Best Dating Tips, Sex, Shame, Waiting for Marriage & More! SINGLENESS Q&A part 2

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ส.ค. 2024
  • Got hit by a truck of conviction this morning. I was thinking about our devotional that we posted on the Mornings with the Masters podcast, and I mentioned in that podcast that “we shouldn’t let the way people treat us, impact the way we treat them.” I love that sentiment and stand by it…but it did trigger another thought… to not let what other people say or think about you change what God says and you think about yourself. I caught myself doing that this morning and I’m glad I stopped. You see we will be hated because Jesus was first hated. And that may reveal itself in different wants on different levels but am I living my life to make sure others don’t hate me? Or am I living my life in the free love of Christ? I hope it’s the latter for me and I pray the same for you.
    You’re so much more than what someone thinks about you. For as high the heavens are above the earth, so God’s thoughts are above our thoughts and God thinks wonderful things about His children.
    Love y’all,
    Chad & Tori
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  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Post your favorite quotes from this video in the comments!

    • @samueljayakumar6132
      @samueljayakumar6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The gifts of the spirit and fruits of the spirit 🔥🔥🔥

    • @samueljayakumar6132
      @samueljayakumar6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Put patterns over potential!
      Holy flip that’s good!!! Preach it Riley

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hahahah right?!?

    • @samueljayakumar6132
      @samueljayakumar6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Marriage is not about happiness it’s about holiness 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      quotes for days!

  • @ciaraliane2751
    @ciaraliane2751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I am SO thankful for women like you both who proclaim truth that God will wash you truly white as snow!!!! I could have been held back by shame BUT GOD! He makes all things new!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen to that!!!

    • @lianmontano4990
      @lianmontano4990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      YES!! amazing. lies can seem louder but truth is ALWAYS loudest!!!

  • @aricampo5901
    @aricampo5901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    "Put patterns over potential" fireeee 🔥.
    God is good, this little girls talk was just what i needed, grateful for you girls... (I felt like I was just chatting with my besties and I loved that)

  • @chukwudicharles7916
    @chukwudicharles7916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so grateful for part 1 and 2. Thank you so much for letting God speak through you!

  • @sarahnevax0
    @sarahnevax0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Oh ladies, I have been waiting for this! I’m entering into a season of waiting for engagement and marriage, and I thank you for your Godly wisdom and experience in this topic. It’s so easy to get roped into the desire of it, and I’ve been struggling with its distraction. Needing the Lord for patience and self-control right now. So good! ❤️

  • @sarahwood2518
    @sarahwood2518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Gosh, these are so good! This is exactly what I’ve been dealing with currently. Perfect timing! Thank you Riley and Tori!

  • @ChrissyChrissyChrissy333
    @ChrissyChrissyChrissy333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is by far my favorite video yet Tori!! You and Riley nailed it!! God always brings things at the right time, and I know He needed me to be reminded of this message. It never hurts to have loving reminders. I never thought I'd be in this certain season of my life, but this video renewed my vigor for the wonderful things God has planned for me. Thank you truly

  • @tressajones2403
    @tressajones2403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No words can describe how much I appreciated both of these videos. Thank you thank you thank you!

  • @carolwilliamsblog
    @carolwilliamsblog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Dang! That description Chad!! "To not let what other people say or think about you change what God says and you think about yourself." The comment from today's podcast that this thought was inspired by, was one that I noted in my journal this morning, although I'm not too sure how it will impact me yet. Also been happily single and pure for 6 years now 😀

  • @creezhan
    @creezhan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i watched the OG singleness series over 3 times already so i'm so happy there are going to be new episodes!!!

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Soooo good! Such incredible advice Tori and Riley! And that description Chad is super encouraging! (As always). Also congrats on your 3 year anniversary Tori and Chad! Hope you have the best rest of the week!

  • @samueljayakumar6132
    @samueljayakumar6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Chad my man. That description was just what I needed. Something happened in line to what you a shared a few mins ago and it got to me but after reading this, I’m definitely going to change my strategy.
    Look at God speak through! Wow 🤩

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      love it! Thanks for sharing my man!

  • @Lynchevelyn
    @Lynchevelyn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tori, I just want to let you know that your example of waiting for the Lord on the dreams of your heart has guided me so much in my waiting as well. I want to thank you for making all this videos that help not only me but hundreds of people that can get bitter on not having yet what their hearts desire. Don’t give up on faith, have joy in knowing that this period has a bigger purpose for your family and the amazing influence it has for all of your subscribers!

  • @samueljayakumar6132
    @samueljayakumar6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These last two videos have been really really good !! So much takeaways! all pointing to God and his hand of Grace. Now, I have to process this before I can go out sharing it to those who need to hear and there’s a lot who need to hear this!

  • @colonelquakers
    @colonelquakers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love this video even though I’m already married. I always tell my single friends that there’s always going to be that next thing that to believe God for so we all might as well get used to living with a spirit of rest and trust in Him. And absolutely I loved Riley’s advice on jealousy; process it with the Holy Spirit and then move on! 👏🏽❤️

  • @jillwalker4980
    @jillwalker4980 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As someone who is currently battling shame- thank you Tori, thank you for sharing your story and giving hope and the encouragement. God is good!

  • @juniaestola3684
    @juniaestola3684 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So thankful you decided to bring these girl talks back! At least this one! I was thinking back to when you started your chanel and how your goal was to be a big sister/friend to people and just realized how true that been in my life. You don’t know me whatsoever but God has really used you to impact my life. I’m the only girl in my family so I’ve loved being able to listen to all of the wisdom you share 🤍 I love how proverbs reminds us over and over to actually listen and take to heart wisdom and I’ve really tried to apply that by learning from others! Anyways just wanted to remind you that what you are doing is impacting more lives then you know and every little thing matters! Love you guys 🤍

  • @christiannaloos6866
    @christiannaloos6866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was so encouraging!!! Your guys both have so much wisdom, thank you for sharing it! Also Riley has the cutest slight accent ;P

  • @JGTFAMILY
    @JGTFAMILY 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a blessing, keep on helping and encouraging others with the videos you bring ❤

  • @gathonimwangi6758
    @gathonimwangi6758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was so much fun to watch. i was truly staring at riley's hair the whole time😍

  • @causeyourbeautifu00l
    @causeyourbeautifu00l 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woah that Hannah story/perspective ! That shook me to the core, thanks for your wisdom ❤️

  • @natashapinerostachita9755
    @natashapinerostachita9755 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y’ALL 🔥🔥🔥 love your intentionality- you always go above and beyond.

  • @shwetav
    @shwetav 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A big thank you for this Godly wisdom!!This is exactly what was needed. Thanks a ton you two!! :)

  • @ayounk4202
    @ayounk4202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I really need to hear this today.

  • @lyublyuisusa
    @lyublyuisusa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ladies. May God bless you❤️ this couldn’t have come at a better time for me. Thank you for being obedient to Gods voice

  • @aanuoluwapoakingbemi4276
    @aanuoluwapoakingbemi4276 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So thankful for you both! May God bless you for sharing

  • @luanagonzalez5441
    @luanagonzalez5441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So happy to watch!! And I love the description, Sending love!! ❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for reading it sweet Luana!!!

  • @JessicaMichelleVids
    @JessicaMichelleVids 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So good!! Needed to hear so much of this

  • @Miracleshappentv
    @Miracleshappentv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sending this video to people who are single. Another great topic. Have a wonderful day full of his presence and his love. Love you both

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're too kind to help support by sharing the video! THank you!

  • @solidumelizabeth
    @solidumelizabeth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Your marriage is not about your happines, it's about your holiness" wowwwww 🔥🔥🔥 yaaaaaas!!!

  • @jimtaylor2443
    @jimtaylor2443 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much. This is so good and I'm a 74-year-old non-virgin, but I will share this with the college kids I spend time with.

  • @Sybil28520
    @Sybil28520 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So needed this at this moment. Thank you 💜

  • @daniellefaucher3347
    @daniellefaucher3347 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love every word!!!!! Love you girls so much!!! It’s wild to look at how much I’ve grown in between y’all’s first videos and now these!!! God is so good!! I was thinking about when you guys were talking about “rules” we have as Christians and how the world looks at it in a negative way. But think about a kid or if you have multiple children with you, are you just going to let them do whatever they want with NO rules?! You learn real fast that it’s not actually helpful for anyone! 😂 God is our Father and He truly looks our for us with an undying love. ❤️

  • @taynacarvalho6471
    @taynacarvalho6471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm actually watching the part 1 right now 😂 and I'm so happy to see there's a part 2! yaaay🥳❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww perfect timing!!!

  • @iuliaturcas4348
    @iuliaturcas4348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am so excited to watch the part 2 of this video! ♥️ Your advice is priceless and I feel so encouraged by your words of wisdom! I hope that Riley will make an appearance on this channel more often! 🤗 Thank you for being open and vulnerable and may God bless you abundantly!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww yay! We love sharing things that we hope will actually help and encourage our audience, especially you sweetLulia!

    • @iuliaturcas4348
      @iuliaturcas4348 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ToriAndChad 😍😊🤗

  • @Annie-zh1oz
    @Annie-zh1oz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aahhh this video was such a good reminder!! 🥰🥰

  • @gwenking6983
    @gwenking6983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    FAV EVER DYNAMIC DUO💕💕💕💕💕💕you guys are my actual favorites so so faithful and my role models. thank you both so much

  • @luisawebster
    @luisawebster 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this was so good! thank you! ❤

  • @Songwriterbehindthecurtain
    @Songwriterbehindthecurtain 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations 🍾🎊🎈🎉 on 108k subscribers.

  • @netanya8059
    @netanya8059 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOWW!!! SO GOOD & ENCOURAGING ❤️

  • @kaleiyamato
    @kaleiyamato 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Lord is so good. How are all these videos such perfect timing!!!?!!!!!❤️

  • @myfanwygeorge-veale7314
    @myfanwygeorge-veale7314 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you both. Wonderful video ❤️

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video!!!

  • @Sylwiah17
    @Sylwiah17 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s sooo gooooooooooood !!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏼

  • @ciaraliane2751
    @ciaraliane2751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Two women on fire for the Lord sharing straight fire facts!!! Let’s goooooo

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yesss! Part 2!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      someone was refreshing haha

  • @oliviaholness7409
    @oliviaholness7409 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The random “mmmhmm” are killing me😂😂😂

  • @sierragarza2174
    @sierragarza2174 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such great advice!

  • @isaac_f88
    @isaac_f88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes!!! Part two!!!

  • @claubit32
    @claubit32 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Riley had so much wisdom!!!😊

  • @nicoleyoshihara4011
    @nicoleyoshihara4011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really appreciate both of your advice ^_^

  • @camillaneuner7308
    @camillaneuner7308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I‘d love to see a video of you talking explicitly about a women after God‘s, which qualities are desirable etc. not depending on your marital status. And respectively a video of you talking about men after God‘s heart. In my opinion you both are one of the most suitable people to talk about this topic!!

  • @rachirach333
    @rachirach333 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU!

  • @bareheartpod
    @bareheartpod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PLSSSSS DO A PART 3🥰🥰

  • @peteysrib
    @peteysrib 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yay for part 2!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      :) happy you are here, Dawn!

    • @peteysrib
      @peteysrib 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ☺💛

  • @faithj.3872
    @faithj.3872 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Paterns over potential! Amenn

  • @shaughnsmit2076
    @shaughnsmit2076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeahh part 2

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      IRON MAN! I did not know your hair was that long lol

  • @PatiPreczewska
    @PatiPreczewska 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Be thankful for your future” ❤️🎶🌻

    • @PatiPreczewska
      @PatiPreczewska 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And Tori haha! You are such a YEA person ❤️😎

  • @daniellefaucher3347
    @daniellefaucher3347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    CHEERS FOR PURITY!!!! And Romans 12:2! I don’t know about y’all but I WANT to look different 😊

  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Also give this video a like if you liked it!

  • @byvictoriavalentina
    @byvictoriavalentina 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    YAYYYYY MOREEEE🤩🤩🤩

  • @lydiaw7343
    @lydiaw7343 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Patterns over potential”
    and
    “If they’re not on the vine, they not going to produce fruit”

  • @annajansz6017
    @annajansz6017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Riley and Tori, I just have a question about what you guys said about thanking God in advance for your husband. What if it is not God's plan to give you a husband?
    Also, the story of Hannah in the Bible, I looked it up and she did pray for a son and commit him to God if she received one, but she never started thanking him for giving her one in advance. At least, it's not recorded that I saw...could you explain that further?
    Thanks!!

  • @keana._
    @keana._ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That description 🤌

  • @fj9206
    @fj9206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love u sooo much♥️♥️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thanks so much! Sending love to you too!

  • @angelavanoosten1
    @angelavanoosten1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Riley is SO awesome I always get her tiktoks on my fyp and she speaks fire

  • @samueljayakumar6132
    @samueljayakumar6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This gonna be straight Fire 🔥🔥🔥

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're voice in that music video was straight fire lol

    • @samueljayakumar6132
      @samueljayakumar6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ToriAndChad thank you ver much!!! Sending you a different version of the song soon

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      acoustic?

    • @samueljayakumar6132
      @samueljayakumar6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ToriAndChad acoustic but one pitch higher

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      oh dang it's about to get real!

  • @angelavanoosten1
    @angelavanoosten1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oooo this will be fire I just know

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We loved how sweet you were in that video yall sent us yesterday!

    • @angelavanoosten1
      @angelavanoosten1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ToriAndChad awww of course! So happy to played a small part. So so glad you loved it🥺 I'm genuinely obsessed with the songs

    • @vandaaltje
      @vandaaltje 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angelavanoosten1 I mean, who isn't obsessed with them 😍 The whole thing was so wholesome! 🥺

  • @charnevonderbecke4403
    @charnevonderbecke4403 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Only 1:29 into this video and my entire life was summarised wow🥵🤣🤣

  • @shainasworld8140
    @shainasworld8140 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great content ❤️how long were you pure for before you got married

  • @_xBrokenxDreamsx_
    @_xBrokenxDreamsx_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    present over potential - if they treat you like crap now loving them more isn't going to help them realize their 'potential'. true love doesn't require sacrifice.

  • @Beleive-Christ-cares
    @Beleive-Christ-cares 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂 good advice

  • @janwosegien7519
    @janwosegien7519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think Riley is awesome... Ohh and incognito british 😂

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahah she is well traveled and has such a great and interesting accent!

  • @jazmynk1518
    @jazmynk1518 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can I pray for a man that I have on my heart or do I put limits on God if I mention a name?

  • @abigailboal4426
    @abigailboal4426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey y'all

  • @nicoleyoshihara4011
    @nicoleyoshihara4011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤💕

  • @lucyzg
    @lucyzg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much for this! :)

  • @samueljayakumar6132
    @samueljayakumar6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tori and Riley coming in hottt

  • @samueljayakumar6132
    @samueljayakumar6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fam jam

  • @keana._
    @keana._ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    holaaaaa amigos ✌️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HOLA KEEKS! I'm still dying over your "water those" comment lol

    • @keana._
      @keana._ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hehe me too 😂

  • @lugm1034
    @lugm1034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I kind of want to be there in the bedroom chatting with you guys as if you were my besties lol

  • @billmcgoon9991
    @billmcgoon9991 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Galatians 5: 22 - 25
    Part 2
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    “The Fruit of their life”
    “How do you Guard your Heart (Proverbs 3: 5)?”
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    of (rejection) vulnerability births from leaning on your own understanding.

  • @JesusYeshuaismyeverything
    @JesusYeshuaismyeverything 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Theres only 1 person who will never break your heart.. and only 1 person whose love for you will never run dry and completely satisfy..
    It's not that cute or hot girl or guy...
    Maybe that can be fun and u may crave it a ton....and sure it can feel great with a mate... but you'll just need more and more for shore and it may bring u some guilt and shame and you'll have yourself to blame.
    So.. give Jesus the lover of your soul a chance.. He will fill you with peace joy love self esteem confidence.... that's divine romance... 🙂🙂🙂🙂

  • @JGTFAMILY
    @JGTFAMILY 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whenever you sin against God, just try to go back to Him and ask Him for forgiveness and He will forgive you...don't condemn yourself anymore for making a stupid decision, God will forgive you if you would just go to Him and ask Him to
    "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." ~1 John 1:9

  • @wetnwildspace3720
    @wetnwildspace3720 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It wont be cheating or a sin but will be naughty and goes against everything your religion has taught you

  • @christinalembo4506
    @christinalembo4506 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Blessings to this good spell caster #Doctoruroko