Did Amber Make Gains Under Direct Examination? | Dangers of Idealization | Depp/Heard Case Analysis
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- This video answers the question: Can I analyze the testimony of Amber Heard on Days 14 and 15 of the Johnny Depp / Amber Heard defamation trial?
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She filmed everything but somehow didn’t film any of these abusive acts. I truly think she is acting, I don’t doubt it was a volatile relationship but I think she is seriously exaggerating these incidents. I believe she actually is the abuser.
exactly.
I agree
What are you talking about? She filmed him violating the domestic violence restraining order in order to threaten himself with a weapon at her.
Yeah, she was "nearly beaten to death" and she took the time to take pictures of hair at the scene, but didn't think to take pictures of her bloodied face?? It's ridiculous! There's no swelling and the "bruising" isn't believable. It's like a child attempting to create an excuse to miss school.
@@exulansic3906 Is this sarcasm they already stated she set up a meeting with Depp therefore she was the one not taking the restraining order seriously.
Heard’s testimony is not only contradicted by Johnny’s account, but also by Isaac, Ben, Alejandro, bodyguards, house keepers, a doctor, two nurses, 4 police officers, videos and photos, and the list goes on and on… it’s so scary how a very trouble woman can destroy a man’s life. Is so damaging not only to him and his family, but to women and victims/survivors around the world.
Couldn't agree more, this hurt every legitimate victims of abuse.
*housekeepers *troubled woman
My son went through this for several years. The woman finally dropped it but not until after she almost completely destroyed him. She was never punished by the courts and they all knew she lied. It’s scary how much they can get away with. She claimed he threw her down a staircase and he was arrested no questions asked.
Also the stylist from the James Corden show she appeared on the next day, who says she didn't have a mark on her. She appears completely unscathed. One would think that if she had been so horribly physically abused and emotionally traumatized that they would be incapable of such an appearance in such close proximity to the event. What kind of abuse victim, fearlessly, viciously and repetitively taunts and emotionally abuses their abuser like she is on tape doing, and also laughing at him that it will never be believed that she is abusing him, because he is male? If one is terrified of their abuser they don't do this and they sure don't refuse to let him leave. They pray for that to happen so that they may have a chance to flee from their abuser! Her testimony is totally nuts and it adds up and no way, shape or form. If you have such an abusive relationship with someone why would you marry them, unless you have your own mental health and substance abuse problems, which she clearly did... she's no angel.
@@January. easy on correcting, mate. No need to be a grammar nazi.
I've never seen someone cry so hard without shedding an actual tear as Amber Heard. She was lying her ass off. I hope the jury can see it.
If you see close up stills of her during testimony you see tears all over her face
Punishment for perjury is way too low in the us. That's why people lie their ass off on the stand
@@WhisperSonnet really? I watched the trial on my phone and I saw a total of two tears.
@@WhisperSonnet Only after she snorted a mystery substance out of her tissue. In the slow-mo video it is very obvious. She is a professional actress. She knows how to make tears.
@@lawv804 snorting coke. Look at her nose is becoming narrower: coke killed the little bones inside.
My ex is the SPITTING IMAGE of Amber in every single way.
Everyone keeps telling me to just forget her and move on and not try to call her out or tell everyone the truth about what she did to me.
She did the same thing- lied to everyone about me, convinced everyone that I was the abusive one, when she was the one abusing me, hitting the dogs, cheating on me. I hate it. I hate it all so, so much.
Seeing this trial happen is like reliving that hell all over again. And I can't help but hope that Amber will fall HARD, so that I can have some kind of hope that people like her as well as my ex will get their comeuppance.
I can relate brother. Don’t ever argue with idiots. They drag you down to their level then beat you with experience!
Happened to me, too. In a severe way... It's hard to be silent but it's the best route. Stay strong 💪
Move on
I'm so sorry you have been hurt like that. Keep your chin up. You will find love you can trust if you are open to it. I wasn't.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. IPV is such a difficult thing to go through on its own. Having that partner then go and lie about it to the people on the outside and besmirch your own character is absolutely sould destroying. My biggest hope about this case is that it will open the door to more men coming out and talking about being victims of IPV. It is so important. Even though there are more women killed by their partners than men, it does not make men immune to being victimized. And many of them go through lives keeping silent, because it is somehow seen as shameful, which it shouldn't be. In my own personal experience, having been in an abusive relationship, the abuser doesn't pick you, because you are weak and thus easier to victimize. Rather, seeing a strong person crumble in front of them because of their actions is gives them so much more power. Like breaking a wild horse...
Your ex deserves to be KO'ed by karma.
It is funny how many times she says other people saw her getting beat up, but no-one has come forward saying they saw anything
It’s unbelievable to a degree of factional tales
Does everyone remember brad Pitt on that plane?!? I don’t believe we wouldn’t have heard about him hitting her.
@@purple1480 It's those factional tales that will separate truth from fiction everytime!
The stylist, who saw her for the tv interview two days after she said:
johnny had jumped on her back, kicked and stomped her, a punching session that knocked her out, two black eyes and a broken nose, has now come forward saying: not only where there absolutely NO injuries she saw on any part of her body with no makeup on, up close and personal but amber also tried to plant the notion in her head, when after the interview she said, Wow can you believe I did that interview with two black eyes and a broken nose! The stylist was totally aware she was lying through her teeth.
So many people supporting the true victim of the abuse here. I have a little more faith that people are waking up to the gaslighting tactics of abusers and how malignant and evil these type of people actually are 🙏
That's racist against fake people.
She talked about how beautiful his private island was, then proclaimed she was falling madly in love. Sounded more like she was falling in love with the lifestyle.
Exactly.
So what? Isn't valid to fall in love who can provide a lifestyle? Also, if he didn't want her to fall in love with his life style why show around what he had to offer? It's called courtship but if you wanna talk in narcissistic terms you can also call it "love bombing" . Why does a man flaunts his assests to a woman? For the sake of impressing her. And it worked.
@@Sarablueunicorn maybe Johnny Depp wasn't flaunting though because from what I hear he has really enjoyed being generous with people and sharing with them
@@Sarablueunicorn what the hell are you talking about? AH LIED over and over again. JD never hit her. AH has undermined the credibility of geniune DV Victims world wide.
Especially when it includes 2 bottles a day of her favorite $500 wine.
Heard's story sounds way more credible told by Dr. Grande than by herself. It shows to me how she failed to convince with her over acting when she took the stand. She actually harms her own defense more than she serve her purpose. I hope the jury will see clear through that.
I believe that what Amber is doing here is revenge on Johnny because he left her. The worst time for an abuse victim is when they attempt to leave or after they manage to leave.
He brought the case against her. He's lawsuit crazy, is known for having an unquenchable thirst for revenge.
@@novelist99 And, what if you are wrong? Is it possible? Could AH have embellished this to such a degree in combination with her personality diagnosis she's taken reality and pushed it far beyond what really happened? I may be wrong and I'm open to new data, but the diagnosis Dr. Curry spoke what I have noticed for a long time. The question is are you one who is open to the big picture or have you decided and no data shall change your mind? Johnny is problematic too, but he didn't slice her finger off. And he most certainly didn't try to make this a public spectacle to benefit from. He genuinely feels wronged. Could he have been wronged I ask you?
@@zoso1980 he wronged himself by substance abuse.
@@novelist99 Lmfaooo found a fellow narc…haha can’t wait for cross and the hysteria to erupt. 😂
@@anchorread68 Ha! Anyone married to AH is going to need drugs. Lots of 'em.
I have seen the entire trial, and found her testimony illogical compared to the evidence we have seen so far. Last night I listened to over 4 hours of audio of those two - including from Australia. The recordings back up JD’s testimony, and repeatedly conflict with Amber’s.
There's more coming. Oh no.
Yeah, makeup can’t hide the deep lacerations and broken bones she would have if she was telling the truth
Disagree
why tho?
Agreed! it’s astonishing how far her lies have gone. No wonder she didn’t want this trail to be televised to the publicly
Biggest red flag to me has been when she said that Johnny would repeatedly punch her in the face… with his rings on. You don’t get repeatedly punched in the face by someone with multiple rings on for years and never have any photo evidence of it or scarring. I mean it’s really just such a ridiculous thing to even claim that it affirms a clear personality disorder of some type. She seems to not understand what it actually looks like when someone is punched, closed fist either with or without a ring. It is absolutely brutal.
I know this behavior from borderline... they try to punch your face with all they have, you block it, yell stop and a few months later what happened is: You yelled and hurt her arm.
this is actually a pattern. What happens is this: They have some kind of amnesia when stressed (there is a name for that amnesia) but they remember the bad energy feeling and later on they have to make sense out of it and that's why the blameshifting and gaslighting seems so crazymaking - they REALLY believe it.
I once unknowingly backhanded someone as they passed by me on the street. It was unintentional and without much force. But my ring imprint was left on his cheek for a while as I apologised profusely. So there is no way she couldn't have pictures with rings imprints left behind, especially if the punches were conscious and intentional. How could she not sneaked even one photo of her messed up face with streak of red imprints when she took time to photograph every 'evidences' of his violence and abuse.
I got punched in my mouth and that person wasn’t wearing a ring and I still got a scar on my lip from it. I believe their relationship was toxic in general, but I honestly don’t believe Amber’s account of things.
Yes. There is even a right and wrong way to make a fist to punch someone - if you do it wrong, you can break your own fingers. One of my exes who was in many physical fights with other men actually taught me the right way. Thank God I was never on the receiving end of one of his punches because I promise you I would have needed a doctor STAT
It definitely is brutal. I lost my front teeth in one punch. That woman makes me sick because she is flat out lying.
Both of them were recording things extensively, supposedly ordered by their marriage councellor because Johnny Depp felt like he was going insane from gaslighting by Amber Heard. In fact, Amber Heard seems to be the only one who was recording secretly, her evidence do not include metadata which can be due to editing. That's illegal in California, but I think the Depp legal team allowed those to show to the jury that some of these evidence were taken illicitly.
Despite all those recordings, not one where Depp is any more violent than forcibly closing some cabinet doors down. Or grabbing a phone once he noticed he was secretly being filmed. No photos of bruises or cuts or wounds. Except some where the bruise seemingly moves from the cheek to the temple, and the coloration doesn't match the timeline.
Heard has not put forth any evidence that is consistent with her testimony or condemning enough to make me believe her.
Not to mention her account of the rape with that square bottle. So brutal, she didn't feel any pain and her vagina apparently didn't suffer any internal injuries 🤔. Plus the bruises all over her body that nobody saw and the cuts on her feet, yet the following day she takes pictures of mirrors and painting and stumps up and down the stairs. Her story is mind blowing but she has nothing to back it up with.
on Heard's defence is that she record that to make Depp acknowledge he must change. Depp took a rehab eventually but then it actually got worse and Depp kept nodding off/sleeping non-stop.
I’m pretty sure Botox leaves some bruising. I have said that from the beginning. The make up is very good evidence.
AH's former neighbor lady said that AH's bruises/swelling one MIGHT see in pics (if one squints) are exactly the same as when she'd come home from getting BOTOX.
@@lorettabrail7806 Yes..oh wow..i just commented abt that. Lol. Did you see the interview in which AH's former neighbor mentioned that? She said the pics that one can MAYBE see slight bruising/sweiiling (AT WORST) were the very same & in the same spots as when she'd come home from BOTOX. It'd 100% go away in a few days. Im disappointed that this hasn't been addressed in court.
As a mother of two children I've seen various bruises and cuts on my children due to them playing a lot outside. They never had injuries that needed medical treatment, just the typical bruises you can get when accidentally running into another kid or tripping. I can't imagine how you can cover the swelling with make-up and how you can have normal facial expressions with bruises on your face that hurt. People would have noticed that you feel pain when moving your face. And whenever we talk, we move our face.
I find it impossible to believe she was punched by a grown up man and could hide the injuries from everybody else.
I know abused women that tried to hide the abuse, I've seen the way they move. They usually will mention that they fell or by accident got injured while doing chores or that the dog or cat did hurt them accidentally. There's no testimony of anybody claiming one such thing.
Totally agree with your comments.
Not only that but hid the bruises, cuts, and swelling the NEXT DAY. It reminded me about how Nikocado Avocado "tore" his ligament and, in less than a week, he was walking just fine. Maybe both have the same healing powers?
Don't forget, Depp wears rings all the time. I'm assuming he's not taking his rings off before supposedly hitting her.
Well said
As someone that used to ride a skate board a lot while having a job in a fancy resterauant I had to learn how to use make up to cover bruises. it worked fine until I faceplanted really bad into rail and blackened my eye.
there was no fixing that
This is probably the first time the courts have witnessed a "defamation" case turn into a "defecation" case. 😱
I'm dead! 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂This is amazing! Today, you have won the internet in my mind!
*MePoo* movement 😂
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I think she lost ground. She's a liar and a horrible actress. She posed for a picture with a tissue to her face. She cried without tears. She acted hysterical and made crazy stories up. She talks like she's acting out a novel.
wasnt a picture, no flash cameras allowed in the court, it was the computer screen infront of her changing.
On the other hand it appears she puts something in the tissue and pushes/inhales it and you can see she is breathing in with the tissue up her nose.
@@givemeanameman1 the "flash" of light was the computer but there is a photog in the courtroom and her new PR rep was seen talking to them the day before.
I want to know what she put in her nose during it.
I was flabbergasted how she posed for a picture with that tissue to her face. WTF
@@ridingtheroad185 yes there are cameras in the court room but absolutely no flashes.
Gotta say - It's unfair - that Johnny is on the spot here.
Amber's eyes are always darting to spot what other people are thinking. She has FAR too many narcistic tells.
I feel so bad for Johnny. I swear johnny got lucky he got out of the relationship alive.
She is s deeply sick and disturb person. Borderline Histrionic Sadist.
Thank you for that final analysis, it is the first thing that has really made sense to me. I was never a Depp fan, although I found him watchable and enjoyed many of his movies. When the accusations came out I was shocked, but remained neutral and mostly forgot about it after they settled their divorce. I only became engaged when I heard the tapes of them talking. I have been informed many times about what abuse sounds like and it was all there; she presented herself to the world as blameless, but she was clearly abusive. What I didn't understand, until now, was the ups and downs in their relationship; why her behaviour became so extreme and he didn't walk away. This is all very sad, but Depp needs to win this case. He will probably lose because of the legal requirements of a deformation case, but if that happens the media and will never acknowledge that some women do lie and not only men are physically abusive. As Depp said, this never had to happen, he just wanted them to go their separate ways. What a nightmare.
Lol, Depp is the one who filed the case. He's lost two court challenges on these same facts already.
Great post.This is not a 'we like you' best contest.
The legal requirement is to show that it was Ambers ONE article that cost Johnny all his jobs.
I simply cannot believe that Johnny let his lawyers frame it that way.
As soon as Amber's lawyers started her defense that was the one fact they kept banging on.
And as soon I saw that I said,damn,no matter what.... Johnny's lost this case.
Because,IN MY OPINION, it's clear Amber lied in public numerous times about Johnny before that article and after that article and displayed a clear intent to misrepresent his entire span of behavior during their marriage to harm him anyway possible.
But his lawyers cannot bring all that into the court unless she brings that up -which she just did.
From Amber's side,it might have well been better to not testify because of the narrow focus on the charges against her.
This case would have never happened if Johnny thought with his big head and not his little head and if Amber was'nt ready to cash in.
Despite being promoted everyday as super cool in movies,tv and music,the use of alchohol and drugs by both people ,in real life,sure did not help anything at all.
And a twenty year plus difference in age is often a relationship killer and it was from the start here.
This is a mess.
Johnny got his truth out unedited and uncensored and Amber will get the same opportunity.
But this only one year and three month marriage is like it lasted a decade.
I will be glad when all this is finally over.
Deformation 😆
She told a fairy-tale-turned-into-nightmare-fantasy in an unbelievable exaggerated manner. I think she lost her last bit of credibility. That being said, I don't think Depp was an angel in this overall toxic relationship.
He wasn't an angel, nobody is, but he's not the super abusive r*pist animal abusing monster she made him out to be.
Her testimony was like a romanticization of an abusive relationship as you'd see in a movie, real people don't speak like that. She's like a IPV version of "13 reasons why"
I don’t think it matters that he wasn’t an angel.
@@henriquerodrigues7795 She is a real person and did speak like that.
silly comment
@@tuesdaynyx It really does. Do you not know what this trial is about??
At nearly 60 years of age, Johnny Depp has dated vast numbers of women. My issue, is that if he were indeed a monster, even more so on substances~there would be a lot of history to that effect. He wasn't perfect, but I am skeptical as to the degree she tries to paint him as an abuser.
I agree, I just find it hard to believe he would suddenly become an abuser in his 50s. Surely someone even once could say he got high and hit them. The fact that she has previous abuse history with other partners and he doesnt tells me something. None of them are above reproach but I dont buy the story shes trying to paint
@@mamacito1795 Ellen Barkin swore a deposition that Depp threw a bottle of wine at her head. But the bottom line is that when he was with other women he was young and his addiction issues weren't as pronounced. He was washing down oxycodone, amphetamines, benzodiapines, marijuana, cocaine with $30k worth of wine a month. He lost half a billion - yes billion - dollars due to his addiction prompting poor impulse investments and took his eyes of his business portfolio so he had major tax issues. His divorce from Paradis cost $150m. Desperate people do desperate things.
I was also thinking of this. And we have seen more survivors coming out when one survivor takes a stand, like with other Hollywood cases post Me too. Yet when it comes to this case, all his serious partners have come out in support of him denying all the allegations.
There is NO EVIDENCE OF ANY HISTORY OF ABUSE. EVERY WOMAN CLOSE TO HIM DENIES ANY ABUSE AT ALL. INSTEAD THEY ALL SAID HE NEVER EVER ABUSED THEM IN ANY WAY. THEY SAID HE WAS A KIND, LOVING, HUMBLE, GENTLE MAN.
Jennifer Grey just released her autobiography in which she accuses Depp of emotional abuse and threatening behaviors.
I have 13 years of recovery from rx drug addiction. I lost my marriage to a wonderful man because of my addiction. He saved my life by divorcing me. That was my bottom.
I tend to think Johnny is telling the truth about the abuse. I think the only things he’s abused are substances, himself and lots of inanimate objects. The evidence tends to back him up.
Congratulations on your Sobriety !! I just celebrated 3 year's from them April 2nd. And I agree with you 100%.
you in okla
@@brandiollice2888 Congratulations Brandi~
Congratulations Patricial~
@@brandiollice2888 congratulations on your sobriety too!
After the brutal beating and strangulation and “ sexual assault” she testified that she went to bed and then came down the next morning and tried to give Johnny some coffee… no mention of caring for her own injuries (getting glass out of feet, dealing with her lady-parts) and no mention of being scared that he might start up again-
I would not have left my room until I was sure I was safe… like when someone else comes over or he leaves.
Or when the cops arrive…
She said she did not know if the bottle was broken or not, cleverly hinting it was, but not saying so.
So if it was not, I have no idea how painful it can be, not being a woman.
She has no idea what I feels like to be abused. I went DV and It has put me in the hospital and i didn't get out of bed for days. She is lying the abuse she describes is very brutal she would be in the hospital many times.
Amber got the bottle idea from Fatty Arbuckle and Virginia Rappy case. She researched stuff then applied them to herself. Look up those 2 names. Older folks who were around brought it up.
@@bujinkanatori I don't want to give you too much information or be too graphic... but here's the basics so you can understand...
*Content Warning* and disclaimer- this is my opinion of what's happening, not all women would feel the same way.
--If a woman inserts a tampon and it's just slightly askew to one side, you can feel it, it's uncomfortable. And that's made out of soft material and not forced in by someone else. You fix it and probably don't give it much thought later. No bleeding, no lasting damage.
--If a woman was penetrated with an unbroken bottle, it could leave bad tearing akin to a rape. You -*-would absolutely-*- feel it and it would be very painful. Most people would feel compelled to get emergency medical care if there's tearing- it's very painful and there would be bleeding.
--If the bottle was broken, as the assault was happening, you would be doing everything within your power to move away from the cause of that pain- to escape- to get away. Imagine a broken bottle shoved into your face- similar to that.
After the assault, broken glass would be left behind, the cuts would be different depths, some very deep and requiring stitches. You wouldn't get up the next morning and casually make coffee. You'd probably still be in the ER getting treatment. At the very least, there would be blood on the sheets and on whatever you slept in, and walking/moving around would be very(!) painful. You would be very concerned about permanent damage.
Her approach to whatever wounds were inflicted is more like the first scenario I described- casual, with no mention of what she felt the next day, no concern expressed- like the kind you might show after inserting a tampon slightly sideways.
For her to claim she didn't know whether the bottle was broken or not is the most absurd lie she's told yet. To go back to the same analogy- if someone shoved a bottle in your face, you'd know by the way it felt and by the cuts and damage whether it was broken beforehand or not.
I hope Johnny's lawyers take her apart on cross-examination for that lie because it's heinous and hurts people who have suffered that kind of abuse and trauma.
I hope the jury noticed throughout her stories there were no witnesses and she never went to a hospital
No seeking medical treatment after insane amounts of abuse including being raped with a bottle. She said she didn’t worry about the pain after because she was heart broken.
One of the incidents actually had 2 witnesses that already testified- Travis and Nurse Erin. They both contradicted her story.
That was the stairs incidents where she tried to claim she was a hero defending her sister from being pushed by Johnny….
Strange how the 2 witnesses not related to Amber say Whitney was nowhere near the stairs or in danger of falling down. In fact, they claimed Amber punched Johnny unprovoked.
Any other witnesses she talks about are dead- her mother and Jerry Judge.
@@BabyKangaroo279 that’s why she uses them, they can’t be cross examined. You can’t even play the recording from Australia that includes Jerry Judge saying she is manipulative and that she called Johnny a fat old man.
@@adrianaadnan9958 I think they can’t play this recording - they can only play recording that include Johnny and Amber only.
My current take on the situation is, that Johnny got high all the time, but was chill and needed some me-time. She drank alcohol most of the time and got mad constantly. Seeing her husband on drugs made her aggressive and she started fights on a crazy borderline level of intensity.
He on the other hand, never got physically aggressive towards her. His fight-or-flight instinct got into "flight"-mode most of the times, but sometimes he had to push her away, because she was chasing and beating him.
So her perspective is, that he ruined their marriage with his kind of behaviour, because that really triggered her, but her aggressiveness was absolutely out of hand.
She was the abuser.
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Please remember: AH had a history of violence to her ex and sister !
He was anything but chill. Look up what Jennifer gray has to say about Depp.
She even narrates her stories from the abuser point of view, her motions are aggressor. JD emotes in defensive mode as it’s appropriate if you are on the receiving end.
And who the hell marries someone who abused her repeatedly and horribly from almost day one? No hard connection, no children and employed? You leave. I know because I had a boyfriend who abused me once. Only once and that was enough that I never saw or knew of the guy again except for one time he came to my house and I told him to leave and that he tried friending me on FB over 30 years after.
AH does a lot of drugs too. She is a pathological liar and obsessed!!
Amber’s testimony was patently absurd. The most consistent thing about her testimony was that each story she told was disturbingly exaggerated & difficult to believe.
He didn't hang the dog out of the window. But there's a pic on FB of her doing it.
You mean the abuse was too hard to believe, so in your mind you decided it was... fake? Fixed it for you.
I think it was super interesting when she was testifying about Johnny's finger loss and how when she woke up, she discovered that he'd "written all over the walls" and the gesture she makes over and over is holding a pen/paintbrush and writing - as in, from her point of view.
I feel that if I'd woken up and found my partner had written all over the walls and I was trying to explain this to someone, I would make more of a sweeping gesture, to demonstrate the size or scope of what I was confronted with. I wouldn't be sitting there gesturing as I myself was the one holding the pen and writing. It was very strange to watch, and I think it was the bodily version of a Freudian slip.
Good observation. I felt something was wrong, too but couldn't name it. There you did. Thanks.
She did write on the mirror in lipstick. She also said in audio "did I do this to the floor?" LIKE yes you did amber you crazy btch. Even Dr kipper was saying "she did this..." and Amber saying she's sorry about his finger. Smh
She also talked about escaping Johnny and at that moment she clenches her fist....which of course makes more sense if you reverse their positions and she is about to punch him, or grasping him to stop him leaving. Liar liar liar.
After the so-called terrible abuse with the bottle, didn’t she wake, looked for him and then made him a coffee? Speaking for me, i would have looked myself up and waited for any of the security etc
Good call!! I truly hope Johnny's atty's are paying attn to we armchair ďetectives
Does she have any integrity? She's just invalidating women who actually experience spousal abuse, and giving them less credibility. What a witch
From the point of view of men who are abused but unheard and disbelieved, she is validating them all. Infact I want her to carry on till feminist lose all their confidence.
@@amitsao009 Well said brother. Feminism has been an cancer for society. It has ruined marriages and other relationships between men and women.
It’s beyond me! How deep she has decided to go into her direct LiES
@@amitsao009 Why can't you be concerned for both the men who have been abused as well as women in the same situation? Why do you care for the one group of victims but not the other? It' doesn't have to be an either/or issue.
@@smlorrin Just doing the same thing women do. Women tend to NOT care at all about abused men. If Johnny were not a handsome, famous actor, none of the women here would be posting, or even care. In fact, they'd be invalidating his case totally.
"Tear-free crying experience " you were so so accurate in your analysis.
She has been looking for solutions !
He wasn’t listening or understood the desperation of his woman
exaggerating is not wise, but that doesn't mean it's a lie.
Don't you love the crumpled up tissue? I wonder if her lawyers suggested that when they, too, noticed there were no tears.
I love the way you compose these videos! It makes the story that feels like a 1000 piece puzzle feel like a 10 piece toddlers puzzle.
As a victim of DV and SA, I feel that AH has been lying. Johnny Depp was truthful.
Justice for Johnny.!
Ditto💟
Sorry you went through that but remember you are not an expert because of it.
They were both abusive. The London libel case exposed that years ago.
@@ItsMe-vd4qi the London libel case was extremely biased by the judge.
It doesn't take a victim to see her bizarre lies here
@@tracyrasmussen8117 it wasn't biased at all. Have you read the transcript? Didn't think so. Heard it on the internet didn't you.
As someone who's survived abusive relationships, it really looks like she's playing a roll instead of reliving memories. Depp on the other hand, does seem to be reliving memories. I DO NOT like Depp, but I strongly believe he's being wrongly accused.
Playing a role and playing it badly. I don’t know how good she is as an actor since I’ve never seen any of her movies.
Same
I don’t know how anyone could not like Johnny DEPP. Besides being a great actor, he is a very genuine, humble, kind, generous, loving man.
All the people who testify as a friend report this. He’s a sweet sweet man.
Exactly!
@@marieharris1230 I agree. Some people have noted his generosity and how many people seems to be living off him. But when you make that insane amount of money, are you only supposed to be friends with people who make the same type of money? That would be very difficult. Instead, he hangs out with people who are his friends, many of whom may be artistic types. He is a good friend.
I've watched a lot of trials and she honestly reminds me of Jodi Arias in the sense that she constantly, transparently appears to be "selling" a story rather than telling it. It's absurd to watch.
This is what ive been saying! Even her psychologist reminds me of Alice LaViolet
Ben Shapiro points out that while she's giving testimony and "crying" she pose for a picture and it is totally a pose. She stops in a pose, looks across at her table, flash goes off and then she continues.
As horrible as Jodi arias is........Amber's acting is even worse than jodi's.... Like a LOT worse
@@yawn1887
Ben shapiro can do one. Please don't listen to that nimrod. He often spouts gibberish.
Everyone with a brain can easily see she's been posing for photos and even giving signals for when the photos should be taken.
anyone see the todt testimony, feels the same way, trying to sell a story,
I think Johnny Depp would have to self soothe even more with his addictions just to cope with her erratic emotional and physical abuse. He has given us a lifetime of actions that are completely opposite of her allegations, so to me she’s the worst kind of destructive liar.
Yes, trust me . Been there done that. They want to blame the substance, when really you're sound mind until they want to provoke you.
@@WillBlindYouWithLight yes!! To provoke him on purpose and have her phone ready to record it…she should be ashamed of herself. We all are.
Poooooor Johnny. Jesus ppl listen to yourselves.
@@HH-hm3qn poor Johnny is right. It’s a shame there’s people like her that lie about abuse and trauma and try desperately to destroy someone’s life…their whole life. So yes, poor Johnny Depp.
It’s insane how real these incidents sound without her appalling vitriolic, faux-emotive visual.
No doubt he has some co-dependence and self-abusive tendencies….but guilty of the things she is now trying to hard to prove? I can’t see how her manipulation of the situation is helping her. And, really, who ‘laughs’ after nearly getting into your ‘aggressor’s’ vehicle 🤔
I see her make up artist made a statement that she never had to cover up bruises, cuts or any injuries. The jury get to read that document.
Yes! That is just great!
he apparently gave her a severe beating just before that( James Carson?) show. The make up artist whi did her face said she had no signs of injuries. She also said that amber tried to gaslight everyone after the show with "wow, cant believe I just did a shownwith two black eyes" (paraphrased).i S that what you are talking about?
@@satsumamoon James Cordon... The Late Late Show. There's a clip of that episode on TH-cam. Her face looks perfect and she seems very relaxed.
That's good. Very good.
@Ros G do you know why she didn't testify?
I’m not sure if Amber was madly in love with him. I believe she looked at and used Johnny as a cash machine. Just my opinion.
Exactly, JD was her ATM and a tool to get into Hollywood circles.
Totaly agree . I m convinced she never loved him . When listening to audio records there is no doubt she had ZERO RESPECT for him. She even may have dreamed ( planned?) To be his widow many time !
Agree, and I believe that she make it seems like his addiction was so much worse than it really was, to paint him as a deranged monster, when he was a successful actor with a happy family and friends, like everyone around him testified. He just got addicted to a presciption drug, later recover, and didn't even took anything strong when she crushed his finger.
Probably researched the books and music he likes before the first meeting too. The whole "I didn't know much about him" is total bs.
I am actually willing to believe that there was some passion there, or at least obsession, which is not mutually exclusive with being a gold-digger, so there might have been genuine good times in between those terrible episodes, at least enough for JD to stuck around that long to see he could salvage the relationship,
This "takes two to tango" doesn't apply when dealing with BPD, does it? I really feel Grande searching for the "middle ground" here at the risk of heading into a logical fallacy.
i think “it takes two to tango” does apply when dealing with BPD. some people are more likely to be enablers to this behaviour than others, like Johnny Depp
Substance abuse is also linked to personality disorder. He was 50+ years old, she was 24. Alchool drugs isn’t the solution of a stable middle aged man.
Just because she supposedly has BPD doesn't mean there's not something wrong with Johnny also especially after years and years of substance abuse, we all know that actually poisons and literally kills brain cells, he's no angel, very abusive also.
Thanks for the analysis. I can concur it a lot of what you saying.
My ex-wife that I have two kids with have borderline of a severe degree.
The first one and a half year we were together was amazing. After that everything I did was never good enough or just wrong. I was wrong. She she accuse me of everything constantly fighting. While we’re having sex she wanted me to hit her and strangle her. I didn’t do this because I found it absurd.
I never laid a hand on her.
She accuse to the authorities for beating our kids and her.
Five years later she goes to a crisis center and persuade them that I had raped or beaten there and psychologically manipulated her.
It has been nine years of abuse from her I have been diagnosed with PTSD because of this. During the relationship I left to be with friends work long hours. drank a lot just to cope with The hell I was living in.
I was hoping when you started talking about borderline that you would put in this aspect that living with a person like this drives even the best of people insane.
The Putting you down constant manipulation constant accusations a person like this tear you apart. And the worst thing is nobody around you believe that she or anyone can be like that.
Please focus on that aspect when it’s so clear that Amber heard has constructed everything to drive him insane. To get the reaction out of him she wanted, violence so she was the victim
Thanks
Ridiculous.
Live must be so hard having a spouse who behaves horribly like that.
She said he broke glass all around her, that there was glass underneath her, threw her around in it, but did not show*** she ever got cut. THAT was the point where I could say for sure this specific incident at least did not happen.
If you look at the photos as evidence from heard you will see no such thing. Just blood drops everywhere, the blood drops would coincide with the cut finger. Her evidence is laughable. I was expecting mayham and her excuse was somebody cleaned it all up. Ok🥴,
She's lying about that whole story. I listened to a recording of day that happened. She admits she cutJohnny's finger to the Dr and nurse. You hear her walk away in heels. Dr Kipler and Johnny's body guard keep talking to her that needs to fly back to LA. I don't believe one word of her fake testimony. To many witnesses can prove her wrong.
I agree with you! She described extensive damage to the bottoms of her feet due to broken glass. Then she seemed to have no problems walking by her own account and others. And when did she pick the shards of glass out of her feet?!
She said her feet were cut up from the glass, then flew to LA with JDs security guy. But he testified she was walking fine, no bruises cuts or anything. If her feet were cut up and she'd been SA'd with a makers mark bottle seems like she'd have been bowlegged or limping.. ?
@Tea Rose what if you didn't judge women based on their clothes?
AH also excessively used drugs and alcohol so only saying it about JD isn't a correct assessment cause his drug use is being overly assessed and hers is being ignored.
Everyone around him testified that he smoked marihuana, and sometimes did cocaine, and almost didn't drink, and never looked any different after, she was the one drinking constantly, just look at her instagram, wine wine wine.
He got addicted to a prescription drug, later recovered, and that's it.
I don't get how some people are buying her story about him being an out of control drug addict, but also being able to be a very responsible and respected actor for I don't know, 20, 30 years?
@@Meguchiz there are many “functional” addicts. Especially when they’re using to self medicate and feel normal, not necessarily get high and part. I have family whose use is similar to JD in that sense.
I agree though that she absolutely has her own issues. I also think that just because he was using and their relationship was toxic, doesn’t mean he was automatically abusive or an awful person.
@@Meguchiz I know it's infuriating sometimes especially listening to this I'm a recovering addict and us d for many years and my tolerance was off the charts,I could take so many pills that would kill a large man but my tolerance was extremely high.
Him defending himself is abuse to her. He has to put his hands up move her out of the way from all the beatings he took but because he's bigger him defending himself Is abuse to Amber because of the size difference. What's crazy is she believes it
@@kramygarci2854 I think that's the excuse she may want some people to believe so he doesn't win the case but I don't think she believes that I think she's malicious.
" The Couple was unable to achieve Transcendence or elude The Dark Shadows , so they continue to see each other as Public Enemies . " Well played Dr Grande!!!!
This is SO scary. Such a never ending vicious toxic cycle that relationship. Their personality dysfunction just hooked on the other’s endless just destroying each other. Regardless if she is lying about the domestic violence or not, your insight in the actual mechanics of the relationship are very insightful and make perfect sense.
When you boil it all down…
She’s guilty of what she’s claiming Johnny did to her. She feels superior when she stands on the backs of others. So many holes in her story. So many questionable acts.
its just a dismay that domesic violence advocacy groups like ACLU and others, some main stream media and some court systems found her credible over Johnny. It makes sick to my stomach😡
No way is she guilty of what she claimed Johnny did. I mean just recall what she said. She said Johnny slammed her down onto the floor which was full of glass shards. Then he raped her with a bottle until her vagina bled while the glass was piercing through her back. She managed to get up and run through the glass and to her room. Then she went to sleep but not the hospital. After all that Johnny went to cut off his own finger. Amber wakes up in time to make the guy coffee in front of everyone.
No matter the expression she has and no matter the tears she cries. This story is incredible? Unbelievable? Fantastical?
She is legitimately crazy. If i was on the stand i would testify to the are minimum. Two or three slaps by johnny. Minimum damage, no need to see a doctor or go to the hospital. Keep it clean and just testify to a tiny bit of micro abuse to fend off the lawsuit.
Nope she goes right to bottle rape and face pummelling and grabbed by the neck and thrown across the room. How can she think thats believable? Theres something seriously wrong with her. Shes mental. Maybe a bit psychopathic.
Everything she did, she blames on others and acts as if she was an innocent bystander I noticed that too. It’s almost like she believes a lot of her own lies. She needs to go to a psych ward
It pisses me off watching the abuser (Amber) on the stand, or anywhere really, blaming the abuse on the person she abused.
She lived up to Dr Curry's explanation of the two personality disorders that she has, too bad she tried so hard to ruin a career with those disorders, she needs to be admitted to a mental institution
I have re-listened to the tapes that JD's team played during his testimony and there is one out there that has not been played in court due to other people being recorded. In this tape Dr Kipper, is there right after the finger fight. Dr Kipper and the nurse Deb are speaking and Dr Kipper states flat out "she did it, his finger is crushed".. Also we hear Amber crying hysterically and claiming over and over that she was so sorry, she loves him, in which Dr Kipper replies, she's feeling guilty now and that she needed something to calm down and they need to get her back to LA as soon as possible. I believe the evidence, she didn't take any photo's as there were no injuries on her. She is really giving women a bad name and it's now possible that real victims will not be believed. I don't think she ever loved him, she was hoping for him to worship her and give her every thing and she would get these great acting jobs and they would become a power couple in Hollywood. When that didn't work, she went in on JD in her anger and shame, painting him as a monster, because, she didn't get the fairy tale she wanted.
Why hasn't Dr. Kipper testified?
@@ilexevergreen5405 I think Dr Kipper has passed away that’s why it can’t be used but I’m wondering can it be used against AH in a perjury case ?
Yup 100% fact
@@twitchygemtee208 no .. it's Jerry judge who is on those aus tapes and he has passed away (convenitely Amber uses Jerry n her mum as witnesses in her testimony and both have passed away).. Dr kipper and nurse Debbie are on those aus tapes and have testified via deposition already for jd... nurse Debbie kept saying "i don't recall" to every question n Dr kipper was very vague.
So I don't think either of them has clearly and honestly told about the aus incident and that tape cannot be played in court cos it's 3rd party voices
@@twitchygemtee208 it's his former bodyguard, Jerry Judge, who had passed from cancer in 2019. Jerry's testimony would have buried her for sure, he saw right through her mess and she knew it.
It is a brilliant analysis, calm, confident, objectively seeking truth above emotional prejudice. His psychological interpretation of a love hate complexity that shadows our relationships is correct. I've seen many cases in 53 practicing psychotherapy. I don't know this young
man personally, but I can say he has knowledge of the human mind. And a kind heart. He is doing an important much needed service in the current stupidity, ignorance, malicious confusion of social media.
Pedro
Thanks4your observation and its meta-message regarding our sad state of social media social illness.
I wish there was more focus on the substance abuse and the behaviors associated with that. The behaviors Depp was described as having ring true with many addicts. As we know , addiction grows worse over time. I would like to see an expert witness discuss the probable trajectory of alcohol/cocaine usage and the effect that it has on spouse and family.
also I do think JD was doing drugs B4 - Amber.
I don't know why but I have trouble believing someone who cries for hours without shedding 1 tear.
Bingo!
She did shed at least on, when she was talking about hiding bruises in a backless dress on the red carpet. Her eyes were also misty while she was having the breakdown. She's also an actress, and she definitely spent the majority of the time crying with no tears, but to say she didn't shed a single tear is incorrect.
It’s because you have a SOUL and she doesn’t
The crying often with very little tears bothered me as well!!
Her face is not red when crying
She reminds me of my mom. She’s lying, and it’s scary how much. He wasn’t volatile, he was trying to survive the actual abuser in the home.
TUG showed audio of her reacting while medical staff were at the scene after johnnys fingers was severed, shes full of guilt n needs medication to be calmed down. Also video of her dancing in preparation for a role (2 days later) feet and arms bare, totally uninjured! I really hope the courts have this footage
18:10 onwards is sheer poetry. You managed to articulate what my brain can't. You unpicked the twisted metal from the car crash, of which defies their relationship and gave a beautiful description of how this horror show came to be. Thank you.
A “tear free crying event”. She’s going to need the whole jar of amica cream to treat that burn! 😂
✨️🤣
I loved the way you used extra flowery words and expressions in a kind of parody of the way JD and AH expressed themselves on the stand. Your talent for parody has been noted.
except Dr. Todd biased the story and fudged facts, true Doctors are more objective.
dude the last part 😂🤣🤪
Dr. Grande, you and your dry humour never cease to amaze me ❤😂
Dr. Grande, this is the most clear-headed analysis of the Depp/Heard relationship that I have seen. Thanks for this.
Just compare her current fake crying to the smirks and eye rolls she did in her 2016 deposition. I'm embarrassed to admit I was starting to worry she's telling to truth until I seen that. She was almost laughing and brushed off her hitting Johnny. No fake tears then but now years later. She also seems to be accusing Johnny of things she did.
Amen!
Exactly
Out of the 2 of them. Amber is the one that has a previous DV charge. She was arrested in a previous relationship.
Yes!!! Her smug demeanor is the real her.
Word!
The reason I doubt her story is that after they separated/Or divorced she convinced her agent to set up a meeting with him to get back together violating the TRO. Seems kind of funny that someone who was “so violently abused and SA’d” would do that after successfully escaping from him in the first place? I know some women do go back out of fear or economic reasons, but that wasn’t the case here.
both of them, Amber and Johny INFP,
both of them are people with idealization,
as INTP, i ever date two INFFPs, they are too weird for me.
but Amber does not seems as INFP as Johny.
but INFP i dated are sooooo weird.
omg,,
so weird, i wanna cried.
so weird.
Seems like you have very very very little knowledge of abusive relationships
@@lourenssianturi4373 do not use Myers Briggs personality test please...it is way too flawed :/
the first one was a foreigner in other country,
he asked or begged me if i could help him forget her girlfriend who is abusive to him.
if i could become his valentine.
i give it a thought before replying, three days, after thinking the risks and gain
the risk, i dont know who the hell is this, the gain, i could get a native english speaker who speak directly with me.
i agreed after thinking i can manage the risk.
i tell you, he tried to mold me.
but i am INTP, you can mold me.
Amen.
i just saw all his action.
then he aked to went to my country and asked for break up instantly, he reject, and i match him to another woman. before fleeing, i warned that poor lady, but she would not listen. whatever, i am free.
his imagination is so weird.
like imagining he fucked me in front of his friends, so crazy and disgusting.
he tried to mold me too,
because i am a virgin,
so weird,
and i am just, um uh ha, uh ha,,
i dont care.
the second infp, is from my hometown,
he said so many things, so many promises, tried to lure me, ask me to love him.
i tried to love him.
i gave him attention, books he needs for his works, i exercises my buttock, spend my time for him,
suddenly, he acted like ghosting me.
where all the words he said go? all the promises?
is he only talking, no doing?
is he manipulated me?
it felt like a really big burden with him. i told him what i think and told him to move on.
what i think about him after that? he is a man who only talk and promises but will not keep his promises, really bad
he is manipulative.
an evil in human mask?
idk,
i feel so relieve after free from both of them.
It’s hard to believe that numerous people, including their around the clock security and medical staff testified that they had never seen a bruise, swelling or cut on her. I know abuse often occurs in secret, but for so many people to lie under oath?
I've red an opinion, that all the people were or are JD employees. Jhonny still pays their bills and he's still super star. Those people don't want to lose lukrative opportunities to work for show business.
@@elzbietagierlik not much good to them if they go to jail for perjury. Would they all risk it?
@@elzbietagierlik I call BS on that. The Police were not on JD's payroll. Dr. Kipper was the doctor for both of them. And her own make-up people were NOT on JD's payroll. Plus I don't believe that all the employees of JD would be not only willing to commit perjury for him but would stand by and do nothing while witnessing him beat her. Try again.
@@elzbietagierlik But would they be willing to go to prison for him? I doubt that.
Don't forget the make up company that didn't exist lol
I think you nailed it with your final thought / conceptualization of the case. Dead on, Dr. Grande!!!!
Whatever the nature of their relationship was, it's now really easy to see that Amber wants nothing but the full destruction of JD. She keeps adding new tales and details to her stack of lies to make that happen. The good news is that they are pretty easy to debunk through their lack of consistency, and I hope that's exacltly what we'll see in the upcoming cross examination. JD's lawyers have a week to come up with the goods, I hope AH gets what she deserves.
Well he literally states in an email that he wants to destroy her and will stop at nothing, while describing her as an overused flappy fishmarket...nice guy!
She might have "loved" JD but she is clearly in love with herself. Everything is about her, how JD made her feel great, how JD wasn't there for her, et cetera. She considered JD a pet, and how dare a pet disobey his owner.
It's shown through her testimony, even without cross examination.
What a nightmare she was to be around.
@@swhite5840 Ah yes he called her a couple of colorful things. But was that before or after she sent him an extortion letter where she demands 3 penthouses, a boatload of money, a car etc or else, pooped in his bed, cut off his finger, got him a false TRO, accused him of DV, created an entire hoax incuding fake pictures and wrote and OP-ED which calls him an abuser by proxy?
Nice girl.. you can have her ;)
@@swhite5840 well she laid a turd in their bed...nice girl!
She really out did herself. She is definitely mental.
Amber is a liar, she has taken other people's stories and tried to make them hers, because she never lived it she cannot get the emotion right, she has not been traumatised at all. A blind man can see it. Her stories have a lot of fluff to begin an outline of the actual attack, very vague and then a lot of fluff to finish it. She cannot describe what never happened.
Jo fisher lines from the talented mr. Ripley
I think she has witnessed or experienced trauma, because it appears Dr Curry is right that AH has some kinds of personality disorders which don't just happen out of the blue.
I also think she had these problems long before she met JD.
And if she has Narcissistic PD she wouldn't be able to feel emotions even if she has experienced abuse.
Tragic.
Her abusive story was stolen from her assistant Kate James. That she told Turd confidential.
She also spit on her assistants face, when she asked for a raise.
people who dissociate might not have emotions connected to the abuse memories. it makes them easier to bare, only when i have flashbacks i feel all i felt mentally and physically what i felt when it originally happened. and weird they disgnosed her with bpd but not ptsd, when bpd is suggested to come from trauma
Johnny is a liar, said he was not abusive, just called her vulgar names, smashed cabinets, threw bottles at her and that's just what he admits to.What an abusive alcholic LIAR he is.
“Trapped floating on the wreckage of their relationship.” A beautifully poetic analogy,
Dr. Grande.
Possibly one of the best analysis of the dynamics in this relationship xx thank you Dr Grande.
With the way she described the violence and abuse, she would have been much more severely injured by what she claimed was inflicted on her, yet she only took photo evidence of a very minor bruise? As a survivor, I'm calling bullshit. I could never bring myself to seek justice for myself but I still have pictures of what happened to me. She would have definitely had more proof if she is telling the truth.
I thought the same thing!
Also.. he has always dated beautiful famous independent women and nobody ever said anything about him being abusive and violent! Why would he behave so different towards her?!
I’m sorry for what you went through!!! 💕
If she had been defiled by a bottle there's no doubt she would have seen a doctor. Doctors have an obligation to report. If she's taking a pic of a small "bruise" on her face, wouldn't she have evidence of significantly more heinous abuse?
I think her face bruises are from Botox injections… remember Rihanna’s face? …AH face would have been real fucked up
Same here
Right. All this hideous abuse. Head butting her face. The bottle etc. Her face would look so much worse! I read that little bluish discoloration she had was from a Botox injection
Thank you for recapping her testimony...I tried but found most of it unbelievable and unwatchable.
It's really hard listening to her.. I find her so boring and dramatic.
Yes ... no credibility whatsoever. Not sure how she got any work, what with the poor calibre of her acting 🤦🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️
I couldn't watch it either.
Agreed
Yeah... I'm relying on the TH-cam comments section. Her acting (if you can call it that) is so terrible, I am struggling to watch. I didn't have the same issue until she took the stand, though. I feel sorry for the jury.
fascinating wrap up. and lovely dead pan summary of her testimony! one of your best videos! I'm looking forward to your summary when this concludes.
Your analysis put many of of semi-formed intuitions into words beautifully and brilliantly.
Brilliant analysis. The only missing factor for me is AH substance abuse, declared as 2 bottles of wine daily, mushrooms and MDMA. This exacerbated her personality disorders and brought out even more of her demon behaviour, manifest in violence and aggression IMO. She literally did Johnny's head in with her relentless insecurities, accusations, insults and non stop talking.
And, Ambien, too.
Well said Alyson Rogers and no doubt very true
And Ambien and Seroquel.
& meds 4 bi-polar
Apparently you missed the old post from her coke dealer. He's in with famous people and he stated she was delusional and crazy back then.
It’s funny that over the decades of Johnny’s life,this is the only woman who ever was hit by Johnny, yet there is evidence of amber being violent with other partners
How do you know that?
@@patriciaaznavourian3014 because everyone had testified to that
Yeah- Johnny exes have spoken up in media and all said none of that. Amber has a DV record and that was tossed from court because they were out of state…not because it was inaccurate. There is also a video of her sister post Amber beating and court testimony of a friend slapped…evidence goes back 10years that she has been physically violent.
Maybe that is because he was not into substance abuse during those relationships. Maybe he did not have as much as an excessive lifestyle and money he accumated over his movie career back then as he had when he was with Amber. Sounds like his substance abuse caused periods of mental instability, irriational behaviours and depression.
@@lanabulmer6360 still does not work like that ..
Dr grande, creating content that derives from high profile cases that are ongoing and filmed is an excellent strategy!!!!!
I think this confirmed that Dr. Curry's assessment is correct.
I would encourage anyone to listen to the audiotapes if you want to understand the case. Dr. Grande did a good job here. What I have found is that if you listen to the tapes online you will see someone talking non stop which is Amber Heard and you will hear snippets of a response and that is from JOHNNY DEPP. He spends most of his time on the tapes listening to Amber rant about trivial matters or about matters that neither Amber or Johnny understand. Amber talked so much on the tapes that, at times, she forgot what she was talking about. Johnny did very little talking and all Amber wanted to do is talk about their problems. And Amber would not be looking for solutions but rather have arguments that went around in circles with no possibility of ever ending. Amber seemed mixed up. The marriage was a train wreck
She was also telling him he needed to take a Xanax and giving him pills on the tapes. Kinda makes it hard to blame him for the drug use when she’s plying him with drugs to make him more complacent and submissive.
It really doesn't matter if he did drugs though. He hurt no one and he had a very high tolerance from doing it most of his life.
Where can you find the tapes?
@@raven5752 Umbrella Guy has a bunch of them on his channel :)
@@raven5752 and a channel called incredibly average, that's a good one too
Amber Heard: "I only hit Johnny Depp once to save my baby sister!"
Actual audio proofs, about SEVERAL different incidents: "I did start a physical fight!" "I didn't punch you I was fcking hitting you" "I didn't mean to hurt hiiiiiim" (Australia incident, right after the finger was cut) and so on.
Ok. Makes sense, you know.
Oh yes
The oh I’m so great
I let you beat me but I draw the line at my sister 🥱
no, she said she only punch his face only that once, other fight are common but that punch is the most powerful one because she thought her sister will fall onto the stairs.
And the doctor on the Australia tape said “as far as I’m concerned they’re self inflicted” commenting on Amber’s injuries.
@@anchorread68
Even though Johnny's security guard was between them. Her sister wasn't close.
The best and most concise synopsis I’ve seen presented at this point. Thank you👍.
I’m not sure your analysis is on point. Obviously JD has issues, but when you analysed their cycle you paid no attention to the glaring fact that AH was using substances under his nose and that is not the right behaviour to have if you want your partner to sober up. Also if your partner can’t deal with conflict starting a fight isn’t the right thing to do. It seems to me and to many others that her behaviours actually worsened his issues. Even if he had been violent toward her (which she hadn’t proven yet) he was constantly provoked and thrown off balance. He mainly cope with that by SH and destroying properties, which is not ok, but highlights how he was trying to dysfunctionally cope with the havoc she was throwing at him, rather than delving in DV. It looks like he was trying to be as considerate as his dysfunction allowed to, while she never really tried to shield him from her glaring issue. There are two persons here: both dysfunctional but JD has a huge heart, whereas she lacks any.
Anyone else notice that she filed for divorce shortly after learning his bank account is $650M lighter? Johnny never claimed anything other than he loved her. Everything she did screamed manipulation. She’s just gross!
"She's just gross!" ... and evil!
Elon Musk has more in this case
Yet she offered to sign a pre-nup.
@@karencombs9687 LMAO, who paid you Karen. Oh god, NM your name says it all.
@@karencombs9687 JD says she argued about it. That is just he said/she said. I think they are both fudging the truth here.
Her testimony just seems so... cinematic and Broadway-esque, I feel. The way she goes from talking about the physical stuff to talking about the "beautiful floors" just sounds the way a novelist would write for a world-building fiction piece. When people with trauma recount and or relive their traumatic experiences, do they prioritize the cleanliness of their floors or if the weather was nice outside? I sure didn't.
AH keeps mentioning in her testimony how JD "kept on punching me" it's like her go to line when shes almost trying to fill up a pause, but surely someone who has sustained so much punching will have significant bruising on their body....yet nothing. Also if she is constantly being beaten up...why oh why does she keep running after JD when he wanted space and distance. I don't know any DV survivor who reacts in this way. Her testimony is inconsistent and contradicted by her audio, that's not even starting on her non-existent tears
According to her, she NEEDED to stop Depp from taking drugs. This really doesn't make sense as a lot of the circumstances wouldn't add up, like him saying he wouldn't be back for a long period of time(wouldn't be high when he returns) or when he went to visit his daughter (probably wouldn't do drugs because he wanted better for his kids) or when he leaves a fight before things can get violent (doesn't want to escalate and potentially hurt her)
She said she didn’t know much about Depp before they met , then in her testimony said she was reminded of the supposed Kate Moss incident. He dated Kate Moss in the 90’s 🤔
And if she was concerned about him from the 90’s why did she choose to become involved with him ?!?!? She’s an opportunist and clearly a narcissist.
She’s beyond repugnant.
What amber says makes me feel uncomfortable, almost like wanting to vomit. She lies so much and accuses so violently while lying all the way, that it makes me sick, literally. I pity Johnny Depp for having fallen into the claws of such a monster.
Bravo and so elequently said!
As a DV survivor, anytime I would be anywhere near my abuser I would get VERY physically ill. I don't believe her and believe Mr Depp is the abused. Dr. Curry's assesment was spot on. I fear for her baby daughter. I hope that relationship is being closely monitored.
I keep thinking that, too. That poor baby.
Just as a matter of interest, on the second day of Ambers testimony,someone spotted Johnny Depp discreetly retching, lean to one of the lawyers and say something like "I´m going to be sick". It was mentioned in a chat I was in, I can´t vouch for its veracity. And yes, that little girl needs all the help she can get growing up, because there´s a downward spiral in Ambers future.
EXACTLY, and very nervous while avoiding any eye contact
If you got physically ill from being around your abuser, but Amber doesn't show she is feeling ill, therefore you don't believe her.You must think all DV victims must get physically ill around their abuser. Then why isn't JOHNNY becoming physically ill?
You don't know what your talking about.
Not logical tootsie. NICE TRY THOUGH!
Same here. I ran into my abuser a few years after I had left. I was out with some friends and he was at the place we had gone to. I literally ran into the bathroom and vomited.
This was very interesting and insightful. I would just add that I have flashes of memory from traumatic events in my past, so I believe amber that it is possible. I had sexual experiences as a child that I only remember in flashes. The flashes have been an extreme source of shame my whole life, so they are very traumatic, but my brain wants to repress them so over time all that remained is the flashes that I can’t get rid of. (They are better now that I have talked to a therapist about them…just FYI).
Everyone idealizes the other person when they first fall in love. But you know it’s real when time moves on from that and you really get to know them and still love them.
Of everything she has claimed during her testimony, I'm stuck on the visualization she painted of escaping from behind the bar. Multiple broken bottles of liquor on the tile floor and she's frantically trying to get out of there, slipping on the tile, trying to run away. She said the picture of the area behind the bar wasn't accurate. So, I'm supposed to believe 1: that the house manager cleaned up the tile from all the blood, glass, and liquor that should be there after something like that and then that he added broken glass back to the scene before taking the picture, and 2: that after the incident she didn't take pictures of her feet or seek treatment and was able to walk through an airport unassisted with no one noticing she had trouble walking?
It's been said most people who have been abused DO NOT have this level of detail.
Maybe I've watched too many horror movies....but it's bloody.
She tells a story, presents evidence, then the evidence not only disproves her account, but actually supports his account. Weird.
100%!!! After getting his finger cut off, when exactly did he have time to sexually assault her with the broken bottle in between writing the messages everywhere, Dr. Kipper Dr. Bonnie & Ben getting to the house and JD going to the hospital???!! There were people all over the place searching for his finger!!! Surely she would’ve been in excruciating pain and would’ve NEEDED medical attention. Absolutely no question. Then there’s literally audio of her crying, apologizing, and saying she loves & needs him. Dr. Kipper does say “she did it” multiple times and Bonnie repeats “oh wow wow wow wow wow” in complete shock.
Also she claimed to be bare foot and would have left a blood trail of her feet!!!!
“They go back and forth between love and hate, which crushes their relationship like a boat being thrown around in a storm. Now both of them are trapped floating on the wreckage of their relationship, and what appears to be a permanent devaluation phase. Limited by their own lack of insight, they are unable to find their way to shore.”
Brilliant summary of this messy trial. You are one of the very few people who analyze current affairs with logic and fairness without black and white thinking. I love your videos so much!!
"She had a tear free crying experience."
Ded 😶
I agree, brilliant summary!
Beautifully said
A little too "safe and middle ground" for this case. He usually does good research but hasn't done any in this case, which disappointed me.
I don't see how this conclusion can be made when taking into account all the evidence, recordings, testimonies, etc. He seems to be following along with the trial though so perhaps he'll spend the time to do a broader analysis when it's over.
Toxic partners. Neither, completed the other.
Your final thoughts were brilliant! And very poetic I may say.
I disagree that Johnny was in love with drugs. It sounds to me like, based on all of the testimony I’ve heard so far, that he would abuse drugs as a coping mechanism for Amber’s verbal and physical abuse towards him. Also, none of his witnesses, from the security guards, to his staff, to his agents, to his friends and family, have ever testified that they saw Johnny lose control of his temper while he was drinking or using drugs. I feel like that’s too many people that would be willing to lie on his behalf, especially considering that it seems to me so far that Amber has no one who can testify to seeing Johnny abuse her. She has also not presented any physical evidence to support her claims. No medical exams, no police reports, one photo that’s contested because of the metadata, and that’s all. The fact that you noticed that she displays traits of borderline personality disorder also makes me believe that she is lying on the stand.
I hope you will do a recap of her testimony after she has been cross examined, and I would love to hear your opinion on her mental health after that. As for now, I would hope that when you make these videos about the trial, that you take a closer look at the evidence presented before forming your opinions. I know that you want to remain unbiased, and this case is clearly swinging in favor of Johnny, but you neglected to mention that there seems to be no evidence other than Amber’s word that Johnny became violent while drunk or high on drugs.
Exactly!
I think Amber is the abuser, but that didn't make Johnny take drugs. I only comment because addicts often use others as an excuse to use.
@@ohyeah3365 he's been doing drugs for a long time. There was even the scandal with River Phoenix and the Viper Room.
One of the worst comments Ive read so far on the whole situation. He has a long drug and alcohol history, he is known in Hollywood as being chronically late, he settled out of court with a man he punched out on set while drunk. Blaming another person for a drug habit is the ultimate cop out.
@@eloiselebler3045 Someone on Medium wrote an excellent article about this. Wish I could remember the author's name. Then the Viper Room scandal too. Why would a guy in his 30s think it was cool to trash hotel rooms? Sad how many people think that he was just 'living the rock star life." He might noit be a physical abuser, but he is not the saint so many (not all) paint him as this sweet guy.
Anyone thinking she made gains during her testimony must be deluded. She’s freakin nuts.
Stone crazy
But the press ate it up; apparently European press too/especially. I don’t understand.
I am a 30 yr survivor of DV and still remember the occurrences and tears well up quickly. I’ve been watching the entire trial, though very difficult at times, find that amber is lying. I’ve seen very few of JDs movies so I’m not looking at this through bias glasses. My ex told me he would destroy me anyway he could and still tries today but I see amber doing this because she lost control and lost a lavish lifestyle. She doesn’t care how she gets it but she wants him complete destroyed.
I had a really hard time growing up. Nothing as bad as what I consider abuse, but some of these things if I talk or thinking about them 34 years later I still cry with tears. In fact I told myself a story this morning about one of those experiences that happened to me in the 4th grade and by the end I was sobbing. When your soul is hurt tears come easily it’s not something you have to force, which is why I find Amber’s act insulting. She would have been way more creditable if she told the story with genuine emotions and not with one’s she thought would go over better with on lookers. If you are willing to fake cry what else are you willing to fake?
Your theory doesn't hold because for two years Heard had nothing to do with Depp. They were both ambling along. In 2017 Depp made lots of money more than he had made in years and he was confident everything was back on track so he took 8 months off film making to play music and vacation. She slowly worked her way back to work.
Then a journalist in the UK that neither of them knew wrote an article that Depp didn't like and Depp made world headlines by suing and saying AH lied. Suddenly a scandal that everyone had forgotten was back on the front page. AH became a witness for the newspaper and Depp started giving pretty awful interviews about AH in Rolling Stone and GQ. Then the ACLU persuaded AH to respond in the Washington Post. It is my firm belief that if the journalist in the UK hadn't written his article Depp and Heard's paths would never have crossed again. Depp and Heard would have stayed out of each other's way. Instead Depp lost his case in the UK and was humiliated on the world stage and now he is angry and ashamed.
I would add that Depp was never going to win the case in the Britain. The publisher of that British newspaper Rupert Murdoch owns a large percentage of Disney and knows exactly what went on in Australia in 2015 on the Pirates 5 set. He has long employed the worst of the worst paparazzi and gutter journalists. One of journalists went to jail because in order to get a story he hacked the phone of a little girl who had been murdered and the police thinking the hacking activity was the little girl were sent on a wild goose chase. Murdoch's editorial team at The Sun would have known what Depp was really like when he was coked out of his head. Amber Heard is caught in the cross fire. As she said in the Washington Post she terrified and getting constant death threats because she is trapped between powerful men and their institutions. If you have never read the article it is very good. One read of it and you'll know straight away from the language that she didn't write it but nevertheless it will tell you a lot about violence and power.
@@ek7390 she signed it saying she stood by it!
@@alicewistrand210 as I said it is a very good article and says a lot about what domestic violence looks like amongst the rich and powerful. I am not surprised she stood by it even if she personally did not write it.
@@ek7390 is that you Eve 🙄
Best video about this case so far.
Thank you so much!
I've been waiting for you to do this video, many thanks 😊
Also, let’s keep in mind that more than 4 employees saw Amber throw bottles and objects at Johnny so her throwing a bottle I no stretch. She takes everything she did and twists it around and magnifies it by 100. She always plays it off as she is the perfect wife and so loving and Depp is a drug fueled monster.
Exactly shes trying to win more in the court of public opinion. Most being being abused feel at fault for the abuse for YEARS even with the help of a therapist correcting that thought process. She sprinkles that in as to not make it obvious but far less than a genuine victim would be, she dramatized every single moment, is never at fault, adds things that have no importance to try and push her narrative, for victims there is no narrative and they remember the trauma vividly, that's what makes it trauma and it doesnt discriminate between how bad x event was. The other thing is for all of this abuse you doesnt detail ANY hospital visits which for victims is extremely scary as it might out the shit storm going on at home and escalate which terrifies those being abused.
His employees are likely to lie for the person who's paying their salary. Depp is a bottle thrower--he also threw one at Ellen Barkin when they were dating.
Story time with Amber Heard. She is quite unbelievable with her grande stories and lack of actual emotion. Her stories don’t line up and are unsupported thus far.
You should watch her deposition in 2016. Not only was she not crying, she was smirking, rolling her eyes, brushing off hitting Johnny like it was funny and that he was always dramatic when it happened.
I don’t understand how terrible of a actress she is
@@rathey7999 I saw it a whole back and she came across as a nasty individual
Because of her lawyer
I hope they’re able to play some of that deposition to the jury, they should be able to-I mean ambers team got to play that kitchen cabinets video of Johnny
I enjoy the comment section almost as much as I enjoy your videos Grande, thanks!
Totally agree with your theory. Items 6 and 7 are spot on in my opinion also.
Thanks for breaking this down 😀
When I first heard about Amber’s original claims I believed her because it was during the big MeToo movement and I thought I should believe the woman. I’ve always been a Johnny fan and had a preconceived opinion about what he was like and it was hard to let that positive opinion go. Then he went on the stand and I thought that’s the Johnny I think he is. She’s lying. Then I hear her on the stand and in the beginning I believed her and thought maybe he wasn’t the type of guy I thought he was. He was doing drugs, I’d read he was jealous, and I could see him being infatuated with the young, “beautiful creature”. But the more she started talking and her stories were different than Johnny’s in situations I got so conflicted and understood that one of them is seriously lying. Right now I’m at the point that she’s just making shit up! I no longer find her credible at all. I think that doctor became emotionally attached almost like a mother figure. I found her defending Amber a couple of times like I want to defend my own daughter. (My daughter is nothing like Amber but you know what I mean). I predict Johnny is gonna bring in lots of witnesses to rebut her claims. And, I have a theory that she made those claims in the very beginning to gain sympathy like some other women were getting at that time. She didn’t expect it to backfire on her because people loved Johnny so much. But then again I’m retired and have way too much time on my hands to watch every minute of the court and over analyze.
#MePoo
Exactly. The more Amber talked, the more unbelievable she became, and the more she made all of those fake crying noises with no tears, she pretty much sunk her own testimony.
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@Nancy Wilson If you are really interested in the facts go to Incredibly Average channel. He has been working on this for 3 years. He has the full accidental recording with the doctor, nurse, body guard and Amber looking for the tip of Johnny's finger. Lots of pictures. She still had her nightgown on. Did you know in 2020 it was ordered both parties sign a HIPAA release for this court case. Johnny did. Amber fought it, don't know if she did. Yes Johnny got a infection in his finger but surgery wasn't postponed due to his coke. Although allegedly Amber had been up for days on coke when it happened. There are pictures of the pristine Makers Mark bottle still containing alcohol with no lid on it.
@@barbedwire_lace2160 I heard of the full recording. Pretty f….ed up! Amber really deserves jail time. She isn’t a beautiful creature. She is an ugly monster!
She has no qualms manipulating a Judge and Jury. Does anyone seriously think she'd hesitate for a second to manipulate someone addicted to alcohol and drugs? I think she knowingly boxed him into a corner and made his life hell. Sick!
The only problem is that it is not illegal to make someone's life hell. Neither is it illegal to box someone emotionally into a corner. It's also not illegal to drive someone to insanity. But it is illegal to throw a bottle at the wall, because that is intimidation.
@@nielshoogev1 This is a civil case Sherlock, not a criminal one. You can go back to watching Perry Mason reruns now.
@@nielshoogev1 It's not illegal to throw a bottle at the wall in your own residence. The problem is that it is illegal to hit (not punch lol) someone and it's illegal to record someone without their knowledge or consent while in a private environment. It is also illegal to publicly publish lies about someone.
Giving a testimony IS about manipulating a judge and jury. You need to concentrate.
Dr Curry tested her and found her to be suffering from two personality personalities and how they were shown in this woman. What we hear and see with her testimony is exactly the signs of those personality disorders, she needs to be admitted to a mental institution before she does any more damage to another person, she is a ticking time bomb
You are amazing!!
Thank you for sharing your time ❤
Hi Dr. Todd. Big fan of what you do. You always manage to stay fair and grounded when others get swept away. I do want to let you know that one thing you said didn't resonate with me in terms of getting stuck in a love/hate cycle, and what that potentially means for the one feeling those emotional extremes with a romantic partner. In my case, I was caught in feeling love/hate and nothing in between for 10 years with a romantic partner. I do not have borderline personality and have never experienced this pattern with anyone else in my life. I've been since diagnosed with have chronic traumatic stress syndrome at that time. It made me feel erratic and unstable at times, behave in irrational and extreme ways at times (could have been seen as histrionic personality disorder by outsiders who only knew me at that time), I had severe mood swings, and I displayed many of the symptoms that are often mistaken for borderline. I never had these symptoms before or since. During those intense and unstable years, I was being psychologically controlled and living in fear every day with my partner and that is what caused these symptoms. I don't know if this is the case with AH, but if what she is saying is true, I could definitely see this causing symptoms that resemble borderline, but are chronic traumatic stress. Thank you, Dr. Todd! Stay unbiased please and don't be swayed by the masses. I know you always do a good job at this :)
If anyone believes Heard's performance, they need more help than Amber and Johnny combined
I'm still lost as to why Amber Heard would pose for a picture while on the stand in a court case about credibility. On the stand, she made eye contact with the photographer to her left, kept the tissue at her nose, paused, a camera flash appeared on her face, then continued talking. That's crazy.
It was a flash from the screen in front of her, theres a clip of both her and johnny at that moment and johnnys screen also flashes in front of him, it wasnt a photo being taken
It’s fake news. I’m teamjohnny but that was apparently just a flickering from the screen before her. Flash photography is not allowed in court because it’s distracting.
@@michellew6875 somebody took a picture it’s obvious
That case conceptualization sounds so spot on. Thanks for sharing your professional opinion.
Learned some new words from today's video, thank you, Dr. Grande!