THE TRUTH ABOUT SEX Q & A | Part 2 First time, Forgiveness, it being awkward

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ค. 2024
  • Well well well, supposed to be posting in 4 minutes (at the moment I'm sitting down to type). We just woke up about 45 minutes ago and did our Devo's etc but I did not want to miss the chance to leave you with some personal encouragement and updates. So follow our out of order bullet point list below!
    -If you want to sign up for our sporadic/bi-weekly email, now would be a great time to do that! Go to ToriandChad.com
    -If you liked this video feel free to share it if you think it will help other people! No worries if you don't want to though!
    -This video almost didn't get posted this morning or today in general...But Tori and I choose to stay up till like 3am to make sure we stay on track with posting and getting content out no matter if it is perfect or not and that is something I wanted to encourage you in this morning...A lot of the questions we got could be boiled down to people wanting things to be perfect. Whether it's your first time, or you are married and feel like things are off etc... there is this massive pressure to perform and for things to go "right". I don't think that is necessarily a bad thought, however, if we do think that way we are definitely missing out. You see, inside of marriage you have the ability to be yourself. You don't need to perform. You aren't trying to earn anyone anymore.Hopefully that person loves you unconditionally and that unconditionally means that you are free to be yourself imperfections and all (don't forget that means you love them unconditionally too). When I realized that with Tori I became so "free". I knew I was already free but something unlocked in my brain and I knew she wouldn't leave me and judge me for my imperfections and the way I fall short and weight was lifted off my shoulders. I no longer needed to put on a facade in order to feel accepted and worthy of love, I was just loved as is. The same goes for our relationship with God. He is not asking for perfection, He is asking that we trust and follow him and lean on him at all times, not just when the crap hits the fan.
    Anyways I am not sure if that encourages anyone but feel free to say hello to us on IG! We try to respond to everyone (although the messages are growing like crazy lol)
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  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Hey There! If you liked this video, give it a like! If you really liked it, feel free to share. If you hated it... uhhh sorryaboutit. lol

    • @ducgiangho9807
      @ducgiangho9807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The channel started to blow up, congratulations

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hope it continues to be shown to people who need to see some of the stuff we are sharing!

    • @joannacheriyan7766
      @joannacheriyan7766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Really looking forward to the next few videos..

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Aww thankyou!!!

    • @tomix2013
      @tomix2013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're a beautiful and blessed couple... Keep up so we enjoy your videos

  • @laurengasque6352
    @laurengasque6352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    “I would not trust someone else’s opinion who I didn’t trust the fruit in their life” - Chad Masters 👏👏👏👏👏

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh snap! hahah

    • @katherineortez2062
      @katherineortez2062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      YES !!! I hollered when he said that PREACHHHH

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      holler back player! hahah

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like u really am alone 💑💑❤❤❤😍😍🌷🌷

  • @paulasierra8989
    @paulasierra8989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    I appreciate Chad always saying “I’m not trying to be mean” but trying to come from a kind place and a Jesus loving place ❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Well I appreciate you saying that! I really am not trying to hurt people's feelings but share from a place of love...

    • @lisettep6779
      @lisettep6779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes! They speak with Jesus' love💓

    • @nobleudoesit7820
      @nobleudoesit7820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lisettep6779
      They do

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love u forever
      i like u am alone 💑💑❤❤😍😍😍🌷🌷

  • @eliselowne7629
    @eliselowne7629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    I once heard this saying, "Don't accept criticism from a person that you wouldn't go to for advice," and oh my goodness... The analogy that you used, Chad, about "fighting a blind person", just wow! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and bringing it all back to the Word. This video is just jam-packed with truth! Its so encouraging!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      oh wow that is FIRE!!!! I love that quote hahaha Thanks for being so kind!

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need u i like u am alone ❤❤😍😍😍😘😚

    • @Athingahangwi
      @Athingahangwi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yohh the quote just changed up my life right now here today!

    • @CaitlinRoseNel
      @CaitlinRoseNel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MuhammadImran-ln4fz as Christians, Chad and Tori are married and they can't cheat on each other because they have made a promise with God to be faithful to one another.

  • @cassidyrobbins7895
    @cassidyrobbins7895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    When Tori started talking about how the only thing that you are missing out on is shame and soul ties I started clapping out loud!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hahah WE CAN HEAR IT!!!

  • @kbahr214
    @kbahr214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    “It’s okay. You’re married. Don’t feel like you’re always performing. There’s no performance. The facade is down, the curtains open, you can be yourself”- that is true freedom!!! Gods plan of intimacy only in the walls of marriage will always be the best one.

    • @trudyfehr9063
      @trudyfehr9063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That part in the vidoe actually made me cry😭 its so beautifully put❤

    • @kennethfok
      @kennethfok 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah. Don’t have to perform. Just focus on enjoying the moment. Any sexual acts in the marriage bed with the mutual consent of husband and wife is honouring God. God does not even bother with our performance. He’s more interested in whether we are giving enough pleasure to our spouse. Because the ultimate goal of sexual intimacy as defined by God is for couples to enjoy it while procreating.

  • @emmaheslop8482
    @emmaheslop8482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    just one thing i would add, is that victims of sexual abuse/rape/etc are not unworthy or unclean. it can be kind of forgotten how that didn't get to be a choice for some people and how incredibly hard that is. the victim is not at fault, and placing the blame on the victim is never God's will. he feels the pain of the victim and weeps with them. God will never punish the victim for something they couldn't control.
    really good video, just thought it wanted to say that considering that victims of such abuse are unfortunately pretty common. it goes to show that something so amazing, satan can twist to abuse, hurt, and use to disrespect other children of God.

  • @kab1792
    @kab1792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    These are such great videos to have a Christian talk honestly and open about. I definitely see God using Chad and Tori to break down lies that Satan has told people about sex, relationships, and boundaries. Thank you for talking about the hard stuff, God is using you!!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Aww thanks for saying that! It means so much to have support while opening up about this topic!

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well u merry me i like u love u sm alone 😍😍😍💑💑💑❤❤❤🌷

  • @angelavanoosten1
    @angelavanoosten1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    This whole series is going to be a game changer for so many people !!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Awww we sure hope so!

    • @angelavanoosten1
      @angelavanoosten1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ToriAndChad for sure! God will work through it :)

    • @King-is3td
      @King-is3td 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It already is❤️

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like u am alone 😍😍😍

  • @trishavishwanath1513
    @trishavishwanath1513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I’m 19 and I’m waiting for marriage! I always knew I wanted to wait ,but the reasons were never as strong. Whenever someone asked me about it I’d always say I’m waiting, but this video and the previous one about it really opened my eyes and solidified my views, so thank you for always sharing the truth and making us think deeper ! 🙌🏻 ❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Aww thanks for sharing that with us! that is the goal is to help people understand their why!

  • @gracebradshaw9657
    @gracebradshaw9657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    “let it be what it is, then talk ab it” wow this applies to so many things

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yes and so true. I love that thought

    • @lisettep6779
      @lisettep6779 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That stood out to me too! Thanks for sharing😊

  • @twistmiricho7238
    @twistmiricho7238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Is it just me or i notice you guys never speak over each other ever!! So respectful and insync

  • @naomigrace8261
    @naomigrace8261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    when you said, "would you fight a blind person?" that really made me think about all the times where I've felt so angry and upset at people for being mean to me (or others), doing the wrong thing or making ungodly' decisions in their life. How judgmental I've been to other people when I'm making a god out of MY standards rather than the Lord's standard for MY life and my character. Thank you Chad!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww I only know that thought because I also can be super judgmental etc... Thanks for the love!

  • @angelavanoosten1
    @angelavanoosten1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Oh can we just talk about the fact that Tori is AMAZING for taking so much time to reply and talk to people on dm's! You literally show Jesus and love people in great ways even though it must take you hours. We love you Tori!! 🤍

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yesss ! She is the best and spends hours every day responding! She loves yall so much!

    • @ruthsolomon3868
      @ruthsolomon3868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The Best!

  • @edithnjuguna6631
    @edithnjuguna6631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am listening to this right now and I feel like this is all new . Okay,I can't explain the feeling it's like shock or an awakening or a renewal idk,but this ministry is so for you guys. Helping the young pple with their sexual struggles is your thing. God bless you 💯💯✨

  • @carolinemolloy9637
    @carolinemolloy9637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Y’all are bringing the narrative back to what it was originated to look like. Tori - your words on God blessing the woman who sinned sexually to go and spread His Word is something every. single. young adult NEEDS to hear! Chad, your words are so powerful! Fighting a blind person is the perfect convicting analogy (I really hope I spelled that right lol) for people to be able to have a visual of that life!! Y’all have changed my life & I know SO many others. ❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you are so kind to share all of that and what you liked and impacted you! Thanks for lifting us up!!!

  • @tshimangadzomavhungu3563
    @tshimangadzomavhungu3563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Been waiting for part 2 since I watched p1 and it was amazing and had opened my eyes in so many ways , we all need to hear this

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the love!!!

  • @leslie117777777
    @leslie117777777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate so much that y’all are so real and that y’all make sure to be intentional in giving God the glory! Thank y’all for sharing this series and sharing y’all’s hearts with us! ☺️💕

  • @HeyItsVal
    @HeyItsVal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    “Let’s survive this spinning rock together” haha Chad is hilarious!! ... Thanks Tori and Chad for being so open and Christ-centered with your videos!!

  • @Baileypatt97
    @Baileypatt97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank y’all so much! God has used you guys to bless me and so many others!

  • @leratomokone5960
    @leratomokone5960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I feel like I discovered this channel at just the right time I've been feeling something in me telling me to wait until marriage and this just encouraged me soo much thank youuuu guys 😭😭💜

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww that is so awesome!

  • @charyse1361
    @charyse1361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "The person's not leaving you, the facade is down" great words Chad 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @heidi5781
    @heidi5781 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can totally agree with that part Tori, when you said "you arent missing out on anything except for shame, soul ties that need to be broken" etc.
    I just want you thank you guys SO MUCH again!!! Thank you for sharing your hearts, and for sharing in love and sharing the truth xx

  • @katelynevans8124
    @katelynevans8124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you guys for making this series! This has helped me so much. You guys are the best!

  • @eunhye3
    @eunhye3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I appreciate the fact that you guys are very honest with us, even to the point of sharing some personal testimonies when you didn't have to. God bless your channel!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Aww thanks for saying that! It takes a lot to share personal testimony but we hope our honesty helps others be honest with themselves!

  • @AmishaChhabraMusic
    @AmishaChhabraMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yall... u don’t even know how HELPFUL these videos are for me!! i’m 17 and ima be so full of wisdom when i get into a relationship in the future. thank you Jesus for speaking through yall!

  • @rileytafaro
    @rileytafaro 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for your honesty. I’ve seen so many videos on this topic, and truly your video is the the most down to earth one yet.

  • @joychiang7698
    @joychiang7698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love how bold y’all are about sharing the truth! The sharing near the end about the woman at the well made me tear up. Thank you both 💕

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sweet of you to say that...Part 4 was posted today!

  • @beatrizalonso1771
    @beatrizalonso1771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The blind person example was SO GOOD!!!!!! I just loved it, I had never thought about it that way and it is so so clever, criticism really is nothing personal. Thank you so much for sharing all this, you are so inspiring!!

  • @herbrouson921
    @herbrouson921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This series is awesome!! Over the past few months these have been questions that I've personally struggled with answering in my own walk with Christ. Being 18 years old and starting college, this is a topic that's relevant now more than ever in this season of my life and it really helps to see other Christians giving their insight!! Thankful God placed you guys in my recommendations:)

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well by God that is awesome!

  • @madilyndonnally4904
    @madilyndonnally4904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow! When you guys were talking about the sheep being anointed with oil and how we need to anoint ourselves with truth daily! Wow! Thank to for sharing! God bless you!!! 🤍💗❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless you!!! Thanks for the love and taking the time to encourage us!

  • @dustinbuckley6887
    @dustinbuckley6887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Chad bro, I respect your boundary with Tori prior to yall's marriage not kissing her. I am not married and I will be setting the same boundary knowing my limits or lack there of. God Bless you both.

  • @jasl2100
    @jasl2100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have been waiting for this! Thank you Tori and Chad for speaking truths! Your contents have been a great encouragement to me! Thank you Jesus for both of you!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That means so much to us, thank you!!!

  • @missduke8391
    @missduke8391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It’s so refreshing to see such a happy couple setting an example for others. Thank you for the great advice.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you! Part 3 went up today!!!

  • @ayeshafatimah8326
    @ayeshafatimah8326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so thankful. It really helped me alot and the verses did it enlighten my thought process.. And when Chad said in the last verse about controllment of temptations and feeding ourselves constantly like the oil did for the sheep was really a great reminder. Thanks alot you both I was desperately waiting for part 2 :)

  • @whitneywilliams6168
    @whitneywilliams6168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The amount of honesty and truth that came from this video is so amazing!! I appreciate the fact that you spoke from your own experience, you have shed some light on this topic for so many young people. Thank you so much Chad and Tori 💕. Looking forward to seeing where God takes you and this channel 💕. Praying over you because I know that the enemy comes up against those who speak truth about Jesus and who He is🙏🏻.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the love and support, Whitney!!!Thank you for praying over us... we need it!

  • @beccarter7810
    @beccarter7810 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gosh I just love watching you guys! Your advice is so spot on.
    My personal favourite was Chad talking about how condescending comments others would make like "I can't believe you don't live with your girlfriend" but Chad knew that the earthly financial cost of staying faithful to God's plan for a relationship/marriage was an investment worth making, because you're not just with them to save some money or for your own benefit!

  • @zoetaguma
    @zoetaguma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    So, so necessary 🙌🏾 if we as Christians don’t talk about these things, then we’ll get it from culture.

  • @katherinejoy9048
    @katherinejoy9048 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVING THIS!! I feel so much joy watching your video! Thank you for speaking truth. You are beautiful people inside and out!
    Can't wait for all the upcoming videos!!

  • @suziedeschene5069
    @suziedeschene5069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Dude I totally needed this. You guys always hit the nail right on the head. Thanks parents

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So happy you liked it, Suzie!!! We miss you!

    • @suziedeschene5069
      @suziedeschene5069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Miss you guys tooooo. I’ve been off instagram for like a month. Taking a break 😘😘

  • @annabromley2331
    @annabromley2331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow thank you sooo much. I am loving this series! I am that christian girl who has been told by society/church that sex is uncomfortable amd gross. I am so greatful to have you guys doing these videos it has been so helpful for me and I know for others too. Thank you so much for having this conversation about sex so free and openly ❤

  • @carolwilliamsblog
    @carolwilliamsblog 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love Tori's perspective on the woman at the well, thank you for sharing that. 🙏🏼❤️

  • @sharonlefa1634
    @sharonlefa1634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    When mum and dad give you “the talk” 👏🏽😂 I’m excited to watch this and get some wisdom 🙌🏽 Genuinely look forward to all your videos !

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      hahah oh gosh! Hope this video encourages you, Sharon!

    • @King-is3td
      @King-is3td 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤲🏽

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love u
      I like u am single ❤❤😍😍🌷💑💑💑💑

    • @King-is3td
      @King-is3td 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MuhammadImran-ln4fz me too

    • @King-is3td
      @King-is3td 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MuhammadImran-ln4fz Madly

  • @rebeccarizzi7564
    @rebeccarizzi7564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This series is so chock-full of wisdom. I'm blown away! This should honestly become a book.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only if we knew how to write haha

  • @anamajuelos9797
    @anamajuelos9797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so so so so much for these videos. You don't know how much I needed them right now. It's helping me a lot. Really, thank you so much. God bless you both 🙏🏼❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're so sweet! thank you for the love!

  • @Thebramefam
    @Thebramefam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    You two are literal Kingdom workers whom I appreciate! It takes truth in the Lord, and real life experiences to help shape the lives of others! I look forward to watching more of your videos 🕊🤍

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aww thanks for saying that, Jeannette! We are thankful for you!

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Iove u u u
      I like u am alone 😍😍😍💑💑❤❤❤❤

  • @meghanodonovan8020
    @meghanodonovan8020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    AHHHHHHH so excited for this, ep1 was AMAZING

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!!! So happy you liked it!

  • @sadhanas6340
    @sadhanas6340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was so honest.. thank you guys for being so open to us about your own experiences and helping us on topics like this which a lot of us wish we knew more about especially from a Christian perspective and thank you so much for wanting better for us and helping us realize how important a Christ centered relationship is. Glad I found your channel as its helped me so much...❤️❤️❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We are so happy you found our channel as well!!

  • @ioanatarnaveschi
    @ioanatarnaveschi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I so love the way you see things and talk about them in a healthy informative and caring way! You guys are so amazing and God is definitely working through you! Thank you for following God's plan and obeying His will. You're blessing us!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aww thanks for saying that Loana! You are blessing us with your support!

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need partner i am alone 💑💑😍😍❤

  • @patriciaarellano5312
    @patriciaarellano5312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was just smiling the whole time and learned so much!!! thank you for this Tori & Chad 🤍

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww yay! Now we are smiling!

  • @SuperSmcgrath
    @SuperSmcgrath 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have to say I stumbled upon you guys last night and Wow. To watch the love and respect between the two of you. Y’all are such a cute couple. I’m 49 years old and am glad y’all are talking about this stuff and just plain being real. Keep it up

  • @missomh579
    @missomh579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so happy I found this video. I have always thought the same as you but somehow, I got lost in the flow and wanted to be "normal". It came with so many bad baggage.... But I'm glad to see that pure and real love exist, and waiting till marriage is possible in 2020. May continue to bless your marriage.

  • @OliviaBarrosMusic
    @OliviaBarrosMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this so so much! Breaking down & smashing so many lies. Thank you for your bravery in tackling this subject with such grace and truth :) Lots of love x

  • @nikkischellenberg4800
    @nikkischellenberg4800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I like that analogy that Chad used where he described the peanut gallery as blind people. It's very true!
    We also have to remember that its not the people that we are fighting against when it comes to sexual purity but against Satan. So if those people are criticizing you for waiting until marriage, it helps to think of it as Satan criticizing you, which should make you want to stay pure all the more!
    Thanks again you guys for being vulnerable, sharing what God is putting on your heart and for taking the time to answer all of our questions :) Love you both!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AMEN TO THAT!!! I love that thought! We love you!

    • @kennethfok
      @kennethfok 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We observe sexual purity not because it is shameful or dirty to have sex before marriage. But rather we should see it as a precious gift from God to share with that one special person. And we exercise self control before marriage believing that God’s blessings will come upon us after marriage.

  • @ZacchaeusMontez
    @ZacchaeusMontez 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tori and Chad, you are amazing... God grant you more grace to do more of this you do. Honestly am blessed.

  • @christinerhine8183
    @christinerhine8183 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you guys, so much, for putting out this content!! I just found you all, and I spend more time watching your videos than most others. This is so relevant to my life as newly single, raising three kids ( 3 girls and 1 boy). AND 1 of which is all of a sudden a teenager 😮. Thank you for providing answers I have been mulling over for a long time. I was sexually assaulted many times in life, and just recently started the recovery in my 30s. God is working through you. God bless you and your beautiful family!!!

  • @lalabermejo2911
    @lalabermejo2911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so thankful that I found your channel. I love these kind of videos and seeing your perspective. You guys are seriously such role models for how I wanna live my life in Christ. I wish you guys all the love and happiness in the world.🕊💛

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thanks for saying that! Thanks for lifting us up and encouraging us!

  • @lisettep6779
    @lisettep6779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I recently found your channel and I am thankful that I did!! Thank you for speaking over this topic with God's truth and love. Your words of wisdom and encouragement are so needed in our world today. Thank you for sharing Jesus' light and truth. I pray God's abundant blessings over you two! I know he is already using you in huge ways for his kingdom!🙌❤

  • @munchymiddlevertmama
    @munchymiddlevertmama 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the great points you both have on this subject! You have approached it with such honesty and humility and I have personally been blessed. 😊 It's like my heart keeps saying "YEASS!! FINALLY real people having a real conversation around the real subject of sex that affects 99.9% of humanity". 😄

  • @jenniferiwenofu1699
    @jenniferiwenofu1699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so glad you guys are making these videos

  • @pruebaT14
    @pruebaT14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every single time i watch their videos i wish i had older siblings or even parents who would give me advice like them. They seem so honest and down to earth and i feel i could sit for an hour with them and they would have the right words. i seriously wish i can be part of a relationship like them in the future and find someone who would respect my values and help me grow

  • @brittanymcclintock7013
    @brittanymcclintock7013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I needed this video, thank you for being so honest and bringing perspectives. Yall rock!

  • @alissa1ann211
    @alissa1ann211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have to say, I just got married Sept 26th and this was very insightful but im thankful y'all put Christ in the center or the conversation and reminding us to basically do the same. Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable. Love yall so much 💗

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for the love and congrats on your marriage!!!

  • @jess1ic5a
    @jess1ic5a 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOVE YOU GUYS! THANK YOU FOR DOING THIS AND WALKING IN OBEDIENCE AND WITH GOD! SO SO SO BLESSED BY YOU!!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thanks for the love, jessica! We love seeing your nam pop up!

    • @jess1ic5a
      @jess1ic5a 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ToriAndChad Hooray!! Glad you guys actually noticed lol. Have a great rest of your Monday :)

  • @kristinalulgjuraj2978
    @kristinalulgjuraj2978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Every time Chad said “naked” I couldn’t help but laugh😂. In all honesty though, I’m really looking forward to this series because hearing the truths of a Christian perspective on sex is something I don’t hear often so I love learning more!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hahah I have such a hard time saying that word! Thansk for being open to hearing what we are sharing!

  • @joannacheriyan7766
    @joannacheriyan7766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love the explanation of the shepherd putting oil on the sheep to protect them and it reminds me of Psalm 23 when David says you anoint my head with oil..I think only now I really get that reference..Thank you Chad

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YESSS! Love that it makes sense now!!!

  • @sadhanas6340
    @sadhanas6340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Been waiting the whole day to watch your video! It's almost the end of the day in India. I just love you guys❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Awww so happy we got it posted in time! We love you, Sadhana!

  • @sharonlefa1634
    @sharonlefa1634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Woooowwwww !!! “Would you ever fight a blind person?” 👏🏽🥺 Jeeeez y’all are preaching TRUTH AND LOVE so beautifully 🥺🙌🏽

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We love you, Sharon!

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like u am single 💋👄💏😘😚😍😍❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mayahelena4
    @mayahelena4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oh my gosh! so inspired and thank you for sharing the conviction part I needed to hear it...I feel the Lord convicting me too in my dating life...wishing you two the best forever xx

  • @ambertemme9623
    @ambertemme9623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for allowing the Spirit to speak through yall! So much wisdom! Love you two so much :)

  • @nikkigrace1831
    @nikkigrace1831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "am I with this person to save a buck" CHAD BOY U BETTER PREACH!!!!! Guys this was so life-giving and so good. Was definitely getting teary, thinking about all the lies the enemy catapulted towards me when I was younger that i believed seriously sucks! But God is so redemptive and im so amped you guys are doing a series of this and helping all of us and those who dont know Jesus yet! Love yall. also very pumped for the clothing drop

  • @josalmon4742
    @josalmon4742 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate how serious he is about the subjects.

  • @rebekahkann1599
    @rebekahkann1599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey was just about to ask you to do a part two and i find it here!! i am so happy to watch this!!

  • @samueljayakumar6132
    @samueljayakumar6132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yayy !! It's finally up ..can't wait for what's in store 😁🙌🏼

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We hope you liked it man!!!

    • @samueljayakumar6132
      @samueljayakumar6132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ToriAndChad Of course I'm gonna like it bro ! It's very difficult to dislike what you guys post ..your content is that freaking good 👌🏻💯🙌🏼❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hahah well I needed that pump up of confidence this morning! Thanks a lot dude! If you read the description I shared that we were up so so late trying to get this video done lol

    • @samueljayakumar6132
      @samueljayakumar6132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ToriAndChad yes I just did .. your efforts have been well paid my dude ( so far, 20 mins left to watch ) I'm sure that this is gonna make a huge impact and be beneficial to many people watching this 😁🙌🏼

  • @zoecallanan5485
    @zoecallanan5485 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I haven't watched the whole video yet but I heard the first question and I wanna add that there's nothing wrong with being random, if he's the one he won't mind and if he's not then it doesn't matter. ❤️ Anyway love the way you guys are so open and honest, it really helps a lot while trying to learn and get a better understanding, keep doing what you're doing. 🙌🏻❤️❤️❤️

  • @brieannamolin
    @brieannamolin 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are so helpful, especially for us young adults trying to make our paths along dating right in Gods eyes. Thank you!!

  • @wanjawandia1786
    @wanjawandia1786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I like how y’all set the context of the Bible verse and also instead of saying “the Bible says...” and moving on, you actually pull up the Bible verse and elaborate on it.
    Great vid y’all :)

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes that was our exact goal! To not just be like "well it says what it says" but to talk about why!

  • @ivyevers8713
    @ivyevers8713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a blessing from God, exactly what i needed to hear in this season

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love u
      I like u am single ❤❤💏💏👄👄💋💋💑🌷🌷🌷

  • @sarahd.8080
    @sarahd.8080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW Chad, when you answered the question on criticism for waiting til marriage...SO TRUE!! Definitely will be remembering that for when others' see that I'm waiting til marriage!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww yay! that makes us happy!

  • @shaaya5079
    @shaaya5079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I came out of an unequally Yorked relationship 2months ago although we did not engage in premarital sex i still feel like that there is a lot of baggage to unpack. He is 9years older than me and now I feel like I wasted his time too being in the wrong relationship. He is not a Christian doesn't believe in God at all yet I wish he finds a partner that is equally yorked with him. For now I just wanna live for God and and glorify him in everything I do. Thank you so much Tori and Chad for this amazing series of videos. God loves you!

  • @shekinahtagoe5365
    @shekinahtagoe5365 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guys I appreciate your wisdom and insight into these topics 🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥 so so good! I love how you guys have a biblical perspective in everything!

  • @danielleelias685
    @danielleelias685 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow always impressed with how you 2 stick to your values, and your faith in God; no matter what others think or say. It doesn't matter what others think of what you say, but only what God thinks and wants you to do. Love all the advice you give and I'm an old lady. If you were my kids I would be so proud of you. God bless and keep sharing truth, the world sure needs this.

  • @nikipetras
    @nikipetras 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have nooo words to say. Thank you! You are my big inspiration. 🧡 praying for you 🧡 take care and be blessed😊

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're so sweet! thank you for praying for us!!!

  • @Chryslerdealership
    @Chryslerdealership 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how you two talk about this topic. I grew up in a super religious community and never truly realized how beautiful intimacy will be once I get married. Such a refreshing perspective. ❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww that's so special! Thanks for the encouragement!

  • @luzvidal3299
    @luzvidal3299 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how you guys always match your t-shirts with your eyes colors

  • @raynamaldonado6806
    @raynamaldonado6806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not sure if you changed the volume on the intro but my ears don’t hurt as bad this time!! Haha thank you both. Love from a sister in Christ! ❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww thanks for saying that! We did try to adjust volumes... We are still new to this so will probably continue figuring things out as we go over the next few years but thanks so much for sticking with us!!! We love you!

  • @mariahfedosov1516
    @mariahfedosov1516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great analogy at the beginning with the punch! That's a great way to put it!

  • @ivyevers8713
    @ivyevers8713 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was a blessing from God, exactly what I need to here this week.

  • @lovelycienna5
    @lovelycienna5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank y’all so much for these videos. I’m 25 now, but in my late teens I fell into that trap of “everyone is having sex so it’s okay if I do too”. I wanted to be loved so badly that I gave myself away to men that I shouldn’t have. I was so broken after a few years of this that I cried out to God and asked him to take away any desire for a relationship & sex. He worked a miracle in my life and set me free from the sin of sexual immorality, but he also he healed my heart in a way that I didn’t think was possible. All of this to say that, I now try my very best to share my story with younger men & women in the hopes they won’t go through what I went through. These videos are amazing, and are such a good resource to send to some of my younger friends. Thank you again 💕

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thanks for sharing that and being empowered to share your story so that you can help others not fall into that trap! amazing! Super encouraged by you!

  • @rajulmehta1917
    @rajulmehta1917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yayy.. Waiting since you uploaded the part 1.. 🤩😁

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahah hope you didn't hold your breath! ;)

  • @bethanybraselton2386
    @bethanybraselton2386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you guys so much for being honest and talking about this even though it might be uncomfortable😊
    p.s. Tori, you’re so beautiful!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks for the love!

  • @Mo-re7pn
    @Mo-re7pn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you for sharing! I love how honest you guys are and I think something I relate to with Tori is the need for accountability. Pastor Mike Todd also did 2 relationship goals series and it’s a great resource on the biblical importance of relationships and sex.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love that! Thanks for the rec! A lot of people have been recommending that which is cool!

  • @rylienelson6651
    @rylienelson6651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you guys so much for making these videos!!! Y’all are awesome! This is so helpful!!!! Love you!!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thanks for saying that! We love you!

    • @rylienelson6651
      @rylienelson6651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ToriAndChad you guys are seriously the best!!!! Wow!!!!!!!

  • @pekroll2467
    @pekroll2467 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for being so pure. People can learn from you too ❤

  • @twishamohin
    @twishamohin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is the teaser something about your podcasttttttttttttttt immaaaa sooooooo excitedddddd yay🎉

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahah check in with us on Wednesday!!!

  • @samanthagraciam
    @samanthagraciam 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey there (replying to your comment hehe) as well, Tori and Chad!! Oh wow I love this video oh so much! SO many truths and wisdoms, thank you for graciously sharing all of that to us! :D I love how honest, friendly, and loving you both always are when reminding us of all the truth that's said in the Bible! You two are changing lives & giving us priceless lessons! I can't thank you enough for being such (two) strong Christian role models that I really look up to (& thank you for still giving all the credits to the Bible//the Lord hehe!). All that said, I'm just so so glad to be living in the same timeline as you two! God is soo good for blessing me with you two through the internet!! also, just want to thank you again for giving us example of a beautiful Godly marriage! it gives me hope that one day God will give me a relationship where I can love & be loved unconditionally as well! in the meantime, I'm just gonna enjoy my Father's unconditional love and fall in love with Him and His people (like you guys!!)

  • @meganmaccagnan1558
    @meganmaccagnan1558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First one here! Love you guys💜

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      WOOOOOOOO!!! We love you!

  • @ashleyh.2178
    @ashleyh.2178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So much wisdom. Thank you 🙏 Love the biblical examples and real-life examples. Much love!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why thank you, Ashley!

  • @danid2550
    @danid2550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So encouraging! Thank you for speaking truth.

  • @jewelblue8496
    @jewelblue8496 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, those are great future topics! Thank you so much. God bless! 🙏🏽