wear clothes they don't like?
Like how is this going to be different from our parents that forced us to do shit we didn't want to while pretending we didn't have our own feelings?
I totally agree. I get it if you decide to leave the walls white because you don't know what your kid will like in the future. My parents did this, too, with the room I had to share with my brother until I was 8. But in that case, you have to at least let them have other colourful stuff that's easier to change if they don't like it anymore. What's absolutely not ok is parents who objectify their own kids and don't let them have their own room. The rule should always be that kids can make their room look the way they like it and can do it in it what they like (within reason of course) because it's their room. And if they are 8 and they get a new room or you're simply renovating their room, why not let them pick some colours when you're going to repaint the room anyway? You don't have to allow everything if you think it's something they will complain about in a year, but maybe give them a few options you think they might still like in 10 years so that they aren't completely unhappy with it.
@@schrodingerskatze4308
This is so bourgeoisie
@@sunnyday4055 Why?
As someone who works professionally with infants, toddlers, and 2-4 year olds, I can tell you that they certainly do care long before people realize. It’s true that their eyes aren’t as good during the first few months but yes, they like colors.
Not only that, but colorful objects and clothing provide opportunities for education that can be retained before a child is even verbal. I sing to children about the individual colors of their clothes and shoes. I have a 13 month old student who already holds out her shoe to me when I come into the room. It’s good to show them colors and tell them what those colors are. They’ll retain that knowledge and it’s helpful for their mental development.
You’re missing out on an opportunity for growth and bonding when everything they wear and own is beige. It makes me sad.
They view their kids as decoration for the internet
"My favorite color is blue"
"No honey only one color exists"
*sighs* beige
"Neutralize the tree" 😂😂 this video was awesome 😂
I really think you shouldn’t have a child if you cant separate personal aesthetics from your child’s sense of self. God forbid the kid ever has an opinion when they get older
tbf. the majority of parents shouldn't have kids imo. Only a small number of parents are actually able and willing to put their children's needs and wants above their own
@@alexs.5871THANK U this is what i’ve been saying and people think i’m crazy!!!! most people aren’t qualified to be parents and i hate that we’re taught to belief that having kids is an important milestone in everyone’s life. it’s not something everybody should do!!!!!!!!
It’s very much millennials repeating their boomer parents saying “this is MY house, you can decorate how you like when you move out!” without even realizing it.
For real, imagine the bitch fit if one of these kids wanted to dye their hair pink or something
If you're losing faith, I saw a mom on tiktok that had a very pink and vibrant interior, and is allowing her son to choose his own colors, clothes, whatever. I forgot her handle :) The son loves it tho! He's like, idk, 6 from what i remember?
"Organic modern vibe" she says about a plastic ornament spraypainted with aerosol acrylic... Do words just not have meanings anymore?
No. No, they don't.
Imagine bying organic wooden toys when you could just buy toxic plastic and paint it with beige toxic paint ♥
Lol I just choked on my coffee
Soonest she said.organic I started laughing
Tbh those ornaments looked like grenades
As a teenager who loves maximalism, I feel horrible for those kids. A world without bright colors feels like a pizza without toppings. Some people like no toppings but toppings make a pizza unique.
Pls note that english isnt my first language 🙇🏽♀️
There's actually a sad story from my brothers kindergarten. On the first day of school, a new girl had a seizure after her parents brought her to the colorful classroom. When my brother and I visited her house, its the personification of the word Bland, Boring, and Beige
And I heard her parents blamed the school for being "Tasteless people who lets their beautiful baby see the color red instead of hazelnut brown"
The way they use the most happiest music ever in their videos
The saddest part was that the "beige toy" trend started with people trying to minimize the harmful chemicals their kids would be exposed to with wood blocks and natural cloth plushies and the influencers only saw the colors that resulted and went "🤤 aesthetic 🤤"
I'm going to try to do that version of it
Yeah, I nanny for a family that researches pretty much every single toy and item they get for their kids to make sure they aren't buying something with harmful chemicals. The result is a playroom that I would definitely call a bit more beige and "aesthetic" than the usual Fisher Price plastic wonderland. But guess what? THE KIDS STILL HAVE COLORFUL TOYS. They still have bright pink and purple and blue stuffed animals and wooden toys with non-toxic paint and organic cotton blankets with patterns of bumblebees and rainbows.
The first mom spray painting the Christmas tree sent me to the fucking moon. Like, you're exposing your kid to toxic chemicals AND giving them a lousy toy. Just infuriating.
@@samuelwoodouse4482 good! It's a good idea and it used to be pretty cheap too
@@samdaley8484 there is a way to make dyes with fruits and veggies! I’ve dyed some of my bunnies plain wooden toys this way
Kinda defeats the purpose if they are using spray paint on plastic.
As someone who gets overwhelmed by color I’ve decided that I just shouldn’t have kids because I know kids should be around color. I’m easily overwhelmed, not stupid.
Edit- I’ve clearly started a war so explanation time! (Yay) There are a lot of reasons that I don’t want/shouldn’t,t have children and I have a condition that makes me easily overwhelmed :)
preach!!
As someone who loves color but can’t stand to much of it at a time, same
I don’t think anyone paints their house based on kids liking color 🤣 maybe their bedrooms.. but that’s it.
5:54 I THOUGHT IT WAS SNOW
me too!!
1:24 THEYRE HER FAVORITE BECAUSE ITS THE ONLY THING HER MOM GIVES HER
When i watched this for the first time i was at my abuelas while my abuelo was still alive and whenever i re watch this is reminds me of them, so thanks, this genuinely reminds me of better times :)
Bro even goth mom has a room DEDICATED to color for her baby’s development. There’s no excuse for these moms
she mentions goth baby later in the video
@@jessywessy5196 yeah I realized that when I got there 😅
these beige coded k4r3ns mom are usually just want to focusing on themselves and feed their ego to their child lol 😂😢
If they’re truly worried about colors being “overstimulating” which, may be for some kids, they can opt for cute pastels that still provide COLORS AND FUN!!!
RIght, like hire interior design to curate & find the best options for your kids room. Pastel colors are the safest options there
The room itself should be pale, all the toys should be very colourful
Pale colours might not be the best for small children as it's hard to differentiate colours and objects that are pastels. That's one of the reasons why everything is soo bright and bold.
This is a smart compromise.
I swear, when I have babies, their room will have a rainbow M.C. Escher theme. Give their developing eyes some exercise.
I found your channel randomly the other day and I’m so happy I did. You are a delight and hilarious
I found ur channel the other day and you’re honestly the funniest and realest TH-camr that does this style of content. Keep up the good work!
my aunt is the perfect example of what a beige mom SHOULD be: all their furniture is neutral pimteresty things, her clothes are all solid color beige type things, but she doesn’t bring her toddlers into it. cmon. you can make your home aesthetic while still leaving places, toys, blankets, and rooms to your kids.
exactly! i think a good compromise at the very least is to have your kids room be colourful, let it be how children need it
Like someone else said you can decorate your house however you like but leave the kids bedroom colorful.
completely agree. my mom is also like that.. she practically hates any color in the house that’s not white, black, beige, or gray, EXCEPT from my room. i love vibrant colors and always have done, and she lets me express that which is how every parent should be.
Enough with the sad beige moms, we need the happy beige aunts on TikTok!
Exactly
Fun fact: The reason children’s toys are colorful is because, below a certain age, children have a harder time seeing color, so making toys primary colors help children see them much better.
Really? I thought they only made it colorful because children love colors. That’s pretty cool
Also these are stunting their children’s growth
What's your source?
@@liadeindadani6913 “If you want to make sure your infant enjoys their room as much as you do, it is important to understand how they perceive color. According to the American Optometric Association, babies don’t fully recognize color until they are five months old. In fact, during those first few months, a newborn mainly sees in shades of black, grey and white.
Contrasting colors send the strongest signals to a baby’s brain to help stimulate brain growth and aid in visual development, explains Dr. Sears Wellness Institute. By three months, a baby starts to see color and the addition of brighter, primary colors become important for their development. Between five and eight months, a baby’s color vision is fully developed, making it the perfect time to paint the nursery.”
@@mybaguettes5937 they do love colours. cos they have a hard time picking up on dusty pastels
I'm happy that I find you. I like the things that you talk about and I love your humour. You also often make me learn something new and you keep me entertained for all the length of the video. I always struggle to find something to watch on youtube and now I know. That's nice I guess.
My room is the complete opposite, my walls are pink and green.
Wanda and Cosmo, you ain't slick.
I literally once heard a beige mom on TikTok say she didn’t allow her kids to have rainbow toys because it’ll turn them gay
Ha, as a queer mum, bring it on 😂 the stupidity astounds me
@@alyshakingas a queer kid I can safely say that playing with rainbow mlp and super bright toys did not turn me gay 😂
Oh ffs
ah, yes, i'm asexual because i played with my little pony toys years ago.
@@strawburri420 they gave you too much cake and garlic bread/j
There's a particular reason why kids toys are this colorful - THEY DEVELOP EYESIGHT. They literally can harm the kid because of✨AESTHETICS✨
As someone who's studying Early Childhood in college, rooms should have a variety of color to help a child develop healthy, both mentally and emotionally. Chidren can be bored in a room with only beige, white, grey, or black. They need to have sensory.
Omfg maybe that's why i was the only person in the family that needed glasses (mine was a sad white mom)
@@cryswei8915Oh my gawd same!
(I swear my eyes always hurt when I open the curtains…)
Yeah and beige is too boring in general
This is true AND I love ur pfp
7:42
Victorian child: “That looks depressing. I don’t want to play with it. *Continues licking the led paint off of toys*”
"Neutralize" refers to replacing colours with neutrals. Neutrals, as I've been taught, are: black, gray, white, B R O W N .
Painting everything “neutral” is some cartoon villain behavior that I personally thought was unrealistic as a child
Like that gray blob episode of fairly odd parents 😂
one show i grew up watching had a villain whose whole schtick was being beige and boring
Right like I swear I remember some plot about a villain stealing the rainbow and all the colours from the world lmao
It reminds me of that one episode of PPGs lmao.
doctor doofenshmirtz just whipped up a "beige-inator" to turn the whole tri state area neutral colors
The only way to stop the Sad Beige Moms is build an army of Happy Color Dads
YES
Joining
I would follow them
That raises a question though... Where are the dads? do they exist?
@@exomake_mehorololo they have been neutralized lol
"U can't blame us" we for sure can and will XD
Wow, this is the first video I've ever seen from you and it is marvelous!
"Like, you can't blame us."
No madame, I do blame you.
YOUR CHILD IS NOT YOU.
Just because you can't stand to see more than two colors at a time doesn't mean your child can't either.
Exactly. They're so selfish, they just don't want to be blamed for anything
Literally when the kids in kindergarten they are going to be slower with learning the colors of the rainbow because most of their life have been only grey,beige,white,or whatever other sad colors they have
Won't forcing your child to be constantly surrounded by neutrals make them desperate for colorful things the moment they have the ability to get it in any way? Kind of like those kids who aren't allowed any candy and then go absolutely nuts for it as soon as someone as school or a friend's house offers it.
I saw a tiktok where someone asked this question and the comments were fulllll of maximalists that had beige moms lol
Can confirm my mother was someone who called anything not furniture clutter and now I have things covering every surface of my own home. It drives her mad every time she visits
@@ivytired5327 yeap. It was light yellow for my mom back then and ooh boi do I HATE light yellow. Still looks like pee. Now everything in my house is either neon-barbie-eye-hurting-pink or old-fantasy-wizard-blue (with golden stars because I hate yellow XD )
Right? Like if ANYTHING they might grow up to be chromophilliacs and end up like those people on TLC
@@lovers807omfg my mum called anything that isn’t an appliance, tv, couch, desk, or bed trash
“Funky frog without glasses isn’t real, they can’t hurt you.”
Funkyfrogbait without glasses: 14:12
If my mom did this to me as a kid, I don't know what I would do. My favorite color has been green for the longest time, and I dye my hair green, but idk what I would do if I had to dye my hair brown.
every time i see a beige mom i think of that one woman who had to start incorporating colors into her house because her toddler drew exclusively in brown at daycare
omg is it a real story???
@@ville__nobody cares.
@@ville__no seriously, nobody gives a damn about your sad, empty page. Your only post is a community text post trying to “flex” your ego. Narcissistic idiots trying to farm content without lifting a finger are a plague and I pray that you change for the better. (And don’t try to argue that I have no content either, as I’m an internet lurker who typically just observes. I could not care less about fame.)
@@ville__you don't even have content tf?
@@ville__silence, cretin
I hate when these moms use "overstimulation" as an excuse to make everything on their kid's life boring. I'm autistic and as a child, I LOVED rooms and drawings full of colors and life, it made me so happy! I get so sad watching them strip away the joy from the toys and items meant for their babies :(((
Same. For me, bright, bombastic colors give me life, make me feel energized and engaged. My mom prefers natural, more muted colors, so when I go to her house I tend to feel a bit sadder, less energetic.
Plus, the sad beige aesthetic isnt the only way to minimize overstimulation. They could also go for dark or pastel colors, but nah they chose the hospital aesthetic lol
same! i love color!
ABSOLUTELY. Like you know some (not all, but SOME) of them probably treat actual autistic people without a lot of respect.
What they’re missing is colors are good for babies. Babies don’t see well at first, so bright reds and black and white contrast is good for development. Kids are drawn to colors. The key is to not have so much stuff. That’s what causes the overstimulation. A few brightly colored toys that show different functions (electronic and non) are way better than twenty toys in various shades of poo.
Mom buys you a Murky Dismal doll. Paints it because it's too colorful.
Bro I watched 3 of your videos ( RV moms, Sephora kids, and now this ) and bro you make me laugh so hard I had to subscribe IM SORRY-
I was worried my sister-in-law would end up as a sad, beige mom, because she has compulsive tendencies, and can go very minimalist. But instead, she just has her two-year-old trained on how to do cleanup really well. So once everything‘s done, she just goes “cleanup time!“, that little Rugrat just runs around, screaming and laughing as she’s throwing everything into cubbies
That’s so cute! Good on her and your sister!
Sounds like a good mum right there 😊
That’s a much healthier situation for her and the kiddo, and fewer random tripping hazards!
Damn man good parenting
You know everything has a right way of doing it.
She sprayed a plastic ball beige and called it organic.
Thanks for explaining what greenwash is in a few simple steps.
People often don't seem to know what words mean on social media. Apparently you can call anything everything as if meaning doesn't exist
Plastic toys on top!
@@nic969wtf? They suck for the environment AND they can be broken and made into something as sharp as glass shards.
@@Just.ButterImo, wood toys are probably better than plastic or metal.
brown
This is the first time I heard about this trend. I need to watch more of your videos, I really feel like I am getting old and out of touch with the internet 😂 😭 anyway, you are super funny, love the poop jokes. Thank you for the educative video
As someone who is both a maximalist and an artist, this just hurts my soul in a very specific way 💀
There was a guy on Reddit that documented his divorce from a baige mom because he wanted his daughter to enjoy her childhood. Its one of my favorite reddit threads.
Lol please link
@@themusicofLK I'll see if I can find it
@@lordvoldemort5586did ya find it?
Lol I saw that 😭🔥
sure it's not an invented story to karma farm from this hating craze towards this alleged epidemic of "beige moms"?
man this reminds me of a story i heard of a mom who *stopped* being a sad beige mom when her kid's teacher went "hey your kid is drawing exclusively in brown at school"
wait WHAT. why is that so darkly funny to me 🤣😭
That is actually so depressingly funny like what? Jesus, imagine erasing color in your kid's life they only draw exclusively in *brown.*
@@theitchdeepinsideyourcranium I do like brown but it's a choice, and I also do woodcarving so I'm familiar with the whole "brown is actually a lot of colors". Would I expect or want that of a child? Hell no
@@Kehy_ThisNameWasAlreadyTakenI also believe you chose that not when you where a toddler. You grew up being surrounded with many choices (colors) and chose the color brown as a way pf showing your individuality. These sad beige moms took away their children‘s choices which is so sad
I FOUND A SAD BEIGE MOM IN A WALMART OR SOMETHING AND THEIR DAUGHTER LOOKED SO SAD AND DEPRESSED AND HER MOM WAS WEARING A LIGHT BLUE STRIPED CARDIGAN AND THE DAUGHTHER WAS WEARING BROWN AND BEIGE WITH PIGTAILS HELPHELPHELPHELPGELPHELP
Your dialog is genuine and funny af
I think the biggest underlying issue is for sure that these moms are inadvertently teaching their kids that they always have to be picture Pinterest perfect. It’s going to be damaging to their mental health in the long run.
Oh it really, really will. I got a lot of perfectionism issues from my family, and that was long before social media. It hurts me so much to think about the damage the pinterest aesthetic thing is doing to these poor kids.
Naww when the Creepy dystopia makes us all one monotone color it'll be cool.. Might be a good skill in the end of the world
Or RAINBOWS I miss color but.. Mehhh I Just
I’ve seen so many colorful aesthetics on Pinterest get super popular, so the argument that the mom is making to their children is pointless anyway, their child will find color regardless
Yeah, it's like subjecting your children to the whims and pressures of social media before they can even hold a phone!
Here's my take as a psych major. Infants have bad vision that relies heavily on shapes and color. If everything in their room is colorless, it simply doesn't register. Color is so important for cognitive stimulation and it really worries and angers me that these moms have done zero research into childhood development before popping out a whole ass new person that they view as an obstacle for having what the internet says to be the perfect asthetic house. Hate to see it, and hate that I'll have those kids in my office one day trying to undo the trauma of never being allowed to express an original thought or asthetic for the most pivotal parts of their lives. This will breed a generation that has a panic attack over placing a navy beanbag chair in their college dorm.
Ikr! Most people without kids know more about childhood development than these sad beige moms do and it's so sad. It's giving "I had a baby on accident but I decided to be a mom anyway"
It's possible that the exact opposite will happen. It's said that those tend to crave the exact opposite of what they grew up in. This is why there are periods of min-max interior house design trends over the centuries. Color is unavoidable regardless of how sad these houses are. It's very likely that these kids might grow up to have extremists-level of maximal houses bursting with color.
Heck, to go off on a tangent, worse case scenario, is that this might also make hording more common. Sad-beige moms don't seem to have a lot of, well, anything other than basic furniture in the house. When these kids grow up, it's possible for them to want to cram a lot of stuff in their homes as well.
Then their kids will find all the 'junk' and colors everywhere to be too much, and when their kids grow up, we'll be back at square one. Maybe it'll be sad-dark-blue moms in 40 years, who knows.
@@thegoldenblob69this person made a short on it :)
@@thegoldenblob69 I grew up in a messy maximalist house and that's my aesthetic because it feels like home to me, and it gives me comfort. My aunt Martha also have a cottagecore-ish looking trailer. She loved country stuff and had one of those stars you see on houses. I like that aesthetic too because it just makes me think of happier times.
@@jocelynecupcake
you are valid, and i imagine your house looks beautiful
As a mom of a toddler I feel horrible for these kids, forced to conform to their parents ✨ aesthetic ✨
You quote the beatles, im quoting the stones: paint it black
I was actually wondering "would I be judging them this harshly if it was goths who had a goth house?" And then it turns out that apparently the goths with a goth house thought ahead & gave their kid a bright colorful room, which reminded me why i trust goths way more than beige parents
Goths think. Silly beige girls don't.
Opposite for me. I saw a mom who literally black washed her child’s room.
It's a good thought process though!
There's a sexist undertone to that.... disgusting @Whimsy3692
@@edya.idiomas Listen to me. I was born a girl. Now let me say something. "Silly beige girls don't." Is that sexist to women? NO!
They don’t see the humanity in their own kids. The kids have their own interests and forcing your own aesthetic onto them is borderline objectifying
They see their kids as a way to further their aesthetic, not as individuals with personal styles
I fuckin love your profile dude 😭
Good point as well, idk what it is with people acting like they pretty much own their kids and can decide what they want.
@@ville__you haven't even been alive for 10 years
@@ville__my guy I have seen you say stuff like this everywhere, don’t you have anything better to do with your life? This comment isn’t even losely related to video
In general, society doesn't view kids as humans
I like beige, brown, gray and white, but I am NOT making my house a pinterest board, and if I am going to have a baby, it's room won't look like a graveyard 💀💀
I just found you btw and I love you and your humor is so beautiful. I love that you laugh..we know it’s coming from the rip and that makes it so good
Neutral moms and Sephora kids are the two plagues infecting your local mall
And they usually come in a pair 😬
They can have it. Malls are crap anyway.
The local mall opened back up?
Leave the 10 year olds out of this; their frontal cortexes are not fully developed and have not yet conceived of the cold, iron death grip of capitalism.
@@ThatOneChorusKidYeah, the beige moms birthed the Sephora tweens.
Okay this white b-day party could be fun if they give kids markers and let them draw over everything.
YES!!!
that's what I was *hoping* was going to happen!!
What LIKE gaint had paint paper activities
that is literally the only way i see that idea surviving in any kind of market
Paint fight!
THAT SOUNDS AMAZING
dude it's my birthday in a few months and I want that lmfaoo it sounds so fun
I honestly think that would save the whole idea
Edit: removed my age because I realized I shouldn't do that lol
Those moms have the same decoration sense as Dwight shrute throwing a birthday party
Im only 2 videos of yours in and i love your humor 😂 subbed
There's a difference between making your home minimalistic and having the aesthetic of a dentist office
Exactly! Minimalism can be about being very mindful about what to buy and keep and to try to reduce clutter and overconsumption. It doesn’t inherently have to be colorless.
my local dentist's office has great decorations :)
I said the same thing my OBGYN office has more color and life to then some of these homes, to be fair my OBGYN office has a bunch of funny and lively people that work there.
The dentist I went to as a child was colorful as fuck. Maybe because that dentist usually worked on kids' teeth
“It’s a toy, not a bomb threat.”
Had me laughing way harder than it probably should have
*THE CYLINDER*
I swear I love watching her videos because of this 🤣
Damn I missed that one 😂😂
Just found you and I Love this channel!😁
I love the start makes you sound like news reporter