Nate’s eyes when Sutton was recounting the urgent care story…. Holy shit girl are you ok?? Nate, why on earth would you not INSIST on keeping the kids so your sick wife could get help? What’s wrong with you?
Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly
So let me get this straight: she is supposed anticipate him wanting a hot meal at 10 pm when he gets home from traveling, but he isn’t supposed to understand he needed to keep the kids when she went to the dr??? Are you kidding me
Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly
Wait, so he wanted her to have the foresight to consider that he would want a meal when he came home late at night after being on a plane but he couldn’t have the foresight and consideration to think she doesn’t want to take small children to urgent care? This is really quite sad.
Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly
Ugh, here from TikTok again. It's despicable behavior, frankly, if a husband doesn't just assume he will be watching the kids while his wife is at URGENT CARE. Good grief, I wouldn't even have to hint at it or be sarcastic. There is clearly some very toxic, narcissistic behavior on Nate's part and the fact that your two sit down to do marriage advice videos is appalling. My husband (of 19 years) and I are also conservative Christians, and we are far from perfect and marriage is very hard, but if I were headed to urgent care for any reason he'd drop everything to help me, no questions asked. It's sad to me that Sutton tolerates this gross behavior from her husband, and furthermore that you two think this kind of content sets a good example. What's worse, TikTokers looking to hate on Christianity are using Nate's toxicity as examples of why Christianity is bad. Gah. Stop giving them perfect content! 🤦🏼♀️
Sutton your hair is SO beautiful no matter what it's doing.. you could walk through a hedge backwards and you'd still be the prettiest girl in the room 😌
So you have to read his mind when it comes to dinner, but he can’t read yours when it comes to his kids? Grow up bro. Be better to your wife. You found an amazing woman. Treat her accordingly. And Sutton don’t let him treat you that way. He needs to watch the kids when you go do stuff. ESP going to urgent care. And the face he made when you were talking about it is terrifying. And why do I see her apologizing more or taking responsibility more?
Also let me say this, my husband is a plumber/ac tech. He works every day sometimes 80 hrs a week. But when he is home if I need to go do something or run errands he automatically offers to watch the kids at home. We have 4 kids. There is no excuse for him not to watch his own fuckin children! Like I’m sorry your husband is this way. And I hope you know that it’s not okay behavior
@@Brittanyshannon22 Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly, and she literally js explained how they miscommunication, everyone is different, he prob learned from taht mistake stop judging what’s none of your business
Nate, where was the *forethought for Sutton’s situation* when she had to go to urgent care? And you were mad she didn’t have a sandwich ready for you when you got home from the airport?
Why would you think it’s okay to not take the kids so she can go to urgent care? That is the most narcissistic behavior! What a selfish terrible husband! Sutton please leave this one sided abusive relationship! I promise you will be happier with another man who treats you like the queen you are! This man does NOT!!!
This is why putting women in a subservient echo chamber is so abusive to them. She thinks it’s her fault he didn’t watch the kids while she went to urgent care. No sweetie, if he cared about your well being even in the slightest he would have the care and compassion to think of someone’s needs besides his own. It shouldn’t have even been a discussion or a question. It should be a given because expecting the opposite is ludicrous. Yea take my two children to a waiting room chock full of sick ppl when they’re of the age they lick everything and can’t sit still. It’s the better option then me (their father) watching them at home. Do you see how completely stupid that is? I really hope you can find a way out someday and someone who treats you and cares for you the way a husband should treat and care for his wife.
The low key satisfaction in Nate’s eyes when Sutton said yes to the muscle mass question 😂 From my own perspective, I look for guys that balance out certain aspects of my personality and complement others. I’m quite introverted so I feel like I need someone to get me out of my shell to balance that, but then I also love deep intellectual conversations so I look for someone that can complement that aspect. There’s never a one size fits all personality and the same way there’s no one size fits all body type. We’re all created unique by God’s beautiful design so guys, don’t ever be discouraged! You all have wonderful personality traits that God gave you for a reason! Use it for His glory ❤️ One thing that I personally find super attractive in a guy is when he is humbly but confidently living out his faith rooted in love… when you can tell a guy loves Jesus first… YES 🙌🏼
Whoa, why would it even be a back and forth to begin with about her going to the urgent care alone? She should just go! Those are his kids. He should think of her needs. And his comment at the end?? 😢
As a girl I totally agree with Suttons answers 110%. I would also like to add as a Christian, that a guy who clearly puts the Lord first (but not in a show off type of way) not only is very attractive, but also makes me feel more secure.
That's my prayer everyday, A man who really puts God 1st without having to even think about it bringsso much security!! I always fear of a man who is rather too logical, realistic, calculative over and above the voice of the Holy Spirit because there is just no guarantee in this earth, rather God 1st then logic.
No I think he definitely should have used his man brain to not be so obtuse and make you take the kids to a doctors appointment. Yes communication is good, but seriously. And how many videos I’ve watched and is lack of willingness to apologize to you as a Christian man is so mind blowing. PRIDE! What I find most attractive about my husband is that when I point something out, and it’s hurt me, even if he doesn’t agree he can say “I’m sorry that hurt you, that was never my intention and I’ll try and do better and find a different way” this man… I can’t. You should pray on that Nate. Humble yourself and serve your wife like she does for you. I can’t find the air port/not eating video on here right now or the working out after the baby video But look back please. Pray and reflect. Take yourself down a peg. Yes I get she didn’t “think” that as a grown man she would have to think about your needs without you actually communicating them to you, but you are also responsible for your self and your needs. Or the fact that doesn’t matter what you meant about the work out comments. You still hurt her feeling. Of course she’s still going to love you and move on, but that doesn’t mean you can’t take responsibility or that that’s such a sensitive time in a woman’s life and just saying “you know I love you no matter what you look like and God gave me you. I love you and I’m so sorry I made you feel that way, I never wanted to do that” humble yourself. What would Jesus do. We are all wrong doers. We all should be apologizing for hurting others intentional or not. Your wife is more precious that rubies. Love her as Christ loved the church. Feel sorry for hurting her. Think of her. God first, then her, then children, self LAST! You have a huge following. Be better buddy. Show the True Christ. Not this toxic man Christian image that’s giving anti Christians room to talk about on tiktok. We don’t need any more ammo to load into their weapons.
Have you watched their other videos? Have you ever made a mistake or been inconsiderate? If you watch their numerous other videos and saw their love for Jesus and each other and the boundaries he put in place while dating, you would see he was honoring God. You shouldn’t judge someone from a short video. Further, you shouldn’t judge at all.
Girl, are you okay? Everytime these videos pop up, the husband is throwing how heavily toxic and somewhat scary vibes. He looks like the type to slap a woman around, and say he does it because he loves her so much.
In the 3rd question Mr.Nate made a pretty good example of "when is leading a relationship too much" cause iv'e seen some friends say "lets go to here" and they will say "no no lets go here! trust me" almost every time. and that's what (sometimes) ends the relationship. also Nate, and Sutton love you guys so much! as a young and fellow christian i love this channel for the tips that i can take and use in my daily life, and i believe that god has blessed me along with every other person with you guys! thank you, and have a blessed day!
If you (husband) were considering the "reality" of the situation, you would've been taking on your *responsibility as a parent* to take care of you kids while she went to the hospital. Why? Why would you not immediately want to take that on so she didn't have to watch the kids in the waiting room of the hospital while simultaneously dealing with a health issue???
This was a super fun video! Several of the things you guys talked about were exactly what I found so amazing about my husband. At the end of our first phone call (we met online) he asked if he could pray over us and it blew my socks off! He wears his heart on his sleeve and is never shy about saying how he feels. And the most important character trait was I wanted someone who loved God more than he loved me. I knew if he loved God more than me, he would resect and love me, and always follow Christ's lead in our lives. I knew there would be an incredible amount of safety in that. And now we're celebrating our 13th wedding anniversary next month!
Sutton, hahahahahaha, the end with the hair catastrophe.... 😂 I did think something looked different about you, I didn't know it was that bad to you!!😂 We love you anyway!!
I love your content so much!! One thing I just wanted to note. I've heard mixed reviews on Redeeming Love, and I want to encourage everyone to look at the criticisms, and decide if it really is of benefit or not. I look forward to seeing more of your content.
So funny the whole time I've watched the video I thought about how beautiful you look Sutton and how great the hairstyle is, so no reason to be worried!
I love the book Redeeming Love and happy that the movie is true to the book. I am from Europe and just watched the movie recently. There was apparently so much debate going on in the Christian US about nudity and intimate scenes (it is covered) in the movie, and some youtubers basically telling Christians not to go. I find your positive short review refreshing and at the same time letting people know to be cautious of some scenes. I understand that for some people who are struggling with lust it might not be good idea to watch, but let it be their own conviction. Sometimes US christianity is standing so much for what they are against of and not what they are pro of, that they are turning non-Christians away. So thank you for your positive review! ❤
Isn't Redeeming love like soft porn though? Don't you guys think it is being used to slowly incorporate some worldliness and lukewarmness to Christianity? Would anyone recommend to read the book to a girl in her twenties who has struggled with lust in the past? I would love to order it but I am quite hesitant because it seems to be getting mixed reviews.
I 100% agree on being VERY careful about this title in particular along with some of the author’s other books. It is def on the side of soft porn (didn’t see the movie) and I would argue it is not necessary to “entertain” Christians with romantic novels that include worldly lusts and fleshly desires so explicitly. I am a woman who struggles with lust/mental purity and I’ve not allowed myself to read this book because I don’t want to support romantic novels or to dwell on anything of this nature even if it is based on a biblical story. I wouldn’t let my kids read it if I had any. My 2 cents
I agree the book definitely has some definite descriptive scenes however, the book is fashioned from the book of Hosea in the Bible. If you read the book of Hosea before or after reading this book, you may see the story in a different light.In the book of Hosea, you will see that God ked Hosea to take a wife (not a pure wife) and the issues he experienced during his marriage. If you really think the story of the book through, one will see themself as the Harlot, in need of a savior. We, like Angel have many sins yet God loves us anyway and desires for us to turn to him and allow him to give us a better life. Yet, we just can’t comprehend his love and often turn away from him.
@@sandracrig378 Then I'll just read Hosea. The author of Hosea didn't see ot fit to describe Hosea and Gomer's intimate moments and even song of songs isn't explicit.
In the NT God tells us not to be unequally yoked, and the book romanticizes being unequally yoked. They try to put a Biblical spin on it by saying that it is based on Hosea. God commanded Hosea specifically to marry Gomer to image God's faithfulness to His bride despite His bride's unfaithfulness toward Him. Hosea had a direct command from God, the unequally yoked command was only given in the New Testament, therefore Hosea did not sin. However, God established the terms for marriage clearly in the NT by telling us not to be unequally yoked. You do not marry a person in order to evangelise them, or to help them out of bad circumstances. Marriage is nog a charity case, you have to think about your children.
@@sandracrig378 i agree with you. i've never read the book, but since the trailer of the movie came out i wanted to read first. i definitely feel like this history have some biblical things, but even if not, i will still recommend to us, christians, exam everything and absorve what's good to us, and if you can't do that, so don't watch or read that thing cause you know it's gonna lead to the sin that you're dealing with
The last minute was super! I was thinking about the 1 or 2 hairs in front...that would tickle me and I'd have to blow them out of the way. I thought that Nate hurt Sutton's feelings after the sarcasm question.
Loved both videos, and I saw Redeeming Love yesterday and it was AMAZING!! Also Sutton, I being a woman thought your hair was totally fine. I noticed it while watching but honestly thought you were going for a look similar to how some wear a side bun type thing. I thought it was cute like I wish my hair was that long haha, but I get how it feels when you know what you're going for only to find out that it tried to do it's own thing yet others are like oh I thought that's what you meant to do lol. #girlprobs
Best part… “oh my gosh my hair” 😂😂😂😂 I don’t think anyone was paying attention on that Sutton but that was a funny ending to the video. You guys are great 🙏🏻
The fact that that movie showed more than needed to and that was just from watching the trailer put me off the entire thing and you confirmed it. It should not matter how nice the story line is, either make a Christian movie that's a safe space to minister to people or don't bother at all. Putting all that in there would cause believers to stumble or give them an excuse to think that "it's a Christian movie so it's ok".
I totally agree with you. I don't think it is appropriate whatsoever. The screen is a window and the movie is clearly showing real people doing real ungodly acts.
The book of Hosea is not about a girl sold into sex slavery and rescued out of it but a picture for Israel to see their wilful, repeated, unrepentant rebellion against Him. This movie misses the entire point of what God is saying in this book.
Marietta Van Middelkoop From my understanding neither the movie nor the book was meant to copy the book of Hosea, it’s very clearly said that it’s LOSELY based on the story of the couple in it, they literally say it inspired this story so you shouldn’t be going into it expecting that exact same theme or accuracy considering that’s not what the authors intent ever was.
my husband is a few inches shorter than me. i always invisioned a guy who was taller than me cuz i am tall but God sent me the best guy and he has never been worried about being shorter than me cuz he just loved me for me! been together 14 years and married 8 years. its natural for woman to like a guy taller as we see them as protectors and comforters, luckily my husband fills that for ne regardlesa of our height difference.
@New Soul.9 I meant the character qualities of a man that are masculine according to the Bible, not the physical qualities that are masculine according to the world, which would be height.
@New Soul.9 Masculine or feminine can be applied to both behavior and physical qualities. In my comment, I was praising Sutton's preferences because she prefers the qualities of a masculine man, according to scripture. The world praises the physical qualities of what is masculine or feminine. Using that world's definition then yes, a flat chest and booty are not considered feminine and a short male isn't considered masculine. So you're right, that definition is stupid, but it's not the definition I am using. Being feminine or masculine means something different in the Bible. It's based on character not physical.
@New Soul.9 Every human is loved by God no matter how masculine or feminine they are. No matter how tall, how skinny. All individuals are created and formed by the Lord. We all have preferences in significant others and both Sutton and I were expressing our opinion. And you are too. So let's just leave it at that and all get along. 😆
That face you make Sutton at 14:00 (after you guys made the cut) speaks volumes. The fear, confusion, and hurt you’re expressing is typical when being gaslit and mentally abused over time. It’s an insidious sin that can wreck havoc on everything the Lord calls for you as His Daughter. Bring it all to the light and model for your children God’s truth. I recommend individual therapy to find your voice and learn to take up room in this relationship. You are partners and not made to worship at the alter of a man’s ego.
Ohhh I can’t wait to watch Redeeming love too it was also my fav novel but I have noooo idea when it’ll come to Australia 😭😭 … hopefully sometime soon 🤞🏼
Imagine a 16 year old boy whos a Christian and has stayed away from the temptation of pornograohy and goes and sees this movie.... he might see what he is missing and go down a very dangerous road... I am so passionate about this because pornograhpy has hurt my relationship with my husband tremendously.. bottom line is that a "Christian" movie should never have scenes where you have to turn and look away.... thats ridiculous and I'm so disappointed that you guys are promoting it..
Thanks for all the videos including the ones with questions, I've overcome so much in life and always hungry for learning. I have questions for your upcoming videos! What are your thoughts on age difference for couples? What are your thoughts on interracial couples? What are some important things to have in common besides sharing the same faith? Thanks again and hope you guys are staying safe and healthy.
Just my thoughts as a follower of Christ: Age difference is fine as long as you guys are on the same page with when or if you want children. I'd recommend no more than a 10 year age gap because it's better to grow old at a similar rate instead of being alone when one spouse dies much sooner. You also have children who will get teased by other kids or feel embarrassed of a huge age gap relationship between their parents. Interracial couples are absolutely fine but you'll have to accept you'll be stared at much more in public places. Also you'll have to be okay with your children not looking like you. Making sure your core values align. For me I'd want someone who understands the importance of communication, manages money correctly, isn't too materialistic, compliments my personality, has a similar sex drive, wants children and is motivated.
@@vivaeuropa I appreciate your feedback. I had at least two guys who showed interest in me, but they were 16 years older than me, I got to know them as friends, but I did not feel anything with them or felt God leading me to them. I always thought interracial dating was beautiful. Everyone is unique to me. My youngest niece does not look like her parents and both are white with brown hair and different color eyes, my niece has blond hair and blue eyes, but her hair is slowly turning brown. Thanks again 🥰🙏
This man is so narcissistic. I cannot believe there are so many positive comments on this video. She had to go to urgent care and he couldn't pick up on the fact that he should watch their children??? And now when they are recounting this, he once again is acting like she is in the wrong?!? "Stick to reality". The reality is that you are a terrible husband and not a good Christian. A good man wouldn't even have to think about whether or not he should watch his kids while his wife goes to urgent care.
I have a question for you that poped up in my head when Nate mentioned that he had to turn his head away from the screen. For a single I would say you should do that because otherwise it will provoke sinfull thoughts or even actions but what about married couples?? Would you say its not good for married couples if it is too revealing? Or even if you can´t see perticular bodyparts you shouldent fill your mind with it?
I would think possibly even more so when you’re married.. because I want my husband to only picture me and have thoughts about me, not the half naked girl on the screen. That being said, I’m not going to get mad if he doesn’t look away from a revealing scene. I would feel the love and respect if he did look away though.
@@nateandsutton Thank you guys for you answer! I think I know what you mean. I was not talking about verry explicit scense where you can see everything (I hope that in christian communities that is common sence). When I wrote my question I was more thinking about more romantik scense where you know they will do something or there is intense kissing.
@@RosyCheeksBoutiq I really apreciate your answer :) As I allready wrote to N&S I did not mean extremly revealing scenes because I think the less skin a man sees from other wimen the more he can concentrate on his wife for several different reasons. My question was aiming more towards sences that could induce sexual thoughts and phantasies that could make someone not married struggle with sin because he is not in this state where he can live that out freely with his wife. I understand that you would want him not to look at naked wimen in a movie but if the scene is less revealing but still quite steamy would you/wimen prefere that he looks away or if the man turns to you to picture you?? (Of course I understand if this question is to personal to answer it im just a curious jung man wanting to be the best husband he can be to the wife he might have some day :) )
@@3psil0n78 If I’m being completely honest I’m not sure I can fully answer this question as a woman because I have no idea how a man’s mind works (and I’m sure it’s different for everyone) but I know that if a steamy scene comes on I’m definitely not fantasizing about the guy, so I assume he’s not either about the woman. If either IS however having those thoughts, no matter how intense or revealing the scene is then I think it’s not a good idea to watch. So it kind of depends I guess. Just talk to your significant other and decide what both of you are and aren’t comfortable with. It’s definitely a personal preference and everyone will have different sensitivity levels. And always better to play it safe in my opinion.
How are you (Sutton) so gorgeous?! Also, I’ve always loved your accent, idk how to describe why I like it but I just do. And it’s not like strong or anything but it’s not just like plain American, lol. Not hating on plain American accents, I got one, too. Edit: I love the honesty in this and how straight forward Sutton’s answers are, I can’t believe I forgot to say that🤦🏼♀️
Just to add, about flirting, I had a guy who every now and then when talking he used to touch a girl and I really got bored and we broke up. Honestly I think its wise to know when to stop touching anyhow
Omg I feel like the passive aggressive, not saying what you mean thing is completely flipped for me and my husband!😂😂 I do NOT pick up on hints or sarcasm AT ALL so I’m always just like say what you mean and mean what you say lol
I just read a really detailed review about the movie and am honestly shocked that you guys are promoting it. It sounds terrible especially for couples dealing with or previously dealt with pornography addictions...
I read the book many years ago and it was good, but the movie is made from a worldly view I would say (from what I saw from the trailer and the review Paul and Morgan did).
@@elizeviktoria How is it that 20 years ago secular movies were made with no Christian aspect at all in them and they were 10 times cleaner than a movie like this? I think that really says something....
I think ppl shouldn’t listen to other ppls opinions before they see it (it just seems like u didn’t see it and watched a review to base ur opinion but correct me if I’m wrong) cause that had been proven psychologically to skew ur own bias since you haven’t formulated ur own opinion yet and are more susceptible to catering towards others esp if what they say you already agree with. I think it’s important we watch it ourselves and formulate our own opinions, there’s ppl who loved it and ppl who’ didn’t so it rlly is subjective
On dates before being married I think it was always well received if I prayed before the meal. If they didn’t like it, it would make me wonder what was the reason behind it? Now being married it’s just our normal routine to pray before our meals. God provides, the least we could do is thank him!
Please watch Alisa Childers video called "Here's Why I am NOT going to See Redeeming Love". Read the comments also before you make the decision to watch it. I haven't seen it myself, I've just been hearing different reviews both good and bad. But her take on it made me 100% make up my mind to not watch it.
This was great! Love you guys! God bless! Try not to focus on all the negative because not everyone will agree with what you do. We are about being true and pleasing God.
YES Sutton! A new subscriber! You are spot on with every answers. The passive aggressive answer is so true. I could go on nitpicking about that. I won’t go there 😆 Praise the Lord for this video. Would love to see more of these. And your hair is So beautiful. I personal thought it was fine. The pregnancy hormones may drive you nuts?!😅
Nate’s eyes when Sutton was recounting the urgent care story…. Holy shit girl are you ok?? Nate, why on earth would you not INSIST on keeping the kids so your sick wife could get help? What’s wrong with you?
Ick, he is so cringe. I bet she really got it off camera. He is such a narcissist. Makes my skin crawl.
He messed up, but she didn't communicate clearly. Shouldn't you be more encouraging to him and give some constructive criticism in this comment
Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly
So let me get this straight: she is supposed anticipate him wanting a hot meal at 10 pm when he gets home from traveling, but he isn’t supposed to understand he needed to keep the kids when she went to the dr??? Are you kidding me
Literally. Trash.
This was exactly what I was about to comment. He’s a terrible person.
Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly
Wait, so he wanted her to have the foresight to consider that he would want a meal when he came home late at night after being on a plane but he couldn’t have the foresight and consideration to think she doesn’t want to take small children to urgent care? This is really quite sad.
Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly
Ugh, here from TikTok again. It's despicable behavior, frankly, if a husband doesn't just assume he will be watching the kids while his wife is at URGENT CARE. Good grief, I wouldn't even have to hint at it or be sarcastic. There is clearly some very toxic, narcissistic behavior on Nate's part and the fact that your two sit down to do marriage advice videos is appalling. My husband (of 19 years) and I are also conservative Christians, and we are far from perfect and marriage is very hard, but if I were headed to urgent care for any reason he'd drop everything to help me, no questions asked. It's sad to me that Sutton tolerates this gross behavior from her husband, and furthermore that you two think this kind of content sets a good example. What's worse, TikTokers looking to hate on Christianity are using Nate's toxicity as examples of why Christianity is bad. Gah. Stop giving them perfect content! 🤦🏼♀️
Sutton your hair is SO beautiful no matter what it's doing.. you could walk through a hedge backwards and you'd still be the prettiest girl in the room 😌
Haha omg you are so sweet!
@@nateandsutton girl. Get out. This guy is a huge narcissist. Go on TT and see what all the therapists are saying about his behavior.
So you have to read his mind when it comes to dinner, but he can’t read yours when it comes to his kids? Grow up bro. Be better to your wife. You found an amazing woman. Treat her accordingly. And Sutton don’t let him treat you that way. He needs to watch the kids when you go do stuff. ESP going to urgent care. And the face he made when you were talking about it is terrifying. And why do I see her apologizing more or taking responsibility more?
Also let me say this, my husband is a plumber/ac tech. He works every day sometimes 80 hrs a week. But when he is home if I need to go do something or run errands he automatically offers to watch the kids at home. We have 4 kids. There is no excuse for him not to watch his own fuckin children! Like I’m sorry your husband is this way. And I hope you know that it’s not okay behavior
@@Brittanyshannon22 Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly, and she literally js explained how they miscommunication, everyone is different, he prob learned from taht mistake stop judging what’s none of your business
Nate, where was the *forethought for Sutton’s situation* when she had to go to urgent care? And you were mad she didn’t have a sandwich ready for you when you got home from the airport?
Why would you think it’s okay to not take the kids so she can go to urgent care? That is the most narcissistic behavior! What a selfish terrible husband!
Sutton please leave this one sided abusive relationship! I promise you will be happier with another man who treats you like the queen you are! This man does NOT!!!
“Stick to reality here” but you think it’s realistic to ask your wife to watch your kids while she needs medical attention 🤡 makes sense
“Stick to reality here” high-key gaslighting and weaponizing his incompetence. Your wife needs to go to urgent care, take care of your kids dude
This is toxic as hell! Who is listening to these people?!
What's it like being a married single mom of 4 kids?
Nate is nothing but a giant red flag. Wow
This is why putting women in a subservient echo chamber is so abusive to them. She thinks it’s her fault he didn’t watch the kids while she went to urgent care. No sweetie, if he cared about your well being even in the slightest he would have the care and compassion to think of someone’s needs besides his own. It shouldn’t have even been a discussion or a question. It should be a given because expecting the opposite is ludicrous. Yea take my two children to a waiting room chock full of sick ppl when they’re of the age they lick everything and can’t sit still. It’s the better option then me (their father) watching them at home. Do you see how completely stupid that is? I really hope you can find a way out someday and someone who treats you and cares for you the way a husband should treat and care for his wife.
Also, the was he was seething as she explained that was terrifying.
Dude why make your wife go to urgent care with two little ones? So disrespectful
The low key satisfaction in Nate’s eyes when Sutton said yes to the muscle mass question 😂
From my own perspective, I look for guys that balance out certain aspects of my personality and complement others. I’m quite introverted so I feel like I need someone to get me out of my shell to balance that, but then I also love deep intellectual conversations so I look for someone that can complement that aspect. There’s never a one size fits all personality and the same way there’s no one size fits all body type. We’re all created unique by God’s beautiful design so guys, don’t ever be discouraged! You all have wonderful personality traits that God gave you for a reason! Use it for His glory ❤️
One thing that I personally find super attractive in a guy is when he is humbly but confidently living out his faith rooted in love… when you can tell a guy loves Jesus first… YES 🙌🏼
Yes! Love this! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Whoa, why would it even be a back and forth to begin with about her going to the urgent care alone? She should just go! Those are his kids. He should think of her needs. And his comment at the end?? 😢
“Do girls think it’s odd if a guy prays for the meal on a first date?” Are you kidding me?! If he doesn’t, I’m walking right out of the restaurant!! 🤣
As a girl I totally agree with Suttons answers 110%. I would also like to add as a Christian, that a guy who clearly puts the Lord first (but not in a show off type of way) not only is very attractive, but also makes me feel more secure.
That's my prayer everyday, A man who really puts God 1st without having to even think about it bringsso much security!! I always fear of a man who is rather too logical, realistic, calculative over and above the voice of the Holy Spirit because there is just no guarantee in this earth, rather God 1st then logic.
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Amen! "Don't waste your time playing games." You better PREACH Sutton! Love you guys!😁😁😁
No I think he definitely should have used his man brain to not be so obtuse and make you take the kids to a doctors appointment. Yes communication is good, but seriously. And how many videos I’ve watched and is lack of willingness to apologize to you as a Christian man is so mind blowing. PRIDE! What I find most attractive about my husband is that when I point something out, and it’s hurt me, even if he doesn’t agree he can say “I’m sorry that hurt you, that was never my intention and I’ll try and do better and find a different way” this man… I can’t. You should pray on that Nate. Humble yourself and serve your wife like she does for you. I can’t find the air port/not eating video on here right now or the working out after the baby video But look back please. Pray and reflect. Take yourself down a peg. Yes I get she didn’t “think” that as a grown man she would have to think about your needs without you actually communicating them to you, but you are also responsible for your self and your needs. Or the fact that doesn’t matter what you meant about the work out comments. You still hurt her feeling. Of course she’s still going to love you and move on, but that doesn’t mean you can’t take responsibility or that that’s such a sensitive time in a woman’s life and just saying “you know I love you no matter what you look like and God gave me you. I love you and I’m so sorry I made you feel that way, I never wanted to do that” humble yourself. What would Jesus do. We are all wrong doers. We all should be apologizing for hurting others intentional or not. Your wife is more precious that rubies. Love her as Christ loved the church. Feel sorry for hurting her. Think of her. God first, then her, then children, self LAST! You have a huge following. Be better buddy. Show the True Christ. Not this toxic man Christian image that’s giving anti Christians room to talk about on tiktok. We don’t need any more ammo to load into their weapons.
Why does this man act like he absolutely despises this woman? He loathes her and she can’t even see it. I think he needs therapy.
Have you watched their other videos? Have you ever made a mistake or been inconsiderate? If you watch their numerous other videos and saw their love for Jesus and each other and the boundaries he put in place while dating, you would see he was honoring God. You shouldn’t judge someone from a short video. Further, you shouldn’t judge at all.
Ladies, if you meet a man like this, run like hell. He's totally just into himself. He's a child. Blech.
Girl i think your husband is a narc🥴
Girl, are you okay? Everytime these videos pop up, the husband is throwing how heavily toxic and somewhat scary vibes. He looks like the type to slap a woman around, and say he does it because he loves her so much.
He is scary!
Yes l love the perspective y’all offer on these videos! I love them!
I completely agree with you Sutton! Everything you said, spot on! Love these videos!!
A new video… my day is now complete :-) Thanks, y’all! I took notes too.
In the 3rd question Mr.Nate made a pretty good example of "when is leading a relationship too much" cause iv'e seen some friends say "lets go to here" and they will say "no no lets go here! trust me" almost every time. and that's what (sometimes) ends the relationship. also Nate, and Sutton love you guys so much! as a young and fellow christian i love this channel for the tips that i can take and use in my daily life, and i believe that god has blessed me along with every other person with you guys! thank you, and have a blessed day!
Sutton nobody would have noticed your hair until you mentioned it. lol I enjoyed Sutton's perspective! Tfs
If you (husband) were considering the "reality" of the situation, you would've been taking on your *responsibility as a parent* to take care of you kids while she went to the hospital. Why? Why would you not immediately want to take that on so she didn't have to watch the kids in the waiting room of the hospital while simultaneously dealing with a health issue???
I didn't even notice the hair falling until she mentioned it in the last clip.😅You look amazing Sutton (as always😊)
This was a super fun video! Several of the things you guys talked about were exactly what I found so amazing about my husband. At the end of our first phone call (we met online) he asked if he could pray over us and it blew my socks off! He wears his heart on his sleeve and is never shy about saying how he feels. And the most important character trait was I wanted someone who loved God more than he loved me. I knew if he loved God more than me, he would resect and love me, and always follow Christ's lead in our lives. I knew there would be an incredible amount of safety in that. And now we're celebrating our 13th wedding anniversary next month!
Sutton, hahahahahaha, the end with the hair catastrophe.... 😂 I did think something looked different about you, I didn't know it was that bad to you!!😂 We love you anyway!!
I love your content so much!! One thing I just wanted to note. I've heard mixed reviews on Redeeming Love, and I want to encourage everyone to look at the criticisms, and decide if it really is of benefit or not.
I look forward to seeing more of your content.
I didn't even notice your hair was falling until you mentioned it lol don't worry about it. Love the vid!
Sutton that cracked me up 😂😂😂 you’re beautiful!
I love the ending!! Def worth watching for that!😂😂
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I love you and your videos you really inspire me!
Your hair is totally fine! I would watch your videos no matter how your hair is because of the content:)
My god, is this woman okay? She really deserves better than this entitled prince :( hope she sees that one day
So funny the whole time I've watched the video I thought about how beautiful you look Sutton and how great the hairstyle is, so no reason to be worried!
I love the book Redeeming Love and happy that the movie is true to the book. I am from Europe and just watched the movie recently. There was apparently so much debate going on in the Christian US about nudity and intimate scenes (it is covered) in the movie, and some youtubers basically telling Christians not to go. I find your positive short review refreshing and at the same time letting people know to be cautious of some scenes. I understand that for some people who are struggling with lust it might not be good idea to watch, but let it be their own conviction. Sometimes US christianity is standing so much for what they are against of and not what they are pro of, that they are turning non-Christians away. So thank you for your positive review! ❤
I can’t believe Sutton is saying that all girls do these things….
HAHAH just kidding 🤣🤣😉
Isn't Redeeming love like soft porn though? Don't you guys think it is being used to slowly incorporate some worldliness and lukewarmness to Christianity? Would anyone recommend to read the book to a girl in her twenties who has struggled with lust in the past? I would love to order it but I am quite hesitant because it seems to be getting mixed reviews.
I 100% agree on being VERY careful about this title in particular along with some of the author’s other books. It is def on the side of soft porn (didn’t see the movie) and I would argue it is not necessary to “entertain” Christians with romantic novels that include worldly lusts and fleshly desires so explicitly. I am a woman who struggles with lust/mental purity and I’ve not allowed myself to read this book because I don’t want to support romantic novels or to dwell on anything of this nature even if it is based on a biblical story. I wouldn’t let my kids read it if I had any. My 2 cents
I agree the book definitely has some definite descriptive scenes however, the book is fashioned from the book of Hosea in the Bible. If you read the book of Hosea before or after reading this book, you may see the story in a different light.In the book of Hosea, you will see that God ked Hosea to take a wife (not a pure wife) and the issues he experienced during his marriage. If you really think the story of the book through, one will see themself as the Harlot, in need of a savior. We, like Angel have many sins yet God loves us anyway and desires for us to turn to him and allow him to give us a better life. Yet, we just can’t comprehend his love and often turn away from him.
@@sandracrig378 Then I'll just read Hosea. The author of Hosea didn't see ot fit to describe Hosea and Gomer's intimate moments and even song of songs isn't explicit.
In the NT God tells us not to be unequally yoked, and the book romanticizes being unequally yoked. They try to put a Biblical spin on it by saying that it is based on Hosea. God commanded Hosea specifically to marry Gomer to image God's faithfulness to His bride despite His bride's unfaithfulness toward Him. Hosea had a direct command from God, the unequally yoked command was only given in the New Testament, therefore Hosea did not sin. However, God established the terms for marriage clearly in the NT by telling us not to be unequally yoked. You do not marry a person in order to evangelise them, or to help them out of bad circumstances. Marriage is nog a charity case, you have to think about your children.
@@sandracrig378 i agree with you. i've never read the book, but since the trailer of the movie came out i wanted to read first. i definitely feel like this history have some biblical things, but even if not, i will still recommend to us, christians, exam everything and absorve what's good to us, and if you can't do that, so don't watch or read that thing cause you know it's gonna lead to the sin that you're dealing with
Great video guys!!! Sutton you were correct about manyyy things.. also you look amazing!!!!
Loved your hair Sutton! 💕
The last minute was super! I was thinking about the 1 or 2 hairs in front...that would tickle me and I'd have to blow them out of the way.
I thought that Nate hurt Sutton's feelings after the sarcasm question.
That ending though 😂😂😂
Girl. YOU NEED TO RUN. For the hills.
I didn’t even notice the hair till after Sutton said something lol
Loved both videos, and I saw Redeeming Love yesterday and it was AMAZING!! Also Sutton, I being a woman thought your hair was totally fine. I noticed it while watching but honestly thought you were going for a look similar to how some wear a side bun type thing. I thought it was cute like I wish my hair was that long haha, but I get how it feels when you know what you're going for only to find out that it tried to do it's own thing yet others are like oh I thought that's what you meant to do lol. #girlprobs
I love your sweater Sutton!!
Thank you!
The ending of Sutton about her hair is Me😅😅
Love it Sutton! 👍 and your hair is beautiful! 😉
Best part… “oh my gosh my hair” 😂😂😂😂 I don’t think anyone was paying attention on that Sutton but that was a funny ending to the video. You guys are great 🙏🏻
The fact that that movie showed more than needed to and that was just from watching the trailer put me off the entire thing and you confirmed it. It should not matter how nice the story line is, either make a Christian movie that's a safe space to minister to people or don't bother at all. Putting all that in there would cause believers to stumble or give them an excuse to think that "it's a Christian movie so it's ok".
I totally agree with you. I don't think it is appropriate whatsoever. The screen is a window and the movie is clearly showing real people doing real ungodly acts.
I mean the story it’s based off of in the bible is apparently also pretty if not even more explicit than the movie…
The book of Hosea is not about a girl sold into sex slavery and rescued out of it but a picture for Israel to see their wilful, repeated, unrepentant rebellion against Him. This movie misses the entire point of what God is saying in this book.
Marietta Van Middelkoop From my understanding neither the movie nor the book was meant to copy the book of Hosea, it’s very clearly said that it’s LOSELY based on the story of the couple in it, they literally say it inspired this story so you shouldn’t be going into it expecting that exact same theme or accuracy considering that’s not what the authors intent ever was.
my husband is a few inches shorter than me. i always invisioned a guy who was taller than me cuz i am tall but God sent me the best guy and he has never been worried about being shorter than me cuz he just loved me for me! been together 14 years and married 8 years. its natural for woman to like a guy taller as we see them as protectors and comforters, luckily my husband fills that for ne regardlesa of our height difference.
Simply adore this couple they are so beautiful always keep it real and is so in love with our maker! Bless them abundantly 💟
Sutton! You answered these the way I would 😅 so similar!
Last part was so funny 🤣 !! Sutton is me all the time LOL
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Sutton! Your hair looks fabulous! ❤️
omg sutton you are so cute! That last 10 seconds was so sweet. That is a hairstyle!! :)
Love Sutton!😅❤ You guys are awesome!
Sutton you look so pretty!!🌷
I like how Sutton prefers men that are masculine and have masculine qualities. Yes girl!!
@New Soul.9 I meant the character qualities of a man that are masculine according to the Bible, not the physical qualities that are masculine according to the world, which would be height.
@New Soul.9 Masculine or feminine can be applied to both behavior and physical qualities. In my comment, I was praising Sutton's preferences because she prefers the qualities of a masculine man, according to scripture. The world praises the physical qualities of what is masculine or feminine. Using that world's definition then yes, a flat chest and booty are not considered feminine and a short male isn't considered masculine. So you're right, that definition is stupid, but it's not the definition I am using. Being feminine or masculine means something different in the Bible. It's based on character not physical.
@New Soul.9 Every human is loved by God no matter how masculine or feminine they are. No matter how tall, how skinny. All individuals are created and formed by the Lord. We all have preferences in significant others and both Sutton and I were expressing our opinion. And you are too. So let's just leave it at that and all get along. 😆
The flirting thing was on point! Lol touching is totally the tell!
That face you make Sutton at 14:00 (after you guys made the cut) speaks volumes. The fear, confusion, and hurt you’re expressing is typical when being gaslit and mentally abused over time. It’s an insidious sin that can wreck havoc on everything the Lord calls for you as His Daughter. Bring it all to the light and model for your children God’s truth. I recommend individual therapy to find your voice and learn to take up room in this relationship. You are partners and not made to worship at the alter of a man’s ego.
I just bought Redeeming Love and am getting ready to start it! Francine Rivers is an incredible author.
Love Sutton, she is the most sincere person in TH-cam!
Thank you 😭💛💛
Ohhh I can’t wait to watch Redeeming love too it was also my fav novel but I have noooo idea when it’ll come to Australia 😭😭 … hopefully sometime soon 🤞🏼
I really want it to come to Australia too! 😭
I’m not touchy so when I flirt I get kinda scared about that 🤷🏻♀️😂 I also ask random questions and sometimes tend to be a little bit more shy.
Love your videos!! I have a question, are you guys Orthodox Christians?
Imagine a 16 year old boy whos a Christian and has stayed away from the temptation of pornograohy and goes and sees this movie.... he might see what he is missing and go down a very dangerous road... I am so passionate about this because pornograhpy has hurt my relationship with my husband tremendously.. bottom line is that a "Christian" movie should never have scenes where you have to turn and look away.... thats ridiculous and I'm so disappointed that you guys are promoting it..
I agree
Great video and Sutton don’t worry about your hair it’s not as bad as you thought and it just helps enhance your better hair days😊❤️
Thanks for all the videos including the ones with questions, I've overcome so much in life and always hungry for learning. I have questions for your upcoming videos!
What are your thoughts on age difference for couples?
What are your thoughts on interracial couples?
What are some important things to have in common besides sharing the same faith?
Thanks again and hope you guys are staying safe and healthy.
Just my thoughts as a follower of Christ:
Age difference is fine as long as you guys are on the same page with when or if you want children. I'd recommend no more than a 10 year age gap because it's better to grow old at a similar rate instead of being alone when one spouse dies much sooner. You also have children who will get teased by other kids or feel embarrassed of a huge age gap relationship between their parents.
Interracial couples are absolutely fine but you'll have to accept you'll be stared at much more in public places. Also you'll have to be okay with your children not looking like you.
Making sure your core values align. For me I'd want someone who understands the importance of communication, manages money correctly, isn't too materialistic, compliments my personality, has a similar sex drive, wants children and is motivated.
@@vivaeuropa I appreciate your feedback. I had at least two guys who showed interest in me, but they were 16 years older than me, I got to know them as friends, but I did not feel anything with them or felt God leading me to them. I always thought interracial dating was beautiful. Everyone is unique to me. My youngest niece does not look like her parents and both are white with brown hair and different color eyes, my niece has blond hair and blue eyes, but her hair is slowly turning brown. Thanks again 🥰🙏
Your hair looks great Sutton 😇
This man is so narcissistic. I cannot believe there are so many positive comments on this video. She had to go to urgent care and he couldn't pick up on the fact that he should watch their children??? And now when they are recounting this, he once again is acting like she is in the wrong?!? "Stick to reality". The reality is that you are a terrible husband and not a good Christian. A good man wouldn't even have to think about whether or not he should watch his kids while his wife goes to urgent care.
I'd say it's kinda hot if the guy prays before the meal lol.
I have a question for you that poped up in my head when Nate mentioned that he had to turn his head away from the screen. For a single I would say you should do that because otherwise it will provoke sinfull thoughts or even actions but what about married couples?? Would you say its not good for married couples if it is too revealing? Or even if you can´t see perticular bodyparts you shouldent fill your mind with it?
I would think possibly even more so when you’re married.. because I want my husband to only picture me and have thoughts about me, not the half naked girl on the screen. That being said, I’m not going to get mad if he doesn’t look away from a revealing scene. I would feel the love and respect if he did look away though.
Yes I would say even more so in marriage you should avoid any kind of sensitive content!
@@nateandsutton Thank you guys for you answer! I think I know what you mean. I was not talking about verry explicit scense where you can see everything (I hope that in christian communities that is common sence). When I wrote my question I was more thinking about more romantik scense where you know they will do something or there is intense kissing.
@@RosyCheeksBoutiq I really apreciate your answer :) As I allready wrote to N&S I did not mean extremly revealing scenes because I think the less skin a man sees from other wimen the more he can concentrate on his wife for several different reasons. My question was aiming more towards sences that could induce sexual thoughts and phantasies that could make someone not married struggle with sin because he is not in this state where he can live that out freely with his wife.
I understand that you would want him not to look at naked wimen in a movie but if the scene is less revealing but still quite steamy would you/wimen prefere that he looks away or if the man turns to you to picture you?? (Of course I understand if this question is to personal to answer it im just a curious jung man wanting to be the best husband he can be to the wife he might have some day :) )
@@3psil0n78 If I’m being completely honest I’m not sure I can fully answer this question as a woman because I have no idea how a man’s mind works (and I’m sure it’s different for everyone) but I know that if a steamy scene comes on I’m definitely not fantasizing about the guy, so I assume he’s not either about the woman. If either IS however having those thoughts, no matter how intense or revealing the scene is then I think it’s not a good idea to watch. So it kind of depends I guess. Just talk to your significant other and decide what both of you are and aren’t comfortable with. It’s definitely a personal preference and everyone will have different sensitivity levels. And always better to play it safe in my opinion.
How are you (Sutton) so gorgeous?! Also, I’ve always loved your accent, idk how to describe why I like it but I just do. And it’s not like strong or anything but it’s not just like plain American, lol. Not hating on plain American accents, I got one, too.
Edit: I love the honesty in this and how straight forward Sutton’s answers are, I can’t believe I forgot to say that🤦🏼♀️
I actually thought the hair was meant to be like that. It looked great 👍
Just to add, about flirting, I had a guy who every now and then when talking he used to touch a girl and I really got bored and we broke up. Honestly I think its wise to know when to stop touching anyhow
Omg I feel like the passive aggressive, not saying what you mean thing is completely flipped for me and my husband!😂😂 I do NOT pick up on hints or sarcasm AT ALL so I’m always just like say what you mean and mean what you say lol
My mum doesn't always get sarcasm and when she doesn't I'm like 🤦♀️😂
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@@CrypticHowl hahah people probably feel the same way about me but it just goes over my head😂
@@RosyCheeksBoutiq is that sarcasm? Jk lol yeah same actually 😂
I just read a really detailed review about the movie and am honestly shocked that you guys are promoting it. It sounds terrible especially for couples dealing with or previously dealt with pornography addictions...
I was shocked too..
I read the book many years ago and it was good, but the movie is made from a worldly view I would say (from what I saw from the trailer and the review Paul and Morgan did).
@@elizeviktoria How is it that 20 years ago secular movies were made with no Christian aspect at all in them and they were 10 times cleaner than a movie like this? I think that really says something....
Yup, I was shocked to see that
I think ppl shouldn’t listen to other ppls opinions before they see it (it just seems like u didn’t see it and watched a review to base ur opinion but correct me if I’m wrong) cause that had been proven psychologically to skew ur own bias since you haven’t formulated ur own opinion yet and are more susceptible to catering towards others esp if what they say you already agree with. I think it’s important we watch it ourselves and formulate our own opinions, there’s ppl who loved it and ppl who’ didn’t so it rlly is subjective
Can somebody please tell Sutton...."Ain't nobody noticed your hair was down gurl". It looked so lovely.
On dates before being married I think it was always well received if I prayed before the meal. If they didn’t like it, it would make me wonder what was the reason behind it? Now being married it’s just our normal routine to pray before our meals. God provides, the least we could do is thank him!
Please watch Alisa Childers video called "Here's Why I am NOT going to See Redeeming Love". Read the comments also before you make the decision to watch it. I haven't seen it myself, I've just been hearing different reviews both good and bad. But her take on it made me 100% make up my mind to not watch it.
I loooove your hair Sutton!🥰
Really agree on the passive aggression for me😁
Love that u both are so openly vain!!
Sutton don't worry about your hair... You look beautiful !!!!!🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
My hair!! Haha great ending!
Love your wisdom and honesty! We always look forward to your videos 🤗
This was great! Love you guys! God bless! Try not to focus on all the negative because not everyone will agree with what you do. We are about being true and pleasing God.
You're my favorite TH-camrs 💕
Yay! Happy Sunday!
1:20 yep! I respect that. Ppl gotta hear ya!
Thank you for another video, guys! Much needed. God bless us all. 💚
YES Sutton! A new subscriber! You are spot on with every answers. The passive aggressive answer is so true. I could go on nitpicking about that. I won’t go there 😆 Praise the Lord for this video. Would love to see more of these. And your hair is So beautiful. I personal thought it was fine. The pregnancy hormones may drive you nuts?!😅